Did Your Parents Wound You? Then You Need to Hear This!

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024
  • Dr. Candice Smithyman and Barbara Lowe release healing of soul wounds from your parents.
    Learn more about Candice and purchase her resources: candicesmithym...
    Dr. Candice Smithyman is an international prophetic revivalist & healing minister who is Executive Pastor of Freedom Destiny Church in Orange Park, Florida, and Founder and Vice President of Dream Mentors Transformational Life Coaching Institute, a biblical life counseling and coaching educational organization that teaches and trains educators and coaches in the specialty of life coaching. She received her Doctorate of Ministry in Christian Counseling from Jacksonville Theological Seminary in Jacksonville, Florida and has her Masters of Arts in Human Relations/Christian Counseling at Liberty University in Lynchburg, VA. She also holds a Masters in Theology from the International College of Excellence in Tinley Park, Illinois, and a Bachelor of Business Administration, from James Madison University. She also received an Honorary Doctorate of Divinity from Truth Bible College and Seminary in Jacksonville, Florida. She has served as an Adjunct Faculty Professor for Liberty University and other universities.
    She is currently the Host of the Glory Road TV show which can be seen internationally through Faith USA Network, Faith UK, and Faith Africa, Kingdom Flame TV and Life Stream Networks. She is author of the new book, “Releasing Heaven: Creating a Supernatural Environment Through Heavenly Encounters” was released in February 2020 (Destiny Image) She is co-author of, “Soul Transformation: Your Personal Journey” (September 2016, Westbow Press) and Standing in His Righteousness: The Power to Heal Relationships (2019). She also authored, “His Sufficiency for my Authenticity: 8 Keys to Authentic Relationship with God and Others” (May 2006) and other books as an author contributor. She has written biblical life coaching curriculum for secular and Christian organizations and is consultant for many social media television outlets such as Vision TV.
    She has appeared on international and local television and radio programs including: Sid Roth It’s Supernatural, Today with Marilyn and Sarah, Patricia King Everlasting Love show, Paula White Today show, Miracles Happen with Joan Hunter, Christian Television Network. She is also the Host of the On the Glory Road podcast with Destiny Image Publishers and Manifest His Presence podcast with Charisma Magazine. She has been a featured writer for Elijah List, Charisma Magazine Online and Spirit Fuel. She is a revival evangelist and has ministered at many churches and events.
    Candice is a Board Certified Christian Counselor with the American Association of Christian Counselors, and is an ordained minister with the One Focus Network of Churches in Virginia Beach, VA. She is also a life coach with Patricia King’s Women in Ministry Network, and is mother to three beautiful and gifted children, Alexandria, Nicholas and Samantha, and their spouses.

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  • @NotPerfectbutForgiven
    @NotPerfectbutForgiven 3 года назад +19

    I have been praying for healing from childhood pain. I have forgiven my parents and I have forgiven myself.
    I praise God for delivering me from the mental torment of my childhood. Our parents are responsible for us as children growing up under their guidance. They do not always make the best decisions for us as leading us. I just thank God for keeping and protecting me as I became an adult. Those things that were spoken over my life that were not of God. Those curses have been broken over my life. Thank you Jesus!!!
    I have been married for 21 years and have four children. What the enemy tried to destroy, God healed and protected.

  • @ssam3826
    @ssam3826 3 года назад +19

    Thank you Lord Jesus for remembering your wounded children.

  • @soniaprice9037
    @soniaprice9037 3 года назад +15

    Same! it’s funny how we think we are alone in this and we r not. Thank you 🙏🏽✝️

  • @melissaknod7129
    @melissaknod7129 3 года назад +27

    This is an answer to my prayers. I was asking God to heal my childhood wounds just yesterday!Thank you!

    • @pamelagrimes3453
      @pamelagrimes3453 3 года назад +3

      Wow, I have prayed for a very long time and have received some healing and trust that God is completing the healing in my soul. This ministered to me and I know God has added healing to my soul. Thank you Thank you! God Bless You!

