The Mistake Young People Make When Picking a Wife/Husband | Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @floquence
    @floquence Месяц назад +44

    "Once you choose the person you want to marry, you have automatically chosen the outcome of that marriage" Thank you sir 🔥🎨

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 Месяц назад +25

    This man speaks the facts with humility and is happy/content to see her shine and he even facilitates this through ministry. Good Stuff!!

  • @prophetessonita
    @prophetessonita Месяц назад +9

    Don't fall in love, grow in love. ❤

  • @tetelesia6662
    @tetelesia6662 Месяц назад +16

    Service isn't only within church....it can be at the work place as Paul says for servants to serve their masters as unto God.

  • @japhetkimutai519
    @japhetkimutai519 Месяц назад +57

    Wow! You should have a relationship before starting a relationship. Look out for people`s relationship with God before you come, you are not going to save anyone.

  • @NgiforSandra
    @NgiforSandra Месяц назад +7

    Pastor K is a very wise and knowledgeable man. I love how he spills the wisdom with humility and fun. God bless you Sir because the things you've said are so true

  • @samuelosuman6843
    @samuelosuman6843 Месяц назад +6

    Marriage is day to day Service

  • @Christ-Aroma17
    @Christ-Aroma17 12 дней назад

    Oh.. 'the way I served Satan commitedly, I'm gna serve God' 🙌🙌

  • @Freedom20255
    @Freedom20255 Месяц назад +3

    Let me share this story. We went to Mcdonal’s and one our church members ordered food. The guy is a bit huge. So after the order a damsel which is a member of our church came to him and said,”let me know when the food is ready I will go and get it for you. She showed great understanding. I am now interested in her. I want to know her..😅

  • @ReejaytheShevoress
    @ReejaytheShevoress 7 дней назад

    I have become your follower you n Mum share insightful facts

  • @ChildofGod315
    @ChildofGod315 Месяц назад +20

    Lord Jesus I keep faith even as I struggle as a single mother. Both of my sons are special needs children. They require so much from me yet I know I AM BLESSED to be their mother. Lord Jesus give me strength as I struggle providing the basic necessities like clothing and groceries. Lord Jesus please continue to carry me through this difficult time help me provide for my children.💕💕

    • @sundaychidi1979
      @sundaychidi1979 Месяц назад

      Do understand what you are doing and saying here? Just tell the world to help and this your moving up and down talk

    • @KingdomFinancierAcademy
      @KingdomFinancierAcademy Месяц назад +3

      There’s nothing wrong with venting…God comfort you and provide your needs!

    • @adeniranabimbola6728
      @adeniranabimbola6728 Месяц назад

      The Lord will perfect everything that concerns you,ijn

    • @maameamapoku2265
      @maameamapoku2265 Месяц назад +1

      😂1.They must be in Christ.
      2.They must have a good character.
      3.You need to have friendship with the person before starting a relationship.

    • @ikponmwosaosaghae1861
      @ikponmwosaosaghae1861 Месяц назад

      Do not marry whom you love. You love whom you marry. Do not marry your friend. When you are married, you make your husband or wife, your friend.

  • @simbarasheblessingchoto2700
    @simbarasheblessingchoto2700 Месяц назад +8

    Thank you for this teaching

  • @lollyteestitches8755
    @lollyteestitches8755 Месяц назад +27

    Marriage is Service.
    You say I do, but you don’t want to do😂

  • @johndavid7459
    @johndavid7459 Месяц назад +9

    Pastor i am now 40 and still single never been married,proposed to a girl that is draining all my energy hoping in marriage things will get better, 2 yrs now dating her has been nothing but hell, been scared of breaking up and moving on because i fear hurting her, trust me this has never been Godly but listening to you has opened me to the danger i was slowly going into, but thank God my eyes are open. But tell me can i ever find true love, been a born again christain but now dont even know where i stand. Sir i really need help in this area can i really find love at this age?

