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I live alone, kids all grown, husband gone, and I understand completely your 'bonus' lesson. Even strong independent women get tired of doing everything for themselves. I hope you find your person ❤️
@Audrey Price yep I get it. I am thinking about dating again but most men I know are like children and I don't want to baby set. They see me comming. I'm a nice independent lady. I have had trouble with men being jealous of my success. Put downs and being put in my place. They are shocked when I disappear. They think I'm a kitten not realizing I'm a tiger.
@Audrey Price The 12 year old in a man suit is what I often think of my husband (30 years in 2021) but I would tell myself he makes me look good. Despite that, I do love him but appreciate my alone time while he golfs.
Totally relate to that alone thing. Divorced, kids grown and gone, not interested in ever dating again, been alone my whole life too, even while in a (abusive) relationship. I'm quite content with my own company too (and have tons of hobbies as a result). But there are times when life reminds you that it is important to have friends; people who will check on you (or at least notice when you drop out of sight for a long time), people who can help you when you're sick or give you a hand when your rig breaks down, etc... When I had back surgery last year and I had to ask a Facebook friend I'd only met in person ONCE to give me a ride to and from the hospital, I realized just how much I had isolated myself over the last twelve years. And when I came home to an empty house and fell down and couldn't get up and needed the police to come pick me up off the floor, the alone-ness really hit me hard. And you're correct in that we do it to ourselves. Therefore, it's up to us to change it, too. I think in your situation a fellow hermit traveling buddy might work well; someone with their own RV who camps far enough away to have your mutual boundaries, but who you have an agreement with to check on each other and help each other out when needed. No commitments to spend time together every day, just a commitment to travel and camp together and watch out for each other and share an occasional adventure or hike or visit to a museum or whatever so you have connection with SOMEONE you can trust and rely on.
YES, this. This is my dream, to continue to be a hermit but have a travel buddy, a woman like me, with their own RV/trailer, we travel as a two vehicle convoy but respect each other's privacy and hermit ways. LOL
I was married for almost 20 years. And boy, was I lonely. He was not a support, not an anchor, not a safe port in the storm for any troubles or difficulties I would encounter. I had to do everything myself, worry about the bills, worry about where we would live, worry about the children. After the divorce, I was still doing everything myself, but didn't have to deal with his condescending alcohol-fueled putdowns any more. I love being alone and happy. I travel alone, camp alone. But yes, we do need interaction with other human beings. But I don't want to ever depend on anyone else to lighten my burden.......because I fear they themselves would become my burden to bear.
When I became a widow it took me to the edge emotionally. I had a good partner and what a void I felt. It took a couple acts of desperation for me to finally settle my spirit. I have found peace, but it happened with the help of others. The right people make all the difference!
@@susieturk1 the fact is that we keep hoping year after year for the "Loved one" to "change" until one day you wake up and two or three decades had gone by.
Carolyn I am 72 and been doing stuff alone all the days of my life. I been on the road for a year now. I do not want a house. I do not want an apartment. I am a loner to a point also. I have had 3 very disappointing men in my life in the past. I am through with men. I too like company. Fortunately I have 2 great female friends that I talk too a lot. I am currently hosting at a campground as a volunteer. I love conversations with the campers. I may or may not do this all summer. But this gives me my alone time and interacting as much as I want. I too have found people to be kind. I have never been afraid. Fear has never been a part of my vocabulary. I have camped all my life. I enjoy being out and about. I do one day at a time!
I already like you. I too am done with men and don't like being stuck in a house or apartment, though I'm currently hunkered down because of the pandemic. I wish you safe travels and many happy trails! ❤️
I'm 67yrs old and I thought I had the love of travel behind me. However, I've been so let down through these trials of late, that I think it is time to see the Beauty once again. Faith over Fear . I did in 99 with 3 dogs in an old RV, from Florida to Colorado and back. It didn't work out too well, but we made it. Now, I have a 2017 Grand Caravan that will be perfect for the Journey. Time waits for no one. Hope to meet you on the trail. My name is Frances and my partner is Jessi Coulter Beagle. 🌹🇺🇸❤
Have been watching for all of those 5 years Carolyn, and it was nice that you added Capone to the conversation, as he was part of the equation of Carolyn & Capone for a good long time indeed. Yes, of all the video's, Alaska was a favourite of mine as well, possibly because I've driven there twice myself, and look forward to another one year, but you've done a wonderful job of 'giving' information to so many over the years, and a big 'thank-you' is attributed to all that you do for the community! Unlike yourself, I can see myself being lonely on the road, doing it all, with no input on making decisions. Having someone to give you a hug, help you braid your hair every now and then, doing the chores and giving support if/when your feeling down. I personally would want someone in my life, even for good conversation, or to scratch my back...you know, right where you just can't reach! You will know when the time is right, and it's the right person Carolyn, so take it one day at a time! Stay safe and keep dreaming of your future adventures!
The smiles and visible happiness you show in this video is such a testament to your beautiful nomadic lifestyle! Your such a positive influencer!! Thanks again Carolyn... I’m so grateful that you continue to share your RV life!!
Carolyn, you are such a dear lady! I love these monologues, and feel like we’re sharing a campfire and chatting. Been here for you since near the beginning, and will be here still. Dave in Colorado
Dear Carolyn, I’ve been doing everything myself for the past 40 years ... my entire adult life. It is exhausting, but I prefer to be exhausted than to have to answer to anyone else.
I'm married to a very needy person who has no interest in anything other than watching t.v. I do everything alone and take care of him. This is exhausting.
@@denacollins352 I've often thought of leaving. I always chickened out. I decided to live my own life while staying married. I figured I could be alone here or choose to be alone on my own. Maybe I'll get brave enough to leave someday
After 10 years I woke up and thought " why do I need this guy?" I was doing it all myself for years. Now I have a male friend who is always hinting how well we get along. I see myself cooking and cleaning for two. I could see my future bring me a beer and where's my dinner .... I ran fast as I can.
@@NomadicApril me too! So, I don't! He'll just just have to do it himself! Adult time, means not doing things for others whom are perfectly capable of doing it for themselves!
Thank you for #2--"they're not all murderers." I've watched way too much TV and it has created a fear problem--trying to remember the "every bump in the night" is not harmful!
Having had a stroke three weeks ago, being far away now scares me. I was most worried about my dog. Love your videos and started nomad life almost a year ago. Been following you since.
My dog is the only reason why I want to get a will. I have a wonderful person who will take her should anything happen to me. And I've got somebody to scatter my ashes.
Love your thoughts on the importance of being a good listener. It’s a matter of respect, and it truly helps us to better understand perspectives that can otherwise baffle us, and help humanize people we tend to demonize, brush off, or stereotype. 😊 I agree people are a lot kinder than we assume a lot of times. Wonderful reminder. Always enjoy your philosophy and point of you. Sounds like it’s been an incredible 5 years...love your assertion you can handle whatever comes your way! Carpe diem! ♥️
Ps - It’s ok not to have it all figured out, or to even completely change our mind 😊 Life will bring you to what’s best if you continue to look within and see what you want and need in the present moment....may you find what you decide you are looking for! ♥️
I think your "bonus" lesson is why many nomads choose to belong to and travel in tribes. I can relate to much of what you illustrate. I love being alone but at the same time in recent years I've been trying to build better friendships because I feel a small void for various reasons. It's a puzzle to solve. Lol.
I have found that the negativity is more profound in the news and social media. Dealing with everyday people, everyday, is totally the opposite. I don’t watch tv and I’ve cut back on social media.
