ASKING MY MUM WHY SHE ABANDONED ME FOR 21 YEARS

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  • When I was 9 years my mum told us she was going to further her education in the capital city Accra . It was a LIE !!! She left us ( me and my 2 sisters) to the USA.
    It’s been 21 years now. In this video I get to ask her, why she abandoned us for this long
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Комментарии • 884

  • @loventi3268
    @loventi3268 9 месяцев назад +434

    I'm Christabel, nanelle's kid sister and all i can say is my mom is honestly the best mom ever ❤ we love and appreciate her so much 🙏🏾❤️😭my eyes were teary throughout the whole video

  • @xxtracyxx
    @xxtracyxx 9 месяцев назад +196

    Hello guys, I am Tracy. Nanelle's second youngest sister, and honestly my mom's migration to the states will always be something bittersweet to me because I was born here in the states. But without her sacrifices I wouldn't be where I am today. None of my siblings would be where they are today and all I can say is mom you are so near and dear to all of us. We love you to the ends and I am so proud to call you MOM. I love you plenty. Thank you for evertything truly. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @NanelleGriselda
      @NanelleGriselda  9 месяцев назад +13

      Love you Tracy ❤️

    • @shiktrastephen4605
      @shiktrastephen4605 9 месяцев назад +3

      Oh Nanelle you got me crying so deeply this morning 😭❤️

    • @shiktrastephen4605
      @shiktrastephen4605 9 месяцев назад +2

      I wish I can make same sacrifice for my kids... I have tried harder as a nurse but it doesn't seem coming for over 2 years.

    • @lillianugochukwu-essien7086
      @lillianugochukwu-essien7086 9 месяцев назад

      ❤️

    • @makeupbygloria
      @makeupbygloria 9 месяцев назад

      @@shiktrastephen4605 don’t lose hope god’s timing is the best

  • @Dorothy8631
    @Dorothy8631 9 месяцев назад +41

    If she now has her documents, I advise she goes home to see your other siblings. Time and tide wait for no man.

    • @bettynarh7874
      @bettynarh7874 8 месяцев назад

      I'm sure she doesn't but we will all wish her well and pray for her to get all her heart desires. 🙏

  • @bglr2783
    @bglr2783 9 месяцев назад +9

    Sometimes some parents forget that their kids need them and not their money always.
    You can always make money but can never get back the time. 21yrs is too long. It must have been hard for both the mother and the kids left behind.

  • @helped.2318
    @helped.2318 9 месяцев назад +17

    My sister left for the USA some years back leaving her kids behind, it was really tough bringing them in and she had to relocate to Canada. Now they have reunited after 7 long years to God's glory

  • @GeeThamae
    @GeeThamae 9 месяцев назад +46

    As an expat who left my 3kids back home, I can relate with this mom. 🥺🥺🥺 But God is faithful, he will help me get my kids soon.

  • @florzyogada4442
    @florzyogada4442 9 месяцев назад +20

    As a mom who has left her baby home to fend for the family, I totally understand mommy 😢. Dear our kids, please understand that We can't abandon you .we love you so much ❤

  • @tsitsitafa3709
    @tsitsitafa3709 9 месяцев назад +48

    When you spoke about the lady who used to pray over you at school I could not hold my tears anymore!Mamas closing words were very powerful,we should learn to care for ourselves and our health.

  • @draaa2893
    @draaa2893 9 месяцев назад +34

    I came to the UK without my child and I almost ran Mad. Only God knows what your mum has been going through for 2 decades. God bless you mama. You are very brave❤❤❤

  • @SCNNICURN
    @SCNNICURN 9 месяцев назад +93

    I can relate to some of her experiences. When i moved to the UK, I moved without my son. The lockdowns prevented my from going for him when i had planned (it took a full YEAR). It was a horrible experience for me and my mom took lovely care of him however the separation was a lot for me. And he regressed (he was 2). When he moved here he was 3 and needed to adjust. He's doing well now. A few weeks ago he asked me if I remembered when he "lost me".
    Despite how much childcare cost here if we cant live here together, I'd rather go home.

  • @marttysamstv669
    @marttysamstv669 8 месяцев назад +2

    Only in the UAE without my son is not easy to handle, some times I go very aggressive without knowing 😢 it really hurts

  • @paterasbite
    @paterasbite 9 месяцев назад +31

    My mom passed last year in Ghana, I’ve to be ok with not seeing her again. As the only child living alone in the UK, this is a big blow. Sending love to anyone going through a similar situation 💕💕

  • @jessicawest224
    @jessicawest224 9 месяцев назад +2

    This is so lovely and so emotional to watch ❤

  • @MidwifeJamie
    @MidwifeJamie 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing. Have been teary throughout.

