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  • Опубликовано: 8 окт 2023
  • Welcome to the Life of Nene Leakes! I will Never shy away from telling you how it is. I am the "Original Housewife" of Atlanta, author, actor, and entrepreneur but I'm also a mom, friend and human being.
    My life was turned upside down after losing my husband Gregg, now I'm forced to navigate life alone after sharing it with my partner of 27 years. I have taken time to reflect and now look forward to new beginnings. I'm hopeful for what life will bring and welcome you to witness my journey.
    #neneleakes #pillowtalk #peterthomas
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  • @akusika1393
    @akusika1393 9 месяцев назад +886

    Grief is not easy! We love you, Nene!

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 9 месяцев назад +1

      I don’t 😂

    • @aprilmay1061
      @aprilmay1061 9 месяцев назад +16

      ​@@MrTwonetwoneThen get on out. 👋🏼👋🏼

    • @aprilmay1061
      @aprilmay1061 9 месяцев назад +19

      Grief is definitely not easy. I feel for her on that.

    • @Miss.Tea.2024
      @Miss.Tea.2024 9 месяцев назад +10

      she looks amazing! i love her and miss her on the show

    • @prettyisraeljudah
      @prettyisraeljudah 9 месяцев назад +13

      ​@@MrTwonetwoneSo. Why are you following a platform that you hate😂🤣🤣🤣TeamNeNe

  • @Tawilliams1980
    @Tawilliams1980 9 месяцев назад +1460

    Lord Nene introduce herself every time like we haven’t been friends in my head for 20 plus years! lol

  • @NicoleAtkins-cx9yi
    @NicoleAtkins-cx9yi 9 месяцев назад +138

    OMG Nene I’m watching this video and I’m an only child, not married and no children. My parents are deceased and I had a whole breakdown in the doctors office the first time I had to update my forms with an emergency contact 😢😢😢😢. LIFE honey. It’s not a joke. Sending you a big, tight virtual hug

    • @sindiswangcobo9333
      @sindiswangcobo9333 9 месяцев назад +2

      😢😢😢

    • @123heydatsme
      @123heydatsme 9 месяцев назад +8

      This is exactly my situation. I wish you well.🥰

    • @IAMJEWEL7
      @IAMJEWEL7 9 месяцев назад

      🤗

    • @IAMJEWEL7
      @IAMJEWEL7 9 месяцев назад

      Awe Sag 🤍

    • @UNPACKed.
      @UNPACKed. 8 месяцев назад

      Hug hugs hugs...sorry

  • @HWW2023
    @HWW2023 9 месяцев назад +40

    No Ma’am. Never settle for less than you deserve. Being alone is not bad at all. ❤

    • @jessicajones8872
      @jessicajones8872 9 месяцев назад +1

      I've been single 4 years now. Tried of being picky. Tired of being alone. It's always hard during the holidays. I'm about to settle too in a minute lol

    • @Iamonthepedestal
      @Iamonthepedestal 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@jessicajones8872no ma’am we don’t have to do that to ourselves. I tell myself that too I don’t have to settle and just accept anything just to have love and u don’t either

    • @reneemenzies4669
      @reneemenzies4669 8 месяцев назад

      A Great girlfriend

  • @marjorielauture4497
    @marjorielauture4497 9 месяцев назад +34

    She’s grieving. Grief looks different for everyone. Grief can come back at any time. Grief has no time restraints. 😢 peace be onto you all who are grieving.

  • @rudeboymacio-
    @rudeboymacio- 9 месяцев назад +10

    We miss Greg too. Legend of a man

  • @veew7513
    @veew7513 9 месяцев назад +70

    as much as Greg loved you, i don't think he would want to see you settle for anything less than a love like the love he had for you. Also, its so wonderful to see the vulnerable Nene. You are EVERYTHING!!!

    • @Tonetare
      @Tonetare 8 месяцев назад +1

      Greg would be horrified seeing his princess being treated so horribly with such an arrangement. She was and still is his princess and he would want a prince for her. I need all of NeNe’s subscribers to help find a chivalrous loyal man for her out in Atlanta.

    • @lashandawilliams6849
      @lashandawilliams6849 8 месяцев назад +1

      That right NeNe. Find a man that going to treat you and on the same level or above the what your husband was.my husband passed away five years ago and I find the man above the level my husband were. But never settle for less. Love you❤❤❤

  • @sunrae_p3230
    @sunrae_p3230 9 месяцев назад +18

    Don’t settle NeNe it’s always a prize with patience. Let God show up and show out for you!

    • @smartaward20078
      @smartaward20078 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, I know that's right. I'm waiting for God to show up and show out for me. 😀

  • @DjBRedd
    @DjBRedd 9 месяцев назад +131

    Greg is a hard act to follow. Oh my God a beautiful soul. I’m so glad you’re talking and grieving properly.
    Much love and respect to you.

  • @immamullen
    @immamullen 9 месяцев назад +37

    First off Peter mind your business lol! I felt you on the emergency contact thing. It isn't easy being single, but its worse being with the wrong man! Stay strong!

  • @HugoLemos1
    @HugoLemos1 9 месяцев назад +143

    We love you Nene❤

    • @bloodyredpill3027
      @bloodyredpill3027 9 месяцев назад +1

      No tf we don’t 😒

    • @bloodyredpill3027
      @bloodyredpill3027 8 месяцев назад

      @Chisom_Okoli NO TF WE DON’T 😑

    • @carmellahoney3599
      @carmellahoney3599 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@bloodyredpill3027you don't incel.. we do.. why are you on her page!?