    • @kingayortradings
      @kingayortradings Месяц назад +8

      I hope Pastor would reply but my brother, you can find love again, you have to trust God on this...... First retrace your step back to God, solidify your relationship with Him and get involved in service... God prepares and connects His best with His best.....at the right time, He will connect you.....

    • @okumagift5040
      @okumagift5040 Месяц назад +3

      Take it to God in prayers he will surely guide you ok?
      and as for finding true love you will find if you put your mind to it
      And I will be here if you need someone to talk to as a friend okay?

    • @gbengadavid6840
      @gbengadavid6840 Месяц назад +3

      BE WHAT YOU SEEK OUT IN YOUR PROSPECTIVE SPOUSE. YOU ATTRACT YOUR KIND. FIND GOD, KNOW YOUR PLACE IN HIM. LEARN ABOUT WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF, THIS WILL ENABLE YOU TO TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO LOVE. LISTEN TO ALL PASTOR K MESSAGES. DATE WITH AN INTENTION, DO RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU ARE READY FOR MARRAGE , WITH SOMEONE WHOSE DESIRE AND GOAL IS SAME (MARRAIGE) DONT DATE INDEFINATELY. AND YES THERE IS SOMEBODY OUT THERE FOR YOU. TRUE LOVE IS CHRIST LOVE,SO IF YOU AND THE ONE YOU INTEND TO MARRY KNOWS AND UNDERSTAND WHAT GOD SAYS ABOUT LOVE AND YOU BOTH LOVE GOD,LOVING EACH OTHER AS CO CHILDREN OF GOD WONT BE HARD. GOD BLESS YOU.

    • @MATHCUBICLE
      @MATHCUBICLE Месяц назад +1

      If you go into the next relationship with this mindset, you'll still have the same experience. Even though you love her and you're scared of losing her, don't let her know, if you do, she'll see you as being desperate and weak and can easily manipulate you and your emotions.

    • @jideosuntuyi814
      @jideosuntuyi814 Месяц назад +1

      Find God sir. You missed it when you left God.... God is with you,close to you and willing to help. Break that hell, it won't lead to a peaceful marriage .... A peaceful friendship will lead to a peaceful relationship and a peaceful marriage

  • @sholaadeshina7790
    @sholaadeshina7790 12 дней назад

    Wow! What a teaching!

  • @richhy-zionfrancis910
    @richhy-zionfrancis910 22 дня назад

    Is true and fact,marry who is going your diretion,marry who you know that know what u know

  • @henrymelchizedek
    @henrymelchizedek 22 дня назад +1

    Thanks pastor K 🙌🙌🙌

  • @pach7282
    @pach7282 Месяц назад

    this is so good! we need the full video🤧🤧

  • @franciscahmwiinga
    @franciscahmwiinga Месяц назад +1

    Insightful. Thank you

  • @BlessingBenson-ul5fm
    @BlessingBenson-ul5fm Месяц назад +1

    God blsss you..sir..

  • @sir_kurah
    @sir_kurah Месяц назад +2

    This 💯
    Thank you P K

  • @buhlemkhwanazi9366
    @buhlemkhwanazi9366 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much Pastor Sir 🙏🏽🎉

  • @emmanuelwilson504
    @emmanuelwilson504 14 дней назад

    Good evening sir, God bless you greatly Amen!
    Sir, i want to ask a question
    Can one marry his grandma's cousins daughter..they are christians and they both love each other.

  • @gabrielsundayabraham896
    @gabrielsundayabraham896 Месяц назад

    Am blessed

  • @ayomide.a
    @ayomide.a Месяц назад +1

    God bless you for this sir

  • @fumilolameya9998
    @fumilolameya9998 Месяц назад +1

    God bless you the more 😊😊

  • @Adeola_Adeyemi
    @Adeola_Adeyemi Месяц назад +1

    Thank you sir.

