This is literally what healing looks like in a broken human. Thanks for sharing Shia. I admire how honest you are with yourself and the raw emotion you display.
@@archersparadox3 You must live in a happy world where people are forever condemned for their past never being allowed to change or move on Forgiveness is a lesson that many are not willing to learn
@@psillymama Nah, the horrible person is the one not willing to accept humans make mistakes and its how we handle ourselves after those mistakes that makes us who we are.
@@taylorfoerster843He’s lying to your faces and use God and some tears to touch your heart. What he did to “that woman” was horrible and he not even once acknowledged it properly but instead battles her in court when he’s wrong all the way.
You also can't moralize love. Or idealize martyrdom. Appreciate second chances. There are many people who love those they no longer have a choice to be with and have to keep their distance for their own safety and/or sanity. But choosing to keep their distance doesn't make their love any less.
I've heard this grom my psychologist recently. I was tolding about my life, problems and how I thought my interpretation was, according to some readings, some specialists I've watched talking about all those thing... and he instantly said that how I rationalize is a mechanism to be apart of processing emotions. It's how I kept them away from me...
Emotional damage is losing something which defined you about love, companionship and trust in life. Once you lost these things and when you find these things again, thats what you call recovery. Because what does it mean to recover something? It means, to find it again. She healed him with her presence
Na bro if you know you have an std and still give it to your partner you are a mega pos and u deserve zero sympathy, dont make excuses for this abuser, fka twigs didnt deserve any of the shit he pulled
It’s looking outside of our own experience, it’s reflection, understanding, people make mistakes, we all do it, we are all on our own road dealing with our own speed bumps. Just don’t be afraid to reach out, it might just save you from yourself.
Turn to Allah - Prostrate to God and ask from the bottom of your heart. Read the Quran translation and commentary by Muhammad Asad, a european jewish intellectual who became Muslim. God bless you.
My partner used to be a very toxic person. For 5 years, he behaved in awful ways. I left in 2020. We maintained a distance and he willingly sought therapy, engaged with and completed over 3 months and I saw a huge change in him. We got back together in 2022. He’s been the most incredible life partner since. Truthfully.
I've always liked this dude. So much more respect for being so vulnerable, open, down to speak his truth! I'm a proud fan of this guy! He's doing wonderful!
Nothing hurts more than seeing a man crying out true tears coming from a place of love. A very familiar feeling I reminisce to whenever in a state of self reflection.
See I believe the opposite. I think the most special thing about real love is that we can never earn or deserve it. Love is so pure it exists regardless, and it's a choice. People choose to forgive, to regard, to care, to cherish ♥️ there is no such thing as a perfect person or perfect relationship but love finds a way.
He experienced what every man is dying for. Someone to love them without the need to provide value or conditions. May we all be so lucky and become better men for the woman who do this for us.
Lol yeah and you only need to be worth $25m like Shia to get that unconditional love. A man that truly has nothing to offer will never be treated like this by a woman.
@@BigBoss7777777absolutely women are expert to hide their intentions, he was lonely and she was there for him I am sure there is a reason And also I am sure shia is very weak here His Outlook Will also change after years He might even be acting here Who knows
This made me tear up for him and his situation. Everyone needs someone there when you’re in a bad place. You feel so alone and need that understanding and comfort. I wish him all the best for the future.
A powerful metaphor for hope. When there’s plenty of gas in the tank we don’t think twice about driving another 20 miles, when the gauge is very low each mile feels like a risk of stalling. Then to make matters worse each gas station has barely enough to make it to the next.
Shia is a fuckin’ G. He’s made some big mistakes like a lot of us have, and he’s learned from it. Such a talented, intelligent man and I wish him well.
@@omeboy487 Yeah, you know... did you ever hear about that warlord guy in africa who slaughtered tons of people then turned to god and now he hangs out with their families? I think you can gradually shift who you are, and make amends but completely accepting someone's shift on a dime sounds like some new age horsesh*t frankly. Shia has always been a very melodramatic individual, so his pining for sympathy here is actually in line with who he's always been - someone seeking attention. It's not much more deep than that. A very childish trait you seem to endorse.
A person who accepts the way they are. Remains. The person who faces the hard truth about their self. Life. They undergo the greatest character development which defines human. Deep video.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Dont force...just accept... she will stay there all life with you in memory and pain... but trust me you will find a woman who will love you.... one day you will forgive ex girl.... just believe
This is why I don't like cancel culture, because it kind of removes the opportunity for redemption. Because we weren't made to overcome struggles alone.
