Yahi usool maerey nephew nae apnae young kids ke liey apnaey thae,"(1) fajar ki namaz masjid Mae. (2)nashta sabb ke Saath. 3)school/ college. 4)zuhur in masjid,lunch with the family. 5)afternoon nap. 6)asar, in masjid.outdoor games. 7)homework. 8)MAGHRIB namaz in masjid. 9)dinner) . ISHA in masjid. Time hi ghalat kaam ke liey Nahin BACHAE ga. Yeh sarae OOPER ke kamon Mae Walid ya koee aur male member supervise karega, masjid Janae Mae etc.
Good advice but still this is not gonna work for many people. Even if it is, it's not gonna work for too long. Eventualy you have to get married to a person who can meet up your sexual desires i.e. who's sexually compatible with you but again such a partner is hard to find. So here comes the option for 2nd marriage, which is more of a necessity for young men with higher sexual energy than just a "sexual fantacy" as society labels it for men.
I would advise the youth to keep themselves busy in there work , avoid using too much social media as this will keep yourself away from negative thoughts, and last and foremost important is pray 5 times everyday recite quran and do some physical exercises .
Useless and impractical Advice! when you gets hungry then go and make yourself busy in work, recite Quran and start offering prayer! Thirst or hunger will not let you to do all that or in best proper way until and unless you drink and eat! Same is the case with sexual desires!
Sir Boht achay sy sumjhaya hy ap ny .. Roza best hy es k liye Gar dry fasting nhi ho pa rhi To water fast kryn Sadi khoraak Mirch masaly moraghan khany bnd kiye jaye Khany m Fruits Salaad Kado tori Sabziyan or raytay jin m danya ho hara danya boht best hy estamal kia jaye .. pani pina zyada kr dyn exercise ya yoga walk kryn daily Koi jismani khel khelna jesay k football Or Thak kr neend pori lena 7 8 ganty ki Bchon k sath waqt gozarana Khud ko bzy rakhna zrori hy ... Meherbani ..
Yes, exactly. It is a matter of mindset. Some decades ago once I happened to ask a friend of mine as to how he was keeping himself aloof from the rubbish that was prevailant in other boys around us. His answer was that he considered himself above it.
There is so much moral degradation around us that nowadays I don’t see any moral rules left in the society. It’s the responsibility of our mothers that they inculcate these moral values into their kids especially men who are considered free souls and even mothers don’t pay any attention towards their upbringing.
Subhan Allah Jazakala khair Thank you very much for your very informative and very interesting program on Sexual fantasies and desire Although you have tried your best There's no doubt in it that you have given some very good guidelines Problem is not so easy It's an Animal Instinct issue Any normal person let it be male or female Are bound to have sexual desires Someone has suggested Early marriage is the only solution By the time marriage takes place One reaches age between 25 to 30 years What about from the time one has reached puberity to marriage Sometimes even after getting married Sometimes even throughout the entire life To avoid all this Best solution is when we are kids There should be special lectures and guidelines In the school and home
True, he has oversimplified this thing when it is not. Do not understand why our intellects do not start by saying this varies person to person and situation to situation. its not a general thing.
سب سےبڑی وجہ بےپردگی اور اس سےاوپر جہیز وغیرہ کی ڈیمانڈ اسلام نےتو شادی کرنے کو بہت آسان بتایاہےلیکن ہمارےمعاشرےنےبہت مشکل بنادیاہے اللہ حفاظت فرمائے ہماری
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I may be wrong but as far as I know about 'Maslow's hierarchy of needs', one cannot approach a situation spiritually until his/her basic physiological needs are fulfilled. Same goes for food, sleep and sex.
