@@andrewthomas4941 - The only theory I have come up with is: despite what these girls are doing they bring in simp customers for the gym, so the gym looks the other way. Otherwise I have no explanation.
After I lost 50 lbs. I had a total stranger walk up to me during a workout and say "Hey, I used to see you here years ago, you've lost a lot of weight and look great!" Absolutely made my day. I guess I should have pulled out the mace instead?
Why you only ever compliment your fellow men and stay quiet with women. I don't want someone claiming unwanted advances, assault, and stalking so I just nod (acknowledge you exist / hi), pull my hat down to my eyes, hoodie up, and lift. Can't accuse me anything if the bill of my hat goes down to my nose / upper lip.
Im 66 and have trained in gyms since I was 21. Recently a youngish female was staring at me and grimacing. I went over to ask if she was OK, and she told me to leave her alone and stop harrassing her! In 66 and have been training in gyms for 45 years... Ive never experienced anything like that before!
I am also 66. and a service connected veteran.. with PTSD..In a gym everyone is looking in the. direction on of someone else.. I do with a 1000 yard stare not cause of the person but cause of my PTSD
1, as a woman i HATE that woman like this give the ones that truly want to work out a bad name 2, ban filming from the gym unless for training purposes only with concent from gym or something, if you wanna tictoc do it at home, if you make so much money with it you can buy your own stuff 3, do not let ppl get away with this behaviour, if some1 really needs help nobody will dare to help anymore
women destroyed my life. I am 35. Plenty of time to show me something good. But no. Now I dont care about women. I hate them. And at least I got my revenge by staying at home living by state welfare while those dumb bitches have to work and play monkey videos on social media to earn money while i chill, dine, do sports, walk outside and reading books and sleep and enjoying vavation free time 24h a day and 365 a year.
@-Autocons9999 What stand? Good women do not really stand up for men. A RUclips comment means nothing. If they cared, they would make videos and call out their fellow females or start a rally or movement.
The girl that keep asking you need something?! The guy was part of the staff and was wondering why she was undressing on the floor! When he tried to talk to uer after being so rude! He took her to the front and cancelled her membership and she banned her! Good job! 😂😂😂
I remember once in the gym there was this girl who literally once or twice a week she accused someone of harassment even if they didn’t see her and one time she get stuck doing an excercise literally no one wanted to go near her and she stayed like that for like 10 minutes until someone help her
Back in the days when women were not so brainwashed by media promoting anti-man hate, and before cell phones, guys approached women in ways like this to be either a gentleman or to try and get to know her for a possible date. Sure you have rude guys, but most weren't.
Buck , Most women back in the old days were very old fashioned and real ladies since looks and wealth back then never mattered either. Meeting a good woman in those days was so much easier the way our parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles did. Women today are just psycho.
@@buckjones4901 Hello again, It is very sad the type of low life loser pathetic women that are everywhere nowadays unfortunately. And they're real Karen's too. Today women have very severe mental issues as well, especially the ones that will even curse at many of us single guys for no reason at all when we will just try to start a conversation with these morons by just saying good morning or hello. Had it happened to me already, and other single guys that i know. These women really need to see a good shrink since most of these women are beyond repair.
Back in the day, men could approach women and it was normal. As long as you weren't being a creep, being too forward, or making sexual comments, it was fine. The old saying was "go talk to her dude, what's the worst that could happen?" But these days, there are actual consequences that could happen if you talk to her, which is why most guys don't approach anymore. It's really sad.
Well, yeah. I'd stop caring too if anytime I just want to help I get accussed of one thing or another. Why go out of your way to be kind when all you get in return is a shitshow?
@@CenerothXaris id rather get a shitshow in return and save someones life rather than not helping at all not to experience a shitshow and let someone die or get hurt. me, honestly
The gym is supposed to be a place to workout, self-improvement, and empowerment. Instead, it's a breathing ground to destroy men's character and reputation. Nobody asked to come if you don't like people around stay your ass home they've ruined the gym culture I workout from time to time. Last week I was at the gym I can tell you it was a breath of fresh air there were a lot more men working out doing their own thing you don't have to worry about being labeled as a creep. And if you want to use a machine they'll let you know and maybe offer some tips when there done nor will they have an attitude and sometimes I see other guys just talking offering pointers. My point is it's just more enjoyable experience there's no built up anxiety or uncomfortable feelings. If you look for one second in their direction they give you dirty looks, lable you as a creep, and post a video on social media they are not there to workout there their to expose men who are so called looking at them. Not mention they like to show off their Skippy gym outfits to the internet It's all for attention and validation. There was a video out there where this young woman accused a man for so called staring at her she tried to destroy his character and reputation well joke's on her. She was kicked out and had her gym membership revoked justice was served I don't even see men interact with them it's gotten to the point where a girl was struggling with a weight and was stuck asking for help. Nobody responded and we know why it would be better if there were separate gyms I would support that 100% it just makes me sick seeing what they do at the gym.
I still don't understand why all these women who say they don't want to be looked at wear the most sexualized clothing at the gym. I think they like the attention if they didn't they wouldn't have posted a video of it in the first place and posted their ass all over social media.
@@aegis062 Thats what im talking about! ... Its hypocritical in the purest form! There was a podcast i watch 2 weeks ago, and they were talking about girls who posted everything (Photos, videos etc.) on Instagram or what ever... and they really tried to say they post it for themselfes! ... Wtf? ... If i would like to make Photos and videos only for ME, i wouldnt post it on social media! ... The ONLY reason, to post it on social media, is that you wanna see the reactions from others! ... If it was only for you, it hasnt to be uploaded! .... What kind of stupid fucking sense is THAT? ... I have the feeling that, the most of them are just good for ONE thing... thats why they are on Tinder, Instagram etc.