  • @WahalaNoDeyFinishTV
    @WahalaNoDeyFinishTV 9 месяцев назад +4

    The only thing i am going to take from this is that i am almost 100% sure the non of the children abandoned in ghana will ever do the same to their children. They experienced abandonment and will definitely not allow the aame thing happen to the next generation.

  • @MissCee_88
    @MissCee_88 9 месяцев назад +3

    Nanelle. Thank you for this video. This is so important. Mother daughter relationships are gold.

  • @Lafrix211
    @Lafrix211 9 месяцев назад +29

    This is emotional and I didn't see my mum over 10years and I love how open your mum is with the situation and others pretended like it didn't happen

  • @Gloriaeeeee
    @Gloriaeeeee 9 месяцев назад +2

    Jeees Nanelle, you made me cry. I appreciate how open and vulnerable you and your mom was talking about this. This was tough!

  • @joasitz9559
    @joasitz9559 9 месяцев назад +2

    Very emotional, I'm praying for your family and your good mom. For sure, it was a very good moment.

  • @marthamurisa8027
    @marthamurisa8027 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Nanelle thanks for sharing. This really tore at my heart and made me shed some tears. Both you and your mum are really strong. Mum's love is unconditional. God bless you both😢❤

  • @NursingWithRay
    @NursingWithRay 9 месяцев назад

    This was so heartwarming ❤I was crying my eyes out 😭 loving the US content Nanelle

  • @leticiaboniamoah8491
    @leticiaboniamoah8491 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is soo touching ,a well deserved family reunion

  • @babatundesho4735
    @babatundesho4735 9 месяцев назад +3

    This is so touchy!! I couldn't control my tears.

  • @jhazidee401
    @jhazidee401 9 месяцев назад +3

    very emotional topic may you all continue to heal

  • @ginosmedia13
    @ginosmedia13 9 месяцев назад +8

    This got me ! God safe every child out there lacking parental care.

  • @amandagyan4057
    @amandagyan4057 9 месяцев назад

    Aww beautiful story…so touching and insightful.

  • @tosinolagboye8590
    @tosinolagboye8590 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sending you hugs. A lot of this is relatable. It feels like my own life’s story…..down to grandma getting cancer and all. But maybe ABANDON is not the right word because you know she did what she had to do to make sure that you get a good life. Glad you’re reunited.

  • @munachimsoamachaghi825
    @munachimsoamachaghi825 9 месяцев назад +4

    This is so touching 😢😢.
    May God see everyone through, the journey of life can really get tough sometimes.

  • @gloriatopeng
    @gloriatopeng 9 месяцев назад +2

    Awwww this made me cry 😢❤ thank you for sharing this with us

  • @claudianyame
    @claudianyame 9 месяцев назад +2

    I have really learnt a lot from mommy, you have to have a good heart and things will fall in place❤

  • @akuakesewaa9715
    @akuakesewaa9715 9 месяцев назад +1

    This was very emotional ❤glad you reunited

  • @chelesanisibanda2224
    @chelesanisibanda2224 9 месяцев назад +3

    Nanelle, thanks for this raw and difficult conversation with your mom. I really got emotional watching this. So glad you and your siblings don't hate your mom. God bless you and family. Enjoy each other's company.

  • @ama5179
    @ama5179 9 месяцев назад +2

    The challenges of a parent. Yous are so real! Its emotional but am glad theres harmony and hopefully no hard feelings towards mum.

  • @mwangalangonda287
    @mwangalangonda287 9 месяцев назад +6

    It is well Nannelle. What matters here really is the reunion. Enjoy every moment with your mom from now on wards. Love you.

  • @omoladeodulate7056
    @omoladeodulate7056 9 месяцев назад +4

    I can't imagine I actually cried watching this video. This is so emotional . Thanks for sharing your story with us❤❤❤

  • @ashleymushonga8149
    @ashleymushonga8149 8 месяцев назад +1

    i love your camera quality. its straight on point💞💞💞

  • @jacquelineagyei671
    @jacquelineagyei671 8 месяцев назад +3

    Awww missed granny. Send mummy my regards she got me crying🥹🥹🥹

    • @NanelleGriselda
      @NanelleGriselda  8 месяцев назад

      Jackie nieeeeee 😂😂😂

    • @jacquelineagyei671
      @jacquelineagyei671 8 месяцев назад

      Yes ooo have been watching ur videos. Charlie am proud of u I always tell hela. U r doing a good job but mummy’s own made me comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Even the reunion didn’t make me but her interview got me crying. My love to them all🥰🥰🥰😍😍. Tell Awoza I enjoyed his dance moves 😍😍🙈🙈😂😂