    • @RayOfLetsatsi
      @RayOfLetsatsi 8 месяцев назад

      ​@bloodyredpill3027 You do, you're on her channel 😂😂so honey you're a fan, an obsessed one. Own it.

  • @KolourMeGold
    @KolourMeGold 9 месяцев назад +74

    As a divorced woman, I can 100% relate to crying at the emergency contact part! And the thoughts that come after for sure! I appreciate her vulnerability during this pillow talk because I can relate wholeheartedly.

  • @RD2B
    @RD2B 9 месяцев назад +222

    Never settle girl! Nothing wrong with your son being emergency contact. Embrace the changes in your life as hard as it may be. You are blessed, remember that!

    • @SunshineCharles
      @SunshineCharles 9 месяцев назад +8

      Exactly, she have to be careful with these wannabe men, n if something happens to her they might fight n treat her sons bad,getting married has no guarantee he’ll be there for u, some women don’t like being along, they feel they must have a man in their life to be happy, these men r coming into vulnerable women’s lives with a premeditated plan to married them for a few years n then divorce them for spouse support.

    • @nonadavis7866
      @nonadavis7866 9 месяцев назад +8

      You deserve better than an uncommitted "life partner". You deserve to be the main course and not leftovers! That's not God's best for you. Glad that you explored this idea but never settle. Prayers and Blessings. #BamaGirlInCali

    • @demetrissenglish7022
      @demetrissenglish7022 9 месяцев назад +7

      Do you have a best friend or close family member please don't settle

    • @Pynksaffron
      @Pynksaffron 9 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely 💯

    • @Iheartpeace22
      @Iheartpeace22 9 месяцев назад +2

      Nene remember you deserve happiness. Please don’t settle for someone just for an emergency contact. Your son is old enough to handle an emergency situation if you outline for him your medical wishes on paper and have long talks with him about this.. Your best friend is also good enough for this too. I know you’re still grieving but you’re gonna be ok once the rawness wears off.

  • @sarahhill4450
    @sarahhill4450 9 месяцев назад +276

    Girl, I definitely feel how that "emergency contact" section can get to you, I deal with that too. Job applications, medical forms, etc. It's heartbreaking. I'm not married but I do have children but they aren't dependable yet because their lives are just beginning.
    I can't depend on other family because I hardly hear from them. I don't have a best friend.
    As big as this world is you would think everybody has somebody but its not so.

    • @Amazing.Grace37
      @Amazing.Grace37 9 месяцев назад +33

      Divorced w/ a 21 year old in the Marines and my 18 year old barely answers his phone.😢 i still put my ex down.. he may or may not show up.

    • @missDetroit.
      @missDetroit. 9 месяцев назад +16

      I know the feeling

    • @cammocksg
      @cammocksg 9 месяцев назад +12

      I know how that feels as well. Sending you all positive energy and continue to be strong.

    • @foxybrown1742
      @foxybrown1742 9 месяцев назад +5

      OMG SARAHHILL, there are many of "US" . I pray for someone God has for me.

    • @Wait..WHAT24
      @Wait..WHAT24 9 месяцев назад +8

      This made me think.. Sending love and hugs to you and all my gals in this reply section ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👑👑👑👑👑

  • @traviswright195
    @traviswright195 9 месяцев назад +5

    Don't settle Nene!! Even when you marry someone that you may know is not necessarily right for you, it doesn't necessarily mean they will be dependable and/or there for you when you need them most!! ❤

  • @imservant
    @imservant 9 месяцев назад +36

    Im so sorry Nene...don't ever settle! I'm currently going through a divorce and that same question hit me hard and I had a panic attack. But I realized that God has got me and I am not alone! You are not alone putting your son or friend as your emergency contact is absolutely ok.

    • @rosaford2057
      @rosaford2057 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yes I Agree with you.

    • @Pynksaffron
      @Pynksaffron 9 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely 💯

    • @mconrad5837
      @mconrad5837 8 месяцев назад

      Absolutely, do not sell yourself short .... GOD has always got your back 🙏 Please lean on him.... I know how you feel ,after my divorce, I had no emergency contact... It is definitely difficult 😘😘😘

  • @TropicalPhenom
    @TropicalPhenom 9 месяцев назад +88

    NEEEEEENEÉEÉEE 😭!!! I felt this video in my SOUL!!! I've been a widow for 17 years and I have sat in your situation MANY times... Please don't marry a man that you know is not 100% good for you🙏🏾

  • @zeleneturner8047
    @zeleneturner8047 9 месяцев назад +171

    Hey Nene,
    Some of these men want you to take care of them. Don’t settle for anyone you don’t feel comfortable with. The loss of your husband is still fresh. I lost my husband going on 7 years and I still not ready to marry/date anyone and I am ok with it. Do what makes you happy.

    • @msvichymsba3501
      @msvichymsba3501 9 месяцев назад +15

      A broke Ninja can't be a support person) system 😉

    • @ritawilliams8754
      @ritawilliams8754 9 месяцев назад +12

      To Settle with someone doesn't really sound like a great idea. Don't forget about that deep praying 🙏. A man who loves God and puts God first in his life. And don't forget about praying for discernment when you are out there dating. 🤗 Praying for GOD'S best for your life.

