Yeah it definitely looks like this is just the way her and her hubby is for sure I don't think she doing it for the views I really don't She just a shity mom
She’s totally rage baiting!! She works at a hospital and she’s acting like she has no clue about how to go about making appointments, how to even get to the hospital, how to go around the hospital and also trying to find a hospital that is by her??!! Just go to the hospital where you work dummy! She knows that’s making people mad because she is a nurse and works at a full on hospital and should have no dumb excuses on how to take care of her 3rd child!!
I’ve mentioned this in other videos but she had money to dye highlight her hair but not $35 for a jacket for a child in freezing cold weather. I have a child and I would rather starve, walk bare foot, ride the bus or walk, let my roots grow in… before i take away a basic necessity from my child that I chose to have. She’s sick, whether or for clout or not, just having the thought is sickening.
It was heartbreaking basically seeing him begging for the blanket and she's like "you can't have it because it's cold". Lady. What. She really resents that child and is definately not someone who should've had kids. The fact she thinks this is "realistic" means probably everyone on her irl social bubble is probably some level of toxic and it's easy to believe because her willingness to defend her husband's financial abuse as a joke just shows that nothing about her community or sense of realistic normality is healthy. Its kinda sad seeing her spend more then 35 on a sandwich while not really feeding or clothing her son adequately. Idk if a deer is a good return on $2000 of hunting equipment but I do think that because he's mainly off camera it sort of dulls people's appreciation of what level of trash he is. Both of them are totally failing as parents and shouldn't be allowed to procreate. Like she comes across as so angry and resentful and the "positive" bits very much given "toxic positivity" because there's nothing ok about her situation or either of their behaviour. I feel like she'd be very bitter at being called angry because it's "unladylike" but the level of denial you have to have about the state of your life to donate tithes while your child is irregularly eating random scraps and freezing in the winter.
This girl is a damn Llar. Even if she didn’t hv insurance if she goes to the hospital they HV TO SEE HER . There are signs that say WE HV TO TREAT YOU WITHOUT INSURANCE BECAUSE ITS AGAINST THE LAW. I def believe she has some MENTAL ISSUES AND MORE THAN LIKELY HER PARENTS ARE NOT AROUND TO GUIDE HER. I cldnt imagine them knowing this fk shyt and not saying anything to make sure she is taking better care of those babies . They hv money. They own a REALTY COMPANY!! She also seems to be giving vibes that he is abusing her too. Notice every food video she is sharing with him and he takes her food and not gv any to the little boy. There is more going on. Working in Law Enforcement for many yrs I see all of the RED FLAGS.
@@DanielkaElliottsomeone seriously emotionally scared them as kids or something because some parents are just selfish and borderline sadistic with their children. Her parents were probably the same way and bullies, same with her husband
Because it brings her money, that's what it all boils down to. Money comes before all else including the well being of her own children. She is selfish and always has to make a point that everything is too expensive when it comes to her babies but she can afford to constantly eat out. People this disgustingly selfish should not be having kids
@@ava.and.jasper literally what i said! How much time did she spend setting up the camera and how many reshoots to get a 2 second clip of removing something from a shelf and acting tired? THAT'S why none of the nurses lifted a finger. She also never mentions if she's an LPN doing CNA shifts, she's still getting paid the LPN rate while making tiktoks.
She strikes me as someone who became a nurse and a mom not because she wanted to be a caregiver but because she wanted the title/status. The month she posted their tithing they made almost $6k for the month. She rounded up and gave her church $600 even. They're doing fine, the $35 coat and the diapers not getting changed are not a matter of funds. I live on far less in a warmer state and my kids have new winter coats each year. I changed their diapers as needed. Those are NEEDS, you do what you gotta do and PROVIDE.
We dont by new coats every year and my kids wear hand me downs from their older siblings, but if my kids don't fit the coats or they aren't in great shape anymore that's when we buy them a new coat. I couldn't imagine not making sure they have what they need.
On full display, unfiltered. Truly wild times. And these people have always existed, but you got people starting their own controversies and rumors now for clout.
Imagine people doing this with another crime instead of child abuse lol. “Your honour stay out of my business it’s not your car so why do you care if I drive drunk?”
I hope that boy and baby is taken away because when he is being in videos it's just for clout and publicity and she clearly has no love for the children. I feel so sorry for this kid even tho he isn't beaten like I was as a kid I still know how rough it must be to want to have love from a mother whose either too busy or not interested.
I thought the same when I saw the thing of the winter coat, I had my dog a custom made one and this woman can't buy one at Walmart, and our winters are not as cold as yours
Period I would go without anything I had to to make sure my dog is taken care of, because I love him with my heart and soul and by choosing him I chose to be fully responsible for his wellbeing and I'll be damned if I don't do it right. Which means always trying my hardest to do right by him, so putting him first is easy. I don't want kids, I can't imagine what kind of mom I would be, but I know for sure I would be nothing like Hannah. She is horrid. And her husband is equally as horrid.
When I was pregnant with my second son, I felt so confident that he was okay and healthy, especially since they would tell me he was growing big and had a very good strong heart. My 34 week appointment, I was late and had to reschedule. I thought “Oh he’s been good and why would I need to go if he’s been nothing but ok?” So instead of rescheduling for the next day i said i’d just go the next week (my clinic was an hour away and the appt i missed was a Thursday, so id have to wait till Tuesday). 2 days later I noticed I hadn’t felt him kick ALL DAY. When i brought this up to my husband and family, it was midnight, they all said to wait till the next day and i was probably being dramatic. I did not sleep, I only cried and cried begging him to move so i’d feel stupid for worrying. In the morning my husband left to work, but within an hour I called him back to bring me to the hospital. I called my OB and he ALSO said the baby was just being lazy and that i was freaking myself out, but i could go to the nearest hospital if i was really that scared. My husband was upset he left work, because WHY would the baby not be ok? Well, worst day of my fucking life. The nurse did an ultrasound. She looked panicked got the doctor, the doctor did it again and her face told me. She couldn’t find a heartbeat. I cannot explain the pain that I felt in this moment. I was screaming like my leg was ripped off slowly. And one of the things swirling around my mind, aside fron the grief of my son, was that it was MY FAULT for missing the appointment. If i went, he would probably still be fine. I cannot imagine not going until 30 weeks, thank god her baby is fine. But I learned not going even one day makes a difference. I never missed an appointment for my 3rd son, after that I never trusted that he was ok fully in my belly, let alone trusted for 30 WEEKS.
I’ve never been pregnant, but I am livid for you that the men in your life made you feel ashamed for being concerned about the life you were carrying. I’m so sorry for your loss. The downplaying of a baby not moving is sick and insane. Why would you EVER take a chance on a baby’s development? The doctor downplaying it is horrifying.
"I can't manage my time... But let me set up a camera in the closet to film myself complaining about my job. While at my job I'm going to waste time filming, but omg it's so crazy busy I can't manage my time.... "
I just went back to school to advance my nursing to degree. There was a man in my class who made a stink about having to get vaccinated prior to clinicals. My instructor told him very sternly “if this is your belief system, I STRONGLY suggest you walk out NOW because you are in the wrong place”
I was listening while completing something else, and my ears def perked right up. Hell naw 🤣 this is why her name will never have an RN or RT behind it
I’ve been an rn for 15 years, the fact she doesn’t change her own babies diaper tells me how she treats her patients. Urine causes skin breakdown. I’d be so surprised is this babies never got diaper rash.
I'm an RN as well and I was thinking the same thing. Incontinence care 101 🙄 she would have no remorse leaving a patient wet when she does it to her babies.
I am also an RN and am horrified by this LPN's behavior. Just imagine how she treats her elderly, defenseless residents at the nursing homes she works at. Apparently, many people have made complaints to the Utah's BON due to all of this. I really hope they do something about her. I would never want anyone I know to be under her care. She is a despicable person.
Literally. Diapers are expensive, and Im poor. Thats why I keep bleach and cloth diapers on hand for when I cant afford disposable. After he pees, into the bleach bucket it goes until I have time to handwash and then properly clean /sanitise. Theres never an excuse
the way i was grinning, ear to ear, when the montage of parents and kiddos "flinch tests" turned into giggles and playing around together. you can easily read it on their faces; those kids either thought it was a game, or they (fondly) thought their parent was cringe. faith in humanity restored. that was so fricken adorable and sweet.
She really comes off as the kind of nurse that became a nurse for selfish reasons. I’m not picking up very empathetic or nurturing vibes from her at all. I know people like her in real life. Idk.. somethings off. Like she stopped maturing mentally at 16 or something
It’s so hard to explain it but yes I completely agree! Like they wanna be seen as saviors for being in nursing. My mom is like that, she’s the biggest narcissist and was horrible to me but she’s a CNA and always expects praise for it!
I'm a single mom w/ low income, you know what I did when my baby didn't have a coat? I wrapped them in a blanket, a robe, a towel, or even in MY OWN coat while I froze instead! The fact that she had her son SHIVERING in a cart and took the time to film it..... she obviously doesn't care about him, she didn't even try looking for alternatives or anything. She just went "nope, deal with it" 😤😤💔
As a single mom who is also low income…. Same. What the fuck is wrong with her? That’s her ONE job, to provide, love unconditionally, and care for her child.
i can’t count the number of times my mom gave me her own jacket when I was cold. even if i told her I was fine and for her to keep it, she would drape it over me and act like she wasn’t cold. i also have poor circulation so my hands would get numb and stiff super quickly, so she would rub them to get the blood flowing :’)
Nurse here! I would say I'm a Nurse in healthcare that doesn't believe in "healthcare" in the sense that I do believe it is corrupt. The amount people get charged for medications, exams, imaging etc... is crazy. Most insurances are practically a scam, a lot of Doctors don't listen to their patients, rules and regulations are not followed correctly... the whole situation is a mess. However I do believe in medications and the importance of vaccines so that part was a little out of touch on her end.
Her first responsibility is to her children. Nobody cares if SHE doesn't go to the doc when 31 weeks pregnant. Once a pregnancy is confirmed, it's time to act. Between two children, she giggled about her choice not to get developmental care for 61 weeks! Then she's like *teehee I know how to grow a baby* Yeah lady, and my dirt patch knows how to grow carrots, but that's neither here nor there!! She had so many choices, that baby in utero had none.
Lots of nurses feel like this. I know a local hospital that lost so much staff and nurses due to the CV-19 jab because it was experimental and they said no! It’s not the same as getting a flu vaccine every year 😅
her being lucky that her prenatal checkup was good and then going "so its a scam" is such a spit in the face moment for anyone who has had bad pregnancy experiences. i am talking to someone right now who had to deliver a wanted pregnancy at 30 weeks because the fetus never developed a brain. you *need* to know these things as early as possible so either it can be treated. not just for your baby, but for yourself - there are so many things to check to make sure that you dont die while carrying the pregnancy or giving birth.
She reminds me of those memes that say, “The absolute meanest/awful girl you knew in high school is now a nurse.” Like I’m convinced she was absolutely rotted in her younger days. And she’s in charge not only of small children, but someone’s loved ones care in the hospital. Smdh
@@anlslfyw7613 Oddly mine aren’t. My high school bullies are stuck in miserable marriages or are baby mommas living off child support. I was surprised cuz I thought some were headed to nursing for sure. Some of my college bullies def went the medicine route though. Vet and ER doc. The vet was so unhinged. It’s actually a blessing that she won’t be practicing on humans 😬.
That flinch was a sympathetic nervous system response. That child's body responded before his eyes and brain knew what was happening. That is horrifying to see.
I see this all the time. I have desperately wanted to be a mother since I was young. I’m 28, unmarried and childless. I worry it’s not going to happen for me sometimes. I’m surrounded by people who should not be parents as well. It makes me sick. I will never understand why people have kids they can’t take care of properly or don’t want.
@@anastasiasnow593This is not to defend them in any way, but so many people, especially women, are conditioned to believe parenting is easy, normal, and the next step in the life progression. Unfortunately, it is not and this leads to parental apathy and in turn, child neglect. Or people only like taking care of babies and forget about their children once they are somewhat potty trained, then they keep having babies to fill their personal need. It’s sad and it sucks that the children suffer at the end of the day
I whispered “damnit” when I forgot to get something at the store while in line and my 1 yr old starts saying “DAMNIT! DAMNIT!” and all of the adults turned their heads to hide their giggles. My first shameful mom moment 😂
I've always wondered why taboo words are so fun and easy for kids to start repeating, but simple ones like thank you, help, and please take so long to master. I remember having a kid in the car when some idiot on a crotch rocket was splitting lanes and I watched him almost get hit by a huge truck--- and I called him a stupid douchebag. And from the backseat, all innocent, I hear "What's a douchebag?" Perfectly clearly, from the child with a near constant stutter. No stutter at all over THAT one. 😅
@@thatvalensteingirlthat's actually because most curse words use easier to pronounce syllables that are some the first a child learns to say. It's why babies will say mama before dada or daddy as the m sound develops first. So if you're a dad wanting the first word to be a word meaning dad us papa as the p is easier to say than m
i kinda understand the hating Healthcare but working in Healthcare. Healthcare is a huge company circle that is just filled with venom and snakes. For half of my life, my mom had to fight for Healthcare because she made /one dollar per hour/. They revoked our Healthcare because "we don't fit the financial criteria" because my mom made 1 more dollar per hour than before. You can have a love for medicinal practices but not agree with the companies that take advantage of those resources ect.😊
Saying I can be a nurse and not believe in medicine is exactly why she’s like this. She basically said “I can be a parent without believing in parenting” 😂
Am i the only one thinking how on earth 17 diapers was left in the house, when she clearly said she doesnt change her kid for a pee! Those diaper have been around for more then 24h for sure
@mcrchickenluvr Good. Someone there will do the right thing, especially if the world is watching. Ruby Frankie went down and this woman isn't half as big as her.