Not true at all. She is only trauma bonded to abuse and has no love to offer besides transactions. The only human being uncapable of love in fact. Narcissists do not love.
@@thepope9023You mean the narcissist is Shia right? And anyway, trauma bond or no trauma bond most women do know how to love, most of us are empaths and that’s why this narcissistic predators can smell us.
@monchichi5677 empathy and the need for the title is just a projection of narcissism. Your no victim. You simply get what you give. You reap what you sow.
Met him at the check in of a Disney Cruise. He’s the most down to earth and friendly dude I’ve ever met. His wife is a sweetheart and their daughter is adorable. Love the self reflection. Nothing but respect. The man deserves the joy he’s experiencing and I’m stoked for him.
The fact that he appreciates it. You know you can be loved the same but if you don't appreciate the sacrificial love, you miss out... but he saw. Amazing 👏
It's amazing how much a little compassion can help someone break through, even when they don't deserve it. I hope Shia has found peace and love within himself.
Most amazing thing I have seen. Dude is authentic. Life is a trip we all take. Homeboy has more money than I will ever have but he’s human and struggles with the same battles we face everyday. “You can’t rationalize real love “ whole new level of respect for Shia
Just him remembering that moment is so beautiful. It’s so painful, but it’s so truthful, that’s where the beauty of it shines. I’m very grateful he shared this with us.
I'm 37. Been with my wife 22 years. She seen every raw emotion I can express. Shia and Jon really have this experience...What it's like to be in such a dark place & understand what a "real one" is. Cheers to both of them. I'm in a dark place right now, but I know I have a real one...There is a burden there...a weight you don't want anyone to bare for you. But they stand tall anyway.
Im 22 and what I've learned recently is that a lack of compassion for yourself is the most difficult place to be in. We need to allow ourselves to be vulnerable with ourselves + others and not judge our emotions. When you feel so undeserving of a hand that you judge yourself for feeling those emotions and being in the state that you're in, is the moment in which you need others to offer you a wave of compassion and love the most. And in that way, we all strengthen each other.
“Sometimes all you need to offer someone in a situation like that is presence” Nothing but the truth right there. Just proving you care enough to show up is sometimes all it takes to give a person the strength they need
The way Jon looks and listens to Shia!! And lets him speak! Beautiful! I'm so proud when people tell me that I'm a great listener! For me it's the best compliment one can get. It's so rewarding both ways. Mutual benefit. And it's so simple. And yet we still struggle to LISTEN to each other.
this shows how through suffering we can come out on the other side so much more authentic and grateful and overall more mentally & emotionally healthy than generations before us.
This man has gained my respect for being so open to share and help others. But at the same time for seeking help when he was at his lowest. Even with a loaded gun at hand he decided to stay with all of us and his family. Think of those others when your at your lowest.
I felt this…all the way. It touched something in me and I appreciated him (Shia) being authentic and vulnerable, and Jon being supportive and generous in his listening. To be loved when you feel you have nothing to offer…wow
True man has tears. Shia gone through alot and glad he made it. Sometimes its hard to let it all out and have someone to listen thats all you need. Stay strong everyone!
@@sailorglock I don't think physical abuse has been confirmed? But there are different types of abuse and he has admitted to such, but he never once admitted to putting hands on a woman.
The part about taking someone taking a loss to be with you because you're so undeserving of their love.. so when you love them you go all in.. its ahhh.. That broke me. Its undeniably real.
Shia is the kind of person who will turn his life around, fuck it up, turn it around, fuck it up, but at the end, you can't hate him for trying his best to turn it around. Relapses happen, but every time you try to change for the better, you get a little bit closer to success. Mad respect for Shia.
This. I read this somewhere and it stuck in my head; Going into rehab is like auditioning for a play. With every audition you get closer to the big stage of beeing and STAYING sober.
To know that she brought you through a hard place in your life and stood by you... that is love at its finest. She was able to remind you of being in a better place, even if you both shared only a smile... that love is real, and deep, and rare. So touched by this, as you are such a great actor, how others have spoken of your dedication to the roles you play. Life is a process in which moments like these present themselves, and we heal.❤
one of the best persons of our generation! You are loved Shia. I wish i could be an ear for you to vent to another brother when you need. I feel your pain so very personally. My life has been a compilation of train wrecks as well. Love you brother. You are strong, you are worthy, you deserve the best.
