At the time of child's misbehavior 1. stay calm and don't react, 2.Connect, 3.validate,4. redirect, 5.have a collaborative approach. Understand why the child behaved in that manner.
Steps 1-Keep yourself calm 2-validate kids feelings 3-Explore reasons collaboratively 4-plan together a strategy 5-reflect 6-phone or other screens be replaced by spending quality time with our teens, listening to them, no nasihats or lectures, get them busy in other skills learning activities that they enjoy 😎
@@spookyraja9495 in which world? I think its the peak of "marks doesn't matter much" nowadays than ever before...people having heavy degrees but no skills have no future...thata what i think i don't know maybe i am confused
From my personal experience i realise all children need is alot of love care hugs they want parents to always express them by saying i love you and lots of kisses and hugs even if children are adults . Im a mother but i still love when my parents say we love you and they ask me how I am they make me feel special and we all want to feel special
I think it's important to train parents about upbringing of children cz many parents think that they have every right to humiliate and punish their children for not obeying them or living their life according to their likings.
Sir very very informative video jazakallaha keep it up ap bohot bari khidmat kr ry hn Future k memarun ki tarbiyat Boht sari duawon k sath thenx alot sir🙏👏👏👏
Great information i agree with Mr, Zishaan advice parent has to understand their children needs and how their feeling in each choices what they makes and be supportive in a positive manner May Allah show our generation a good path (Ameen)
Very nicely explained I need to add this generation children now are very smart they need explanation for everything. And I do explain as much as I can and in easy way
Jazak Allah doctor sahb ! This discussion also leads us to the information gap bw the parents and kids... an abrust change has happened in 21st century, which lead to a gap. Parents have to be trained accordingly
Children are mostly not ready to listen at secondary schools. Three of you are best advisor. Please upload more from professor who came from US . Out of country problems are bit difficult. Kids don’t like to spend time they mostly like to stay alone at this age . Good make it more . I like Dr sahib so much . He is mashaAllah filled with worldly and Islamic knowledge.
ماشاءاللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ اور آپکی کے مہمان سلامت رہیں آپکی باتیں واقعی میرے دل کو لگی میرے بچے جوان ہو رہے ہیں مجھے بھی انکی تربیت کرنے کے لیے بہت سیکھنے کی ضرورت ہے۔
In our society nobody knows what is love.every thing is time pass.ager girls aisa karin to Un ko housewife banany ki training daini Shoro kar din.ghar k kam karwaen.bachay sambhalna laga din.kam kharch man zaida chezzin kaisay akathi karni ha.bizi jub ho gi to baten bhol Jay gi.dont take tension.
ہمارا سب سے بڑا المیہ ہی یہ ہے کہ والدین دنیا کی دوڑ میں اولاد کو سب کچھ بناتے بناتے "ایک اچھا اور مفید انسان"بنانا بھول جاتے ہیں۔یوں وہ معاشی طور پر تو مستحکم ہو جاتا ہے لیکن دینی،اخلاقی،اصلاحی اور ذہنی طور پر کمزور رہ جاتا ہے۔نتیجے میں جیسا معاشرہ وجود میں آتا ہے اس کی مثالیں جابجا بکھری پڑی ہیں۔ رب رحیم ہم والدین کو ہدایت عطا فرما کہ ہم اپنی اولادوں کو روشنی بنائیں نہ کہ ٹمٹماتے چراغ۔آمین
Sir plz aik video is par bhi honi chahiye how to deal with servants bhut zyada narmi karyn to koi kam nahin karta aur zyada sakhti karyn to Allah ka dar hota hy
Sir mera name imtiaz fazil hai ap aj ki date mai 5..3.2021 islamia university bwp main audotrum baghdad campus aye hwey they sir mene apko salam kia tha or hand hand sanitizer bi unifoam pehni hwi thi humney
...but my question is that it z not possible to know & implement parenting skills before marriage...then what should b the best time to learn these skills...parenting is more related to practical field rather than theoretical....then is it possible to b a good parent without knowing d formal parenting tips...??