@@blueowlwill8754 news is the worst. I stopped watching tv in the 90’s. I found when I got home from work in a good mood, my mood would change after watching tv and I couldn’t figure out why I got so down. It was the news and all the bad shit they capitalize on that sadden or angered me. That’s when I shut the ignorant tube off. My mother would call me and asked if I saw something on the news and I would tell her, “mom you know I don’t look at the news” she asked, “well how the hell are you going to know what’s happening?” I told her “I will wait for you to call and tell me”, I like my mindset when it’s not being influenced by an entity I don’t trust anyway. I think if everyone threw their ignorant tube out the window, the world would be a better place because no one would be brainwashed and feeding on the propaganda that tv spew out.
I suppose because I am in Florida it is hard for me to be in the covid mode. Our bodies are attacked by viruses all the time. We have to keep our natural defense against these viruses good and they are killed naturally. Take care of your mental and physical self. You are strong .
I don’t think you are getting scared , I think you have gotten smarter on your decision of which road to take . Love your videos thanks for your hard work !
"EVERYBODY needs people" As a introvert, I AGREE 100% with Carolyn 's therapist . He or she is not saying 24/7 but we need people emotional and physically in our lives. . FOR 33 years , I can't find that balance in my life part time people time and my introvert time . I only know introvert time no friends or boyfriend and this is why i believe my depression is getting worse.
We all need company sometimes, not necessarily a lover, but just someone to connect with... My folks just came to visit and my Mom cooked dinner every night, that was such a gift. Maybe having a "me break" once in a while, like going to an AirBnB with nice amenities or even a BnB with vegan options, or planning road rendez vous with your peeps in fun places doing a shared camp out. The last year has been isolating on an unfamiliar level for a lot of folks - even us lone wolf types... I'm looking forward to multiple sustained "drive-abouts " when it's safe to do so.... Longing to see my peeps...
Carolyn, I loved this video. There are many people that wouldn't open up like this and express these feelings. Remember the saying, "there is a season for every time". This is just a new season for you!
It kind of broke my heart to hear all the troubles you had while Capone was dying. What a trooper you are. Maybe someday we’ll meet on the road. Look forward to your next adventures.
What a delightful Lady Carolyn is. She is a gutsy lady doing what she loves to do in life. I don't know if I could go on the road like Carolyn does. God bless her
As a single mother of 4 kids since they were babies, I was really lonely and wished I had more support. But I weighed the pros and cons and am glad I did it by myself. I made all my own decisions, financially and moving all over the country, and I've enjoyed my independence and freedom. At 74, I'm so happy!!! Love you!!!
OO-oo-oo-ooo ! I've been all over the U.S. and most of Canada, but I've never been to the North east U.S. I'm so excited for you to take us there! Awesome! Ahhhh - that video with those people with the shovels! I still often wonder what the heck they were doing out there! lol Ha-ha. #6 - the 'Bonus' - I know that wasn't a cry-out for me to join you on your travels. But I'd sure love to! I feel that because I've also been an only child, therefore alone and independent (& I enjoy it) as well, we could have a lot of things to share alone & together! Including therapy! lol I'm chuckling! No, I didn't take it as an invitation, and I definitely can't offer you an invite, but when I get my rig on the road, we can talk about a visit! Always Entertaining! Always Insightful and always thoroughly enjoyable! Thank you!
Hi Carolyn, I'm 78, healthy and ready to RV. I had one years ago but at that time we both owned business's and never had time to use it. I've probably spent 100 hours listening to folks like you, and by the way, you are great. I think I've settled on a 30 foot with one slide because I believe that would be a safe size for one person traveling alone (except my labradoodle.:-) . I need an office area otherwise I could go down a little. I do magic, vent, balloons and just have a ball with people. I'll travel about five months year.. Maybe more. I just wanted to thank you for your channel. -keith
Yeah, you get tired of being the only grownup. I totally get that. It would be awesome to have a partner - friendship or whatever - to back one another up. You'd give as good as you get, so it would be a win/win situation. The stuff you've learned has given you the confidence and strength to make a friend who would be an equal; sometimes to just listen, sometimes to handle the sh*t, sometimes maybe just to cook dinner or walk with you. I was single for 15 years and loved most of it but sometimes just wanted another adult to take some of the stress. Or to share it. Whatever you do, we're supporting and admiring. Hugs to you and Sadie too.
You are warm, funny and articulate, Carolyn! Your honesty and balanced perspective on a very radical lifestyle for us city-folk is refreshing. I have to subscribe because you are both entertaining and wise. Thank you, God bless you, and happy trails!
Your sixth talking point was really so sincere and honest I applaud you for it. No Mensch should ever be 'alone' 90% of the time. We all need friendships, companionships and help. My son passed the beginning of February (see my twitter) and he was very independent. but yet very helpful for many of his friends. Not only do I miss him, but his friends feel as if their 'go to' is missing in their lives. I am amazed at the tons of calls and posts I receive about how much he is missed and just how much he has helped others. Everyone needs a friend they can depend on. If the friend happens to be a life partner, even better. We all get tired of doing everything on our own and that is as normal as breathing. Wishing you someone you can relie on. Hugs to you and Sadie. And yes, I am a mess right now.
Great talk. You hit it on number 6. yes, All of number 6, I couldn't have said it better. lol The reason I've thought of going to Quartsite in Jan. I am hoping to find a friend.
Omg... I can totally relate with the bonus lesson. Another day I've posted the below words to my facebook page. It's so true to me: "The inability to receive support from others is a trauma response. Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning is a survival tactic. And you needed it to shield your heart from abuse, neglect, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you. From the parent who was absent and abandoned you by choice or the parent who was never home from working three jobs to feed and house you. From the lovers who offered sexual intimacy but never offered a safe haven that honored your heart. From the friendships and family who ALWAYS took more than they ever gave. From all the situations when someone told you “we’re in this together” or “I got you” then abandoned you, leaving you to pick up the pieces when shit got real, leaving you to handle your part and their part, too. From all the lies and all the betrayals. You learned along the way that you just couldn’t really trust people. Or that you could trust people, but only up to a certain point. Extreme-independence IS. A. TRUST. ISSUE. You learnt: if I don’t put myself in a situation where I rely on someone, I won’t have to be disappointed when they don’t show up for me, or when they drop the ball... because they will ALWAYS drop the ball EVENTUALLY right? You may even have been intentionally taught this protection strategy by generations of hurt ancestors who came before you. Extreme-independence is a preemptive strike against heartbreak. So, you don’t trust anyone. And you don’t trust yourself, either, to choose people. To trust is to hope, to trust is to be vulnerable. “Never again,” you vow. But no matter how you dress it up and display it proudly to make it seem like this level of independence is what you always wanted to be, in truth it’s your wounded, scarred, broken heart behind a protective brick wall. Impenetrable. Nothing gets in. No hurt gets in. But no love gets in either. Fortresses and armor are for those in battle, or who believe the battle is coming. It’s a trauma response. The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed. You are worthy of having support. You are worthy of having true partnership. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of having your heart held. You are worthy to be adored. You are worthy to be cherished. You are worthy to have someone say, “You rest. I got this.” And actually deliver on that promise. You are worthy to receive. You are worthy to receive. You are worthy. You don’t have to earn it. You don’t have to prove it. You don’t have to bargain for it. You don’t have to beg for it. You are worthy. Worthy. Simply because you exist. -Jamila White, @inspiredjamila"
I recently found your channel, and the timing was perfect! 3 days ago I aggravated an old shoulder injury. 2 days ago I saw this video. By yesterday the shoulder was pretty bad. I'd been waiting on the arrival of a replacement solar panel, using a gas generator to supplement. When I pulled the cord on the generator it broke, so I had no choice but to leave my vehicle running for a while to use its battery so that my full fridge wouldn't spoil. I woke up in pain several times last night. Today I needed to relocate to pick up my new panel. Your "I can handle anything" was fresh in my mind! Loading my 6x14 cargo trailer camper was not easy, but I started saying to myself, "I can do this". I get music in my head a lot, so that became "I Can Do Anything" from the old Electric Company kids' show, which then became "Yes We Can Can" by the Pointer Sisters. By the time I'd successfully packed up and was on the road it had switched to the Beatles, "Mother Nature's Son"! I'm here now. Mission accomplished. Shoulder's even feeling a bit better. Thanks for just the assurance and inspiration I needed!