I watched this twice and replayed this over and over again. This truly hit my soul. I cry bc I can relate. The realist shit I’ve heard. Will continue to watch this. Thank u for sharing this, 💯 % love for Shia. That’s some hard shit to share. Pure
I love this, I had that girl and lost her due to my own selfishness, to this day after almost 5 years I still haven’t spoken to another girl. I think I messed up something that was supposed to happen. Thanks Shia.
Me too man, she comes to me In my dreams all the time that’s the only time I can see and talk to her..I’ve felt the same way like it was supposed to happen and it’s happening in another timeline or universe right now
@@Haneul2163 self love is so important. How can you love others without loving yourself first? Once you love yourself, you see yourself in others. Big love to all you brothers struggling ❤ "Men live lives of quiet desperation"
I absolutely love this honest important conversation. Love this I went through addiction & alcoholism and I went on and kept going on the better path and Im so glad I gave this path a chance. There's no empty hole anymore. I've gotten more than I deserve say the least. I love you whoever is reading this. I pray you find unexplainable thankfulness 🙏 you are worth it even when you don't believe it.
I heard this podcast after eye surgery. I’m laying down temporarily blind with tears coming down eyes listening to real ones. This was the best conversation I have ever heard.
Shia is one of those few famous people I feel like I grew up with personally. He was everywhere in my childhood, I hope he’s finding peace now, it ain’t easy getting there when your head ends up like his. No matter where you’re from or what you’ve been through, we all feel depression the same. Pain is pain. And we all need at least one person before we go insane. All love!
I think it’s hard for people to understand that there are things in our past that continue to affect us in the present. My husband had so much in past that haunted him, it caused so many problems with our lives, but I continued to try to understand and be there for him. Now 25 years later, I’m glad we made it through everything together ❤
This brought me to tears. As an addict, to the people we love, I'm so sorry for all the things were not, but we love with all we are and couldn't do it without you.
This really hit my soul so honest and not ashamed of what people might think it's his truth I really respect a person that can admit what they really feel he deserves to be loved for his heart I wish nothing but the best for you Shia
@@Willfitzcomedybuddy why do you see someone being vulnerable and feel inclined to hate on someone trying to be better? someone admitting to their wrongs. every human being has made bad choice before.
I am happy he finally came around and saved himself, and also that he opened his eyes and realised what he did and how that woman really was and is by his side.
Shia’s a real one … definitely one of my favorite people. Love how vulnerable and transparent he is. I felt it when he said sometimes all a person needs is someone’s presence @4:40 . Life can feel very lonely sometimes.
Man, this guy, from Even Steven to Transformers, and to all the shit he has been through until this podcast, my admiration to him is sky soaring. He's having a breakthrough and I believe he'll make himself a respectably recognition from all over the world. God bless him.
Shia Labeouf is one of my FAVORITE people to see on a movie. If hes there you just know that shit is gonna be FIRE! highly respect this guy. Remember we are only human Shia.
Shia. Love never dies. You are worthy. Keep fighting. My man has ptsd and put me through hell too but i still love him. Just remember true love never dies
My husband seen this video 2 weeks before he passed suddenly from pancreatitis... He looked at me and said you stuck by me through addiction and I know I hurt u... But u showed me the love I never had before and I got sober and now we have started a new life together and I feel free ❤️
Shia...this is the most beautiful I've ever seen you, sir. Mad respect for the work you've done. MOST do not ever find their way through that kind of turmoil. Even people dealing with less of it have a hard time finding the REAL and the JOY and YOU have found both. I wish you many more blessings.
Man sharpens man like iron sharpens iron and watching Shia pour out his feelings and his heart touched my heart so much because I’ve been there. I’m so glad i watched this 🙏❤️
props to Jon for not interrupting Shia, now that's a good listener and human being.
Jon is fly asf
Word!! 😊
If Jon said a single word, he would start crying with Shia. He wasn't able to speak!
@@soundsfromtheneighborhood Most of us have been there...
Now that you mention it he is amazing at not rescuing him.
Shia is a bigger man than 90% of us. Truly tested and still came back alive at the end of it all. Happy for him, and mad respect to Mia
I think you hang out with the wrong people if you believe he's a "bigger man" than 90% of us.
Nicely put ..hes a warrior
Who's mia
Maybe don't put a man who has abused women up on a pedestal..
@@amarigamer1192 Mia Goth. His ex-wife and baby momma. She’s a phenomenal actress.
This is literally what healing looks like in a broken human. Thanks for sharing Shia. I admire how honest you are with yourself and the raw emotion you display.
