did everyone just forget that pretty much every government locked down their citizens during this time ? is the brain fog from the experimental injections really that bad for you guys ?
4 years of my life, gone in vain, my friends are on their to become army officers, some are happily pursuing engineering, today i am nothing but a failed dropper who can't even score around 50/300 in JEE, majority of my time has gone in vain in my own confusion and lack of clarity, not sticking to one plan, giving up too soon, I just want my mind to be stable for once so i can do something which will yield me something
Bhai don't worry jo ho gya so ho ga. Look forward. Aapka agar engineering mei interest hai toh private college mei admission le lo waha jaake apne skills pe work karna yaar aap acha karoge.
I am an 18 y/o. By listening to you and reading many of the comments I am understanding how ppl have wasting their prime years. I can learn a lot from all of you so that I don't do these in my 20s
I have wasted my life for 6 years straight like my comment so i will get back some day when i really achieved something I am working for it started recently
I wasted my 4 years on phone didnt complet thecollege now i dont focus on past focus on present and making my present Better so my future would be automatically better And forgeted past but not lessons
Only three years ? I wasted 13 years. Now i am standing on my feet. But learned a lot from this. Only you are your friend in this world. None, not even your parents are there for you if you fall, typical middle class. In villages there will be support system, but in middle class sarkari naukri wala families zero support system.
I wasted my graduation coz I wasn't happy with my college,now it's 2nd year I'm preparing for Government exams.... I feel like I wasted my 5-6 years...but if I get the job it won't seem a waste🙂.... also no one supports me in my family...but I'll be best version of myself this last three months.... I'll be financially stable.
hi , i've also wasted my 3 years in neet prep ,in which i wasn;t so passionate about.. trying to please others, in the end to realise that no body cares
Avoid any kind relationship weather you are boy or girl. Only focus on yourself be selfish for yourself. In 20 - 30yr your whole life will get decided that how you are going to spend rest 40yrs of your life. Never think that you have time, believe me when you start thinking to achieve something in your life you will come to know how HARD it is and you will fail many times. And after every failure it will be more harder to achieve. So you need full focus and after achievement you will be happy for yourself. Trust me you will be happy
@@kesinenimanorama8399 give yourself 5yr timeframe, plan each year what you are going to achieve in year 1, year 2, year 3 and so on. Make monthly and weekly goal in order to track yourself. Your 1st year will be hard but you will be more disciplined.
Bro I'm 20 year 😢 but believe me some time I'm very depressed 😢😢 Becuz how much and unexplained my personal life's problems 😢😢 No one can understand 😢😢😢
I wasted 3 years of my life as well for banking prep. I cleared mains, but couldn't clear the interviews. Lost selection by minute differences, like 1.5 and so marks. When I went in the outside world, I saw how much I was actually improved. I took a huge risk, couldn't make much out of it, still, I lost all the failure complexes I had. I became a much better version of myself. Turned out, although I couldn't achieve the final aim, but the journey goes on until success is achieved. I got to know I was something, where, prior to prep journey, I was buried by the crooked world thinking I won't be anything in life. Even today, I haven't achieved a lot, but it the journey doesn't stop. I'll try to live my life to the full human potential.
Hey, what's ur age now. Are u eligible for banking exam? If yes, I can help u in cracking them. M already in a bank and would love to help you, if I could
@@sabaimran3389I'm preparing for bank exams and I'm gonna give those exams later this year. Can you suggest me something about preparation? It would be very helpful thanks.
I really don't get it, Why do we have to waste that time and go through this painful regret While there are people who are So dedicated and disciplined at their very young age.. 💔 My wasted time is literally suffocating me.. I wish I could go back and change the Past.. Really 💔
You can't learn from your mistakes until you accept your mistake and regret your previous decisions. Regret is important. Now you can spend some more years regretting or regret for sometime and start putting the hard work in that is required - there lies the difference.
Wow man you are great, for admitting these things.. I wish you all the success in life. Iam three years younger than you. I have wasted one year of my life, but now onwards i will not..❣️
I wasted a few years of my life drinking and now I focus on books, literature and artwork. It's the only time I'm happy. My 5 favorite Amazon purchases: - Icon by Frank Frazetta - Scream of Eagles by Robert Wilcox - The Joy of Art by Carolyn Schram - 7x7x7 SpeedCube (rubic's cube) - Great Fighter Jets of the Galaxy 1 by Tim Gibson
My whole life was a waste 😂jokes apart I'm honest I've realised it. And Today i was just feeling very low, that i have nobody, just to realise i am nobody. Feelings/people/problems will come and go but what matters is how you dealt with it. ¹ whether you blamed yourself for being nobody sitting in the corner. ² By simply working/doing/committing in what matters the most, feeling sad okay what's next there's no one okayy what's next, just not letting anything stop you or come between your goals. Don't stay still my friend
When you learn a valuable lesson which causes an important shift in life then it cannot be considered a waste of time. Life is long enough to repeatedly make mistakes and bounce back.
Thank you. I am a 16 year old boy. You are absolutely right about using time in a productive way. I remember 3 years back from now, during lock down I was a game addict in my ps4 I used to spend half of my day in that, later on I gradually stopped gaming completely and I switched into music 🎶 (playing the piano), later on my time of playing the ps4 was replaced by the time of practicing the piano and now this skill is really very helpful for me because I used my time in an effective way, currently I am preparing for JEE so I don't get much time to practice the piano but, anyways I know how precious time is, my mom also helped me to get get out of my game addiction. Before gaming I used to read a lot of books, draw and do many other activities which are in use for me now. Once again thanks bro👍👍
yt is getting personal I also wasted my 3years being stuck in my house bc of social anxiety and academic failures. Edit : i still don't know what to do but after reading so many comments i realised I'm not the only one who's suffering from this.