I love that ou are so human! You are honest and are willing to speak of your vulnerabilities, along with your needs and wants. Lots of great practical information as well. Kudos on doing so well and making it for five (now seven) years, Carolyn! 😊
Everybody needs a support base. Be it a few friends you can call on, bounce things off etc. I totally understand. It will be hard to reach out and do that. I watch another full time RV 'r and she has those friends when she needs them and she can go off and be by herself when she needs to also. it really seems ideal and for us viewers who guinuinely care about you all, it's great to see that you have that support on the road , when you need it. It's also good for the soul to know there are people out there who will be there when needed. Thanks for sharing.know this will be lost in all the comments but I'll say a little prayer that you.
Carolyn thank you so much for your videos! I'm getting prepared to start the full-time rv life and your videos have inspired me and helped alot . This video hit the nail on the head . These are the exact things I was worrying about. I now feel alittle less worried after watching. Thank again!
What wonderful insight to living on the road. We can, we can, we can. That is my self talk daily to keep doing what is needed. Well. I say I can, I can. It helps so much to say this and remind myself. Love hearing about all the situations you have been in. I remember so many of those You are so amazing. We need to have close friends to bounce thoughts off of them and hear others ideas. It just helps. I love being alone but need others at times
A couple of years ago I was camping alone near Q when I hurt my back. Lots of pain and hard to function. I knew I needed an ER but there was no one to care for my dog. Took a day to see if it improved but it didn't . Time to do SOMETHING! So I chose to drive 3 days to get back to my daughter's home. My doctors were there too. Somehow I made it, went to the ER and spent 3 days there as a patient. Having a pet along with you when having a big health concern of your own presents another issue re needing someone else around. While I enjoy my own solitude and company I now have to consider pet ownership too, especially as I age. Love and hugs to you Carolyn. Loved hearing about your last 5 years. I've been with you all along!
If you haven’t listened to your self in your video you need to Carolyn. What I’m hearing is that you are ready for companionship of some sort! You have fulfilled the experiences and travels for the last five years so, “been there done that. “ You loved it and you learned so much about yourself and now you’re ready for the next chapter in your life. Good luck friend!! 💕💕💕
Carolyn in many ways you and I are alike. My late husband and I were Rver's with no house other than our truck and camper in the mid 70's. We use to love to boon dock. I have been widowed many years and sometimes I feel as though I would like a companion, I get tired of going it alone. I have watched your channel now five years. I love how you challenge yourself. I believe we are always learning and with this comes growth and we are selective in our decisions. Yes for the most part people are kind and friendly and are willing to help others.
Great advise Carolyn . Love to follow your RV journey! I loved the one with when the RV tire got stuck with the big stone between the tire. Yes when you get older you really need people around to help you with whatever. Stay safe and God bless! ❤🙏
This whole video is such a terrific thing. You said everything perfectly. ....we do need people to be with sometimes. I hope you find what your looking for. We all need a friend to help us thru this thing called Life. Enjoy your week. Love & Light from Washington state.
I’ve heard about nomad groups, particularly for women. Perhaps you could connect with a few groups over some time in different areas, just to see who else might be out there. Not saying you’ll want to connect with a whole group at all, but maybe there will be a likeminded soul in one of those groups. 🤷♀️
I just found your channel. I am never going to be a nomad but totally enjoy living vicariously by watching your adventures. You are just such a likable person. Thanks for sharing your everyday life.
I think this is the first time I've come across your videos. I absolutely love how you think and your energy. You are so wise and beautiful. I'm looking forward to more of your videos.
I HEAR you and understand exactly. Life is better when shared with someone you are comfortable with, someone to care about and who cares back. Someone to share good times, hard times, expenses, challenges, adventures, quiet moments, sunsets, storms, the beauty of nature and everything life offers up. When we are lucky enough to find someone who is the right fit, someone you can trust and depend on, life has more value. But you have my utmost respect, because you are strong and living independently. You are badass, and the kind of friend I would welcome as a travel buddy. You are doing what many of us only dare to dream about. You are an inspiration to me and I hope that one day you have the good fortune to meet someone to share your life with. Who knows, maybe you are better off alone. Living in tight quarters can be challenging when someone else snores, doesn't know when to be quiet, tries to rush you or thinks they know best. It sucks when your companion isn't tidy or self-aware or easily takes you for granted. So, as nice as a friend would be to have for many reasons, their are so many ways they could make life less enjoyable and make it harder for you. There is a trade-off, and you should really think about just how adjustable you are and how set in your ways you have become in your life. Would you enjoy what you do if your partner was pulling you in another direction? Much to consider.Still, I think what you crave is normal and universal. Just be careful what you wish for, you might not be so happy once you have it. Wishing you the very best, and that I could be your friend.
I can completely relate to the last one, thank you for sharing! It's a strange almost uncomfortable feeling to want people around....the inter-conflict is real! It helped hearing words that go along with how I feel and have been living my life.
Marry Me....Marry Me....Marry Me....Just teasing. This the first video I have seen from you. I will check out some of your previous videos. What I did takeaway from this was the need for some nice companionship once in awhile. Most people just get a dog. It is natural for us to want to pair up with someone and share life. Male or Female it does not really matter. Intimacy take it or leave it. It is just nice to have someone around to bond with and enjoy. I hope you find a nice companion and continue on down the road.
My gut reaction is that this video like all of your videos is candid, honest, and helpful; not only for RVers or people who are considering that life but ordinary people who don't want anything to do with that lifestyle. Not letting fear stop you from trying new things is one of the most important qualities you have in my opinion. I wish you all the happiness that is possible in your life. Cheers
I totally get where your coming from! I'm 58 on disability living alone with my little Chihuahua. Sometimes I think, it would be so nice to have someone take the trash out, cook dinner, service the car etc. I am a loner tho. I don't necessarily want a relationship either. Companionship and some help would be cool. People weren't meant to be alone all the time.
I hear you about getting bored, living alone for a long period of time I believe we need to be looking forward to something that interests us. A change is always a good thing I believe. I have had some of these same feelings and have struggled and then something joyful happened or experiencing something new some how refreshes me and I find myself back in harmony. But we all need a way to vent our thoughts. You are a warrior.