That's why he is despised by Hollywood coz he stands out for truth.
@@EPHZAMI never thought of it that way but you are correct.
@@EPHZAM or because he abused his ex gf and gave her a permanent std and then also went around shooting stray dogs
He was beating his partner while the maid was outside a locked room. Y'all are weird AF romanticizing an abuser
@@archersparadox3 You must live in a happy world where people are forever condemned for their past never being allowed to change or move on
Forgiveness is a lesson that many are not willing to learn
He’s so opposite to most actors, puts himself out there, risks his image to bear his heart. He’s a real one. One of the few real ones 😢
he has no image left to maintain. Don’t let the sad piano music cloud your logic; this man is a horrible person.😂
@@psillymama Nah, the horrible person is the one not willing to accept humans make mistakes and its how we handle ourselves after those mistakes that makes us who we are.
@@zeusa7075 Life is an act. We all act. Everything we do or say is always partly acting.
@@psillymama You're probably american.
@@taylorfoerster843He’s lying to your faces and use God and some tears to touch your heart. What he did to “that woman” was horrible and he not even once acknowledged it properly but instead battles her in court when he’s wrong all the way.
"The ministry of presence" a beautiful way of saying just being there, unconditionally for someone.
Words to live by.
I love that.
💙
Props to Jon for just listening. The power of presence.
Exactly what I'm thinking
I thought the same
Having watched both Jon Bernthal and Shia's Hot Ones interview you feel like they are genuinely good friends
the best ones let their guests roll with it...
I like the cheesy music it tells me what to feel
"You can't rationalize love. I've spent my whle life trying to rationalize it."
You're so right Shia. You really can't..
woman beater and abuser
"The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of... We know the truth not only by the reason, but by the heart."
Can't rationalize an emotional anyways lol
You also can't moralize love. Or idealize martyrdom. Appreciate second chances. There are many people who love those they no longer have a choice to be with and have to keep their distance for their own safety and/or sanity. But choosing to keep their distance doesn't make their love any less.
I've heard this grom my psychologist recently. I was tolding about my life, problems and how I thought my interpretation was, according to some readings, some specialists I've watched talking about all those thing... and he instantly said that how I rationalize is a mechanism to be apart of processing emotions. It's how I kept them away from me...
And that ladies and gentlemen is called healing. 💜 Wishing him nothing but peace and happiness
Yeah but he needed that girl to heal, a lot harder doing it on your own
Emotional damage is losing something which defined you about love, companionship and trust in life. Once you lost these things and when you find these things again, thats what you call recovery. Because what does it mean to recover something? It means, to find it again.
She healed him with her presence
Child trauma …
Na bro if you know you have an std and still give it to your partner you are a mega pos and u deserve zero sympathy, dont make excuses for this abuser, fka twigs didnt deserve any of the shit he pulled
It’s looking outside of our own experience, it’s reflection, understanding, people make mistakes, we all do it, we are all on our own road dealing with our own speed bumps.
Just don’t be afraid to reach out, it might just save you from yourself.
Heartbreaking that no family showed up for him.
I am alone in this world too.
It hurts
Thanks for sharing.
You're not alone!! You're in my prayers 🙏❤️🙏
🙏🙏🙏🩷💓
Turn to Allah - Prostrate to God and ask from the bottom of your heart. Read the Quran translation and commentary by Muhammad Asad, a european jewish intellectual who became Muslim. God bless you.
We belong to the club of not belonging
@@satyacoaching_EFT Sad isn’t it? Feel like my life is cursed.
My partner used to be a very toxic person. For 5 years, he behaved in awful ways. I left in 2020. We maintained a distance and he willingly sought therapy, engaged with and completed over 3 months and I saw a huge change in him.
We got back together in 2022. He’s been the most incredible life partner since. Truthfully.
That is truly amazing. Thank you for sharing.
This is so beautiful… ❤️❤️❤️
❤
That’s truly beautiful to read you! I would give my whole life to have the chance that you two had! Blessings for both of you!
Never give up on people , and never think that they cannot change. Thank you.
I've always liked this dude. So much more respect for being so vulnerable, open, down to speak his truth! I'm a proud fan of this guy! He's doing wonderful!
X2
hes literally an abuser are u stupid
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢yes
How does stealing bob marleys song lyrics make you inspirational?
You support a narcissistic abuser lol.
“Those who do not understand true pain can never understand true peace.”
☝️ this right here.
That’s powerful
I’ve been homeless before but don’t feel at peace with myself. My mental health is pretty much the same as then….
