I have anorexia, gained weight trying to recover, fighting to love myself. today is a good day (first in a long time). And I appreciate y'all talking about this, because it doesn't get enough validation as an issue. ❤ Good job girls ;*
I walk a tight wire between anorexia and binge eating disorder, so I feel like there’s no winning. When I have a good body day, it feels like I am unstoppable
@@bananachickenboo same, I was anorexic and then I got put on depo and now I've gained quite a bit of weight because I'm always fucking hungry so I understand how you feel and that fucking sucks :(
Story Time: When I was little I put an entire large bottle of baby powder into the Elefun, turned it on and my entire bathroom was covered in baby powder… no regrets 😂😂😂
I'm watching this the end of November 2022 and this is so sad because Aaron is gone. I had just watched his live tiktok the night before he was found. 🥺
Being acknowledged as a z-lennial/cusper is something I didn’t know I needed😂. I was born in 99 but I grew up on the stale farts of the 90s in the best way.
okay the first 15 minutes are everything! thankyou both so much for being so open about that! i think a lot of people nowadays have the mentality that body positivity/ self love and being open about insecurities can’t exist simultaneously, and i could not disagree more. they go hand in hand, and i thank you both so much for talking about this. it’s so important! i love you ☺️
People should not be telling you that "You have a responsibility to talk about x,y,z"! You address things here because they're important to you. We appreciate your transparency and that you choose to address these things, but please don't ever feel pressure to talk about things that might not be the best for your mind. Also I love your hair when it's curly Jeri! I know it's hard to take compliments on things you feel insecure about, but I hope you're feeling better.
I am so grateful for the first 15 minutes, I definitely needed to hear that. thank you so much. Also, I was born in 2000 and you've unlocked a memory I forgot I had. sometimes I make the origami things to show my nieces and nephew.
Listen… I make long furbies. I’ve heard a lot of “why?!” questioning. Because they’re already scary, if I lean into it, it makes them okay in my mind. His name is tooth Gary, he’s a tooth fairy but tooth Gary. He’s very long and his face has all of our teeth that my mom kept from when we were kids 😂 judgement is expected but not encouraged. Love you guys 🖤
Listen, I respect your art and all, but a long Furby named Tooth Gary sounds like something out of one of my nightmares. Good luck to you and your creative pursuits, but please keep Tooth Gary far the fuck away from me 😂
Apparently tuesdays are just really hard for me because I’m always going through something when you guys upload 😭 thanks for being my little therapist friends in my phone
Jeri I have been feeling the exact same way about myself - My body has changed and while I know that has no moral value, I just don’t recognize myself and I’m struggling with not feeling comfortable in my clothes. ❤️ This might be dumb and superficial, but sometimes getting a spray tan helps me feel a teeny bit better for some reason 😂❤️
The first bit of this video is so wonderful to hear, because I can completely understand that feeling of gaining weight and not really liking the clothes that used to make me feel pretty. Thank you ladies for talk about that!!
I have struggled with my body insecurities since I was nine years old and since I’ve turned 25 I’ve really worked on just loving the body I am in. The crazy part is one second I’ll be so proud of myself for how far I’ve come and a half hour later I’m in tears cause I binged 3 magnum ice cream duos (if you know you know) I too take pictures of myself crying cause I hope that in a couple years my google photos will remind me of those photos and I hope to be farther than I am now. Thank you for being real about your low moments. You two being people that I look towards for confidence it’s supporting and such a relief to know you guys struggle too, so when I struggle I know everybody does. I love you guys and I think both of you are so so gorgeous and I know it’s hard to except that from others but I really love you guys ❤️
All this nostalgia and the one thing that got me was you mentioning LYDIA. It has been over 10 years since I listened to them. I painted the girl with the umbrella in high school. I don’t even remember the music. Lol. Memory is so weird.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing how you’ve been feeling. My neighbor, her bestfriend, and myself have all been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and all 3 of us have been feeling super down and depressed and not like ourselves lately. (On top of already feeling that way I’m in between meds and on my period 🙃) so it’s been a roller coaster over here. I also workout everyday and have gained almost all the weight I lost back because I backslide on binge eating and eating junk and I’m sick of looking at my face because of all my acne scars but also can’t stop picking at it. It’s a never ending journey. There’s definitely some sort of energy shift right now… hoping you both feel better and feel comfortable in your own skin again💛
You look amazing Jeri. Our bodies change all the time and I love that you are normalizing this! We are also so much more than our bodies ❤️. Love you ladies
I gotta say, I love your hair!!! You look like someone who I’d feel scared to talk to because you are way too cool to be friends with me. It’s cute af!