جنسی خواہش کا نفیس طریقہ وہی ہے جو قرآن و سنت کی تعلیمات ہیں اس کے علاؤہ جو بھی طریقہ ہے وہ گندگی کے ڈھیر کے سوا کچھ نہیں بہرحال آپ کے بہترین بات کہی اور ترتیب سے سب کچھ سمجھا دیا
سب سے پہلے پیٹ کی بھوک پھر سیکس کی بھوک پھر مال و دولت کی بھوک اور پھر طاقت یا پاور یا کرسى کی بھوک یا نشہ اکثر و بیشتر یہ سب بھوکیں اکٹھی بھی پائی جاتی ہے۔ انسان کی زندگی اِنہی کے ادرگرد گھومتى رہتى ہے۔ اور جو ان پہ کنٹرول پا گیا بس اسى کو صبر اور شکر کہتے ہیں۔
Well explained sir we have to our level up and not only depending on any physicality we are human being the superior creature of allah.we have super intelligence and emotions we can control anything if we want.
پروفیسر صاحب آپ نے بڑی شگفتہ طریقے اور اچھے لفظوں سے بات سمجھائی۔۔۔پر میرا سوال یہ ہے کے اگر انسان حیوان/جنسی سوچ بر قابو پالیتا تو صحابہ غزوہ بنی مصطلق میں اپنی جنسی خواہش سے اوپر اٹھ کر کیوں نہ سوچا۔جبکہ صحابہ تو شادی شدہ تھے۔اور وہ اپنی جنسی خواہشات اپنی بیویوں سے پوری کرکے تھے۔اس کے باوجود انکو کیوں خواہش ہوئی کیوں جنس سے اوپر اٹھ کر نہ سوچا۔۔۔۔جبکہ آج کے نوجوان جنھوں نے اپنی خواہش چاہ کر بھی حلال طریقے سے پوری نہیں کر پا رہے کیونکہ مالی اعتبار،نوجوانی کا جوش انکے زہن میں یہی کشمکش ہے گناہ ہے لیکن پھر بھی قابو نہیں پاسکے۔جب صحابہ اس سوچ پر قابو نہ کرسکے تو آج کیسے ممکن ہے؟؟
Very amazing person... I would say the thoughts are result of immaturity and brain not able to know who really is Allah, brain lost from reality of presence of Allah .. We are always in Allah presence the greatest... We should develop fear of Allah for following the path which is abandoned... May Allah forgive us with his love and mercy
1. Faverin 50 mg 1 morning 2. Clomfranil 25 mg 1 evening ان الله هو الرزاق ذو القوة المتين Ya Allah fulfill all jayez Hajat of whole Muslim Ummah and give acceptance to all Jayez Duas of whole Momans including myself and mine family members. Ameen جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء فی الدنیا والآخرۃ
great answers but a 50 year old man can understand this, the class suffering from this anxiety is unable to understand these complicated concepts without having any exposure of real life. It would be more better if you have explained the topic for both married and unmarried in simple and clear words how a 18 year boy/girl can understand the meaning of spirituality and different levels of life when he/she is suffering from sexual anxiety? simple ans for unmarried to get married Asap for married facing this anxiety from long even after marriage is to get married again :) its just my opinion
بروقت شادی کرنا روزہ رکھنا اچھی صحبت اختیار کرنا نظریں جھکا کر رکھنا سادہ اور پورا لباس پہننا کھیل کود میں وقت بسر کرنا کثرت سے استغفار کرنا وغیرہ وغیرہ
Surah Dahar (Surah Insaan) bhi is ko kaha jata ha. Yeh surah parhny sa nafs qawi hota ha or jab nafs qawi ho ga tu insan ghalat thought bhi nhi sochy ga or ghalat kary ga bhi nahi. Sari energy sahi kaam ki taraf lagayien taky ghalat thoughts nuksan na dein.
