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8 Signs You May Be Codependent
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Thank You, that was very helpful. Appreciate your honesty. When you brought up boundaries I was like...yeah that's me.
Wow. Out of all the readers, videos, sites... The uncanny timing... I cant say im surprised but im thoroughly resonating and impressed and thankful for the answer to my... Okay. Deep breath. Im a Cancer July 17. I'm older by 15 years and am so happy to have crossed paths in this non linear moment in our lives. My peaks in this life were here and there but i had an intellectual curiosity that bandaged temporary relief for awhile.
Im not going to blame or give any other person or event or group of people or frame of time the credit for my falls and or flaws. What i am going to express is that I have heard and understood so many interpretations and or misunderstandings of what others thought was off, wrong, or not right about the cyclic happenings or results or lack of with different scenes by those seeing... "Me" I have to admit as much as I tried to be perfect for the one, or tough and resilient for others, a yes person who could pull the impossible at the work place, the guy everyone confided in that they didnt have to lie to or wear masks with. Who came with a huge heart for those who were less fortunate or not blessed with the chameleon tactics that I used to protect my delicate and caring but yet scared and confused inner self / very skewed view of self... You read me better than anyone else has without using the any stigmatized DSM V diction... You didnt even give any bullshit enabling descriptions... I admire you and your understanding of the topic and life experience. I studied and enjoyed learning Psychology, sociology, anthropology, eschatology, and have some great experience as a case mgr / Mr Fix it just heard a dub edm track titled that last night so again... Wow... You have many gifts. My father is alot of titles but he wanted me to be a pastor I catered to his plead and wish. Went to a private Christian University... But chose to deviate and turn left even though I was taught the right... (Im grinning with my shit eating cover up grin) but my dad and his dad and his dad were all full gospel pastors... Why would i be seeking here
... ? At this point in my life pun intended... Not many opinions matter but yours wasnt an opinion... Its fact and truth and personal and it hit very well and it was necessary... Im just thankful... I know none of this was or is easy so as I send all the very real love and prosperity vibes in gratitude for the existence of such a Beautiful Spirit and Soul.
Thank you 😊 I recognized myself right away!!! I love your channel!! Thanks so much!!
So cool girl. Pls do another Scorpio video. Love your hair right now. So cute
i really liked your video i agree with you it's life long daily struggle. so keep up your video's also i think you have a beautiful spirit and soul as well your beautiful yourself.
Transparent of you. It's a huge issue in many people's lives. Have you seen Marshall Burtcher 's channel on codependency? They are packed with eyeopening truths.
The good news is I stopped the relation cycles 10 years ago. Been single for the reflective fact that i was no longer in a position to say i knew what i needed or wanted with my 20s revolving around three very different but the same result long term (in my mind) and extremely consequential relationships that lead to the 10 years of aimless wandering, working... Endless giving to familiar and non familiar faces... The last year has been mind altering for the better ... Can stand up for my self... Im empathetic to a very lucky few now... So many swings and misses with my choices to ignore red flags and ignoring my intuition and equally favoring the huge number of people with forgiveness who consistently showed horrible traits and even worse character to get the opportunities to do it again... I finally learned that im not jesus and don't have to be tortured psychologically financially or spiritually to be acknowledged or approved or rewarded as a good human
I did finally reach a point of realization with realistic goals but as im sure you know there are times of excellent feels from modified behaviors and times were maladaptive actions or non Action took over when a toxic energy snuck in
This helped a lot. I didn’t know that these issues I had were because of codependency.
Great video. Rediscovered how much I love you and your channel due to quarantine. I had a video suggestion, it’s unrelated, but I love watching these “trying on everything in my closet”. I know it’s a ton of work, but even just a “my favorite clothing items”. Like just some of your favorites from different categories, I love your style!
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Zoink codependence reference?
Thank you for this!! I was really hesitant to watch it because I didn't want to think I was even though deep down I felt I was. I'm 34 and recently single and have had every type of relationship you could think of. I really thought I was done dating with this past one. Now I'm trying to learn why my relationships keep failing and that I need to work on myself. I'm very independent and I'm a Nurse and everything I have I've worked so hard for so you don't think you're codependent. After you explained it it makes so much sense. I've always been the fixer or the mom of the group. I really need to get that book!
Thank you for making this video. In my mid-50's I'm just stating this journey. I actually had a therapist recommend the book "Codependent No More" to me in my mid-20's when I was in a crazy relationship. Ironically, I recently donated the book. Ordered this workbook that you recommended here. Looking forward to the healing. Never too late.
This video is a great test for everyone to check whether he or she is codependent or not.
Realised my points signaling codependency.
These all points you addressed damage the person himself mentally at the end without a doubt.
