Furry DMs are TERRIBLE
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- Опубликовано: 31 мар 2022
- FURRY DMs & MESSAGES ARE REALLY ANNOYING AND REALLY YIKES AND REALLY WEIRD!
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Not a weird message, but a string of the same questions over the span of like a month before I had to block.
Was a total rando who solely asked me about business and would follow up with kink questions.
Like the business talk to this rando was an icebreaker to achieve chemistry lol
hi :)
How About This Question?
Hi Are We Friends?
I Might Be Slightly Crazy Tho I'm Not Creepy Like That HAHA:D
A Saying I Always Say, (I Watch & Play! I See & Do! Making Friends Is Just What I Do!)
I'd Love To Teach You About The Responding If You Like?
Basically You Just Got To Be Yourself And Speak From The Heart~
If You Can Talk On Camera Then Your Already Better Then Most People:)
Some People Won't Even Talk To Other's Until They Talk To Them First HAHA:D
The weirdest message ive recieved is the death threatening smile ":)"
I was the one sending the weirdest messages as I was sending pics of my gameboy and sega mega drive pad pics to friends 24/7 oh but pong and tetris
My reason is that I'm autistic and was taught "Say hello and make small talk" and they said shit all else. So I'm just like "NEUROTYPICALS WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?"
Yep, as a fellow autist, I feel ya. I can communicate more comfortably through text than speech, but it always gets super awkward when it is just a one on one with me and literally anybody else. Like what is this unknowable magic, that people call small talk? I just know listening to others talk about their experiences and talking about my experiences myself. There is no small in that talk, so where does it fit in there?
Mood.
I would probably be doing the same if my anxiety told me to just not most of the time (can even see me randomly go silent in chat on this video, lol)
I feel like there's a time and a place for "hi, how's it going?" Like dating/hookup apps or different chats, but emails definitely not. In chats, you're opening up a dialog with another person to have a back and forth. While with emails it makes more sense to include the entirety of what you're trying to say in one message.
Hilariously, Ive been getting more cringey and aggressively flirtatious DMs from non-furries lately.
It especially makes me guffaw because my character is a mangey Skaven.
AYYYY!!! Fellow Warhammer fan!
@@PelinalDidNothingWrong Very limited knowledge on overall lore, but yes!
Skaven and Nurgle fan.
@@corpselight7989 I'm actually a Death Guard main on 40k Tabletop
"snaps neck"
hmm this views better
"rips head off"
now im sentient.. fock my bodys dead ughhh how do i fix this?... fock ima need a new host i just killed this one!!... aaand shit ima have to take a furry host since my population has the scientists and last remaining gaurds .... cant live without a host
I agree with Beta on this one, when someone just sends “:)” with nothing else, it’s kinda menacing. I just get a small pang of uneasiness, and I don’t really know what to say afterwards, so we just sort of sit there, on that one message for so long
Oh, hi Connor
@@Wither246 Hello Deer god Wither!
:)
The :) is the sort of “I am out side your house” sort of smile
I have definitely sent that to friends when I'm trying to be mysterious or coy, it's a thing
2:45 "OwO" is watered down, simple, overplayed, however ":)" is a powerful statement, so powerful in fact, some apps just autocorrect to a regular emoji
Definitely, the one word "hi" message is a great cause of social anxiety too. Then when it's followed by, " what are you up to? " I'm like, " Noneya business Stranger Danger"
honestly if i get a message with just “hi” it freaks me out. like, i don’t know if they’re gonna ask me for free art or say something creepy to me or what. i try to not respond but also curiosity gets to me. if i do respond, i usually don’t get anything positive out of the interaction.
I received a random message from a furry this one time, me being nice, went along with it. Well, apparently that was there's que to then stalk me. They then proceeded to call me by my first name, something which is not too easy to find considering I never use my first name online, or my name in general. They then ended up trying to follow my social medias which I didn't have linked anywhere, with different names, luckily, it didn't go further then that. Especially since I just ghosted them. I think they wanted to go out with me, but the furry discord server I was in said clearly I was 18+, And they were a minor
"is that bad or is that a kink?" - Beta 2022
That's the question of the year. 😂
Its a kink lol
"What kind of parents gave their kid an email and access to it?"