I've been alone for 30 years (also by choice) and I LOVE it. I must add that if it wasn't for my animals, I would have struggled. I disagree with your therapist.😁 People can be so "high maintenance" and I am so done with that. I truly hope you can find your "happy medium". We're all so different. Love & light.💕
I love all that you shared, Carolyn. I especially appreciated your realization that maybe, just maybe, there would be value in being around people a little more often. Sharing time with the right people, who support and inspire us, and give us something to help further our personal growth, can have tremendous value for our journey. And having others to share the workloads, too, can preserve our psychic resources for other, more creative endeavors. It's all about finding the right balance for ourselves. Thanks for letting us peek into your thought processes on all that. I hope you find some groups, of like-minded nomads, to caravan with. Seems like that scenario could tick many of those boxes. Remember, sharing yourself -- your personal energy, your many gifts -- with others is an important part of the dynamic, too. Think of all those being deprived of your occasional presence! 🥰 Blessings to you as you venture out into these new 'connections' ❣ 💕🙏
Your channel came up on my feed. First video I've seen and great intro to your channel. Love your discussion about your bonus lesson. I can totally relate.
Love your overall positive outlook! Life has a way of teaching us that we are able to handle what we think we can't, and thank you for sharing your tips and your great encouragement on your journey. Will be praying that you will meet some great friends or some really sweet guy that will care for you as a companion on the road where you can meet from time to time. Someone you can share ideas and life concerns with; not someone to marry unless you choose otherwise but someone to bounce ideas off of :). We're rooting for you. Don't let yourself down. You are a wonderful and smart person to be around, and you will get what you put out there as you just did. Praying for your companion/faithful friend to come soon! Stay busy... and they will be there before you know it!
I'm very much like you Carolyn, with the similar sentiments about life, i'm so happy to have watched this video today - i'm preparing to embark on a journey similar to yours... i'll be watching more of your videos - see you out there! (if you're ever in Canada)
Great video Carolyn! Sure hit home, I'm sure, for a lot of us. I certainly understand your train of thought though. Being alone is a good thing but not necessarily the best thing. Good luck with all your decisions in the future. I enjoy watching the strength you have in your daily life on the road. Thank you for sharing!👍😊🙏
As a longtime widow, I think you just miss having someone to share with you the beautiful moments and the plans and the problems . I’m not on the road but I am alone since retirement and I think I understand exactly what you mean. I choose being alone 99% of the time but I cave company from time to time.
Great video. It makes perfect sense that you would only now start to think about having an easier way to interact with others at times. You really needed to immerse yourself in that peace and quiet that your soul craved until that longing was completely sated. We all are luckier when we have a few friends we love to be with once in a while. It is harder to spontaneously get together in the RV life, so I wish you good luck in figuring out how that works for you. During this pandemic, even the most introverted of us have experienced a new appreciation for a bit of human contact, and it has grown into real longing for many of us, and a joy that our options are increasing soon. Maybe all of that global longing is out there in a Universal Unconscious that is bumping into you. Who knows. lol I'm just happy for you. Best wishes.
Wow, your pretty amazing. Good for you for all you've done, AND for looking inside for new 🆕 insights. Funny thing, I've been feeling the same thing about friendships and lack of. And I'm in the middle of a city , relationship, and being surrounded by people . Great show, I'll stay tuned .
Sista from another Mista, I remember most of the times you spoke of. Staying down the road on some land that the previous owners I believed helped you with some veggies and mowing the path. Also NC and the lights shining in. The trail of tears. Capone. It's been a pleasure sharing your journey vicariously thru the web. Now your planning on coming to my neighborhood. Northeast.......New England.. ..Can't wait. Don't miss the Berkshires in Mass. Take the Mohawk trail. The white mountains in New Hampshire. Kennybunkport Maine. Burlington Vermont... Cape Cod... Have a great summer and it would be my pleasure and honor to someday meet you. Your the best.. As someone famous said.." Thanks for the memories". 💜👣✌
Super proud of you for sharing #6. That was the best info for me because I am alot like you. It might take me 3-6 yrs. To conclude the same thing. You are a super cool lady!
Don’t feel bad that you feel like you may be tired of being alone. I love being alone too. I could never give up my independence. But I did meet someone who felt the same way and we’ve built a life together, but somehow have managed to remain very independent. I sometimes wish I was all alone again, but you are right, life is easier with a partner. I enjoyed your video, thanks for sharing you life with all of us. ❤️✌🏼
Carolyn having the right people in your life is the key. I have been very much a loner my entire life. Was married with kids for 20 years and was miserable. My kids are now grown and have their own families and I live in a tiny cottage by the lake. Yes it is all up to me to fix, pay to fix or ignore things. I know though that I would not be able to do what you do every day living on the road. I need a home base. You can meet your girlfriends when you want to have company and go off on your own when you don't. Not sure I could live with anyone at this point as too set in my ways. Love my friends and we keep in touch regularly but love my space too.
Thank you! I always learn something important from your videos, I think because you're so honest as well as experienced in the nomad life, which I've just begun.
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Thanks for sharing this list . I’m a list kind of person and this list here will put the finishing touches on my planned solo adventures.
Do you use a tire monitor system?
How do you level your rig alone?
Staying RV parks few times a year you learned a lot like people
I live alone, kids all grown, husband gone, and I understand completely your 'bonus' lesson. Even strong independent women get tired of doing everything for themselves. I hope you find your person ❤️
Coffee......I would love if someone else would make that first cup of coffee, just now and again....😉
It's perfect if we can find our group, but if we are not with like minded people we can still feel alone
I found my person.....ME❣️
@Audrey Price yep I get it. I am thinking about dating again but most men I know are like children and I don't want to baby set. They see me comming. I'm a nice independent lady. I have had trouble with men being jealous of my success. Put downs and being put in my place. They are shocked when I disappear. They think I'm a kitten not realizing I'm a tiger.
@Audrey Price The 12 year old in a man suit is what I often think of my husband (30 years in 2021) but I would tell myself he makes me look good. Despite that, I do love him but appreciate my alone time while he golfs.
Totally relate to that alone thing. Divorced, kids grown and gone, not interested in ever dating again, been alone my whole life too, even while in a (abusive) relationship. I'm quite content with my own company too (and have tons of hobbies as a result). But there are times when life reminds you that it is important to have friends; people who will check on you (or at least notice when you drop out of sight for a long time), people who can help you when you're sick or give you a hand when your rig breaks down, etc... When I had back surgery last year and I had to ask a Facebook friend I'd only met in person ONCE to give me a ride to and from the hospital, I realized just how much I had isolated myself over the last twelve years. And when I came home to an empty house and fell down and couldn't get up and needed the police to come pick me up off the floor, the alone-ness really hit me hard. And you're correct in that we do it to ourselves. Therefore, it's up to us to change it, too. I think in your situation a fellow hermit traveling buddy might work well; someone with their own RV who camps far enough away to have your mutual boundaries, but who you have an agreement with to check on each other and help each other out when needed. No commitments to spend time together every day, just a commitment to travel and camp together and watch out for each other and share an occasional adventure or hike or visit to a museum or whatever so you have connection with SOMEONE you can trust and rely on.
YES, this. This is my dream, to continue to be a hermit but have a travel buddy, a woman like me, with their own RV/trailer, we travel as a two vehicle convoy but respect each other's privacy and hermit ways. LOL
@@Parlour100 Great Idea ~
I agree!
I love this share and too can relate a lot to your story. Thanks for sharing
I was married for almost 20 years. And boy, was I lonely. He was not a support, not an anchor, not a safe port in the storm for any troubles or difficulties I would encounter. I had to do everything myself, worry about the bills, worry about where we would live, worry about the children. After the divorce, I was still doing everything myself, but didn't have to deal with his condescending alcohol-fueled putdowns any more. I love being alone and happy. I travel alone, camp alone. But yes, we do need interaction with other human beings. But I don't want to ever depend on anyone else to lighten my burden.......because I fear they themselves would become my burden to bear.