  • @papaandah2297
    @papaandah2297 9 месяцев назад +6

    This is emotional well done Nanelle you are strong

  • @ewuramahayford4038
    @ewuramahayford4038 9 месяцев назад +5

    Mothers bond is massive🎉

  • @Rose_1105
    @Rose_1105 9 месяцев назад +5

    You’re at a better place now.
    Awwww ❤ Nanelle
    I have lost my mum now close to a year now and I’m still here
    Thankfully you have reunited now. Everything that happened was all good

  • @WendyPaulaAtim-cf1gy
    @WendyPaulaAtim-cf1gy 9 месяцев назад +1

    Awww,sweet Nanelle don't cry....u made me cry too seeing u cry.....nice video,thanks for sharing

  • @dimabofinapiri7253
    @dimabofinapiri7253 9 месяцев назад +2

    This got me teary Nannelle
    God Bless your mom

  • @anumaduadanma2224
    @anumaduadanma2224 9 месяцев назад +3

    Awwww Nanelle this is sooo emotional…… u are brave to put it out in the open!!!
    Our parents do soooo much for us, more grace mama!!

  • @kumbiaros216
    @kumbiaros216 9 месяцев назад +11

    Omg...i busted to tears when Nanelle broke down . .and I've been trying holding myself bk ooo.....this seems like a therapy session for you and ur mum Nanelle..... most importantly thank God for life....❤❤❤❤

  • @Nashiqka7
    @Nashiqka7 9 месяцев назад +13

    Awww, Nanelle what a great reunion and such a lovely mum you all do have. She has really fought hard for you all and still is. May God Almighty continue to bless and grant you all a happy family reunion together, Amen 🙏

  • @afrehlinda-io3oi
    @afrehlinda-io3oi 8 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Nanelle, your story is really touching, and I've really learnt a lot from you and your mom. I couldn't hold my tears when you were speaking about your friend's mom who used to gather and pray for those whose parents weren't there. Kudos to you and your mom for sharing your story.

  • @busylittleus2853
    @busylittleus2853 9 месяцев назад

    Wow what a beautiful story... God bless you all for not feeling anger towards your mother... its looks like you understand the sacrifices she made.
    Thank God for your village too support is necessary when you have children ❤

  • @angelinaoseiafrifa1583
    @angelinaoseiafrifa1583 9 месяцев назад +2

    Awwww Nanelle, well done you made me shed tears 😢but anyway it worth it. Enjoy her before coming back. Mummy is glowing 🎉

  • @princessnessy4778
    @princessnessy4778 9 месяцев назад

    Wow! Suvh an emotional video... In all you and your mum came out strong..
    Thank God for a peaceful and joyous reunion

  • @fredkofi75
    @fredkofi75 9 месяцев назад +7

    You're mum's such a grateful person
    Just being thankful throughout the video ♥️

  • @sedenkoryawadeklu
    @sedenkoryawadeklu 9 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my! Nanelle you made me cry watching this video. I thank God all the sacrifices were worth it 🙏

  • @akpuesther1306
    @akpuesther1306 9 месяцев назад +3

    Awww
    So happy God made this reunion happen, God bless you mummy

  • @elizabethduffour1340
    @elizabethduffour1340 9 месяцев назад +1

    Aww, very emotional . Much love Nanelle❤️

  • @christabeloweredaba2947
    @christabeloweredaba2947 9 месяцев назад +15

    This is so beautiful, the sacrifices our parents pay to give us the best life, may God bless them. God bless you mummy

  • @_Serendip
    @_Serendip 9 месяцев назад +2

    The ❤ of a mother!!!!! You made me cry. I am happy for you guys. A mothers ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

  • @perpetuamatandirotya6256
    @perpetuamatandirotya6256 9 месяцев назад +2

    Waal so emotional ,could not hold my tears .Things we do for our children. May the dear Lord bless your mum my sister.🥰🥰🥰

  • @victoragbaka305
    @victoragbaka305 9 месяцев назад +2

    The human heart is the same. Every sincere conversation connects with the heart. I am happy for you, Nanelle for wonderful reunion. God bless your family 😊

  • @fredagitonga7822
    @fredagitonga7822 9 месяцев назад +5

    Nanelle I feel your pain, I feel your mom's too it's complicated. But in all we thank God to even have an opportunity to Sit and have this conversation ❤.