"And we know why it would be better if there were separate gyms I would support that it just makes me sick seeing what they do at the gym." .... absolutely agreed.... the thing is, there are even woman, which dont like being watched from other womans! ... Very rare but they exists! ... Where i just think for myself: "If you dont want that someone look at you in the first place, why are you dont exercise at home? ... How does it fit with your dating life? ... If you dont want that someone is staring for like 3 seconds, how are you be able to meet new people? Or even find a boyfriend/girlfriend?" ... Questions to which there is no plausible answer! But they would come up with "Outside of the gym im dressing myself in a different way" ... worst argument ...
Buddy, do u understand that not every woman is like that? It is only psychos and sickos who do that, these people ill and sick with self obsession, narcisizm etc these people will bwver live normal life...Look how many of them are single :) they will never get married and will nwver be happy...If a woman is not happy she goes destroys everyone and blame men for their own shit
The thing I never understood about people at the gym belittling others for the weight they pull is.... We all started some place. I guarantee just about everyone started with only the bar. That time may have been at 12 or 13 or at 45. It don't matter. Help lift each other up, not tear each other down. As for guys smack talking each other about the weight they are pulling when doing sets together. Every instance I have seen of that is between friends. Friendly competition is great, even though it may not look friendly from the outside.
The craziest thing is that if he attacked her, he would probably still win and beat her. Biology does play a role. He doesn’t need to lift more weight than her to overtake her
I think it's a youth thing? I used to be able to lift much more, but I had a motorcycle wreck and ever since then my bench press is truly pathetic. I work out, but I'm over 50 and I'm not sure I'll ever bench over 200 again. However, I can literally squeeze a large man unconscious (and have). Yet I work out privately at home because my bench press is so poor and my back is also injured.
@@westhemann Possibly. What I have been seeing is different than pushing each other. My buds and I would always talk smack to get pumped up. This is different. There seems to be real derision and that could be attributed to youth.
Same in my Kung Fu class. I literally try not to zone out accidentally on a skin tight yoga pants, or try to look like I'm "watching the form" whenever I look at a girl like that. Honestly f***g annoying, unnecessary and just messes up my training flow.
Hey guys and girls am a girl and I love this video ❤️ but it brakes my heart to see we're treating each other like that,I would never treat a person like that guy/girl with out strong evidence,in my book it's equal rights and justice 🌹❤
Such a paradox. They record their arses for everyone (probably teenagers mostly) to see, yet they get mad if someone happens to cross his eyes on the very same arse...That logic...
Unless they think the dude is attractive. It’s like “catcalling” is only that when they don’t find the guy attractive. It’s an excuse. But I bet if it was a guy they thought was hot, they’d take it as a compliment
The girl at 5:30 makes me think of the parody song Camel Toe. They wear clothes that look like they were spray painted on then get mad when someone looks at them (usually because it's not who they want looking at them).
You know, I do judge people at the gym, but never in a bad way. If i look over at someone doing weights, its most likely always more than what im doing. In my head i just tell myself" damn they're strong."
I've been in the gym for 47 years, they were so much better before cell phones. men and women are possessed by their cell phones they have to pick it up in between every set......why ? Nothing pisses me off more then somebody tying up a machine or bench while they are looking at their phone.
I've done my whole workout: 3 sets of each machine I do and some guy is just sitting on the machine. Waiting for a girl to come and ask him out or something. Maybe his wife sent him to the gym for an hour? wtf are these people doing who just sit on a machine?
I hear you and I HATE it, too! I hate PF in the summer when the gym is infiltrated with non-paying high schoolers who come in multiples and take turns monopolizing the same pieces of equipment for 15-20 minutes!
1:18 she even admits to going to them gym for attention and when she thinks she is getting attention she gets mad ... girl is a perfect example of trying to be something she is not too full of herself.
This generation of women are insane when it comes to attention seeking... Im not sure what's lacking in their homes but their parents are doing them dirty if they all so screwed up in the head....not everyone wants you sis....🚩🚩😩
I would love a women gym with no cell phones allowed!!!! I’m married, and I feel like I rather just be around women and make friends w other married women 😂 I think it’s gotten to a point. Where it’s not safe for either gender. Especially w women needing to be half naked for attention .. and I’ve seen some scary videos of homeless men walking in to gyms attacking women. So it’s just better. Separate 😂
As a woman, I liked going to the gym because competent men helped me develop and get stronger, but since these TikTok girls have been coming there, they have been ridiculing, humiliating and slandering not only me, but men as well. It is unfortunate that there is nothing we can do about it.
I'm 76 years old. I've had success in relationships using what I call the "kidney test". Once I got to know a girl/woman, I'd ask myself "Is this a person to whom I would donate a kidney?" If the answer was no, I'd walk away.
It's actually hilarious how they wear full shapewear to the gym like they're Olympic Bobsledders or something while moving dumbell weights on squats when bro's lifting the equivalent of a medium sized buffalo in his loose singlet and pyjamas
Good thing I made some life changes early. Ditched social media, ditched my gym membership, and started working at a garage door warehouse. Rather of paying to lift and being in constant worry about being judged, I can now get paid to lift without the judgement 👍🏻
1st girl wasn’t toxic at all…She shot her shot respectfully and the moment dude said he was “just trying to workout” she went on with her business. Nothing wrong there.
I'm so glad no more of these gym girls come to my MMA dojo. A few did try. One literally wore only a crop bra and all the boys were feeling uncomfortable. One of them literally came up to me and asked me to tell the girl to put a shirt on. I had no issue with the request because the dojo is family orientated and I teach self defence to youngsters and infants as well. I told her, "look I have nothing against your body but you are making the boys uncomfortable. Please get a shirt on. There are also children present that just finished their class before you and thier parents are not pleased. Put a shirt on." She didn't like it, and tried to fight me. The boys noticed and had my back and bolted to the bossman. He came in and confronted the girl but she played the victim card instantly. He too said get a shirt on. She left, never returned.
I just joined my first gym after years of free weights at home. I’m scared to look too long at the eye candy. They wear literally no clothes so people will look but then get offended if you look too long. Wear a tshirt and regular shorts or pants if you don’t want men to look.