Same with me bro...I also have some social anxiety, I'm introvert with low confidence.... It's hard to work outside world but this time I decided to learn communication through course and build confidence 😊
I recommend you two books to read 1)the courage to be dislike 2) TThe mountain is you. It is really good and I benefited from it,you will find your solution there.
@@ruhi7856thanks for your suggestion..coz I'm also going with social anxiety. I have fear of going out from home... dealing with lot of traumas... I'm definitely gonna read this and pls suggest me more books.
Thank you so much bhai, I'm 27 years and this video literally opened my eyes, and now I treat my time like the most important thing, don't misuse it by roaming with friends or doing any unproductive things.
I know it's difficult, I also went through this phase...but we have to take charge of our life. We still can do things and change our lives completely!
I've wasted my time from 2009-2013. Quit my first job for almost 2 years, then went for higher studies in 2 different schools from mid 2009 to mid 2010. Then for some stupid reason, I quit my studies and ended up doing nothing from mid 2010 to late 2011. Then went back to the workforce and got a job from late 2011 going to mid 2012, then quit the job again. Had a hard time finding another job, then finally found one in early 2013 and now work is life since then. 🤣 For me, this experience is both positive and negative. For negative side, I wasted a lot of time and also money because I didn't finish school. More or less wasted 2-3 years. Maybe I was young and I didn't know what I'm doing in life and I'm just exploring. For the positive side, I was able to rest and have some time-off. Having a job right now and having all these responsibilities, it's non-stop. So I'm thankful that I have those gap years or sabbatical years in between because I will never have the opportunity to do so again until I retire. Thank you for this video, I was able to share my journey and I now know I'm not the only one who experienced this.
Tuberculosis wasted 3 years of my life...(NEET ASPIRANT)..🥲🙃21yrs old right now...stressed depressed!!!...na health sahi ho rhihe na career... confidence ki to dhachiya ur gyi he
@@Sam..2000 MBBS k alawa kisi chiz me mn nhihe bhai..is saal Bsc k saath partial drop karungi..pr krna to MBBS hi he...vrna zindagi bhar roti rahungi..💔...
i am soo happy how people are helping each other out and also i wnat to share a story of a guy who was my classmate who used to be dumb guy (chapri kind) he used demand her mother for bike ns200 and told his mother that he will not go to school until his mom buy him that bike in his crucial year of class 10th and his mom used to do work in hospital as a sweeper however his mother managed to buy him a bike but he lost his time 10 board were completed so he left school and he wwnt to dipression for about 3 months and after 3 month he again came back and stared going to a small job(driving lorry) and now he grow verry well that he has a iPhone, r15 and a bolero now he goes for pickup drop for senior manager to his office so by this i say one thing as krishna said there is no end but always a new beginning so guys jo hua so hua focus on future the more you fail the more you get success
This video resonates with me so well because I went through a similar experience after graduating. I spent a year feeling lost and not making much progress, and looking back, I regret it. Your journey back on track is inspiring, and even though it's been a while since you posted this video, I truly hope you're experiencing great success now. Keep pushing forward!
2016 was final year, he used to wake up, hang out with friends, smoking, he wants us to learn how you can use your time effectively, sit down and write how much time and where you are spending it everyday.
Wasted my time since moving to family's new home after graduation in 2020, which happens to be pandemic. Real isolation in unfamiliar place, time just passed like breeze. Although I'm grateful for the journey I had, I know this can't be all life has to offer. I know there's something beyond here. I'm going for it, moving on.
Guys I'll share my story aswell, I was really focused individual with dicipline and I didn't use social media as well...but my downfall started when I went to a relationship just to be like everyone, "Dating", "Losing the V-Card", "Exploring" and all the BS going on now-way-days. I don't think that recovery is possible after the hell that I went through. But it surely ruined my mental health, future and wasted my prime years of 20's which I'll never get back. So all the single and diciplined guys out there, don't fall for all this kind of BS because it'll surely derail you from the tracks of your and your family's hopes and dreams
Thanks dude..I m too facing this... everyone in my friend circle has lost their v card..and it kinda irritates me... but yeah I m 20 ..focusing on myself
I have wasted 3 years of my life doing things that didn't work out for me. Now, I am working in a job I never dreamed of. I am going to make some big decisions. It can change my life in good ways if it succeeds or make it worse if it fails. Wish me good luck, guys.
Your age?...I also wasted 3 years doing nothing...and when this year I got serious now I got fascinated towards film industry from last week, thought are not going away...I think I'm getting distracted...do let tell me if you have same
Hanging out friends and girl friend is not a waste of time 😃 you live only once. running behind money is not a success scale. Thinking of spending time with friends as waste and regretting for that is the most stupidest thing that one can imagine of! I think you will learn that with time!
This is true to an extent, but you have to realize that spending time with friends / being (always) happy is not the only goal in life. We can be happy in the short term but twice as sad 3 years later when we realize what the spent time could've bought us.
Friends and Girlfriends you can get anytime in your life during your prime years( 30 years) if you waste your learning years then it's gone , now I'm 21 years now I'm regretting for being a playful kid during degree and school days ,
@sakacocox267 lol Your friends will go to job or Be nonsense things also your gf have to leave you if you don't get successful many women marry for getting divorce taking kids she gains half of your lifelong earning and kids also your inherited property if it's on your mothers name as well so that she can repeat that thing put your kif on orphange and enjoy life or brag about being single moms and The media also portray them as heroes earlier many men used to not respect relationship today women don't men do but one difference between men and women is you don't know who the hel the dad of your baby is women knows she doesn't need any DNA test but we need it So better don't get married Stay single and raise orphan kids instead the kids might not be yours
Was a bright student Scored 96 percent in 10th boards 11th std lockdown started Online classes + overconfidence + lack of discipline ruined me 12th 83 percent very disappointing Wasted 1st neet drop Rn in my 2nd drop hope I clear this time
Hey i think i lnow how you friend make 4lakhs per month First he crack IES exam then he left his post and start giving coaching avoid how to crack ies,ias etc exam Today education is just a business
No time is a waste in life. Everything is an experience. Life is not profit and loss it's an experience. You will never loose it's not money that you will loose something. Life is an experience and we will have good and bad memories with us. That's life.