میرامحبوب مضمون پیرنٹنگ ہے!یہ ہمارے معاشرے کاالمیہ ہے کہ ماں باپ کی اکثریت اس اہم موضوع وپہلوکی طرف توجہ نہیں دیتی پھرذندگی میں ایک ایسامقام بھی آسکتاہے کہ بچے والدین کوبرابھلااورگالیاں دے سکتی ہے کہ آپ نے توہماری تربیت ہی نہیں کی تھی !بچہ توبچہ ہوتاہے والدین توبچے نہیں ہوتے ہیں اس لئے جن کواولادکی نعمت ملی ہے وہ اس بات کی اہمیت کوجان لیں کہ بچوں کی تعلیم وتربیت آپکافرض اولین بھی ہے
My god if you want to raise good children you have to be (cook, friend, driver, brain doctor 👩⚕️ understand psychology) follow the religion and good communication expert and then maybe 🤔 you will have good children.🤦♀️😱🥶
Sir Mera sawaal ap se ye he agr bache kbhi kisi se sigrate le kr pee Len to kya Karen hum kese smjhayen use bache ki age eleven start he or is ne ye krdiya to kya Karen plzz sir answer deyega meri bt ka
Khudara apney bachoon pr yaqeen kryien or unhien apney hony ka ehsaas dilwayien😦
At the time of child's misbehavior 1. stay calm and don't react, 2.Connect, 3.validate,4. redirect, 5.have a collaborative approach. Understand why the child behaved in that manner.
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Contact no mil skta hai Dr Sahab ka
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Steps
1-Keep yourself calm
2-validate kids feelings
3-Explore reasons collaboratively
4-plan together a strategy
5-reflect
6-phone or other screens be replaced by spending quality time with our teens, listening to them, no nasihats or lectures, get them busy in other skills learning activities that they enjoy 😎
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My Wish all the students who have their Exams will get 90 + 💯🤲
Jazak Allah Khairan kaseera
Dear Zain ul Abideen 90+ is great but not necessary, thank you for you kind words but please don't get obsessed with Marks...😊
but now a days marks really matter
@@spookyraja9495 in which world? I think its the peak of "marks doesn't matter much" nowadays than ever before...people having heavy degrees but no skills have no future...thata what i think i don't know maybe i am confused
Assalamo alaikum how are you sir? Can you tell me please K Ap bahawalpur K kis ariye se hn?
ماشاءاللہ اللہ پاک سب کے بچوں کو کامیابی دے
Ameen
Ameen 🤲
From my personal experience i realise all children need is alot of love care hugs they want parents to always express them by saying i love you and lots of kisses and hugs even if children are adults . Im a mother but i still love when my parents say we love you and they ask me how I am they make me feel special and we all want to feel special
Superb
Kindly I want help I m also as mother
Right
I think it's important to train parents about upbringing of children cz many parents think that they have every right to humiliate and punish their children for not obeying them or living their life according to their likings.
Exactly
Very vast subject and topic. Thanks for sharing sir. Guys main single dad hun, apne kids ke sath vlawgs banata hun, achay lagain. Zaroor dekiay ga👍
السلام وعلیکم بھائی صاحب اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا کرے آمین یارب العالمین ،♥️♥️♥️⭐⭐👍👍👍👍👍
Big fan from J&K❤️
Allah ap ko lmbi zindagi dy or ap ese tra hmy guidelines dyty rahain
Dr sahib Allah aap ko jaza day.
Baray bachoon k bigarnay k baad kia kia jayay videos zaroor upload kartay rahain Shukria
100 % true talk. Always give respect to children just like adults. And kids reaction is the mirror image of the parents behavior.
JazakAllah for covering this breifly
Dr Zeeshan has accomplished a lot at such a young age mashallah.
Professor saib is a gem. Love you sir
Assalamualaikum dr saheb
Aap bht achcha suggest krte h mujhe bht achche lgte h apke advice thank you so much .
