We stupidly assume that everyone is tolerant and happy for other peoples success. We forget that as quilting covers such a huge part of society it includes hateful, hurtful, intolerant people too. Some of the comments that can be seen on social media are downright mean. It’s not surprising that you reacted the way you did, when someone attacks you for no apparent reason you want to hit back. The older I get the better I am getting at walking away from things until I can be calm and not hit back in the heat of the moment but it’s not easy. You have come a long way and unfortunately learned the hard way how awful people can be. I watched as you spiralled without fully realising what you were being subjected to, I’m sorry I wasn’t more supportive. The best revenge you can have is to heal and be successful despite their best efforts.
Seeing your pain is heartbreaking. Your natural sweetness and joy always shone through on your videos. I know some people can be very cruel. Let the love in your heart shine through and to h*** with those who tear others apart. ❤
I legit don't see where you went wrong in your feelings or emotions. But I haven't seen every video. You have been an amazing source for me in so many ways. I appreciate you!!
I have been following you since before your first fabric line, which was absolutely beautiful! I am proud of you for being you, keep on pushing forward! There are far to many haters in this world that dont even deserve to breathe. I am sending you so much love ❤️
Glad you are working thru this mess. Sorry for all the grief you get from close minded people. Make no apologies, be yourself and live your best life. You are a talented and creative genius that deserves respect from everyone. Happy to see new videos. 😍💓💜💙💚💛
Massive, massive support and love to you for standing up to the bigotry. Please never apologise for your feelings and for taking all the steps you need to allow you to heal. You are a strong and wonderful person who deserves their place in this world. Remember that the majority of people are caring and loving but sadly, the hateful minority are often the most vocal. Stay you and stay strong. Sending love from Scotland 🏴❤️🏳️🌈
I miss you and I wish the best for you. I miss all the enthusiasm that you always had for whatever you were doing, even when you got the new shelving/storage for your sewing area or when you got the new sewing machine or when you made the curtain thing for Helena. Yes, I have missed you. Sending Light and Love to you. 🙏❤🙏
This video is the truth of your journey and I respect you even more for your honesty about where your are as a person. I've been a viewer for a very very long time and never really post on anyone's videos because of haters so I get you. I think you are right, you need to start your own business platform where your creations, designs, patterns and tutorials can be expressed and shared. There are SO SO many creators like us that really need to have you out there designing and inspiring.... Domestic Creations online store would be over the top fantastic ! 💜
I’ve been watching your clips on Facebook, which took me to the Bargello, which took me to this one on your channel here. I am blown away by what you have been through and how you said it should be about making joy when you sew and create. That is what comes through. I had no idea what your story was until now. I’m so sorry that you had to suffer through this. Thank you for surviving and thriving and sharing your gifts with us. We are in your corner! Your transparency and vulnerability is a sign of strength. ❤🌈❤️
I see a beautiful and caring soul with incredible sewing talent. I deeply appreciate your kindness and sharing your talent in videos and tutorials that have been so helpful. Sending lots of love and wishing you strong support in your business.
Certain characters just hate. It’s their insecurities and jealous of others success. It them whom need to sort out their attitudes. Shame, most of us love your channel and what you’ve achieved. ❤ please keep us in your world Sending so much love xx
I am so sorry! I’m sorry for what you have had to deal with and I’m so sorry there is such hate in our world. Please know there are many out there that love you.❤️❤️❤️
Ok, just saw this. And I have to say that your choice to learn, to grow, and evolve for the greater good, including yourself, is both inspiring and SO needed. Quilting is an art form and the old guard should make room for ALL artists. Truly, hate is loud as you said. But it stands weak and has no power in the eyes of love and integrity. Hate cowers when the power of our love for ourselves and others is inclusive and generous. Thank you for working with accepting the power of your love and integrity, and in allowing all of us to support you.
I think you are a very brave, intelligent, and amazingly creative person. Thank you for sharing your story as I did not know the backstory. Your vision for your future will be supported by those who know your talent and love you for YOU! Looking forward to seeing new fabrics, notions and all things you make. I’m an Ally!
Thank you for putting words to your trauma. No one needs to be marginalized. I had discussions with quilters who were marginalized because of their skin color. I was jawdropped shocked! I had no idea that it occurred. Being a deaf quilter though, I get it. And in that vain, thank you for close captioning your videos. You'd be suprised how many still are not, even after asking them to enable close captioning. So a big thank you on your accessiblity. I am so sorry you had to go through that experience! You are fabulous! Should you get your own manufacturing peeps, and make your own fabric line, notions, the whole glorious thing, we'll be there. We'll support and we'll show up, and well you know we will buy fabric!!!!!!!!!