  • @ajomiwechijioke3545
    @ajomiwechijioke3545 Месяц назад +3

    Beautiful women everywhere - No virtue anymore

  • @angelamartekimarkwei8608
    @angelamartekimarkwei8608 Месяц назад +1

    Very good advice!

  • @Dhammilicious
    @Dhammilicious Месяц назад

    This is so deep

  • @samuelsadiq674
    @samuelsadiq674 17 дней назад

    I should have a relationship before starting a relationship. As a guy what if the lady you have relationship with is older than you?

  • @oviepuegeren9945
    @oviepuegeren9945 Месяц назад +1

    so brilliant

  • @samuelidakwo2521
    @samuelidakwo2521 Месяц назад

    Thank you Sir

  • @OccasionalSingleUser-ne4nl
    @OccasionalSingleUser-ne4nl Месяц назад

    What about virtuous men?

  • @martinsbenedicta7003
    @martinsbenedicta7003 Месяц назад

    So educative ❤

  • @Divy-Merc18
    @Divy-Merc18 Месяц назад +1

    Love this Sir.

  • @joanoluebubechukwu4283
    @joanoluebubechukwu4283 Месяц назад

    Pls how can i get some of the marriage books

  • @eniolamary5579
    @eniolamary5579 Месяц назад +3

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @kinguzor3802
    @kinguzor3802 Месяц назад

    Lovely 😍

  • @ajayiemmanuel3190
    @ajayiemmanuel3190 Месяц назад +1

    Marriage is service....Have you learnt how to serve in anyway especially in God's kingdom

  • @LitLifeWithChar
    @LitLifeWithChar Месяц назад +2

    Please speak slower for all the 🇺🇸’s who love watching you lol ❤

    • @oghene-elohoholy5336
      @oghene-elohoholy5336 Месяц назад +1

      You can use the playback speed feature to reduce the voice speed. Just click the settings icon, you'll see the feature there.

  • @Etornam_vlogs
    @Etornam_vlogs Месяц назад +3

    ❤❤

  • @itodomonday
    @itodomonday Месяц назад +7

    You should have a relationship before starting a relationship 👈🏻

  • @maloni_c
    @maloni_c Месяц назад +2

    Number Five 😂😂

  • @victoryomoake4282
    @victoryomoake4282 Месяц назад +1

    Fourth 😅😅❤❤🎉

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 Месяц назад +3

    First person here

  • @adedejitemidayo4107
    @adedejitemidayo4107 Месяц назад +3

    I have a question Pastor Kingsley.
    What if this guy clicks on every part. The Spirit, Soul and body. He ticks everything, but you are still not sure. He is very good, but you are not just convinced within. Our Values align, but i am still not at peace within. Please what could be the cause?

    • @KingdomFinancierAcademy
      @KingdomFinancierAcademy Месяц назад +9

      I’ll humbly say to keep praying so God reveals His perfect will given that not every good bro would be match for every good sis…also try to do more introspection than inspection! God bless.

    • @dorothychombo5202
      @dorothychombo5202 Месяц назад +1

      I'm in this boat too

    • @ChinonsoMedia
      @ChinonsoMedia Месяц назад +3

      One of the ways God speaks to us when we have the Holy Spirit actively working in us is through trouble and peace in the spirit. There is something wrong somewhere,as you keep praying, check and make your own findings about this person.

    • @ChinonsoMedia
      @ChinonsoMedia Месяц назад +2

      ​@@dorothychombo5202 One of the ways God speaks to us when we have the Holy Spirit actively working in us is through trouble and peace in the spirit. There is something wrong somewhere,as you keep praying, check and make your own findings about this person.