True to that....❤
How are you today?@@blank.9301
Nothing hurts more than seeing a man crying out true tears coming from a place of love. A very familiar feeling I reminisce to whenever in a state of self reflection.
"we just smiled, we had nothing else to say"; i miss that feeling so much
When he said he doesn't deserve it, he does. Everyone deserves love, unconditional and real love. It's so hard to find. I'm happy he found it.
What does "deserve" even mean? Except that you would approve of it
See I believe the opposite. I think the most special thing about real love is that we can never earn or deserve it. Love is so pure it exists regardless, and it's a choice. People choose to forgive, to regard, to care, to cherish ♥️ there is no such thing as a perfect person or perfect relationship but love finds a way.
He experienced what every man is dying for. Someone to love them without the need to provide value or conditions. May we all be so lucky and become better men for the woman who do this for us.
Lol yeah and you only need to be worth $25m like Shia to get that unconditional love. A man that truly has nothing to offer will never be treated like this by a woman.
@@BigBoss7777777Sorry to hear you feel like this.
@@peterbitschhjortshj6683 it’s not how I feel, i’m just stating facts. Shia is not an example of a man without value, he’s accomplished and rich.
@@BigBoss7777777absolutely women are expert to hide their intentions, he was lonely and she was there for him I am sure there is a reason And also I am sure shia is very weak here His Outlook Will also change after years He might even be acting here Who knows
I had no job, no money, no car, essentially nothing and a woman gave me her love. You just out here giving negative incel energy off.@@BigBoss7777777
This made me tear up for him and his situation. Everyone needs someone there when you’re in a bad place. You feel so alone and need that understanding and comfort. I wish him all the best for the future.
hes an abuser are u stupid
Me too 🙏🏻
Ye it was a good performance lol
In my darkest time and i teared up
woman beater and abuser
I used to think this guy was nuts but he is so well spoken and his character and strength just shines through. Amazing man.
That’s what’s portrayed. It’s why media is so disturbing. They literally control the narrative and make you feel how they want you to.
You’re actually right. He was nuts. People walked out of his life because of his shitty character & actions. He’s finally healing.
@@pabowiefulHe was never nuts. Just hurting.
I'll come back and watch the video every time someone likes this comment.
You better be back
Come back G
Time to watch again bro,stay storng
Here you go
Lol
"It's the first time I really understood love, because I have nothing to give."
key word presence no matter how difficult you are
i know cause it something i dont have
“I wasn’t empty but I was running on fumes” hit me really hard
A powerful metaphor for hope. When there’s plenty of gas in the tank we don’t think twice about driving another 20 miles, when the gauge is very low each mile feels like a risk of stalling. Then to make matters worse each gas station has barely enough to make it to the next.
The way he’s turned his life around is incredible, his outlook on life now is truely inspiring. He’s absolutely on the money
woman beater ad abuser
he's an actor... it's called performing.
@@bluebellbeatnik4945wtf?? This is real
@@bluebellbeatnik4945another dumb comment 🤡
@@bluebellbeatnik4945sad reply. Godspeed bro
Shia is a fuckin’ G. He’s made some big mistakes like a lot of us have, and he’s learned from it. Such a talented, intelligent man and I wish him well.
ya, hes made a bunch of money and bear women. a hero
@@Willfitzcomedy defining ppl by their past is childish. ppl are who they are "now," better defined by their strength to overcome.
@@omeboy487 Yeah, you know... did you ever hear about that warlord guy in africa who slaughtered tons of people then turned to god and now he hangs out with their families? I think you can gradually shift who you are, and make amends but completely accepting someone's shift on a dime sounds like some new age horsesh*t frankly.
Shia has always been a very melodramatic individual, so his pining for sympathy here is actually in line with who he's always been - someone seeking attention. It's not much more deep than that. A very childish trait you seem to endorse.
A person who accepts the way they are. Remains. The person who faces the hard truth about their self. Life. They undergo the greatest character development which defines human. Deep video.
@@omeboy487 ppl don't really change i believe. some character elements are grounded.
Because love is a behavior not just a feeling❤
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him or her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Dont force...just accept... she will stay there all life with you in memory and pain... but trust me you will find a woman who will love you.... one day you will forgive ex girl.... just believe
This is why I don't like cancel culture, because it kind of removes the opportunity for redemption. Because we weren't made to overcome struggles alone.