Sir very very informative video jazakallaha keep it up ap bohot bari khidmat kr ry hn Future k memarun ki tarbiyat Boht sari duawon k sath thenx alot sir🙏👏👏👏
ASSALAMUALAIKUM
ALLAH Pak hamare saron pe ap jese ustaad ka Saya hamesha rakhe Or hamen bhi ap jesa banne ki tofeeq ata farmae
Ameen🤲😓
Great brother,
جزاك الله خير يا غالي
Mam ne buht achay se smjaya thanks
Ak line me bat kahajaye to parenting means bacho k sath waqt guzaren mushkilen asan hota jayega in sha Allah.... jazakallah khair dr sahab
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I like what lady psychologist said
Great information i agree with Mr, Zishaan advice parent has to understand their children needs and how their feeling in each choices what they makes and be supportive in a positive manner
May Allah show our generation a good path (Ameen)
It's a best way live that give humanity a good humans
Thanks for imparting best knowledge !
Very nicely explained I need to add this generation children now are very smart they need explanation for everything. And I do explain as much as I can and in easy way
Absolutely right....it z vry imp to learn
Parenting skills
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Jazak Allah doctor sahb ! This discussion also leads us to the information gap bw the parents and kids... an abrust change has happened in 21st century, which lead to a gap. Parents have to be trained accordingly
Pnjfx
Hursxhi!👗
Thank you so much for information
Jzakumullah khair
Mashallah
Children are mostly not ready to listen at secondary schools. Three of you are best advisor. Please upload more from professor who came from US . Out of country problems are bit difficult. Kids don’t like to spend time they mostly like to stay alone at this age . Good make it more . I like Dr sahib so much . He is mashaAllah filled with worldly and Islamic knowledge.
ماشاءاللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ اور آپکی کے مہمان سلامت رہیں
آپکی باتیں واقعی میرے دل کو لگی میرے بچے جوان ہو رہے ہیں مجھے بھی انکی تربیت کرنے کے لیے بہت سیکھنے کی ضرورت ہے۔
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Thanks sir.I appriciat both of you the way you council us is appriciatable.
In our society nobody knows what is love.every thing is time pass.ager girls aisa karin to Un ko housewife banany ki training daini Shoro kar din.ghar k kam karwaen.bachay sambhalna laga din.kam kharch man zaida chezzin kaisay akathi karni ha.bizi jub ho gi to baten bhol Jay gi.dont take tension.
Extremely beneficial talk!!
Love from Dhanbad Jharkhand India ♥️♥️♥️
Agar aap Quran ko aasaan tajweed se sikhna chahte hai to channel par jo videos hai unpar ek nazar daale, JazakAllah Khairan Kaseera ❤️❤️
Very nice jazakallah
Assalamualaikum AP bohat achay ha lagay raho RUclips channel walon mAh Ap ko full support karo gi
Big fan sir love from india (up)
So beneficial for us
Buhat khoob ,,,Maa shaa Allah
Humhey ap se mil kr bht khushi hwi sir
Mashallah dr sb bohuttt hi super topic
Finally someone from jhang ☺️
Treat your children as your teacher and also respect them
Sir choty bachon pyb videos bnain 3,4, 5 years tk k how to handle them kyn k hmain being a parents gussa aa jata ha...
MashAllah very nice 👍 sir
ہمارا سب سے بڑا المیہ ہی یہ ہے کہ والدین دنیا کی دوڑ میں اولاد کو سب کچھ بناتے بناتے "ایک اچھا اور مفید انسان"بنانا بھول جاتے ہیں۔یوں وہ معاشی طور پر تو مستحکم ہو جاتا ہے لیکن دینی،اخلاقی،اصلاحی اور ذہنی طور پر کمزور رہ جاتا ہے۔نتیجے میں جیسا معاشرہ وجود میں آتا ہے اس کی مثالیں جابجا بکھری پڑی ہیں۔ رب رحیم ہم والدین کو ہدایت عطا فرما کہ ہم اپنی اولادوں کو روشنی بنائیں نہ کہ ٹمٹماتے چراغ۔آمین
بہت اچھا
Byshk
Sir plz aik video is par bhi honi chahiye how to deal with servants bhut zyada narmi karyn to koi kam nahin karta aur zyada sakhti karyn to Allah ka dar hota hy
Anger : serious and disturb mood...
