Throbby Bobby and the grooms room || AITAH - Ladies & Tangents Podcast Ep. 155
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- Who remembers that we had an AITAH submission form? Not me! But luckily after a bit of a whoopsie that resulted in a black eye and a mild concussion, Ciara showed up and saved the day with some of your entries! I don't know that we'll ever be able to call our listeners AHoles, so here is an episode of validation and "you're doing great, sweeties."
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"Forest was down here on the computer sending an email" --People who don't realize he's a two year old won't get it, but I LOST MY SHT laughing at that. Thank you, I needed that!
But I also wouldn't be surprised if somehow he was sending an email. 😂
The best quote I ever heard in regards to boundaries:
“A boundary without a consequence is merely a suggestion.”
This completely changed my perspective on how to actually enforce boundaries, and reinforces my justification for why we need them.
I’m crying at the part where they talk about Ciara walking behind Noah wiping her tears with puppies
Not me crying at the thought of Noah listening to this when he’s older getting bummed out that he walked with his friend instead of bonding talking to CiCi on the walk to school😭
1:00:51 Best advice for choosing a nursing home, check out the kitchen area, including out the backdoor if it's available, and where they dump trash and other waste.
That gives you a good clue on what to expect. I'm only in my thirties, but I have grown-up, lived in, and worked at many nursing homes, assisted living facilities, and rehabs.
And you're spot on about their care, it gets more and more complex and those facilities are built to handle it. And the abandonment thing made me want to cry... :')
“Slobby Bobby was in the grooms room with scammy Tammy” sounds like an opening to a game of Clue 😂💀
Jeri you jinxed yourself! You just said a few weeks ago you’ve never had stitches…. 😂
I am so sorry y’all were not asked, especially Ciara! That should NEVER happen. I work at county hospital in a large city. This is something that is done regularly. We have specific screening for just that. It should be done everywhere. Hopefully those hospitals will receive specialized training soon. It is very scary to think how many women get looked over when they need help.
The caregiver guilt is so real. My mom battled cancer for 3 years and needed an immense amount of care because of long term side effects from treatments that ultimately lead to her immune system attacking her nerve cells which impacted her ability to walk, use her hands, speak, and even swallowing. Thankfully my stepdad was absolutely devoted to her care as much as I was and my now fiancé stepped in to help without complaints. In May 2021, my mom was placed in end of life care and at the age of 63, passed May 11, 2021 after 8 days in hospice. I miss her immensely and would literally sell my soul to get her back, but I never realized how high my baseline anxiety level was for so long until I was starting to process the loss and I was able to take a deep breath. She experienced several (10+) major falls and on one occasion near the end, my stepdad who is in his 70’s fell too. I was in a constant state of fear of losing her, her falling and getting hurt, of the unknown, how to possibly handle all the things all while working, the pandemic, trying to be actively engaged in my relationship (my fiancé is incredible and was so supportive the whole time and loved my mom so much also- she loved him so much too). Me trying to take care of myself wasn’t even on the back burner- it was not even a thought those whole 3 years. I’m still grieving and still processing the guilt of the relief for that stress because I would take it all 10x over for more time with her
When were you born, 2006?
Me- Yes. Yes I was thank you very much ;)
For the OP with the grandma with dementia, I can relate a lot.
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You and Jerry have made me feel so much better about sometimes wishing my mother wasn't disabled so I wouldn't have to take care of her.
I slept terribly but waking up to this makes it better 😭❤️
Awe! Hope your face heals well!