It was a beautiful statement congratulations on finding yourself and getting rid of such heavy baggage ♥️
When I became a widow it took me to the edge emotionally. I had a good partner and what a void I felt. It took a couple acts of desperation for me to finally settle my spirit. I have found peace, but it happened with the help of others. The right people make all the difference!
Good for you.....it took you a long time to "make your move"......Be happy....Be Free.
@@yoyojoe9240 one day you look up it's been 20 years and you've finally had enough. I think we've all been there that time just gets away from you.
@@susieturk1 the fact is that we keep hoping year after year for the "Loved one" to "change" until one day you wake up and two or three decades had gone by.
You don't know how strong you can be until being strong is the only option you have.
So true
I love that saying I've got it hanging up in my room
Amen🏌🏽♂️
Yes, this is me .....
Very true!
Carolyn I am 72 and been doing stuff alone all the days of my life. I been on the road for a year now. I do not want a house. I do not want an apartment. I am a loner to a point also. I have had 3 very disappointing men in my life in the past. I am through with men. I too like company. Fortunately I have 2 great female friends that I talk too a lot. I am currently hosting at a campground as a volunteer. I love conversations with the campers. I may or may not do this all summer. But this gives me my alone time and interacting as much as I want. I too have found people to be kind. I have never been afraid. Fear has never been a part of my vocabulary. I have camped all my life. I enjoy being out and about. I do one day at a time!
WOW, you go girl. Stay safe and enjoy life.
I already like you. I too am done with men and don't like being stuck in a house or apartment, though I'm currently hunkered down because of the pandemic. I wish you safe travels and many happy trails! ❤️
I'm 67yrs old and I thought I had the love of travel behind me. However, I've been so let down through these trials of late, that I think it is time to see the Beauty once again. Faith over Fear .
I did in 99 with 3 dogs in an old RV, from Florida to Colorado and back. It didn't work out too well, but we made it. Now, I have a 2017 Grand Caravan that will be perfect for the Journey.
Time waits for no one.
Hope to meet you on the trail.
My name is Frances and my partner is Jessi Coulter Beagle. 🌹🇺🇸❤
Have been watching for all of those 5 years Carolyn, and it was nice that you added Capone to the conversation, as he was part of the equation of Carolyn & Capone for a good long time indeed. Yes, of all the video's, Alaska was a favourite of mine as well, possibly because I've driven there twice myself, and look forward to another one year, but you've done a wonderful job of 'giving' information to so many over the years, and a big 'thank-you' is attributed to all that you do for the community! Unlike yourself, I can see myself being lonely on the road, doing it all, with no input on making decisions. Having someone to give you a hug, help you braid your hair every now and then, doing the chores and giving support if/when your feeling down. I personally would want someone in my life, even for good conversation, or to scratch my back...you know, right where you just can't reach! You will know when the time is right, and it's the right person Carolyn, so take it one day at a time! Stay safe and keep dreaming of your future adventures!
The smiles and visible happiness you show in this video is such a testament to your beautiful nomadic lifestyle! Your such a positive influencer!! Thanks again Carolyn... I’m so grateful that you continue to share your RV life!!
Carolyn, you are such a dear lady! I love these monologues, and feel like we’re sharing a campfire and chatting. Been here for you since near the beginning, and will be here still.
Dave in Colorado
Dear Carolyn, I’ve been doing everything myself for the past 40 years ... my entire adult life. It is exhausting, but I prefer to be exhausted than to have to answer to anyone else.
Yes, I realized when I was married that it was actually NOT less work, but double the work. LOL
I hear you, me too. Exhausting but I only answer to myself. Flip side is as I am much older now and it is extremely difficult to accept help.
I'm married to a very needy person who has no interest in anything other than watching t.v. I do everything alone and take care of him. This is exhausting.
@@onefreelife any thoughts on a escape plan?
@@denacollins352 I've often thought of leaving. I always chickened out. I decided to live my own life while staying married. I figured I could be alone here or choose to be alone on my own. Maybe I'll get brave enough to leave someday
After 10 years I woke up and thought " why do I need this guy?" I was doing it all myself for years. Now I have a male friend who is always hinting how well we get along. I see myself cooking and cleaning for two. I could see my future bring me a beer and where's my dinner .... I ran fast as I can.
Yep. I thought of that after making this video. Like you, being married for me meant DOUBLE the work! :-p
lol thought the exacted thing
Omg, I’m having the same situation! I’m not interested in cooking and cleaning for a man again! I’m over it lol
@@NomadicApril me too! So, I don't! He'll just just have to do it himself! Adult time, means not doing things for others whom are perfectly capable of doing it for themselves!
@@halleluyah757 absolutely!
Thank you for #2--"they're not all murderers." I've watched way too much TV and it has created a fear problem--trying to remember the "every bump in the night" is not harmful!
I've been watching you for five years now. Wow! Time flies
Having had a stroke three weeks ago, being far away now scares me. I was most worried about my dog. Love your videos and started nomad life almost a year ago. Been following you since.
🙏🏻 Praying you and your pup are both doing well now. My pup would also be my main concern :) Wishing you safe & happy travels
Best wishes for your speedy recovery. Caution is understandable when your health might be at stake. I’d be most worried for my pets as well.
My dog is the only reason why I want to get a will. I have a wonderful person who will take her should anything happen to me. And I've got somebody to scatter my ashes.
Prayers.
Hoping you have a full recovery
Prayers for you and your pup. I will smudge and pray to Father Spirit for healing 🙏 ✨ ❤
Love your thoughts on the importance of being a good listener. It’s a matter of respect, and it truly helps us to better understand perspectives that can otherwise baffle us, and help humanize people we tend to demonize, brush off, or stereotype. 😊 I agree people are a lot kinder than we assume a lot of times. Wonderful reminder. Always enjoy your philosophy and point of you. Sounds like it’s been an incredible 5 years...love your assertion you can handle whatever comes your way! Carpe diem! ♥️
Ps - It’s ok not to have it all figured out, or to even completely change our mind 😊 Life will bring you to what’s best if you continue to look within and see what you want and need in the present moment....may you find what you decide you are looking for! ♥️
I think your "bonus" lesson is why many nomads choose to belong to and travel in tribes. I can relate to much of what you illustrate. I love being alone but at the same time in recent years I've been trying to build better friendships because I feel a small void for various reasons. It's a puzzle to solve. Lol.
I can so relate
I have found that the negativity is more profound in the news and social media. Dealing with everyday people, everyday, is totally the opposite. I don’t watch tv and I’ve cut back on social media.
Tv as long as it’s not 24/7 news cycle isn’t bad, but the social media I have been off of for 4-5 years now. Love not having it.
That’s a cool perspective, Tracey.
@@blueowlwill8754 news is the worst. I stopped watching tv in the 90’s. I found when I got home from work in a good mood, my mood would change after watching tv and I couldn’t figure out why I got so down. It was the news and all the bad shit they capitalize on that sadden or angered me. That’s when I shut the ignorant tube off. My mother would call me and asked if I saw something on the news and I would tell her, “mom you know I don’t look at the news” she asked, “well how the hell are you going to know what’s happening?” I told her “I will wait for you to call and tell me”, I like my mindset when it’s not being influenced by an entity I don’t trust anyway. I think if everyone threw their ignorant tube out the window, the world would be a better place because no one would be brainwashed and feeding on the propaganda that tv spew out.
As a woman alone, always go with your gut! You are a very strong woman,you have survived 100% of your life.
very well said Babs!
Mabe we can start caravans once we recover from covid. Hopfull. I like solitude. Not all the time. My choice when.