So beautifully said ❤
Then you have to get rid of women’s rights because it was women who created cancel culture
I have always thought this to. Very well said
i never thought of it this way
Shia wasnt cancelled though 😂
A woman’s love is like no other, it runs deep. Even when that love feels heavy, when the person we love absolutely needs us we show up.
Not true at all. She is only trauma bonded to abuse and has no love to offer besides transactions.
The only human being uncapable of love in fact.
Narcissists do not love.
@@thepope9023nailed it!
@@thepope9023You mean the narcissist is Shia right? And anyway, trauma bond or no trauma bond most women do know how to love, most of us are empaths and that’s why this narcissistic predators can smell us.
@monchichi5677 empathy and the need for the title is just a projection of narcissism. Your no victim. You simply get what you give. You reap what you sow.
@@thepope9023 Spot the guy that was never loved without saying he was never loved. Fuck man, your outlook is defeatist
Imma go hug my wife
Me too!
❤
Lucky bastard
Do it dont be missing like me..
How was the hug dawg?
Met him at the check in of a Disney Cruise. He’s the most down to earth and friendly dude I’ve ever met. His wife is a sweetheart and their daughter is adorable. Love the self reflection. Nothing but respect. The man deserves the joy he’s experiencing and I’m stoked for him.
What? Random
The fact that he appreciates it. You know you can be loved the same but if you don't appreciate the sacrificial love, you miss out... but he saw. Amazing 👏
Agree 10000
woman beater and abuser
ye i wish there where more women like mia goth no many real once out here
Only can be loved the same if from the same world
It's amazing how much a little compassion can help someone break through, even when they don't deserve it. I hope Shia has found peace and love within himself.
It takes a strong man to share how he really is feeling deep in his soul and the things hes gone through.
Most amazing thing I have seen. Dude is authentic. Life is a trip we all take. Homeboy has more money than I will ever have but he’s human and struggles with the same battles we face everyday. “You can’t rationalize real love “ whole new level of respect for Shia
The power of listening to a person speak about the power of love. I’m here for this.
Just him remembering that moment is so beautiful. It’s so painful, but it’s so truthful, that’s where the beauty of it shines. I’m very grateful he shared this with us.
Shia never hides ANYTHING from anyone! I don’t think he realizes how much his authentic nature helps all of us! ♥️✨🙏🏽🙌🏽
Truth
I'm 37. Been with my wife 22 years. She seen every raw emotion I can express. Shia and Jon really have this experience...What it's like to be in such a dark place & understand what a "real one" is. Cheers to both of them. I'm in a dark place right now, but I know I have a real one...There is a burden there...a weight you don't want anyone to bare for you. But they stand tall anyway.
Im 22 and what I've learned recently is that a lack of compassion for yourself is the most difficult place to be in. We need to allow ourselves to be vulnerable with ourselves + others and not judge our emotions. When you feel so undeserving of a hand that you judge yourself for feeling those emotions and being in the state that you're in, is the moment in which you need others to offer you a wave of compassion and love the most. And in that way, we all strengthen each other.
womam beater and abuser
You're the same age as Shia. :) And to be fair, you guys are lucky to have found someone. I'm a little older, and am still looking for the real one.
@@Rowsic Well said.
Best of luck to you! It isn't over until it truly is. From now until then, Don't give up on yourself. Best of luck to you!
The ministry of presence...beautifully said.
exactly
“Sometimes all you need to offer someone in a situation like that is presence”
Nothing but the truth right there. Just proving you care enough to show up is sometimes all it takes to give a person the strength they need
Absolutely.
The way Jon looks and listens to Shia!! And lets him speak! Beautiful! I'm so proud when people tell me that I'm a great listener! For me it's the best compliment one can get. It's so rewarding both ways. Mutual benefit. And it's so simple. And yet we still struggle to LISTEN to each other.
I legit cried watching this. I can't relate to his exact situation but I can relate to the feelings he's describing. This is beautiful to see.
I felt what he felt. You don't know what you had until you lose it. Appreciate the people close you.
this shows how through suffering we can come out on the other side so much more authentic and grateful and overall more mentally & emotionally healthy than generations before us.
Not only she has a voice of an angel, she has a heart of an angel too.
6:14 ❤
woman beater and abuser
This was powerful. Shia has always held this sort of presence that I’ve always been attached to.
This man has gained my respect for being so open to share and help others. But at the same time for seeking help when he was at his lowest. Even with a loaded gun at hand he decided to stay with all of us and his family. Think of those others when your at your lowest.