My own boy is a black mix called Thunder too. Except he's 13 going on 14 and recently had a case of "old dog syndrome". Your pup will be loved and won't know how good he has it 🥰
My great grandparents had 2 jack Russell's named Bear and Maureen, but my grandpa had an affinity for giving dogs a second name that only he used, so Bear was also Clancy. And then when he bought me my first puppy, an AKC registered yellow lab, I named him Sunchaser because well, I was 5. He said "Hell no" and renamed him Bubba while my grandma settled on Chase. So that dog had like 5 names by the time he passed in 2012 😂
Love waking up to these being in my RUclips notifications! I also recently got a new puppy and we named him Hank! He was one of the last from his litter and is just a big, goofy, and oh so sweet boy. This puts us at 2 doggos and a very sassy calico cat that definitely runs this place with her attitude and has the boys wrapped around her paw🤣❤️
The moment when you compared grandparents entitlement to the zoo, you perfectly captured how it was with my family and my husbands family once we had our son. we were expected to cart him around to everyone every weekend. We had no time together as our family without other’s expecting us to have them join or go see them.
We eventually said f it an pick up our whole lives and moved to Texas…
We’ve never been happier
"Why is your mom's childhood best friend at your wedding?"
Ciara's question reminded me of my own story. My brother's wedding was last year, and for some reason my parents filled out the guest list with their own friends from high school and college! Most of these were people we hadn't seen in years, and thus had no real connection to. I'm still scratching my head over the decision to invite them a year later
Listening to you guys while my preschool kiddos are sleeping!! Just started working at this daycare a week ago and love using your videos as a break/while they nap
Thank you so much for acknowledging nursing homes and how good they can be for people. I've worked in long term care with the elderly for 4 years, and even through covid. I've grown so much from this job and will take all experience into my whole life.
I hope your eyebrow gets better, I get hurt so often, last week I ran into a pole in the eyebrow bone and it was swollen for multiple days, I know how sensitive that tiny flap of skin really is. You always have this really cool scar story now and you're so funny talking about it
My insomnia is only my fav on tuesdays lol you ladies are the best ❤
Needed this today! My boss and coworker won’t stfu and this helped
Not me crying at the thought of Noah listening to this when he’s older and missing mom, getting bummed out that he walked with his friend instead of bonding talking to CiCi on the walk to school😭
GIRL I relate so hard to falling for the pet that was the runt of the litter that was last to get picked. That's how I adopted my first pet as an adult, my cat Latte. She had such a sad little face on Facebook and it was over
Oh my god I forgot it was Tuesday and got SO hyped by this notification
Every time I see that portrait behind you, Jerri, I think it's a short stout version of eugenio derbez 🤣🤣
I have a 6 yo Beagle mix named Daryl. That was his name when he was a puppy at the humane society and I just loved it. I was pregnant with my oldest at the time and 10/10 recommend the name, nothing is cuter than a baby saying Daryl.
‘It’s like shaving befor a date’ 😂😂
This episode gave me life as I'm fighting covid for the first time. Loved it and thank you for making today brighter
Id been manifesting a baby for quite a while but had no confidence in it, we recently did ivf and i manifested again but with the fact it was ivf i felt confident in it, were 6 weeks come monday 🥰 so excited
Teddy bear parsons best name ever!! Love it!
OMG my dog is also named teddy and his legal name is Theodore Bear Bishop😂. He’s 13 years old fully blind and deaf with diabetes and I just call him Bob now but I thought that was funny!
hello hello! my day just got a whole lot brighter! hope you’re okay jeri and it heals fast! love you both! ❤️
Ya'll were really off your shits today XD loved it!!
the first story is so relatable i wanted to cry as my 1.5 year old climbs all over me while i watch you. no me time with my 2 his 3 and him ver over stimulating!!!
First time watching instead of listening and you know I really thought Jerri’s voice was Ciara’s and vice versa🤣🤣🤣
I needed to hear the "it's not wrong to feel relief when someone passes" ...my mom suffered several strokes last year with mid-stage dementia, and ended up needing 24/7 care...so I was a single mom, with a 10y.o., working part-time and taking care of her every second I was home...she passed in February, after another major stroke that left her unable to move or talk, and I still feel slightly guilty that I felt relieved. I know she was miserable and didn't want to live the way she was, but it was still hard to realize I was "happy" about not having to sleep on a couch in her room, feed/change her or finally being able to take a shower/sleep through the night without worrying, etc
Sierra with the Flo!!!! Love 😂
I’m so excited it’s working this week! I get to listen on my way to work ❤️
Just what I need to start my work week! Hell yeah!