Jeri your hair is curly like my mom's was. She passed away in 2014. I find it comforting and familiar to see you with your curls it reminds me of my her. Thank you ❤️🩹
As someone battling chronic Anorexia, I feel that Jeri! And I can’t express how much you ladies talking about this is… comforting? You ladies always brighten my Tuesdays and I appreciate you both so SO much! Much love and respect to you both!!! ❤️
Also the realness from you guys and the honesty about the ups and downs is actually quite refreshing because so many people of influence really dont show these aspects, which is why you guys are my favourite people to listen to and pretty much all I watch or listen to these days. People need to hear these things to be able to give themselves a break when it comes to having the same personal experiences and not beat themselves up so much in the lows which actually helps the lows to pass sooner. I spent years beating myself up for my lows and as soon as I started giving myself permission to feel, I found it way easier to bounce back and also that I would bounce back quicker since I wasnt being so harsh on myself
I absolutely love that ypu guys show that you also are going through hard times. I see you as role models and you guys sharing your struggles makes me feel better that I'm allowed to struggle and don't have to be perfect and it's okay to have hard times and go back to depressive episodes as long as I come back out of it again. It makes you guys seem more human when you share these thing and I really appreciate you guys being vulnerable and able to speak up about it.
Honestly Jeri, you are everything I wish I could look like. You have a style and you own it! Thank you for being vulnerable and open with us, cause you spoke so fiercely to so much of what I'm struggling with right now. You are so loved, beautiful, and appreciated! Both of you are, and you guys feel like my best friends!!💚💚
Thanks for the mental health update 🥰 I adore you guys because of that kind of honesty and transparency. I'd much rather hear that you're going through it then just "everything is great and I'm happy 100% of the time". It makes it so much more special to celebrate those beautiful days where you're feeling good because I know the hard work that went into getting there, and it reminds me on my bad days that I can get to a good place too. Thanks for being such amazing role models 💛
im gen z and almost all of these i remember i had lots of lisa frank stickers and all my friends would be so jealous and the sqaure scooters were the shit lmaooo love you guys!
Pogs!!! Flat, round, laminated cardboard with pictures on them that you would stack then hit with a slightly bigger plastic pog. Whichever ones fell off the stack, you got to keep so it eventually got banned at my elementary school since is was considered gambling. I love you ladies so much! I listen then relisten every week. Thank you for all of your hard work!!!
Pogs were cardboard circles that you stack. Then you would take turns dropping a heavier circle piece to try to flip the pieces. You got to keep the face up pogs. I’m 32 and I was young when it was popular.
Exactly! The bigger pogs were called Slammers. Pogs had an odd smell that I still weirdly, vividly remember. Almost like they had been kept in Grandmas spice cabinet lol. They were the popular game right before Pokemon came out and became popular. Before Pokemon, games like Pog and Magic were pretty common. Im 36
I feel like MSN was way bigger in the UK. We used to make our names like a list of our besties and we would remove anyone who happened to annoy us 😂. MSN also had a bot that you could play games with, like hangman, and we all used to try and flirt with it haha.
I'm realizing part of integrating your whole self together is honestly feeling the steps back and the steps forward, not resisting a low point in something that you considered positive growth. It took me decades to nail all these layers up around my self worth, it's not going to be an instant clear path to body neutrality or pure self love. The low points are inevitable at this point, but if I resist them they feel like they're going to be permanent, like all my progress will backslide to where I started. And I assume that resisting those feelings is going to be like putting on the brakes, but it's really not. Resisting the hurt, self-consciousness, negative self talk, keeping it tight and muffled, is only delaying the inevitable and making it so I can't honestly process it around other people. At this point I don't even know yet what it would look like to accept the low right away rather than tensing up and bracing for it, but I can feel myself getting closer and closer every time. And I know it involves airing that hurt with others. So you're doing great and thank you for talking about it! Your struggle of questioning whether or not other people will be disappointed or hurt by it is also part of that healing because it's your insecurity trying to separate you and confirm that you should keep it quiet and only show the "worthy" parts of yourself. I've gotten stuck in the trap of "healing is my goal, so I must be focused on what the healed part of my self should think and only present that" but I guess you really can't force it. Processing the hard parts is where the gold is.
Thank you for the discussion at the beginning. As someone who is on the body neutrality journey…there are ups and downs. Some days I feel like I’m a queen, and some days I feel like I just crawled out of a swamp. That’s just kind of how it goes. I appreciate you both being vulnerable because it’s nice to know that we all have days that we feel uncomfortable in our bodies. I think with society as it is, it would be unrealistic (and fake) to claim otherwise. Thank you for being real. 💙
Thank you for talking about appearance, I've been struggling recently because I've gained some weight and my summer cloths aren't fitting great and it's really been bringing me down.. But knowing that other people get it helps❤you guys are awesome
Thank you so much for talking about how you feel about your bodies. I think that so many of us feel this way every day or every couple of days, and it's important to discuss and acknowledge this. This validated everything I have not been able to put into words. You ladies are so helpful to my mental health and make me feel like I am never alone (: On another note, there is a book called In the Flo by Alisa Vitti and it talks about the connection between your menstrual cycle and the infradian rhythm (28-day cycle) that women follow as opposed to the circadian rhythm that men have. I think that this cycle directly correlates to the way that women or women feel about their bodies. This way of living can also help those who are women presenting to help connect them to their inner feminine goddess energy. Thanks for everything you do
i really wish i would have never looked up weird furby art, thanks for the nightmares, Jeri... 😆 the chicken limbo game was definitely called Chicken Limbo...