    • @dorothychombo5202
      @dorothychombo5202 Месяц назад

      Thank you thats very helpful

  • @alasiayomide322
    @alasiayomide322 Месяц назад +2

    Second 😂

  • @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te
    @ISAACNEWTON-jn7te Месяц назад

    We have itching ears in this generation, just leave us to face our choice 😅

  • @ozoaniekefaith8236
    @ozoaniekefaith8236 Месяц назад +2

    Third 😂

  • @michelanthonio3294
    @michelanthonio3294 Месяц назад +2

    It is hard for me to believe no rude word has come out of her mouth.Too hard to believe 🤐

    • @oluchifaith12
      @oluchifaith12 Месяц назад +3

      There are people like that. My elder sister married a pastor and she's also a pastor.
      My sister isn't someone that insults. I lived with her for some years and they never quarrelled or fought each other.
      It's possible to work on your character through the help of the Holy Spirit before marriage.

    • @krayonnesilva390
      @krayonnesilva390 24 дня назад

      You have to believe it. Majority of females are rash with their tongue but there are also many who are not.

    • @emezueaniakor938
      @emezueaniakor938 18 дней назад

      Its possible, i was in a five year relationship with a virtuous woman and no rude words ever

    • @chykedaniel185
      @chykedaniel185 17 дней назад

      Just like my close friend will say that "there is a certain amount of money a man will have, that it can only be fraud 😭" negative societal beliefs. Please let's be mindful of what will allow into our mind. It makes us believe it's impossible for good things to happen.

  • @Soulmateswithl
    @Soulmateswithl Месяц назад +3

    I'm tired of hearing that Jesus baby😂everybody is calling themselves that on Instagram.thank God pastor k is also seeing what I'm saying

  • @jademediacommunications
    @jademediacommunications 18 дней назад

    its really not the best when pastor kingsley focuses on the flaw only one group and does not focus on the other. He really needs to work on that. good sermon otherwise

    • @Therealneneh
      @Therealneneh 3 дня назад

      If you are wise you will know what applies to one applies to the other

    • @jademediacommunications
      @jademediacommunications 3 дня назад

      @Therealneneh please abstain from responding to comments if you wont do so in the most polite way possible. i said he should learn to split the sex he focuses on more, i watch pastor Kingsley a lot and i know he tends to focus MORE on what women should do and not men, maybe its a mistake based on inherent gender bais and not intentional, thats unknown. My comment was what he might tend focus on, not your personal opinion on how it should be received or applied. Maybe you should learn to understand the context before deeming yourself fit to determine whether someone is "wise" or not. Good day.

  • @sundaychidi1979
    @sundaychidi1979 Месяц назад +2

    Stopped talking nonsense if God gives you grace to have a good marriage if you have one don't make people how falls victim of Bad marriage to start fighting more nonsense, is all your marriage this and marriage that a gospel of Jesus if I have my in Nigeria your so called church is the first I will close nonsense causing problem in people's homes in the name of mad of god's

    • @oliuwafunmilayocomfortjose4193
      @oliuwafunmilayocomfortjose4193 Месяц назад

      Please you an Encoun with Jesus.

    • @meeknesstomsongangata5761
      @meeknesstomsongangata5761 Месяц назад +5

      If only you know how, us others have been helped with this man's teaching it would be better to be silent with your Gospel of Christ as you claim

    • @ooloturex
      @ooloturex Месяц назад

      Sometimes, close your mouth so you will let the world know you don't have sense old man 😂

    • @Missxplorer
      @Missxplorer Месяц назад

      Keep quiet if u don’t know what to say
      Bla!Bla!Bla mtcheeew

    • @Attha-w7t
      @Attha-w7t Месяц назад +1

      There’s grace for everyone bros to choose right. Stay calm ..

  • @samuelsadiq674
    @samuelsadiq674 17 дней назад

    I should have a relationship before starting a relationship. As a guy what if the lady you have relationship with is older than you?

  • @FavourPrincess-xv7nl
    @FavourPrincess-xv7nl Месяц назад

    This is a message✨🙌👏

  • @ChikaJennifer-bq7kj
    @ChikaJennifer-bq7kj Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @Cscbeautylounge
    @Cscbeautylounge Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