Assalam Alikum Dr Javed, I just watched this video. Mashallah you have explained the topic very precisely. I want to request you and your team to please put ENGLISH captioning in this video so younger generation in west also get benefits from this or if that's not possible than make an other one just in English same topic same explanation. I will be very thankful to you Inshallah.
sir u r absolutely right sir aap ne bohat hee achay tareekay se ye bat samjhai Hy u r great ❤ MashaAllah 🤲 Allah apni hifzo Ammaan mein rakhay Aapko. Allah Hmain hadayat day achi baton pe Amal karnay ki Aameen ya rab ul Aalaameen 🤲🤲🤲
i don't think anyone can find more comprehensive answer than this..... sir if you had included timely marriage and advice of prophet Sallallahu aleiwasalm is to fast...... thanks for very very nice answer
1. Try to eat less like if you take 2 bread take 1 instead. 2. Namaz won't help you either. 3. Do dopamine detox like don't do any which your body likes, like eating junk food, drinking cold drinks. It is one of the toughest task you will encounter in your life. Always do repentance. Ask Allah to give you the spiritual islamic leader for cure of this disease.
What you keep thinking all the time gets your mind just avoid such friends social media encounters... Its all about seeing and then believing in it. But natural desires are not going to get stop patience is always not the key. But keeping distance may be helpful
Hamaray parents ki generation bahut hi high class k log hain lekin is pe unhon ne kabi tawajjo hi nhi d, i am almost 43 still unmarried. Today I am rejected just because of my age. I was nớt willing to marry now, my family insisted me to talk to girl and her family, I did, they said in the end everything is ok just age is too much. I just want to say that our parents generation couldn’t understand that how much big need is sexual relationship. I always heard that i am still not an old man. Otherwise alhamd o lillah i was one of the most beautiful boy of my school and college and i am educated person. But just they think i am still a kid
@@HuzaimKhan-o2w thanks a lot, i am in uk, i had offer of a lady, who is widow and has a baby girl, two personal houses in uk, but i don’t want that kind, if a beautiful young lady with good character will come in my life i will marry otherwise i will not marry
Thank you much needed this ❤ whenever i get desires i start to think about all the responsibilities i have but never tried to carry them, it also helped me alot. I use another technoque of FOMO ( fear of missing out).
Solution Sirf ek h, Set your Goal( like career ) and lock it tight with time attention other wise you will not handal the nafs I also passing myself in this difficult situation
Gunahon SE bachne ki taufiq sirf Allah de Sakta hai.. is lie hamen subah aor Shaam k waqt Allah ka zikar Karna chahiye aor Allah SE madad talab Karni chahiye.
Sir I think main solution is marriage , and timely marriage, bride and groom family should omit all formalities in marriage that cause the late marriage like gold , job, home etc. Simple marriages on time and trying for own fate , after you get family you can manage everything when you are young, but in later age no happiness seems like happiness.
ASSALAM O ALIKUM! well explained, sir But you have missed some details like the high sex harmons levels at teen age to 30's which vary case to case...& also trigger the behaviours... This is what causes adversity .. now this is the external cause which may be the result of the brought up of the individual (might be affected by the use of technology..like of movies ..social media use, addiction of watching ponographic stuff, etc) or result of bad diets too many spices in the diet, use of chicken as it contains too many chemicals.. or milk containing oxytocin, results in early initiation of secondary sex characters in male & female individuals...(milk man use for ease of milking cows...) being not religious is another vast topic......
Jo mrzi baatain kr lain intellect kaam nae kerta os time. Marriage is solution. Nothing else. I got married at age 34 and i feel i have lost the best moments of my life. Real time to do this is from may be 18 to 28. Yes it can be done after 30s even after 40 and 50 but with less joy. Start earning early. So you can support your spouse.
Social media or bad company bad videos or gndi films or songs ko ignore kren ... Koi asi activity na kren Jo kl ko zilat ruswai ka sabab bne .. Izat se berh k Kuch ni hota ..
پیارے بچوں بس یہ ایک گفتگو ہے جو ساٹھ سال کے بعد کی جاتی ہے اور ساٹھ سال کی عمر کے ہو جائیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے اٹھارہ سال کی عمر میں نا تو یہ بات کی جاتی ہے نا سنی جاتی ہے اور نا ہی سمجھ آتی ہے لہذا اس ساری گفتگو کا نتیجہ یہ نکلا کہ ان سوالوں کا کوئی جواب نہیں🙃🙃🙃
My advice
1. Keep yourself busy and physically exert yourself.
2. Fast frequently
3.Guard your eyes
Good 😮
Yahi usool maerey nephew nae apnae young kids ke liey apnaey thae,"(1) fajar ki namaz masjid Mae.
