Steps 1-Keep yourself calm 2-validate kids feelings 3-Explore reasons collaboratively 4-plan together a strategy 5-reflect 6-phone or other screens be replaced by spending quality time with our teens, listening to them, no nasihats or lectures, get them busy in other skills learning activities that they enjoy 😎
At the time of child's misbehavior 1. stay calm and don't react, 2.Connect, 3.validate,4. redirect, 5.have a collaborative approach. Understand why the child behaved in that manner.
@@spookyraja9495 in which world? I think its the peak of "marks doesn't matter much" nowadays than ever before...people having heavy degrees but no skills have no future...thata what i think i don't know maybe i am confused
From my personal experience i realise all children need is alot of love care hugs they want parents to always express them by saying i love you and lots of kisses and hugs even if children are adults . Im a mother but i still love when my parents say we love you and they ask me how I am they make me feel special and we all want to feel special
I think it's important to train parents about upbringing of children cz many parents think that they have every right to humiliate and punish their children for not obeying them or living their life according to their likings.
Great information i agree with Mr, Zishaan advice parent has to understand their children needs and how their feeling in each choices what they makes and be supportive in a positive manner May Allah show our generation a good path (Ameen)
Very nicely explained I need to add this generation children now are very smart they need explanation for everything. And I do explain as much as I can and in easy way
Sir very very informative video jazakallaha keep it up ap bohot bari khidmat kr ry hn Future k memarun ki tarbiyat Boht sari duawon k sath thenx alot sir🙏👏👏👏
میرامحبوب مضمون پیرنٹنگ ہے!یہ ہمارے معاشرے کاالمیہ ہے کہ ماں باپ کی اکثریت اس اہم موضوع وپہلوکی طرف توجہ نہیں دیتی پھرذندگی میں ایک ایسامقام بھی آسکتاہے کہ بچے والدین کوبرابھلااورگالیاں دے سکتی ہے کہ آپ نے توہماری تربیت ہی نہیں کی تھی !بچہ توبچہ ہوتاہے والدین توبچے نہیں ہوتے ہیں اس لئے جن کواولادکی نعمت ملی ہے وہ اس بات کی اہمیت کوجان لیں کہ بچوں کی تعلیم وتربیت آپکافرض اولین بھی ہے
Children are mostly not ready to listen at secondary schools. Three of you are best advisor. Please upload more from professor who came from US . Out of country problems are bit difficult. Kids don’t like to spend time they mostly like to stay alone at this age . Good make it more . I like Dr sahib so much . He is mashaAllah filled with worldly and Islamic knowledge.
Jazak Allah doctor sahb ! This discussion also leads us to the information gap bw the parents and kids... an abrust change has happened in 21st century, which lead to a gap. Parents have to be trained accordingly
ماشاءاللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ اور آپکی کے مہمان سلامت رہیں آپکی باتیں واقعی میرے دل کو لگی میرے بچے جوان ہو رہے ہیں مجھے بھی انکی تربیت کرنے کے لیے بہت سیکھنے کی ضرورت ہے۔
In our society nobody knows what is love.every thing is time pass.ager girls aisa karin to Un ko housewife banany ki training daini Shoro kar din.ghar k kam karwaen.bachay sambhalna laga din.kam kharch man zaida chezzin kaisay akathi karni ha.bizi jub ho gi to baten bhol Jay gi.dont take tension.
Sir plz aik video is par bhi honi chahiye how to deal with servants bhut zyada narmi karyn to koi kam nahin karta aur zyada sakhti karyn to Allah ka dar hota hy
Sir Mera sawaal ap se ye he agr bache kbhi kisi se sigrate le kr pee Len to kya Karen hum kese smjhayen use bache ki age eleven start he or is ne ye krdiya to kya Karen plzz sir answer deyega meri bt ka
ہمارا سب سے بڑا المیہ ہی یہ ہے کہ والدین دنیا کی دوڑ میں اولاد کو سب کچھ بناتے بناتے "ایک اچھا اور مفید انسان"بنانا بھول جاتے ہیں۔یوں وہ معاشی طور پر تو مستحکم ہو جاتا ہے لیکن دینی،اخلاقی،اصلاحی اور ذہنی طور پر کمزور رہ جاتا ہے۔نتیجے میں جیسا معاشرہ وجود میں آتا ہے اس کی مثالیں جابجا بکھری پڑی ہیں۔ رب رحیم ہم والدین کو ہدایت عطا فرما کہ ہم اپنی اولادوں کو روشنی بنائیں نہ کہ ٹمٹماتے چراغ۔آمین
...but my question is that it z not possible to know & implement parenting skills before marriage...then what should b the best time to learn these skills...parenting is more related to practical field rather than theoretical....then is it possible to b a good parent without knowing d formal parenting tips...??