Bless yo heart🤗 I encourage you not to listen to the negative talk. Hateful people, if they do not change their ways, will receive due compensation in time. People will buy your stuff and support you. Quality cool stuff made for everyone is quality cool stuff. Know that you are precious and loved by many ❤
Hate is such an awful thing….don’t people have better things to do than f’ing around with others they see as different? I would stand up with you, stand beside you. I love your teaching style and your creative spirit! Thanks for being you! That you see yourself in your quilting era makes me so happy. XOXO finishing with a big ass hug!
You are loved... Our world is so fully of hate it's sad. Remember we can not control other people we are only in control of ourselves and how we respond. That's not saying we are not affected because we are. Do NOT let the hate or bad comments control you, you are in control, you can spread your joy to make someone else happy. That's your gift, spread your joy... I've learned how to block people on FB, I've Unjoined certain groups due to the negativity, NOPE, not going to let that into my life anymore. I'm a grown up now ( 65) and I can choose who I let into my life. Remember you are loved...Big hug...
Be yourself, surround yourself with positive folks and ignore the idiots who have nothing better to do with their time than trash others. Yes, they are jealous. We love you.
Did I know you created your own fabric?! Uh...yeah!! It's gorgeous! And vibrant! And speaks a myriad of languages! And even if you feel you can't embrace quilting again in a big way, please know....your designs, patterns, fabrics are each and all inspiring. Much love,
"That's the thing about hate. It's pretty loud" - This is one of the most profound things I've heard in a long time. Let that sink in. So much hate in our world right now....from every direction.
Just discovered you. Used to be a doll artist and thought I couldn’t be a quilter because adhd and I don’t value perfection. Since I realized I could be a quilter I’m constantly looking for unique interesting entertaining voices in the quilting media. Im really appreciating your voice and channel. Don’t let them squash you. I’m guessing for every hater there are 100s of lovers. But the lovers are quieter. Guessing that is what made me want to write this. Gotta turn up the love volume
Sending you love, hugs and quilty light! I’m getting ready to try fabric weaving for a guild challenge in which we are to choose Triad colors from the color wheel. Fingers crossed it turns out as cool as your weaving projects! 🖤🤎🩵🩷🤍❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Oh sweetie. I am so glad that you are healing. It is a journey, and keep the ugly in the rear view mirror where you can. So sad that there are quilters, who are mostly giving people, that want to create ugly. I am ashamed. Your designs were so wonderful.
I’m so very sorry for all your hurt. One foot in front of the next. Thank you for everything you have taught us & sending love and support your way.🙏❤️
I´m so sorry for what you have been thur, it is just not ok, that people use this platform to be mean. Every one should have the right to be who they are. In Denmark our Morning show tried to confront some of the people, that hide behind their screens to post hate, but they all showed to cowards. Hope you will close your eyes to those type of people, and feed on the love you recieve too. Big hugs from Copenhagen, Denmark
I started following you when I was still working and in management. I have to say, you teach about more than sewing and fiber. Who you are and the information you give helped to bridge a communication gap with some of my staff that I am not sure I would have been successful with otherwise. It is easy to get mired in what we perceive as "normal" when everyone is unique and deserving of equal treatment, So, thank-you, and please keep being your own true self and let us share your journey.
Holy cow! I am so sorry you went through this garbage. I sure hope you get back to a place of creativity without the baggage others are compelled to pile on you. I love your channel and wish success in every form for you 😘
I am so proud of you and thankful for you and that you’re still a beacon in creative spaces that, as you know better than many of us, are not always safe. You’re doing the hard work, and I hope you feel and receive the good from it. As my mama said, I wouldn’t change you for the world, but I wish I could change the world for you.
I wholeheartedly thank you for living your life so publicly. I am SO FREAKING PROUD of you! Theres still a ways to go but you are rocking it. Know that Your journey is empowering many many many people. You mean so much to me and so many. I Love You, I Mean it! ❤❤❤❤❤
I just found your channel tonight & watched you make the flowered zip pouch. Left you a post. You are so awesome with so much talent. The beautiful thing is you are a great teacher; helping people like me to want to sew & make things. You make a big difference & you are loved! Some people are just JEALOUS of you! You take your time in healing because as you do, you will become stronger, don't let anyone destroy your heart....YOU have a great heart! Your followers LOVE YOU! ...and add 1 more to your follower list...me!!