    • @ddoubleu170
      @ddoubleu170 9 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed!!! I know she’s so vulnerable right now, but she cannot settle. She has too much to lose.

    • @ritawilliams8754
      @ritawilliams8754 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ddoubleu170 . Folks don't want to have a relationship or a marriage. Saying these words. What Love got to do with it. That's right good not to settle. But love have everything to do with especially when you have God in your life. We're living in a cold dark world right now.

  • @SisSheIsSafe
    @SisSheIsSafe 9 месяцев назад +4

    Greg was truly amazing. I understand why she felt this way.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cherylsingleton3357
    @cherylsingleton3357 9 месяцев назад +17

    I can relate. I lost my best friend of 30 yrs, who had my back threw everything. He also was my emergancy contact.He passed away and I was lost. Relocated and got used and lied to by someone who I had a past with. At first he made me feel like I could trust in him. I thought he was a friend. Two years in I know he is not to be trusted. Spending time a lone I wrote my book. Looking to get it published now. I am Single in every sense of the word. Always blessed to know I can take care of me. Im not claiming anyone, and Im not giving anyone the time to claim me.
    Nene, Don't make no bad decisions. You are not alone. And if nothing else always remember God has you. Don't force a circle into a square hole.

  • @extroverted_introvert3910
    @extroverted_introvert3910 9 месяцев назад +10

    Never settle queen … your helpmate is coming!!

  • @living4christistheonlyway403
    @living4christistheonlyway403 9 месяцев назад +15

    I get it. It is very sad. I just had surgery. I went through the same thing. My mother was my contact and she passed last year. So now it's my Neice. Im 40ish😂 never been married and don't have kids. So it's definitely hard. Me and my siblings don't have the best relationship. But I trust my oldest Neice. She will be the one leave everything too.❤🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @sl3904
      @sl3904 9 месяцев назад +2

      I love that you have this relationship with your niece! My uncle passed 18 years ago and I long for relationship with an aunt/uncle.

    • @Regal_Queen
      @Regal_Queen 9 месяцев назад +2

      I'm the same way with my niece

  • @bklauren
    @bklauren 9 месяцев назад +27

    My mommy died 7 months ago and I fully relate. It’s so hard when the one person you know that has your back above all is no longer here. It feels incredibly lonely :(

  • @nataliegraham7454
    @nataliegraham7454 9 месяцев назад +298

    As a woman of a particular age 58....I felt everything you said😢🙏🏼

    • @kimberlygoree3213
      @kimberlygoree3213 9 месяцев назад +8

      Me too.

    • @olikiahill260
      @olikiahill260 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same here

    • @darlenejohnson659
      @darlenejohnson659 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same here

    • @MoneyComethToshelia
      @MoneyComethToshelia 9 месяцев назад +8

      I JUST TURNED 58, AND HAVE NO ONE, NOT EVEN A FRIEND..

    • @justinawilliamson5714
      @justinawilliamson5714 9 месяцев назад +2

      Nene, having a partner, especially having one, that you know isn't really for you, definitely don't mean, he really be there for you , in extreme bad situations/ when your really sickly !!!!!!!

  • @arnellehardy1091
    @arnellehardy1091 9 месяцев назад +42

    Yes Nene that’s gets me every time! I lost my fiancé to a car crash 1 month to our wedding this Year ! My mother is gone and I lost my only baby and now falling in love with such a wonderful man to loose him in such a tragic way even those small questions hold so much weight! Take it easy glad you figured out who you wanted as a emergency contact take care Psalms 147:3

    • @curvygirlofficial4674
      @curvygirlofficial4674 9 месяцев назад +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @pinky-ud1rt
      @pinky-ud1rt 9 месяцев назад +1

      Im sooo sorry hun for what your going through...keep strong i know its hard but i will prey for you for happiness xxx

    • @zoeycarrington9783
      @zoeycarrington9783 9 месяцев назад

      ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @baps511
    @baps511 9 месяцев назад +4

    Yes, Nene people need to mind their own business. Speak your truth ❤

  • @Realitytv91
    @Realitytv91 9 месяцев назад +73

    NeNe, who is your team? You need to get someone to follow you around to capture your moments out and about, plus interviews. Merch as well, it's so many ideas the fans have and ready to sew you win! Keep your head up Queen

    • @missbell1634
      @missbell1634 9 месяцев назад +11

      I agree

    • @missalphaomegagod-2u
      @missalphaomegagod-2u 9 месяцев назад +8

      Excellent idea ❤

    • @MarkFTP
      @MarkFTP 9 месяцев назад +8

      I definitely agree

    • @morganovid3121
      @morganovid3121 9 месяцев назад +10

      It’s about to get spicy stay outta women’s business Peter 😄Gregg honk on they ass from heaven 🤎💫

    • @shanclay
      @shanclay 9 месяцев назад

      @@morganovid3121😂😂😂

  • @brnden87
    @brnden87 9 месяцев назад +88

    My mother passed away when I was 8.. and I was raised by my grandmother.. she was my emergency contact until she passed away. The day I went for a job, I broke down cuz I didn’t know who to put! This is so real. Thanks for sharing

  • @chanellsmith3204
    @chanellsmith3204 9 месяцев назад +7

    Don't settle Nene...you (we all) deserve the best!!! 🥰

  • @shadiatv
    @shadiatv 9 месяцев назад +7

    I had the same breakdown. My husband passed and a lady at the doctor's office asked me for my emergency contact and u just broke down. Praying for your heart NeNe🙏🏾

  • @msvichymsba3501
    @msvichymsba3501 9 месяцев назад +125

    Your son or BF is the best contact for that doctor form. Don't let that one moment catapult you into a reckless life altering decision. I loved Greg so much. I still watch I Dream of Nene to this day. It is an epic part of history. Greg & Nene 4 ever!.

