12 steps to Self Forgiveness: a guide for Black women

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  • @labelle9921
    @labelle9921 2 года назад +37

    Not gone lie. This struck a chord. I had to actively force myself to keep listening, cuz something within me did not want to hear this message. But I NEEDED to. Some potent medicine here. ASE'! I receive it.

  • @azmomconnection
    @azmomconnection 4 месяца назад +1

    Great. My son is 10 and asked me how to forgive self about a month ago. Haven't found a video to share with him until now ❤

  • @natesamadhi33
    @natesamadhi33 2 года назад +28

    Halfway through the livestream, I'm already feeling this in my soul...lowkey making me tear up. Look:
    I'm someone who did ugly ass things in the past. I constantly look back & wish I never did certain things.
    I was able to apologize & reconcile with some people. Other people, even though I don't know where they are, I still haven't forgiven myself for situations with them.
    Partly why I haven't fully forgiven myself yet is because I know I haven't fully developed the spirit I need to be who I want to be.
    I don't want to repeat those same stupid ass mistakes, I don't want to make empty promises, and I don't want to make those manipulative ass apologies I used to do yeeears ago. I'm tired of it & I want to mean what I say & what I promise. That's why I'm going so hard on a spiritual journey now..
    Ironic, I'm always encouraging people to free their heart, yet I'm struggling to free my own.
    But you made me realize there is simple groundwork that I'm not doing..and certain things I'm doing that are actually motivated by pride. You truly changing lives, whether you know it or not.

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +6

      @TheDarkNate thank you so much for always being so vulnerable and open. Thank you so much for sharing this!!! 💛💛💛💛💛 THIS is really helpful. Seriously. You're doing great. I'm not just saying that. To even have that ability and the capacity for that self reflection... Beautiful. 🌺 Your honesty is FREEING.

    • @lesleywillis3650
      @lesleywillis3650 2 года назад +5

      You are truly setting yourself free and doing the work. This was very refreshing to read. As someone who has been hurt by so many people who I will never get an apology from, you start to tell yourself that people just don’t care and don’t care how they treated you. But reading this lets me know that people actually do change and can feel remorse. It’s gives me hope that not all people are bad so thanks for that. And even though I don’t know you I am so proud of you. I know when we are changing we feel like we aren’t doing enough but you’re doing amazing. I’m routing for you.

    • @natesamadhi33
      @natesamadhi33 2 года назад +2

      @@lesleywillis3650 & idk why, bit this comment made me emotional out of nowhere.

  • @zoizwi8409
    @zoizwi8409 Год назад +3

    Shame is a very ugly feeling.

  • @sunnyflower1979
    @sunnyflower1979 Год назад +1

    I wish more ppl would apologize instead of dismissing and diluting what happened. Its hard to heal when ppl deny everything and act like stuff didn't happen. Plus they have to carry the lies around forever.

  • @natesamadhi33
    @natesamadhi33 2 года назад +9

    Oh yeah, this is divinely timed

  • @Missjewelz1
    @Missjewelz1 2 года назад +11

    For me it was discovering my C-ptsd. All my shame is wrapped up in it. Now I have to guide myself through healing now that I know my core issue.

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +4

      Yeeeeeeeeeees! I LOVE that you are even this self aware. This is the first step and it's glorious. I'm wishing you much love and healing, Beautiful! ☺️🌺💛

    • @Missjewelz1
      @Missjewelz1 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much. Your content is healing and helpful 💛

  • @royalrayel8036
    @royalrayel8036 Год назад +2

    This is the one part of my healing journey that’s taking the most time. In my situation i wasn’t the villain, but my fault was in not being informed. I would’ve acted more responsibly. I did apologize, and I wasn’t expecting anything about. And when they ghosted me. It’s been hard, the narrative I tell myself sometimes is that, I’m a bad person who’s possibly ruined my life and the life of someone I cared about. And they think the worst of me.
    And I think it could be hard to forgive myself because there’s a sense of rejection mixed into the shame.

  • @hollidaylight7762
    @hollidaylight7762 2 года назад +9

    Such a gentle and necessary message.Gratitude.

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +1

      Much love and joy to you! 😊💛

  • @ladyados
    @ladyados 2 года назад +8

    Can you create journals? I'd definitely purchase.

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +5

      Oooooh! That is actually a lovely idea! I will start brainstorming! 💛🌺🌻 Thank you so much!!!

  • @ayoq9956
    @ayoq9956 2 года назад +5

    Alecia this is only the beginning for you! The magnitude of your gift is incredible, you are called to touch the world. And I mean the WORLD, like EVERYBODY!

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      Oh wow! 🥹💛 I am HONORED!!! HUMBLED!!! That is REALLY generous of you. It does my heart good to know that folks are inspired and helped by what I share. 🌺 I'm so grateful!

