This is 100% my ex husband’s theme song. He would ALWAYS walk in front of me and I would start singing this song every single time! I’m a survivor of a high functioning covert narcissist. “I was never looking for a fantasy, I want a man that stands beside me.”
I used to sing this song after my first marriage ended. I just came across it today after all these years and realized my second husband of 15 years is the man that stands beside me.
Remember people. Your partner should be someone who stands beside you. Not in front of, or behind you. This goes for everyone. Not just women in relationships with men.
The good Lord meant marriage to be a coequal partnership based on His love as the bonding element! Our society has suffered for years because of women being abused by their husbands , and unfaithfulness! There will be mistakes in any marriage , but forgiveness needs to be right there to heal those wounds! I love this song, and it shows how sad many marriages end up! We need to stand beside our spouses, but also add God as the guide of that special bond! We all need true love in all our relationships! Thanks Jo Dee for helping us look to heal our hearts! God bless you!
No you are not. I saw her in a free concert in Largo FL. promoting this album, I was immediately a fan, hadn't even heard of her before. She's phenomenal
yeah this is a good song but my 2 favorite songs of hers is heads carolina and your not in kansas anymore hbu ? what is ur favorite songs or videos by Jo Dee ?
Angus McFarland sorry but I did close my eyes for a brief split second and it was STILL 2018 and I wouldn't of had it any other way. In 1998 i wasn't married. In 1998 I never knew my husband even existed. In 1998 I was just a little kid about 4 and five years old. Now in.2018 twenty years later i am 24 and pregnant with our fourth child and have been married since me.and him were 18 years old
Stacy Fletcher i would say my favorite video of hers is im alright cause of the fact she had leather pants on in that. I just love her music it's all good, almost every guy I met had a huge crush on her like me haha
Lot of Country-Inspired Metal though including some of the most critically recognized stuff. Look up Acid Bath and EYEHATEGOD and then Crowbar. All from Louisiana too. Weedeater from North Carolina and these are also pretty well regarded and critically respected bands too. Considered some of the most influential and iconic.
Don't know how tf I came across this years ago. But after the first listen I was hooked. Black girl who loves Tupac was walking around singing Jo Dee LoL. And I don't care, still love this and other country songs. Thankful for whoever broadened my musical tastes💕
One of the greatest female country singers of the '90s I believe she could have been as big as Dolly Parton if she wanted. That's what's sad because most of the greatest singers make their fortunes and then get out of the business. If they would stick around they could go really far. God I miss the 90s LOL I've listened to this song since I was 12 years old I'm now 32. Very strong woman.
Can't believe I forgot about Jo Dee. From 1998 to 2000 she was all over CMT and I loved her songs. Never bought an album though. Was reminded of her last night and bought her greatest hits off iTunes. Missed her songs and voice.
yeah I know right ? yeah I like country especially from the 90s but I do like some of todays country songs as well but yeah the 90s country is the real deal
Krystle Canales yeah I love all those artists u mentioned I mean they have great hits. But hey I found a jo dee video that I never knew existed its called do you wanna make something of it have u ever seen that video before ?
One of the most beautiful women, inside and out, that's ever come down the line!! Such an amazing treasure we have in Jo!!! And, WoW!!! What an amazing video!
Knowing what you want, Knowing what you truly need, Knowing what you will or won't do , More difficult is knowing being still in the knowing having the fear to reach out to the unknowing and hoping one day you'll have a partner to stand beside you that sees you and knows you .
Better to listen to a woman... a REAL woman, like this, than a dozen little girls, like Taylor Swift. Jodee has worked her ass off, to get where she's at. Jodee's worked at a lot of blue-collar jobs, to put herself in a position where she could do what she loved. I believe they call that "dues-paying".... As a result, her songwriting has an authenticity to it, that so many other artists seem to lack these days. She knows what it takes, to make it... on or off of the stage. I respect her abilities as a songwriter, every bit as much as I do her voice, and performance skills. I'm glad that she's still around today, and making audiences smile all over the world.