You do, what you need to do for your healing journey. Good, you have someone to support your healing and also, glad, it did not shut you down that you experienced, what you did. I am sometimes blind and did not recognize your own fabric in one of your shorts where you did hexies with trans fabrics. Once I got the funds, I hope, you still have the fabrics and I can get some to do some sewing magic.
love love love you from the first second i saw you being magnificently you! so very grateful you exist, create, contribute, show up, make a huge difference, inspire more love & kindness, and live and breathe in the exact same space i feel at home in as well. every blessing! every gratitude! every mom hug from me! every creative endeavor ♾️ you bless us with! 🖤🩶🤍🩷🤎💜💙🩵💚💛🧡❤️💯🔥🎉🌟💥💫💋🫂🫀🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏵️🌿💮🌱🌸🌾🪷🍄🍁🌷🌺🍂🌼🌻🌹💐🪻
The heck with the neigh sayers. You be you. I enjoy your videos. You seem very sensitive and that makes life harder sometimes. I know from personal experience. Take care of yourself ❤
I am so sorry the world is so full of hate, I love your videos, and you. I live in the Columbia River Gorge, in Washington State, you are wonderful. Love to all
Your insights are appreciated and your personal growth is impressive. I am sorry that you had this experience. I do think it's important for you to share your truth. Love that you can share you personal lessons. Live strong 🎉
Stay positive Mathew! The opinions of those who don't know you don't matter. I meditate every night before I fall asleep and ask for peace and calm in my life. I think it's working! It could work for you too! You could visualize more business opportunities as well. Positive thoughts manifest into positive actions.
Had no idea how MUCH you've been through. Fellow PTSD trauma here, too. Hugs and please don't give up! You are super talented and gifted❤ It's why I tuned in to your channel in the first place.
Hello my friend , it is so good to see you . I can see you are healing it shows in your face . To me your face is glowing and very bright ... no don't even say it was the light ,lol. Remember to stay honest with yourself and the people around you . Sorry you had to go thru all that , life is a learning lesson . If we don't learn the first time , we will keep repeating it until we learn from it . I know I have missed you my friend , you give us so many ideas, new ideas , different or easy ways of sewing something . Please keep on teaching , helping us all to grow/ learning in the sewing world . The world has changed , even in the sewing world . Many people in the Quilting / Sewing world have made themselves , what one channel [YT ] I watch the " Quilting Police " ,lol. Many smaller channels are just now starting to complain about this and some have even called those Quilting Police out .... sad but true . Take your time getting better , healing . As we know getting better does not happen over night .
Also I find a lot of hard-core quilters are very into religions that are against lgbtq or alternative quilters. I got chased out of a guild because I'm pagan and lgbtq. "No space for people who don't follow god" and "quilting is God's hand to wrap around you, you disgrace quilting" were some of the comments I received. It's frustrating. And unacceptable.
As an atheist, I feel that. Unfortunately quilting is so heavily gatekept by nuts. You couldn't pay me to join one in my state because they're very right leaning and they have those same attitudes.
I find great online quilting communities, but my local quilt shops and local guilds just seem plain unfriendly. I'm not sure how religion, gender, or orientation should matter but somebody who is much more friendly and organized than I am should start up a "I''m just here for the quilts" guild where people can get together and yell about important issues like pressing open vs to the side, pre-starching vs pre-washing, or to sash or not to sash.
So proud of you!! Jealousy, sickness, ignorance... All those issues in others can trigger us to be ANGRY and IMPATIENT and FED THE F UP ALREADY - and rightfully so. Righteous anger is sometimes the worst kinds because we thing it justifies us going as far as we want to go with our anger. BUT...there are people in this world that have (somehow) trained themselves to be triggered to be CALMER in their response; becoming NON-VIOLENT in these situations. MLK, Rosa Parks, just to name a few. I applaud your personal growth and inner work and look forward to seeing you hone your justified-anger into words and videos that can, maybe, impact more than you ever thought they might!
I encourage you to go for it and keep going. I have been bipolar all my life and struggle with low feelings inspite of my many talents. With years of experience now I concentrate on the possibilities in my life and ignore negative people. It takes so much more energy to be sad or nasty than to be happy and hopeful ☺️ good things will come your way. I can feel it. Where can I find your fabric line? I live in Canada. BTW I love your videos. Your smile and bubbly personality is contagious 💗
I think you're amazing. After you've taken the time you need to heal yourself. I hope you come back and show everyone that you're gonna come back with a vengeance and show THEM. I'm sorry you have to go thru all this mess. Love you.😠😉❤
You are f$#%^8# amazing, the haters will always hate, and don't realize the impact of their actions on someone and society. Please look after you for you are enough...more than enough. You're inspiring although I love your vulnerability, I hate the fact you have had to address this. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but so is history. Your history has formed who you are today, and you are loved by so so many.