(2)nashta sabb ke Saath.
3)school/ college.
4)zuhur in masjid,lunch with the family.
5)afternoon nap.
6)asar, in masjid.outdoor games.
7)homework.
8)MAGHRIB namaz in masjid.
9)dinner) . ISHA in masjid.
Time hi ghalat kaam ke liey Nahin BACHAE ga.
Yeh sarae OOPER ke kamon Mae Walid ya koee aur male member supervise karega, masjid Janae Mae etc.
Sub say aham jaldi shadi aur us kay liyay saaadgi
Good advice but still this is not gonna work for many people. Even if it is, it's not gonna work for too long. Eventualy you have to get married to a person who can meet up your sexual desires i.e. who's sexually compatible with you but again such a partner is hard to find. So here comes the option for 2nd marriage, which is more of a necessity for young men with higher sexual energy than just a "sexual fantacy" as society labels it for men.
Sir, asp nay itnay sensitive topic ko bhot decent tarika say bhot munasib alfaz k saath explain kia ha, beautiful.thank you sir.
yep , its ok if u have this feelings , but we can meet if things r becoming hard for you, I can help u dear , whats ur insta id
صبر کرنے کا حوصلہ چائیے تجسس سے نکلنا مہارت ھے پھر کامیابی پکی کھانے پینے میں اعتدال کی بہت اہمیت ہے
I would advise the youth to keep themselves busy in there work , avoid using too much social media as this will keep yourself away from negative thoughts, and last and foremost important is pray 5 times everyday recite quran and do some physical exercises .
Absolutely right
Good
The best solution ever
Useless and impractical Advice! when you gets hungry then go and make yourself busy in work, recite Quran and start offering prayer!
Thirst or hunger will not let you to do all that or in best proper way until and unless you drink and eat! Same is the case with sexual desires!
Tanha mat rahen namaz parhen
Sir
Boht achay sy sumjhaya hy ap ny ..
Roza best hy es k liye
Gar dry fasting nhi ho pa rhi
To water fast kryn
Sadi khoraak
Mirch masaly moraghan khany bnd kiye jaye
Khany m
Fruits
Salaad
Kado tori
Sabziyan or raytay jin m danya ho hara danya boht best hy estamal kia jaye .. pani pina zyada kr dyn exercise ya yoga walk kryn daily
Koi jismani khel khelna jesay k football
Or
Thak kr neend pori lena 7 8 ganty ki
Bchon k sath waqt gozarana
Khud ko bzy rakhna zrori hy ...
Meherbani ..
Perfectly explained 👍
May Allah(SWT) help and guide us all ❤
Mufti Tariq Masood Great explained for this topic۔۔
Mashallah
Zindagi ky tamam mamlat main nabi kareem pbuh ki zindagi hamary liay bahteern namuna ha.
Bilkul sahi inmarmative batain hain allah sab ka imaan salamat rakhay ameen
Yes, exactly. It is a matter of mindset. Some decades ago once I happened to ask a friend of mine as to how he was keeping himself aloof from the rubbish that was prevailant in other boys around us. His answer was that he considered himself above it.
Dr Saab. You have nailed it. Allah pak apko lambi Zindagi atta kare ameen
شادی ہی اس کا اصل علاج ھے❤
What a level of explanation, hats off sir 👏👏👏👌👌
There is so much moral degradation around us that nowadays I don’t see any moral rules left in the society. It’s the responsibility of our mothers that they inculcate these moral values into their kids especially men who are considered free souls and even mothers don’t pay any attention towards their upbringing.