I wish I was born at a time where where I could be able to go without being judged. I know I haven't gone to a gym yet but I SWEAR when I do this is going to happen.
its probably because you live in USA ngl. no other country does this kind of thing. atleast not in the gym i go to. and stop caring about what other people think, youre there for you, not for them.
@9:04 "type of girl who never smiles, never makes eye contact, but is really nice if you approach her." There are lots of girls who are nice if you approach them, especially if you're in really good shape and clearly are at the gym to workout, not hit on women. And bonus points if you don't approach a lot of girls, they'll notice if you only approach girls you're actually interested in and know that you're not just talking to every girl there. Makes them feel special. But just because they're nice, smiling, giggling etc. Don't mistake that for actual interest. The odds of finding a girlfriend at the gym are shockingly low, no matter how well the conversation goes. I've had interactions like the guy had with the girl @9:15. Goes great, you leave feeling good, maybe even have some butterflies. But it either doesn't go anywhere, or the next time you see her, she's avoiding you. That's the worst, when they avoid you and you have no idea why.
I watch people in the gym all the time. Not because I'm a weirdo but because that's how I learn. I'm only two years in. And started by simply seeing what people with better physiques than me do. And it still applies.
I’ve been going to the gym for over 15 years and I do not start or engage in any conversations with ANY women at the gym. I’ve learned my lesson a long time ago with one bad instance that happened to me.
Its funny how a few months or years from now most of the guys would stop trusting women and there would be no one to give them the attention they want😂😂 Wht r they gonna do then???😂😂😂
YEARS AGO I WALKED INTO MERVYNS, WHEN THEY WERE STILL IN BUSINESS, I HELD THE DOOR OPEN FOR A WOMAN COMING, SHE SAID TO ME, I CAN OPEN MY OWN DOORS! I WOULD HAVE DONE THAT FOR ANY HUMAN BEING! ALWAYS FOR THE NEXT PERSON COMING.
I was at the gym one time and this girl thought I was flirting with her just because I asked her if she was using a machine. Her entire attitude was disgusting, if only she knew I have a gay dating app on my phone. Narcissists will always believe everyone is interested in them.
This is insane. I am a woman. I was a damn good athlete in high school and college. I wore a t-shirt and a pair of gym shorts to work out in. I was comfortable and felt no need to film for ANY reason, not form or anything. Did I get hit on? On occasion sure but most of the time, guys knew I was there to focus and respected that. Just keep your eyes on your own paper and do your workout.
I was working out (I’m 57, and it took 10 years to get back into it) I’m very insecure about my fitness level now and it was hard to start. I was about 1 week into getting back and walking on a treadmill… the about 25 year old girl next to me sighed really heavily and got off hers. She said “ugh fuck! Old pervert” and looked at me. I was completely caught off guard. It really bothered me. I then moved to free weights and started very low because I’m old and not in shape anymore. This same girl got the manager to come over and question why i decided to start using a treadmill next to this girl and make moaning sounds while walking next to her. I was shocked. I explained that I was out of shape and breathing was difficult after 15 minutes of incline walking. The girl told him to tell me she had a boyfriend and she didn’t want me near her again. I was like “wtf? I’m gay” I walked over to her and told her I’m gay and she is delusional. I also told her she is a 4 on a good day and if I wasn’t gay, I still wouldn’t be interested in her.
when your new to a gym or waiting for a trainer they often tell you to sit somewhere and wait and watch others to try learn how the machines work & lift techniques
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I really hate gym creeps. I mean they just bring their cameras and act like they own the gym, trying to get attention from the internet. Good thing there is Joey Swole who calls out these creeps. Wish they would just ban these ferals and their cameras.
I turn my back on women at the gym or look up at the ceiling. I'm there to work out not try to look at someone who is obviously seeking attention by wearing ultra tight cloths with no underwear. After a few fake sets they usually walk away.
Woman lifting more weight than a guy : "I'm stronger than him!" Guy lifting less weight than a woman: "I'll be toned soon enough" It's amazing to me that a woman see's a man lifting less weight than the maximum he can as a negative. Look up the definition of Toning. I can not go to the gym for years and curl a 60 pound dumbbell, I sure as sh-t aint gonna do reps with it though. I'm gonna grab 20-25's and do large rep, multiple sets with those. That doesn't mean I'm weak, that means I'm smart lol. Aint no one making fun of any woman doing 80 pound bench presses or like those squat bars with the extra bars and pads on them, they come off as training wheels for a squat, but again its work smarter not harder. Doing a regular squat is awkward, I would use the padded bars too.
I was playing basketball when my brother was working out and there was a girl that was recording me and I glanced over and said why are you recording me and she said that was just watching how good you were playing and I said stop recording me
Dude... If I were a man at the gym, I would be so screwed. I have this habit of letting my eyes wander through the place sometimes, and there are even some instances where I'll just *stare* at a specific spot for long periods of time-
I am a girl...But I would never act like that if someone talks to me....however, I do like to go just to workout....but these girls are like in another level....Go to the gym to mind you and that is it...if you want attention....then go somewhere else to do this....sad that guys can not workout freely ....this is way to toxic....
See this is exactly why I just will NEVER talk to a young woman in the gym. Especially not one filming herself. I'm aware that people don't go to the gym to he spoken to, and it's not as if I'm saying anyone should want me especially to talk to them, but I do like talking a bit to people I see in the gym regularly. It's just nice to talk to the faces you see all the time, because you obviously share the fitness hobby. However I just won't speak to young women. I have a real fear of being labelled a creep. Simply for just being friendly and kind and enjoying getting to know people. It's like there's an assumption that I have different intentions. I get it that no girl can ever know that I'm not a scumbag if they've never spoken to me, but it seems like some people just assume the worst instead of giving you a fair chance. It's the same as if I saw a young girl influencer doing a certain exercise in a manner in which could be dangerous. I'm an experienced gym user of 14 years so I know from experience what's safe and dangerous. But if I saw a young woman putting herself at risk, I'd just do nothing. I can't take that risk.