Keep pushing through to be your best version of you. Quilting is my favorite hobby, I hope you continue to find joy in that space. As an example, I regularly buy fabrics designed and sold by Angela Walters of Quilting is my Therapy, I believe they get complete control of the design process and printed fabric seems to be of high quality, very smooth and has stood up well to washing if you are ready to get back into designing fabrics but not ready to align yourself with a manufacturer, I'm not sure if designing custom printed fabric might suit you? (I'm a complete industry outsider, I have no idea how those things work, just trying to think of options that would not pose any barriers to your creativity.)
Since your last video, I have lost my oldest son to an upper respiratory infection and complications of his dialysis treatment on Dec.10 th 2022. Then in May 2023 we lost our female miniature long hair piebald dapple dachshund Sugarfoot when she passed away in her sleep on May 31. Then in Dec we lost our male miniature long hair black and tan dachshund Gunner's Coal. He passed away in the early morning hours of Dec 16, 2023. Since my son's passing, I have not been doing any sewing.
I'm horrified by your story but you appear to be healing, although we can all still see your fragility. I could say ignore all the hate out there but its hard. Your healing journey though appears to have placed you on the right track. You recognise that its the haters problem and unfortunately you cannot change them. These bigots (I could use more hateful words to describe them) will use every means to justify themselves and their actions. Worrying times ahead for all of us throughout the world as it would appear bigotry seems to be on the increase. What I would like to say is as a Brit I stand with you, I support you. I'm just one little person but from the comments below, there are lots of us "one little persons" and that I hope gives you strength in knowing. Keep healing, keep creating, do all those things that bring you joy. I hope to see more of you on here and appreciate that may take time or may never happen. I'm sending you love and support
I know it is a big project but the idea that you might open your own store is very exciting. The world needs more lgbtq+ businesses. The more people are visible in the world the more prejudice becomes difficult to maintain. It's an uphill climb and scary and you are under no obligation to put yourself out there, but it seems that this is something that you want and I hope you are able to realize it.
Release the negative thoughts and injustice. Jealousy should be considered a form of bullying. You have the right to speak your mind. Maybe think how you form your sentences. Mental health is very hard to balance. Love yourself. Accept the past as just that the PAST. Electricon hug going out to you.
I have followed you for years Matthew. Your creativity inspires me. We also share many of the same world views. In 2020, so many of us were outrage by a hateful administration and its free hating followers. What made it worse, was being isolated by a deadly virus. However, as a mental health professional, I also saw you drowning. I am so happy that you are in a better place today. I said your creativity inspired me, but your humanity is the true inspiration. I wish you peace.❤
You do NOT have to be on the spectrum to recognize how you react. I think its very enlightened of you. Also not taking things personally, is hard when you are an emotional personal and are putting your heart and soul into every project so it will succeed. Trust me I know. Also maybe downsize your vision/dream and maybe set goals/steps and grown as you reach each one. F ppl who can't accept you for you, but also accept them for who they are. I have learned I'm not having negativity in my life by just removing it and not fighting/pushing against it, bc most ppl won't change. I want to be happy and not argue with anyone and do me. Life is too short!
hey Mr, i do not understand this at all hate from Quilters, ???? man that is awful, i am sorry, anything i quilt is quilted with love and prayer, so to think quilters are cruel blows my mind, i am so sorry you went through that, God Bless brother and i pray that you find peace again quilting and enjoy your craft.
No idea what’s going on with you. My mantra is keeping passing through the nos until you get to yes. We are all allowed to blow up our lives. Please take what’s left to you and walk through the world getting to yes. There is a yes out there. I have to wade waist deep to find mine. Forgive yourself.
No words, just love!!!! ❤
We stupidly assume that everyone is tolerant and happy for other peoples success. We forget that as quilting covers such a huge part of society it includes hateful, hurtful, intolerant people too. Some of the comments that can be seen on social media are downright mean. It’s not surprising that you reacted the way you did, when someone attacks you for no apparent reason you want to hit back. The older I get the better I am getting at walking away from things until I can be calm and not hit back in the heat of the moment but it’s not easy. You have come a long way and unfortunately learned the hard way how awful people can be. I watched as you spiralled without fully realising what you were being subjected to, I’m sorry I wasn’t more supportive. The best revenge you can have is to heal and be successful despite their best efforts.
From the bottom of my heart I love you the way you are.from Montreal ,Quebec,Canada
Seeing your pain is heartbreaking. Your natural sweetness and joy always shone through on your videos. I know some people can be very cruel. Let the love in your heart shine through and to h*** with those who tear others apart. ❤
I legit don't see where you went wrong in your feelings or emotions. But I haven't seen every video. You have been an amazing source for me in so many ways. I appreciate you!!
I have been following you since before your first fabric line, which was absolutely beautiful! I am proud of you for being you, keep on pushing forward! There are far to many haters in this world that dont even deserve to breathe.