One reason I loved this song (as a younger person) was because she mentioned Boulder and I'm from Colorado myself. But these days I love this song because of the message it brings. I am so glad that I found that guy in my fiance.
This song came into my head and cant recall the last time I heard it. Just the feeling is so real. I dont want an owner or a man who puts me on a pedestal just one who really sees me. I'm done with petty, ego-driven, wrathful little boys.
I remember this song from when I was a kid. It's just one of them that brings back good memories. I wish I could go back to then. Riding in the back of my grandma's truck. I'll forever miss that woman.
I would love to hear from her again I miss her so much she is a good artist and a good person I heard he had a fight with cancer have not heard no more I wish somebody would feel me in one day miss you
❤❤my name is Jennifer Williamson and listen to your song helps me be strong and inspires me to not take my baby daddy back when I know I want you more than anything because he’s not treating me or being loyal to me and he’s just so you know your song to speaks three it’s like oh my life Word for Word. Thank you for your beautiful, beautiful music. I’m you’re number one fan. Love you. I hope you keep writing and live in beautiful songs in music be the best artist ever.
I’m listening to the CD in my car. Yes a little behind the times lol I have two girls that are in their 20s although I’ve known about this song for years since I was just listening to it I decided to send it to them. Let them know they’re worth.
Love Love her songs and most of all her voice!!!!❤
This is 100% my ex husband’s theme song. He would ALWAYS walk in front of me and I would start singing this song every single time! I’m a survivor of a high functioning covert narcissist. “I was never looking for a fantasy, I want a man that stands beside me.”
She’s a hell of a singer.
I agree Jo Dee has been underrated very unfair and ridiculous she is the complete package and she deserves to be honored for her talent.
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I used to sing this song after my first marriage ended. I just came across it today after all these years and realized my second husband of 15 years is the man that stands beside me.
I never sang it after my first marriage ended, but now that I am married again I am glad that I found a man to stand beside me...:-D
Thats the ticket what else matters to me is gods grace putting a good foot forward
Rock on
I want a man that is always with me sometimes
Love the kingdom its our backyard
Remember people. Your partner should be someone who stands beside you. Not in front of, or behind you. This goes for everyone. Not just women in relationships with men.
❤
Happy 51st Birthday Jo Dee Marie Messina!(Born August 25, 1970)😃🥳🎂🎉🎊🎈🎁🍾🥂💚🌷🌹💐🎀👍👏🙌
The talent this woman has, is off-the charts
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The good Lord meant marriage to be a coequal partnership based on His love as the bonding element! Our society has suffered for years because of women being abused by their husbands , and unfaithfulness! There will be mistakes in any marriage , but forgiveness needs to be right there to heal those wounds! I love this song, and it shows how sad many marriages end up! We need to stand beside our spouses, but also add God as the guide of that special bond! We all need true love in all our relationships! Thanks Jo Dee for helping us look to heal our hearts! God bless you!
That's not actually a bad idea tbh.
This song speaks volumes to many women it is a way to most ladies hearts. Jo Dee sounds so beautiful singing it. She is also very beautiful.
Am I the only one who thinks that Jo Dee Messina is so underrated? I think she deserves better
naquiyankee You’re 100% correct
Most definitely!
I agree 100%
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No you are not. I saw her in a free concert in Largo FL. promoting this album, I was immediately a fan, hadn't even heard of her before. She's phenomenal
Man she captures the pain in wanting someone so bad but knowing they aren't good for u and walking away to better urself
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She sure does and her songs always come at a time when you are putting the whole relationship into perspective.
Close your eyes ... for split second it's 1998 again. Thanks for the moment Jo Dee.
yeah this is a good song but my 2 favorite songs of hers is heads carolina and your not in kansas anymore hbu ? what is ur favorite songs or videos by Jo Dee ?