I used to work at a gym and there was no filming anywhere on the premises. Mind you - this was a private gym in a condo but the rule COULD apply anywhere.
I started going to a gym after having my 3rd baby and had a guy ask me why I was there and when I told him why he gawked and said, "You are lying. You didn't have no baby. You look great." He made me blush.
that all sounds good but not everyone is there too work out, 40 to 60 percent depending on the gym are meat markets. i’m 58 and have been a gym rat for 40 years, and the gyms in general have changed so much.
Let's be real here girls if you're lifting more weight than the guy next to you in the gym he's either injured or your form is almost certainly atrocious. It's not a flex it's an admittance that you're ego lifting.
I don't mind men looking at me. I think it's flattering. And sometimes it makes me blush. And laugh sometimes because it is funny af how they sometimes stare hard.
Only in the USA. People there are so overly sensitive you can't even breath without being considered a weirdo. I have never encountered anything similar in my gym.
These people will go crazy in Berlin Germany and their hands will bleed because they will post 10 videos a day about a random old person staring at them.
7:05 What is the difference between the 2 guys? 1. is asking how you doing 2. is asking what's your neame (and touched her) - so what is the difference? Why is No. 1 the creep?
Why the fudge are American gyms allowing filming? It is banned in literally all gyms in Sweden. Just taking a selfie picture in a careless manner is frowned upon. If you ask for permission you might be allowed to film, but you then have to continuously ask every single person that might be in the shot for permission to film.
It's different nowadays, what is was going back a few years if a lady was in the way they would ask me if I needed a spot , more social back then!! tictok has made most things anti- social , more inflated sense of self with problems..
Just ban filming in gyms without permission.
I agree just stop the filming and why do they film them self anyway aren't they vane enough
@@neilgilbert6798 did you guys forget they want us look bad just for the whole world to love(fame addicts)them.
Yeah fr, idk what they waiting on
@@andrewthomas4941 - The only theory I have come up with is: despite what these girls are doing they bring in simp customers for the gym, so the gym looks the other way.
Otherwise I have no explanation.
In Germany filming in the gym is not allowed outright.
After I lost 50 lbs. I had a total stranger walk up to me during a workout and say "Hey, I used to see you here years ago, you've lost a lot of weight and look great!" Absolutely made my day. I guess I should have pulled out the mace instead?
No! That is a positive validation not a bullying. Compliments are making friends, bullies make enemies. Big difference!
@@evanagy2304 I think the point is that that’s how women react.
It’s women who react negatively, not men.
@@pn5705 I don't get it. React negatively to what? Bullying or compliment. I'm not sure about your answer. Which statement you answering to? Sorry!
Why you only ever compliment your fellow men and stay quiet with women. I don't want someone claiming unwanted advances, assault, and stalking so I just nod (acknowledge you exist / hi), pull my hat down to my eyes, hoodie up, and lift. Can't accuse me anything if the bill of my hat goes down to my nose / upper lip.
Give them vasaline
Im 66 and have trained in gyms since I was 21. Recently a youngish female was staring at me and grimacing. I went over to ask if she was OK, and she told me to leave her alone and stop harrassing her! In 66 and have been training in gyms for 45 years... Ive never experienced anything like that before!
I am also 66.
and a service connected veteran.. with PTSD..In a gym everyone is looking in the. direction on
of someone else.. I do with a 1000 yard stare not cause of the person but cause of my PTSD
Good grief. Please never stop being willing to help because of these morons. Thank you for trying!
Sorry for that happening to you. Hope you still have happiness for the gym tho
Sorry man.
They are told old people ruined the nation in school now. Its crazy, sorry that happened.
Valuable quote "You are in competition with no one but yourself.Only person you need to be stronger than is the person you were yesterday"
That's what I keep telling myself😂
WELL SAID!
not if I have both diarrhea and vomiting today tho.
Any other day, fine!
1, as a woman i HATE that woman like this give the ones that truly want to work out a bad name
2, ban filming from the gym unless for training purposes only with concent from gym or something, if you wanna tictoc do it at home, if you make so much money with it you can buy your own stuff
3, do not let ppl get away with this behaviour, if some1 really needs help nobody will dare to help anymore
U put the w in woman. Unlike the ppl in these tiktoks.
women destroyed my life. I am 35. Plenty of time to show me something good. But no. Now I dont care about women. I hate them. And at least I got my revenge by staying at home living by state welfare while those dumb bitches have to work and play monkey videos on social media to earn money while i chill, dine, do sports, walk outside and reading books and sleep and enjoying vavation free time 24h a day and 365 a year.
Amen
My mom would appreciate you taking a stand for women who just want to work out
@-Autocons9999
What stand?
Good women do not really stand up for men. A RUclips comment means nothing. If they cared, they would make videos and call out their fellow females or start a rally or movement.
The girl that keep asking you need something?! The guy was part of the staff and was wondering why she was undressing on the floor! When he tried to talk to uer after being so rude! He took her to the front and cancelled her membership and she banned her! Good job! 😂😂😂
I really hope this is true
That gym guy spits proper facts.
I remember once in the gym there was this girl who literally once or twice a week she accused someone of harassment even if they didn’t see her and one time she get stuck doing an excercise literally no one wanted to go near her and she stayed like that for like 10 minutes until someone help her
No one should’ve helped her. Period.
Back in the days when women were not so brainwashed by media promoting anti-man hate, and before cell phones, guys approached women in ways like this to be either a gentleman or to try and get to know her for a possible date. Sure you have rude guys, but most weren't.
Buck , Most women back in the old days were very old fashioned and real ladies since looks and wealth back then never mattered either. Meeting a good woman in those days was so much easier the way our parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles did. Women today are just psycho.
@@jamesdavidson676 I can't argue with you there James.
