Why vanity could be a good thing | BBC Global

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 45

  • @7349yt
    @7349yt Месяц назад +7

    thinking about yourself and caring about how you are perceived are the virtual definition of unhappiness

    • @Neb-ie5mj
      @Neb-ie5mj Месяц назад

      YES

    • @Alien_Cuts
      @Alien_Cuts Месяц назад

      agree, at the end of the day we'll all die..so who cares

  • @garrett9945
    @garrett9945 Месяц назад +11

    A wonderful little video about social recognition packaged in a provocative title.

  • @damienhudson8028
    @damienhudson8028 Месяц назад +2

    I do a lot of benevolent things, not to be seen favourably by others, but to help, make the world a better place, and to set an example to others, even when those things are done in stealth.

    • @seanwebb605
      @seanwebb605 Месяц назад

      Which you made sure to post here publicly.

  • @Ike2412
    @Ike2412 Месяц назад +7

    This is a little counterintuitive. From the video you could conclude that a very cohesive society like Japan, where most people take pride in conforming to the norm to allow for the wellbeing of others, is actually a very vain society for it is the individual vanity that makes people behave in a cohesive way.
    By contrast, a society like the U.S. who values more independence or even individualism is then less vain by that measure. Or is it a different type of vanity that we observe where people pretend to be free from the judgment of others?

    • @kateschmate
      @kateschmate Месяц назад +3

      You could argue that a society like the U.S. is less vain compared to a society like Japan. The fact that over 75% of the population in the U.S. are overweight or obese is a sign that they care slighty less about what others think of them, and I'm not talking about looks only - the direct medical costs of obesity is almost $1 billion.

    • @Ike2412
      @Ike2412 Месяц назад +2

      @@kateschmateindeed, this is a fact. This is why I find the definition of vanity in the video counter intuitive as I tend to associate vanity with individualism (you care more about yourself than others).

    • @kateschmate
      @kateschmate Месяц назад +1

      @@Ike2412 I understand the way you think, but individualism is a political philosophy and doesn’t necessarily mean that you don’t care about what people think of you, or that you wouldn’t want to be liked by others. Individualism and vanity have some similarities but they are still different.

    • @bakerkawesa
      @bakerkawesa Месяц назад +1

      Conformity can be caused by tyranny rather than vanity. Japan is a slightly more tyrannical society than America. The Japanese aren't trying to seem better than one another. They just want to stay out of trouble. Americans however, do want to appear better than each other.

  • @giselazunino781
    @giselazunino781 Месяц назад +4

    Mmm... Interesting but once you're over forty you truly start caring less about what others think of you... I didn't believe that was possible until it started happening to me... 😄

  • @nantetoev1188
    @nantetoev1188 Месяц назад +1

    Now do a video talking about Hegel's concept of "recognition", please.

  • @MD-bu3xc
    @MD-bu3xc Месяц назад +1

    Status. There is no escaping our desire for high status.

  • @timothypeden3516
    @timothypeden3516 Месяц назад +2

    we "evolved vanity" in order to procreate.

  • @eyyen8233
    @eyyen8233 Месяц назад +2

    1:48 the handsomest 😅😂

  • @Azupiru
    @Azupiru Месяц назад +1

    This is built on an inaccurate understanding of "vanity" in Western Civilization. In the Bible (which is where this admonition against vanity has its roots), the word that we translate as vanity has a sense of futility attached to it, as efforts performed in vain amount to nothing. It's not just "Oh I care how I appear to others." It's more about caring so much about how one appears to others that one will do things that have no effect on them whatsoever.
    The desire for approval in the eyes of others is not in and of itself vain. I understand completely where he is going with this, but it's just built on a bad foundation. The structure is solid, but philosophers should try to stay away from language that had its initial motivation through religion.

  • @renegroulx7029
    @renegroulx7029 Месяц назад

    One Socrates quote made me really stop caring what people think or say about me.

    • @moonlover2022
      @moonlover2022 Месяц назад

      Did you become monster or brute then? Socrate meant it other way about negative views of others on thou, here in this video vanity referring positive societal norms like generosity or kindness. Grow up kiddo!

    • @whirlwhind666
      @whirlwhind666 Месяц назад

      Which quote

  • @alwinjoseph8413
    @alwinjoseph8413 Месяц назад

    Ted Ed rn:
    🤔 this looks similar…

  • @FlokchenD
    @FlokchenD Месяц назад

    you must be careful about what we pretend to be? first vain, then society, then morality.

  • @BalbirSingh-nb5hb
    @BalbirSingh-nb5hb Месяц назад

    😊😊😊

  • @hhhieronymusbotch
    @hhhieronymusbotch Месяц назад +2

    Why was my comment deleted? I didn't say anything offensive or untrue. I simply gave a counterargument to disagree with the conclusions of this video

    • @stephenguppy7882
      @stephenguppy7882 Месяц назад +3

      Typical RUclips censorship I'm afraid. If one of their lot dislikes one word of what we write, they censor you.

    • @hhhieronymusbotch
      @hhhieronymusbotch Месяц назад

      @@stephenguppy7882 ...or BBC censorship

    • @moonlover2022
      @moonlover2022 Месяц назад

      automatic deletion

    • @hhhieronymusbotch
      @hhhieronymusbotch Месяц назад +1

      @@stephenguppy7882 ...or bbc censorship
      (this is the second time I'm writing this comment, because ironically enough, my comment about BBC censorship was deleted 😆)

    • @seanwebb605
      @seanwebb605 Месяц назад

      @@hhhieronymusbotch That's not what irony means and the BBC is permitted to moderate the comments on their channel videos. No injustice has been done.

  • @herbiewalkermusic
    @herbiewalkermusic Месяц назад

    Adam Smith has so many bad takes. 2 star philosopher. Caring about how others view is doesn’t necessarily need to be vain, or at least not prideful.

  • @amberturdcoloringbook1733
    @amberturdcoloringbook1733 Месяц назад +3

    Not true. not everyone likes attention.

  • @annemiura7767
    @annemiura7767 Месяц назад

    All the animation is just annoying!

  • @syedasubrina750
    @syedasubrina750 Месяц назад

    Our Islam religion teaches us to be small in our own eyes, if we can keep that mindset Allah will make us Big in peoples eyes 💕

    • @godlovesyou1995
      @godlovesyou1995 Месяц назад +4

      Christianity says that those with the least now will gain the most in heaven

    • @MD-bu3xc
      @MD-bu3xc Месяц назад

      That would be your version. Yes?

    • @seanwebb605
      @seanwebb605 Месяц назад +1

      @@godlovesyou1995 And the Pope lives in a palace.