I suppose because I am in Florida it is hard for me to be in the covid mode. Our bodies are attacked by viruses all the time. We have to keep our natural defense against these viruses good and they are killed naturally.
Take care of your mental and physical self. You are strong .
I don’t think you are getting scared , I think you have gotten smarter on your decision of which road to take . Love your videos thanks for your hard work !
It is always nice to have someone to look out for you when you don’t feel good or lean on. Nothing wrong with that.
"EVERYBODY needs people" As a introvert, I AGREE 100% with Carolyn 's therapist . He or she is not saying 24/7 but we need people emotional and physically in our lives. . FOR 33 years , I can't find that balance in my life part time people time and my introvert time . I only know introvert time no friends or boyfriend and this is why i believe my depression is getting worse.
We all need company sometimes, not necessarily a lover, but just someone to connect with... My folks just came to visit and my Mom cooked dinner every night, that was such a gift. Maybe having a "me break" once in a while, like going to an AirBnB with nice amenities or even a BnB with vegan options, or planning road rendez vous with your peeps in fun places doing a shared camp out. The last year has been isolating on an unfamiliar level for a lot of folks - even us lone wolf types... I'm looking forward to multiple sustained "drive-abouts " when it's safe to do so.... Longing to see my peeps...
Thought provoking question regarding being alone in the future and having to do everything yourself. I feel that way often! I hear you.
Carolyn, I loved this video. There are many people that wouldn't open up like this and express these feelings. Remember the saying, "there is a season for every time". This is just a new season for you!
It kind of broke my heart to hear all the troubles you had while Capone was dying. What a trooper you are. Maybe someday we’ll meet on the road. Look forward to your next adventures.
What a delightful Lady Carolyn is. She is a gutsy lady doing what she loves to do in life. I don't know if I could go on the road like Carolyn does. God bless her
As a single mother of 4 kids since they were babies, I was really lonely and wished I had more support. But I weighed the pros and cons and am glad I did it by myself. I made all my own decisions, financially and moving all over the country, and I've enjoyed my independence and freedom. At 74, I'm so happy!!! Love you!!!
You are so lovely! Thank you for sharing your journey! I hope to enjoy some solo on-the-road life in the relatively near future. You are inspiring!
Love your Sun afternoon videos and coffee. Ironically, you’re keeping your viewers company while we clean house, relax, cook or do work reports.
Love that!
Yes, did the dishes in Christchurch, New Zealand watching this !
OO-oo-oo-ooo ! I've been all over the U.S. and most of Canada, but I've never been to the North east U.S. I'm so excited for you to take us there! Awesome!
Ahhhh - that video with those people with the shovels! I still often wonder what the heck they were doing out there! lol
Ha-ha. #6 - the 'Bonus' - I know that wasn't a cry-out for me to join you on your travels. But I'd sure love to! I feel that because I've also been an only child, therefore alone and independent (& I enjoy it) as well, we could have a lot of things to share alone & together! Including therapy! lol
I'm chuckling! No, I didn't take it as an invitation, and I definitely can't offer you an invite, but when I get my rig on the road, we can talk about a visit!
Always Entertaining! Always Insightful and always thoroughly enjoyable! Thank you!
Hi Carolyn, I'm 78, healthy and ready to RV. I had one years ago but at that time we both owned business's and never had time to use it. I've probably spent 100 hours listening to folks like you, and by the way, you are great. I think I've settled on a 30 foot with one slide because I believe that would be a safe size for one person traveling alone (except my labradoodle.:-) . I need an office area otherwise I could go down a little. I do magic, vent, balloons and just have a ball with people. I'll travel about five months year.. Maybe more. I just wanted to thank you for your channel. -keith
Yeah, you get tired of being the only grownup. I totally get that. It would be awesome to have a partner - friendship or whatever - to back one another up. You'd give as good as you get, so it would be a win/win situation. The stuff you've learned has given you the confidence and strength to make a friend who would be an equal; sometimes to just listen, sometimes to handle the sh*t, sometimes maybe just to cook dinner or walk with you. I was single for 15 years and loved most of it but sometimes just wanted another adult to take some of the stress. Or to share it. Whatever you do, we're supporting and admiring. Hugs to you and Sadie too.
My total respect for you having the courage to travel by yourself!
You are warm, funny and articulate, Carolyn! Your honesty and balanced perspective on a very radical lifestyle for us city-folk is refreshing. I have to subscribe because you are both entertaining and wise. Thank you, God bless you, and happy trails!
Mark, aw, that means a lot. Thank you and Welcome!!
Your sixth talking point was really so sincere and honest I applaud you for it. No Mensch should ever be 'alone' 90% of the time. We all need friendships, companionships and help. My son passed the beginning of February (see my twitter) and he was very independent. but yet very helpful for many of his friends. Not only do I miss him, but his friends feel as if their 'go to' is missing in their lives. I am amazed at the tons of calls and posts I receive about how much he is missed and just how much he has helped others. Everyone needs a friend they can depend on. If the friend happens to be a life partner, even better. We all get tired of doing everything on our own and that is as normal as breathing. Wishing you someone you can relie on. Hugs to you and Sadie. And yes, I am a mess right now.
My deepest condolences for your loss. Scars like these take time to heal over. You sound as if you’re giving yourself the time needed. Take care.
Great talk. You hit it on number 6. yes, All of number 6, I couldn't have said it better. lol The reason I've thought of going to Quartsite in Jan. I am hoping to find a friend.
Omg... I can totally relate with the bonus lesson. Another day I've posted the below words to my facebook page. It's so true to me:
"The inability to receive support from others is a trauma response.
Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning is a survival tactic. And you needed it to shield your heart from abuse, neglect, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you.
From the parent who was absent and abandoned you by choice or the parent who was never home from working three jobs to feed and house you.
From the lovers who offered sexual intimacy but never offered a safe haven that honored your heart.
From the friendships and family who ALWAYS took more than they ever gave.
From all the situations when someone told you “we’re in this together” or “I got you” then abandoned you, leaving you to pick up the pieces when shit got real, leaving you to handle your part and their part, too.
From all the lies and all the betrayals.
You learned along the way that you just couldn’t really trust people. Or that you could trust people, but only up to a certain point.
Extreme-independence IS. A. TRUST. ISSUE.
You learnt: if I don’t put myself in a situation where I rely on someone, I won’t have to be disappointed when they don’t show up for me, or when they drop the ball... because they will ALWAYS drop the ball EVENTUALLY right?
You may even have been intentionally taught this protection strategy by generations of hurt ancestors who came before you.
Extreme-independence is a preemptive strike against heartbreak.
So, you don’t trust anyone.
And you don’t trust yourself, either, to choose people.
To trust is to hope, to trust is to be vulnerable.
“Never again,” you vow.
But no matter how you dress it up and display it proudly to make it seem like this level of independence is what you always wanted to be, in truth it’s your wounded, scarred, broken heart behind a protective brick wall.
Impenetrable. Nothing gets in. No hurt gets in. But no love gets in either.
Fortresses and armor are for those in battle, or who believe the battle is coming.
It’s a trauma response.
The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed.
You are worthy of having support.
You are worthy of having true partnership.
You are worthy of love.
You are worthy of having your heart held.
You are worthy to be adored.
You are worthy to be cherished.
You are worthy to have someone say, “You rest. I got this.” And actually deliver on that promise.
You are worthy to receive.
You are worthy to receive.
You are worthy.
You don’t have to earn it.
You don’t have to prove it.
You don’t have to bargain for it.
You don’t have to beg for it.
You are worthy.
Worthy.