@@buckjones4901 Hello again, It is very sad the type of low life loser pathetic women that are everywhere nowadays unfortunately. And they're real Karen's too. Today women have very severe mental issues as well, especially the ones that will even curse at many of us single guys for no reason at all when we will just try to start a conversation with these morons by just saying good morning or hello. Had it happened to me already, and other single guys that i know. These women really need to see a good shrink since most of these women are beyond repair.
Back in the day, men could approach women and it was normal. As long as you weren't being a creep, being too forward, or making sexual comments, it was fine. The old saying was "go talk to her dude, what's the worst that could happen?" But these days, there are actual consequences that could happen if you talk to her, which is why most guys don't approach anymore. It's really sad.
@@fuzzypanda1684 And these moron women aren't worth approaching anymore either. Very dangerous unfortunately.
It's not fear that keeps men from helping these women. Men have simply stopped caring🤷🏻♂️
Exactly.
But, why have they stopped caring?
Because honestly, men have not changed that much....
Well, yeah. I'd stop caring too if anytime I just want to help I get accussed of one thing or another.
Why go out of your way to be kind when all you get in return is a shitshow?
@@CenerothXaris id rather get a shitshow in return and save someones life rather than not helping at all not to experience a shitshow and let someone die or get hurt. me, honestly
@@subliminalworkshopBless your heart. Maybe if people weren't enabling this bs behavior I'd actually give a damn to do what you just said.
The gym is supposed to be a place to workout, self-improvement, and empowerment. Instead, it's a breathing ground to destroy men's character and reputation.
Nobody asked to come if you don't like people around stay your ass home they've ruined the gym culture I workout from time to time.
Last week I was at the gym I can tell you it was a breath of fresh air there were a lot more men working out doing their own thing you don't have to worry about being labeled as a creep.
And if you want to use a machine they'll let you know and maybe offer some tips when there done nor will they have an attitude and sometimes I see other guys just talking offering pointers.
My point is it's just more enjoyable experience there's no built up anxiety or uncomfortable feelings.
If you look for one second in their direction they give you dirty looks, lable you as a creep, and post a video on social media they are not there to workout there their to expose men who are so called looking at them.
Not mention they like to show off their Skippy gym outfits to the internet It's all for attention and validation.
There was a video out there where this young woman accused a man for so called staring at her she tried to destroy his character and reputation well joke's on her.
She was kicked out and had her gym membership revoked justice was served I don't even see men interact with them
it's gotten to the point where a girl was struggling with a weight and was stuck asking for help.
Nobody responded and we know why it would be better if there were separate gyms I would support that 100% it just makes me sick seeing what they do at the gym.
I still don't understand why all these women who say they don't want to be looked at wear the most sexualized clothing at the gym. I think they like the attention if they didn't they wouldn't have posted a video of it in the first place and posted their ass all over social media.
@@aegis062 Thats what im talking about! ... Its hypocritical in the purest form!
There was a podcast i watch 2 weeks ago, and they were talking about girls who posted everything (Photos, videos etc.) on Instagram or what ever... and they really tried to say they post it for themselfes! ... Wtf? ... If i would like to make Photos and videos only for ME, i wouldnt post it on social media! ... The ONLY reason, to post it on social media, is that you wanna see the reactions from others! ... If it was only for you, it hasnt to be uploaded! .... What kind of stupid fucking sense is THAT? ...
I have the feeling that, the most of them are just good for ONE thing... thats why they are on Tinder, Instagram etc.
"And we know why it would be better if there were separate gyms I would support that it just makes me sick seeing what they do at the gym." .... absolutely agreed.... the thing is, there are even woman, which dont like being watched from other womans! ... Very rare but they exists! ... Where i just think for myself: "If you dont want that someone look at you in the first place, why are you dont exercise at home? ... How does it fit with your dating life? ... If you dont want that someone is staring for like 3 seconds, how are you be able to meet new people? Or even find a boyfriend/girlfriend?" ... Questions to which there is no plausible answer!
But they would come up with "Outside of the gym im dressing myself in a different way" ... worst argument ...
this is why i workout at home
Buddy, do u understand that not every woman is like that? It is only psychos and sickos who do that, these people ill and sick with self obsession, narcisizm etc these people will bwver live normal life...Look how many of them are single :) they will never get married and will nwver be happy...If a woman is not happy she goes destroys everyone and blame men for their own shit
The thing I never understood about people at the gym belittling others for the weight they pull is....
We all started some place.
I guarantee just about everyone started with only the bar.
That time may have been at 12 or 13 or at 45. It don't matter.
Help lift each other up, not tear each other down.
As for guys smack talking each other about the weight they are pulling when doing sets together. Every instance I have seen of that is between friends. Friendly competition is great, even though it may not look friendly from the outside.
The craziest thing is that if he attacked her, he would probably still win and beat her. Biology does play a role. He doesn’t need to lift more weight than her to overtake her
I think it's a youth thing? I used to be able to lift much more, but I had a motorcycle wreck and ever since then my bench press is truly pathetic. I work out, but I'm over 50 and I'm not sure I'll ever bench over 200 again.
However, I can literally squeeze a large man unconscious (and have). Yet I work out privately at home because my bench press is so poor and my back is also injured.
@@westhemann Possibly. What I have been seeing is different than pushing each other. My buds and I would always talk smack to get pumped up. This is different. There seems to be real derision and that could be attributed to youth.
They forget there is always a bigger fish
I've been a gym goer for over 30 years, but I now feel self-conscious in a way I never had before. If I could opt for a male-only gym I would.
Just get your own dumbbells.
Trust me it's worth.
I have 8 kg, 13 kg and 18 kg so about 5 kg in between x3 types
Same in my Kung Fu class. I literally try not to zone out accidentally on a skin tight yoga pants, or try to look like I'm "watching the form" whenever I look at a girl like that. Honestly f***g annoying, unnecessary and just messes up my training flow.
@@Sagatta32 Hell no !! Don't let 'em drive you out of your gym !!...We are as entitled as them to be there... 😒
Hey guys and girls am a girl and I love this video ❤️ but it brakes my heart to see we're treating each other like that,I would never treat a person like that guy/girl with out strong evidence,in my book it's equal rights and justice 🌹❤
Such a paradox. They record their arses for everyone (probably teenagers mostly) to see, yet they get mad if someone happens to cross his eyes on the very same arse...That logic...