This was so powerful .... she always showed up for me im tired of letting her down❤
I felt this…all the way. It touched something in me and I appreciated him (Shia) being authentic and vulnerable, and Jon being supportive and generous in his listening.
To be loved when you feel you have nothing to offer…wow
True man has tears. Shia gone through alot and glad he made it. Sometimes its hard to let it all out and have someone to listen thats all you need. Stay strong everyone!
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In this Interview this man is so honest and so thoughtfully it is heartbreaking. Shia is such a lovely person, I’ve so much respect 🔥🔥🔥
lovely people dont beat women
Hes an abuser so, keep romanticizing him lol
@@sailorglock I don't think physical abuse has been confirmed? But there are different types of abuse and he has admitted to such, but he never once admitted to putting hands on a woman.
@@MalphasMikaelson unfortunately it’s true, he put his hands on his former partner FKA twigs, it’s been made public
@@MalphasMikaelson heard of fka twigs before?
I'm crying man. I want to give this guy a hug. A Journey of healing, and he's doing so well.
"She's a real one" I see where you were going with that Shia. Love everything he said. It never gets old listening to this. Humbles me to my core.
I haven't cried while watching a video for a long time, but this hit me sooo hard. thank you for being so transparent and human
The part about taking someone taking a loss to be with you because you're so undeserving of their love.. so when you love them you go all in.. its ahhh.. That broke me. Its undeniably real.
You kinda cute
@@444truthteller Hes a handsome guy 😅
“You heard her voice, she’s like a fuckin angel y’know?.” ❤️❤️
Shia is the kind of person who will turn his life around, fuck it up, turn it around, fuck it up, but at the end, you can't hate him for trying his best to turn it around. Relapses happen, but every time you try to change for the better, you get a little bit closer to success. Mad respect for Shia.
This. I read this somewhere and it stuck in my head; Going into rehab is like auditioning for a play. With every audition you get closer to the big stage of beeing and STAYING sober.
Don't project that on him. You're not God. You don't know what his path is....
What if he read this? In a moment of doubt or struggle? Just be quiet.
He Is my spirit animal
He's a real person. Genuine, hurt, but healing. ❤
Shia is a real one. You can hear the pain and regret in his voice.
Soul love is deep. Real. Beautiful.
To know that she brought you through a hard place in your life and stood by you... that is love at its finest. She was able to remind you of being in a better place, even if you both shared only a smile... that love is real, and deep, and rare. So touched by this, as you are such a great actor, how others have spoken of your dedication to the roles you play. Life is a process in which moments like these present themselves, and we heal.❤
so well said brother 👏
mia really is an angel. he’s very lucky to have her and it’s lovely he knows that and embraces it ❤
Who is Mia? Is she a famous actress? He said she was prepping for a movie
@@lilpuddin1560 bruh his wife and baby mama
@@lilpuddin1560 yup, she’s one of the favorites for the Oscar this year for the movie Pearl.
@@lilpuddin1560 mia goth
woman beater and abuser
I’ve always like Shia and I’m so happy for him knowing he went and got the help he needed. This video brought me to tears.
I love Shia, made a Shia shirt.... I think you'll like it, link on my page
one of the best persons of our generation! You are loved Shia. I wish i could be an ear for you to vent to another brother when you need. I feel your pain so very personally. My life has been a compilation of train wrecks as well. Love you brother. You are strong, you are worthy, you deserve the best.
I watched this twice and replayed this over and over again. This truly hit my soul. I cry bc I can relate. The realist shit I’ve heard. Will continue to watch this. Thank u for sharing this, 💯 % love for Shia. That’s some hard shit to share. Pure
For the record shai, this is being looked at as very brave, selfless and honest. True human. True love. True man. Big love shai
Dang this was deep…much love to him. You never know what a person reallly goes through.
One of the most beautiful love stories ever told
After being betrayed so many times, whenever I give up on finding love, I come and watch this video. It really makes me smile and gives me hope.
To be this vulnerable is human .
this right here is why money doesnt matter.
the most valuable things in life is things money cant buy.
appreciate the people who show up for you.
I love this, I had that girl and lost her due to my own selfishness, to this day after almost 5 years I still haven’t spoken to another girl. I think I messed up something that was supposed to happen. Thanks Shia.
u beat her too?
We in this together gang. 4 years and counting. How do we keep goin forward dude
Me too man, she comes to me In my dreams all the time that’s the only time I can see and talk to her..I’ve felt the same way like it was supposed to happen and it’s happening in another timeline or universe right now
Don't worry brother me too but just an advice learn to love yourself first because if you don't love yourself no one will
@@Haneul2163 self love is so important. How can you love others without loving yourself first?