I am sending you so much love ❤️
Glad you are working thru this mess. Sorry for all the grief you get from close minded people. Make no apologies, be yourself and live your best life. You are a talented and creative genius that deserves respect from everyone. Happy to see new videos. 😍💓💜💙💚💛
You are fine and wonderful. Problems anyone has with you is THEIR problem not yours. Stay well, take care of yourself and ignore the haters! ❤❤
I think you’re lovely and I wish you nothing but easy success and peace.
Great quote "That's the thing about hate. It's pretty loud." Very profound!!!
Massive, massive support and love to you for standing up to the bigotry. Please never apologise for your feelings and for taking all the steps you need to allow you to heal. You are a strong and wonderful person who deserves their place in this world. Remember that the majority of people are caring and loving but sadly, the hateful minority are often the most vocal. Stay you and stay strong. Sending love from Scotland 🏴❤️🏳️🌈
You're amazing. Thank you for sharing your story. Calling in vs. calling out...huge.
I miss you and I wish the best for you. I miss all the enthusiasm that you always had for whatever you were doing, even when you got the new shelving/storage for your sewing area or when you got the new sewing machine or when you made the curtain thing for Helena. Yes, I have missed you. Sending Light and Love to you. 🙏❤🙏
Love you. Don't compare yourself to anyone. You are younique!
This video is the truth of your journey and I respect you even more for your honesty about where your are as a person. I've been a viewer for a very very long time and never really post on anyone's videos because of haters so I get you. I think you are right, you need to start your own business platform where your creations, designs, patterns and tutorials can be expressed and shared. There are SO SO many creators like us that really need to have you out there designing and inspiring.... Domestic Creations online store would be over the top fantastic ! 💜
I’ve been watching your clips on Facebook, which took me to the Bargello, which took me to this one on your channel here. I am blown away by what you have been through and how you said it should be about making joy when you sew and create. That is what comes through. I had no idea what your story was until now. I’m so sorry that you had to suffer through this. Thank you for surviving and thriving and sharing your gifts with us. We are in your corner! Your transparency and vulnerability is a sign of strength. ❤🌈❤️
I see a beautiful and caring soul with incredible sewing talent. I deeply appreciate your kindness and sharing your talent in videos and tutorials that have been so helpful. Sending lots of love and wishing you strong support in your business.
I am so so sorry for you I just found your channel and I love it I love quilting sowing and crocheting you got this❤❤❤
Certain characters just hate. It’s their insecurities and jealous of others success. It them whom need to sort out their attitudes. Shame, most of us love your channel and what you’ve achieved. ❤ please keep us in your world Sending so much love xx
I am so sorry! I’m sorry for what you have had to deal with and I’m so sorry there is such hate in our world. Please know there are many out there that love you.❤️❤️❤️
Ok, just saw this. And I have to say that your choice to learn, to grow, and evolve for the greater good, including yourself, is both inspiring and SO needed. Quilting is an art form and the old guard should make room for ALL artists. Truly, hate is loud as you said. But it stands weak and has no power in the eyes of love and integrity. Hate cowers when the power of our love for ourselves and others is inclusive and generous. Thank you for working with accepting the power of your love and integrity, and in allowing all of us to support you.
I think you are a very brave, intelligent, and amazingly creative person. Thank you for sharing your story as I did not know the backstory. Your vision for your future will be supported by those who know your talent and love you for YOU! Looking forward to seeing new fabrics, notions and all things you make. I’m an Ally!
Thank you for putting words to your trauma. No one needs to be marginalized. I had discussions with quilters who were marginalized because of their skin color. I was jawdropped shocked! I had no idea that it occurred. Being a deaf quilter though, I get it. And in that vain, thank you for close captioning your videos. You'd be suprised how many still are not, even after asking them to enable close captioning. So a big thank you on your accessiblity. I am so sorry you had to go through that experience! You are fabulous! Should you get your own manufacturing peeps, and make your own fabric line, notions, the whole glorious thing, we'll be there. We'll support and we'll show up, and well you know we will buy fabric!!!!!!!!!
I have been watching your channel for a few years. You are a breath of fresh air in my life. Thank you so much
Bless yo heart🤗 I encourage you not to listen to the negative talk. Hateful people, if they do not change their ways, will receive due compensation in time. People will buy your stuff and support you. Quality cool stuff made for everyone is quality cool stuff. Know that you are precious and loved by many ❤
Hate is such an awful thing….don’t people have better things to do than f’ing around with others they see as different? I would stand up with you, stand beside you. I love your teaching style and your creative spirit! Thanks for being you! That you see yourself in your quilting era makes me so happy. XOXO finishing with a big ass hug!