After graduation, I had lots of free time. I spent that time on just hanging out, sleeping and most vicious of all, scrolling on my phone. It took the toll of 3 years from my life. Whereas, my neighbor batch mate used that time of 3 years in preparing for competitive exam. Now he is an IES officer and earns 4 lakh per month. And who am I? Nobody. I am not comparing myself with anyone. I am just telling you how much you can achieve, what you can do with your time. Your success really depends a lot upon how exactly you use your time. So, it was a very painful realization for me and now I use my time very effectively You see two people living in the same place in the same atmosphere but big difference in their success and outcomes on the basis of how they use their time. This is why you should definitely become serious of your time. On every Sunday, I write on a piece of paper and keep track of how much time I dedicated to my studies, how much time I wasted on distractions. Guys, keep grinding and don't stop.
I completed my B.E.Mechanical degree program in India in July 2006. Later I finished my M.E.Oil and Gas degree program in Australia in December 2009. I am unemployed till date. I have already wasted 14.5 years of my life. I'm aged 39 today. Never Married. My hardwork hasn't paid off yet unfortunately!
I wasted 4 year of my life to convey and cares about parents instead of self study.at last outcome what amount of money given to family.so i learnt that first make own career to settle of your life.emotion and respect ka value nahi hoti but paise kamane wale ki value hota hai real life me.
wasting my 3rd year..completed 12th in 2021, and dropped out from college after 1st sem in jan 2023...trying my best to forget about past and focus on future/present. tried doing some internships, but i was not lucky to get a dood one, wasted months living like a depressed guy in my room...but good part is, i am trying to grow in life, doing a job, where i am not at all happy but still.. and saving money to start something with my own money. Hope we all succeed in life, one day :)
😂 I'm not father of 2 and younger than you . Just 22 . But my advice is easy . Just do anything you like now drive from there 😊❤ that will give you clear path .
i wasted my 6 years . Now i realise , my all cousins and friends earning very good but me😢. I completed BTech in 2022 but i never concentrate on study . My life now sucks , everyday i feel frustrated why i did not done anything , why i did not learn any skills . It kills me everyday every minute every second💔
Our online life really interferes with our personal life. We share our shit online every now, and then to strangers who don't even care about what we like, or want. I've never been interested in studies if I'm being honest, I used to be a bright student, but now I've lost interest in engineering, and other stuff. I was into game-dev back then, but yeah that's that. I found music to be the career that I want to pursue because I love music, it's something that I actually love to do, and work with. Of course I'm not a professional player yet, but if I put in the work I will be. Parents are supportive, I just gotta clear grade 12, and do whatever I want to. So there's that.
I wasted 3 years of my life at university and didn't even get a degree at the end of it, hated every second and everything to do with my course. I only learned one thing... never to dedicate so much of yourself to something that you hate.
I've wasted my 3 years doing nothing but im trying to get back its not that easy to get back from a comfort zone but I'm trying one day hope to get back to this video if someone likes this
I have waster every year since 2020, prior to that I used to read, program, do quizes, basically amuse people with my general knowledge in almost everything. Then pandemic came, I have been in shit ever since.
Being the topper of 9 Districts in Haryana 12th sci 2017. I have wasted my 7 years Just because of Mobile Addiction eventually got some diseases! Got job in Haryana Group D 2019. Still i feel i have nothing 😢 because i could have done far better like clearing Neet JEE etc. Now(2024) I have decided to fight back to bounce back to show The World who i am who i was Inshallah! 💪! Like the comment Pleae as when i will read it again i will be reminded what i have sweared!
Mera bhi school ke baad 2023. Barbad hogya clg admission liya tha but examm form nhi bhara nd poora year waste hogya same 2024 mai ho rha mere life kyu mere sath itna bura kar rhi hai 💔🙂
I wasted my 2 years iam a neet aspirant i am from a government college so after class 12 final exams i started preparing for neet i only studied for 1 day then i scored 7 marks (7/720) then my parents asked me to join in a institute but i said i will study at home by watching classes on RUclips but it was a disaster i only studied for a week at start then i addicted to anime I watched literally 150+animes in six months then i bought a course on unacedemy for 5000 i found it on RUclips and bought it then again i only studied for a week then i started reading webcomics then again iam addicted to webcomics i didn't study a single day i became so overconfident i kept postponed the study in blink of an eye may 5th neet exam i don't know anything not even a single lesson i scored 78 marks (7 to 78)then one of my friend said about bsc nutrition i joined without thinking after a month i understand this not what I want then i quits my college now iam here posting this comment my parents cried because of me i regret it so much now next year iam going do mbbs in abroad by taking education loan Time is something we can't waste i regret it now
Well all the human beings can't become the person who we consider as a successful human , so in my opinion we should identify what we like to do and do that only even if it is not considered as successful.
Same here. I also wasted a huge chunk of my life, almost 5 yrs. I mostly blame others or the circumstances I am in. I recently stopped doing that. And trust me, you're not that old. If you try from now on, you will gain skills and definitely become a better person 1-2 years later. "Just start where you are, do what you can, and use what you have." 😀
@@priyasonwani5341 I'm so happy for you. So, I am currently 19. But I'll also be 20 in a few months. If you don't mind me asking, How did you land a job so early? Is it like an internship? Or freelance? Because people don't get jobs so early on their careers. I'm curious and I want to earn some money too.