*Raises hand*
Well...when I was eleven!
Same, they only made me an email so I could play Farmville on Facebook. 😂
@@Eli_the_fiend They made me one for 2009 Xbox Live
I had one when I was 9!
When I was like 8 I got an email
Ppfff I didn't even have a phone untill I was 14, I made my own email on the family computer though, lied about my age just so I could play games and post art (that I traced cause I was like 8)
Here's another reason I've been thinking of: they might not even know themselves what the convo is about and are just trying to talk to you for the sake of it.
Like, imagine I wanted to talk to Beta. I've watched and enjoyed his content and I feel like I want to get to know him better one-on-one. And thus I go to message him. That's when I realize "wait, what am I gonna say?" I didn't plan what I was going to talk about or say, and certainly didn't want to spew random nonsense and hope for the best as that would lead to more questions (am I being too annoying? Does he know what I'm talking about? etc). For this reason, hi/hello messages, I feel, are very easy to fall back on when all else fails. I had no idea what to talk to Beta about and I just wanted to talk for the sake of it. So, just start with a "hi" and see where things go.
But say I did say something random. Let's just say I said "the core x boss theme from metroid fusion sounds really awkward to me". I have no idea if he knows what I'm talking about or if he agrees because I just randomly said it. Not only that, but I started the convo _first_ , meaning I had no other indications whether it was safe to say. I just said it, and hoped for the best.
I feel these are other reasons behind those messages. They didn't know what to say going in to the convo and didn't want to just say something that, as far as they know, only _they_ know about or felt. So, they just fell back on a simple, basic, and safe "hi" in hopes of getting the other person's attention and hopefully initiating a topic to talk about.
At work, via chat, we often start with just "Hi" in part because we're looking for any response and the shown status may be inaccurate. We expect "Hi" back as a response to show that you're there and the real issue can be brought up. I keep saying "If you have a question for me, just ask. Don't say "Hi" and wait, you or I may forget by the time that my attention becomes available.
I usually start conversations with "Hello." and wait for the other person to respond because don't know where to go from there and I'm hoping they can come up with something. Online there's just this awkward nothing and I just sit there thinking, "Oh no, they don't like me, oh f__k what do I do?" In person, at least, I can tell they don't care and there's a bit of releif. (Although, even getting to the "Hello." is so much harder). And if they do respond in person, it's right back to "Oh f__k, what should I say next?" and the conversation goes nowhere.
Another way of putting it, my conversations are kind of like in an RPG where the protagonist walks up to an NPC and starts a conversation, they say something and the protagonist has 2-3 response options, one of them being, "..." In this analogy, I'm the protagonist but I can't see the other two response options, only leaving "..." so that's what I choose and the conversation ends there, and I'm alone again.
Honestly, anyone online who does the "hi how are you?" right off the bat without you even knowing them I immediately just assume its some 12yo kid on the internet who's bored with zero social skills or, giving the benefit of the doubt here - polite entries to get a conversation started. Like you said, there's literally nothing to work with regarding the context they've given you. I don't intend for this to sound harsh but people really need to break out of their shell and get a little creative with introducing themselves or at least have a plan after reaching out to someone so the convo doesn't flat-line. Personally, I like people who show genuine, relatable interest and aren't simply using you as a means to acquire instant gratification. I know this might sound business-y but ask yourself first, what am I bringing to the table when reaching out to this person? Would this person be on the same page as me in terms of interests, humor, story-telling etc? I think there's a time and place for certain things and the "hi how are you?" quips are more appropriate in an already established friendship/circle.
Okay, so what do you do if you just suck at social interactions, including pre-established friend groups and are a boring person, who's reaching out to people so they can break me out of my shell and help me build a semblance of a personality?