You are loved... Our world is so fully of hate it's sad. Remember we can not control other people we are only in control of ourselves and how we respond. That's not saying we are not affected because we are. Do NOT let the hate or bad comments control you, you are in control, you can spread your joy to make someone else happy. That's your gift, spread your joy... I've learned how to block people on FB, I've Unjoined certain groups due to the negativity, NOPE, not going to let that into my life anymore. I'm a grown up now ( 65) and I can choose who I let into my life. Remember you are loved...Big hug...
You are an artist and a good person. Just do what you do. You will always connect with many people. Just do your craft!
Be yourself, surround yourself with positive folks and ignore the idiots who have nothing better to do with their time than trash others. Yes, they are jealous. We love you.
You are amazing! Keep up the good work! Its not about you, its about there hate in themselves!
Did I know you created your own fabric?! Uh...yeah!! It's gorgeous! And vibrant! And speaks a myriad of languages! And even if you feel you can't embrace quilting again in a big way, please know....your designs, patterns, fabrics are each and all inspiring. Much love,
"That's the thing about hate. It's pretty loud" - This is one of the most profound things I've heard in a long time. Let that sink in. So much hate in our world right now....from every direction.
Thank you for living your truth
Just discovered you. Used to be a doll artist and thought I couldn’t be a quilter because adhd and I don’t value perfection. Since I realized I could be a quilter I’m constantly looking for unique interesting entertaining voices in the quilting media. Im really appreciating your voice and channel. Don’t let them squash you. I’m guessing for every hater there are 100s of lovers. But the lovers are quieter. Guessing that is what made me want to write this. Gotta turn up the love volume
Sending you love, hugs and quilty light! I’m getting ready to try fabric weaving for a guild challenge in which we are to choose Triad colors from the color wheel. Fingers crossed it turns out as cool as your weaving projects! 🖤🤎🩵🩷🤍❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Oh sweetie. I am so glad that you are healing. It is a journey, and keep the ugly in the rear view mirror where you can. So sad that there are quilters, who are mostly giving people, that want to create ugly. I am ashamed. Your designs were so wonderful.
You are amazing!!
I’m so very sorry for all your hurt. One foot in front of the next. Thank you for everything you have taught us & sending love and support your way.🙏❤️
and for teaching that doesn't even involve quilting.
❤Love You & Your work, you're a Beautiful Person ❤
I´m so sorry for what you have been thur, it is just not ok, that people use this platform to be mean. Every one should have the right to be who they are. In Denmark our Morning show tried to confront some of the people, that hide behind their screens to post hate, but they all showed to cowards. Hope you will close your eyes to those type of people, and feed on the love you recieve too. Big hugs from Copenhagen, Denmark
I started following you when I was still working and in management. I have to say, you teach about more than sewing and fiber. Who you are and the information you give helped to bridge a communication gap with some of my staff that I am not sure I would have been successful with otherwise. It is easy to get mired in what we perceive as "normal" when everyone is unique and deserving of equal treatment, So, thank-you, and please keep being your own true self and let us share your journey.
Love you, love your work. You taught me how to laugh through frustration (those oven mitts kits). Keep healing and being you.
Holy cow! I am so sorry you went through this garbage. I sure hope you get back to a place of creativity without the baggage others are compelled to pile on you. I love your channel and wish success in every form for you 😘
I am so proud of you and thankful for you and that you’re still a beacon in creative spaces that, as you know better than many of us, are not always safe. You’re doing the hard work, and I hope you feel and receive the good from it. As my mama said, I wouldn’t change you for the world, but I wish I could change the world for you.
Love you, and had missed your videos. So glad you’re healing and pushing through.
I wholeheartedly thank you for living your life so publicly. I am SO FREAKING PROUD of you! Theres still a ways to go but you are rocking it. Know that Your journey is empowering many many many people. You mean so much to me and so many. I Love You, I Mean it! ❤❤❤❤❤
I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're a lovely person. Keep being you. You are worthy. You are wonderful. You are enough.
I just found your channel tonight & watched you make the flowered zip pouch. Left you a post. You are so awesome with so much talent. The beautiful thing is you are a great teacher; helping people like me to want to sew & make things. You make a big difference & you are loved! Some people are just JEALOUS of you! You take your time in healing because as you do, you will become stronger, don't let anyone destroy your heart....YOU have a great heart! Your followers LOVE YOU! ...and add 1 more to your follower list...me!!
You do, what you need to do for your healing journey. Good, you have someone to support your healing and also, glad, it did not shut you down that you experienced, what you did.
I am sometimes blind and did not recognize your own fabric in one of your shorts where you did hexies with trans fabrics.
Once I got the funds, I hope, you still have the fabrics and I can get some to do some sewing magic.