  • @haridabeauty
    @haridabeauty 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is emotional 😭 😭😭 I give thanks to God for this day. Thank God for life and thank God that you guys turned out right. God Bless your mum and keep her always.

  • @favournwabunwanne9684
    @favournwabunwanne9684 9 месяцев назад +2

    This is so emotional 😢,your grandma did well and your mum too she have to sacrifice ❤much love ma😘

  • @gaiusrexfordkunzong4359
    @gaiusrexfordkunzong4359 9 месяцев назад +5

    This is very emotional. Your Mom is a great woman just like you Nanelle. Much love to you and Mom❤❤❤

  • @favouramara4504
    @favouramara4504 9 месяцев назад +7

    I cried...love of a mum is like that of God to us...Thank you mum for all the sacrifice...Naneelle She is so proud of you...Thanks for holding on too...

  • @JosephineOshoiribhor
    @JosephineOshoiribhor 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for sharing this video my love. This is my first time to see you cry, I cried also, it was so emotional. Thank God for the reunion. I remain your big fan

  • @anitaloolo2535
    @anitaloolo2535 8 месяцев назад +1

    Ooooo this is so emotional. Thank God for the lemonade advert. Haba

  • @luciennevifemseh6156
    @luciennevifemseh6156 9 месяцев назад +4

    Your grandma was really a blessing

  • @damilolaot-dj9qn
    @damilolaot-dj9qn 9 месяцев назад +36

    😭So touching. African leaders should be really blamed for all this pains families are going through just to provide secured future for their kids.

    • @py20
      @py20 9 месяцев назад +1

      There are families prospering in Africa and taking care of their children in Africa. Do African leaders deserve praise?

    • @juliaemeh
      @juliaemeh 9 месяцев назад +4

      ​​@@py20, you need to ask some of those families what they are doing to keep prospering the way you feel they are, some of them have keyed in to the corruption properly, and some doing other shady things, which is why there's unnecessary killings and disappearance of people. Only few are truly prospering plainly. So people have genuine reasons to leave as not everyone can subscribe to such dirty lifestyle.

    • @py20
      @py20 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@juliaemeh I have no problem with anyone who wants to leave; in fact, I have. But the fact remains that the vast majority of our people are home and not everyone is sustaining themselves and their families by corrupt means. People are doing legitimate work in Ghana and prospering and reaping the results of their hard work. FACT!

    • @bolu101
      @bolu101 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@py20 you're only focusing on the financial aspect, do you know that a lot of people have left their good paying jobs to move abroad?

    • @py20
      @py20 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@bolu101 Prosperity is not only about money. There are people flush with cash who are miserable, and such people can be found anywhere.

  • @joanaboaten3600
    @joanaboaten3600 9 месяцев назад +4

    Awwww! Nanelle I’m tearing as I watch this video.. too emotional… beautiful mum and beautiful children, God bless your parents wai. She done so well.

  • @ladjei19
    @ladjei19 9 месяцев назад +15

    Well done to who ever raised you here in Ghana

  • @Unmuteddiscussions23
    @Unmuteddiscussions23 9 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you Nanelle for this episode. Trust me your Mom and your sisters are not alone in this situation. As an African society these issues are hardly talked about and pple struggle alone. Last week my daughter cried at school and i got a call i ddnt sleep that night

  • @frederickatiah4901
    @frederickatiah4901 9 месяцев назад +1

    Great video. Thank you for being vulnerable. My question is, what is preventing her from visiting Ghana now to see your big and little sis?

  • @suubisss
    @suubisss 9 месяцев назад +4

    A lot of us went through this experience hence this video was very touching. We have to be grateful that we made it. Thanks to all who sacrificed and did something to see us through. God bless you Nannelle.

  • @edithofeidarko3801
    @edithofeidarko3801 9 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you Nanelle for sharing this, God bless every mother, the living and the angels amongst us.

  • @lifewithchioma
    @lifewithchioma 9 месяцев назад +4

    Phew! Big hugs to both you and mum, Nanelle. This was hard to watch😢.

  • @luciennevifemseh6156
    @luciennevifemseh6156 9 месяцев назад +6

    Your mother is indeed a good woman. God bless her immensely and continue to keep your family united.

  • @pattinahukah3146
    @pattinahukah3146 9 месяцев назад +5

    Glad you reunite with your mum after such a long time. I believe, she has her papers now to be able to visit home, see the other children & heal herself finally ❤. God bless you all🙏🏻.