Not defending her but medical practices in the west coast are known to take extra blood. When I lived on the west coast, I would get full panels and they would take 10+ vials. I got the SAME panels in the Midwest and they took 1 vial. My nurse looked at me like I was crazy when I told her they used to take 10+ Many medical practices sell your blood. 🤷🏻♀️
@ I’ve had four and the only time I had nine tubes taken from me was because I was also involved in a pregnancy study on environmental factors, and they took my usual blood work along with 4 tubes for the study. I am sure different people and different scenarios are different.
I am absolutely heartbroken by this. This kid is continuously upset , visibly about to cry.. to get FOOD. I know there’s a lot of other stuff. But this tiny child who is relying on his parents keep saying “he’s getting a piece of bread” then “that’ll be his meal” . It’s absolutely crushing and heartbreaking . I’m not even a parent. I have 6 younger siblings and I helped care for most of them (to school, drum practice, meals, diapers)… I cannot. This is. That was gruesome of these “parents “. I wouldn’t even eat in front of friends or strangers knowing they couldn’t eat or not offer them actual meals. I’m heartbroken.
It’s super upsetting. This is the exact same scenario as Ruby Franke… problematic posting, people catching on, CPS being called. But it wasn’t until things turned dire that her kids were save and she’s in jail.
29:07 THIS IS A LIE!!! You CANNOT just pick up shift while vacationing out of state. Even if she is with a temp nursing agency, those contracts are setup in advance. I really want to know how she can be licensed in Utah as a nurse but able to just pick up a random shift in Nevada. Between not changing her child's wet diaper and this statement, I am really questioning her certification status.
If she is licensed in both states this is possible. But ya, if she does not hold a license in Nevada, big no no. It depends on what her contract allows, but yes if permitted, she can accept a shift out of state. I assume she reviewed her contract beforehand, hopefully.
@@Chiidogg perhaps her company has contracts in Nevada also and they had people cal off and needed the help ... ? As a manager at Outback I have picked up shifts at other locations and for special catered events. This is the restaurant industry not nursing but maybe ... ?
There's apps like nursa and shift med. Yes it is possible. She's working in the nursing home. They fill spots all the time this way. I've done it for years
@@annabella2528 to practice nursing in a state, a nurse MUST hold a license in that state, it is law. When it comes to contracts, I’m not super knowledgeable, it is dependent on person to person/company to company. If her contract allows, she can practice in Nevada and only if she holds a Nevada license.
This is Ruby Franke level of abuse and if its not addressed will definitely escalate, they say when men abuse women, women abuse the children in turn. Or sometimes the parents are so toxic they hate but need each other but they hate the children with an even greater passion. This is so sick and disturbing on so many levels.
This this this!!! I’ve been saying the husband is abusive, too, she constantly points out that he controls all of their finances and whenever she eats it’s like she’s scarfing it down as if she isn’t getting enough. Defensive eating. It feels like she resents her children because she’s on such a tight leash herself, anything she is giving them is something she herself does not get. You can literally see the anger and resentment coming out of her when she has to take care of her own children.
Also, her not getting important healthcare while pregnant gives me the vibe that her husband didn’t think it was necessary to spend money on, gaslit her, and now she’s trying to defend it online saying she doesn’t believe in it
Diaper rash, urinary tract infection, yeast infections 🤦🏽♀️ YOU HAVE TO FREQUENTLY CHANGE YOUR BABIES DIAPERS and an untreated UTI can lead to SEPSIS!!!!!
There is a family vlog channel whose kid almost died from this exact thing... a UTI that went septic from not being taken care of. I think the mom's name is Karissa. All of her kids have names that start with the same letter and the dad used to play basketball with the Harlem Globetrotters. I can remember all that, but I can't remember the name of the channel lol
I used to have to wake my baby up just to change his diaper because he was sleeping 12 hours and would get a pretty severe diaper rash by the time he woke up. That happened twice before regularly waking him up once or twice through the night AND putting diaper rash cream as a preventative...
@@kaileeclevenger3981my baby is the same way, and she's extra sensitive too (she got my sensitive skin and I feel horrible). She gets changed pretty frequently and gets diaper cream often too. I'm overly worried about her getting a UTI or any other infection.
Urine is so acidic it’s almost worse to leave your baby in a 10lb pissy diaper than a diaper with a little poop! They all should be changed IMMEDIATELY. Within a timely manner. That’s not to say you should change your baby after the FIRST time they peed, with my girls I did because I was worried about all of that, but with my son I will let him use the diaper until it’s full more than one per and I change it! I’ve left ONE dirty diaper maybe two if I get up to change him in the middle of the night I’ll roll the old one up and forget to take it with me, but when I go in the morning to get him up I always clear it.
And the “playing” that she exemplified sounded a little suspicious too. Like, with the context of everything else going on with these people, I wouldnt be shocked if some of the “playing” was her downplaying abuse. If the “play” you’re doing gives your kid a flinch reaction, its time to give them a disney movie and a plate of chicken nuggets instead. Let em chill.
I solo parented from birth with no local support system at all. 17 diapers around the house is unacceptable. It is a sign that something is mentally wrong.
The video of the kid flinching: in the video, the kid was clearly upset and crying. When his dad came in like that and he covered his face, I think it’s because maybe he’s punished for crying or being upset. Maybe he’s smacking in the lips for screaming or crying or showing distress. He so clearly flinches and guarded his face. Hannah can say whatever she wants, but the proof is in the video. You cannot dispute that
I wouldn't be surprised. I watched an unrelated video and some one made a post that her husband hits their 20 month old with a belt when he cries at night. She sadly was annoyed with her kid for continuing to cry 'knowing' that he be hit. He's a baby! Another woman from the same video said her husband was 'lightly spanking' their 4 month old. There are many sick people out here who shouldn't have kids and have no issue resorting to violence towards literal babies who can't defend themselves
I don’t like parents who use intimidation as punishment on their children when they’re little. They are so much bigger and stronger and they know that and their body language around him scares me for him. They both seem so threatening and intimidating.
34:23 Why no one is mentionning the fact that she litteraly pulled the chair from underneath her kid so he would fall WHILE HE HAD A HUGE KNIFE IN HIS HANDS this deserves jail it could have been tragic
@@stoup7280 and she smiled!!! I rewatched her face and it is was obviously malicious. Did you notice how she didn't react when he fell? Her non-reaction makes me think it was intentional. Plus, if she had remorse for what she deemed an accident, why did she post the video? If I accidentally caused my dog to hurt herself, I'd be too ashamed to edit the video, add voice over, and post it for likes.
I was looking for someone to day something too. It ignited a rage in belly when I saw this. My son was like 3 and he'd fallen off a barstool (on accident not me pulling the thing from under him). When I tell you my heart dropped to my stomach I had to take a break.
34:23 Why no one is mentioning the fact that she literally pulled the chair from underneath her kid so he would fall WHILE HE HAD A HUGE KNIFE IN HIS HANDS this deserves jail it could have been tragic
No one mentions her slamming the newborn baby down on the couch on his back either... heck it seems people don't even realize he exists! People think she only has 1 kid and she definitely has 2! Breaks my heart for that baby. The way I've heard him SCREAM in the background of videos like he's being hurt or is scared or the look in his little innocent newborn eyes when she holds him... he just like dead stares n looks soooo sad... you know that 1000 yard stare people talk about?? It's like that... and she claims they've never had a diaper rash but the newborn definitely was in the HOSPITAL for a severe diaper rash recently and he's not even a month old! The 2yr old has had bladder infections! but yeah she's definitely abusing that newborn baby too, I believe his name is JAYDEN and like I said he's MAYBE a month old, 2 months TOPS... he deserves for us to advocate for him too, he can't even talk or nothing....😢 and she talks about how rarely she takes them to the pediatrician so, if he has any fractures or anything from being slammed around like a sack of potatos no one will ever know. 😔 I gotta stop, I'm making myself upset.
I had only seen two of the videos of them eating until now. The one where the dad flicks the kid away and the one in the car where they say that one bite of cinnamon roll will be his lunch is insane. Now that I’ve seen multiple videos of them just not wanting to feed him is insane. I have taken care of so many toddlers and they need to eat so much throughout the day to help them grow properly. They need regularly scheduled times of the day they eat meals and also have access to snacks throughout the day when they’re hungry. Kids are gonna want to eat your food, that’s how kids are. Just share your fries with the kid.
The fact that the child has to watch his parents eating all the time is crazy to me. I share more food with my dogs than either of these so called parents. It is heartbreaking.
As someone who didn't have insurance, due to the system I applied for wasn't active and was taking a long time. I was a single mom, pregnant with my second, and still couldn't get insurance. I didn't get checked till 27 weeks; I found out I was diabetic and had other issues with the baby. I went to appointments twice every week and ended up in the hospital for two for diabetic care(which is where the doctor pushed my insurance people to activate my insurance). I had a c-section a month ago, and my baby is happy and healthy. We both have insurance now. I understand that these systems are confusing and you are constantly being turned around so many times, but I can't imagine still trusting your body and not going to the doctor
If I was a mom and I was being compared to Ruby Frankie, I would be terrified not laughing. I feel like that shows who this 17 diapers mom truly is when she finds being compared to an abusive mother who was arrested funny.
37:56 i have to stop watching now. I'm sorry Busiswa but seeing the husband flick his child's hand away from eating a french fry has me LIVID!!! I want to scream and cry at this but will refrain so as to not scare my cat and dog. I wont even make my coffee in the morning until they have a HOT meal of fresh/cooked vegetables and meat. The last thing i do before bed is make sure they have a bedtime snack. It's not fair. The powers above decided I cannot have children but these a-holes can?? It's not right.
@@carlismycat yeah, but eating it in front of the kid is cruel. If you want to stuff your face with unhealthy foods, and your child shouldn't eat it, wait till its asleep. Or share. I always have an alternative ready if i don't want my child to eat something or too much of something.
@@carlismycatkids are curious obviously you have to be aware of what they grab but they see you eating and are curious as to what it tastes like! It wouldn’t hurt to let them try little bites!
Thank you so much for creating a FULL OVERVIEW of this. Cause I kept seeing comments about it, but I knew these short lil 10 minute videos were not really gon' give the tea.
As effed as all this is, it genuinely did my heart a lot of good to find the "flinch tests" parents were doing as a response. For the longest time, I thought that was natural. It's always bittersweet to mourn the childhood I didn't get, but it fills me with hope that my children will have a better childhood that I did.
Thank you for talking about this issue. I’ve not heard of this woman. I’ve lived in three states, but have spent a collective 30 years in Utah. And I’m heartbroken to say that this behavior is pervasive through out the culture of this state, especially within the Mormon community. I see this type of abuse, and neglect towards children on a weekly basis. Having children is not seen as a choice, but a duty. And then the children become a burden to young parents. Who then take it out on their children because they themselves haven’t healed from their own trauma, or learned skills on how to cope. Children are not seen as individuals to be protected, nurtured, and respected here. They are seen as property (as are the women) to be controlled . And so the cycles of abuse, low self worth, scarcity mentality, and neglect continue. I’m happy to see that James might have a different experience with intervention. But like I said, I see this at least weekly, and it breaks my heart every time. 😢
I live in Utah, currently 29wks pregnant, I am FREAKING OUT on how imma keep my baby warm once she comes because it's already freezing and only going to get worse. I could not imagine saying no to a $35 toddler jacket in this weather, especially when she claimed they made $5000 a week! At least give him a blanket or something till you can get to a thrift store or second hand shop like come on.
I could manage to get her kids 2 coats with the $1000 a week pay my partner makes. $5000 a week is wild and you don't get your kid anything?? This Hannah lady is ridiculous.
Not sharing food with your baby goes against all motherly instinct. This is different from hiding your ice cream or snacks. Not sharing food durring mealtime and sitting down to eat while your BABY has no food in front of them is just so mean.
Genuinely felt so gross just watching them ignore their son while they ate. I can’t even eat in front of my cats without allowing them a sniff (they don’t have an appetite for human food but love smelling it lol)
@@jwmtlmbI keep thinking along these lines because I don't have kids but boy do I have a dog that I treat like a child. The guilt I feel eating in front of him is so bad I put pieces of cheese or chicken or whatever on my plate to give him so he thinks he's trying a bite of what I have. I would spend $100 on a coat if he needed it and that was my only option. He goes to daycare on my long work days lol. The lengths I'm happy to go to for my dog are insane, yes. But dude her behavior is so insane in a really bad way and I can hardly bear it. Could never relate in any universe on any timeline ever.