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 9 месяцев назад +6

    Never settle Nene. Love will come just put it in Gods hands. I’ve been divorced for 15 yrs. Empty nester.
    I’m 53 and refuse to settle. It’s normal to feel lonely at times but I do treasure my alone time. It would have to be a special man for me to allow into my world. 💃🏻✨🙏🏼⭐️🥰

  • @evarene07
    @evarene07 9 месяцев назад +3

    Oh Nene😔💜…Many of us can relate to this…growing “mature and in the prime of our lives”, finding yourself alone…no matter how independent and self sufficient, we all want someone to look over at in the evening p, right? However, I say this to you beloved - never settle for any less than you’re “worth.” No person “needs” a partner that doesn’t fill your chalice in its entirety…Sending you virtual love, hugs and peace of spirit ✨💜

  • @loveloveAtl
    @loveloveAtl 9 месяцев назад +25

    Wow this is exactly what I’m battling with right now. I have been offered a life of stability and all the benefits but I’m just hesitant. God knows I’d be a fool to pass this up but my heart just can’t settle. Glad I came past this video. This is the Nene we all felt that friendly connection too. God bless! 🙏🏽💛

    • @damien1781
      @damien1781 9 месяцев назад

      Lmao 🤣 you are so fake

  • @msfort5722
    @msfort5722 9 месяцев назад +297

    I lost my mother to death and my ex husband of 40 years to divorce at same time. Went to the Dr and they asked if my mother and husband were my next of kin. I cried uncontrollably for more than 20 minutes. I understand exactly what you're saying.

    • @MsLegalRegal
      @MsLegalRegal 9 месяцев назад +10

      Hugs

    • @ladytracy46
      @ladytracy46 9 месяцев назад +10

      Virtual hugs 🫂

    • @kinggeorge111
      @kinggeorge111 9 месяцев назад +8

      Wow!!! Sorry for your losses!!! Grieving is difficult you never get over your loved ones! I miss my mother so much and it’s been 3 years but sometimes it feels like yesterday! Prayer and talking to God has helped me get through some of those tough days!!! Prayers up for peace, comfort and love to surround you!!!❤🙏🏾☮️

    • @shirl3942
      @shirl3942 9 месяцев назад +5

      Girl l had to put down a trusted girlfriend.

    • @amberglivens2111
      @amberglivens2111 9 месяцев назад +1

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽hugs

  • @LTNFragranceExperience
    @LTNFragranceExperience 9 месяцев назад +250

    I started crying watching her breakdown. This vulnerability is so refreshing - it felt like, I was given permission to cry too. I lost my grandmother 5 years ago and I NEVER broke from it until today. Thank you Nene.

    • @NAL948
      @NAL948 9 месяцев назад +5

      That was NOT a breakdown, more like entertainment for you…. Sometimes I’m blown away by how people can’t spot fake🤷🏽‍♀️, guess you just have it or not…. Added bonus when your degrees studied human behavior.

    • @damien1781
      @damien1781 9 месяцев назад

      It’s called acting loser … my god y’all are remedial

    • @madisonkay_yay
      @madisonkay_yay 9 месяцев назад

      @@NAL948 GIRL BYE 🤡

    • @Tonetare
      @Tonetare 8 месяцев назад +1

      This was not fake. It was all the way real, raw and vulnerable. Nene deserves a chivalrous king who can love and support her. NeNe do not settle for an arrangement. You are beautiful and deserve better

    • @Tonetare
      @Tonetare 8 месяцев назад

      NeNe havd you tried going to church and getting involved there to find a quality guy? I only ask since that is where Sunny Hostin found her husband and she’s been married to him her whole adult life pretty much

  • @learningeverdayliving111
    @learningeverdayliving111 9 месяцев назад +5

    Your son will have your back no matter what. Even if you get remarried. Praying for you.

  • @faithsez9764
    @faithsez9764 9 месяцев назад +3

    It is my sincere prayer that you can feel the true love your fans have for you!💕💕 we watched you go through so much and it's a joy to see you shining bright. Peter as always need to stay out of other's relationships and find a hobby. As for an emergency contact, follow your heart! Love you Queen, I've prayed for you to bounce back! In His name, Amen.

  • @siosworld4064
    @siosworld4064 9 месяцев назад +161

    Glad Nene have a space where she can grieve with her real fans. She have never gotten a chance to grieve and cry cause she was to busy fighting to be strong and the Sagittarius in her. We are here for you Nene cause we love, care and support you.

    • @Karisma187
      @Karisma187 9 месяцев назад

      She was busy dating someone else, Sagittarius are weak,negative,malicious,selfish and egocentric. Evil people

    • @gnmnbs6372
      @gnmnbs6372 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly

    • @krystlelocke5761
      @krystlelocke5761 9 месяцев назад

      Truth Be Told she never had time to grieve from day one knowing her husband was sick

  • @dion6340
    @dion6340 9 месяцев назад +121

    I feel it babe. Greg was a standard.
    😢😢😢😢
    This is a very real conversation. As a single person , no children. Never married. I live alone.
    When I see that question, I wish I didn’t have to answer it.
    Then I think, will this person answer in the event of an emergency? Smh
    Sharing this.