Angus McFarland sorry but I did close my eyes for a brief split second and it was STILL 2018 and I wouldn't of had it any other way. In 1998 i wasn't married. In 1998 I never knew my husband even existed. In 1998 I was just a little kid about 4 and five years old. Now in.2018 twenty years later i am 24 and pregnant with our fourth child and have been married since me.and him were 18 years old
Angus McFarland
Love!!!
I did and I'm 1 years old and playing with water on the sidewalk. I can actually remember that too.
Absolutely love love this song. If men only really knew what a women truly wants. This is a classic come back Jodee!!!
Men do. My wife is cherished by me. And she adores her husband. It’s not 50/50. It’s 100/100.
3 in the afternoon.She has a powerful voice that reaches deep into your soul and brings emotions right out!!!!!
She has such a beautiful SOLID voice!
Stacy Fletcher i would say my favorite video of hers is im alright cause of the fact she had leather pants on in that. I just love her music it's all good, almost every guy I met had a huge crush on her like me haha
And still is!
an angelic voice that is solid just like Mindy McCready
i think that song fell
thru the cracks some
how. i fell in love with
her first time i heard it.
i guess she lost my
number. lol
Beautiful to look at too.
An old metal dude that loves this voice
Same here bro!!
She was one of the few my biker dad wouldn't complain about. Martina McBride was another.
Awesome singer
Lot of Country-Inspired Metal though including some of the most critically recognized stuff. Look up Acid Bath and EYEHATEGOD and then Crowbar. All from Louisiana too. Weedeater from North Carolina and these are also pretty well regarded and critically respected bands too. Considered some of the most influential and iconic.
This song has been speaking to me lately I want a man that stands beside me 💙💖💖💙💜
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You'll find him. Or he'll find you
Lubbock Texas has one for u 😎
Me, too!!!
She is one hella singer .
Still country! Love this song
I think "stand by me"
should be a classic
like stand by your man
or "he stoped loving her
today". all time favorite
of mine.
Would love to hear new music from her. She's so talented!
it's addictive listening to these song, Unfortunately, artist today have no inspiration and no talent for music. Is this your favorite song?
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Unfortunately she developed a heavy drinking problem and it has affected her health and her voice.
She's still touring and making music. She's on Instagram and I think other sites with new music I'm pretty sure.
@@Johndoe-kq1fb how the hell do you know? Or are you just hating?
This beautiful woman is so underrated. 2020 almost 2021 and still listening. From teens to 30s this woman is still on my playlist
FACT!!! Same here I Love her music her energy and that voice is Angelic!!
This song has really been speaking to me lately. Don't want no fantasy, just want a man that stands beside me.
I ll be your man
I have a emotionally abusive husband. He don't love me
I hope you found him❣️
@@ducko697 then why are you still with him?
@@ducko697 sorry to hear!!
I just love her voice, the way it cracks under control
I love this song because I have now found my soulmate and she is standing right beside me.Ginger i will always love you.
Don't know how tf I came across this years ago. But after the first listen I was hooked. Black girl who loves Tupac was walking around singing Jo Dee LoL. And I don't care, still love this and other country songs. Thankful for whoever broadened my musical tastes💕
Lmfao! I'm a white girl who loves Tupac AND Jo Dee! Girl...this is for US ❤ All the broken hearts & bs.
Music is the universal language of the human heart.
Beautiful song & never heard it
sung by anyone else. Beautiful
lady also
🥰
Jo Dee rocks, beautiful woman❣️
Love me some Jo Dee! Sorry to hear about this cancer diagnosis-you'll beat this horrendous disease!
Still listening to this in 2024. It was good then and it's still one of my favorites. Wish she'd come out with more songs
One of the greatest female country singers of the '90s I believe she could have been as big as Dolly Parton if she wanted. That's what's sad because most of the greatest singers make their fortunes and then get out of the business. If they would stick around they could go really far. God I miss the 90s LOL I've listened to this song since I was 12 years old I'm now 32. Very strong woman.