ذہنِ جدید میں یوں ذہانت تو کم نہیں
پر سوچ کی تہوں میں اُترنے کا دم نہیں
Big fan from chishtian.. 🍒🍒🍒
ہمارے بچوں کا چینل ہے آئی آپ لوگ
Jazak Allah .
very helpful information.
Bahut achha banaya
Sir ap itny +ive kesy hen
There is no other choice in life but to be positive and about in every aspect of life!
Thanks 👍😊😊👍
Sir mera name imtiaz fazil hai ap aj ki date mai 5..3.2021 islamia university bwp main audotrum baghdad campus aye hwey they sir mene apko salam kia tha or hand hand sanitizer bi unifoam pehni hwi thi humney
Good conversation
Boht achi talk...
Great vidio sir g
Who personality deprave the innocent generation first priority
خیرالناس من ینبع الناس
...but my question is that it z not possible to know & implement parenting skills before marriage...then what should b the
best time to learn these skills...parenting is more related to practical field rather than theoretical....then is it possible to b a good parent without knowing d formal parenting tips...??
Thank you sr
they are very helpful mashaallah
میرامحبوب مضمون پیرنٹنگ ہے!یہ ہمارے معاشرے کاالمیہ ہے کہ ماں باپ کی اکثریت اس اہم موضوع وپہلوکی طرف توجہ نہیں دیتی پھرذندگی میں ایک ایسامقام بھی آسکتاہے کہ بچے والدین کوبرابھلااورگالیاں دے سکتی ہے کہ آپ نے توہماری تربیت ہی نہیں کی تھی !بچہ توبچہ ہوتاہے والدین توبچے نہیں ہوتے ہیں اس لئے جن کواولادکی نعمت ملی ہے وہ اس بات کی اہمیت کوجان لیں کہ بچوں کی تعلیم وتربیت آپکافرض اولین بھی ہے
I really appreciate the valuable videos in europe i some of people i discussed they want to see or at least can read in english
Mashalla very nice information thanks for sharing God bless you and your family 💯📺👌👌👌💖💐
2:10 that guy that came 😂😂
m b dkh ra tha ks ka cmnt hoga is bary m 😁😁
@@umarjaved5822 sir u became popular now hahaha
@@umarjaved5822 sir what is procedure to talk and ask from our beloved motivator and mentor ?
@@umarjaved5822 no pb sir 😊 😅 maine to mazaq mai kaha😄... hope u didn't mind 😄
@@umarjaved5822: I believe videos are far better than live shows. There is no distraction and one can watch them repeatedly whenever one wants!
So nice😊😊😊😊
Very helpful 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Well said dr sahab 👍🏻
i like your videos alot....
very informative
ماشاءالله تبارك الله
Behtareen
Great work sir keep it up
Topic is very good sir
Big fan big support
Salam to sir javed sb
لیکن جو ماں گھر میں ہوتیں ہیں ان کے بچے کیوں بگڑتے ہیں؟؟؟
وہ صرف گھر پر ہی ہوتی ہیں تربیت نہیں کر رہی ہوتی
Sadly
My god if you want to raise good children you have to be (cook, friend, driver, brain doctor 👩⚕️ understand psychology) follow the religion and good communication expert and then maybe 🤔 you will have good children.🤦♀️😱🥶
Sir Mera sawaal ap se ye he agr bache kbhi kisi se sigrate le kr pee Len to kya Karen hum kese smjhayen use bache ki age eleven start he or is ne ye krdiya to kya Karen plzz sir answer deyega meri bt ka
Good video
ماشاءاللہ
Excellent 👍
PAKISTAN Zindabad
excellent ........
Sir ap school of learning for parents bnaye ta k anay wali generation tabhai sy Bach jayen
Assalam O aly kum Please provide the English translation it will be very helpful for many people
Sir .. is se achhi to aapki baat hoti hy
Walikumaslam
Buhat mushkil hay parenting....🙅♀️🙅♂️