Such a great episode! I laughed my ass off the whole time😂
Just here to say, that i advocate for nursing homes. I've worked in many, I've seen bad things, but if you do your research you can find a loving and safe home for Grandma.
I’m so terrible at singing, but singing is a stim for me, so I enjoy it immensely
Geri! No picking at it! 😂
My parents were SO MAD when my husband and I started our sons name change. We weren't married and he was an addict so our son got my name. My dad wanted him to carry on his name. My husband has 4 years clean and is an amazing father. Our son is 6. So stupid and selfish.
Oh no jeri! I hope you heal quickly! I had a hotel door swing into my forehead at 15 and my 🔴 was apparently all over the walls like a horror movie. I remember going ow my head that hurt and then seeing it all in my hands….the shock was real 😂 I was also on a school trip in a foreign country 😅
Jerri I hope you feel better I'll send all the good thoughts and vibes all my love from louisiana 💕
I have not had a chance to catch up on allll episodes yet so correct me if this has already been done but I would LOVE a motherhood episode from you two where you talk about struggles and challenges and the highs and lows. Ciera can input on being a teen mom etc, I think it would be an interesting ep!
Lmaoo Ciara!!! That’s a line from the song Girlfight by Brook Valentine
I didn't even notice the camera cut off until you guys mentioned it hahaha
I'm SO glad my brain wasn't the only one that heard Supervova Girl 😅😅
The word Ciara might have been searching for is "adamant" 😛
I hope Ciara’s ex is treating his new partner better. I know that relationship was a really long time ago, and I want to believe people who terrorize their partners are capable of change, but I can’t help but wonder if she’s experiencing any amount of the same things Ciara went through... I always wonder that about abusive exes and their new relationships
Oh boy I just got to the entitled grandparent part. I wish there was somewhere to tell you guys my story about my battle against “grandparent rights” the past 3 years 😩
I’m 22, I have a 15 year old and 7 year old sisters lmao. It’s a lot, I basically raised both of them, but I wouldn’t change it now!:)
"I don't get on Tiktok" the irony that it's where I found you.
I co parent and we definitely don’t have a perfect situation but I was lucky because we did put our differences aside and we do what’s best for the kids
So excited for this week’s episode! ❤️
YES PLEASE DO A MANIFESTING EPISODE!!!
Yes hello I’m having myself a little rewatch and wanted to comment on the adrenaline theory lmao. My fiancé has a condition called vasovagal syncope which is typically characterized by sudden drops in heart rate/blood pressure making you pass out. The way his is expressed is by sudden spikes of adrenaline usually due to hitting a joint/pressure point. The two times he’s fully konked out were from hitting a funny bone as a child just the right way and hitting his knee on a metal conveyor belt at work just the right way. Both times he dropped so hard he needed staples in his head from impact. Jeri made no wrong moves running and rushing as fast as she could but I couldn’t help but think about my sweet man trying to do the same thing and passing the hell out in the yard. If any peeps have poor blood circulation on the daily, please take it slow if something like this happens to you!!
First story is my life I love shopping day me and my sister do groceries together away from the kids and we manage to have so much fun together
CRAZY! a few weeks ago i split my eye brow open and had to get stiches😭 almost in the same spot.