    • @realestatebykemi
      @realestatebykemi 9 месяцев назад

      Same. There’s going to be a lot more women of all races in this boat because men have rendered themselves pointless in our lives, as women become more and more self sufficient & opting out of motherhood, or single motherhood, because the men will likely not stick around to help you raise those babies, or will cheat, or be verbally, emotionally, or even physically abusive. I know me personally, I’d never put up with any crap like that… and emotional abuse comes in many forms, narcissistic & verbal. So nowadays it’s best to remain single until & unless a woman hits the relationship lottery. And even then let’s see how long it lasts, with 50% divorce rate.
      Let’s get real. That whole marriage farce is a delusion that many women have been groomed to worship, when we know we came into this world alone, & will be going out alone. So might as well embrace what’s in between & love ❤️ ourselves.
      Sorry for the rant. Not towards you. I cried trying to write my will, so I get it too.

    • @swannoir7949
      @swannoir7949 9 месяцев назад +6

      I feel you on this one.

    • @Peresphone
      @Peresphone 9 месяцев назад +2

      Chile Same, I’m going to have to call God as my contact😂It was a wakeup call to build a community, have been trying all year & excited to add to my small circle

    • @jermelawilson8081
      @jermelawilson8081 9 месяцев назад +1

  • @jenniferharris6289
    @jenniferharris6289 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love this…feels like a phone call with a friend.

  • @Pam_Livinlife
    @Pam_Livinlife 9 месяцев назад +3

    Gurl I so feel this post.. I’ve been single over 20 years (situationships don’t count) I have no children and 52 years old and the only child which Im a caregiver to my sick mother. I often get depressed and discouraged when I think about being alone and just settling because I need an emergency contact.. but shit is real out here when trying to date or meet someone of quality especially in the age group I’m in..

  • @Ass750
    @Ass750 9 месяцев назад +126

    Nene needs to build a podcast studio in her house and hire people to help her and talk to guests about current events.

    • @nataliegraham7454
      @nataliegraham7454 9 месяцев назад +2

      I said the same thing....literally! I wish I could help her myself 💯

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 9 месяцев назад +5

      Yes, this is fine to start but she definitely needs to make it more professional. Turn it into a real business and push a product (her own) during the commercial break.

    • @kenyafromcali
      @kenyafromcali 9 месяцев назад +6

      She’s always been one step off because she doesn’t pay the best people to manage her career. She has great ideas, but she needs a team to execute. 🫶🏾🙏🏾

    • @Troy-hv5kx
      @Troy-hv5kx 9 месяцев назад

      She can’t afford it

    • @nataliegraham7454
      @nataliegraham7454 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@Troy-hv5kx we are speaking positivity on this channel!

  • @floraspencer5077
    @floraspencer5077 9 месяцев назад +173

    It's okay Nene, it gets better. I know that the love you had for Greg is unmatchable. Greg was a strong present. You are worthy❤❤❤ to anybody. You will find that soul mate that's worth waiting for.

  • @me_a_pharoah
    @me_a_pharoah 9 месяцев назад +10

    Godspeed Ne-Ne we all rooting for you❤❤

  • @denisew.6462
    @denisew.6462 9 месяцев назад +11

    WOW, I didn’t expect that… 2 mins in and I am crying. My heart aches for Nene. I can’t imagine not having my husband around. I’ve been married for 27 yrs. and would have an extremely hard time if he was not here. Praying for your healing and strength.

    • @Tonetare
      @Tonetare 8 месяцев назад

      Me too. If I weren’t a gay man, I would come in and sweep her away and be her man.

  • @TheRealJmelly
    @TheRealJmelly 9 месяцев назад +16

    Marry when your heart ❤️ is ready. I know it’s hard without Greg 😢 but don’t sacrifice your happiness. He wouldn’t want you to do that. Take your time. Please. ❤I love you and your worth more than settling.

  • @dominiquewebb4882
    @dominiquewebb4882 9 месяцев назад +59

    Thanks for coming back to us, we’re here for you Nene sending {{{{HUGS}}}}from WI. Lord don’t get married or link up for the sake of an emergency contact 😂 You don’t need to consider dealing with someone on those terms. Friends and family will be there for that. You want a companion not a nurse. ❤

  • @tre4momma
    @tre4momma 9 месяцев назад +15

    This hit home for me on so many levels😢 I got divorced after being with this person for over 20yrs. That was 2017 & in 2019 I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I had to use my children as my emergency contact. I struggle with this still, and I have considered getting in a relationship for that purpose.

  • @justcute2350
    @justcute2350 9 месяцев назад +3

    Nene you are so loved!!! I’ve lost my 3 oldest children as adults, my Sag Sis I know exactly what you’re going through. Take your time to heal❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @3dna787
    @3dna787 9 месяцев назад +28

    It's ok Ne Ne 🙏🏽 ur grieving the lost of ur husband. Don't settle ur time is coming again! 💕

  • @maserati6047
    @maserati6047 9 месяцев назад +279

    I’m also so shocked that Nene endured this. Everything she explains is so relatable having dealt with a narcissist myself. There’s a feeling of shame that runs through you after you’ve been abused by a narcissist.