  • @lesleywillis3650
    @lesleywillis3650 2 года назад +8

    Definitely working on forgiving and loving myself. Love this

  • @naye5178
    @naye5178 2 года назад +8

    This was the "tent TEDtalk". Much gratitude for this sis🥰

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +2

      I LOVE THAAAAAAAAAT! "Tent Ted Talk" ☺️💛🌺 shout out to you! 💛💛💛 Thank you so much! Much love and joy to you!

    • @naye5178
      @naye5178 2 года назад

      @@AleciaRenece 😘😘😘😘

  • @teviitev4971
    @teviitev4971 2 года назад

    Girl I absolutely love that you do these in your tent! I am a black girl that loves to camp and this puts a smile to my face. 🥰🥰🥰

    • @sunnyflower1979
      @sunnyflower1979 Год назад

      I love camping too, 3 times a yr. Cant find other sistas to share this with 😞

  • @Bianca-pe2px
    @Bianca-pe2px 2 года назад +8

    🙌🏾❤️ Needed! So timely! Patiently waiting 🙏🏾

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +2

      Awwwwww! Yaaaaay! I'm really excited. I really hope this is helpful! 😊🌺💛

    • @Bianca-pe2px
      @Bianca-pe2px 2 года назад +1

      @@AleciaRenece always is 💪🏾🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾 Thank you!!

  • @slowerpaceembrace
    @slowerpaceembrace Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this video! I've been feeling behind lately and recognized some of what has been holding me back are things I haven't forgiven myself for so I could move forward. This has given me a lot to reflect on. Thank you! 💜

  • @imdifferent7294
    @imdifferent7294 2 года назад +10

    I love your channel girl. ❤
    This video is so needed.

    • @natesamadhi33
      @natesamadhi33 2 года назад +1

      For real though. This video damn near moved me to tears (maybe not everybody would feel this strongly, but I know I needed it. )

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +3

      Awwwww! Thank you so much! I'm so glad this was helpful! That makes my heart happy. I feel like I'm on mission. Thank you so much. 💛☺️🌺🫂 Your words encourage me so much!

  • @selenac1295
    @selenac1295 2 года назад +4

    This is so essential. A lesson I am currently learning. Thank you.

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      Yeeeeeeeeeees! I'm so glad this is timely for you. You deserve this! ☺️🌺💛 Much love and joy to you!

  • @tracyminkins3112
    @tracyminkins3112 2 года назад +1

    This is real talk; thank you for this timely word.

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      You're so welcome! 🌻🌺💛🫂

    • @tracyminkins3112
      @tracyminkins3112 2 года назад

      @@AleciaRenece Are you still traveling I’m working on a shuttle bus it’s my dream but I fear being alone any advice?

  • @beautifuldreamer8803
    @beautifuldreamer8803 2 года назад +6

    I LOVED this video! Thank you. 💝🫂

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      You're so welcome!!! 🫂🌺💛☺️

  • @Ami_Hime
    @Ami_Hime 2 года назад +3

    This definitely for me...

  • @shacaarinykole400
    @shacaarinykole400 2 года назад

    I’d love to hear your perspective on being abandoned/abandonment issues. Your videos help me a lot and currently i am ready to tackle my abandonment issues but I just don’t know where to start.

  • @llorzz
    @llorzz 2 года назад +3

    i'm sooo glad i found your channel! you're such a gem💞💞

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      I'm so glad you're here!!! ☺️💛🌺

  • @notthatvashti8127
    @notthatvashti8127 2 года назад

    Thank you, Alecia! Powerful message!

  • @chillmaya
    @chillmaya Год назад

    I love the tent design!

  • @blacdiamond_tv
    @blacdiamond_tv 2 года назад

    Going through this now!!!
    Releasing and healing Thank you Queen for the reminder🙏🏾💕💋

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! Much love and joy to you!

  • @narcisoanasui246
    @narcisoanasui246 2 года назад +2

    Your videos always know what I’m going through. I love your channel so much ❤️

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +1

      Awwwww! Yaaaaaaaaaaaay! That makes me SO HAPPY. Much love and joy to you! ☺️💛🌺

  • @tesscorley2084
    @tesscorley2084 2 года назад +2

    💗🙏🏾💗waiting 💗🙏🏾💗

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад +1

      Yaaaaaay! I really hope it's helpful.

  • @itallcomesoutintheend7516
    @itallcomesoutintheend7516 2 года назад +1

    New sub!!

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      Welcome!!! ☺️💛👋🏽🌺 I'm so glad you're here!!!

  • @carlawalker4671
    @carlawalker4671 2 года назад +1

    🌻

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      Carlaaaaaaaaaa!!!! Hi! Thank you so muuuch! 🌻🌺💛

  • @34missgreen
    @34missgreen 2 года назад +1

    🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      💛💛💛💛💛🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

  • @marissapriceheals
    @marissapriceheals 2 года назад +1

    Alecia, thank you for this!! Message received 🤎

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece  2 года назад

      Marissaaaaaa!!! 👋🏽☺️💛 Hiiiiiiiii! You're so sweet. I'm so glad this was helpful!