Hey, hi hello! So so excited to have won part of the giveaway! But i literally just fell down 20 stairs and fractured my ankle, there is no falling down the stairs soft hahah 5:19
I loved the tier idea, I would love you to do Disney movie tier list video including the newer ones like turning red and encanto because it is always so interesting to see how you viewed it as a child versus now as an adult. Like Tarzan, loved it as a child but didn't get some things and I greatly appreciate it as an adult because I still love it and now I understand the things I missed as a child
As a curly girl, i just want Jeri to know that i LOVE your current hair style. There's such a 70's vibe to the cut too. Only your opinion matters about yourself, but i want you to know that this random internet stranger thinks you both look fantastic
Oh oh oh i also want to comment about the hair cutting. As a curly girl i've actually been cutting my own hair since the pandemic and LOVE it. It's so great looking in the mirror and cutting a curl here and there whenever i feel like it. Curls are always changing depending on how they decided to dry that day, product, weather, psychic mysteries, etc.
As a hobby farmer I absolutely GEEKED out when Ciara mentioned wanting chickens because, well, I have too many lol Pro tip: Lots of towns/cities allow people to keep quail, which are quiet, tiny, and lay really cute eggs :)
Pogs were little discs in Ziploc bags. Only know this because in the early 90s, when my mom was in high school, she had the night shift working at Dow Chemical and it was her job to put ‘em in there.
Jeri, I completely get the appearance opinions. I've never looked at a picture or reflection of myself and been happy. Ironically, I don't know if there is anything that I can do to change that. I don't know if it's the healthiest thing, but I've learned to trust my spouse even if I don't see it.
Omg the blow up chairs had sort of an opening between the base and the back piece. We used to shove ourselves through it and then sumo run at each other 🤣👌🏼
Ugh and I was obsessed with Pogs but I lived in England. They were super popular there🤔 I also had no clue what to do with them, I just had some sweet holographic ones
I had that chicken game also!!! I just was talking about this with my mom and I actually found pictures of the game online. It’s very strange that you brought it up!!!! My grandmother had it at her house it was called chicken croquet.
1) Jeri, I haven’t noticed any change in your body! 2) however, I relate so much to the convo about body. Should I dislike my body? No. Do I sometimes feel foreign in it or wish it was different? Yes - a lot
I lived in an old house in Catlettsburg, KY and the door at the end of the upstairs hallway just went out to nothing. It was dressed like a front door, too! Wreath and all. One bathroom was above the kitchen and the pipes leaked one time and the red wallpaper downstairs made it look like blood. Ahhh. To be in that house again! Still have photos from the flood in the 1920's, someone went down the street in a canoe and snapped pics, and the family is all on the porch with the water right up to the top step.
hi ladies! you guys should totally watch the first episode of pen15 on Hulu, the two main characters are what I imagine you guys acted like as teens. Love your channel btw!
I needed that talk especially after shutting my pants home alone picturing a bloody girl in my mirror! I have literally never thought I had body dysmorphia of any kind and was just a little body conscious but now I have gained only like 10 pounds and I’m also just aging with my body like one does in their 20s and I feel so disgusted and fat and I can’t look at other pictures from before (when I thought I was fat then) and feel attractive. But I’m on the self journey to acceptance and love for myself and yalls podcast always seems to say something right when I need to hear it! Thank u as always ladies!
someone got my daughter the Pretty Pretty Princess game for Christmas this past year and lemme tell you my son is so competitive with that game, and my daughter gets so mad when you have to take the tiara from her lmao
Can totally relate with the panic attack hair cuts. I did this many times and the last time I ended up looking like a baby bird on chemo, it's been a couple years and I've finally got it all back to one length and healthy again as I also kept changing the colour of it aswell 🤣 I was notorious for cutting my own bangs too even tho I knew I always fucked it up but it's like trying to ignore an itch. when you get that urge to go at your hair it's all you can think about till you do it. And honestly I think you look super spunky the way your hair is jeri ❤
So I’m in a blended family and all my siblings are much older than me. I was born in 2002 and my oldest brother was already 17. Hands down my favorite memories are playing pretty pretty princess with him! I still have it in my closet and I play it with all my nieces all the time!! Definitely ALL THAT AND A BAG OF CHIPS! 😂
Rocket power, the game cube game HITTTTTT. I used to fuck heavy with skip it, the parachute in gym class when I was in elementary school, playing four square, RAZOR SCOOTERS. Ankles watch out
I'm sure you already learned about pogs, but if not let me know and I can go into it. This was an excellent episode and a great exploration of many classic things I had forgotten about.