I have seen a lot of videos like this, this motivation is very right and useless too, nothing happens with motivational videos, until our mind itself tells us that brother, now a lot of time has been wasted, it is time to do something different in life. Discipline is such a thing that will make us do everything, if a soldier-like discipline comes in our life, then we can do anything in our life. Mobile phone is the dirtiest addiction, it destroyed people, it wasted a lot of my time too. I have a lot to say but there is no use.🙂
Are yaar ab mera yt a feed bhot mature hogya hai bhot badhiya content aarahai hai
@@QuizWave594 ye batye batai nhi jatai 🥲 har jage
@@Pranjal_____Prakash___ . Ok bro
@@QuizWave594 are bhi delete kardiya 😂 ye to har ghaki khani hai
@@Pranjal_____Prakash___ . kar diya bhai 😅😂😂
Same bhai...
Wasted 2021-23..however thats in the past, i've learnt from it now gradually progressing towards succes. we can do it guys.
Same here....
True we can do it and we will do it.
same here.. I got many health problems
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did everyone just forget that pretty much every government locked down their citizens during this time ? is the brain fog from the experimental injections really that bad for you guys ?
“Your success depends on how you use your time.”
100%
what is success?
@@khoirulanam9141money ,fame ,empire..
@@khoirulanam9141 DEPENDS UPON INDIVIDUAL
No brother... Money also matters...
Eat 5 star do nothing
I made a lot of mistakes in my 20s but as now I turned 30 I'm all geared up to be the best 👍💯 version of myself..
Good luck ✌️
Good luck mate. In my mid 20s. Regretting a lot, I hope I'll learn something and do better now
Me toooo
Bacche hue kya
@@Arpit.Patel_7 no I'm unmarried
4 years of my life, gone in vain, my friends are on their to become army officers, some are happily pursuing engineering, today i am nothing but a failed dropper who can't even score around 50/300 in JEE,
majority of my time has gone in vain in my own confusion and lack of clarity, not sticking to one plan, giving up too soon,
I just want my mind to be stable for once so i can do something which will yield me something
Hello bhai abhi april m paper kab Hai
Lets talk
@@mohitsahu8431 if he has spent 4 years already, him appearing for JEE kind of sounds fishy.
Bhai don't worry jo ho gya so ho ga. Look forward. Aapka agar engineering mei interest hai toh private college mei admission le lo waha jaake apne skills pe work karna yaar aap acha karoge.
Chakra meditation karo mind stable ho jaega.brahmakumari join krlo waha b shanti milegi
how many drop you took?
I am an 18 y/o. By listening to you and reading many of the comments I am understanding how ppl have wasting their prime years. I can learn a lot from all of you so that I don't do these in my 20s
Good luck❤
🙁 am 27 😟
Konsa elon musk ban jayega. Chill kar😂😂😂
@@jinfin221😂
I am 17 y/o and given 12th boards in commerce stream this year and now too much confused about my career that what should I do next 😢😢
I have wasted my life for 6 years straight like my comment so i will get back some day when i really achieved something
I am working for it started recently
How old are you bro?
Bro is 7@@yashror4844
Me to 6 years
@@yashror4844 26 🥲
Me aslo bro
Sometimes losing teaches you much more then winning.
I wasted my 4 years on phone didnt complet thecollege now i dont focus on past focus on present and making my present Better so my future would be automatically better
And forgeted past but not lessons
Only three years ? I wasted 13 years. Now i am standing on my feet. But learned a lot from this. Only you are your friend in this world. None, not even your parents are there for you if you fall, typical middle class. In villages there will be support system, but in middle class sarkari naukri wala families zero support system.
UPSC
😢😢😢
even i have wasted 3 years in social media by juat earning 10-12k per month ..i really wanted to study now so i need take 1 year coaching
How u earned by social media
Your earning good in 3 years you can't waste time because you are many things learn on this duration
I wasted 26 years anna, just started my life after i meet with sadhguru last year.
What he say you ?
Last year i did my inner engineering course. Since then my life has been beautiful only.
@@cbisumlovely Anna. It's beautiful to be in a Spiritual path
Sadhguru is fraud bro. Listen to Shankaracharya
lol u are a loser
I also wasted my life doing nothing for about 2 years
What was your age at that time?
Same
@@arslannaeem9570 it's 18 years old
4 years 😂😂 bhai mine
@@ANTIREDICALMANhow
The way you accept your mistakes infront of so many people🙌🙌🙌
i wasted my 2+ years ( 2022 (JEE + 12th class)-2023( drop year)) still i am wasting and trying to over come from mobile addiction
Same bro now i have to go to a private collage. I am now trying to focus and develop discipline
mobile addiction is so real my screen time is 18 plus hours
@@rainydecember6784 are u alive ?
@@sukumarsawant im a zombie
@@rainydecember6784 Welcome to our world bro
I wasted my graduation coz I wasn't happy with my college,now it's 2nd year I'm preparing for Government exams.... I feel like I wasted my 5-6 years...but if I get the job it won't seem a waste🙂.... also no one supports me in my family...but I'll be best version of myself this last three months.... I'll be financially stable.
I understand
Best of liluck
I completed my graduation in 2022 . Now i have been doing nothing...
Only Khao , hago , sojao
😂😂😂
Uss bhai uss 😂😂
Are bhai 😂😂😂😂
Ye zindagi meri bhi thi pehle. Fir gand faar di zindagi ne
Us, mera 2021 tha tho
hi , i've also wasted my 3 years in neet prep ,in which i wasn;t so passionate about.. trying to please others, in the end to realise that no body cares
I agree with you now what next?