@@Blu_Moon_VA from my experience, it seems if they are already conversing, you just need to jump in on the same topic with your pov on it, but when starting a conversation most people seem to start with a question, and the more specific the better, for example, "how are you" is too open and asks too much, but "have you heard of *insert new thing*? I think it's cool but I wanted to know you opinion" is much more approachable
(This is coming from someone who has lots of anxiety around starting conversation and initiation interaction btw, i lost contact with many friends cause of it honestly)
As much as I would like to have a mostly odd, hopefully interesting, conversation with you composed of many questions I have. The law I did not write states “Nobody on RUclips, twitch, or on any other platform is obligated to respond to anyone else for any reason” getting a ResponsE is a luxury not a necessity or entitlement. There are a multitude of vary valid decent reasons someone wasn’t able to get back to said comment. As a reminder that still needs to be said…Twitch Streamers, RUclips Creators, Tik Tok Creators, are Human Beings, not robots with infinite time to respond to anyone who asks. I’ve lost count how many times I wasn’t responded to, it’s actually, truthfully OkaY to say the least, and understate it.
As someone who has horrid social anxiety I actually do agree. Sometimes I send messages like that myself. But im also self conscious then feel like a weirdo sending those kinda messages honestly. Hard to not do with social anxiety often though. Why im not "in" the fandom haha. Im also similar in I just suck at replying myself due to it even if the convo started well enough. My social energy drains quick and drop off the planet for a month. Sometimes a year(s) with some chats lol. Then suddenly remember it waaaaay later then try to re connect but its already ruined lol. But do agree from the other side cause im a realist haha.
I think it depends. I respond to a lot of hi/hello messages because I moderate and don't want to just ghost members of the server if they need help with something. And if they aren't apart of the server I moderate, I don't really mind just saying hi back, and if they ask how I'm doing I just typically say fine, and context on what I'm doing. Convos typically end there. So like, it didn't take up any of my time but also let them know I'm not avoiding them.
Oh also, typically :) is used in passive aggressive manners so that's a pretty reasonable assumption now. Though it's a lot of the times used after a passive aggressive statement which helps that..
If I am trying to get someone that doesnt know me to have a conversation with me, I would NEVER just message "Hi". I always make sure I have substance to my message, because I know that the person(if they read it) would be trying to get a gauge of me as a person and what I am trying to achieve with the message. If I come across as too weird, too strong or cross an invisible boundary of some sort the person will not reply. I try to keep my statements "professional" but genuine because (again) this person doesn't know me.
I feel that people will DM people with the message of "Hi" or "How are you" because they believe that the person will already not reply, and the simple message of "Hi" is to test whether the person will even interact with the sender.
I use :) a lot to kind of show some menacing energy when talking to my friends, but they never see it as menacing because I'm 5'6'' :(
I just behave in a generally unapproachable manner, and then people never say hi, in that way the conundrum resolves itself.
My opener is usually something to either do with their pfp, or that they mention on their profile. That said, I won't even get to the "opener" stage until I interact with them in public channels on a discord server or in a game or something. Lol
I usually like to talk about their profile picture because a lot of furries like to talk about their fursonas especially if they are artists.
Thanks beta, as someone who has struggles talking to new people, I now have one more thing I know not to do when talking to new people.
Start with things they can actually feasibly respond too.
Great, now the hard part.
Actually finding something to talk to people about hahaha.
Games, animals, people, tv, movies, animation, art (I would just avoid politics, religion, or and world issues unless you really know someone, as many people take that stuff too much to heart with strangers and new people)
I'm going to just assume you already got an answer from your chat, but I'll post my reason anyway. I think the "hi, hello, how are you?" messages are intended for you to respond back "with hi, hello, I'm doing well, how are you?" and to get the conversation started. My interpretation (at least, the reason I always do it regardless of if people hate it or not) is that it's out of politeness, because they want to hear from you before they just hurl the topic of what they really want to talk about at you. To me, jumping right into the meat and potatoes of a conversation seems cold and business-like. It feels like you're just trying to get the conversation over with as quickly as possible, rather than taking the time to get to know the person you're conversing with.
Granted, I can understand that if you're interacting with hundreds of people all the time, just getting a "hi, how are you" all the time can get annoying. Plus, maybe you're some popular furry and you don't have time to get to know every single pleb that messages you because you're doing art or something. But even with the people I know very well, I still go through small talk with them, because maybe their day was awful or their day was terrific and they really want to tell me about it before we both get sidetracked with what I was intending on talking about with them. That's even if I had a topic to begin with lol.
This man is spitting nothing but facts. This also exists on the role play side of things. When you start a conversation normally or like this, then start going into RP, I will just stop responding.
Grindr and AdultFriendFInder are pretty much falling into your line of dog pits as well.