Pogs were little round disc's like 2 inches around and you played a game with them. They also had different pictures and stuff on them and people collected them.
Pogs were round cardboard disc things we collected and it was a game. I cant remember the excat rules, but there were slammers that were bigger than the pogs. We collected those like trading cards and were the popular game before Pokemon.
holy fuck. NO JOKE this just brought back more of my memories from childhood than any therapy EVER has. Ciara, i also flirted with smarterchild. don’t feel too bad.
Okay, Ciara brought up the citrussy of whatever she was drinking lmao so I feel like now I need to know what y'all are sippin' on every episode. Like, right after the introduction I want a Wine & Crime style briefing on your beverages for the show...y'all got good taste!
Pogs were used for a game (altho I just kept them because I liked them). They were round cardboard disks with different pictures or characters on them. I'm almost 33 now and they were popular when I was like 10. Google will show you pics of what they look like 🤘🏻💙
I had Pogs!! Little round circles with pictures on them. Then there was the slammers and they were metal circles with different designs and shit. I had one of Judge Ito from the OJ Simpson trials. And my dad was able to make me custom pogs with pictures from my yearbook! It was a game you played, kinda like marbles or something. I never played though. But I sure had a binder full of the pogs and a case of slammers. I have the slammers for sure around here somewhere.
Omg chicken limbo. My favorite game as a kid. I just brought this up with my mom. Sadly she gave it to a neighbor when I stopped using it. So I’m currently trying to find a decently priced one on eBay. So far only finding parts. 😢
OMG POGS!! They were carboard disks, and you would hit them with 'slammers' made out of hard plastic or metal. I was born in '86, so maybe you guys were too young?
Okay so I loved land before time when I was a kid… I tried to rewatched it as an adult and I was heart broken the entire time…. I was sitting there confused af as to why I always rewatched it at my grandparents house. They owned the entire collection on VHS which I believe I own now some where
I'm not gonna lie I full on think Jerry should get her hair cut like a pixie cut so it's like a fresh start. She gets to change her appearance to something that very much so work for her and feel amazing. This look also looks great but if it seems so much like a problem then cut it off and enjoy it let it grow back out if you want or keep it short either way I think you'll look fuckin awesome
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the amount of 90's stuff that i had growing up as a gen z has made me feel more cultured LOLLL
I have anorexia, gained weight trying to recover, fighting to love myself. today is a good day (first in a long time). And I appreciate y'all talking about this, because it doesn't get enough validation as an issue. ❤ Good job girls ;*
I walk a tight wire between anorexia and binge eating disorder, so I feel like there’s no winning. When I have a good body day, it feels like I am unstoppable
@@bananachickenboo same, I was anorexic and then I got put on depo and now I've gained quite a bit of weight because I'm always fucking hungry so I understand how you feel and that fucking sucks :(
so proud of you. there are more good days coming 🤍
Story Time: When I was little I put an entire large bottle of baby powder into the Elefun, turned it on and my entire bathroom was covered in baby powder… no regrets 😂😂😂
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I'm watching this the end of November 2022 and this is so sad because Aaron is gone. I had just watched his live tiktok the night before he was found. 🥺
Being acknowledged as a z-lennial/cusper is something I didn’t know I needed😂. I was born in 99 but I grew up on the stale farts of the 90s in the best way.
I was born in 98 and I definitely enjoyed this episode and remembered almost all of these!
Watching this Feb 2023 and makes this sadder.... RIP Aaron Carter
okay the first 15 minutes are everything! thankyou both so much for being so open about that! i think a lot of people nowadays have the mentality that body positivity/ self love and being open about insecurities can’t exist simultaneously, and i could not disagree more. they go hand in hand, and i thank you both so much for talking about this. it’s so important! i love you ☺️
Lol literally paused at the 15 min mark to make a comment
Everything has gone to crap in this house so this is really what I needed, everyweek you guys brighten up my day
People should not be telling you that "You have a responsibility to talk about x,y,z"! You address things here because they're important to you. We appreciate your transparency and that you choose to address these things, but please don't ever feel pressure to talk about things that might not be the best for your mind. Also I love your hair when it's curly Jeri! I know it's hard to take compliments on things you feel insecure about, but I hope you're feeling better.
12:46 I needed to here this 2 years later. HELLO LADIES! This is my first comment here
I am so grateful for the first 15 minutes, I definitely needed to hear that. thank you so much. Also, I was born in 2000 and you've unlocked a memory I forgot I had. sometimes I make the origami things to show my nieces and nephew.