Glad you realised it
Let this teach u the biggest lesson in life and don't do stupid stuff like this anymore
24 me bimar hua tha 28 ka hogya hu kuch nhi kar paya 4 sal me health ab bhi thik nhi hai bhgwan itna bura na kro
Kisliye tension me rahte ho bhai 😢
Bhai 1 saal se mujhe prob h aur incurable disease hai main bhi pareshan hu
@@KaranBhil-zt9qm Bhai Sadi kr lo fir
@@KaranBhil-zt9qm acha bhai konsi bimari apko jo incurable hai
Jab tk bhagwan k bharose rhoge tab Tak tumhara bura hi hoga
Avoid any kind relationship weather you are boy or girl. Only focus on yourself be selfish for yourself.
In 20 - 30yr your whole life will get decided that how you are going to spend rest 40yrs of your life.
Never think that you have time, believe me when you start thinking to achieve something in your life you will come to know how HARD it is and you will fail many times. And after every failure it will be more harder to achieve.
So you need full focus and after achievement you will be happy for yourself.
Trust me you will be happy
But i wasted 20-30 now I an 30
@@kesinenimanorama8399 give yourself 5yr timeframe, plan each year what you are going to achieve in year 1, year 2, year 3 and so on.
Make monthly and weekly goal in order to track yourself.
Your 1st year will be hard but you will be more disciplined.
Bro I'm 20 year 😢 but believe me some time I'm very depressed 😢😢
Becuz how much and unexplained my personal life's problems 😢😢
No one can understand 😢😢😢
@@sunnati_____ just type your problem I will try my best to resolve, I am 31yrs old and seen many phases in my as well as in my friend Circle life
@@sachinpandey8488 I am 17 and Just completed 12th I am much confused that what should I do next ? 😔
I wasted 3 years of my life as well for banking prep. I cleared mains, but couldn't clear the interviews. Lost selection by minute differences, like 1.5 and so marks. When I went in the outside world, I saw how much I was actually improved. I took a huge risk, couldn't make much out of it, still, I lost all the failure complexes I had. I became a much better version of myself. Turned out, although I couldn't achieve the final aim, but the journey goes on until success is achieved. I got to know I was something, where, prior to prep journey, I was buried by the crooked world thinking I won't be anything in life. Even today, I haven't achieved a lot, but it the journey doesn't stop. I'll try to live my life to the full human potential.
Cause thats what it is all about. Stay strong brother❤
You are in a better place....
Dont call those 3 years a waste :)
Hey, what's ur age now. Are u eligible for banking exam? If yes, I can help u in cracking them. M already in a bank and would love to help you, if I could
@@sabaimran3389I'm preparing for bank exams and I'm gonna give those exams later this year. Can you suggest me something about preparation? It would be very helpful thanks.
16 y/o jee aspirant here.
thanks for this video. really opened my eyes.
thank you so much.
I really don't get it, Why do we have to waste that time and go through this painful regret While there are people who are So dedicated and disciplined at their very young age.. 💔 My wasted time is literally suffocating me.. I wish I could go back and change the Past.. Really 💔
You can't learn from your mistakes until you accept your mistake and regret your previous decisions. Regret is important. Now you can spend some more years regretting or regret for sometime and start putting the hard work in that is required - there lies the difference.
First accept the reality and be happy about it ..because with this attitude of suffocation u can't move forward....
You can't go back in time to change your past. But you can definitely start from now and change the future
Same.....i killed my dream of getting into my dream collage and now I can't do anything about it.
Regret is good thing,it is telling you to change and do whatever is in your hand.
Great bro ... I've seen many of your videos and they give too much clarity for life ..
Wow man you are great, for admitting these things.. I wish you all the success in life. Iam three years younger than you. I have wasted one year of my life, but now onwards i will not..❣️
Thumbnail dekh ke socha u prepared for upsc 😂
Same here😂
Lekin video Achcha tha😊😁👍🏻
I thought for banking 😂
Pehele se kyon sochke aatha he re
It's a bad habit
Deduction
😂😂😂😂
I wasted a few years of my life drinking and now I focus on books, literature and artwork. It's the only time I'm happy.
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- Icon by Frank Frazetta
- Scream of Eagles by Robert Wilcox
- The Joy of Art by Carolyn Schram
- 7x7x7 SpeedCube (rubic's cube)
- Great Fighter Jets of the Galaxy 1 by Tim Gibson
Suggest me more good books.(Non fictional & for beginners)
My whole life was a waste 😂jokes apart I'm honest I've realised it. And Today i was just feeling very low, that i have nobody, just to realise i am nobody. Feelings/people/problems will come and go but what matters is how you dealt with it. ¹ whether you blamed yourself for being nobody sitting in the corner. ² By simply working/doing/committing in what matters the most, feeling sad okay what's next there's no one okayy what's next, just not letting anything stop you or come between your goals. Don't stay still my friend
So, you are a looser??
When you learn a valuable lesson which causes an important shift in life then it cannot be considered a waste of time. Life is long enough to repeatedly make mistakes and bounce back.
Agree
Rookie numbers. I've wasted more than 12 yrs due to procrastination.
Thank you. I am a 16 year old boy. You are absolutely right about using time in a productive way. I remember 3 years back from now, during lock down I was a game addict in my ps4 I used to spend half of my day in that, later on I gradually stopped gaming completely and I switched into music 🎶 (playing the piano), later on my time of playing the ps4 was replaced by the time of practicing the piano and now this skill is really very helpful for me because I used my time in an effective way, currently I am preparing for JEE so I don't get much time to practice the piano but, anyways I know how precious time is, my mom also helped me to get get out of my game addiction. Before gaming I used to read a lot of books, draw and do many other activities which are in use for me now. Once again thanks bro👍👍
yt is getting personal I also wasted my 3years being stuck in my house bc of social anxiety and academic failures.