36:37 "I was trying to be a nice mom" after getting my hair professionally done and refusing to buy my child a winter coat.... as an infertile woman that will never be able to have children, she fills me with INDIGNANT RAGE beyond bait!! Women like her treatjng their children this way makes me question the existence of god. Honestly. This goes beyond being unfair. Its not right!
@@toidIllorTAmI my amiable nature responds to the information at hand. I am more than capable of being nice in response to one comment and salty to the next. If that bothers you, maybe you could ask yourself the same question you asked someone in a different thread: can you leave now? 😂
I kinda hate her husband. The interactions between them like how they share food, how he flicks chips away from his child, how he blocks he acces to money she earns and spends his paycheck on hunting equipment and never helps with cooking or cleaning or childcare beyond "helping" by spanking his kid. Like it seems so callow and cruel to refuse to buy her clearly cold child a coat and postponing to find something cheaper second hand, because it is, but you do get the sense she' be a better happier parent apart from him with some sort of input from social service about what qualifies as "realistic" and what is actually called "abuse". She is very young too. I guess rhe thing that seems the most irreparably worrying to me is that she keeps saying "obviously i love my kid" when it isnt obvious necause she seems cold and angry and cruel and her little boy seems to be afraid of both his parents on some level (flinching) while obviously also being a little kid who wants attention and food and is attached to the only parents he knows.
The clip where they smacked James' hand away from the food is just cruel, and forcing him to watch them eat. The one clip of him at the end of the table the poor baby was literally crying and pulling on his own hair in the restaurant something that some kids do to self soothe from overwhelming emotions or distress. He also looks so cautious of any food they give him, in some clips James looks outright scared to take food from Hannah.
Are you trying to make excuses for this woman? They're both horrible parents but that in group bias you have. Western woman ladies and gentlemen. We know the real reason why you hate him.
Agreed! I wouldn't make it without said gov't programs. People trying&scamming the system by taking the funds away from people that actually need them fucking suck.
To be fair; health insurance is insanely expensive these days. Most middle class family’s are struggling to afford it as well. Unless it comes with your job, it’s REALLY hard to afford.
5:46 Something that infuriates me about the coat situation is the added fact that she is a tithe-paying Mormon in Utah. If she actually couldn't buy her kid a coat, there is a welfare system within the church for those in need. I can’t even count the number of times as a kid that I got a coat from the Mormon storehouse or a coupon to get a free coat from the DI (Deseret Industries, which is a thrift store chain owned by the church). This shows she absolutely CAN buy that kid a coat and she is being stingy & neglectful. It's entirely her choice not to get him coat, she wasn't forced into this position by poverty.
Someone in the community would be happy to buy a damn $35 coat for that little guy in a minute if truly needed. Especially the church she pays $600 per month to. She doesn’t care about the child’s safety and welfare. That’s as clear as not getting prenatal care! And she’s a nurse. What a time to be alive. Wow.
I need someone to feed and love on James. I love food I'm a big foodie but I would never prevent my kids from enjoying food. James doesn't deserve the treatment he's getting. Prayers for James I want his life to be better.🤞🏽 Reasons why people shouldn't put everything on the internet smh 🤦🏽♀️this situation is a hot mess.
Right? The boy doesnt need gourmet, but for christ sake, someone get that boy some dino nuggies, some ranch, and a good movie! It cannot be that hard to keep a kid fed and entertained 😢
That poor little boy, Every single time they eat in front of him, it broke my heart. He looks so sad and frustrated. It's terrible. And she called the baby " the little baby" repeatedly..I've never heard a mother call their child that.
As a single woman with no kids, this was hard to watch. I'm childfree because I know I wouldn't be able to provide for a child the way I would want to, the way I want provided for and, to see people have kids and treat them like this is crazy. 9 out of 10 times, the baby was watching them eat like wtf
If she forgets so much, she should create calendar reminders. I was OCD about doctors' visits when I was pregnant and with both my kids! She definitely loves the attention. Negative attention is attention. She is basically a grown child.
"I was OCD" is not a thing As someome with actual ocd i hate seeing people like you use it as an adjective You don't know how serious and hellish this mental disorder is
I did social work for over 15 years. Part of my work was teaching parenting classes. People NEVER ceased to amaze me with their idiocy. Being a parent is a PRIVILEGE not a right! IMO She shouldn’t be a nurse or a mother honestly. If you’re not prepared to spend money on necessities like diapers, prenatal vitamins or prenatal care, DON’T HAVE CHILDREN. I agree that kids don’t need name brand clothing or expensive things, but they absolutely need clean diapers, a clean home, healthcare and FOOD THEY WONT CHOKE ON! That part really got me. One of the first cases I was called to at the hospital was a 3 year old choking on a SLICE of cooked carrot! I watched in absolute horror with his Mom while they repeatedly worked on that tiny child to bring him back. And sadly he was not able to be saved. It was devastating! Children are resilient yet so very fragile and precious.
I’m an RN and I love and value lvn/lpn’s, techs, and all the other medical professionals. BUT an intelligent and self aware LPN who has only worked in nursing homes would know better than to pretend they’re knowledgeable about an entirely different area of medicine they’ve never been in. Her 9 months of schooling that mainly covers performing tasks and doesn’t dive deeper into the why’s and how’s of meds, conditions, bloodwork, etc., is why someone with her limited knowledge base and lack of understanding should be questioned. And there are LVN’s (I’m in Texas) who know way more than me and have been a nurse for 40 years, BUT they also don’t misinform people about things they don’t know.
And let me add that I’ve worked with a couple of nurses who act like she does where it seems like the “nurse aesthetic” and hero complex are the only reasons they became a nurse. And in reality, they’re rarely hero’s or save anybody because they’re SO not invested in the patients, their care, or their safety that they’re the ones you wouldn’t want caring for your family members.
i live with my nephew who is two. it's not easy. i have no maternal instinct, i don't like babies. he screams, he throws things, he has tantrums... he's a TODDLER. but even i, someone who is chronically uncomfortable with children, would NEVER fathom treating him poorly or getting angry at him for being a toddler.
taking care of my gpa for 5 years, BEFORE i had a child, taught me alot. he would squirm around for a good while after he peed in his adult diaper, before i CLEARLY learned that it was uncomfortable AF even thought it was just pee and IDC if it “wicks” away the moisture. do YOU wanna sit in your PISS?! that mom made me so mad. i get diapers are expensive but EW, how would she have taken care of my gpa while he was mostly non verbal?…she wouldnt have. he was in a facility for a while while he was was recovering from c-diff they didnt change his diaper and he had the most SEVERE diaper rash before i realized, i ended up being there morning to night to care for him, and alot of it was just so his ass and parts didnt burn. this all makes me sick, shame on all of the moms who dont change them when they pee. SMGDMFH
Yupppp and if she’s so concerned about cost then she should do cloth diapers. I’m considering doing them when I have kids. Or at least part time like at home use cloth and regular when we’re out.
@KassieR329 i wad going to bring up the cloth diapers did it with both of my children and it saved a ton of money. Is it work yes, but i personally think it was so worth it.
If she can't be bothered to put normal disposable nappies in the bin I doubt she'd be able to keep up with the cleaning and upkeep cloth diapers require. It's more work. It's doable. But she seems to be struggling to complete the bare minimum basics. And cost definitely isn't the limiting factor for them. Maybe it is in a way but only because of how their family operates in a toxic patriarchal way where the man gets everything and it trickles down to the wife and then the kids last. And she's apparently blissfully fine with the state of things so that's unlikely to change.
hell it's so easy to learn first hand how it feels...I'm someone with incontinence issues, especially at night. waking up is the worst feeling when I've wet. I keep towels by my bed so I can quickly dry off because it's such a bad feeling. I cannot imagine having to depend on someone else to take care of that for me.
Seeing that poor little boy just watch his parents eat in front of him made me want to cry. Growing up with food insecurity and in a dirt poor family, my mom ALWAYS made sure we had food, to the point where I didn't realize until I was an adult there are times that my mom went hungry. To BLATANTLY ignore your son while you're EATING? That breaks my fucking heart. Some people don't deserve to be the caregivers for children.
I shed some tears. Watching his father hold on to a piece of food he was trying to grab and then flicking his hands away... I could never. I've been in situations where I didn't have enough for me but I had plenty for my kids. They always eat before me. I don't understand how they could eat in front of him like that. And I can clearly see he was very hungry. They did too. They just didn't care. Those kids were born to the wrong family.
I shop at Walmart for my clothes and I did when the kids were young. Once they started junior high I started letting them buy more "fashionable" clothes. It sucks because I don't like paying 40 for pants and shirts but it makes them feel more confident so I look at it as an investment in them.
Being from Canada and actually LOVING my child, I have spent hundreds of dollars on winter gear for him at 2 years old, never did I think twice. Everytime we go out since it’s been cold I plan exactly what he’ll wear just to get in and out of the car so he’s warm and comfortable, I can’t imagine being like this
Right? My husband went out of country for work, and that place has colder winters so I made him a hat… and he’s a grown man! He didnt need that! Not giving your child proper clothes is cruel.
Right? My husband went out of country for work, and that place has colder winters so I made him a hat… and he’s a grown man! He didnt need that! Not giving your child proper clothes is cruel.
I have 6 kids my oldest 18 and youngest 2. We have diapers and wipes in EVERY room to change our stinker butt. As soon as she pees and or poops she lets you know and will make sure you change her. Potty training in progress but still Walmart is $30 for a large case of parent choice diapers like 100 or so diapers. This "nurse" is a disgrace to all of us in nursing.
My mom went into the healthcare field wanting to help people, but quickly realized that many practices focus on profit, so if a medication is more profitable than a cure, their focus will be giving out medications. So I understand her video saying she doesn’t quite agree with “the system” but I think she could of worded her perspective better, because I don’t think her view is the same that my mom ended up with. Wanting to help people, but business, poor medical education and big pharma getting in the way of doctors helping people.
This woman is antivax and against pasteurization she has nothing of worth to say about the health care system. Her nursing license should be terminated
But isn't medication the cure?! Your statement makes no sense. There is a huge issue with American healthcare but not taking care of your unborn baby cause you don't like the system is wrong & bizarre. Baby still needs care regardless your opinions.
fr I think it wouldve been one thing if she explained that she doesn't like the corporatization of modern day medicine and healthcare but the way she phrased it makes me think shes actually just one of those people who thinks sunscreen doesnt work and chemo is actually some government plan to kill people LMAO
@@GrapeCheez2 I may not of phrased it clearly, but yes some medication can solve the problem but others just masks it and hides the pain. I never said not caring for your baby is ok, just that I know of people who were disappointed when going into the medical field with the heart to help and assumed that everyone else felt the same. But in reality their is a large percentage of people in that line of work that do it solely for the pay and anything that gets them more money they will suggest. For example many hospitals in my area are becoming more business driven and stopped nearly all the charity work and medical donations after massive by outs. Or doctors prescribing medications for long periods of time when ailments can be cured by weight loss. Instead of years on medications. (Knowing that nearly no medication is without side effects)
I was a super young uneducated mom, 14 years ago. Out of all of my children they’ve never had a diaper rash unless they were on antibiotics. My last 2 have never had one diaper rash. My 2nd youngest was special needs, never walked, could only sit, and scootch a little. He spent half his life in the hospital with major problems. He took 8 meds 3xs a day, and NEVER had a diaper rash. We were POOR! But my kids all had sensitive skin and couldn’t just use any diapers. We made it work for them. We went without so our kids didn’t. At the beginning of this I was kind of on her side but damn she’s lost me a while back.
I get that diapers are expensive. But when it comes to your kids health, you need to suck it up. It isn’t just wild. It is a health issue. Sitting in your piss causes the breakdown of the skin and opens your body up to infections.
Right? As a nurse she should KNOW just how harmful this is. She clearly has never worked with children before having her own. Babies get rashes, UTIs, and even worse.
I was understanding of the 17 diapers.. until she said she doesn’t change simply peed in diapers. That means that’s 17 either poopy or completely full to the brim diapers. Disgusting.
31:08 I never flinched from a nonagressive movement before my abusive relationship, but I did afterwards and it took years for the involuntary reaction to stop. About a week after I got out, my friend was trying to show me something on her phone while we were walking and I flinched so hard I crouched down and touched the pavement. All I saw was a hand/arm coming at me from the corner of my eye and my body moved on instinct. My point is, it does not seem like a normal reaction from a baby when being shown something in my opinion.
Its so true. My father has parkisons, and inadverdently smacks into my sons face / body a lot because of the shakes. Nothing hard ever, just hand movement back and forth. He has never flinched from this, and never flinched from any other type of reaching / movement around him.
I’m 38, my mom was super abusive in multiple ways. One of them was beating up while we were asleep when she came home from work and something displeased her. I’ve been with my partner for 4 years, not only is he the one that pointed out that I twitch and flinch even in my sleep if he moves slightly, but he’s the reason I don’t anymore. 38 and it took all this time for thst to stop.