Sir mera name imtiaz fazil hai ap aj ki date mai 5..3.2021 islamia university bwp main audotrum baghdad campus aye hwey they sir mene apko salam kia tha or hand hand sanitizer bi unifoam pehni hwi thi humney
میرا بیٹا چھ سال کا ہے، بہت شرارتی ہے،لیکن فطرتاً بہت سیدھا اور حساس طبیعت کا ہے ڈانٹ اور مار کے سبب اس کے اندر خوداعتمادی بلکل نہیں ہے ۔ مجھے بہت افسوس ہے کہ میں اسے صحیح تربیت نہیں دے پارہی ہوں۔ پلیز مجھے مشورہ دیں
Khudara apney bachoon pr yaqeen kryien or unhien apney hony ka ehsaas dilwayien😦
Steps
1-Keep yourself calm
2-validate kids feelings
3-Explore reasons collaboratively
4-plan together a strategy
5-reflect
6-phone or other screens be replaced by spending quality time with our teens, listening to them, no nasihats or lectures, get them busy in other skills learning activities that they enjoy 😎
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At the time of child's misbehavior 1. stay calm and don't react, 2.Connect, 3.validate,4. redirect, 5.have a collaborative approach. Understand why the child behaved in that manner.
dr sb k contact nm mil skta h plz?
Contact no mil skta hai Dr Sahab ka
Yes its❤❤❤
Allah hu Akbar
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I invite All of you to join us for spread the truth
Plz send Dr javeed Iqbal what's app number
My Wish all the students who have their Exams will get 90 + 💯🤲
Jazak Allah Khairan kaseera
Dear Zain ul Abideen 90+ is great but not necessary, thank you for you kind words but please don't get obsessed with Marks...😊
but now a days marks really matter
@@spookyraja9495 in which world? I think its the peak of "marks doesn't matter much" nowadays than ever before...people having heavy degrees but no skills have no future...thata what i think i don't know maybe i am confused
Assalamo alaikum how are you sir? Can you tell me please K Ap bahawalpur K kis ariye se hn?
Big fan from J&K❤️
ماشاءاللہ اللہ پاک سب کے بچوں کو کامیابی دے
Ameen
Ameen 🤲
From my personal experience i realise all children need is alot of love care hugs they want parents to always express them by saying i love you and lots of kisses and hugs even if children are adults . Im a mother but i still love when my parents say we love you and they ask me how I am they make me feel special and we all want to feel special
Superb
Kindly I want help I m also as mother
Right
Allah ap ko lmbi zindagi dy or ap ese tra hmy guidelines dyty rahain
Dr sahib Allah aap ko jaza day.
Baray bachoon k bigarnay k baad kia kia jayay videos zaroor upload kartay rahain Shukria
Dr Zeeshan has accomplished a lot at such a young age mashallah.
Very vast subject and topic. Thanks for sharing sir. Guys main single dad hun, apne kids ke sath vlawgs banata hun, achay lagain. Zaroor dekiay ga👍
I think it's important to train parents about upbringing of children cz many parents think that they have every right to humiliate and punish their children for not obeying them or living their life according to their likings.
Exactly
100 % true talk. Always give respect to children just like adults. And kids reaction is the mirror image of the parents behavior.
السلام وعلیکم بھائی صاحب اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا کرے آمین یارب العالمین ،♥️♥️♥️⭐⭐👍👍👍👍👍
JazakAllah for covering this breifly
Ak line me bat kahajaye to parenting means bacho k sath waqt guzaren mushkilen asan hota jayega in sha Allah.... jazakallah khair dr sahab
Assalamualaikum dr saheb
Aap bht achcha suggest krte h mujhe bht achche lgte h apke advice thank you so much .