Edit : i still don't know what to do but after reading so many comments i realised I'm not the only one who's suffering from this.
Same with me bro...I also have some social anxiety, I'm introvert with low confidence.... It's hard to work outside world but this time I decided to learn communication through course and build confidence 😊
@@satinshah2594 all the best bro hope you do well:)
I recommend you two books to read 1)the courage to be dislike 2) TThe mountain is you.
It is really good and I benefited from it,you will find your solution there.
@@ruhi7856 thank you for the recommendation:)
@@ruhi7856thanks for your suggestion..coz I'm also going with social anxiety. I have fear of going out from home... dealing with lot of traumas... I'm definitely gonna read this and pls suggest me more books.
Thank you so much bhai, I'm 27 years and this video literally opened my eyes, and now I treat my time like the most important thing, don't misuse it by roaming with friends or doing any unproductive things.
I know it's difficult, I also went through this phase...but we have to take charge of our life. We still can do things and change our lives completely!
You just saved our time man. So thank you for that
I've wasted my time from 2009-2013. Quit my first job for almost 2 years, then went for higher studies in 2 different schools from mid 2009 to mid 2010. Then for some stupid reason, I quit my studies and ended up doing nothing from mid 2010 to late 2011. Then went back to the workforce and got a job from late 2011 going to mid 2012, then quit the job again. Had a hard time finding another job, then finally found one in early 2013 and now work is life since then. 🤣
For me, this experience is both positive and negative. For negative side, I wasted a lot of time and also money because I didn't finish school. More or less wasted 2-3 years. Maybe I was young and I didn't know what I'm doing in life and I'm just exploring. For the positive side, I was able to rest and have some time-off. Having a job right now and having all these responsibilities, it's non-stop. So I'm thankful that I have those gap years or sabbatical years in between because I will never have the opportunity to do so again until I retire.
Thank you for this video, I was able to share my journey and I now know I'm not the only one who experienced this.
Didn't you family members stopped you & what you are doing right now & how much you are earning?
Tuberculosis wasted 3 years of my life...(NEET ASPIRANT)..🥲🙃21yrs old right now...stressed depressed!!!...na health sahi ho rhihe na career... confidence ki to dhachiya ur gyi he
I understand brother
@filmymellamovies konsa exam de rheho?..
@filmymellamovies dropper ho???
@filmymellamovies which drop?...and kahase preparation ki thi...
@@Sam..2000 MBBS k alawa kisi chiz me mn nhihe bhai..is saal Bsc k saath partial drop karungi..pr krna to MBBS hi he...vrna zindagi bhar roti rahungi..💔...
You can still achieve a lot in life start asap the right thing
my habits were even worse and i am still trying to get rid off'em , good to see more people in the same phase
more power to you
It is not what you have wasted, it's about what you are going to achieve. Be strong brother.
i am soo happy how people are helping each other out and also i wnat to share a story of a guy who was my classmate who used to be dumb guy (chapri kind) he used demand her mother for bike ns200 and told his mother that he will not go to school until his mom buy him that bike in his crucial year of class 10th and his mom used to do work in hospital as a sweeper however his mother managed to buy him a bike but he lost his time 10 board were completed so he left school and he wwnt to dipression for about 3 months and after 3 month he again came back and stared going to a small job(driving lorry) and now he grow verry well that he has a iPhone, r15 and a bolero now he goes for pickup drop for senior manager to his office so by this i say one thing as krishna said there is no end but always a new beginning so guys jo hua so hua focus on future the more you fail the more you get success
true bro i was a topper and a failure guy is working in iron steel plant and i wasted 3 years in govt job preparation and in internet mobile addiction
I think I really needed to hear this, thankyou for sharing your experience 🌸
This video resonates with me so well because I went through a similar experience after graduating. I spent a year feeling lost and not making much progress, and looking back, I regret it. Your journey back on track is inspiring, and even though it's been a while since you posted this video, I truly hope you're experiencing great success now. Keep pushing forward!
2016 was final year, he used to wake up, hang out with friends, smoking, he wants us to learn how you can use your time effectively, sit down and write how much time and where you are spending it everyday.
I have wasted my entire life.
Only thinking and dreaming but not acting
I understand
Bro same thing....I also dreaming every time
Wasted my time since moving to family's new home after graduation in 2020, which happens to be pandemic. Real isolation in unfamiliar place, time just passed like breeze.
Although I'm grateful for the journey I had, I know this can't be all life has to offer. I know there's something beyond here. I'm going for it, moving on.
Why do you people think mobile phone means wasting time. Most of things that I have learnt in my life is from mobile phone.
Bhai mein apni baat kar raha hoo
Teri thodi
It hit hard when your algorithm signals you ,for u to change . Need to bring changes in my life
Guys I'll share my story aswell, I was really focused individual with dicipline and I didn't use social media as well...but my downfall started when I went to a relationship just to be like everyone, "Dating", "Losing the V-Card", "Exploring" and all the BS going on now-way-days. I don't think that recovery is possible after the hell that I went through. But it surely ruined my mental health, future and wasted my prime years of 20's which I'll never get back. So all the single and diciplined guys out there, don't fall for all this kind of BS because it'll surely derail you from the tracks of your and your family's hopes and dreams
You must have had a toxic relationship
Thanks dude..I m too facing this... everyone in my friend circle has lost their v card..and it kinda irritates me... but yeah I m 20 ..focusing on myself
I have wasted 3 years of my life doing things that didn't work out for me. Now, I am working in a job I never dreamed of. I am going to make some big decisions. It can change my life in good ways if it succeeds or make it worse if it fails. Wish me good luck, guys.
