Toxic parenting is the most common problem of third world states that's why we can not creat something new, and we aren't modern in technologies and post modernism . But having people like you, so we will grow soon inshallah. Thank you sir
This is the basic difference I have observed in my country and in a foreign country in which I am living now. They make kids independent with variety of skills and motor training(eating,changing,shoe tie) is encouraged to be done by themselves from nursery.
Make kids independent and make them bold there is a big difference I am living in Germany and parents suffering because kids every thing doing by them selves and that much make them independent that in the end all old people living alone and need help
This is true for normal parents.... But if one parent has narcissistic personality, they destroy their children personalities n soul very much.... Coz they dont change n do irreversible damage to them.... Dr saab your lectures are soooo enlightening..... Zabardast.... Psychology is not your profession... But Allah has blessed you with this wisdom too.... MA
Hello sir I am here once again.......Loved this fantastic session by you Though I am a teenager but I connected with your lecture....... Love from India and lucknow
Assalam alaikum dear doctor! I genuinely feel blessed to be connected with you. There has been "n" number of critical issues that I've been facing pertaining to my parents. Your videos are a beacon lamp of guidance that I can show to my parents. I can't thank you enough. May Almighty bless you abundantly here and hereafter🤗😇 (amen)!
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Great efforts sir Sir ap hamary liay matlb (14-20) age wlay nojawano k liay aisi videos banain k hum khud ko prepare kerskain APNI grooming kerskain Ap hamary mentor hain , bahot kuch ap say seekha hai
Sir you are brilliant and I'm thankful that you enlighten our lives with your wisdom and l request you if you please directly address our youth means our teenagers about be respectful with their parents as they are very much influenced of Netflix's culture and mostly buissy on their gadgets hardly pay attention to their parents but consider them as boomer ,sir it's my humble request thank you for your time and being such a great person
Greetings, Love and regards from india sir🙏🙏🙏 Truly blessed to come across you and service you are providing to the mankind.. keep showering your deepest understanding and wisdom.... Love and regards 🙏💕🙏
Sir you have all my respect! Ur family is very lucky to have u in their lives and I envy them because of this :") unfortunately parents after the age of 45 mostly blv that they know the world and thus they don't even think that ur told things are right! :"/
Sir my 4 year kid takes his decisions himself. Should I celebrate...... 🤷♀️ Its not like he is just a kid right now. His personality is that way that he thinks from his own mind.....intelligent kid MashaaAllah
AOA Sir, please share some parenting advice for overseas families. specially when father and mother both are working and they have very limited time for their kids, where kids spend most of their time with nanny/house maids/ nurseries etc and they don't find much social opportunities like back home....
Yes…. Here in Pakistani families they don’t let their kids grow up and they tend to be around their parents even after getting married. I had the same fate and I was amazed how irritating that was for me. Now my kid is growing up I remember my time so I let him go to do whatever he needs to be doing in his life and get things done. We don’t let our kids grow up and we like to hold them back and that creates do many problems for the parents, child and his or her spouse. Let them be because that’s their life and their time. Let them lives for heaven sakes. I learned that when I was young how my husbands parents didn’t let him do anything and we ended up fighting for our freedom to get a house and get our lifestyle. so same your kids wants for himself or herself. Letting go is not easy for Asian parents I know coz we are so controlling and super protective of our kids but that makes them suffocated and they don’t want that in their lives. Give them space and respect they will eventually come around if you’re responsible enough with them.
Salam. I request professor Dr. Javed Iqbal , to put efforts, in training couples, before they become parents. On , how not to trust any one ,who pretends to be trustworthy. And how to train their children .To protect them, from becoming the victims of child sex abuse . In my opinion, child awareness should be included in school's curriculum. This important issue needs to be brought, to the attention of school board officials .
Sir, your lectures are mashallah very nice. Please comment on this situation. If parents have given enough time to children from childhood till they are 9-13 years. Have given good education, got them gifts, have spent quality time, gave them moral, ethical and religious teaching with explanation. Now when grow up and reach teen age, they say that the parents life style, their belief in religion or behavior with other people, or their belief in religion and prayer and telling children not to spend time on TV, mobile gaming, loitering with friends, coming home late is all wrong. How can one handle such situation, and now kids are not ready to sit and discuss but avoid parents company. Please advice. Thank you🙏.
Sir mara bata 6 Sal Ka hy laken wo zid krta hy or ajeeb c harkaty krta hy m both disturb hu is ke waja sy ub m grr ko talay laga k rakhti hu wo maray qabo sy bhir hy is time b m ny outdoor ko tala lagya Hoya hy muje samj ni a ri q wo atna disturb hy😔
this man needs to be at TEDx talks, he speaks beautifully and explains difficult concepts with ease
Signs of best parents:
Make time For their kids.