Unless they think the dude is attractive. It’s like “catcalling” is only that when they don’t find the guy attractive. It’s an excuse. But I bet if it was a guy they thought was hot, they’d take it as a compliment
The girl at 5:30 makes me think of the parody song Camel Toe. They wear clothes that look like they were spray painted on then get mad when someone looks at them (usually because it's not who they want looking at them).
😂😂😂😂😂😂 When you are sexy then you are Flirting when you are ugly then you are molesting.
Woman logic for you.
You know, I do judge people at the gym, but never in a bad way. If i look over at someone doing weights, its most likely always more than what im doing. In my head i just tell myself" damn they're strong."
So, that would be a good form judgement.
Admiration is not a bad thing.
Because, even the strongest guys in the gym started somewhere.
i only judge when i see people fuck around in the gym or have bad form.
@@rampage3337lmao "bad form"? Who cares fool mind ur own business that's why ur still small and not making gains unlike me
yea sometimes i watch my gymsister workout and think: shes so strong and determinated; i think most of people have this thought
This is why I bought my own gym equipment and work out in the privacy of my home. Either you're lifting for ego or for life. life is more important!!
I've been in the gym for 47 years, they were so much better before cell phones. men and women are possessed by their cell phones they have to pick it up in between every set......why ? Nothing pisses me off more then somebody tying up a machine or bench while they are looking at their phone.
I've done my whole workout: 3 sets of each machine I do and some guy is just sitting on the machine. Waiting for a girl to come and ask him out or something. Maybe his wife sent him to the gym for an hour? wtf are these people doing who just sit on a machine?
I hear you and I HATE it, too! I hate PF in the summer when the gym is infiltrated with non-paying high schoolers who come in multiples and take turns monopolizing the same pieces of equipment for 15-20 minutes!
1:18 she even admits to going to them gym for attention and when she thinks she is getting attention she gets mad ... girl is a perfect example of trying to be something she is not too full of herself.
This generation of women are insane when it comes to attention seeking... Im not sure what's lacking in their homes but their parents are doing them dirty if they all so screwed up in the head....not everyone wants you sis....🚩🚩😩
W need male exclusive gyms so that these women can be toxic to each other far from us.
No, this makes things worse. Don't need to separate them, just the mentality of young people is fucked up
I would love a women gym with no cell phones allowed!!!! I’m married, and I feel like I rather just be around women and make friends w other married women 😂 I think it’s gotten to a point. Where it’s not safe for either gender. Especially w women needing to be half naked for attention .. and I’ve seen some scary videos of homeless men walking in to gyms attacking women. So it’s just better. Separate 😂
@@sayan1667 Nah. Why do THEY get to have a women’s only gym but not men?
Gender. Equality.
I get what you’re saying, and it’s admirable, but not fair.
@@pn5705 what do you mean with this gender equality?
@@sayan1667 Exactly what it sounds like.
Women get catered to. Men can’t get one thing-a men’s only gym. Simple as that.
As a woman, I liked going to the gym because competent men helped me develop and get stronger, but since these TikTok girls have been coming there, they have been ridiculing, humiliating and slandering not only me, but men as well. It is unfortunate that there is nothing we can do about it.
@user-zw9co9vd9h I like that! Be proud of your wife! She is a gem.😃👏👍
Stop misogyny
When you see someone (girl) recording themselves, just stand in front of the phone/camera and block the view.
@@bondgabebond4907 Good idea! Hopefully won't be hit for it. I'll try!😉
@@funnyk2755I think you meant to say misandry lol
She literally confessed to going to the gym for attention yet the first guy to look at her butt she threatens to report😂😂😂😂
I'm 76 years old. I've had success in relationships using what I call the "kidney test". Once I got to know a girl/woman, I'd ask myself "Is this a person to whom I would donate a kidney?" If the answer was no, I'd walk away.
Thos is some of the worst advice ive ever heard 😂
@@MrOj59 Then you should have no problem explaining why.
@@MrOj59 Crickets. Another internet troll with mouth in gear and brain in neutral.
If gyms would just ban filming on the gym floor this wouldn’t be a problem.
It's actually hilarious how they wear full shapewear to the gym like they're Olympic Bobsledders or something while moving dumbell weights on squats when bro's lifting the equivalent of a medium sized buffalo in his loose singlet and pyjamas
If I were at a gym and saw someone recording I’d give them a reason not to do that anymore
No you wouldn't, cause you're nice guy, not some kind of an ass. Most of those people doing that for attention, you'd just give them what they crave.
That's toxic
yes its toxic to record in the gym@@christaylor7916
Good thing I made some life changes early. Ditched social media, ditched my gym membership, and started working at a garage door warehouse. Rather of paying to lift and being in constant worry about being judged, I can now get paid to lift without the judgement 👍🏻
1st girl wasn’t toxic at all…She shot her shot respectfully and the moment dude said he was “just trying to workout” she went on with her business. Nothing wrong there.
I'm so glad no more of these gym girls come to my MMA dojo. A few did try. One literally wore only a crop bra and all the boys were feeling uncomfortable. One of them literally came up to me and asked me to tell the girl to put a shirt on.
I had no issue with the request because the dojo is family orientated and I teach self defence to youngsters and infants as well.
I told her, "look I have nothing against your body but you are making the boys uncomfortable. Please get a shirt on. There are also children present that just finished their class before you and thier parents are not pleased. Put a shirt on."
She didn't like it, and tried to fight me. The boys noticed and had my back and bolted to the bossman. He came in and confronted the girl but she played the victim card instantly. He too said get a shirt on. She left, never returned.
I just joined my first gym after years of free weights at home. I’m scared to look too long at the eye candy. They wear literally no clothes so people will look but then get offended if you look too long. Wear a tshirt and regular shorts or pants if you don’t want men to look.