Simply because you exist.
-Jamila White, @inspiredjamila"
Wow.. yep. This is me.
thank you so much for sharing this. Very helpful.
:-)
Wow! That is beautifully profound. Thank you.
So interesting for those of us abandoned as children.
I recently found your channel, and the timing was perfect! 3 days ago I aggravated an old shoulder injury. 2 days ago I saw this video. By yesterday the shoulder was pretty bad. I'd been waiting on the arrival of a replacement solar panel, using a gas generator to supplement. When I pulled the cord on the generator it broke, so I had no choice but to leave my vehicle running for a while to use its battery so that my full fridge wouldn't spoil. I woke up in pain several times last night. Today I needed to relocate to pick up my new panel. Your "I can handle anything" was fresh in my mind! Loading my 6x14 cargo trailer camper was not easy, but I started saying to myself, "I can do this". I get music in my head a lot, so that became "I Can Do Anything" from the old Electric Company kids' show, which then became "Yes We Can Can" by the Pointer Sisters. By the time I'd successfully packed up and was on the road it had switched to the Beatles, "Mother Nature's Son"! I'm here now. Mission accomplished. Shoulder's even feeling a bit better. Thanks for just the assurance and inspiration I needed!
I love that ou are so human! You are honest and are willing to speak of your vulnerabilities, along with your needs and wants. Lots of great practical information as well. Kudos on doing so well and making it for five (now seven) years, Carolyn! 😊
Everybody needs a support base. Be it a few friends you can call on, bounce things off etc. I totally understand. It will be hard to reach out and do that. I watch another full time RV 'r and she has those friends when she needs them and she can go off and be by herself when she needs to also. it really seems ideal and for us viewers who guinuinely care about you all, it's great to see that you have that support on the road , when you need it. It's also good for the soul to know there are people out there who will be there when needed. Thanks for sharing.know this will be lost in all the comments but I'll say a little prayer that you.
Your fearless monolog and open heart sharing is what I admire and am inspired by the most.
Carolyn thank you so much for your videos! I'm getting prepared to start the full-time rv life and your videos have inspired me and helped alot . This video hit the nail on the head . These are the exact things I was worrying about. I now feel alittle less worried after watching. Thank again!
What wonderful insight to living on the road. We can, we can, we can. That is my self talk daily to keep doing what is needed. Well. I say I can, I can. It helps so much to say this and remind myself. Love hearing about all the situations you have been in. I remember so many of those You are so amazing. We need to have close friends to bounce thoughts off of them and hear others ideas. It just helps. I love being alone but need others at times
A couple of years ago I was camping alone near Q when I hurt my back. Lots of pain and hard to function. I knew I needed an ER but there was no one to care for my dog. Took a day to see if it improved but it didn't . Time to do SOMETHING! So I chose to drive 3 days to get back to my daughter's home. My doctors were there too. Somehow I made it, went to the ER and spent 3 days there as a patient. Having a pet along with you when having a big health concern of your own presents another issue re needing someone else around. While I enjoy my own solitude and company I now have to consider pet ownership too, especially as I age. Love and hugs to you Carolyn. Loved hearing about your last 5 years. I've been with you all along!
If you haven’t listened to your self in your video you need to Carolyn. What I’m hearing is that you are ready for companionship of some sort! You have fulfilled the experiences and travels for the last five years so, “been there done that. “
You loved it and you learned so much about yourself and now you’re ready for the next chapter in your life. Good luck friend!! 💕💕💕
Carolyn in many ways you and I are alike. My late husband and I were Rver's with no house other than our truck and camper in the mid 70's. We use to love to boon dock. I have been widowed many years and sometimes I feel as though I would like a companion, I get tired of going it alone. I have watched your channel now five years. I love how you challenge yourself. I believe we are always learning and with this comes growth and we are selective in our decisions. Yes for the most part people are kind and friendly and are willing to help others.
Great advise Carolyn . Love to follow your RV journey! I loved the one with when the RV tire got stuck with the big stone between the tire. Yes when you get older you really need people around to help you with whatever. Stay safe and God bless! ❤🙏
This whole video is such a terrific thing. You said everything perfectly. ....we do need people to be with sometimes. I hope you find what your looking for. We all need a friend to help us thru this thing called Life. Enjoy your week. Love & Light from Washington state.
Thank you so much!
Just stumbled onto your blog, now I am going to watch your other videos from the start. Good for you!!
I’ve heard about nomad groups, particularly for women. Perhaps you could connect with a few groups over some time in different areas, just to see who else might be out there. Not saying you’ll want to connect with a whole group at all, but maybe there will be a likeminded soul in one of those groups. 🤷♀️
A nomadic group for women sounds awesome!
I just found your channel. I am never going to be a nomad but totally enjoy living vicariously by watching your adventures. You are just such a likable person. Thanks for sharing your everyday life.
Welcome aboard! Thank you!
I think this is the first time I've come across your videos. I absolutely love how you think and your energy. You are so wise and beautiful. I'm looking forward to more of your videos.
I HEAR you and understand exactly. Life is better when shared with someone you are comfortable with, someone to care about and who cares back. Someone to share good times, hard times, expenses, challenges, adventures, quiet moments, sunsets, storms, the beauty of nature and everything life offers up. When we are lucky enough to find someone who is the right fit, someone you can trust and depend on, life has more value. But you have my utmost respect, because you are strong and living independently. You are badass, and the kind of friend I would welcome as a travel buddy. You are doing what many of us only dare to dream about. You are an inspiration to me and I hope that one day you have the good fortune to meet someone to share your life with. Who knows, maybe you are better off alone. Living in tight quarters can be challenging when someone else snores, doesn't know when to be quiet, tries to rush you or thinks they know best. It sucks when your companion isn't tidy or self-aware or easily takes you for granted. So, as nice as a friend would be to have for many reasons, their are so many ways they could make life less enjoyable and make it harder for you. There is a trade-off, and you should really think about just how adjustable you are and how set in your ways you have become in your life. Would you enjoy what you do if your partner was pulling you in another direction? Much to consider.Still, I think what you crave is normal and universal. Just be careful what you wish for, you might not be so happy once you have it. Wishing you the very best, and that I could be your friend.
I can completely relate to the last one, thank you for sharing! It's a strange almost uncomfortable feeling to want people around....the inter-conflict is real! It helped hearing words that go along with how I feel and have been living my life.
Absolutely!!
Hi Carolyn, been viewing your videos. Think you’re just amazing! Take care, be safe and stayhappy.
What a fantastically honest and entertaining video. Good luck with your journey.
Marry Me....Marry Me....Marry Me....Just teasing. This the first video I have seen from you. I will check out some of your previous videos. What I did takeaway from this was the need for some nice companionship once in awhile. Most people just get a dog. It is natural for us to want to pair up with someone and share life. Male or Female it does not really matter. Intimacy take it or leave it. It is just nice to have someone around to bond with and enjoy. I hope you find a nice companion and continue on down the road.
"Maybe I'm more evolved than that." LOL That made me truly laugh out loud, I totally relate! Loved this video, thanks for sharing.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I know, how absurd am I??? LOL
@@CarolynsRVLife What? We don't need no stinkin' people! LMAO
My gut reaction is that this video like all of your videos is candid, honest, and helpful; not only for RVers or people who are considering that life but ordinary people who don't want anything to do with that lifestyle. Not letting fear stop you from trying new things is one of the most important qualities you have in my opinion. I wish you all the happiness that is possible in your life. Cheers
Thank you so much Blade Runner!!