Listen… I make long furbies. I’ve heard a lot of “why?!” questioning. Because they’re already scary, if I lean into it, it makes them okay in my mind. His name is tooth Gary, he’s a tooth fairy but tooth Gary. He’s very long and his face has all of our teeth that my mom kept from when we were kids 😂 judgement is expected but not encouraged. Love you guys 🖤
I’m gonna need to see this
Listen, I respect your art and all, but a long Furby named Tooth Gary sounds like something out of one of my nightmares. Good luck to you and your creative pursuits, but please keep Tooth Gary far the fuck away from me 😂
I LOVE LONG FURBIES
Tooth Gary!!!! 😂 you are amazing!
Tooth Gary 🤣🤣 I need to see him!!
Apparently tuesdays are just really hard for me because I’m always going through something when you guys upload 😭 thanks for being my little therapist friends in my phone
Jeri I have been feeling the exact same way about myself - My body has changed and while I know that has no moral value, I just don’t recognize myself and I’m struggling with not feeling comfortable in my clothes. ❤️
This might be dumb and superficial, but sometimes getting a spray tan helps me feel a teeny bit better for some reason 😂❤️
The first bit of this video is so wonderful to hear, because I can completely understand that feeling of gaining weight and not really liking the clothes that used to make me feel pretty. Thank you ladies for talk about that!!
I have struggled with my body insecurities since I was nine years old and since I’ve turned 25 I’ve really worked on just loving the body I am in. The crazy part is one second I’ll be so proud of myself for how far I’ve come and a half hour later I’m in tears cause I binged 3 magnum ice cream duos (if you know you know) I too take pictures of myself crying cause I hope that in a couple years my google photos will remind me of those photos and I hope to be farther than I am now. Thank you for being real about your low moments. You two being people that I look towards for confidence it’s supporting and such a relief to know you guys struggle too, so when I struggle I know everybody does. I love you guys and I think both of you are so so gorgeous and I know it’s hard to except that from others but I really love you guys ❤️
Sorry, ladies, but Mosby stole the show this week! (but also, thank you for your candidness at the top of the show
Oh man he is so cuteeeee asleep on Jerri with his little feet hanging off the couch 🥺
All this nostalgia and the one thing that got me was you mentioning LYDIA. It has been over 10 years since I listened to them. I painted the girl with the umbrella in high school. I don’t even remember the music. Lol. Memory is so weird.
“I was on Polly pocket one time and shoved shit up my nose.” 😂😂
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing how you’ve been feeling. My neighbor, her bestfriend, and myself have all been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and all 3 of us have been feeling super down and depressed and not like ourselves lately. (On top of already feeling that way I’m in between meds and on my period 🙃) so it’s been a roller coaster over here. I also workout everyday and have gained almost all the weight I lost back because I backslide on binge eating and eating junk and I’m sick of looking at my face because of all my acne scars but also can’t stop picking at it. It’s a never ending journey. There’s definitely some sort of energy shift right now… hoping you both feel better and feel comfortable in your own skin again💛
Lol it was called Chicken Limbo and my dad ended up "accidentally" breaking it because of how fucking annoying it was 😂😂 memory unlocked for me!
Omg yes!!! That thing was crazy!
You look amazing Jeri. Our bodies change all the time and I love that you are normalizing this! We are also so much more than our bodies ❤️. Love you ladies
One, i needed to hear thise. Two, this is not damaging it is INCREDIBLY helpful.
I literally can’t get enough of you ladies 😂😂 I literally listen to it on apple podcasts and then watch it on here.
I gotta say, I love your hair!!! You look like someone who I’d feel scared to talk to because you are way too cool to be friends with me. It’s cute af!
Jeri your hair is curly like my mom's was. She passed away in 2014. I find it comforting and familiar to see you with your curls it reminds me of my her. Thank you ❤️🩹
As someone battling chronic Anorexia, I feel that Jeri! And I can’t express how much you ladies talking about this is… comforting? You ladies always brighten my Tuesdays and I appreciate you both so SO much! Much love and respect to you both!!! ❤️
Also the realness from you guys and the honesty about the ups and downs is actually quite refreshing because so many people of influence really dont show these aspects, which is why you guys are my favourite people to listen to and pretty much all I watch or listen to these days. People need to hear these things to be able to give themselves a break when it comes to having the same personal experiences and not beat themselves up so much in the lows which actually helps the lows to pass sooner. I spent years beating myself up for my lows and as soon as I started giving myself permission to feel, I found it way easier to bounce back and also that I would bounce back quicker since I wasnt being so harsh on myself
As an Elder Millenial, this is OUR TIMMMMEEEE
I absolutely love that ypu guys show that you also are going through hard times. I see you as role models and you guys sharing your struggles makes me feel better that I'm allowed to struggle and don't have to be perfect and it's okay to have hard times and go back to depressive episodes as long as I come back out of it again. It makes you guys seem more human when you share these thing and I really appreciate you guys being vulnerable and able to speak up about it.