It's not rage bait. That's just who she is as a person, we can see especially in her demeanor whenever she comes to clarify what she says. She rolls her eyes subtly every few seconds and always has this "I literally have never done that!" attitude. It's the classic highschool mean girl to nurse pipeline attitude.
just clicked on your video randomly and subscribed right away!!! you are so confident and awesome with all of the points that you were making. I can’t wait to see what other insight you have on the craziness nowadays!!
They are super weird about food. Something is definitely UP with that. Her getting a sandwich she had to share with her husband and refused to share with her son while eating it in front of him! What the frack?
Nope they don't. Neither one of them seem like they actually like kids. They're just popping them out cuz I guess they feel like they have to for some odd reason.
When I worked as admin in healthcare we recruited nurses and we always had two types: 1) The one who would be doing it regardless of the "nurse" label. It's in their blood to be compassionate and they go above and beyond for their patients and any other people who they come across who may need help. You name it, they help it. It's not even their second nature, it's their primary nature. During COVID they worked 24/7 because it was the right thing to do. 2) The one who was very obviously only doing the job for the "nurse" label. They make a big deal about the fact they're there at all, talk about being a nurse to anyone who will listen and take every perk, discount and benifet they can get. You even get ones where they don't turn up when they're not getting enough perks. Not compassionate at all to anyone they "care" about (one of them was very proud of the fact she kicked out her 10 year old step-son). They always have some story where someone else is the asshole. You get the idea. You can guess what they did during COVID lol. The good nurses are always running around after the bad nurses because the only reason the bad ones would be hired is because we needed x amount of nurses on duty. I bet the staff who work with her fucking hate her. So yeah, unfotunately just because a person is a nurse doesn't mean they are a good person. We need to really scrutinise any person who is going to be in a position of power over vulnerable people. The worst of the worst go in to these types of jobs on purpose.
Im sorry but the kid sitting ther crying bc hes not getting food is genuinely saddening, like when i grew up my family always shared meals, it was part of yk bonding but also bc i was a curious kid who always wanted to try stuff even if i didnt like it, and if i didnt like whatever food my family was getting theyd get me something else that they knew i liked, tbh i think shes ignoring him for rage bait bc like they know if they dont feed him people will be mad
She is a disgusting mother. The poor kid has to watch them eat!? Wtf kinda torture is that. My dad used to tell me i was fat and he would get my brother food and make me watch him eat.
The kid watching them eat with them not giving a flying care is truly heartbreaking 😢. My kids are 12 & 9; I only eat after they eat. I feel guilty eating if they haven’t eaten. I even sacrifice my morning coffee and make their breakfast first before I sit down to enjoy my cup. What’s wrong with that woman? Did she not want to have those kids?!!
I could understand that they're not allowing the kid to eat directly from their plates, I can even understand that they don't want their babies to eat the same things they're eating (because those are not healthy at all and might be too spicy for a child), but they could order or make him his own food. Their son is crying watching his parents eat, he looks hungry, so feed him!
I first saw Hannah on Facebook because I’m a medical staff and I find content from other medical staff interesting. This was far before the whole 17 diapers situation. I didn’t like her less than a month after seeing any of her content because I saw SEVERAL instances of her fucking up medpass at her job. I pass meds at my own job and she has horrible habits for medpass. I watched her several times dump a pill or two from the bottle into the cap to then dump them in the pill cup - and they didn’t make it into the med cup but she just didn’t check and didn’t notice so she moved on. I WATCHED HER make SEVERAL med errors because she didn’t double check a damn thing. Who knows what meds they were and the potential consequences of that. It rubbed me the wrong way deeply so much that I showed my fiancé and ranted about it. Once the 17 diapers thingy happened and I realized it was her I reminded my fiancé and she remembered me bringing this up and showing her fucking up the medpasses. My fiancé is an LPN new grad who has done CNA work for almost 2 years by the way. Long story short, there are soooooo many reasons I don’t respect her as a nurse/mother/content creator/person. -irresponsible nursing habits -irresponsible medical staff content -child neglect -child abuse
“Momma doesn’t play with nap time”, but she won’t buy her child a coat for winter, or share her food with him, doesn’t supervise him when he’s sitting in a chair. Not playing with nap time doesn’t redeem the many other poor parenting choices you make.
This is the best video I’ve seen on this woman so far, you share a lot of clips I haven’t seen yet. Also, the woman’s voice is like nails on a chalk board ,like really badly.
Wow, it was bad for my mental health just to listen to this woman's point of view so I'm going to tap out. I'm exhausted even thinking of how much she's oversharing her life constantly to everyone, not even getting into the content of what she's saying she does and doesn't do. Incredible that you compiled all this, it's exhausting.
The amount of anxiety I feel towards my future kids, when I’m not even a mother or pregnant, has me baffled at how moms can be abusive. Like, I’d be worried about miscarriage, SIDS, whooping cough, etc. Things that arent even in my control, let alome the things SHE is neglecting to make her kids life worse. Absolutely astounding.
I had my oldest daughter very very young and I didn’t take any prenatal vitamins at all and it’s been one of my BIGGEST REGRETS… my poor daughter has severe autism, so many different mental health issues, as well as other things… and I have always linked it at least partially to not taking my vitamins. With my other children I did and they have no issues. PLZ TAKE YOUR VITAMINS AND GET PRENATAL CARE. It’s vital to your health and your baby’s.
20:20 that is disgustibg when you know how infrequently she changes them and only for “poops”. The only diaper I might forget and leave out is a pee diaper :/ who just lets feces hang out
What's especially alarming is she's a nurse and is trained on all the ways sitting in urine is dangerous. I know she knows this because of Medicare laws. A nurse can lose their license if they allow a patient to sit in urine and the hospital is heavily sanctioned by Medicare and HHS
This is wrong on so many levels. Everytime i decide to get food outside and my kids are with me, I always order their own plate or get a bigger portion to share with my kids. Even if they've just finished daycare and they've already eaten, I'd feel bad just buying food for only myself and have my kids watch me eat. I don't care if my kids need a nap, I have to make sure they eat something before they sleep, or if they sleep before their lunch, I'll have lunch ready for them as soon as they wake up. This is so heart breaking and I pray Little James gets the justice he needs 🙏🏾
I get it. It’s expensive to see a doc without insurance. It’s expensive to get prenatal visits WITH insurance. But if you’re allowing yourself to get pregnant and you care about the baby’s health or your own health, why wouldn’t you be going in? Sometimes it’s cheaper to self pay anyway.
This reminds me of when it is said that male bullies go on to have police and military careers, while female bullies tend to follow nursing careers. I think it is very telling she is a nurse but does not believe in medicine. My thoughts are with the children.
My grandma was trying to reason with my 2 y/o nephew. She told him "Eat another bite and you can have a cherry." He goes "No just chewwies" She goes "Then I'll eat the damn cherry." And he goes "No I'll eat the damn chewwie." Its was absolutely hilarious.
@@qryptid@qryptid RIGHT, like next to the changing station at the bed is one thing, but your kids are gonna be playing and eating at the coffee table!! E-coli, hepatitis A, pink eye, typhoid.. like HELLO???
It's crazy how these women will call CPS/DCS over bs and suspicion, but I'm fairly confident they wouldn't dare make a call if they thought someone was dealing with domestic violence. You never hear about others calling in due to their suspicion of domestic violence. It's the same concept. Double standard.
its always especially upsetting seeing mothers like this, knowing there are people in this world who would give everything they have to be a parent. incredible video, thank you for touching on a topic like this, child exploitation is so bad with social media, and without videos like these, these creators go unchecked and don't see the wrong in what they're doing.
I don't think what's she's doing is rage bait. That's just who she is As a person
HELLO!! This is really who she is
Yeah it definitely looks like this is just the way her and her hubby is for sure I don't think she doing it for the views I really don't She just a shity mom
@@splicedsociety9221 or honestly it could be both, cause she’s very much aware of what she’s doing
@@ypercs Right. She even said it's all intentional. That everything they post is intentional. As if she wasn't telling on herself
She’s totally rage baiting!! She works at a hospital and she’s acting like she has no clue about how to go about making appointments, how to even get to the hospital, how to go around the hospital and also trying to find a hospital that is by her??!! Just go to the hospital where you work dummy! She knows that’s making people mad because she is a nurse and works at a full on hospital and should have no dumb excuses on how to take care of her 3rd child!!
I’ve mentioned this in other videos but she had money to dye highlight her hair but not $35 for a jacket for a child in freezing cold weather. I have a child and I would rather starve, walk bare foot, ride the bus or walk, let my roots grow in… before i take away a basic necessity from my child that I chose to have. She’s sick, whether or for clout or not, just having the thought is sickening.
It was heartbreaking basically seeing him begging for the blanket and she's like "you can't have it because it's cold". Lady. What. She really resents that child and is definately not someone who should've had kids. The fact she thinks this is "realistic" means probably everyone on her irl social bubble is probably some level of toxic and it's easy to believe because her willingness to defend her husband's financial abuse as a joke just shows that nothing about her community or sense of realistic normality is healthy. Its kinda sad seeing her spend more then 35 on a sandwich while not really feeding or clothing her son adequately. Idk if a deer is a good return on $2000 of hunting equipment but I do think that because he's mainly off camera it sort of dulls people's appreciation of what level of trash he is. Both of them are totally failing as parents and shouldn't be allowed to procreate. Like she comes across as so angry and resentful and the "positive" bits very much given "toxic positivity" because there's nothing ok about her situation or either of their behaviour. I feel like she'd be very bitter at being called angry because it's "unladylike" but the level of denial you have to have about the state of your life to donate tithes while your child is irregularly eating random scraps and freezing in the winter.
@@DanielkaElliott100%!
There's no reason BUT her desperately seeking attention that she's bragging about child neglect.
This girl is a damn Llar. Even if she didn’t hv insurance if she goes to the hospital they HV TO SEE HER . There are signs that say WE HV TO TREAT YOU WITHOUT INSURANCE BECAUSE ITS AGAINST THE LAW. I def believe she has some MENTAL ISSUES AND MORE THAN LIKELY HER PARENTS ARE NOT AROUND TO GUIDE HER. I cldnt imagine them knowing this fk shyt and not saying anything to make sure she is taking better care of those babies . They hv money. They own a REALTY COMPANY!! She also seems to be giving vibes that he is abusing her too. Notice every food video she is sharing with him and he takes her food and not gv any to the little boy. There is more going on. Working in Law Enforcement for many yrs I see all of the RED FLAGS.
@@DanielkaElliottsomeone seriously emotionally scared them as kids or something because some parents are just selfish and borderline sadistic with their children. Her parents were probably the same way and bullies, same with her husband
She said she was so busy at work, yet she had time to film tiktoks all day.
Right? I’m a nurse and I’ve worked in long term care. There is NO TIME for anything other than breathing.
Because it brings her money, that's what it all boils down to. Money comes before all else including the well being of her own children. She is selfish and always has to make a point that everything is too expensive when it comes to her babies but she can afford to constantly eat out. People this disgustingly selfish should not be having kids
@@ava.and.jasper literally what i said! How much time did she spend setting up the camera and how many reshoots to get a 2 second clip of removing something from a shelf and acting tired? THAT'S why none of the nurses lifted a finger. She also never mentions if she's an LPN doing CNA shifts, she's still getting paid the LPN rate while making tiktoks.
Yes! And she “forgets” all these important things but always remembers to record herself
"never has a dirty diaper on" when she'd already admitted she doesn't change a wet diaper
"never has a dirty diaper on" when she'd already admitted she doesn't change a wet diaper
@Theunicorn2012yup that’s what Avery said
@@StonedSammieSue they keep copying everyones comment on a bunch of videos
To some people pee doesn’t equate to “dirty diaper” smh
@@alexiswagner5388it’s probably a bot
Honestly she strikes me as that coworker that does the absolute bare minimum but acts like shes the only one who does any work, ya know
Yesssss 😂
I totally get you my coworker is like that..
Yesssss I had this on fast-forward and she was working slower than I do in real time. She is sooo slow at her job. Omg.
She strikes me as someone who became a nurse and a mom not because she wanted to be a caregiver but because she wanted the title/status. The month she posted their tithing they made almost $6k for the month. She rounded up and gave her church $600 even. They're doing fine, the $35 coat and the diapers not getting changed are not a matter of funds. I live on far less in a warmer state and my kids have new winter coats each year. I changed their diapers as needed. Those are NEEDS, you do what you gotta do and PROVIDE.
We dont by new coats every year and my kids wear hand me downs from their older siblings, but if my kids don't fit the coats or they aren't in great shape anymore that's when we buy them a new coat. I couldn't imagine not making sure they have what they need.
Exactly!
Yesssss girl! All these people complaining about “stay out of my business” are the ones putting their lives out there 🤦🏻♀️
On full display, unfiltered. Truly wild times. And these people have always existed, but you got people starting their own controversies and rumors now for clout.
Yes girl! All these people complaining about "stay out of my business" are the ones putting their lives out there 🤦🏻♀️
@Theunicorn2012 You are either a bot or a complete weirdø for copying everyone's comments on here. Do you have any original thoughts or opinions?