  • @keh-dalia809
    @keh-dalia809 3 года назад +4

    There has been so much trauma, I can't even visit all those places because they are just too numerous... Thank you for talking about this. I'm just shaking in my weeping throughout this video. I ask for God to bind himself to all those wounds and all those velcro places, and I don't know what's gonna happen, but I'm just crying and crying. I have forgiven the many abusers and God has healed me in many ways, but I am still very damaged in my confidence in anything I do, even tho I know God has blessed me tremendously with many gifts and talents, I barely have the confidence to use any of them. Instead my sleep has suffered and I am awake all night and sleep much of the day because I'm scared of how cruel this world is and can be, and I don't want to be hurt anymore. Even tho I'd love to have a fulfilling purpose driven life with good friends and a family one day, I often feel much safer alone just me and God and my fur baby after all the many times I've reached out to others and found how wicked peoples hearts are. I wish so much that I could talk Dr. Candice, but I don't have money for a psychologist. I just keep seeking God on my own, which is wonderful, but I've never had a good close trustworthy human friend, that kind of friend is very rare. There were times I thought I had good friends, but boy can people shock you and stab you in the back. Regardless of what I've been through, we are still in wicked times where choosing friends requires a lot of discernment. Master liars and manipulators are commonplace now. All I am sure of is that I love God and I want God more than anything this world has to offer, and God is well beyond worth every second of my time, HE IS PURE AND WONDERFUL AND LOVELY AND HOLY AND THE MOST PERFECT LOVE ANYONE COULD EVER DREAM OF! I'd rather have one true friend in God then a thousand friends in this God forsaking world! I pray that I receive this healing completely so I can go forth and serve God in confidence and without fear!

  • @zinhlemagwaza9348
    @zinhlemagwaza9348 2 года назад +1

    I think this is specifically meant for me, I am so ready to be healed

  • @adarijohnson
    @adarijohnson 3 года назад +17

    I needed this , thank u so much. I’ve been praying for healing. Lord I thank you.

  • @fragrancedeparadis1275
    @fragrancedeparadis1275 3 года назад +3

    I say amen to the prophecies and prayers in JESUS name. Thank you women of God

  • @Alabastergirl
    @Alabastergirl 3 года назад +10

    I really would love to hear your guests talk more.

  • @rebeccaschroeder8891
    @rebeccaschroeder8891 3 года назад +9

    OH HOW I NEEDED THIS😭😭😭😭THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS

  • @bdayandfriends
    @bdayandfriends 3 года назад +2

    Bless you and Doctor Barbara Lowe! World Wide Women’s Conference was so powerful! Both of these ladies are so genuine and powerful believers who want to help others.

  • @lizcreationz8654
    @lizcreationz8654 2 года назад

    I praise God He delivered me from the pain of my mother!!! In Jesus name Amen!!!

  • @brennahbooker4680
    @brennahbooker4680 3 года назад +10

    HALLELUJAH THANK YOU JESUS IM FREE FOR GOOD🥳👍☺️🥳💐🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌈☀️

    • @brennahbooker4680
      @brennahbooker4680 3 года назад +1

      THE PROMISES OF THE LORD ARE COMIGN FORTH AND WILL STAND IN THE NAME OF JESUS👊🤜🙏

  • @rebeccaschroeder8891
    @rebeccaschroeder8891 3 года назад +17

    I felt a release and I forgave my Mom

  • @MrsAutry734
    @MrsAutry734 2 года назад +1

    Oh God plz heal my soul wounds. I lost my mother at 4 , my father was a great provider but he was emotionally distant , my grandmother and Aunt were my mother figures were both controlling and emotionally abusive, my grandfather molested 8 yrs the last time he tried I was 21. My family knew and turned a blind eye , so my brother decided to molest me too. I acted out with drugs and sex 😭 the shame is so unbearable, and I do feel so unlovable. Forgiving g myself is so hard. I needed this message today . My heart longs for healing.