Honestly Jeri, you are everything I wish I could look like. You have a style and you own it! Thank you for being vulnerable and open with us, cause you spoke so fiercely to so much of what I'm struggling with right now. You are so loved, beautiful, and appreciated! Both of you are, and you guys feel like my best friends!!💚💚
those water snakes are so cool. Before “ Claire’s” , you’d win those at the local carnivals/ fairs in my day. Love those 😂
Thanks for the mental health update 🥰 I adore you guys because of that kind of honesty and transparency. I'd much rather hear that you're going through it then just "everything is great and I'm happy 100% of the time". It makes it so much more special to celebrate those beautiful days where you're feeling good because I know the hard work that went into getting there, and it reminds me on my bad days that I can get to a good place too. Thanks for being such amazing role models 💛
im gen z and almost all of these i remember i had lots of lisa frank stickers and all my friends would be so jealous and the sqaure scooters were the shit lmaooo love you guys!
Pogs!!! Flat, round, laminated cardboard with pictures on them that you would stack then hit with a slightly bigger plastic pog. Whichever ones fell off the stack, you got to keep so it eventually got banned at my elementary school since is was considered gambling. I love you ladies so much! I listen then relisten every week. Thank you for all of your hard work!!!
Pogs were cardboard circles that you stack. Then you would take turns dropping a heavier circle piece to try to flip the pieces. You got to keep the face up pogs. I’m 32 and I was young when it was popular.
Exactly! The bigger pogs were called Slammers. Pogs had an odd smell that I still weirdly, vividly remember. Almost like they had been kept in Grandmas spice cabinet lol. They were the popular game right before Pokemon came out and became popular. Before Pokemon, games like Pog and Magic were pretty common. Im 36
I feel like MSN was way bigger in the UK. We used to make our names like a list of our besties and we would remove anyone who happened to annoy us 😂. MSN also had a bot that you could play games with, like hangman, and we all used to try and flirt with it haha.
I forgot about the bot!!
Idk everyone around me in the US used MSN lmao
I'm realizing part of integrating your whole self together is honestly feeling the steps back and the steps forward, not resisting a low point in something that you considered positive growth. It took me decades to nail all these layers up around my self worth, it's not going to be an instant clear path to body neutrality or pure self love. The low points are inevitable at this point, but if I resist them they feel like they're going to be permanent, like all my progress will backslide to where I started. And I assume that resisting those feelings is going to be like putting on the brakes, but it's really not. Resisting the hurt, self-consciousness, negative self talk, keeping it tight and muffled, is only delaying the inevitable and making it so I can't honestly process it around other people. At this point I don't even know yet what it would look like to accept the low right away rather than tensing up and bracing for it, but I can feel myself getting closer and closer every time. And I know it involves airing that hurt with others. So you're doing great and thank you for talking about it! Your struggle of questioning whether or not other people will be disappointed or hurt by it is also part of that healing because it's your insecurity trying to separate you and confirm that you should keep it quiet and only show the "worthy" parts of yourself. I've gotten stuck in the trap of "healing is my goal, so I must be focused on what the healed part of my self should think and only present that" but I guess you really can't force it. Processing the hard parts is where the gold is.
Mosbey was ridiculously cute this episode 🥺🤍🤍🤍
Thank you for the discussion at the beginning. As someone who is on the body neutrality journey…there are ups and downs. Some days I feel like I’m a queen, and some days I feel like I just crawled out of a swamp. That’s just kind of how it goes. I appreciate you both being vulnerable because it’s nice to know that we all have days that we feel uncomfortable in our bodies. I think with society as it is, it would be unrealistic (and fake) to claim otherwise. Thank you for being real. 💙
Thank you for talking about appearance, I've been struggling recently because I've gained some weight and my summer cloths aren't fitting great and it's really been bringing me down.. But knowing that other people get it helps❤you guys are awesome
Thank you so much for talking about how you feel about your bodies. I think that so many of us feel this way every day or every couple of days, and it's important to discuss and acknowledge this. This validated everything I have not been able to put into words. You ladies are so helpful to my mental health and make me feel like I am never alone (: On another note, there is a book called In the Flo by Alisa Vitti and it talks about the connection between your menstrual cycle and the infradian rhythm (28-day cycle) that women follow as opposed to the circadian rhythm that men have. I think that this cycle directly correlates to the way that women or women feel about their bodies. This way of living can also help those who are women presenting to help connect them to their inner feminine goddess energy. Thanks for everything you do
i really wish i would have never looked up weird furby art, thanks for the nightmares, Jeri... 😆
the chicken limbo game was definitely called Chicken Limbo...
yesss chicken limbo lmfao, thx for making my day once again I appreciate you guys!!