Imagine people doing this with another crime instead of child abuse lol. “Your honour stay out of my business it’s not your car so why do you care if I drive drunk?”
Another 8 passengers in the making. I feel so bad for the children born into these toxic social media obsessed families.
@Chrissy213, You are right. Has this woman been turned in ?
I hope that boy and baby is taken away because when he is being in videos it's just for clout and publicity and she clearly has no love for the children. I feel so sorry for this kid even tho he isn't beaten like I was as a kid I still know how rough it must be to want to have love from a mother whose either too busy or not interested.
@@cdmc965not yet but i believe her case is finally being investigated
@@westriderider thank you
my first thought hopefully this ends better
I think I've done more for my dog as a broke college student than she's done for her human child. This is wild
I thought the same when I saw the thing of the winter coat, I had my dog a custom made one and this woman can't buy one at Walmart, and our winters are not as cold as yours
right?? i dont even have a dog i have birds and i treat those things like they are my world
My dog eats before me and has a winter coat!
Period I would go without anything I had to to make sure my dog is taken care of, because I love him with my heart and soul and by choosing him I chose to be fully responsible for his wellbeing and I'll be damned if I don't do it right. Which means always trying my hardest to do right by him, so putting him first is easy. I don't want kids, I can't imagine what kind of mom I would be, but I know for sure I would be nothing like Hannah. She is horrid. And her husband is equally as horrid.
When I was pregnant with my second son, I felt so confident that he was okay and healthy, especially since they would tell me he was growing big and had a very good strong heart. My 34 week appointment, I was late and had to reschedule. I thought “Oh he’s been good and why would I need to go if he’s been nothing but ok?” So instead of rescheduling for the next day i said i’d just go the next week (my clinic was an hour away and the appt i missed was a Thursday, so id have to wait till Tuesday). 2 days later I noticed I hadn’t felt him kick ALL DAY. When i brought this up to my husband and family, it was midnight, they all said to wait till the next day and i was probably being dramatic. I did not sleep, I only cried and cried begging him to move so i’d feel stupid for worrying. In the morning my husband left to work, but within an hour I called him back to bring me to the hospital. I called my OB and he ALSO said the baby was just being lazy and that i was freaking myself out, but i could go to the nearest hospital if i was really that scared. My husband was upset he left work, because WHY would the baby not be ok? Well, worst day of my fucking life. The nurse did an ultrasound. She looked panicked got the doctor, the doctor did it again and her face told me. She couldn’t find a heartbeat. I cannot explain the pain that I felt in this moment. I was screaming like my leg was ripped off slowly. And one of the things swirling around my mind, aside fron the grief of my son, was that it was MY FAULT for missing the appointment. If i went, he would probably still be fine. I cannot imagine not going until 30 weeks, thank god her baby is fine. But I learned not going even one day makes a difference. I never missed an appointment for my 3rd son, after that I never trusted that he was ok fully in my belly, let alone trusted for 30 WEEKS.
So very sorry for your loss. 😢 thank you for sharing this.
I’ve never been pregnant, but I am livid for you that the men in your life made you feel ashamed for being concerned about the life you were carrying. I’m so sorry for your loss. The downplaying of a baby not moving is sick and insane. Why would you EVER take a chance on a baby’s development? The doctor downplaying it is horrifying.
i’m so sorry 🩷
I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss that you’ve gone through. Thank you for having the courage to share this, this is important.
I hope you will find peace, it wasn't your fault at all, maybe therapy can help you with that particular part.(
"I can't manage my time... But let me set up a camera in the closet to film myself complaining about my job. While at my job I'm going to waste time filming, but omg it's so crazy busy I can't manage my time.... "
Whoever is hiring her is definitely not getting their moneys worth!
The moment she said "I can be a nurse and not believe in medicine" I know what type of person we were dealing with here
Insane
Mormon?
I just went back to school to advance my nursing to degree. There was a man in my class who made a stink about having to get vaccinated prior to clinicals. My instructor told him very sternly “if this is your belief system, I STRONGLY suggest you walk out NOW because you are in the wrong place”
I was listening while completing something else, and my ears def perked right up. Hell naw 🤣 this is why her name will never have an RN or RT behind it
But why doesn't she have insurance if she's working?
I’ve been an rn for 15 years, the fact she doesn’t change her own babies diaper tells me how she treats her patients. Urine causes skin breakdown. I’d be so surprised is this babies never got diaper rash.
I'm an RN as well and I was thinking the same thing. Incontinence care 101 🙄 she would have no remorse leaving a patient wet when she does it to her babies.
@ exactly, if she can do this to her own baby what is she doing to her patients?
That's so disgusting. I wonder how long she'd sit in her own pee 🤔
I am also an RN and am horrified by this LPN's behavior. Just imagine how she treats her elderly, defenseless residents at the nursing homes she works at. Apparently, many people have made complaints to the Utah's BON due to all of this. I really hope they do something about her. I would never want anyone I know to be under her care. She is a despicable person.
Literally. Diapers are expensive, and Im poor. Thats why I keep bleach and cloth diapers on hand for when I cant afford disposable. After he pees, into the bleach bucket it goes until I have time to handwash and then properly clean /sanitise. Theres never an excuse
"I don't change a wet diaper, diapers are friggin expensive," while standing and recording in what looks like a very nice kitchen.
And then she has a 17 diapers around my house video.. if she doesn't change that baby often, HOW LONG THOSE DIAPERS BEEN ON THE FLOOR!!!
Exactly 💯. Also, she could skip getting her hair done for a while to afford those diapers, too...like most of us did!
Always has takeout too. A full meal of takeout would pay for diapers.
And, they bought a new car. Remember, James didn't get to eat because Hannah didn't want him to mess up the new car.
the way i was grinning, ear to ear, when the montage of parents and kiddos "flinch tests" turned into giggles and playing around together. you can easily read it on their faces; those kids either thought it was a game, or they (fondly) thought their parent was cringe. faith in humanity restored. that was so fricken adorable and sweet.
“Going over to the nurses station and there’s like 3-4 nurses on their phone!”
WHILE YOU’RE SITTING THERE MAKING A TIKTOK!!
THATS WHAT I SAID
She really comes off as the kind of nurse that became a nurse for selfish reasons. I’m not picking up very empathetic or nurturing vibes from her at all. I know people like her in real life. Idk.. somethings off. Like she stopped maturing mentally at 16 or something
It’s so hard to explain it but yes I completely agree! Like they wanna be seen as saviors for being in nursing. My mom is like that, she’s the biggest narcissist and was horrible to me but she’s a CNA and always expects praise for it!
So like 98% of nurses..
She did it for the money
it's giving high school mean girl to nurse
Mean girl basically. There are many wonderful nurses, but the way she acts would make people see all nurses badly
I'm a single mom w/ low income, you know what I did when my baby didn't have a coat? I wrapped them in a blanket, a robe, a towel, or even in MY OWN coat while I froze instead! The fact that she had her son SHIVERING in a cart and took the time to film it..... she obviously doesn't care about him, she didn't even try looking for alternatives or anything. She just went "nope, deal with it" 😤😤💔
SAME. There is NO way my children would have suffered that way.
As a single mom who is also low income…. Same. What the fuck is wrong with her? That’s her ONE job, to provide, love unconditionally, and care for her child.
Reminds me of that one sick mother who would inject her child with salt so she could be the "sick boys mommie poor me"
i can’t count the number of times my mom gave me her own jacket when I was cold. even if i told her I was fine and for her to keep it, she would drape it over me and act like she wasn’t cold. i also have poor circulation so my hands would get numb and stiff super quickly, so she would rub them to get the blood flowing :’)
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Nurse here! I would say I'm a Nurse in healthcare that doesn't believe in "healthcare" in the sense that I do believe it is corrupt. The amount people get charged for medications, exams, imaging etc... is crazy. Most insurances are practically a scam, a lot of Doctors don't listen to their patients, rules and regulations are not followed correctly... the whole situation is a mess. However I do believe in medications and the importance of vaccines so that part was a little out of touch on her end.
That’s probably what she meant she’s just not that…eloquent? Well spoken? Smart? Def some screws loose on her brain
Yes but it's the I'm not worried about it so I don't need it attitude that's weird
Her first responsibility is to her children. Nobody cares if SHE doesn't go to the doc when 31 weeks pregnant. Once a pregnancy is confirmed, it's time to act. Between two children, she giggled about her choice not to get developmental care for 61 weeks! Then she's like *teehee I know how to grow a baby* Yeah lady, and my dirt patch knows how to grow carrots, but that's neither here nor there!! She had so many choices, that baby in utero had none.
Lots of nurses feel like this. I know a local hospital that lost so much staff and nurses due to the CV-19 jab because it was experimental and they said no! It’s not the same as getting a flu vaccine every year 😅
As a nurse I absolutely agree with the above statement !
her being lucky that her prenatal checkup was good and then going "so its a scam" is such a spit in the face moment for anyone who has had bad pregnancy experiences. i am talking to someone right now who had to deliver a wanted pregnancy at 30 weeks because the fetus never developed a brain. you *need* to know these things as early as possible so either it can be treated. not just for your baby, but for yourself - there are so many things to check to make sure that you dont die while carrying the pregnancy or giving birth.
also her comparing taking tylenol for a headache to PRENATAL CARE is actual insane behavior.
She reminds me of those memes that say, “The absolute meanest/awful girl you knew in high school is now a nurse.” Like I’m convinced she was absolutely rotted in her younger days. And she’s in charge not only of small children, but someone’s loved ones care in the hospital. Smdh
Most of the mean chicks i knew from school are now nurses lmao
@ the theory really does checkout!! Haha
@@anlslfyw7613 Oddly mine aren’t. My high school bullies are stuck in miserable marriages or are baby mommas living off child support. I was surprised cuz I thought some were headed to nursing for sure. Some of my college bullies def went the medicine route though. Vet and ER doc. The vet was so unhinged. It’s actually a blessing that she won’t be practicing on humans 😬.
That flinch was a sympathetic nervous system response. That child's body responded before his eyes and brain knew what was happening. That is horrifying to see.
Why is it that people who don't deserve children have like 10 of them but the people who desperately want kids have trouble conceiving?
Fertility.
exelent question
I see this all the time. I have desperately wanted to be a mother since I was young. I’m 28, unmarried and childless. I worry it’s not going to happen for me sometimes. I’m surrounded by people who should not be parents as well. It makes me sick. I will never understand why people have kids they can’t take care of properly or don’t want.
Trials and tribulations make you a better person
@@anastasiasnow593This is not to defend them in any way, but so many people, especially women, are conditioned to believe parenting is easy, normal, and the next step in the life progression. Unfortunately, it is not and this leads to parental apathy and in turn, child neglect. Or people only like taking care of babies and forget about their children once they are somewhat potty trained, then they keep having babies to fill their personal need. It’s sad and it sucks that the children suffer at the end of the day
I whispered “damnit” when I forgot to get something at the store while in line and my 1 yr old starts saying “DAMNIT! DAMNIT!” and all of the adults turned their heads to hide their giggles. My first shameful mom moment 😂
Nah that ain’t shameful, yelling dammit is just part of life 😂❤️
I've always wondered why taboo words are so fun and easy for kids to start repeating, but simple ones like thank you, help, and please take so long to master.
I remember having a kid in the car when some idiot on a crotch rocket was splitting lanes and I watched him almost get hit by a huge truck--- and I called him a stupid douchebag.
And from the backseat, all innocent, I hear "What's a douchebag?"
Perfectly clearly, from the child with a near constant stutter. No stutter at all over THAT one. 😅
My son had a hard time with "flops" in flip flops. It was flip f*cks.
@@thatvalensteingirlthat's actually because most curse words use easier to pronounce syllables that are some the first a child learns to say. It's why babies will say mama before dada or daddy as the m sound develops first. So if you're a dad wanting the first word to be a word meaning dad us papa as the p is easier to say than m
i kinda understand the hating Healthcare but working in Healthcare. Healthcare is a huge company circle that is just filled with venom and snakes. For half of my life, my mom had to fight for Healthcare because she made /one dollar per hour/. They revoked our Healthcare because "we don't fit the financial criteria" because my mom made 1 more dollar per hour than before.
You can have a love for medicinal practices but not agree with the companies that take advantage of those resources ect.😊
Saying I can be a nurse and not believe in medicine is exactly why she’s like this. She basically said “I can be a parent without believing in parenting” 😂
Am i the only one thinking how on earth 17 diapers was left in the house, when she clearly said she doesnt change her kid for a pee! Those diaper have been around for more then 24h for sure
Such a good point!!
Yes! Plus, she carried a diaper to that spot to change them. How hard is it to carry the dirty one away when you’re done?
I hope CPS comes in. Rage baiting with your kid is so toxic.
Yes
CPS is involved. Multiple people called them. I don’t know how it’ll pan out since CPS rarely does their job. But they are aware of the situation.
@mcrchickenluvr
Good. Someone there will do the right thing, especially if the world is watching. Ruby Frankie went down and this woman isn't half as big as her.
It's not rage bait, it's the big ol A word we cant say on-yt
I hope CPS comes in. Rage baiting with your kid is so toxic.