Once you love yourself, you see yourself in others.
Big love to all you brothers struggling ❤
"Men live lives of quiet desperation"
I absolutely love this honest important conversation. Love this I went through addiction & alcoholism and I went on and kept going on the better path and Im so glad I gave this path a chance. There's no empty hole anymore. I've gotten more than I deserve say the least. I love you whoever is reading this. I pray you find unexplainable thankfulness 🙏 you are worth it even when you don't believe it.
I heard this podcast after eye surgery. I’m laying down temporarily blind with tears coming down eyes listening to real ones. This was the best conversation I have ever heard.
Shia is one of those few famous people I feel like I grew up with personally. He was everywhere in my childhood, I hope he’s finding peace now, it ain’t easy getting there when your head ends up like his. No matter where you’re from or what you’ve been through, we all feel depression the same. Pain is pain. And we all need at least one person before we go insane. All love!
His imperfections is what makes him so human.
This was so powerful! Healing isn’t linear, but so very happy that Shia has someone there for him in this and that is the power of love
I think it’s hard for people to understand that there are things in our past that continue to affect us in the present. My husband had so much in past that haunted him, it caused so many problems with our lives, but I continued to try to understand and be there for him. Now 25 years later, I’m glad we made it through everything together ❤
Thank you very much for this share! Much peace and love to you! 🕊
This brought me to tears. As an addict, to the people we love, I'm so sorry for all the things were not, but we love with all we are and couldn't do it without you.
This really hit my soul so honest and not ashamed of what people might think it's his truth I really respect a person that can admit what they really feel he deserves to be loved for his heart I wish nothing but the best for you Shia
the piano music helps for sure
@@Willfitzcomedybuddy why do you see someone being vulnerable and feel inclined to hate on someone trying to be better? someone admitting to their wrongs. every human being has made bad choice before.
I am happy he finally came around and saved himself, and also that he opened his eyes and realised what he did and how that woman really was and is by his side.
Wtf are you saying
thank you Shia for sharing your tears with us, you're a strong man for opening up like that
Im going through this right now.. dam.. god bless everyone, don't ever stop praying even when you feel there no hope. Stay Resilient..
"the ministery of presence is sometimes the only thing you need to offer " 4:45
Shia’s a real one … definitely one of my favorite people. Love how vulnerable and transparent he is. I felt it when he said sometimes all a person needs is someone’s presence @4:40 . Life can feel very lonely sometimes.
Man, this guy, from Even Steven to Transformers, and to all the shit he has been through until this podcast, my admiration to him is sky soaring. He's having a breakthrough and I believe he'll make himself a respectably recognition from all over the world. God bless him.
Shia Labeouf is one of my FAVORITE people to see on a movie. If hes there you just know that shit is gonna be FIRE! highly respect this guy. Remember we are only human Shia.
my favorite actor, made a Shia shirt. Link on my page, hope you check it out
Shia. Love never dies. You are worthy. Keep fighting. My man has ptsd and put me through hell too but i still love him. Just remember true love never dies
My husband seen this video 2 weeks before he passed suddenly from pancreatitis... He looked at me and said you stuck by me through addiction and I know I hurt u... But u showed me the love I never had before and I got sober and now we have started a new life together and I feel free ❤️
I’ve loved Shia since even Stevens. Life hasn’t been perfect. But he’s shown you can grow. Love you man
Shia...this is the most beautiful I've ever seen you, sir. Mad respect for the work you've done. MOST do not ever find their way through that kind of turmoil. Even people dealing with less of it have a hard time finding the REAL and the JOY and YOU have found both. I wish you many more blessings.
He's understood so many things over time, i think he's very underrated as a Human overall
I wish I could hug her . I hope she’s happy being treated the way she deserves . Much love wherever you are ! 🤞🏽
the way he shares so unfiltered is amazing
The best interview I've ever seen!
Beautiful, just beautiful. If you’re going through something right now I pray for your healing and I pray you find your peace🙏🏼
This was the best one on one podcast/interview I’ve ever seen,hit so deep because I relate
Shia is a cool guy. Wish im a happy life. Salute man. 🤜🏼🤛🏼
Literally brought a tear to my eyes . Bro spoke from the heart!
Man sharpens man like iron sharpens iron and watching Shia pour out his feelings and his heart touched my heart so much because I’ve been there. I’m so glad i watched this 🙏❤️