I pile up the tough shit I have to do for Tuesdays so I can power through to end with the episodes 💜 Thank you ladies
Hey, hi hello! So so excited to have won part of the giveaway! But i literally just fell down 20 stairs and fractured my ankle, there is no falling down the stairs soft hahah 5:19
Why do I have core memories of half of those kids toys smell from my childhood
I loved the tier idea, I would love you to do Disney movie tier list video including the newer ones like turning red and encanto because it is always so interesting to see how you viewed it as a child versus now as an adult. Like Tarzan, loved it as a child but didn't get some things and I greatly appreciate it as an adult because I still love it and now I understand the things I missed as a child
As a curly girl, i just want Jeri to know that i LOVE your current hair style. There's such a 70's vibe to the cut too. Only your opinion matters about yourself, but i want you to know that this random internet stranger thinks you both look fantastic
Oh oh oh i also want to comment about the hair cutting. As a curly girl i've actually been cutting my own hair since the pandemic and LOVE it. It's so great looking in the mirror and cutting a curl here and there whenever i feel like it. Curls are always changing depending on how they decided to dry that day, product, weather, psychic mysteries, etc.
As a hobby farmer I absolutely GEEKED out when Ciara mentioned wanting chickens because, well, I have too many lol
Pro tip: Lots of towns/cities allow people to keep quail, which are quiet, tiny, and lay really cute eggs :)
Pogs were little discs in Ziploc bags. Only know this because in the early 90s, when my mom was in high school, she had the night shift working at Dow Chemical and it was her job to put ‘em in there.
I'm early Gen Z so everything so far in the video I remember😂 and like it's memory lane with my cousin
Jeri, I completely get the appearance opinions. I've never looked at a picture or reflection of myself and been happy. Ironically, I don't know if there is anything that I can do to change that. I don't know if it's the healthiest thing, but I've learned to trust my spouse even if I don't see it.
Ciara’s hobby farm is referred to as homesteading! ❤️ We have 15 chickens and 9 ducks! We grow our veggies and canning! ❤️
One thing I'll never apologize for is being 'too 90s'
Great episode as usual 🤘
Omg the blow up chairs had sort of an opening between the base and the back piece. We used to shove ourselves through it and then sumo run at each other 🤣👌🏼
Ugh and I was obsessed with Pogs but I lived in England. They were super popular there🤔 I also had no clue what to do with them, I just had some sweet holographic ones
I had that chicken game also!!! I just was talking about this with my mom and I actually found pictures of the game online. It’s very strange that you brought it up!!!! My grandmother had it at her house it was called chicken croquet.
Actually we might not me talking about the same thing! Omg!
1) Jeri, I haven’t noticed any change in your body!
2) however, I relate so much to the convo about body. Should I dislike my body? No. Do I sometimes feel foreign in it or wish it was different? Yes - a lot
Thank you for that beginning...I needed that ♥️
I have undiagnosed ADHD and OCD and I pick at my hair all the time and I absolutely hate myself most of the time. Most of the time I love myself
I love your hair!! You’re both adorable 💕
I lived in an old house in Catlettsburg, KY and the door at the end of the upstairs hallway just went out to nothing. It was dressed like a front door, too! Wreath and all. One bathroom was above the kitchen and the pipes leaked one time and the red wallpaper downstairs made it look like blood.
Ahhh. To be in that house again! Still have photos from the flood in the 1920's, someone went down the street in a canoe and snapped pics, and the family is all on the porch with the water right up to the top step.
my dog had 8 puppies today! love you ladies!
hi ladies! you guys should totally watch the first episode of pen15 on Hulu, the two main characters are what I imagine you guys acted like as teens. Love your channel btw!
I needed that talk especially after shutting my pants home alone picturing a bloody girl in my mirror! I have literally never thought I had body dysmorphia of any kind and was just a little body conscious but now I have gained only like 10 pounds and I’m also just aging with my body like one does in their 20s and I feel so disgusted and fat and I can’t look at other pictures from before (when I thought I was fat then) and feel attractive. But I’m on the self journey to acceptance and love for myself and yalls podcast always seems to say something right when I need to hear it! Thank u as always ladies!
Aw, this makes me sad now because Aaron Carter passed away 😥😥😥
someone got my daughter the Pretty Pretty Princess game for Christmas this past year and lemme tell you my son is so competitive with that game, and my daughter gets so mad when you have to take the tiara from her lmao
Also… SAME to the whole beginning, I’ve been so sad and anxious recently so….i brought a puppy today. His name is Zeus and i pick him up on the 20th.