“Why in the world would they take nine tubes of my blood?!” Because they had to do 8 months of prenatal care and blood work in one visit…. 😒
Not defending her but medical practices in the west coast are known to take extra blood. When I lived on the west coast, I would get full panels and they would take 10+ vials. I got the SAME panels in the Midwest and they took 1 vial. My nurse looked at me like I was crazy when I told her they used to take 10+
Many medical practices sell your blood. 🤷🏻♀️
That’s not true, I went through the same thing 9 tubes in one visit is routine for testing, even when you go early in the pregnancy
@ I’ve had four and the only time I had nine tubes taken from me was because I was also involved in a pregnancy study on environmental factors, and they took my usual blood work along with 4 tubes for the study. I am sure different people and different scenarios are different.
I am absolutely heartbroken by this. This kid is continuously upset , visibly about to cry.. to get FOOD. I know there’s a lot of other stuff. But this tiny child who is relying on his parents keep saying “he’s getting a piece of bread” then “that’ll be his meal” . It’s absolutely crushing and heartbreaking . I’m not even a parent. I have 6 younger siblings and I helped care for most of them (to school, drum practice, meals, diapers)… I cannot. This is. That was gruesome of these “parents “. I wouldn’t even eat in front of friends or strangers knowing they couldn’t eat or not offer them actual meals. I’m heartbroken.
It’s super upsetting. This is the exact same scenario as Ruby Franke… problematic posting, people catching on, CPS being called. But it wasn’t until things turned dire that her kids were save and she’s in jail.
29:07 THIS IS A LIE!!! You CANNOT just pick up shift while vacationing out of state. Even if she is with a temp nursing agency, those contracts are setup in advance. I really want to know how she can be licensed in Utah as a nurse but able to just pick up a random shift in Nevada.
Between not changing her child's wet diaper and this statement, I am really questioning her certification status.
If she is licensed in both states this is possible. But ya, if she does not hold a license in Nevada, big no no. It depends on what her contract allows, but yes if permitted, she can accept a shift out of state. I assume she reviewed her contract beforehand, hopefully.
@@Chiidogg perhaps her company has contracts in Nevada also and they had people cal off and needed the help ... ?
As a manager at Outback I have picked up shifts at other locations and for special catered events. This is the restaurant industry not nursing but maybe ... ?
There's apps like nursa and shift med. Yes it is possible. She's working in the nursing home. They fill spots all the time this way. I've done it for years
@@annabella2528 to practice nursing in a state, a nurse MUST hold a license in that state, it is law. When it comes to contracts, I’m not super knowledgeable, it is dependent on person to person/company to company. If her contract allows, she can practice in Nevada and only if she holds a Nevada license.
@@mitsukelovesbigbangsounds illegal. Why are pastors regulated by state but not nurses?
This is Ruby Franke level of abuse and if its not addressed will definitely escalate, they say when men abuse women, women abuse the children in turn. Or sometimes the parents are so toxic they hate but need each other but they hate the children with an even greater passion. This is so sick and disturbing on so many levels.
This this this!!! I’ve been saying the husband is abusive, too, she constantly points out that he controls all of their finances and whenever she eats it’s like she’s scarfing it down as if she isn’t getting enough. Defensive eating. It feels like she resents her children because she’s on such a tight leash herself, anything she is giving them is something she herself does not get. You can literally see the anger and resentment coming out of her when she has to take care of her own children.
Also, her not getting important healthcare while pregnant gives me the vibe that her husband didn’t think it was necessary to spend money on, gaslit her, and now she’s trying to defend it online saying she doesn’t believe in it
She’s horrible but I don’t think she’s chaining up her children.
@@Username0467did you know that Ruby was?
She’s just not loving…. Seems like she resents her child for some reason…. Iunno
Diaper rash, urinary tract infection, yeast infections 🤦🏽♀️ YOU HAVE TO FREQUENTLY CHANGE YOUR BABIES DIAPERS and an untreated UTI can lead to SEPSIS!!!!!
YUP. There are severe cases of neglect where children have passed, and sepsis/infection were major factors.
There is a family vlog channel whose kid almost died from this exact thing... a UTI that went septic from not being taken care of. I think the mom's name is Karissa. All of her kids have names that start with the same letter and the dad used to play basketball with the Harlem Globetrotters. I can remember all that, but I can't remember the name of the channel lol
I used to have to wake my baby up just to change his diaper because he was sleeping 12 hours and would get a pretty severe diaper rash by the time he woke up. That happened twice before regularly waking him up once or twice through the night AND putting diaper rash cream as a preventative...
@@kaileeclevenger3981my baby is the same way, and she's extra sensitive too (she got my sensitive skin and I feel horrible). She gets changed pretty frequently and gets diaper cream often too. I'm overly worried about her getting a UTI or any other infection.
Urine is so acidic it’s almost worse to leave your baby in a 10lb pissy diaper than a diaper with a little poop! They all should be changed IMMEDIATELY. Within a timely manner. That’s not to say you should change your baby after the FIRST time they peed, with my girls I did because I was worried about all of that, but with my son I will let him use the diaper until it’s full more than one per and I change it! I’ve left ONE dirty diaper maybe two if I get up to change him in the middle of the night I’ll roll the old one up and forget to take it with me, but when I go in the morning to get him up I always clear it.
She claims that the husband is ALWAYS playing with the kid... Yet NONE of her videos shows that?!
And the “playing” that she exemplified sounded a little suspicious too. Like, with the context of everything else going on with these people, I wouldnt be shocked if some of the “playing” was her downplaying abuse. If the “play” you’re doing gives your kid a flinch reaction, its time to give them a disney movie and a plate of chicken nuggets instead. Let em chill.
He never plays with the kid or even talk to him. All they do in the videos is ignore the boy and stuff their faces with junk food
I solo parented from birth with no local support system at all. 17 diapers around the house is unacceptable. It is a sign that something is mentally wrong.
The video of the kid flinching: in the video, the kid was clearly upset and crying. When his dad came in like that and he covered his face, I think it’s because maybe he’s punished for crying or being upset. Maybe he’s smacking in the lips for screaming or crying or showing distress. He so clearly flinches and guarded his face. Hannah can say whatever she wants, but the proof is in the video. You cannot dispute that
I wouldn't be surprised. I watched an unrelated video and some one made a post that her husband hits their 20 month old with a belt when he cries at night. She sadly was annoyed with her kid for continuing to cry 'knowing' that he be hit. He's a baby! Another woman from the same video said her husband was 'lightly spanking' their 4 month old. There are many sick people out here who shouldn't have kids and have no issue resorting to violence towards literal babies who can't defend themselves
Even the rapid blinking of his eyes. He was scared
I don’t like parents who use intimidation as punishment on their children when they’re little. They are so much bigger and stronger and they know that and their body language around him scares me for him. They both seem so threatening and intimidating.
That kid is getting hit for sure. These people act like selfish children they don't give af about their toddler
34:23 Why no one is mentionning the fact that she litteraly pulled the chair from underneath her kid so he would fall WHILE HE HAD A HUGE KNIFE IN HIS HANDS this deserves jail it could have been tragic
@@stoup7280 and she smiled!!! I rewatched her face and it is was obviously malicious. Did you notice how she didn't react when he fell? Her non-reaction makes me think it was intentional.
Plus, if she had remorse for what she deemed an accident, why did she post the video? If I accidentally caused my dog to hurt herself, I'd be too ashamed to edit the video, add voice over, and post it for likes.
I was looking for someone to day something too. It ignited a rage in belly when I saw this. My son was like 3 and he'd fallen off a barstool (on accident not me pulling the thing from under him). When I tell you my heart dropped to my stomach I had to take a break.
34:23 Why no one is mentioning the fact that she literally pulled the chair from underneath her kid so he would fall WHILE HE HAD A HUGE KNIFE IN HIS HANDS this deserves jail it could have been tragic
No one mentions her slamming the newborn baby down on the couch on his back either... heck it seems people don't even realize he exists! People think she only has 1 kid and she definitely has 2! Breaks my heart for that baby. The way I've heard him SCREAM in the background of videos like he's being hurt or is scared or the look in his little innocent newborn eyes when she holds him... he just like dead stares n looks soooo sad... you know that 1000 yard stare people talk about?? It's like that... and she claims they've never had a diaper rash but the newborn definitely was in the HOSPITAL for a severe diaper rash recently and he's not even a month old! The 2yr old has had bladder infections! but yeah she's definitely abusing that newborn baby too, I believe his name is JAYDEN and like I said he's MAYBE a month old, 2 months TOPS... he deserves for us to advocate for him too, he can't even talk or nothing....😢 and she talks about how rarely she takes them to the pediatrician so, if he has any fractures or anything from being slammed around like a sack of potatos no one will ever know. 😔 I gotta stop, I'm making myself upset.
The fall was more dangerous than the plastic knife he was holding.
Wow, seeing Jake wanting food so desperately is heart breaking. Then how she treats James too. Yea cps needs to be involved
I had only seen two of the videos of them eating until now. The one where the dad flicks the kid away and the one in the car where they say that one bite of cinnamon roll will be his lunch is insane. Now that I’ve seen multiple videos of them just not wanting to feed him is insane. I have taken care of so many toddlers and they need to eat so much throughout the day to help them grow properly. They need regularly scheduled times of the day they eat meals and also have access to snacks throughout the day when they’re hungry. Kids are gonna want to eat your food, that’s how kids are. Just share your fries with the kid.
They are. I've been keeping up with this on TikTok. Her sister has James at this time.
The fact that the child has to watch his parents eating all the time is crazy to me. I share more food with my dogs than either of these so called parents. It is heartbreaking.
As someone who didn't have insurance, due to the system I applied for wasn't active and was taking a long time. I was a single mom, pregnant with my second, and still couldn't get insurance. I didn't get checked till 27 weeks; I found out I was diabetic and had other issues with the baby. I went to appointments twice every week and ended up in the hospital for two for diabetic care(which is where the doctor pushed my insurance people to activate my insurance). I had a c-section a month ago, and my baby is happy and healthy. We both have insurance now. I understand that these systems are confusing and you are constantly being turned around so many times, but I can't imagine still trusting your body and not going to the doctor
If I was a mom and I was being compared to Ruby Frankie, I would be terrified not laughing. I feel like that shows who this 17 diapers mom truly is when she finds being compared to an abusive mother who was arrested funny.
37:56 i have to stop watching now. I'm sorry Busiswa but seeing the husband flick his child's hand away from eating a french fry has me LIVID!!! I want to scream and cry at this but will refrain so as to not scare my cat and dog. I wont even make my coffee in the morning until they have a HOT meal of fresh/cooked vegetables and meat. The last thing i do before bed is make sure they have a bedtime snack.
It's not fair. The powers above decided I cannot have children but these a-holes can?? It's not right.
French fries are so unhealthy for kids though. He shouldnt be earing in front of the kid at all though.
@@carlismycat THAT'S what you took away from this video and my comment?! 🤮
@carlismycat How DARE a child eat something UNHEALTHY!!! Why let the youth enjoy anything fun when we can just...not
@@carlismycat yeah, but eating it in front of the kid is cruel. If you want to stuff your face with unhealthy foods, and your child shouldn't eat it, wait till its asleep. Or share. I always have an alternative ready if i don't want my child to eat something or too much of something.
@@carlismycatkids are curious obviously you have to be aware of what they grab but they see you eating and are curious as to what it tastes like! It wouldn’t hurt to let them try little bites!
I cried so bad during this video like if you don’t want that lil boy give him to a loving family that won’t hurt him 😢
Thank you so much for creating a FULL OVERVIEW of this. Cause I kept seeing comments about it, but I knew these short lil 10 minute videos were not really gon' give the tea.
As effed as all this is, it genuinely did my heart a lot of good to find the "flinch tests" parents were doing as a response. For the longest time, I thought that was natural. It's always bittersweet to mourn the childhood I didn't get, but it fills me with hope that my children will have a better childhood that I did.
Thank you for talking about this issue. I’ve not heard of this woman. I’ve lived in three states, but have spent a collective 30 years in Utah. And I’m heartbroken to say that this behavior is pervasive through out the culture of this state, especially within the Mormon community. I see this type of abuse, and neglect towards children on a weekly basis. Having children is not seen as a choice, but a duty. And then the children become a burden to young parents. Who then take it out on their children because they themselves haven’t healed from their own trauma, or learned skills on how to cope. Children are not seen as individuals to be protected, nurtured, and respected here. They are seen as property (as are the women) to be controlled . And so the cycles of abuse, low self worth, scarcity mentality, and neglect continue. I’m happy to see that James might have a different experience with intervention. But like I said, I see this at least weekly, and it breaks my heart every time. 😢
I live in Utah, currently 29wks pregnant, I am FREAKING OUT on how imma keep my baby warm once she comes because it's already freezing and only going to get worse. I could not imagine saying no to a $35 toddler jacket in this weather, especially when she claimed they made $5000 a week! At least give him a blanket or something till you can get to a thrift store or second hand shop like come on.
Not only that but the $35 coat could be kept for the other baby it’s not like it’s a waste of money she’s just a bad mom period.