If they send :) you gotta respond with >:) and see where it goes from there
I think giving a youngster an e-mail is better than having them on a phone all the time. It's stranger to give a child their own cell phone with their own phone number.
Imo a phone is somewhat more normal, even if I had an email before I had a phone, I made my own email and lied about my age with it, then the phone was only so my mom could contact me while I'm at after school stuff like marching band, which made sense.
I guess it would be better if it was an email owned and created by the parent so the kid can play games and such. Idk imo I just feel neither should be something given to a child under 14 at least not without being explained the dangers on being a minor online and how to stay safe/what to watch out for.
I got an ad for a furry dating site before this video
I'm in real deep now aren't I
I always start with hi because I don't know where to start with. Unless I just DM them
Does that Lifeguard poster have a censor made of stickers? :0
When will the next complimenting your Fursonas come back? I wish for you to see mine. Keep up the great work as always Beta.
I once messaged Beta on Twitter for help in getting a puppy doggo who was set to be put down at a certain date in being adopted, but I think it was probably not a great choice for Twitter as I had no idea whether he looked at Twitter dms much or at all, so I knew it wasn't him not wanting to help or anything like that, I'm just sure he honestly just didn't see it and if he did it was probably after she did end up getting adopted the day before her death date. I mostly just wanted help since I was a smaller creator and harder to notice when I don't have a larger audience or influence. I am just glad the puppy was adopted, and I won't ever hold him who didn't know me accountable if she had ended up being put down. I probably should have been better emailing him instead lol. But it ended in a good way so it honestly wouldn't have mattered if I had messaged him in the first place. I will keep on watching betas vids, and I'm waiting to see if he ever did see it as I would think it would be funny as it was just me saying what the issue was and why I wanted help and then suddenly I was like, oh nvm it's okay now lmao.
I remember I messaged you on Twitter awhile back and never got a response but didn't hold it against you. I remember I had asked what were the pros and cons of being a furry RUclipsr, what is the type of computer editing software I need to edit videos, and what type of camera and mic should I get? The message was sent back in 2021 on Twitter. No worries I know real life can be busy.
Usually I try to make a full sentence when I send a greetings. :)
I really don't know how to talk to people ;-;. Like I'm the person that will message with "Heyaaaa ^~^. How're you doing today? ^w^" or "Hewwo" etc. Unless I know something about the person like, the person likes video games. Then I can ask, something like "Heya ^^. What games do you play and what're your favorites?" Idk I'm terrible I think
they are sometimes because people just hate us. [ i just give them a mean look usually makes people scared of me]. but im nice to nice people and never try to be mean. this is for the punch line btw. I'm socially awkward so sorry if it sounds weird.
you don't usually get small talk conversation from higher level thinking people... or... beings.
but... some people, or beings, don't know what to say, so they just say "hi"... and expect to get information back... 😆 and then if you don't reply it's usually something like that stalker bi* that didn't get the memo in life; reason predominates chaos. which is why chaos can only bring more order.🤯
Is it strange that OwO is translated as Money ?
actually I think the most passive aggressive emoji you can send is as follows
:^)
Wow you literally taught me how to communicate properly now
Same day, I see this vid upload and pass a tweet pleading to not be sent fetish dm's.about the artists characters.
I saw the title and thought you ment Dungen Masters.
I mean you aren't wrong it's difficult to keep up with everyone, have the time to do it, and to actually get just like "hi" then *wave hand emoji* it's just eah.. it has started with me on TikTok and 19K is not many people to have on a platform, but at the same time it sort of is. So I understand how it is.
I'm kind of wondwhat Levi would look like as a fursuit
I dont have a Problem with "how are you" questions, I in general think there neat and I do them myself sometimes.
But yet im not a known JT'ber/Streamer so I dont have that kind of problem with people I dont know, but it doesnt matter
if your close friends to someone or just a friend if your just sending (Primarly on telegramm i encountered it with more than
one person) one sticker.
like a sticker with a "questioning" emoji, or a sticker with a "shocked" emoji, were I dont know how to respond.
Its ok if you do that sometimes but if I have to get the Information out of you like interigation all the time im not only loosing
interest in answering im also getting annoyed.