Your age?...I also wasted 3 years doing nothing...and when this year I got serious now I got fascinated towards film industry from last week, thought are not going away...I think I'm getting distracted...do let tell me if you have same
Why RUclips recommend this to me after 2 years
😂
Same😂
cause we are mature now
yt thought first u waste time and then realise😂
Hanging out friends and girl friend is not a waste of time 😃 you live only once. running behind money is not a success scale. Thinking of spending time with friends as waste and regretting for that is the most stupidest thing that one can imagine of!
I think you will learn that with time!
This is true to an extent, but you have to realize that spending time with friends / being (always) happy is not the only goal in life. We can be happy in the short term but twice as sad 3 years later when we realize what the spent time could've bought us.
Bullcrap your friends won't help you to provide your wife and kids in future , you can do lot of good stuff when you run behind money
Replace that with family then you are right.But then again it is your duty to be successful for your family..
Friends and Girlfriends you can get anytime in your life during your prime years( 30 years) if you waste your learning years then it's gone , now I'm 21 years now I'm regretting for being a playful kid during degree and school days ,
@sakacocox267 lol Your friends will go to job or Be nonsense things also your gf have to leave you if you don't get successful many women marry for getting divorce taking kids she gains half of your lifelong earning and kids also your inherited property if it's on your mothers name as well so that she can repeat that thing put your kif on orphange and enjoy life or brag about being single moms and The media also portray them as heroes earlier many men used to not respect relationship today women don't men do but one difference between men and women is you don't know who the hel the dad of your baby is women knows she doesn't need any DNA test but we need it So better don't get married Stay single and raise orphan kids instead the kids might not be yours
Me graduated in 2021...now ending 2024 ....4 th yr of wasting (competative exam )
bro i also wasted my 3 years and still haven't decided which course I should do instead of engineering.
@@SaifiAdnan-j7csir I am just 15 and in class 9 th. I have wasted 3 months and only 12 days left for my half yearly
@@animatedhere9909at least you have 12 days left and in my opinion 9th class does not matter to your 3 wasted months
@@SaifiAdnan-j7c same here,after engineering I didn't do anything
@@midhuncaptures bro i completed my 12th in 2021 and still I haven't decide which course should i do
Was a bright student
Scored 96 percent in 10th boards
11th std lockdown started
Online classes + overconfidence + lack of discipline ruined me
12th 83 percent very disappointing
Wasted 1st neet drop
Rn in my 2nd drop hope I clear this time
Same story bro 😢😢
Same story but think ki iss baar bhi ni niklega
Wasted 10 years of my life, still wasting.
Aye yo bro, stop the 🧢, did you really mean 10 damn years ? You smoke weed, my dawg ?
Great achievement, Keep it up👏
Pankha sa latak ja bro. Kisi ko koi fark ni pdta haramzado ka mrna ka
Keep it up bro
Great ur my inspiration
plz like this comment so I will get reminded of this video and to use my time effectively!
Hey i think i lnow how you friend make 4lakhs per month
First he crack IES exam then he left his post and start giving coaching avoid how to crack ies,ias etc exam
Today education is just a business
Yes exactly this is what he did
Wow anuj
One needs guts to share such things. And ya it's really inspiring
No time is a waste in life. Everything is an experience. Life is not profit and loss it's an experience.
You will never loose it's not money that you will loose something.
Life is an experience and we will have good and bad memories with us.
That's life.
After graduation, I had lots of free time. I spent that time on just hanging out, sleeping and most vicious of all, scrolling on my phone. It took the toll of 3 years from my life.
Whereas, my neighbor batch mate used that time of 3 years in preparing for competitive exam. Now he is an IES officer and earns 4 lakh per month.
And who am I? Nobody.
I am not comparing myself with anyone. I am just telling you how much you can achieve, what you can do with your time. Your success really depends a lot upon how exactly you use your time.
So, it was a very painful realization for me and now I use my time very effectively
You see two people living in the same place in the same atmosphere but big difference in their success and outcomes on the basis of how they use their time.
This is why you should definitely become serious of your time.
On every Sunday, I write on a piece of paper and keep track of how much time I dedicated to my studies, how much time I wasted on distractions.
Guys, keep grinding and don't stop.
I completed my B.E.Mechanical degree program in India in July 2006. Later I finished my M.E.Oil and Gas degree program in Australia in December 2009. I am unemployed till date. I have already wasted 14.5 years of my life. I'm aged 39 today. Never Married.
My hardwork hasn't paid off yet unfortunately!
Take care brother
Oh brdr what were you doing since then means were you preparing for competitive exams ho your parents allowed to sit and eat at home man
That's why, time is an asset 💯
this is me or this is fastest mind opener video you've seen on youtube
I have wasted also same ... straight 5 ,6 year . Hope I will change my days back . Be strong
Wasted my 5yrs
2 yrs by corona
3 yrs by preparing govt job
I wasted 4 year of my life to convey and cares about parents instead of self study.at last outcome what amount of money given to family.so i learnt that first make own career to settle of your life.emotion and respect ka value nahi hoti but paise kamane wale ki value hota hai real life me.
Ye bat bhut achi btae 2 log same mahol bus farak time ko kese use krte h uska
You have excellent vocational skills!
Thank you! 😃
Using the simple and easy words u used to elaborate the story is so awesome ❤
And gave me sense of thinking!