  • @nia5128
    @nia5128 3 года назад +9

    This is so flipping weird but I have been dealing so heavily with all my Father and issues with males and the last few days I have just felt the pain of the rejection and hurt from my mother and I came across this. I wasn’t even looking for it!
    I’m not even 3 mins in and I am flabbergasted that you mention the exact things I have endured...knowing my Mum hated me because I reminded her of a mistake or a painful conception...that I was set up to have a bad relationship with my mother from the beginning and that my brothers were treated differently. This is exactly my experience!
    I’m a bit overwhelmed...
    I’ve had so much judgement from Christians too but the pain of being a mistake, possibly being conceived in adverse circumstances, being hated and being told you’re dead to a patent because you exist and your living reminds them of pain, not knowing who your Father is and being neglected, hated and put in vulnerable situations...I still feel this intense pain now even at 38 years of age. It has made assimilating into church family and intimate relationships almost impossible for me, as well as stuff that has happened with men.
    I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone.
    A few months ago, the Lord showed me the story of King David and his mother, Nitzivet (I hope that is the correct spelling). It speaks a little of a mother and son’s anguish with these sorts of issues.
    God is good. Thank you Daddy God for hearing my heart and thank you for this video x

    • @nia5128
      @nia5128 3 года назад

      Oh yes the scapegoating!!!!!

  • @judithsingleton6593
    @judithsingleton6593 3 года назад +1

    My mom loved my sisters more than me and I don’t know why!

  • @catherinecatherine8990
    @catherinecatherine8990 3 года назад +1

    I was wounded from my 10yo age at my SOUL ~ by mom who is a gambler left me home at 10yo age to attend to my 5mos old sister ~till i turned 13 ~ & gave birth to another baby at my 13 n so on a hell of my childhood life ~ I have to battle off to forgive my younger siblings whom i took care yet Never respected me bec that's how My mom teaches them about me that iam good for Nothing ~ im 46yo lady now still single & but a faithful follower of Christ Jesus since i got born again officially 4years ago

  • @kayleidoscopic222
    @kayleidoscopic222 3 года назад +2

    🙌🏾Thank You Lord🙌🏾

  • @junitamarymyrmen7369
    @junitamarymyrmen7369 3 года назад +4

    I have the same problem

  • @nohelianoelia1287
    @nohelianoelia1287 3 года назад +2

    Wow 👍😊 God bless.💝🐑😀🎁

  • @kimmieharrington4771
    @kimmieharrington4771 3 года назад +4

    Yes my dad was very abusive and jealous of my mom. I was 5 and my brother was 3 when they divorced. I tried to find love through different relationships and they were all drinkers and abusive like my dad. And my mom hated my dad and ultimately had the same kind of relationships. Her mom was mentally ill and very abusive grandpa was a drinker in his earlier years. My mom was a very strong woman and wouldn't tolerate any kind of problem from us kids I started having problems emotionally at 12. My brother was 5 he passed in 2006 he was born 1964 it was pills that took his life accidental mixing hydrocodone and methadone mixed he had mental problems with his self image and he was gay. Me I was more combative and tough like my mom. I'm 59 now and have anxiety attacks when thinking of dating men either send me into rages when they exhibit dominance or fear and anxiety when mad or trying to date me. Please help and pray that Father heals me. My kids tell me I'm a man hater but truly I'm not. Just fearful of any relationship.

  • @sangouansacksisouphanthong7403
    @sangouansacksisouphanthong7403 3 года назад

    Thank you

  • @kennytinker24
    @kennytinker24 3 года назад +5

    when you quote a verse from the Bible, Rom 8;, Quote the whole verse. "Who walk not after the flesh but after the Spirit. This verse is conditional.

  • @jacquesfarnsworth3898
    @jacquesfarnsworth3898 3 года назад +2

    I too had a very difficult time with my parents. They passed away recently leaving a wreckage of unresolved issues. My mom and dad both were very challenged in their relationship with Jesus and in their relationships with each other and the whole family. I now know that the real issues had to do with them not me, it was not my fault. I have been pressing into the person of the Holy Spirit and the person of Jesus. I find myself becoming more and more isolated and not wanting to engage others too much. I find myself drawn into a deeper place of prayer and worship. I realize Jesus is the only person who can heal me and deliver me. I still deal with deep regret regarding my relationship with my family especially my mom and dad. I do not judge them anymore, I just wish that I had the relationship with them that I needed. I feel like something is missing, that something inside needs healing and deliverance.