I could manage to get her kids 2 coats with the $1000 a week pay my partner makes. $5000 a week is wild and you don't get your kid anything?? This Hannah lady is ridiculous.
Not sharing food with your baby goes against all motherly instinct. This is different from hiding your ice cream or snacks. Not sharing food durring mealtime and sitting down to eat while your BABY has no food in front of them is just so mean.
Legit! My Heart breaks for their kids there is just No Way
Genuinely felt so gross just watching them ignore their son while they ate. I can’t even eat in front of my cats without allowing them a sniff (they don’t have an appetite for human food but love smelling it lol)
@@jwmtlmbI keep thinking along these lines because I don't have kids but boy do I have a dog that I treat like a child. The guilt I feel eating in front of him is so bad I put pieces of cheese or chicken or whatever on my plate to give him so he thinks he's trying a bite of what I have. I would spend $100 on a coat if he needed it and that was my only option. He goes to daycare on my long work days lol. The lengths I'm happy to go to for my dog are insane, yes. But dude her behavior is so insane in a really bad way and I can hardly bear it. Could never relate in any universe on any timeline ever.
My children always came first...
36:37 "I was trying to be a nice mom" after getting my hair professionally done and refusing to buy my child a winter coat.... as an infertile woman that will never be able to have children, she fills me with INDIGNANT RAGE beyond bait!! Women like her treatjng their children this way makes me question the existence of god. Honestly. This goes beyond being unfair. Its not right!
I’m also childless not by choice and I just wanted to tell you that I’m sorry and I hope you’re able to have the family you wish for. Sending love. 🫶🏻
As soon as she said "it's just a baby" when she was pregnant... she's probably been given everything her entire life.
Exactly Like by falling he ruined her plans
@@toidIllorTAmI.........so?
@@toidIllorTAmI my amiable nature responds to the information at hand. I am more than capable of being nice in response to one comment and salty to the next. If that bothers you, maybe you could ask yourself the same question you asked someone in a different thread: can you leave now? 😂
And never once does she say she would never hurt her children and she really loves them.
31:29 The daughter on the left being annoyed at her dad while trying to eat is so funny XD
I kinda hate her husband. The interactions between them like how they share food, how he flicks chips away from his child, how he blocks he acces to money she earns and spends his paycheck on hunting equipment and never helps with cooking or cleaning or childcare beyond "helping" by spanking his kid. Like it seems so callow and cruel to refuse to buy her clearly cold child a coat and postponing to find something cheaper second hand, because it is, but you do get the sense she' be a better happier parent apart from him with some sort of input from social service about what qualifies as "realistic" and what is actually called "abuse". She is very young too. I guess rhe thing that seems the most irreparably worrying to me is that she keeps saying "obviously i love my kid" when it isnt obvious necause she seems cold and angry and cruel and her little boy seems to be afraid of both his parents on some level (flinching) while obviously also being a little kid who wants attention and food and is attached to the only parents he knows.
Neither one of them need kids... sad
The clip where they smacked James' hand away from the food is just cruel, and forcing him to watch them eat. The one clip of him at the end of the table the poor baby was literally crying and pulling on his own hair in the restaurant something that some kids do to self soothe from overwhelming emotions or distress. He also looks so cautious of any food they give him, in some clips James looks outright scared to take food from Hannah.
Are you trying to make excuses for this woman? They're both horrible parents but that in group bias you have. Western woman ladies and gentlemen. We know the real reason why you hate him.
@@SnowieShiba😭😭
Her husband is equally guilty.
She keeps getting denied from gov't programs because she makes TOO MUCH MONEY! Gov't programs are for poor folks like myself.
Yeah I was blown away when she said that. Nurses make bank
Exactly what i was thinking. She makes like $57 an hour@phantombassist
Agreed!
I wouldn't make it without said gov't programs. People trying&scamming the system by taking the funds away from people that actually need them fucking suck.
Typical Trump voter.
To be fair; health insurance is insanely expensive these days. Most middle class family’s are struggling to afford it as well. Unless it comes with your job, it’s REALLY hard to afford.
5:46 Something that infuriates me about the coat situation is the added fact that she is a tithe-paying Mormon in Utah. If she actually couldn't buy her kid a coat, there is a welfare system within the church for those in need.
I can’t even count the number of times as a kid that I got a coat from the Mormon storehouse or a coupon to get a free coat from the DI (Deseret Industries, which is a thrift store chain owned by the church).
This shows she absolutely CAN buy that kid a coat and she is being stingy & neglectful. It's entirely her choice not to get him coat, she wasn't forced into this position by poverty.
Of course she's in the Mormon cult
Thank you!! I knew this was a thing but I've never been apart of the community so I only knew what others had told me.
Someone in the community would be happy to buy a damn $35 coat for that little guy in a minute if truly needed. Especially the church she pays $600 per month to. She doesn’t care about the child’s safety and welfare. That’s as clear as not getting prenatal care! And she’s a nurse. What a time to be alive. Wow.
Thank you! As a Utahn myself that's what I've been saying
what's the point of shortening deseret industries to DI if you just write it out right after lol ??
I need someone to feed and love on James. I love food I'm a big foodie but I would never prevent my kids from enjoying food. James doesn't deserve the treatment he's getting. Prayers for James I want his life to be better.🤞🏽 Reasons why people shouldn't put everything on the internet smh 🤦🏽♀️this situation is a hot mess.
Right? The boy doesnt need gourmet, but for christ sake, someone get that boy some dino nuggies, some ranch, and a good movie! It cannot be that hard to keep a kid fed and entertained 😢
That poor little boy, Every single time they eat in front of him, it broke my heart. He looks so sad and frustrated. It's terrible. And she called the baby " the little baby" repeatedly..I've never heard a mother call their child that.
Whether being a mother or a nurse, she does not care about other people...very tragic for the children and patients.
As a single woman with no kids, this was hard to watch. I'm childfree because I know I wouldn't be able to provide for a child the way I would want to, the way I want provided for and, to see people have kids and treat them like this is crazy. 9 out of 10 times, the baby was watching them eat like wtf
Im 51 with no kids and life is great... its waaaay too many parents that def shouldn't be...
If she forgets so much, she should create calendar reminders. I was OCD about doctors' visits when I was pregnant and with both my kids! She definitely loves the attention. Negative attention is attention. She is basically a grown child.
"I was OCD" is not a thing
As someome with actual ocd i hate seeing people like you use it as an adjective
You don't know how serious and hellish this mental disorder is
Pick me girl, just obnoxious.
You were not "OCD", you were responsible. OCD is a real mental disorder that severely impacts one's life
She forgets to call the doctor but doesn't forget to post all these videos about not being seen. So disgusting
I did social work for over 15 years. Part of my work was teaching parenting classes. People NEVER ceased to amaze me with their idiocy. Being a parent is a PRIVILEGE not a right! IMO She shouldn’t be a nurse or a mother honestly. If you’re not prepared to spend money on necessities like diapers, prenatal vitamins or prenatal care, DON’T HAVE CHILDREN. I agree that kids don’t need name brand clothing or expensive things, but they absolutely need clean diapers, a clean home, healthcare and FOOD THEY WONT CHOKE ON! That part really got me. One of the first cases I was called to at the hospital was a 3 year old choking on a SLICE of cooked carrot! I watched in absolute horror with his Mom while they repeatedly worked on that tiny child to bring him back. And sadly he was not able to be saved. It was devastating! Children are resilient yet so very fragile and precious.
I’m an RN and I love and value lvn/lpn’s, techs, and all the other medical professionals. BUT an intelligent and self aware LPN who has only worked in nursing homes would know better than to pretend they’re knowledgeable about an entirely different area of medicine they’ve never been in. Her 9 months of schooling that mainly covers performing tasks and doesn’t dive deeper into the why’s and how’s of meds, conditions, bloodwork, etc., is why someone with her limited knowledge base and lack of understanding should be questioned. And there are LVN’s (I’m in Texas) who know way more than me and have been a nurse for 40 years, BUT they also don’t misinform people about things they don’t know.
And let me add that I’ve worked with a couple of nurses who act like she does where it seems like the “nurse aesthetic” and hero complex are the only reasons they became a nurse. And in reality, they’re rarely hero’s or save anybody because they’re SO not invested in the patients, their care, or their safety that they’re the ones you wouldn’t want caring for your family members.
i live with my nephew who is two. it's not easy. i have no maternal instinct, i don't like babies.
he screams, he throws things, he has tantrums... he's a TODDLER.
but even i, someone who is chronically uncomfortable with children, would NEVER fathom treating him poorly or getting angry at him for being a toddler.
taking care of my gpa for 5 years, BEFORE i had a child, taught me alot. he would squirm around for a good while after he peed in his adult diaper, before i CLEARLY learned that it was uncomfortable AF even thought it was just pee and IDC if it “wicks” away the moisture. do YOU wanna sit in your PISS?! that mom made me so mad. i get diapers are expensive but EW, how would she have taken care of my gpa while he was mostly non verbal?…she wouldnt have. he was in a facility for a while while he was was recovering from c-diff they didnt change his diaper and he had the most SEVERE diaper rash before i realized, i ended up being there morning to night to care for him, and alot of it was just so his ass and parts didnt burn. this all makes me sick, shame on all of the moms who dont change them when they pee. SMGDMFH
Yupppp and if she’s so concerned about cost then she should do cloth diapers. I’m considering doing them when I have kids. Or at least part time like at home use cloth and regular when we’re out.
@@KassieR329cloth diapers are usually better for skin anyway.
@KassieR329 i wad going to bring up the cloth diapers did it with both of my children and it saved a ton of money. Is it work yes, but i personally think it was so worth it.
If she can't be bothered to put normal disposable nappies in the bin I doubt she'd be able to keep up with the cleaning and upkeep cloth diapers require. It's more work. It's doable. But she seems to be struggling to complete the bare minimum basics. And cost definitely isn't the limiting factor for them. Maybe it is in a way but only because of how their family operates in a toxic patriarchal way where the man gets everything and it trickles down to the wife and then the kids last. And she's apparently blissfully fine with the state of things so that's unlikely to change.
hell it's so easy to learn first hand how it feels...I'm someone with incontinence issues, especially at night. waking up is the worst feeling when I've wet. I keep towels by my bed so I can quickly dry off because it's such a bad feeling. I cannot imagine having to depend on someone else to take care of that for me.
Seeing that poor little boy just watch his parents eat in front of him made me want to cry. Growing up with food insecurity and in a dirt poor family, my mom ALWAYS made sure we had food, to the point where I didn't realize until I was an adult there are times that my mom went hungry. To BLATANTLY ignore your son while you're EATING? That breaks my fucking heart. Some people don't deserve to be the caregivers for children.
I shed some tears. Watching his father hold on to a piece of food he was trying to grab and then flicking his hands away... I could never. I've been in situations where I didn't have enough for me but I had plenty for my kids. They always eat before me. I don't understand how they could eat in front of him like that. And I can clearly see he was very hungry. They did too. They just didn't care. Those kids were born to the wrong family.
Heavy on the going hungry knowing my kids ate good❤
That part makes me cry for the little boy 😢 he is so precious
I shop at Walmart for my clothes and I did when the kids were young. Once they started junior high I started letting them buy more "fashionable" clothes. It sucks because I don't like paying 40 for pants and shirts but it makes them feel more confident so I look at it as an investment in them.
Being from Canada and actually LOVING my child, I have spent hundreds of dollars on winter gear for him at 2 years old, never did I think twice. Everytime we go out since it’s been cold I plan exactly what he’ll wear just to get in and out of the car so he’s warm and comfortable, I can’t imagine being like this
Right? My husband went out of country for work, and that place has colder winters so I made him a hat… and he’s a grown man! He didnt need that! Not giving your child proper clothes is cruel.
Right? My husband went out of country for work, and that place has colder winters so I made him a hat… and he’s a grown man! He didnt need that! Not giving your child proper clothes is cruel.
One question...where are the videos of dad and kiddos laughing & playing. Ones of kiddos being well fed? Don't worry, I'll wait... 😮
This!!
Omg this 💯😭😭
17 diapers instead of getting multiple trash cans, one for every room and having your partner take out the trash once a day is wild.
Literally, even putting them in grocery bags.
I have 6 kids my oldest 18 and youngest 2. We have diapers and wipes in EVERY room to change our stinker butt. As soon as she pees and or poops she lets you know and will make sure you change her. Potty training in progress but still Walmart is $30 for a large case of parent choice diapers like 100 or so diapers. This "nurse" is a disgrace to all of us in nursing.
How about stop throwing them on the floor. I'm sure she already had trash cans.
@@angelmiller2986 yea that part too is crazy !! And if shes gonna complain about the price of diapers, then why isnt she going reusable. Smh
@prihaps right! She's shady
My mom went into the healthcare field wanting to help people, but quickly realized that many practices focus on profit, so if a medication is more profitable than a cure, their focus will be giving out medications. So I understand her video saying she doesn’t quite agree with “the system” but I think she could of worded her perspective better, because I don’t think her view is the same that my mom ended up with. Wanting to help people, but business, poor medical education and big pharma getting in the way of doctors helping people.
