What's the BEST Relationship ADVICE You've Ever Gotten?

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

Комментарии • 38

  • @Zoë-u9f9x
    @Zoë-u9f9x 8 дней назад +419

    “In a relationship, it should be 60/40. Both people should be trying to give that 60.”- a happy couple

    • @Leylani-v6i
      @Leylani-v6i 8 дней назад +15

      End is the total ends up being more than a 100%? That's just wonderful

    • @larissa_eva4
      @larissa_eva4 7 дней назад +5

      ​@@Leylani-v6i key word "trying"

  • @isa_bru
    @isa_bru 10 дней назад +772

    This advice made me stop resenting my boyfriend. He needs me right now, so the balance shifted once again, and that's ok.

    • @joeyism
      @joeyism 9 дней назад +20

      U r a great person. Please never break up.

    • @Artemis-n7s
      @Artemis-n7s 8 дней назад +14

      @@joeyism break ups happen. It's not always gonna work out and that's ok, but this was this persons sign to be better for their boyfriend, so let's not bring up breakups.

  • @angy_AJ
    @angy_AJ 8 дней назад +106

    This advice can backfire, never stay in a relationship where you're 100% for too long, they'll take for granted and start treating you like a toy

    • @Envi-jm8mi
      @Envi-jm8mi 8 дней назад +5

      Some people let themselves get treated poorly over long periods of time and then wonder why they're feeling unfulfilled and frustrated with their lives.

    • @Stella-l3i1v
      @Stella-l3i1v 6 дней назад +1

      Fr

  • @redaita-stories
    @redaita-stories 11 дней назад +140

    Indeed he is!

  • @Envi-jm8mi
    @Envi-jm8mi 8 дней назад +12

    That's fine, what isn't fine is when one partner continuously sacrifices more and more of themselves while the other one can, but chooses not to.

  • @LilyBaker-p4s
    @LilyBaker-p4s 11 дней назад +112

    The best dad in the world😢

  • @Edgarrelectricdreamss
    @Edgarrelectricdreamss 10 дней назад +61

    Something ive heard is that relationships should be 60/40, but both people want to be the 60%.

  • @flameburn4192
    @flameburn4192 9 дней назад +10

    50/50 split is stupid, it’s 100/100 everyone gives as much as they can when they can. The second you start dividing based on results and not capabilities is the second you should break up

  • @luckybull8025
    @luckybull8025 7 дней назад +1

    This is great advice, just dont let them take advantage of your 100%. Some people are selfish like that and dont deserve your 100%.

  • @conn8500
    @conn8500 6 дней назад +1

    The internet needs to learn this

  • @JimNoltie
    @JimNoltie 9 дней назад +7

    Always be 💯 💯 both of you should be

  • @ValiantStranger12
    @ValiantStranger12 7 дней назад

    Balance isn't a place it's a process 🙃🙃🙃

  • @harsh_agr7
    @harsh_agr7 4 дня назад

    If we are keeping a record of each and every thing we do for each other then it's not a relationship anymore it's like a business transaction

  • @Shadowy_2
    @Shadowy_2 5 дней назад

    I completely disagree but 50/50 split is what you should go for sometimes you're going to do more of course but they split a responsibilities should be what you go for especially if you both work if you're a stay-at-home parent that takes care of kids however you should try to do 70 to 30 just my take on it as a married man

  • @Atomic_fart1000
    @Atomic_fart1000 8 дней назад +1

    Never go 50-50 always go 100-100

  • @Gamingwiththedog
    @Gamingwiththedog 7 дней назад

    I heard something similar and it’s make sure that the two of you always make a hundred if she can only give 20 give 80 and if you can only give 30 she’ll give 70

  • @WyattsshadoW
    @WyattsshadoW 8 дней назад

    When I’m a lying competition and my opponent is a Redditor

  • @ruhb5475
    @ruhb5475 8 дней назад

    It sounds like shree Devi's speech in English vinglish film

  • @chuckthebeef
    @chuckthebeef 10 дней назад +5

    damn Alvin I didn't know you got married

  • @Tomdejonko.
    @Tomdejonko. 10 дней назад +21

    That is still a 50/50 split just not 50/50 a day

    • @isa_bru
      @isa_bru 10 дней назад +15

      It isn't. If you keep count, you'll see it isn't. It's never an equal balance.

    • @mahibhimani
      @mahibhimani 10 дней назад +3

      ​@isa_bru it isn't SUPPOSED to be equal balance

    • @Vivian-qw3eg
      @Vivian-qw3eg 10 дней назад +3

      ​@@mahibhimani some people are need those support 24/7 bc of stuff like disabilities, so it *cant* be 50/50.

    • @mahibhimani
      @mahibhimani 10 дней назад +1

      @@Vivian-qw3eg That's what I said tho😭

    • @AnmEEE-e6g
      @AnmEEE-e6g 9 дней назад +1

      @@isa_bru I think they mean that it evens out over time give or take

  • @handongfeng
    @handongfeng 10 дней назад +3

    Not 50/50. 60/40 and occasionally 100/0

  • @lorddaraken7568
    @lorddaraken7568 7 дней назад

    I Hate the nasally AI Voice, but it is a nice lesson.

  • @Bluewizard55
    @Bluewizard55 9 дней назад

    God damn how old is OP?

    • @WyattsshadoW
      @WyattsshadoW 8 дней назад

      It’s obviously fake there’s no way someone who’s probably at least 64 is using Reddit let alone talking about his life