Great brother,
جزاك الله خير يا غالي
Mam ne buht achay se smjaya thanks
ASSALAMUALAIKUM
ALLAH Pak hamare saron pe ap jese ustaad ka Saya hamesha rakhe Or hamen bhi ap jesa banne ki tofeeq ata farmae
Ameen🤲😓
Professor saib is a gem. Love you sir
It's a best way live that give humanity a good humans
Thanks for imparting best knowledge !
Great information i agree with Mr, Zishaan advice parent has to understand their children needs and how their feeling in each choices what they makes and be supportive in a positive manner
May Allah show our generation a good path (Ameen)
Very nicely explained I need to add this generation children now are very smart they need explanation for everything. And I do explain as much as I can and in easy way
I like what lady psychologist said
Sir very very informative video jazakallaha keep it up ap bohot bari khidmat kr ry hn Future k memarun ki tarbiyat Boht sari duawon k sath thenx alot sir🙏👏👏👏
We Love Imran Khan Sb Zindabad 💖💚💖💚💖💚💖💚
Jzakumullah khair
Absolutely right....it z vry imp to learn
Parenting skills
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میرامحبوب مضمون پیرنٹنگ ہے!یہ ہمارے معاشرے کاالمیہ ہے کہ ماں باپ کی اکثریت اس اہم موضوع وپہلوکی طرف توجہ نہیں دیتی پھرذندگی میں ایک ایسامقام بھی آسکتاہے کہ بچے والدین کوبرابھلااورگالیاں دے سکتی ہے کہ آپ نے توہماری تربیت ہی نہیں کی تھی !بچہ توبچہ ہوتاہے والدین توبچے نہیں ہوتے ہیں اس لئے جن کواولادکی نعمت ملی ہے وہ اس بات کی اہمیت کوجان لیں کہ بچوں کی تعلیم وتربیت آپکافرض اولین بھی ہے
Children are mostly not ready to listen at secondary schools. Three of you are best advisor. Please upload more from professor who came from US . Out of country problems are bit difficult. Kids don’t like to spend time they mostly like to stay alone at this age . Good make it more . I like Dr sahib so much . He is mashaAllah filled with worldly and Islamic knowledge.
Thank you so much for information
Thanks sir.I appriciat both of you the way you council us is appriciatable.
Buhat khoob ,,,Maa shaa Allah
Humhey ap se mil kr bht khushi hwi sir
Jazak Allah doctor sahb ! This discussion also leads us to the information gap bw the parents and kids... an abrust change has happened in 21st century, which lead to a gap. Parents have to be trained accordingly
Pnjfx
Hursxhi!👗
Assalamualaikum AP bohat achay ha lagay raho RUclips channel walon mAh Ap ko full support karo gi
Extremely beneficial talk!!
Very nice jazakallah
Mashallah dr sb bohuttt hi super topic
ماشاءاللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ اور آپکی کے مہمان سلامت رہیں
آپکی باتیں واقعی میرے دل کو لگی میرے بچے جوان ہو رہے ہیں مجھے بھی انکی تربیت کرنے کے لیے بہت سیکھنے کی ضرورت ہے۔
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Big fan sir love from india (up)
Sir choty bachon pyb videos bnain 3,4, 5 years tk k how to handle them kyn k hmain being a parents gussa aa jata ha...
So beneficial for us
In our society nobody knows what is love.every thing is time pass.ager girls aisa karin to Un ko housewife banany ki training daini Shoro kar din.ghar k kam karwaen.bachay sambhalna laga din.kam kharch man zaida chezzin kaisay akathi karni ha.bizi jub ho gi to baten bhol Jay gi.dont take tension.