Talk with them.
Play with thier kids.
Family is the 1st institute where a child socialize.
💞
And also keep an eye on them....punishment is integral part of parenting.
Toxic parenting is the most common problem of third world states that's why we can not creat something new, and we aren't modern in technologies and post modernism . But having people like you, so we will grow soon inshallah. Thank you sir
This is the basic difference I have observed in my country and in a foreign country in which I am living now. They make kids independent with variety of skills and motor training(eating,changing,shoe tie) is encouraged to be done by themselves from nursery.
Make kids independent and make them bold there is a big difference I am living in Germany and parents suffering because kids every thing doing by them selves and that much make them independent that in the end all old people living alone and need help
Booht acha kaha ap ny
Mn 24 years ki ho gai hn mn apni mrzi sy ik bag b purchase nhj kr skti apny parents ki waja sy
May Allah pay you reward in the form JANNAH
May Allah bless him a Good Health.He is still alive ALHAMDULILLAH.
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Aameen
This is true for normal parents.... But if one parent has narcissistic personality, they destroy their children personalities n soul very much.... Coz they dont change n do irreversible damage to them.... Dr saab your lectures are soooo enlightening..... Zabardast.... Psychology is not your profession... But Allah has blessed you with this wisdom too.... MA
doctor sab ap boht ache he ma ne ap ki bato se boht kuch sekha allah pak ap ko lambi zindagi de
Hello sir I am here once again.......Loved this fantastic session by you
Though I am a teenager but I connected with your lecture....... Love from India and lucknow
Mere papa n syd yhi sunaa h mujh bilkul free kr diya h . Yaa Allah paak hmare parents ko hifajat frma
Dr sahib Allah pak aap ko ur aasanian taqseem Kerny ki tofeeq dy aameen suma aameen
Wah sir
Dil khush ho gia thanks a lot
Mashaallah Allah sir jazak Allah
Hats off, jazakAllah e khair for sharing such precious jewels with us
Assalam alaikum dear doctor! I genuinely feel blessed to be connected with you. There has been "n" number of critical issues that I've been facing pertaining to my parents. Your videos are a beacon lamp of guidance that I can show to my parents. I can't thank you enough. May Almighty bless you abundantly here and hereafter🤗😇 (amen)!
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Best motivation
I will do with my childrens
Allah bless you
Ay Kaashhh sb log aap ki trha sochna shuru kr den. .. ay kaashh......
God bless you,you are very effective speaker, jazak Allah kharian.
Great efforts sir
Sir ap hamary liay matlb (14-20) age wlay nojawano k liay aisi videos banain k hum khud ko prepare kerskain APNI grooming kerskain
Ap hamary mentor hain , bahot kuch ap say seekha hai
100% true thank you sir
Thanx sir for giving us expert advice on this issue which is very sensitive for parents like us.JazakAllah .Always stay blessed ,Ameen
Sir you are brilliant and I'm thankful that you enlighten our lives with your wisdom and l request you if you please directly address our youth means our teenagers about be respectful with their parents as they are very much influenced of Netflix's culture and mostly buissy on their gadgets hardly pay attention to their parents but consider them as boomer ,sir it's my humble request thank you for your time and being such a great person
Excellent topic, parenting is all about understanding.
May Allah bless you sir.....
Every individual should have basic parenting skills and knowledge before they decide to marry.
MA SHA ALLAH
Ma sha Allah Sir
The more you know the less you know & A wise man who knows everything is a man who knows nothing.
The more you learn the more you know, the more you know the more you lose, the more you lose the less you know.
so why learn???
You are great teacher and also a great life observer
Well it’s all about upbringing and childhood learnings.. basics we are taught about does really help build a substantial persona for life.
Masha Allah v.good idea jazakAllah
Greetings, Love and regards from india sir🙏🙏🙏 Truly blessed to come across you and service you are providing to the mankind.. keep showering your deepest understanding and wisdom.... Love and regards 🙏💕🙏
Outstanding information thanks Dr saib
Sir you have all my respect! Ur family is very lucky to have u in their lives and I envy them because of this :") unfortunately parents after the age of 45 mostly blv that they know the world and thus they don't even think that ur told things are right! :"/
Mashallah Zabardast
Assalamalikum beautiful sharing and topic stay blessed
Jazaka Allah khair Sir, love from Afghanistan.
Thanks for information Sir
Thank you so much sir
Your thoughts are really nice and wotthy
The great personality
شکریہ سر
Thank you so much sir 🤲 may Allah bless you 🌹
very well said
Right ahsas e kamtari paida hoti hai asy
Thank you so much sir you are absolutely right
Amazing😍 sir I'm big fan of your personality and your knowing...