I wasted 7years of my life. From age 22 to 29.. because of surgery gone wrong.😢😢😢💔
Kya ho gys Esa bhai
Thank you for making this!
nothing is wastage that wasted years gives you experience
wasting my 3rd year..completed 12th in 2021, and dropped out from college after 1st sem in jan 2023...trying my best to forget about past and focus on future/present. tried doing some internships, but i was not lucky to get a dood one, wasted months living like a depressed guy in my room...but good part is, i am trying to grow in life, doing a job, where i am not at all happy but still.. and saving money to start something with my own money. Hope we all succeed in life, one day :)
Why is it recommended today ? 🤔
Same question😂😂
Because we are wasting time 😢
You must be one of the people who's wasting too much time on RUclips
Love failure ❌ life failure 📉
I wasted 8 years on government job searching
bro am 36 i am still figuring out wt to do with my life, father of 2 😢
😭😭
Bro what r u saying
😂 I'm not father of 2 and younger than you . Just 22 . But my advice is easy . Just do anything you like now drive from there 😊❤ that will give you clear path .
i wasted my 6 years . Now i realise , my all cousins and friends earning very good but me😢. I completed BTech in 2022 but i never concentrate on study . My life now sucks , everyday i feel frustrated why i did not done anything , why i did not learn any skills . It kills me everyday every minute every second💔
I feel u bro
I am in the same situation
Which branch did u do ur btech in
As a double dropper, tbh, I don’t even want to continue my life
Our online life really interferes with our personal life. We share our shit online every now, and then to strangers who don't even care about what we like, or want. I've never been interested in studies if I'm being honest, I used to be a bright student, but now I've lost interest in engineering, and other stuff. I was into game-dev back then, but yeah that's that. I found music to be the career that I want to pursue because I love music, it's something that I actually love to do, and work with. Of course I'm not a professional player yet, but if I put in the work I will be. Parents are supportive, I just gotta clear grade 12, and do whatever I want to. So there's that.
I will sir..❤
From bottom of my heart thankyou so much 😊❤
I wasted 3 years of my life at university and didn't even get a degree at the end of it, hated every second and everything to do with my course. I only learned one thing... never to dedicate so much of yourself to something that you hate.
time is biggest asset✅✅✅
I've wasted my 3 years doing nothing but im trying to get back its not that easy to get back from a comfort zone but I'm trying one day hope to get back to this video if someone likes this
I have waster every year since 2020, prior to that I used to read, program, do quizes, basically amuse people with my general knowledge in almost everything. Then pandemic came, I have been in shit ever since.
what are you doing now and what is your plan
Being the topper of 9 Districts in Haryana 12th sci 2017. I have wasted my 7 years Just because of Mobile Addiction eventually got some diseases! Got job in Haryana Group D 2019. Still i feel i have nothing 😢 because i could have done far better like clearing Neet JEE etc. Now(2024) I have decided to fight back to bounce back to show The World who i am who i was Inshallah! 💪! Like the comment Pleae as when i will read it again i will be reminded what i have sweared!
You're talking about three, I gave five years sir..
I don't think so man. I hope you have learned a lot from your bad time ...keep going on
Thanks bhaiya 😊 realised this is my current schedule😅 , i am going to use my time Doing something better😊
Now I am wasting my 3 minutes of my life
Mera bhi school ke baad 2023. Barbad hogya clg admission liya tha but examm form nhi bhara nd poora year waste hogya same 2024 mai ho rha mere life kyu mere sath itna bura kar rhi hai 💔🙂
Thank You 🌱🌺👩👧👧✨☮️
I wasted my 2 years iam a neet aspirant i am from a government college so after class 12 final exams i started preparing for neet i only studied for 1 day then i scored 7 marks (7/720) then my parents asked me to join in a institute but i said i will study at home by watching classes on RUclips but it was a disaster i only studied for a week at start then i addicted to anime I watched literally 150+animes in six months then i bought a course on unacedemy for 5000 i found it on RUclips and bought it then again i only studied for a week then i started reading webcomics then again iam addicted to webcomics i didn't study a single day i became so overconfident i kept postponed the study in blink of an eye may 5th neet exam i don't know anything not even a single lesson i scored 78 marks (7 to 78)then one of my friend said about bsc nutrition i joined without thinking after a month i understand this not what I want then i quits
my college now iam here posting this comment my parents cried because of me i regret it so much now next year iam going do mbbs in abroad by taking education loan
Time is something we can't waste i regret it now
Well all the human beings can't become the person who we consider as a successful human , so in my opinion we should identify what we like to do and do that only even if it is not considered as successful.
Time is a priceless resource. "we can't buy time with money, but we can save time using money."
I feel like I wasted 5 years of my life and now I am 20 years old!! Neither did i scored good Marks in my academics , neither did I learn any skill😢
Same here. I also wasted a huge chunk of my life, almost 5 yrs. I mostly blame others or the circumstances I am in. I recently stopped doing that. And trust me, you're not that old. If you try from now on, you will gain skills and definitely become a better person 1-2 years later. "Just start where you are, do what you can, and use what you have." 😀
@@niveditadas581 thankyou for your wishes!! I really appreciate!
And yeah I am currently in a job, I am working , and hope to become better !🧡
@@priyasonwani5341 I'm so happy for you. So, I am currently 19. But I'll also be 20 in a few months. If you don't mind me asking, How did you land a job so early? Is it like an internship? Or freelance? Because people don't get jobs so early on their careers. I'm curious and I want to earn some money too.
@@priyasonwani5341 mam is it going well??
thank you so much brother
i have tears in my eyes
cant tell you how much can i relate with u
"how to waste time by writing down how i wasted my time"
learnt this today. thx anuj
The problem with this generation is that they have all the things they want & no problems in their life, so they don't have value of things ...😢
changing my life from tomorrow.
I have seen a lot of videos like this, this motivation is very right and useless too, nothing happens with motivational videos, until our mind itself tells us that brother, now a lot of time has been wasted, it is time to do something different in life. Discipline is such a thing that will make us do everything, if a soldier-like discipline comes in our life, then we can do anything in our life.
Mobile phone is the dirtiest addiction, it destroyed people, it wasted a lot of my time too. I have a lot to say but there is no use.🙂