But I think true love is codependency to some extent at minimum, every person has some sort of issues which he don't want to disclose due to the fear of being judged.
But if two persons love each other truly, they'd understand each other and will try to pull each other out of issues they are afraid to even discuss.
That's just my opinion
This video is very thought provoking. Thank you for such a deep discussion.
Thank you Gabriela ❤ you are an amazing human being. Lots of love from Paris, France.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I so badly needed this.
Oh wow. Thank you. I didn't know that these things could mean you are codependent.
Great video 💘👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾✌🏽 for me personally people take my kindness as a weakness🤷🏽♀️👀 boundaries are very much needed!!
Yikes - fate literally smacked me in the face with this video🤭😳 Thank you very much for this video. I’m still stupidly happy and not numb because I am genuinely happiest when helping everyone (Enneagram Level 2) but this definitely sheds light on changes on my part that need to be made. As you have said, the change starts with me! Have an awesome day or evening to you and to everyone🌞
Me being a Leo-Virgo cusper, I struggled with weak boundaries, but now, I've been learning to create very tight boundaries. And they are helping me greatly. Thanks a lot for this video, Gabriela!
P.S. - I used to be all the 8 signs, but I'm happy that its 1/8 now. Yaayy me!
I'm hoping for the day that the "not sponsored of course", becomes "so this video is sponsored" because you always have great and different content, if something was sponsored I know you'd give your true and honest opinion and you also deserve the sponsorships etc because of all that!
This sounds so much like a South Node in Pisces!!
Wow, this video really shook me up. It's the best description of Codependency I've heard. I was on both ends of it, the fixer and relying on others. It really does make life difficult. Especially the boundaries. I've always been worried about setting them and speaking my truth. Definitely comes from my upbringing. Thank you for making this video.
I’ve found myself upset and angry when a friend didn’t take my advice for their situation, but I have to realize the fact that I felt that I knew better for their situation than them, says a lot about me.
So crazy that the day after I ordered "Codependent No More" on amazon you posted this amazing video! I related to and connected with so many of the points you made and feel inspired to uncover my own codependent tendencies and behaviors. Always love your videos!
Great video, Gabriela! Thank you for sharing it with us! I wish you all the best!
Thanks for the book recommendations
You hair grew super fast
Gabriela, In all seriousness, I know astrology isn’t always related to mental health... But as a Libra rising, I resonate with this very strongly. I don’t know if being a libra has anything to do with it, but most, of not all of what you said are common traits of libra. People pleasing, knowing ourselves through relationships, having a hard time knowing who we are if we aren’t in relationships, having burry boundaries with people....😱No offense to libras because as I said, I’m a libra rising. Just interesting to think about. Thanks for sharing this information, it did indeed help!
Haha. I am Libra Sun and Libra Psyche and I am codependent. My father was a Libra but a cerebral narcissist and I married an Aquarian collapsed narcissist. So umm yeah. LOL!
This was so eye opener to me, thank you!
Well... i have subscribed for fragrance related video content...BUT, for me this is one of the most helpful (healing) videos i have seen so far. I wish you all the best and be sure that great things will come when your hands stop shaking. Be safe, stay dazzling.
This teard me up because I didn’t know I was codepent for years already :(
gabriela omgggg i needed this. Thank you
I’m currently in the process of realizing my problem with codependency... it’s a struggle to release old/negative habits. I’m extremely independent BUT I’ve been in a relationship for just about my entire life... I’d love to go back to that warmth but I REALIZE that I need some time to break this negative habit.
I got this book because of your recommendation so thank you!
I realize i was codependent with my boyfriend, i used to depend on him with everything and i made him my only happiness. I was only happy talking and around him. Which isn’t healthy cause i put so much on my boyfriend and always try to make him “perfect” when he’s fine the way he is. Took a toll on our relationship but I’m learning and were so much better now. He’s a Aries and I’m a Virgo so i was a nagging a lot lol
I’m in the same boat, been trying to find more ways to stop relying on their words actions to affect how i feel to an extent. it helps a lot that he wants me to be more independent in myself as well
I love this thank you ❤️
Wow...thank you for this...
Thank you for this...this is me In every way..
Thank You! 😍🙌🏼❤️
I definitely feel you on not feeling like people would like who you really are and needing validation 😩
Watched this video thinking it'll show me that some one I know is codependent.. turn out it's me. Thank you for this, came at the right time!
Wowww
Girl, i am codependent!!😞😞 i suffered at the hand of people close to me
Being attracted to "damaged" and "scarred" people. Emotional maturity and depth is not the same as toxic, manipulative and abusive behaviour. Not wanting to make your own choices and giving control (subconciously or not) to the other person, because you are scared to make a mistake or to accept the consequences.
Oh my god, its soo my ex!
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Omg I’m ALL of them Im Leo w gemini moon
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