    • @malenahernandez9377
      @malenahernandez9377 9 месяцев назад +12

      B, bye. She is the narcissist and is gaslighting you.

    • @lets-talk-about-it-ok
      @lets-talk-about-it-ok 9 месяцев назад +23

      I wish everyone would stop misusing the word narcissists

    • @007Taylor
      @007Taylor 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@lets-talk-about-it-ok right 💯

  • @danisejackson1381
    @danisejackson1381 9 месяцев назад +14

    Pillow talk is always so succulent. This hit home for me!!!! I can truly relate, Nene. You can finally grieve now, just know that you're not alone. We love you!!!! You are going to come out of this fully cultivated and renewed. 😇😇😇

  • @belledame8627
    @belledame8627 9 месяцев назад +22

    Keep pushing forward Nene!! Everything will occur in The Most High's timing! Please continue these Pillow Talks 💖

  • @ew0711
    @ew0711 9 месяцев назад +4

    You got me seriously crying 😢🥹 because if you’re not married it falls on your children in regards to an emergency contact . Nene you should have been had a channel 🎊🎉🎊 you know WE love you girl 🧡

  • @CJ-zs1uh
    @CJ-zs1uh 9 месяцев назад +126

    I still struggle with filling out the emergency contact.. after losing my entire immediate family. I feel your hurt, I know I have people in my life that love and care about me, but it’s different. I know you have your children, but it just hits different. It will get better with time, don’t rush into anything. You have to take your time, and God always got you. ❤

    • @missbell1634
      @missbell1634 9 месяцев назад +9

      Nice comment🥰

    • @jesuisvanessawilkerson7011
      @jesuisvanessawilkerson7011 9 месяцев назад +8

      Oh, wow. My life mirrors yours. I've lost all of my immediate family, most to death & 1 to prison. I have 1 child & he's grown but I hate putting him as my emergency contact. He doesn't mind but for me I feel like to put that kind of burden on him makes me so sad. God has helped me endure for sure but I def have my moments. ❤

    • @CJ-zs1uh
      @CJ-zs1uh 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@missbell1634 Thank you

    • @CJ-zs1uh
      @CJ-zs1uh 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@jesuisvanessawilkerson7011 I’m so sorry for your losses, I didn’t know anyone else ever felt like this. I’m so glad I listened to this pillow talk of Nene. Thank you for sharing

    • @Candy-hi9on
      @Candy-hi9on 9 месяцев назад +4

      I can totally relate.

  • @mrlb200712
    @mrlb200712 9 месяцев назад +89

    I’m praying for you Nene! I know the pain you feel. I lost my wife of 15 years almost three years ago and I’m raising our four children on my own. Things will get better for you. Please don’t settle and keep God first. I know that you are going to be okay!

  • @tabathacooksey6042
    @tabathacooksey6042 9 месяцев назад +4

    I just love her. So beautiful,speaks the truth and facts!!

  • @viviang.5245
    @viviang.5245 9 месяцев назад +1

    Nene. I went through the same issue when I lost my husband. Because my family are scattered and does not live in my state I have no emergency contact but a distant cousin. May God continue to hold you near, and don't just find a "partner", make it the real thing, you deserve better than that.

  • @kayjay3948
    @kayjay3948 9 месяцев назад +44

    Nene this was so raw, honest, and heartfelt❤. I know that this is not easy, but you are getting through this one day, one hour at a time. God has your back, front, and side. I will be praying that the Lord continues to bring you comfort.❤

  • @reneejr3650
    @reneejr3650 9 месяцев назад +29

    My husband died in June. That "emergency contact" section of ANYTHING breaks me down! His name is literally on EVERYTHING from important papers to restaurants that we used to reserve at. It's HARDDDD yall!

    • @blaquecherrie9995
      @blaquecherrie9995 9 месяцев назад +6

      Yes my husband passed in April and when I was asked on documents was my emergency contact still the same. I broke down 😢 I definitely can relate.

    • @NkNk-vg8fc
      @NkNk-vg8fc 9 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry for your losses. Sending 💕 n Strength 🦾

    • @vickyserr
      @vickyserr 9 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry for your loss, all of you, it is challenging and I pray for you and your strength . It’s hard but it will get better❤

  • @nhenry76
    @nhenry76 9 месяцев назад +1

    I remember when I put my son down for the 1st time as my contact after my divorce. it was very emotional. Please heal and love yourself. you don't need to settle just to say you have someone. HAVE YOURSELF! date, have fun, you have money. Wait for the one or have few ones!! Love you, Nene - As a Sagittarius we are so much alike.

  • @DMarie_7
    @DMarie_7 9 месяцев назад +2

    NeNe you take your time... Don't EVER feel you have to settle. You deserve the best. And the Lord says the same. Stay prayed up, we are here for you.

  • @twanieblack
    @twanieblack 9 месяцев назад +36

    NeNe you inspire me you are everything OMG don't cry 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @jackieadkins6672
    @jackieadkins6672 9 месяцев назад +139

    I will never miss your podcast, just found you on line 2 days ago and it’s so comforting to hear you talk, it’s like finding a old friend 🫶🏽

    • @jjjohnston545
      @jjjohnston545 9 месяцев назад +1

      She has a podcast?