Love you. Don't worry about the haters, you are successful and you will be because you are creative and sensitive and they are little bugs. Big hug.
Sending you a hug..I think your amazing
love love love you from the first second i saw you being magnificently you! so very grateful you exist, create, contribute, show up, make a huge difference, inspire more love & kindness, and live and breathe in the exact same space i feel at home in as well. every blessing! every gratitude! every mom hug from me! every creative endeavor ♾️ you bless us with!
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You're in my thoughts, and I wish happy things for you throughout your journey, friend. You're doing good.❤
The heck with the neigh sayers. You be you. I enjoy your videos. You seem very sensitive and that makes life harder sometimes. I know from personal experience. Take care of yourself ❤
Much love always
I am so sorry the world is so full of hate, I love your videos, and you. I live in the Columbia River Gorge, in Washington State, you are wonderful. Love to all
Your insights are appreciated and your personal growth is impressive. I am sorry that you had this experience. I do think it's important for you to share your truth. Love that you can share you personal lessons. Live strong 🎉
Huge hug. Keep positive.
Your truth I respect and wish you every thing you need to be Ok no matter what this angry world shares. Sending you support with my whole heart.
You have a new fan. Don’t worry , keep creating!
Stay positive Mathew! The opinions of those who don't know you don't matter. I meditate every night before I fall asleep and ask for peace and calm in my life. I think it's working! It could work for you too! You could visualize more business opportunities as well. Positive thoughts manifest into positive actions.
Always be yourself. Anything (or anyone) that costs you your peace is too expensive 😊 💖
Had no idea how MUCH you've been through. Fellow PTSD trauma here, too. Hugs and please don't give up! You are super talented and gifted❤ It's why I tuned in to your channel in the first place.
You have more people who love you than hate you.
Hello my friend , it is so good to see you . I can see you are healing it shows in your face . To me your face is glowing and very bright ... no don't even say it was the light ,lol. Remember to stay honest with yourself and the people around you . Sorry you had to go thru all that , life is a learning lesson . If we don't learn the first time , we will keep repeating it until we learn from it . I know I have missed you my friend , you give us so many ideas, new ideas , different or easy ways of sewing something . Please keep on teaching , helping us all to grow/ learning in the sewing world . The world has changed , even in the sewing world . Many people in the Quilting / Sewing world have made themselves , what one channel [YT ] I watch the " Quilting Police " ,lol. Many smaller channels are just now starting to complain about this and some have even called those Quilting Police out .... sad but true . Take your time getting better , healing . As we know getting better does not happen over night .
Sending love from this mama bear in Florida.
Also I find a lot of hard-core quilters are very into religions that are against lgbtq or alternative quilters. I got chased out of a guild because I'm pagan and lgbtq. "No space for people who don't follow god" and "quilting is God's hand to wrap around you, you disgrace quilting" were some of the comments I received. It's frustrating. And unacceptable.
As an atheist, I feel that. Unfortunately quilting is so heavily gatekept by nuts. You couldn't pay me to join one in my state because they're very right leaning and they have those same attitudes.
I find great online quilting communities, but my local quilt shops and local guilds just seem plain unfriendly. I'm not sure how religion, gender, or orientation should matter but somebody who is much more friendly and organized than I am should start up a "I''m just here for the quilts" guild where people can get together and yell about important issues like pressing open vs to the side, pre-starching vs pre-washing, or to sash or not to sash.
So proud of you!! Jealousy, sickness, ignorance... All those issues in others can trigger us to be ANGRY and IMPATIENT and FED THE F UP ALREADY - and rightfully so. Righteous anger is sometimes the worst kinds because we thing it justifies us going as far as we want to go with our anger.
BUT...there are people in this world that have (somehow) trained themselves to be triggered to be CALMER in their response; becoming NON-VIOLENT in these situations. MLK, Rosa Parks, just to name a few. I applaud your personal growth and inner work and look forward to seeing you hone your justified-anger into words and videos that can, maybe, impact more than you ever thought they might!
Awww this is so bittersweet. Yes, you've grown....but other ppl need to grow too from what I'm hearing. How sad.
I love you!
I bought some of the fabric you designed (hard to come by in Asia). Hope you go back to designing someday.
yes please
Proud of your growth!
I encourage you to go for it and keep going. I have been bipolar all my life and struggle with low feelings inspite of my many talents. With years of experience now I concentrate on the possibilities in my life and ignore negative people. It takes so much more energy to be sad or nasty than to be happy and hopeful ☺️ good things will come your way. I can feel it. Where can I find your fabric line? I live in Canada. BTW I love your videos. Your smile and bubbly personality is contagious 💗
There's a lot of us out here who care about you. Hang in there!❤
I'm sorry that people are so small-minded. I hope I get to see you at Quilt Con.