"I know I go to the gym for attention, and barely do anything...but this is not right..."😂
I wish I was born at a time where where I could be able to go without being judged. I know I haven't gone to a gym yet but I SWEAR when I do this is going to happen.
20 years ago it was pretty good.
@@livestock9722 And 20 years from now, someone will say “20 years ago back in 2023 it was pretty good”.
its probably because you live in USA ngl. no other country does this kind of thing. atleast not in the gym i go to. and stop caring about what other people think, youre there for you, not for them.
You literally can't go out anywhere, nor do anything without being called a creep crazy asf yo.....
9.15 What a sweet friendly girl . Parents should be proud of their upbringing 👍. (greetings from the Netherlands)
This vid is really interesting. Thanks for uploading.
Why is everyone so toxic? And by everyone I mean all of us women?
too spoiled and entitled
@9:04 "type of girl who never smiles, never makes eye contact, but is really nice if you approach her." There are lots of girls who are nice if you approach them, especially if you're in really good shape and clearly are at the gym to workout, not hit on women. And bonus points if you don't approach a lot of girls, they'll notice if you only approach girls you're actually interested in and know that you're not just talking to every girl there. Makes them feel special.
But just because they're nice, smiling, giggling etc. Don't mistake that for actual interest. The odds of finding a girlfriend at the gym are shockingly low, no matter how well the conversation goes. I've had interactions like the guy had with the girl @9:15. Goes great, you leave feeling good, maybe even have some butterflies. But it either doesn't go anywhere, or the next time you see her, she's avoiding you. That's the worst, when they avoid you and you have no idea why.
I watch people in the gym all the time. Not because I'm a weirdo but because that's how I learn. I'm only two years in. And started by simply seeing what people with better physiques than me do. And it still applies.
I’ve been going to the gym for over 15 years and I do not start or engage in any conversations with ANY women at the gym. I’ve learned my lesson a long time ago with one bad instance that happened to me.
Matey had absolutely no time for the girl just being polite 😂😂😂
Its funny how a few months or years from now most of the guys would stop trusting women and there would be no one to give them the attention they want😂😂
Wht r they gonna do then???😂😂😂
YEARS AGO I WALKED INTO MERVYNS, WHEN THEY WERE STILL IN BUSINESS, I HELD THE
DOOR OPEN FOR A WOMAN COMING, SHE SAID TO ME, I CAN OPEN MY OWN DOORS! I WOULD
HAVE DONE THAT FOR ANY HUMAN BEING! ALWAYS FOR THE NEXT PERSON COMING.
I was at the gym one time and this girl thought I was flirting with her just because I asked her if she was using a machine. Her entire attitude was disgusting, if only she knew I have a gay dating app on my phone. Narcissists will always believe everyone is interested in them.
I’m a woman and this angers me. I use to love my gym but lately I’m not enjoying it. The girls make it uncomfortable and not the men!
This is why I have a rowing machine at home.
Lol
This is insane. I am a woman. I was a damn good athlete in high school and college. I wore a t-shirt and a pair of gym shorts to work out in. I was comfortable and felt no need to film for ANY reason, not form or anything. Did I get hit on? On occasion sure but most of the time, guys knew I was there to focus and respected that. Just keep your eyes on your own paper and do your workout.
I was working out (I’m 57, and it took 10 years to get back into it) I’m very insecure about my fitness level now and it was hard to start.
I was about 1 week into getting back and walking on a treadmill… the about 25 year old girl next to me sighed really heavily and got off hers. She said “ugh fuck! Old pervert” and looked at me. I was completely caught off guard. It really bothered me. I then moved to free weights and started very low because I’m old and not in shape anymore. This same girl got the manager to come over and question why i decided to start using a treadmill next to this girl and make moaning sounds while walking next to her. I was shocked. I explained that I was out of shape and breathing was difficult after 15 minutes of incline walking. The girl told him to tell me she had a boyfriend and she didn’t want me near her again. I was like “wtf? I’m gay”
I walked over to her and told her I’m gay and she is delusional. I also told her she is a 4 on a good day and if I wasn’t gay, I still wouldn’t be interested in her.
Gym culture doesn't need toxic femininity
when your new to a gym or waiting for a trainer they often tell you to sit somewhere and wait and watch others to try learn how the machines work & lift techniques
I workout at my local YMCA…They don’t allow cellphones in the workout area…So ppl don’t have to worry about this childish behavior
How can you automatically assume that some women that you can approach are wife material????😂
absolute naivety and no life experience
Guessing
By thinking in absolutes aka being dumb
Influencer: someone with no real job, who believes that they can change the mind of others, usually on social media speaking about things with no experience nor educational training.
It’s not toxic Gym culture,it’s toxic feminism.
I’m a woman and I approve this comment! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
And feminism is much worse than cancer now.
Feminism is even much worse than cancer today.
I was recently called a misogynist by my date, for treating her with respect. You know, common traditional chivalrous stuff. Instadump.
How did you treat her with respect?
I really hate gym creeps. I mean they just bring their cameras and act like they own the gym, trying to get attention from the internet. Good thing there is Joey Swole who calls out these creeps. Wish they would just ban these ferals and their cameras.
I turn my back on women at the gym or look up at the ceiling. I'm there to work out not try to look at someone who is obviously seeking attention by wearing ultra tight cloths with no underwear. After a few fake sets they usually walk away.
That “ you need something? “ lady makes me laugh so hard
The problem is some guys give these kind of girls attention. If you starve this kind of behaviour it will go away.
When i used to get hassle off women I just produced my "Gay Card" worked everytime lol
Preach! Thank you for dishing out some common sense!
I have no idea why the algorithm recommended this video. I literally had no idea this gym stuff was a thing. SMH 🤦🏻♀️
Woman lifting more weight than a guy : "I'm stronger than him!"