    • @jolenefeddows5618
      @jolenefeddows5618 9 месяцев назад +1

      I was having this same conversation with myself a couple days. It’s not feeling at all.

    • @HAIZZUL
      @HAIZZUL 9 месяцев назад +6

      U hit the nail on the head. “Comforting” was the word. She definitely sound like a whole friend in my head.

  • @hikmahking5351
    @hikmahking5351 9 месяцев назад +2

    Being single isn't easy but take it one day at a time. Put yourself in a position where you're always meeting people. Date multiple people and then eventually choose the best fit for you. It's all a gamble but you'll win. Think positive.❤️

  • @bbreeze11
    @bbreeze11 9 месяцев назад +2

    Nene, please take time to continue to heal and grieve. Grief is very hard! Do not settle for just anything!! You deserve better❤🙏🏾

  • @leeb4799
    @leeb4799 9 месяцев назад +60

    Live life with no regrets, we are only here for a short time. I didn't think I would ever get married again. Hell, I found my true connection spiritually and physically with my current wife and We love each other to pieces. You got this NeNe and don't settle for nothing less of what you deserve. 😊

    • @leeb4799
      @leeb4799 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@nala2011 Thank you, I appreciate you for that Nala. A real connection is a beautiful experience, like no other, and I'm happy with life.🤗✌

    • @missbettyboop2509
      @missbettyboop2509 9 месяцев назад +3

      Lucky u...🎉🎉stay blessed....

    • @leeb4799
      @leeb4799 9 месяцев назад

      Thank you :)@@missbettyboop2509

  • @justtkay25
    @justtkay25 9 месяцев назад +7

    **BLOOP** NeNe I am continuously praying God's discernment, protection, peace, and prosperity remain upon YOU ALWAYS 🙏🏽 NeNe!! We Love You ❤ Hunnnni!!

  • @diamondbrumley
    @diamondbrumley 9 месяцев назад +4

    This had me in tears. I love you Nene❤

  • @PastriesPumpsandPi
    @PastriesPumpsandPi 9 месяцев назад +3

    I wish people would try to understand what she was going through those kast seasons. It is hard being a caregiver. My mom did it for my grandmother and my dad before they both passed. My parents had been married 50 yrs when my dad passed. That's a huge loss to deal with. Thankfully, my mom still has her 3 children very close by to help her through the grief.

  • @kristigalloway3175
    @kristigalloway3175 9 месяцев назад +58

    I lost my husband in January 2022 so I can relate to you after 22 years it hard for me but keep your head up it going to get better.❤

    • @LeeLee-ux8gh
      @LeeLee-ux8gh 9 месяцев назад +1

      Me too, 30 yrs.. I lost my husband in 2020. 🙏🏾

    • @MSCHI-ck2ne
      @MSCHI-ck2ne 9 месяцев назад

      Same here, 22 years together and he passed in 2022. 😢

  • @arthouseabb
    @arthouseabb 9 месяцев назад +43

    omg Nene. To show this side of you and be so vulnerable; i know it hurts. Imma tell you this though - you are helping so many people by just telling your story. Tear down these walls with the people love. Pillow talk is going somewhere. The best thing is that its going to help you, too. SO much love to you girl.

  • @faustinacathey3062
    @faustinacathey3062 9 месяцев назад +4

    Don’t settle. Grief is a process NeNe. You will have moments like this. Women look up to you and we want the best for you.

  • @rayvaughnrose1516
    @rayvaughnrose1516 9 месяцев назад +4

    Stay strong Nene! God got you covered!

  • @graceannecreque5491
    @graceannecreque5491 9 месяцев назад +26

    Oh NeNe you brought tears to my eyes with the issue of who to put for your emergency contact. Your fans miss Greg he was one of a kind they don't make them like him anymore. Rest in peace Greg Leakes.

  • @jackiecallender9395
    @jackiecallender9395 9 месяцев назад +97

    We love you Nene. You are amazing and everything you’ve been through these past few years will be in your rear view soon enough.

  • @Prev8ster
    @Prev8ster 9 месяцев назад +10

    First off the editing is on point & hilarious! The voice change had me crying 😂 Nene I love the honesty I love the vulnerability I KNOW this is going to help someone else who has gone through losing their spouse. Grief is so different for everyone so pls give yourself grace. There’s no time limit, take each day at a time

  • @melmarcelle8414
    @melmarcelle8414 9 месяцев назад +8

    I am LOVING this channel.. Please don't put this on pause again. Keep growing ❣

  • @sa6798
    @sa6798 9 месяцев назад +66

    Nene got me crying 3 minutes in! ❤❤ the focus needs to be on surviving the passing of your loved ones not someone else. It sounds like You didn’t allow yourself fully it sit in your lost without looking to fill the shoes of something that couldn’t be filled. Gregg is one of a kind

    • @cassib2820
      @cassib2820 9 месяцев назад +2

      Right! Chile I was not prepared!!!

  • @cherylwilson296
    @cherylwilson296 9 месяцев назад +59

    Keep pushing you got this. We love you!!!

  • @tonya9287
    @tonya9287 9 месяцев назад +2

    Never settle and stop thinking like this when it comes to having someone in your life. You want a Man, husband, friend and lover. There's nothing wrong with having it all.