Sir plz aik video is par bhi honi chahiye how to deal with servants bhut zyada narmi karyn to koi kam nahin karta aur zyada sakhti karyn to Allah ka dar hota hy
Mashallah
Sir Mera sawaal ap se ye he agr bache kbhi kisi se sigrate le kr pee Len to kya Karen hum kese smjhayen use bache ki age eleven start he or is ne ye krdiya to kya Karen plzz sir answer deyega meri bt ka
Agar aap Quran ko aasaan tajweed se sikhna chahte hai to channel par jo videos hai unpar ek nazar daale, JazakAllah Khairan Kaseera ❤️❤️
Treat your children as your teacher and also respect them
Love from Dhanbad Jharkhand India ♥️♥️♥️
ہمارا سب سے بڑا المیہ ہی یہ ہے کہ والدین دنیا کی دوڑ میں اولاد کو سب کچھ بناتے بناتے "ایک اچھا اور مفید انسان"بنانا بھول جاتے ہیں۔یوں وہ معاشی طور پر تو مستحکم ہو جاتا ہے لیکن دینی،اخلاقی،اصلاحی اور ذہنی طور پر کمزور رہ جاتا ہے۔نتیجے میں جیسا معاشرہ وجود میں آتا ہے اس کی مثالیں جابجا بکھری پڑی ہیں۔ رب رحیم ہم والدین کو ہدایت عطا فرما کہ ہم اپنی اولادوں کو روشنی بنائیں نہ کہ ٹمٹماتے چراغ۔آمین
بہت اچھا
Byshk
...but my question is that it z not possible to know & implement parenting skills before marriage...then what should b the
best time to learn these skills...parenting is more related to practical field rather than theoretical....then is it possible to b a good parent without knowing d formal parenting tips...??
MashAllah very nice 👍 sir
Great vidio sir g
Bahut achha banaya
ہمارے بچوں کا چینل ہے آئی آپ لوگ
ایک باپ اپنی بیٹی کو کتنی عمر تک نہلا سکتا ھے ؟
ذہنِ جدید میں یوں ذہانت تو کم نہیں
پر سوچ کی تہوں میں اُترنے کا دم نہیں
Jazak Allah .
Behtareen
Finally someone from jhang ☺️
Good conversation
Anger : serious and disturb mood...
خیرالناس من ینبع الناس
Big fan big support
very helpful information.
PAKISTAN Zindabad
Big fan from chishtian.. 🍒🍒🍒
Who personality deprave the innocent generation first priority
Boht achi talk...
Thank you sr
Sir mera name imtiaz fazil hai ap aj ki date mai 5..3.2021 islamia university bwp main audotrum baghdad campus aye hwey they sir mene apko salam kia tha or hand hand sanitizer bi unifoam pehni hwi thi humney
Good video
Great work sir keep it up
Sir ap school of learning for parents bnaye ta k anay wali generation tabhai sy Bach jayen
very informative
Salam to sir javed sb
I really appreciate the valuable videos in europe i some of people i discussed they want to see or at least can read in english
Walikumaslam
میرا بیٹا چھ سال کا ہے، بہت شرارتی ہے،لیکن فطرتاً بہت سیدھا اور حساس طبیعت کا ہے ڈانٹ اور مار کے سبب اس کے اندر خوداعتمادی بلکل نہیں ہے ۔ مجھے بہت افسوس ہے کہ میں اسے صحیح تربیت نہیں دے پارہی ہوں۔ پلیز مجھے مشورہ دیں
ماشاءالله تبارك الله
they are very helpful mashaallah
Thanks 👍😊😊👍
Mashalla very nice information thanks for sharing God bless you and your family 💯📺👌👌👌💖💐
Dr Sahib when You are coming in America ..I am from California..I want to meet
Sir kindly make videos about# ADHD.
So nice😊😊😊😊
Topic is very good sir
i like your videos alot....
excellent ........
Very helpful 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Sir ap itny +ive kesy hen
There is no other choice in life but to be positive and about in every aspect of life!
Well said dr sahab 👍🏻
ماشاءاللہ
Assalam O aly kum Please provide the English translation it will be very helpful for many people
لیکن جو ماں گھر میں ہوتیں ہیں ان کے بچے کیوں بگڑتے ہیں؟؟؟
وہ صرف گھر پر ہی ہوتی ہیں تربیت نہیں کر رہی ہوتی
Sadly
ASALAM O ALAIKUM. I have a question How to