Me an intellectual 30 minutes in.. “Woah, what happened to her eye” 😮
I sprained both my ankles at the same time and got a small fracture in one about two weeks ago. How? Walking on an uneven driveway….. 🤦🏼♀️
The fact that I downloaded Petfinder after jerri said she downloaded it again😂😂😂
Ciara bringing up a puppy named Dave is hilarious because that is that I plan to name my future corgi puppy 😏 I decided years ago that when I get my male tricolor corgi puppy (with a long tail!) I was going to name him after my husband’s Uncle Dave. 😂 I’ve only ever had corgis as adults (one was adopted from a humane society at 1ish year old, and the other had to be rehomed locally at 9 years old). Anyway, my husband’s uncle named Dave had a tricolor corgi named Buddy years ago that I never got to personally meet, but he went blind in his old age from diabetes and tragically drowned in a pond on his property 😭
Idk if there is a name for it but it’s like the opposite of caregivers guilt, I struggled a lot with this when my grandpa was sick and passed away. He had liver cancer that spread to his lungs and we were super close my whole life. When he was sick I kind of avoided him bcuz I didn’t want to admit to myself that he was sick and I didn’t want to watch him deteriorate. This was made much easier by the fact that me and my parents and siblings live 2.5 hours away and it was during Covid. It was hard because the last time I saw him was 5 months before he died and it was terrible to see how weak and thin he had gotten. I knew how hard it was for my grandma aunt and cousin to care for him but I could not bring myself to come help because I didn’t want to watch my grandpa die. I felt so guilty for a long time and I still do almost 2 years since I last saw him. Idk if there is a name for it but if there is could u ladies maybe talk about that?
You’ve got to call him Theodore graham… like teddy grahams
Good morning! Jeri feel better ❤️
I identify with wanting the dog nobody wants. My husband calls our dog ugly in a nice little baby voice (she doesn’t know the difference) 😂 just to get on my nerves and I have to tell her she’s pretty and then he says only to Mommy.
my boyfriends mom had 3 kids each 10 years apart. he is the youngest and you can definitely tell that he has been raised by my grandparents generation and also he is almost the same age as his nephews. he doesn't really get on with his older brothers and there is always family drama so take from that what you will lol
1:05:53 how the dad treats the grandma now, the daughter should threaten she will treat him the same way when he’s old
I think I might use this to get another great Dane lmao I have 1 great Dane and 2 7month old female pits 😂😂 my Dane breeder has 2 female pups left and no one is picking them
Fabio’d lolol
Ok just so yall know, if you ever get a large wound, DO NOT RUN! Running gets ur heart pumping faster which means blood flowing to ur heart faster which means you would bleed out faster
Ladie from Nevada! If you live in the Reno area, it me up! I’m in the Reno area and need friends as well!
Gooodmorning ladies!!
I lost it at the dogs with old man names because my dogs name is Bill
Bill was our runner up name!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am the middle of a set of 3 with almost 9 yr age gaps on either side. My older sister, 34, was had at 18. I, 25, was had at 27. And my little sister, 16, was had at 35 almost 36. My mom hates it but oooops 🤷♀️
Y’all I have been waiting to subscribe in Patreon for forever and I got my first paycheck. You best bet I’m about to go to patreon
Aw Jeri! I hope you're face feels better soon and heals well. It honestly looks kinda cool lol but I know it must hurt.
I know when I had hip surgery and they glued me up, it was so hard for me not to pick at it once it was closer to being healed. Fortunately for me the scars were hideous giant holes, so it wouldn't have mattered anyways lol But the second go round (with a different surgeon) they added another hole, but stitched them up this time. So the scars look better! They kinda look like little bugs because I have 6 tiny scars from the stitches around each one, so it looks like 6 little legs around awkward shapes, so bugs 😅
All of this to say that I hope you're doing ok with picking and you're able to let it do its thing as it heals, as much as possible. I wish you the best and hope you feel better soon ❤️
Hi ladies! Recommend tea tree oil on the ass-ne 🤗
My boy’s name is Marcus 🥰🥰🥰 we adopted him at 2.5 years old because he’s a Houdini and very opinionated
I have an 18 y/o, 12 y/o in November and 2 y/o in November … 😬
Can you do a podcast where people send in their ghost stories for you to read? Pleasee 👻
Love this ❤️❤️
Jeri! Take the week off omg. Actually take off as much time as you need to heal. We love you and appreciate you doing this but we wouldn’t be upset if you didn’t upload for a while so you can heal. You have to look out for you first!
Love you two
im so early i love it omg
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Have him put her in a nursing home and divorce him just sayin.