  • @johannspurlockallen8743
    @johannspurlockallen8743 9 месяцев назад +3

    Love you NeNe, and I’m still sending prayers and positive vibes your way 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @deesworld585
    @deesworld585 9 месяцев назад +5

    Please setup a talk show like podcast. I would tune in every time! Your built for this

  • @laurajones7476
    @laurajones7476 9 месяцев назад +6

    I truly understand NeNe, I was not married but my emergency contact was my son who died in 2021😢 I wish I could find that special someone ❤

  • @TracesofTwaunsLife
    @TracesofTwaunsLife 9 месяцев назад +13

    NeNe this is ministry. You’re helping so many people. Bless the Lord 🙌🏾♥️❤️

    • @nialeon3209
      @nialeon3209 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, "Mind your business"( title grabbed my attention)will be my motto til 2024. I am struggling with this but it will surely serve me good to do so. Luv Nene❤

    • @TracesofTwaunsLife
      @TracesofTwaunsLife 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@nialeon3209 🙏🏾❤️

  • @natashadj1936
    @natashadj1936 9 месяцев назад +8

    I have been married 18 years and counting and listening to you. Talk about emergency contact had me breaking down in tears because I know that I am going to reach to that point and my husband. Wow.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @damien1781
      @damien1781 9 месяцев назад

      Is she there for her son and his kids ?

  • @shazza9273
    @shazza9273 9 месяцев назад +10

    Nene don't just marry anyone just to have someone to fill out a form. No one is going to replace Gregg. I really felt for you when you said that you brought me to tears. Don't settle for anyone. I've never been married through choice so don't know what it must be like for you but don't want you to be unhappy with anyone. ❤

  • @beatricefoster3753
    @beatricefoster3753 9 месяцев назад +37

    We love you NeNe .. Continue to take your time. Gregg was a good man. I loved watching you both together. He is definitely missed. Grief is hard. I lost my brother and mom two years apart. And I feel like I’m in a fog sometimes. But the Good Lord has you in his arms. Continue with these blessed videos.🙏

  • @laurenhahn890
    @laurenhahn890 9 месяцев назад +2

    Nene you beautiful woman you!! This is so true and real for not only widowed women and men who lost the love of their life.. but i bet for other people maybe who dont have partners or people that feel alone or whatever. You are an amazing woman and im sorry youre in this position! Its weird how we all walk totally diff paths in life. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment and we live seeing you out and about again in our worlds

  • @ElleKay407
    @ElleKay407 9 месяцев назад +5

    Wow…Nene we love you & I literally grew up watching you! I started crying when you started crying😪People forget that you are a human being. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. You are so genuine & such a great storyteller. Keep doing these videos…You don’t have to do a podcast. This may actually be your thing right here👌🏽

  • @dreababy8020
    @dreababy8020 9 месяцев назад +10

    Nene, I'm 52, single, divorced for about 10yrs. I Still think of that. My daughter is 32 But that's my child. I watch my friends in these dysfunctional marriages, but they do have that Emergency contact. I understand your plight and pain. I Really don't want to settle for that reason. It's hard

  • @mrekendrick
    @mrekendrick 9 месяцев назад +11

    Noooooooo don’t do that Nene. Please..ur sons can look out for you. “Wait for love” (Luther Vandross)

  • @angelalucius2703
    @angelalucius2703 9 месяцев назад +4

    My heart goes out to NeNe because I know it’s difficult being alone after having been in a relationship and marriage for such a long time.

  • @pattypalumbo5512
    @pattypalumbo5512 9 месяцев назад +2

    Nina my heart breaks. I’ve been with my husband since I was 14 ! We will be married 40 years next year. My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer and my Life is scary right now. I never heard thought about emergency contact. Watching your strength gives me hope

  • @MaddMelloo41
    @MaddMelloo41 9 месяцев назад +4

    Greg is such a standard and unfortunately a love like that most times only comes once in a lifetime and to have experienced it at all is a huge blessing because many won’t.
    As a gerontologist studying the female cohort, we are disproportionately aging alone and for many this comes with financial hardships and homelessness due to one income and rising cost of living. Most just have not saved or been able to prepare adequately probably thinking they would eventually be married.

    • @prettyladdiee2261
      @prettyladdiee2261 9 месяцев назад

      Based on your studies, what’s the best way to prepare? Home ownership? I always hear women online brag about research showing that men are dying alone… so this shocks me. That seems so scary and I’m only 22

  • @MichelleBrown
    @MichelleBrown 9 месяцев назад +8

    OMG!!! 😳

    • @moniquebrown1155
      @moniquebrown1155 9 месяцев назад +1

      Hey Michelle❤ yaaaaaasssss we are here for it!

  • @JC-DoGood
    @JC-DoGood 9 месяцев назад +15

    What a brave and thought provoking conversation Nene. Thank you for sharing.

  • @kimberlyroute5983
    @kimberlyroute5983 9 месяцев назад +4

    My friend you had me balling tears. This is a hard journey for a lot of women and men.

  • @jacquelinemcgill3378
    @jacquelinemcgill3378 9 месяцев назад +3

    😢 I’m feeling this pillow talk. I’m over 55yrs and I have learned that being alone is not so bad. I love me more than anything. I didn’t always feel this way. After two marriages the first marriage lasted 5yrs the second lasted 27yrs. I would never marry just to have a partner for life and I wouldn’t recommend that for any woman. I get alone with me better than anyone else 😂😂😂 it’s just me myself and I. I would never disappoint myself in my Beyoncé voice.