Thx dr. Salam from Afghanistan.
Asalamaoalikum. I will change myself in sha Allah. Thnx alot..
بارك الله فيك
Just what I needed to hear
شکریہ
Good content. This is a very good discussion.
Mashallah subhanallah sir
I think har parents ko aase hi karna chahiye insallah main ase karuga..
Sir I really like your videos
Zabardast 👍👍
Very well said!!!
Very informative.
I always like ur videos
Excellent!
I like your video and always wait your video
You don't have to wait for his videos. Look for some previous video and watch till you get the next one. They are all full of golden advice.
Nice personality
Excellent views
Right 👍😊
Sir aap boht acha bolte hain. Plz sir parenting p or b videos bnaen
Very nice explained sir
ان جناب اور حسن نثار کے پاس ہر مسئلے کا حل ہے...
Prof Emeritus sb...
Sir my 4 year kid takes his decisions himself. Should I celebrate...... 🤷♀️
Its not like he is just a kid right now. His personality is that way that he thinks from his own mind.....intelligent kid MashaaAllah
Thanks. Sir i have nt father but i lesation your licture remmber my fatherاللهم ارحمهما كما يرحمني ربيياني صغيرة
I am a your big fan sr
Good sir . Thanks
AOA Sir, please share some parenting advice for overseas families. specially when father and mother both are working and they have very limited time for their kids, where kids spend most of their time with nanny/house maids/ nurseries etc and they don't find much social opportunities like back home....
Yes…. Here in Pakistani families they don’t let their kids grow up and they tend to be around their parents even after getting married. I had the same fate and I was amazed how irritating that was for me. Now my kid is growing up I remember my time so I let him go to do whatever he needs to be doing in his life and get things done. We don’t let our kids grow up and we like to hold them back and that creates do many problems for the parents, child and his or her spouse. Let them be because that’s their life and their time. Let them lives for heaven sakes. I learned that when I was young how my husbands parents didn’t let him do anything and we ended up fighting for our freedom to get a house and get our lifestyle. so same your kids wants for himself or herself. Letting go is not easy for Asian parents I know coz we are so controlling and super protective of our kids but that makes them suffocated and they don’t want that in their lives. Give them space and respect they will eventually come around if you’re responsible enough with them.
Excellent sir
Excellent 👌
i do like this
If parents become like this then many problems can be sort out without facing any quarrels.
Salam. I request professor Dr. Javed Iqbal , to put efforts, in training couples, before they become parents. On , how not to trust any one ,who pretends to be trustworthy. And how to train their children .To protect them, from becoming the victims of child sex abuse . In my opinion, child awareness should be included in school's curriculum. This important issue needs to be brought, to the attention of school board officials .
Best video of you
informative video, but 18 s above age kafi problm krte hn , agr hm un s kuch kam krwana chahen to kia tareeqa ho?? jis m sb s imp namaz ho.
Sir aapka video start karnea ka tariqa sabse mukhtalif hai aap direct kaam ke Baat krtea hai
Sir, your lectures are mashallah very nice. Please comment on this situation. If parents have given enough time to children from childhood till they are 9-13 years. Have given good education, got them gifts, have spent quality time, gave them moral, ethical and religious teaching with explanation.
Now when grow up and reach teen age, they say that the parents life style, their belief in religion or behavior with other people, or their belief in religion and prayer and telling children not to spend time on TV, mobile gaming, loitering with friends, coming home late is all wrong.
How can one handle such situation, and now kids are not ready to sit and discuss but avoid parents company. Please advice. Thank you🙏.
great🥰
Bacha chahe jitna b brha ho jay maa baap k liye tou bacha hi rehta ha
Very nice sir.but in our culture these types of thinking is rare
True
Assalamu alaikum sir love from India ❤️
From tharparkar sindh Pakistan
Baby agar aagay hifz na karay toh kya karna chahiye iska reply dijiye
Nice Sir,
Kash ye bt koi myry parents ko b samjhaey 🥺
what to do in toxi parenting...contex of less harm...but cnt change
Good luck explaining it to Desi parents.
Mera 15saal ka beta hein or muj se uski changes bardasht nahi ho rahe the
thyroid ka aasaan aur quick relief wala ilaaj batai please
Bchon ko unk hal pr b to nh chora jaskta.wo ghlt raste pr b to ja skte hn?
Sir can we use health card in your hospital
Sir mara bata 6 Sal Ka hy laken wo zid krta hy or ajeeb c harkaty krta hy m both disturb hu is ke waja sy ub m grr ko talay laga k rakhti hu wo maray qabo sy bhir hy is time b m ny outdoor ko tala lagya Hoya hy muje samj ni a ri q wo atna disturb hy😔