your videos are helping me so much. i just escaped my abuser and watching your content is helping me make sense of what happened as i untangle the belief that i’m “crazy” and can’t trust my intuition. i feel so validated hearing what you say and i can’t thank you enough.
Here is an idea. Forget about having or pursuing a "relationship" and just look for people who enjoy your values and time. That's my motto these days. Screw relationships as a motive. My hope is to find relationships as a result of connecting with people who know how to love and care about people. ---- I like your upside down rules though. One rule I recently flipped was. . .instead of assuming something is wrong with me and I need to fix it in order to maintain a "relationship" . . . it's now all their fault and the problem is all them. ha. seriously. I had to go that far because I was raised by narcissists and I internalized everything and become self critical by default.
Everything you said in the first five minutes. My God. My pheromones, hormones, have been tricking me into dating bad situations also, to the point of celibacy for now. Nice men are dreamed of and I'm not attracted to them. Into instead, schizoid, sociopathic, etc. Over and over. High high, low low
your videos are helping me so much. i just escaped my abuser and watching your content is helping me make sense of what happened as i untangle the belief that i’m “crazy” and can’t trust my intuition. i feel so validated hearing what you say and i can’t thank you enough.
I'm so glad it's helping in whatever way it can :-)
🙏thank you 🙏x
Here is an idea. Forget about having or pursuing a "relationship" and just look for people who enjoy your values and time. That's my motto these days. Screw relationships as a motive. My hope is to find relationships as a result of connecting with people who know how to love and care about people. ---- I like your upside down rules though. One rule I recently flipped was. . .instead of assuming something is wrong with me and I need to fix it in order to maintain a "relationship" . . . it's now all their fault and the problem is all them. ha. seriously. I had to go that far because I was raised by narcissists and I internalized everything and become self critical by default.
I’ve also concluded that everything I’ve learned is indoctrination and the inverse of good.
This is so good
Everything you said in the first five minutes. My God. My pheromones, hormones, have been tricking me into dating bad situations also, to the point of celibacy for now. Nice men are dreamed of and I'm not attracted to them. Into instead, schizoid, sociopathic, etc. Over and over. High high, low low
Your channel was randomly suggested. Sorry for the pain and trauma you’ve experienced. Hope you find peace. Harry, New York
Thanks, Harry from New York 🙂