Can totally relate with the panic attack hair cuts. I did this many times and the last time I ended up looking like a baby bird on chemo, it's been a couple years and I've finally got it all back to one length and healthy again as I also kept changing the colour of it aswell 🤣
I was notorious for cutting my own bangs too even tho I knew I always fucked it up but it's like trying to ignore an itch. when you get that urge to go at your hair it's all you can think about till you do it. And honestly I think you look super spunky the way your hair is jeri ❤
omfg
53:30 - FUCKING DOODLE BEAR
The aggression and excitement absolutely killed me. I laughed so hard I wheezed.
1:02:36 watching this 2 years later.. Mosby is too darn cute 😭🫶🏼 sleepy boy
So I’m in a blended family and all my siblings are much older than me. I was born in 2002 and my oldest brother was already 17. Hands down my favorite memories are playing pretty pretty princess with him! I still have it in my closet and I play it with all my nieces all the time!! Definitely ALL THAT AND A BAG OF CHIPS! 😂
I love watching you gals, you genuinely make me laugh so hard
I remember all of these! I was born in 1998 and had most of them but had friends that had the rest lol
Rocket power, the game cube game HITTTTTT. I used to fuck heavy with skip it, the parachute in gym class when I was in elementary school, playing four square, RAZOR SCOOTERS. Ankles watch out
Jeri's curly hair is BANGIN 😍😍😍
I'm sure you already learned about pogs, but if not let me know and I can go into it. This was an excellent episode and a great exploration of many classic things I had forgotten about.
Do it with 90’s and 2000’s bands!!
Pogs were little round disc's like 2 inches around and you played a game with them. They also had different pictures and stuff on them and people collected them.
You guys make me laugh so hard 👏🏻👏🏻
Not me wearing a Rocket Power shirt while listening to this! I wanted to be Reggie, roller bladed my ass off. Never looked as cool though….
Pogs were round cardboard disc things we collected and it was a game. I cant remember the excat rules, but there were slammers that were bigger than the pogs. We collected those like trading cards and were the popular game before Pokemon.
holy fuck. NO JOKE this just brought back more of my memories from childhood than any therapy EVER has. Ciara, i also flirted with smarterchild. don’t feel too bad.
okay just finished the episode, only one i didn’t know was pogs. have we figured this out yet??
UNTS UNTS UNTS LETS GOOOO Doggos and tangents to lift the tuesday post-therapy blues
Polly pocket heels were truly a delicacy
Omg me and Sierra have the same dream home 😂 But I also want a studio, and a donkey
Happy Tuesday Ladies! 😁💗
Oh my gosh. The cuddly dog!!! 😍😍
I loved but deeply regretted googling “weird furby art” 😂😭
Okay, Ciara brought up the citrussy of whatever she was drinking lmao so I feel like now I need to know what y'all are sippin' on every episode. Like, right after the introduction I want a Wine & Crime style briefing on your beverages for the show...y'all got good taste!
Pogs were used for a game (altho I just kept them because I liked them). They were round cardboard disks with different pictures or characters on them. I'm almost 33 now and they were popular when I was like 10. Google will show you pics of what they look like 🤘🏻💙
I had Pogs!! Little round circles with pictures on them. Then there was the slammers and they were metal circles with different designs and shit. I had one of Judge Ito from the OJ Simpson trials. And my dad was able to make me custom pogs with pictures from my yearbook! It was a game you played, kinda like marbles or something. I never played though. But I sure had a binder full of the pogs and a case of slammers. I have the slammers for sure around here somewhere.
Ok…not knowing what pogs are blew my mind because thought were LIFE! Lol I’ll find a link and post!
I loved this!!!!!
Omg chicken limbo. My favorite game as a kid. I just brought this up with my mom. Sadly she gave it to a neighbor when I stopped using it. So I’m currently trying to find a decently priced one on eBay. So far only finding parts. 😢
Don’t worry jerri I crushed on lance too.
I had a beaded choker that I wore for like 6 years (still have it)
OMG POGS!!
They were carboard disks, and you would hit them with 'slammers' made out of hard plastic or metal.
I was born in '86, so maybe you guys were too young?
Yes fellow 86er!!!! Pogs were everything!!!
You described self harm!!!! ( the red hed)
Okay so I loved land before time when I was a kid… I tried to rewatched it as an adult and I was heart broken the entire time…. I was sitting there confused af as to why I always rewatched it at my grandparents house. They owned the entire collection on VHS which I believe I own now some where
okay i’m part of gen z born in 2003 and i remember all of this
I'm not gonna lie I full on think Jerry should get her hair cut like a pixie cut so it's like a fresh start. She gets to change her appearance to something that very much so work for her and feel amazing. This look also looks great but if it seems so much like a problem then cut it off and enjoy it let it grow back out if you want or keep it short either way I think you'll look fuckin awesome