And if you dont answer after the 2. or 3. time they do that they finally ask me what is wrong and why im not Answering.
and after I asked them what there wanted to hear and that I only can answer what i can understand. And then there think it
is my problem for not understanding and just do that again and again.
And please dont misunderstand a lot of the people that i know who does that are nice people but damn i cant stand that. xD
If someone searches for a conversation that person has to start that conversation and not active trying to let the other talk
to them, eventho like I said It caan be ok sometimes even kinda cute sometimes but if that is your main way to start a
converstion that is not my problem.
I personly think it is as easy as saying hello you can atleast answer with an hello back in worst case, but I mean that is for people
you allready know Of course you cant compare that with someone who gets a ton of massages of people that he dont even knows
because if you dont know a person you CANT expect a massage back, a person has only so much time, give him a break. xD
smile could also be a person way of doing a flirty introduction.
Yeah. When no one responds back for over 7 months. I leave the conversation. Cause I'm not gonna waste my time.
i see myself in this video.
Hey maverick
Vrchat has these new avatars called kobodal , i think a maverick commission of one would be cute
hi how are you"
me : neutraly on the edge of depression... you didnt get it did you? ...
I usually just say sup or sup people for plural
Man, and I thought you meant Dungeon Masters
Yeeee a new video my recommended is filled with ur videos that i have watched
It's annoying I but I get people sometimes don't know how to strike up a conversation with people. but at least give context on why your messaging them and so on
Hi, how are ya?
4:11 foreshadowing to when someone wished death upon beta
There is a problem with comon sence and socializeing all ways these days🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
:)
Yes, I'm playing off what Beta said in the video
I thought this was about D&D.🤣
Pro tip, just dont talk to people you deem popular, or look up to :]
-yes ofc this is satire, you can talk to people but dont just annoy someone-
Hi Beta. You're my friend now. :)
Hey Beta how are you?
I’ve never hade a weird message sent to me but I send a lot of weird ones ps love your vids
:)
Do you play fortnight? I’ve been looking for friends on there
Eh, so you hate small talk. I think most people do. It's kind of an evil device created by neurotypicals to make it appear as if you don't want something from someone. all a "hi, how are you?" in DMs really requires of you is the same in return followed by "what's up?". It just puts the ball back in their court to either get to the point or become interesting really fast. It doesn't make sense to use it outside of maybe a chat room, a DM, or face to face. Email or Phone? No, tell me what you want!! On the other hand most people don't really call/email me unless someone's dying or about to be. Honestly email itself is effectively a dead medium these days. I don't think I know anyone that checks theirs with any regularity. 🤷 It's kind of funny though considering it's almost the sole means of communication most businesses use today.
also :)
Sorry, couldn't resist.🤣
you didnt say hi back : )
Wondering
Hi, how are you?
Hi how are you? (:
OMG BETAETADELOTA I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS
Hey does anyone want to talk? I will say hi back
hi how are you messages are genuinely the worst, i dont even respond to them anymore
Hello :3
I agree with this take, also what a bootutiful face beta Lol
:)
Pinto beans..
When ur early 😏
bread
There not bad…
Again, Beta going on about people being idiots and making statements that I completely agree with.
happy april fool's
👍👍
Hi
Yeh no shit lol
Not having enough nintendo gameboy games is terrible and I'm only 15
me when the :)
The intro got me like 😍
😀
SAD APRIL FOUL DAY 🤮
LOL
UwU
:)
You arent a true beta fan unless you remember what the original thumbnail is
Imagine gatekeeping. Cringe
@@ZeroWildFyre tfs gate keeping
:) LOL
Beta, I've never said hi to you, how come you've never said hi to me? ;-;
;)
Ah yes furry duel monsters are terrible beaver warrior is bullshit
People just need to accept not everyone haves time to react to everyone especially the famous ones like you or fluke me i sended you a msg a quostion about the discord link what's open on RUclips what doesn't im not going to tell how long it past its just people cant be everywhere always and its rude to always spam msg you to have a reaction just need to use your business email as a business email not as contact just for everyone its ok if someone doesn't react they are busy or dont have time it's not that they're awfull they cant do smth about it there lots of people out there to be friends whit ^w^
:)
:) be. Afraid.
:)