Subhan Allah
Jazakala khair
Thank you very much for your very informative and very interesting program on
Sexual fantasies and desire
Although you have tried your best
There's no doubt in it that you have given some very good guidelines
Problem is not so easy
It's an Animal Instinct issue
Any normal person let it be male or female
Are bound to have sexual desires
Someone has suggested
Early marriage is the only solution
By the time marriage takes place
One reaches age between 25 to 30 years
What about from the time one has reached puberity to marriage
Sometimes even after getting married
Sometimes even throughout the entire life
To avoid all this
Best solution is when we are kids
There should be special lectures and guidelines
In the school and home
True, he has oversimplified this thing when it is not. Do not understand why our intellects do not start by saying this varies person to person and situation to situation. its not a general thing.
بہت ہی بہترین انداز میں سمجھایا ہے
سب سےبڑی وجہ بےپردگی اور اس سےاوپر جہیز وغیرہ کی ڈیمانڈ
اسلام نےتو شادی کرنے کو بہت آسان بتایاہےلیکن ہمارےمعاشرےنےبہت مشکل بنادیاہے
اللہ حفاظت فرمائے ہماری
"Your channel is a breath of fresh air”
"Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us"
"Your videos are not only informative but also entertaining to watch"
"Your dedication to making high-quality educational content is truly admirable".
👌👌👌
Dr sahib explained this topic very briefly and in an interesting way...
I may be wrong but as far as I know about 'Maslow's hierarchy of needs', one cannot approach a situation spiritually until his/her basic physiological needs are fulfilled.
Same goes for food, sleep and sex.
Good job dr. Sb... In topics pr bat krn buhttt zrori ho chuka hy ab hmari society mein..mery pas daily buhttt cases aa rhy hen es trah k
Apny best way or best words my explain kea.... I was like K kesy answer kryngy ap isy but U did ur best
جنسی خواہش کا نفیس طریقہ وہی ہے جو قرآن و سنت کی تعلیمات ہیں اس کے علاؤہ جو بھی طریقہ ہے وہ گندگی کے ڈھیر کے سوا کچھ نہیں
بہرحال آپ کے بہترین بات کہی اور ترتیب سے سب کچھ سمجھا دیا
جسمانی بھوک پورا ہونے کی بعد دوسری خواہش جنسی خواہش ہے جوانی میں ۔۔اس کا حل صرف شادی وقت پر کرنا ہے
سب سے پہلے پیٹ کی بھوک
پھر سیکس کی بھوک
پھر مال و دولت کی بھوک
اور
پھر
طاقت یا پاور یا کرسى کی بھوک یا نشہ
اکثر و بیشتر یہ سب بھوکیں اکٹھی بھی پائی جاتی ہے۔
انسان کی زندگی اِنہی کے ادرگرد گھومتى رہتى ہے۔
اور جو ان پہ کنٹرول پا گیا بس اسى کو صبر اور شکر کہتے ہیں۔
@@TheRider..In sub me apki favorite bhook konsi?
@@armanhaider8235 Wohi jo ap ki hai.
@@TheRider..Ok
very very impressive. i am 34..lakin aj tak ye bat smjh nahi ae thi..ab smjh ae. wel done sir...
Well explained sir we have to our level up and not only depending on any physicality we are human being the superior creature of allah.we have super intelligence and emotions we can control anything if we want.
Subhan Allah!
Jazak Allah khair!
Thank you dr. sahab u explained beautifully 👍🌺
That we call a real intellect. A think tank❤❤. hats off Sir...
Thank you sir, very sensitive topic and been explained in a very dignified manner.