    • @nia5128
      @nia5128 3 года назад

      I feel this way too, huge chunks missing.

    • @jacquesfarnsworth3898
      @jacquesfarnsworth3898 3 года назад +1

      @@nia5128 Jesus fills in the missing parts and areas of the soul. Wholeness and right function comes from ABIDING deeply in Him. Only He can make things right. I am learning how to give it all up to Him, and move forward in His Love and in Holy Spirit. Truth be told Mom and Dad could never give me what only Jesus can give me.

    • @nia5128
      @nia5128 3 года назад

      @@jacquesfarnsworth3898 To me it’s created such anxious and avoidant attachment styles. I fear intimacy and relationship and everyone just looks at me like I’m mad or bad. I have genuine fear of people because I have gone through so much. I hate it.

  • @walterkillens2372
    @walterkillens2372 2 года назад

    Pray for me please

  • @MarriageNFamilyAdvice
    @MarriageNFamilyAdvice 3 года назад

    So on point

  • @izildinhaschiavoni4845
    @izildinhaschiavoni4845 3 года назад +5

    HI SISTER. I AM FROM BRASIL. DO YOU HAVE YOURS BOOKS IN PORTUGUESE

  • @abigailschuette7542
    @abigailschuette7542 3 года назад

    Amen

  • @dmbrown821
    @dmbrown821 3 года назад

    Yeah, for sure. Terrible wounds. Sickening.

  • @nia5128
    @nia5128 3 года назад +2

    Can you explain the bodily sensations re trauma? What if you feel pain in your groin and heart?

    • @estherlee369
      @estherlee369 3 года назад +1

      Father God loves you. Ask Jesus to heal you and bless you. Pray for people as Gods will for our life. Jesus Christ coming soon.
      Lets get ready repent pray together daily.
      May Lord God bless you and keep you.

  • @beautruex7012
    @beautruex7012 3 года назад +2

    Everyone has wounded me!!!! However, what hurt the most is when ‘Christians’ wound me because I am a Jewish believer! So much friendly fire in the church!!! Makes me Sad! I just lost my biological mother, father and youngest brother! They unfortunately are not in Heaven! They are heathens!

    • @lovelyweather1057
      @lovelyweather1057 3 года назад +1

      Receive your healing in CHRIST NAME. HE is real, HE can be your directly MEDIATOR. ♡ Shalom

    • @lovelyweather1057
      @lovelyweather1057 3 года назад +3

      I can understand you, ppl are judgemental , especially in churches. I have alao had unpleasant experiance - but that brought me closer to Abbah.

    • @Maria__57
      @Maria__57 3 года назад +2

      You can't say they are not in heaven...JESUS can save our loved ones ..if we have prayed for their salvation..& i'm sure you have..The real church is our relationship with JESUS...HIS word..& what we can do to help others..& it's not the religious"Christianity" ...GOD BLESS YOU...& strengthen your relationship with him..not people...

    • @Angela-BlessedofGod
      @Angela-BlessedofGod 3 года назад

      @@Maria__57 , yes Jesus can save our loved ones if we pray for them, for their salvation, but not after they are dead and gone, only while they are alive. And if one knows that someone has died without knowing God, you can’t say they are in heaven. There is no purgatory or something like that where one can pray for the dead. Once they are dead, they are dead.

    • @Maria__57
      @Maria__57 3 года назад

      @@Angela-BlessedofGod NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBILE TO GOD...why don't you check Kat Kerr videos..She has many REVELATIONS. on HEAVEN..given & shown to her by JESUS...GBY

  • @hardtobelieveit2170
    @hardtobelieveit2170 2 года назад

    Just take it to JESUS

  • @izildinhaschiavoni4845
    @izildinhaschiavoni4845 3 года назад +3

    Please. ANSWER me.

    • @soniaprice9037
      @soniaprice9037 3 года назад +2

      Are you ok? 🙏🏽I’m praying for you for God to intervene ✝️

  • @kadams5905
    @kadams5905 3 года назад

    I like most of these videos, but this one is hokey