I totally get where your coming from! I'm 58 on disability living alone with my little Chihuahua. Sometimes I think, it would be so nice to have someone take the trash out, cook dinner, service the car etc. I am a loner tho. I don't necessarily want a relationship either. Companionship and some help would be cool. People weren't meant to be alone all the time.
This was one of your best, most grounded videos. I so can relate! Thanks
I hear you about getting bored, living alone for a long period of time I believe we need to be looking forward to something that interests us. A change is always a good thing I believe. I have had some of these same feelings and have struggled and then something joyful happened or experiencing something new some how refreshes me and I find myself back in harmony. But we all need a way to vent our thoughts. You are a warrior.
I've been alone for 30 years (also by choice) and I LOVE it. I must add that if it wasn't for my animals, I would have struggled. I disagree with your therapist.😁 People can be so "high maintenance" and I am so done with that. I truly hope you can find your "happy medium". We're all so different. Love & light.💕
AGREE no smothing no clinging no whining.... A real grown up.... Friend.... HUGS love u Carolyn... Terrific. Stay well....
I love all that you shared, Carolyn. I especially appreciated your realization that maybe, just maybe, there would be value in being around people a little more often. Sharing time with the right people, who support and inspire us, and give us something to help further our personal growth, can have tremendous value for our journey. And having others to share the workloads, too, can preserve our psychic resources for other, more creative endeavors. It's all about finding the right balance for ourselves. Thanks for letting us peek into your thought processes on all that. I hope you find some groups, of like-minded nomads, to caravan with. Seems like that scenario could tick many of those boxes. Remember, sharing yourself -- your personal energy, your many gifts -- with others is an important part of the dynamic, too. Think of all those being deprived of your occasional presence! 🥰 Blessings to you as you venture out into these new 'connections' ❣ 💕🙏
Your channel came up on my feed. First video I've seen and great intro to your channel. Love your discussion about your bonus lesson. I can totally relate.
Thoroughly enjoyed this video Carolyn, thanks for all the great content!
Always such inspiring content! Thanks for sharing!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love your overall positive outlook! Life has a way of teaching us that we are able to handle what we think we can't, and thank you for sharing your tips and your great encouragement on your journey. Will be praying that you will meet some great friends or some really sweet guy that will care for you as a companion on the road where you can meet from time to time. Someone you can share ideas and life concerns with; not someone to marry unless you choose otherwise but someone to bounce ideas off of :). We're rooting for you. Don't let yourself down. You are a wonderful and smart person to be around, and you will get what you put out there as you just did. Praying for your companion/faithful friend to come soon! Stay busy... and they will be there before you know it!
I loved this video and love to hear your mind in all your vids. So impressed with you as a person.
thank you so much. I appreciate your kind note!
Keep doin what you do. I appreciate you sharing with us.
Love.
You cannot stop what your doing this is a great video
Good morning Carolyn. Number 6 - way too funny - you go sister and thank you for the chuckles - great attitude young lady LOL
Awesome 👍 very informative thanks Carolyn.God Bless .
Hello again. Glad to see your doing so well. Keep enjoying life.
I'm very much like you Carolyn, with the similar sentiments about life, i'm so happy to have watched this video today - i'm preparing to embark on a journey similar to yours... i'll be watching more of your videos - see you out there! (if you're ever in Canada)
Great discussion!
FUN video! You have done a lot of growing and changing ... keep up the good work! I'm glad you are feeling better! :)
Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself! I'm really struggling with my desire to sell off, pack up and move on...
Great video. Good to see your journey. Cheers. All the best.
Your honesty is so refreshing! Be with people once in a while. It's okay. U can always drive away....
Great video. Thanks for your honesty.
Great video Carolyn! Sure hit home, I'm sure, for a lot of us. I certainly understand your train of thought though. Being alone is a good thing but not necessarily the best thing. Good luck with all your decisions in the future. I enjoy watching the strength you have in your daily life on the road. Thank you for sharing!👍😊🙏
As a longtime widow, I think you just miss having someone to share with you the beautiful moments and the plans and the problems . I’m not on the road but I am alone since retirement and I think I understand exactly what you mean. I choose being alone 99% of the time but I cave company from time to time.
Great video. It makes perfect sense that you would only now start to think about having an easier way to interact with others at times. You really needed to immerse yourself in that peace and quiet that your soul craved until that longing was completely sated. We all are luckier when we have a few friends we love to be with once in a while. It is harder to spontaneously get together in the RV life, so I wish you good luck in figuring out how that works for you. During this pandemic, even the most introverted of us have experienced a new appreciation for a bit of human contact, and it has grown into real longing for many of us, and a joy that our options are increasing soon. Maybe all of that global longing is out there in a Universal Unconscious that is bumping into you. Who knows. lol I'm just happy for you. Best wishes.
Wow, your pretty amazing. Good for you for all you've done, AND for looking inside for new 🆕 insights. Funny thing, I've been feeling the same thing about friendships and lack of. And I'm in the middle of a city , relationship, and being surrounded by people . Great show, I'll stay tuned .
Great video! I found this very interesting and insightful.
Appreciated your honesty & transparency.
I appreciate that
Sista from another Mista, I remember most of the times you spoke of. Staying down the road on some land that the previous owners I believed helped you with some veggies and mowing the path. Also NC and the lights shining in. The trail of tears. Capone. It's been a pleasure sharing your journey vicariously thru the web. Now your planning on coming to my neighborhood. Northeast.......New England.. ..Can't wait. Don't miss the Berkshires in Mass. Take the Mohawk trail. The white mountains in New Hampshire. Kennybunkport Maine. Burlington Vermont... Cape Cod... Have a great summer and it would be my pleasure and honor to someday meet you. Your the best.. As someone famous said.." Thanks for the memories". 💜👣✌
Great lessons Carolyn. Life is meant to be shared. Life is about relationships. ☺️
Super proud of you for sharing #6. That was the best info for me because I am alot like you. It might take me 3-6 yrs. To conclude the same thing. You are a super cool lady!
I agree this hit on Mankind has opened our eyes mind and heart thank you for sharing
You are a great role model ❤️❤️🐾
CAROLYN YOU ARE VERY BRAVE, I ALWAYS WANTED TO TRY YOUR LIFE, BUT EVERYTHING GOT IN THE WAY. I ENJOY YOUR VIDEOS, SO BE HAPPY AND STAY SAFE.
That sixth thing - very resonant for me, too. Thanks for sharing, it gives me another way to consider it - the joys and drawbacks of solitude.
Carolyn, you are growing and changing.
Don’t feel bad that you feel like you may be tired of being alone. I love being alone too. I could never give up my independence. But I did meet someone who felt the same way and we’ve built a life together, but somehow have managed to remain very independent. I sometimes wish I was all alone again, but you are right, life is easier with a partner. I enjoyed your video, thanks for sharing you life with all of us. ❤️✌🏼
I just found you and 8m so happy! You have a lot if wisdom and I so look forward to your future adventures!!
Carolyn having the right people in your life is the key. I have been very much a loner my entire life. Was married with kids for 20 years and was miserable. My kids are now grown and have their own families and I live in a tiny cottage by the lake. Yes it is all up to me to fix, pay to fix or ignore things. I know though that I would not be able to do what you do every day living on the road. I need a home base. You can meet your girlfriends when you want to have company and go off on your own when you don't. Not sure I could live with anyone at this point as too set in my ways. Love my friends and we keep in touch regularly but love my space too.
Thank you! I always learn something important from your videos, I think because you're so honest as well as experienced in the nomad life, which I've just begun.
Looking forward to getting on the road full time!