پروفیسر صاحب آپ نے بڑی شگفتہ طریقے اور اچھے لفظوں سے بات سمجھائی۔۔۔پر میرا سوال یہ ہے کے اگر انسان حیوان/جنسی سوچ بر قابو پالیتا تو صحابہ غزوہ بنی مصطلق میں اپنی جنسی خواہش سے اوپر اٹھ کر کیوں نہ سوچا۔جبکہ صحابہ تو شادی شدہ تھے۔اور وہ اپنی جنسی خواہشات اپنی بیویوں سے پوری کرکے تھے۔اس کے باوجود انکو کیوں خواہش ہوئی کیوں جنس سے اوپر اٹھ کر نہ سوچا۔۔۔۔جبکہ آج کے نوجوان جنھوں نے اپنی خواہش چاہ کر بھی حلال طریقے سے پوری نہیں کر پا رہے کیونکہ مالی اعتبار،نوجوانی کا جوش انکے زہن میں یہی کشمکش ہے گناہ ہے لیکن پھر بھی قابو نہیں پاسکے۔جب صحابہ اس سوچ پر قابو نہ کرسکے تو آج کیسے ممکن ہے؟؟
Very amazing person... I would say the thoughts are result of immaturity and brain not able to know who really is Allah, brain lost from reality of presence of Allah .. We are always in Allah presence the greatest... We should develop fear of Allah for following the path which is abandoned... May Allah forgive us with his love and mercy
1. Faverin 50 mg 1 morning
2. Clomfranil 25 mg 1 evening
ان الله هو الرزاق ذو القوة المتين
Ya Allah fulfill all jayez Hajat of whole Muslim Ummah and give acceptance to all Jayez Duas of whole Momans including myself and mine family members. Ameen
جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء فی الدنیا والآخرۃ
Very informative and effective explanation sir.. 🎉🎉🎉
great answers but a 50 year old man can understand this, the class suffering from this anxiety is unable to understand these complicated concepts without having any exposure of real life. It would be more better if you have explained the topic for both married and unmarried in simple and clear words how a 18 year boy/girl can understand the meaning of spirituality and different levels of life when he/she is suffering from sexual anxiety? simple ans for unmarried to get married Asap for married facing this anxiety from long even after marriage is to get married again :) its just my opinion
I'm from India, I like your experience and explanation
بروقت شادی کرنا
روزہ رکھنا
اچھی صحبت اختیار کرنا
نظریں جھکا کر رکھنا
سادہ اور پورا لباس پہننا
کھیل کود میں وقت بسر کرنا
کثرت سے استغفار کرنا
وغیرہ وغیرہ
Mashallah
Bht hi khoobsurat andaaz mein btaya ap nai sir
The young man and woman do namaz do Roza and fear of Allah this is the best way and Dua every time I hope they will go right path inshaAllah
Explained it ,at intellectual level ♥️
Brief & to the point👍- In short nicely addressed the social burning issue of the youth! -
Kamal karty hain g ap......
You really deserve respect....
Baba kmal cheez hain g ap......
Surah Dahar (Surah Insaan) bhi is ko kaha jata ha. Yeh surah parhny sa nafs qawi hota ha or jab nafs qawi ho ga tu insan ghalat thought bhi nhi sochy ga or ghalat kary ga bhi nahi. Sari energy sahi kaam ki taraf lagayien taky ghalat thoughts nuksan na dein.
Basic yh hai k avoid bad company .apni nazro ki hifazt karain borai byhayai na dykhain need kam ho jay g khud ko kisi or activity mne involve krain
Sunnat ko poora kr k. Simple Answer hai
Assalam Alikum Dr Javed, I just watched this video. Mashallah you have explained the topic very precisely. I want to request you and your team to please put ENGLISH captioning in this video so younger generation in west also get benefits from this or if that's not possible than make an other one just in English same topic same explanation. I will be very thankful to you Inshallah.
Salam ALLAH PAK capital wrds me
apko b benefit Hu gya tu ab control krna zara
hello.where are you?
Yeah, they should make a video in English language so that we can see practicality of the point of view...
سلام سب با وضو رہیں درود پاک پڑھتے رہیں
Very Good Point Uncle You Are Great May Allah Blees You Alwyse May Allah Protect You Averyday
Choti umer nikkah ka concept bhi achi cheez ha
Zina sy bacha ja sakta ha
Beautiful way of explanation Dr sab . jazakallah
Salam
Very nice the way of teaching sir. Allah bless you alot ❤
Agreed I highly appreciate u sir be Blessed 👍
बहुत शानदार explanation 🎉 sir
Ap bhi TU bohot shandaar hai
💕 from bahawalpur pk
Shadi at the time is the solution.