Guy lifting less weight than a woman: "I'll be toned soon enough"
It's amazing to me that a woman see's a man lifting less weight than the maximum he can as a negative. Look up the definition of Toning. I can not go to the gym for years and curl a 60 pound dumbbell, I sure as sh-t aint gonna do reps with it though. I'm gonna grab 20-25's and do large rep, multiple sets with those. That doesn't mean I'm weak, that means I'm smart lol.
Aint no one making fun of any woman doing 80 pound bench presses or like those squat bars with the extra bars and pads on them, they come off as training wheels for a squat, but again its work smarter not harder. Doing a regular squat is awkward, I would use the padded bars too.
You're just assume it on women by yourself. Do you know all women? Just several tiktok videos say it all? Lol
If these women feel so offended in the gym, maybe they should have their own home gym.
09:34 imagine if all women were this nice.
A lot are
How dare that girl say, Hi. Boy, gym guy put her in her place.
I think more and more Gyms frown upon filming. Everyone pretty much focuses on working out. It's not like a pickup bar. 😒
That first one is my favorite. I say no to girls just for the hell of it 😂
0:22 she had to pause when he told her he's just trying to work out. In her mind she didn't think she was being rude. And she now hates that guy.
I feel this first guy, sometimes I really hate small talk and I’d rather just stfu and workout.
I was playing basketball when my brother was working out and there was a girl that was recording me and I glanced over and said why are you recording me and she said that was just watching how good you were playing and I said stop recording me
Dude... If I were a man at the gym, I would be so screwed. I have this habit of letting my eyes wander through the place sometimes, and there are even some instances where I'll just *stare* at a specific spot for long periods of time-
This is why I’m so glad that where I live we have a nice gym and we don’t have to deal with women like this
This makes me so uncomfortable to go to the gym , toxic and getting film and falsely getting accused
I am a girl...But I would never act like that if someone talks to me....however, I do like to go just to workout....but these girls are like in another level....Go to the gym to mind you and that is it...if you want attention....then go somewhere else to do this....sad that guys can not workout freely ....this is way to toxic....
See this is exactly why I just will NEVER talk to a young woman in the gym. Especially not one filming herself.
I'm aware that people don't go to the gym to he spoken to, and it's not as if I'm saying anyone should want me especially to talk to them, but I do like talking a bit to people I see in the gym regularly. It's just nice to talk to the faces you see all the time, because you obviously share the fitness hobby.
However I just won't speak to young women. I have a real fear of being labelled a creep. Simply for just being friendly and kind and enjoying getting to know people. It's like there's an assumption that I have different intentions.
I get it that no girl can ever know that I'm not a scumbag if they've never spoken to me, but it seems like some people just assume the worst instead of giving you a fair chance.
It's the same as if I saw a young girl influencer doing a certain exercise in a manner in which could be dangerous. I'm an experienced gym user of 14 years so I know from experience what's safe and dangerous. But if I saw a young woman putting herself at risk, I'd just do nothing. I can't take that risk.
I have no idea how to use gym equipment and I have deep anxiety about trying the new stuff because i dont want to get bullied
I used to work at a gym and there was no filming anywhere on the premises. Mind you - this was a private gym in a condo but the rule COULD apply anywhere.
I started going to a gym after having my 3rd baby and had a guy ask me why I was there and when I told him why he gawked and said, "You are lying. You didn't have no baby. You look great." He made me blush.
Maybe these girls should try an all girls gym.
Why? They couldn't cry victim then
that all sounds good but not everyone is there too work out, 40 to 60 percent depending on the gym are meat markets. i’m 58 and have been a gym rat for 40 years, and the gyms in general have changed so much.
men: *accidentally look around-*
women: *DO YOU NEED SOMETHING! WHY ARE YOU STARING AT ME? HUH? HUH?*
Let's be real here girls if you're lifting more weight than the guy next to you in the gym he's either injured or your form is almost certainly atrocious. It's not a flex it's an admittance that you're ego lifting.
If women dressed a little more modestly they wouldn't have to worry that people give a glance at them...
I say bring back men's ONLY gyms AND women's ONLY gyms. Boom. Problem solved. It was better back then, now, its a wreck.
Women want quality and when they get it, they are bothered. And im a woman. This new generation is crazy
6:46. All charges were dropped due to lack of evidence😅😅😅😅.
I'm sorry couldn't resist this joke.
i dont think men are afraid, just proving the mans point, that women do need men
There are many reason why silicone sexdolls getting populair nowadays.
Can you imagine how terrible women have to be to make this industry possible?
Just make men only Gyms 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
I've only attended boxing or muay thai gyms and interestingly never had this sort of thing from females - how pathetic these trolls are!
I don't mind men looking at me. I think it's flattering. And sometimes it makes me blush. And laugh sometimes because it is funny af how they sometimes stare hard.
Only in the USA. People there are so overly sensitive you can't even breath without being considered a weirdo. I have never encountered anything similar in my gym.
These people will go crazy in Berlin Germany and their hands will bleed because they will post 10 videos a day about a random old person staring at them.
I dont think the first girl was bothering anyone. She was being polite.. and then she went back to what she was doing after
7:05 What is the difference between the 2 guys? 1. is asking how you doing 2. is asking what's your neame (and touched her) - so what is the difference? Why is No. 1 the creep?
This bs is why I dont go to the gym. Saw this 25 years ago in high school. Only gotten worse since then.
Gyms should ban photography and videos out privacy and safety.
Why the fudge are American gyms allowing filming? It is banned in literally all gyms in Sweden. Just taking a selfie picture in a careless manner is frowned upon. If you ask for permission you might be allowed to film, but you then have to continuously ask every single person that might be in the shot for permission to film.
It's different nowadays, what is was going back a few years if a lady was in the way they would ask me if I needed a spot , more social back then!! tictok has made most things anti- social , more inflated sense of self with problems..
I think gym need to separate into male and female zones, just like washroom. Then no trouble at all.
We need all girl areas at he gym asap, it’s leading back to secluded areas like in the old days.
The amount of anger boiling in me is unhealthy 🥲