  • @PastorVictorBamidele
    @PastorVictorBamidele 9 месяцев назад +2

    My BEST “BESTEST” Episode….Love you mum. A typical Ghanaian mum…Good Heart and KIND SPIRITED. May God keep mum in Health

  • @Asiedua100
    @Asiedua100 9 месяцев назад +6

    Your video brings me so much joy. I’m happy your met your mom and despite the circumstances she made sure you and your siblings were well catered for. It’s quite the opposite for me but watching full circle moments like this warms my heart❤️

  • @DinewithSianorkie
    @DinewithSianorkie 9 месяцев назад +2

    Your mum is so hardworking and i see that in you as well. Very emotional video. Hopefully, your other siblings get to see her soon❤

  • @nwaneriakudo9744
    @nwaneriakudo9744 9 месяцев назад +9

    I can't control my tears. Mothers are wonderful.

  • @GhanaViAku
    @GhanaViAku 9 месяцев назад +2

    Easy on mom Nanelle, 😅😅.
    We thank God for everything. God bless and keep u mom❤

  • @lolank4853
    @lolank4853 9 месяцев назад +1

    Waoooo. You look so much like your mum. Kindness runs in your family. Weldon ma'am. Thank God for the reunion. Awesome. More Grace 🌹 rgds

  • @crystalblankson4611
    @crystalblankson4611 9 месяцев назад

    What a beautiful and transparent way of communicating with your mum.

  • @GhanaViAku
    @GhanaViAku 9 месяцев назад +7

    Awwww, this is emotional. Glad you let it all out Nanelle. Everything happens for a reason 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Mabel956
      @Mabel956 9 месяцев назад

      See me without a mother and father crying 😭😭😭😭

  • @dzifagbemu2735
    @dzifagbemu2735 9 месяцев назад +3

    Am proud of your mum...shes hardworking always had her children in her heart

  • @Ohemah
    @Ohemah 9 месяцев назад +2

    So emotional content..God bless you Nanelle❤

  • @cennysworld
    @cennysworld 9 месяцев назад +10

    I cried my eyes out! 😭😭😭😭😭
    There is nothing that can be compared to the love of a mother. ❤❤❤

  • @ojojofego7995
    @ojojofego7995 9 месяцев назад

    I cried watching this video. Nanelle why do you have to make me cry?
    Thank God for this reunion

  • @kwadwoaduse3058
    @kwadwoaduse3058 9 месяцев назад +12

    There’s always a side of the story you’ll never know until it’s told!
    It’s not all rosy!
    We thank God for both of you 🙏🏾

  • @ursulinengngozi6480
    @ursulinengngozi6480 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is so emotional. Your mum is a lovely person.

  • @helped.2318
    @helped.2318 9 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you Nanelle, thank you mama🎉🎉. It's really a journey. Immigration is not always a straight line graph.I've been there too, left my 7months old baby behind and it's an experience I don't wish for any mother😢. Thank God we have reunited now. It's never easy on both sides

  • @xencyp6528
    @xencyp6528 8 месяцев назад +1

    Ooh my God , I am crying 😭 feeling your pain, I also grew up with my grandmother 👵🏾, but it was good. It’s good to open up like this

  • @shanzi9009
    @shanzi9009 9 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for making time for your youtube community, even on vacation

  • @joyitohan
    @joyitohan 9 месяцев назад +2

    This was really emotional, God bless you and family Nanelle

  • @ellenagyemang5205
    @ellenagyemang5205 9 месяцев назад +6

    You’ve got all of us crying

  • @samuellaboadi5902
    @samuellaboadi5902 9 месяцев назад

    Awwww you made me cry 😭
    Thank God you and the entire family have made it and are doing well 🙏

  • @rocklandrockland2680
    @rocklandrockland2680 8 месяцев назад +1

    Nanelle, this is a tear-jerker, my wife and I shred tears. Thank you so much. Many blessings to you and the family.

  • @sandratekish95
    @sandratekish95 9 месяцев назад +1

    So emotional 😢😢😢may God bless our parents and may he help us to be better parents to our children too

  • @gloryokwata1912
    @gloryokwata1912 9 месяцев назад +1

    Deep story. Good work Nanelle

  • @houseofmapel
    @houseofmapel 9 месяцев назад

    This makes me soooooo emotional... Could not stop the tears, but I want to thank.GOD for the gift of life over yours🙏..i love and appreciate your mum and grandma.

  • @mensahstephen7028
    @mensahstephen7028 9 месяцев назад +1

    Through ig all God brought you together. Her prayers was always with you thats why you have come this far. God bless🙏