بالکل ٹھیک مگر افسوس ہمارے معاشرے میں ماں باپ نہ وقت پر شادی کرتے ہیں اور اگر ہو بھی جائے تو میاں بیوی کو بسنے نھیں دیتے۔
Nahi karatae bhai jan jab tak 30 sal ka na hojayi 😭😭😭
Koi waqt tha k walden 14 saal ki larki k liye preshan hote the. Ab larki 30 saal ki hojae to bhi aane waale sb ache rishton ko inkar kr dete hen
Exactly
sir u r absolutely right sir aap ne bohat hee achay tareekay se ye bat samjhai Hy u r great ❤ MashaAllah 🤲 Allah apni hifzo Ammaan mein rakhay Aapko. Allah Hmain hadayat day achi baton pe Amal karnay ki Aameen ya rab ul Aalaameen 🤲🤲🤲
afifa.why?
Good lectures from land of all fitnas.
Jazak-Allah
i don't think anyone can find more comprehensive answer than this.....
sir if you had included timely marriage and advice of prophet Sallallahu aleiwasalm is to fast...... thanks for very very nice answer
1. Try to eat less like if you take 2 bread take 1 instead.
2. Namaz won't help you either.
3. Do dopamine detox like don't do any which your body likes, like eating junk food, drinking cold drinks.
It is one of the toughest task you will encounter in your life. Always do repentance. Ask Allah to give you the spiritual islamic leader for cure of this disease.
You are delivering best knowledge as well as help in channel growth for beginners for courage
Bohaaaaaaat hi payare tariqy sy smjaya h apny😊
What you keep thinking all the time gets your mind just avoid such friends social media encounters... Its all about seeing and then believing in it.
But natural desires are not going to get stop patience is always not the key.
But keeping distance may be helpful
بہت اعلیٰ حضرت۔
हिंदी में थंबनेल लिखना दर्शाता है कि आपको भारत से भी व्यूअरशिप मिलती है
सही भी है आप काम ही ऐसा कर रहे हो
थैंक यू
Doctor sahib sahib e ilm hai India me bhi lazmi dekha or suna jata ho ga or apka bhi dhanvaad
💕 from pk
Hamaray parents ki generation bahut hi high class k log hain lekin is pe unhon ne kabi tawajjo hi nhi d, i am almost 43 still unmarried. Today I am rejected just because of my age. I was nớt willing to marry now, my family insisted me to talk to girl and her family, I did, they said in the end everything is ok just age is too much. I just want to say that our parents generation couldn’t understand that how much big need is sexual relationship. I always heard that i am still not an old man. Otherwise alhamd o lillah i was one of the most beautiful boy of my school and college and i am educated person. But just they think i am still a kid
God help you bro
I am 53 and still unmarried.
Asalamo alaikum
Agr ap shadi krn chahte ha to ha aik nice person she wewa han woh oor 4 bache ha
@@HuzaimKhan-o2w thanks a lot, i am in uk, i had offer of a lady, who is widow and has a baby girl, two personal houses in uk, but i don’t want that kind, if a beautiful young lady with good character will come in my life i will marry otherwise i will not marry
Aisa hota hai don't worry aap khud bhi iske jimmedar hain
Thank you much needed this ❤ whenever i get desires i start to think about all the responsibilities i have but never tried to carry them, it also helped me alot. I use another technoque of FOMO ( fear of missing out).
More power to you
You explained jismani level and intellect level but what are emotional and spiritual levels in this context. Thanks
Solution Sirf ek h, Set your Goal( like career ) and lock it tight with time attention other wise you will not handal the nafs
I also passing myself in this difficult situation
Nice Topic ❤❤❤🎉
Gunahon SE bachne ki taufiq sirf Allah de Sakta hai.. is lie hamen subah aor Shaam k waqt Allah ka zikar Karna chahiye aor Allah SE madad talab Karni chahiye.