I think you're amazing. After you've taken the time you need to heal yourself. I hope you come back and show everyone that you're gonna come back with a vengeance and show THEM. I'm sorry you have to go thru all this mess. Love you.😠😉❤
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You are f$#%^8# amazing, the haters will always hate, and don't realize the impact of their actions on someone and society. Please look after you for you are enough...more than enough. You're inspiring although I love your vulnerability, I hate the fact you have had to address this. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but so is history. Your history has formed who you are today, and you are loved by so so many.
Keep pushing through to be your best version of you. Quilting is my favorite hobby, I hope you continue to find joy in that space. As an example, I regularly buy fabrics designed and sold by Angela Walters of Quilting is my Therapy, I believe they get complete control of the design process and printed fabric seems to be of high quality, very smooth and has stood up well to washing if you are ready to get back into designing fabrics but not ready to align yourself with a manufacturer, I'm not sure if designing custom printed fabric might suit you? (I'm a complete industry outsider, I have no idea how those things work, just trying to think of options that would not pose any barriers to your creativity.)
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Since your last video, I have lost my oldest son to an upper respiratory infection and complications of his dialysis treatment on Dec.10 th 2022. Then in May 2023 we lost our female miniature long hair piebald dapple dachshund Sugarfoot when she passed away in her sleep on May 31. Then in Dec we lost our male miniature long hair black and tan dachshund Gunner's Coal. He passed away in the early morning hours of Dec 16, 2023. Since my son's passing, I have not been doing any sewing.
It is all hard, please stay with the community for support and know that you are cared about
I'm horrified by your story but you appear to be healing, although we can all still see your fragility. I could say ignore all the hate out there but its hard. Your healing journey though appears to have placed you on the right track. You recognise that its the haters problem and unfortunately you cannot change them. These bigots (I could use more hateful words to describe them) will use every means to justify themselves and their actions. Worrying times ahead for all of us throughout the world as it would appear bigotry seems to be on the increase.
What I would like to say is as a Brit I stand with you, I support you. I'm just one little person but from the comments below, there are lots of us "one little persons" and that I hope gives you strength in knowing. Keep healing, keep creating, do all those things that bring you joy. I hope to see more of you on here and appreciate that may take time or may never happen. I'm sending you love and support
I now I want to see Shania Twain boots and song !
Yeah. Sometimes healing involves a lot of goodbyes. Doesn’t mean there won’t be open-armed, enthusiastic hellos!
I know it is a big project but the idea that you might open your own store is very exciting. The world needs more lgbtq+ businesses. The more people are visible in the world the more prejudice becomes difficult to maintain. It's an uphill climb and scary and you are under no obligation to put yourself out there, but it seems that this is something that you want and I hope you are able to realize it.
Release the negative thoughts and injustice. Jealousy should be considered a form of bullying. You have the right to speak your mind. Maybe think how you form your sentences. Mental health is very hard to balance. Love yourself. Accept the past as just that the PAST. Electricon hug going out to you.
People are afraid of truth and change, life is difficult and true to yourself! Can be as hard. Move forward not backward 🙂
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I have followed you for years Matthew. Your creativity inspires me. We also share many of the same world views. In 2020, so many of us were outrage by a hateful administration and its free hating followers. What made it worse, was being isolated by a deadly virus. However, as a mental health professional, I also saw you drowning. I am so happy that you are in a better place today. I said your creativity inspired me, but your humanity is the true inspiration. I wish you peace.❤
You do NOT have to be on the spectrum to recognize how you react. I think its very enlightened of you.
Also not taking things personally, is hard when you are an emotional personal and are putting your heart and soul into every project so it will succeed. Trust me I know.
Also maybe downsize your vision/dream and maybe set goals/steps and grown as you reach each one.
F ppl who can't accept you for you, but also accept them for who they are. I have learned I'm not having negativity in my life by just removing it and not fighting/pushing against it, bc most ppl won't change. I want to be happy and not argue with anyone and do me. Life is too short!
Ugh… 😵💫 People 😵🤬 Love you, mean it! 💕
hey Mr, i do not understand this at all hate from Quilters, ???? man that is awful, i am sorry, anything i quilt is quilted with love and prayer, so to think quilters are cruel blows my mind, i am so sorry you went through that, God Bless brother and i pray that you find peace again quilting and enjoy your craft.
No idea what’s going on with you. My mantra is keeping passing through the nos until you get to yes. We are all allowed to blow up our lives. Please take what’s left to you and walk through the world getting to yes. There is a yes out there. I have to wade waist deep to find mine. Forgive yourself.
Do you wanna move to Ontario Canada… love you
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And we all love you 🫶 🧵
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