Sultry yet dynamic.
Technically honest.
A true professional.
Very under appreciated song! One of my all-time favs of the 90's! Always gave me a certain feeling when driving down the highway. Can't explain it.
Its the power and Beauty full of energy!! It is so rare we fail to appreciate her clarity!! She is making a come back and she sounds Awesome still!!
She was such a good singer. I would throw her cd in the player, turn up the volume, and drive...
was? She still is!
sarah D. Same here
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@@angelvisions444 please play this for all USA troops. God bless every one.we love every one of you.thank you for your service..
Hell yeah I love this song
Yeah this song is amazing. How are you doing?
I can relate to this song. I was single mom raising 3 kids on my own. 😃
Can't believe I forgot about Jo Dee. From 1998 to 2000 she was all over CMT and I loved her songs. Never bought an album though. Was reminded of her last night and bought her greatest hits off iTunes. Missed her songs and voice.
Support4MySingers she was one of my favourite singers at that time and I bought "I'm Alright" with this song on it. Great gem :)
I owned all of them and REALLY need to find them...
She actually debuted in 1995 with heads Carolina tales California offer debut album
Ahhhhhhhhhhh. The 90's those were the good old days.
yeah I know right ? yeah I like country especially from the 90s but I do like some of todays country songs as well but yeah the 90s country is the real deal
hey what's your favorite song an video by jo dee messina ? and what other artists do u like in country ?
I think the song I'm all right. I like Brooks and Dunn, Kenny Rodgers, George Strait, Lady Anntabellem, Reba, Eddie Rabbit, And More.
Krystle Canales yeah I love all those artists u mentioned I mean they have great hits. But hey I found a jo dee video that I never knew existed its called do you wanna make something of it have u ever seen that video before ?
no I'll check it out thanks.
Saw her again a few years ago in Cambridge Ohio..... great voice and performance.
One of the most beautiful women, inside and out, that's ever come down the line!! Such an amazing treasure we have in Jo!!! And, WoW!!! What an amazing video!
Thank you for all the wonderful songs, Jo Dee. I'm still enjoying each one.
The best concert I have ever seen was Jo Dee Messina. I wish she would tour this way again.
That sound gives me cold chills it’s a beautiful song by her nanny Ruby
This song is just so amazingly beautiful, she's a really good singer. How are you doing Ruby?
My favorite song by Jo Dee! 🔥
My half-sister’s son, Marshall Richardson, is her drummer, and Marshall is quite good, bringing it home.
Beautiful performance! Shine on Superstar!
Saw Jo Dee a few yrs ago in Az before the pandemic with my late husband. She was fantastic
She's also an artist who I can see live. Cause she doesn't use all the strobe lights.
Who is listening to this fantastic masterpiece in 2022
When I heard this song I was sold to her music. One of her best. Thanks for the memories and music
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No i totally agree she’s incredible she needs to be recognized for the true artist she is
Incredible country singer, I love everything she does
My husband purposed to me to this song in a VERY public place. Her concert on 7-4-05! We still love her and the song
her voice is so beautiful💜
Miss this real talk . this is real music. Something that could give you chills ..
Of course, she's a Boston girl.
She sang country music when country wasnt cool and made it sound so good. She IS underrated, and deserves better.
Still Loving Jo Dee after 25 years!!!
Love this song . I miss Jo Dee I hope her health is better.
I hope you’re having a nice day 🙂
She is such an inspiration of integrity and doing what’s right even when it’s hard
This is my Favorite song by Jo Dee Messina. At the time it was popular I was in Memphis a lot. Beautiful song. 🥰
Jo Dee is one of the best concerts I have ever been too. I totally recommend seeing her live.
What an old school singer she is. Thanks for the music and memories.