Definitely.
ALLAH PAK DR. SAAB KAY ILAM MA AZAFA FARMY ❤❤❤
A very good effort
Very nice .What a Exampel
Jazak Allah
Best part last 3 minutes
Well explained!
Sir I think main solution is marriage , and timely marriage, bride and groom family should omit all formalities in marriage that cause the late marriage like gold , job, home etc. Simple marriages on time and trying for own fate , after you get family you can manage everything when you are young, but in later age no happiness seems like happiness.
Jazak Allah khair, good video 🤩
Great sir, thank you so much
Very basic... jazakAllah for education/ sadqa jaria. However message is missing for adults/ aging men. Please share episode2
Much needed vlog sir. Thanks.
JAZAK ALLAH KHAIR
Sir you explained very wisely 👍🏻
That’s y the understanding of Quran should be the basic element of every Muslim’s life…
خواہش کو کنٹرول کرنے کے لئے اپنے آپ کو مصروف رکھیں نماز پڑھیں روزہ رکھیں اگر یہ کام نہیں کر سکتے تو شادی کریں
محبت کرنی ہے تو اس ذات سے کریں جو محشر میں اپنی نا فرمان امت کے لیے اللّٰہ سے اپیل کرے گا۔ اللّٰہ پاک سب کو پیارے نبی کی زیارت نصیب فرمائے آمین ۔
ASSALAM O ALIKUM!
well explained, sir
But you have missed some details like
the high sex harmons levels at teen age to 30's
which vary case to case...& also trigger the behaviours...
This is what causes adversity ..
now this is the external cause which may be the result of the brought up of the individual (might be affected by the use of technology..like of movies ..social media use, addiction of watching ponographic stuff, etc)
or
result of bad diets too many spices in the diet,
use of chicken as it contains too many chemicals..
or milk containing oxytocin, results in early initiation of secondary sex characters in male & female individuals...(milk man use for ease of milking cows...)
being not religious is another vast topic......
Jo mrzi baatain kr lain intellect kaam nae kerta os time. Marriage is solution. Nothing else. I got married at age 34 and i feel i have lost the best moments of my life. Real time to do this is from may be 18 to 28. Yes it can be done after 30s even after 40 and 50 but with less joy. Start earning early. So you can support your spouse.
Wonderful answer
Sir Nabi PBUH nay un ashab say farmaya Jo shadi nahi karsaktay thy Kay wo rozay rakhain is say jinsi khowahhish kam ho jati hai
Aree hindi.... amazed to see doc sahab.
Social media or bad company bad videos or gndi films or songs ko ignore kren ... Koi asi activity na kren Jo kl ko zilat ruswai ka sabab bne ..
Izat se berh k Kuch ni hota ..
Thank you so much, for this video please make more videos on this topic.
Make marriages easy and boys,do gym and excercise and girls do yoga and aerobics
After marroed fantasy ka kia karain
@@techniqueess same
Some time phatny k dil krta kabo krna mushkil boht mushkil
2nd marrige k culture kb accept ho ga in pakistan
@@techniqueess u start it why asking others
پیارے بچوں بس یہ ایک گفتگو ہے جو ساٹھ سال کے بعد کی جاتی ہے اور ساٹھ سال کی عمر کے ہو جائیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے اٹھارہ سال کی عمر میں نا تو یہ بات کی جاتی ہے نا سنی جاتی ہے اور نا ہی سمجھ آتی ہے لہذا اس ساری گفتگو کا نتیجہ یہ نکلا کہ ان سوالوں کا کوئی جواب نہیں🙃🙃🙃
Surf Shadi hi nahi iska solution.
Jo dr Saab Ney bataya =intellectually correct
Perfectly explained sir 👍
Hiii
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Perfectly explained.
Jazak ALLAH ❤️
Sir weldon
Excellent analysis
Thanks very Good information