This woman is antivax and against pasteurization she has nothing of worth to say about the health care system. Her nursing license should be terminated
But isn't medication the cure?! Your statement makes no sense. There is a huge issue with American healthcare but not taking care of your unborn baby cause you don't like the system is wrong & bizarre. Baby still needs care regardless your opinions.
@@GrapeCheez2 there are certain medications that target symptoms rather than the root of the issue, I think that's what they meant
fr I think it wouldve been one thing if she explained that she doesn't like the corporatization of modern day medicine and healthcare but the way she phrased it makes me think shes actually just one of those people who thinks sunscreen doesnt work and chemo is actually some government plan to kill people LMAO
@@GrapeCheez2 I may not of phrased it clearly, but yes some medication can solve the problem but others just masks it and hides the pain. I never said not caring for your baby is ok, just that I know of people who were disappointed when going into the medical field with the heart to help and assumed that everyone else felt the same. But in reality their is a large percentage of people in that line of work that do it solely for the pay and anything that gets them more money they will suggest.
For example many hospitals in my area are becoming more business driven and stopped nearly all the charity work and medical donations after massive by outs.
Or doctors prescribing medications for long periods of time when ailments can be cured by weight loss. Instead of years on medications. (Knowing that nearly no medication is without side effects)
I was a super young uneducated mom, 14 years ago. Out of all of my children they’ve never had a diaper rash unless they were on antibiotics. My last 2 have never had one diaper rash. My 2nd youngest was special needs, never walked, could only sit, and scootch a little. He spent half his life in the hospital with major problems. He took 8 meds 3xs a day, and NEVER had a diaper rash. We were POOR! But my kids all had sensitive skin and couldn’t just use any diapers. We made it work for them. We went without so our kids didn’t.
At the beginning of this I was kind of on her side but damn she’s lost me a while back.
I used to be a CNA the fact that she doesn’t change her child’s diaper is horrendous to me. I’m actually concerned for the patients she takes care of.
6:54 not changing the diaper when peeing is wild
It's not wild. It's blatantly dangerous and extremely unhealthy. She needs her nurses license revoked.
I get that diapers are expensive. But when it comes to your kids health, you need to suck it up. It isn’t just wild. It is a health issue. Sitting in your piss causes the breakdown of the skin and opens your body up to infections.
Right? As a nurse she should KNOW just how harmful this is. She clearly has never worked with children before having her own. Babies get rashes, UTIs, and even worse.
She should be forced to sit in her own pee all day.
Never mind the flinching and eating in front of the child without giving them much or any food at all not sure how no one is mentioning that?
I was understanding of the 17 diapers.. until she said she doesn’t change simply peed in diapers. That means that’s 17 either poopy or completely full to the brim diapers. Disgusting.
How can you understand 17 used diapers sitting in various places in the house?!?! That’s nasty. I’m sure she owns a trash can
31:08 I never flinched from a nonagressive movement before my abusive relationship, but I did afterwards and it took years for the involuntary reaction to stop. About a week after I got out, my friend was trying to show me something on her phone while we were walking and I flinched so hard I crouched down and touched the pavement. All I saw was a hand/arm coming at me from the corner of my eye and my body moved on instinct. My point is, it does not seem like a normal reaction from a baby when being shown something in my opinion.
You are right. My child is a bit younger, and it doesn't even think to flinch. Its just not in its little brain for someone hurting it that way.
Its so true. My father has parkisons, and inadverdently smacks into my sons face / body a lot because of the shakes. Nothing hard ever, just hand movement back and forth. He has never flinched from this, and never flinched from any other type of reaching / movement around him.
I’m 38, my mom was super abusive in multiple ways. One of them was beating up while we were asleep when she came home from work and something displeased her.
I’ve been with my partner for 4 years, not only is he the one that pointed out that I twitch and flinch even in my sleep if he moves slightly, but he’s the reason I don’t anymore. 38 and it took all this time for thst to stop.
@@ArdenBijou
You deserved better. ❤
It's not rage bait. That's just who she is as a person, we can see especially in her demeanor whenever she comes to clarify what she says. She rolls her eyes subtly every few seconds and always has this "I literally have never done that!" attitude. It's the classic highschool mean girl to nurse pipeline attitude.
just clicked on your video randomly and subscribed right away!!! you are so confident and awesome with all of the points that you were making. I can’t wait to see what other insight you have on the craziness nowadays!!
I'm sorry that her kid has a pick-me for a mum. And why were hannah and husband always seemed to be starving the way they both eating 😅
Exactly and they are the worst mothers
Right! Like where exactly is the bulk of their money going?? Are they secret cokeheads or something?
They are super weird about food. Something is definitely UP with that. Her getting a sandwich she had to share with her husband and refused to share with her son while eating it in front of him! What the frack?
I got the vibe that her and her husband don’t really enjoy having the kid around.
Nope they don't. Neither one of them seem like they actually like kids. They're just popping them out cuz I guess they feel like they have to for some odd reason.
@@Misstarynmormon probably 🤷🏽♀️
I don't blame people for being worried and calling cps especially what happened to the 8 passengers family.
When I worked as admin in healthcare we recruited nurses and we always had two types:
1) The one who would be doing it regardless of the "nurse" label. It's in their blood to be compassionate and they go above and beyond for their patients and any other people who they come across who may need help. You name it, they help it. It's not even their second nature, it's their primary nature. During COVID they worked 24/7 because it was the right thing to do.
2) The one who was very obviously only doing the job for the "nurse" label. They make a big deal about the fact they're there at all, talk about being a nurse to anyone who will listen and take every perk, discount and benifet they can get. You even get ones where they don't turn up when they're not getting enough perks. Not compassionate at all to anyone they "care" about (one of them was very proud of the fact she kicked out her 10 year old step-son). They always have some story where someone else is the asshole. You get the idea. You can guess what they did during COVID lol.
The good nurses are always running around after the bad nurses because the only reason the bad ones would be hired is because we needed x amount of nurses on duty. I bet the staff who work with her fucking hate her.
So yeah, unfotunately just because a person is a nurse doesn't mean they are a good person. We need to really scrutinise any person who is going to be in a position of power over vulnerable people. The worst of the worst go in to these types of jobs on purpose.
I been sitting here wondering why shes got a frog attached to her wall and just put my glasses on and realised its a drone... 😂😅
Im sorry but the kid sitting ther crying bc hes not getting food is genuinely saddening, like when i grew up my family always shared meals, it was part of yk bonding but also bc i was a curious kid who always wanted to try stuff even if i didnt like it, and if i didnt like whatever food my family was getting theyd get me something else that they knew i liked, tbh i think shes ignoring him for rage bait bc like they know if they dont feed him people will be mad
For real, the husband hitting his hand away from getting food or putting the food near his mouth and then taking it away……
So horrible …. It’s insane that she thought there was nothing wrong with this to be included in her video. I hope CPS is involved
She is a disgusting mother. The poor kid has to watch them eat!? Wtf kinda torture is that. My dad used to tell me i was fat and he would get my brother food and make me watch him eat.
fatcdo?
Your dad is evil. Ew.
Food and he* I'm a fast typer with poor fixing skills lol
The kid watching them eat with them not giving a flying care is truly heartbreaking 😢. My kids are 12 & 9; I only eat after they eat. I feel guilty eating if they haven’t eaten. I even sacrifice my morning coffee and make their breakfast first before I sit down to enjoy my cup. What’s wrong with that woman? Did she not want to have those kids?!!
I could understand that they're not allowing the kid to eat directly from their plates, I can even understand that they don't want their babies to eat the same things they're eating (because those are not healthy at all and might be too spicy for a child), but they could order or make him his own food. Their son is crying watching his parents eat, he looks hungry, so feed him!
I first saw Hannah on Facebook because I’m a medical staff and I find content from other medical staff interesting. This was far before the whole 17 diapers situation. I didn’t like her less than a month after seeing any of her content because I saw SEVERAL instances of her fucking up medpass at her job. I pass meds at my own job and she has horrible habits for medpass. I watched her several times dump a pill or two from the bottle into the cap to then dump them in the pill cup - and they didn’t make it into the med cup but she just didn’t check and didn’t notice so she moved on.
I WATCHED HER make SEVERAL med errors because she didn’t double check a damn thing. Who knows what meds they were and the potential consequences of that. It rubbed me the wrong way deeply so much that I showed my fiancé and ranted about it. Once the 17 diapers thingy happened and I realized it was her I reminded my fiancé and she remembered me bringing this up and showing her fucking up the medpasses. My fiancé is an LPN new grad who has done CNA work for almost 2 years by the way.
Long story short, there are soooooo many reasons I don’t respect her as a nurse/mother/content creator/person.
-irresponsible nursing habits
-irresponsible medical staff content
-child neglect
-child abuse
In good news, watching parents shadowbox their confused children is hilarious and it’s been sending me for over a week now 😂
“Momma doesn’t play with nap time”, but she won’t buy her child a coat for winter, or share her food with him, doesn’t supervise him when he’s sitting in a chair. Not playing with nap time doesn’t redeem the many other poor parenting choices you make.
This is the best video I’ve seen on this woman so far, you share a lot of clips I haven’t seen yet. Also, the woman’s voice is like nails on a chalk board ,like really badly.
Wow, it was bad for my mental health just to listen to this woman's point of view so I'm going to tap out. I'm exhausted even thinking of how much she's oversharing her life constantly to everyone, not even getting into the content of what she's saying she does and doesn't do. Incredible that you compiled all this, it's exhausting.
I feel you, chicken...
The amount of anxiety I feel towards my future kids, when I’m not even a mother or pregnant, has me baffled at how moms can be abusive. Like, I’d be worried about miscarriage, SIDS, whooping cough, etc. Things that arent even in my control, let alome the things SHE is neglecting to make her kids life worse. Absolutely astounding.
I had my oldest daughter very very young and I didn’t take any prenatal vitamins at all and it’s been one of my BIGGEST REGRETS… my poor daughter has severe autism, so many different mental health issues, as well as other things… and I have always linked it at least partially to not taking my vitamins. With my other children I did and they have no issues. PLZ TAKE YOUR VITAMINS AND GET PRENATAL CARE. It’s vital to your health and your baby’s.
Don’t blame yourself, my daughter is autistic and I spent hundreds on fancy vitamins and fish oil when I was pregnant.
Sending your child to nap while hungry is Nasty work!!
20:20 that is disgustibg when you know how infrequently she changes them and only for “poops”. The only diaper I might forget and leave out is a pee diaper :/ who just lets feces hang out
What's especially alarming is she's a nurse and is trained on all the ways sitting in urine is dangerous. I know she knows this because of Medicare laws. A nurse can lose their license if they allow a patient to sit in urine and the hospital is heavily sanctioned by Medicare and HHS
I completely agreed with those stating it looks like their abusing James. The body language speaks volumes in just the short videos
This is wrong on so many levels. Everytime i decide to get food outside and my kids are with me, I always order their own plate or get a bigger portion to share with my kids. Even if they've just finished daycare and they've already eaten, I'd feel bad just buying food for only myself and have my kids watch me eat. I don't care if my kids need a nap, I have to make sure they eat something before they sleep, or if they sleep before their lunch, I'll have lunch ready for them as soon as they wake up. This is so heart breaking and I pray Little James gets the justice he needs 🙏🏾
I get it. It’s expensive to see a doc without insurance. It’s expensive to get prenatal visits WITH insurance. But if you’re allowing yourself to get pregnant and you care about the baby’s health or your own health, why wouldn’t you be going in? Sometimes it’s cheaper to self pay anyway.
This reminds me of when it is said that male bullies go on to have police and military careers, while female bullies tend to follow nursing careers. I think it is very telling she is a nurse but does not believe in medicine. My thoughts are with the children.
My grandma was trying to reason with my 2 y/o nephew. She told him "Eat another bite and you can have a cherry." He goes "No just chewwies" She goes "Then I'll eat the damn cherry." And he goes "No I'll eat the damn chewwie." Its was absolutely hilarious.
She said she didn’t change her kid’s diapers after one pee, but she has 17 diapers laying around?!
And they're ON the coffee table 😭
@@qryptid@qryptid RIGHT, like next to the changing station at the bed is one thing, but your kids are gonna be playing and eating at the coffee table!! E-coli, hepatitis A, pink eye, typhoid.. like HELLO???
Its the wipes that get me. At least a diaper is wrapped up into itself. A presumably used wipe just laying there covered in waste? Eeeeuuughhh.
Its the wipes that get me. At least a diaper is wrapped up into itself. A presumably used wipe just laying there covered in waste? Eeeeuuughhh.
It's crazy how these women will call CPS/DCS over bs and suspicion, but I'm fairly confident they wouldn't dare make a call if they thought someone was dealing with domestic violence. You never hear about others calling in due to their suspicion of domestic violence. It's the same concept. Double standard.
its always especially upsetting seeing mothers like this, knowing there are people in this world who would give everything they have to be a parent. incredible video, thank you for touching on a topic like this, child exploitation is so bad with social media, and without videos like these, these creators go unchecked and don't see the wrong in what they're doing.