I only dream for a life as this song goes!! Dont think i never will find someone that cares as much as i do
Love listening to the sound of her voice. It's so unique, different, soothing and easy on the heart, like Sara Evans, wow.
wishes do come true it takes two to stand beside each other
Knowing what you want, Knowing what you truly need, Knowing what you will or won't do , More difficult is knowing being still in the knowing having the fear to reach out to the unknowing and hoping one day you'll have a partner to stand beside you that sees you and knows you .
Sharing always with my social media outlets and platforms 💯
One of the top singers-- beautiful song
One of my absolute favorite songs.
It's hard to find a man to stand beside me but when I do and I pray to God i do I will never let him go
Much underrated always loved her!
oh my gosh I love this song I can listen to it all day long over and over
Just discovered. Fantastic recording. Clean punchy. Will check out more and I'm 70!!
Jodee Messina is my favorite singer in the world that I truly love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Always liked Jo Dee so pretty and an beautiful voice
One of my all time favorite artists!
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One of the greatest country artist,and songs EVER! Every good girl deserves a good man.
Better to listen to a woman... a REAL woman, like this, than a dozen little girls, like Taylor Swift. Jodee has worked her ass off, to get where she's at. Jodee's worked at a lot of blue-collar jobs, to put herself in a position where she could do what she loved. I believe they call that "dues-paying".... As a result, her songwriting has an authenticity to it, that so many other artists seem to lack these days. She knows what it takes, to make it... on or off of the stage. I respect her abilities as a songwriter, every bit as much as I do her voice, and performance skills. I'm glad that she's still around today, and making audiences smile all over the world.
Love jodee awesome voice and easy on the 👁️
Where did country music go.
Powerful
I will listen to her no matter what she is an amazing singer....I love her
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One reason I loved this song (as a younger person) was because she mentioned Boulder and I'm from Colorado myself.
But these days I love this song because of the message it brings.
I am so glad that I found that guy in my fiance.
I hope you’re having a nice day 🙂
This song came into my head and cant recall the last time I heard it. Just the feeling is so real. I dont want an owner or a man who puts me on a pedestal just one who really sees me. I'm done with petty, ego-driven, wrathful little boys.
She was one of my favorites back in the day. What happened to her? Seemed like she just dropped of the map..
Jo Dee, how I miss the 90s country! She's so talented and beautiful
Amazing singer I love all of her songs.. I listen to her to all the time
She has amazing nasal projection. I love her unique alto voice.
I always loved your voice!
Thank you for this song ❤😊
I freakin love this song
I love this song to sweetie
I just went through a break up and my mom told me to look up this song....this really describes my situation and I love it
I remember this song from when I was a kid. It's just one of them that brings back good memories. I wish I could go back to then. Riding in the back of my grandma's truck. I'll forever miss that woman.
🥰
I think she sings good!
I love this song. It is so beautiful.
Literally saw her three hours ago at spencer fair in mass she's incredible and beyond beautiful and strong love that she's from mass
She so beautiful.. She is way underrated! Real country
Love 💕💕 her ❤️❤️
I would love to hear from her again I miss her so much she is a good artist and a good person I heard he had a fight with cancer have not heard no more I wish somebody would feel me in one day miss you
❤❤my name is Jennifer Williamson and listen to your song helps me be strong and inspires me to not take my baby daddy back when I know I want you more than anything because he’s not treating me or being loyal to me and he’s just so you know your song to speaks three it’s like oh my life Word for Word. Thank you for your beautiful, beautiful music. I’m you’re number one fan. Love you. I hope you keep writing and live in beautiful songs in music be the best artist ever.
Still loving this song in 2019. 😍😍
I’m listening to the CD in my car. Yes a little behind the times lol I have two girls that are in their 20s although I’ve known about this song for years since I was just listening to it I decided to send it to them. Let them know they’re worth.
I love all her songs and i love her 😍
Never heard this song before ,but a friend said I should listen to this ...So true just a man not to leave but stand beside me...