I play this game every day. It's my favorite of this genre of game because the story actually progresses! Although I have made my way to the end of the written story, so I keep having to do a 2 week side quest while they write more, still worth it #ameliaandjoeforever
It seems like she sees it as a minor thing because it gives you less mainstream recognition and celebrity status. She probably loves being famous more than actual "love for the craft"
I think it's likely because she grew up on Broadway (wasn't she playing child roles as a kid?) so she doesn't view it as a huge life achievement. It's something she's always had, so hanging on to it was a minor goal.
@@Clorala That makes a lot of sense! Also, it's so funny people forgave her for all the racism and bullying because she was good in Funny Girl. At least the whole reading rumor is giving her more attention and that's what she probably loves. Better than being on the hot seat for doing shitty things for sure.
I'm a dietitian and the part about health is horrendous. It's basically a how to guide to disordered eating. Also as a health professional I'm really hecking tired of celebrities talking about nutrition like the know something
It’s probably Lea Michele’s own view and beliefs on food, which, just because you are a celebrity, should not be published as truth or advice. This triggered some shit in me, ngl. People who are unaware of their own problems, such as with food, should not write books about it.
Yeah - as a vegan, I’m tired of seeing veganism being leveraged as a heath fad. Being vegan - IMO is about 50% about diet! And the diet part of this belief system - isn’t necessarily heathy, depending on your choices. One can be a junk food vegan.
Her saying just getting Spring Awakening would be a "small career" is fucking crazy. It's a literal BROADWAY ROLE that she's ORIGINATING. That's huge! Especially at 19! It's not even "dreaming small."
It’s also crazy because surely her broadway career IS the successful one? Obviously starring in glee was a huge achievement but to my knowledge it’s the only big tv role she’s ever had (and broadway was also a huge part of it?) vs so many huge stage roles.
the way she reveals her twisted mindset so earnestly shocks me every time😭 she’ll just heavily imply shes only nice to people so she can use them and then move on to another super sincere story like its normal
As someone with celiac (so I have to eat gluten free all the time) it always bugs me that people think gluten free is healthier 😭 there's so much added sugar and other stuff to make the food taste better since it doesn't have gluten in it so it's unhealthy for anyone who doesn't actually need to eat gluten free
There are some health reasons for avoiding gluten but if one has to do that then they most likely cannot eat replacement products either, there are both colon and skin diseases that need very strict diets. I don’t know if it’s specifically wheat or if it’s the gluten because I can’t eat gluten but I know that one of them can cause and worsen inflammations!
Another celiac reporting in - I eat like absolute trash. It's possible, thanks to the developments in food science. A hearty thank you to all the fad dieters that made gluten free Oreos possible. And yes, Lea, I am very cognizant of what I am eating when cramming potato chips in my face at 3 am. Get bent.
I worked on Glee as an extra cheerleader when I was 18 to look younger (I was about 20ish). My brother also worked on the same set as a student and we would sometimes work together. Lea was one of the lead actresses who wouldn’t even so much and LOOK at you. No smile, no hello, no anything, ever. The coach (I do not remember her name although I remember her to be a more known actress at the time) was far more cordial, as well as the other members of the cast and crew. I definitely don’t think that anyone is owed conversation just because they are sharing the same space. However, it can make for a very uncomfortable experience when your existence goes completely unacknowledged. Especially when the hours are very long and you are there for many days out of the week. A single hello, head nod or moments eye contact can go a long way. Which would be standard for any working environment. Imagine being at a job and a higher ranking employee refuses to even so much as look at you. It’s just funny to me that she has the audacity to put in her book and journal anything at all about work space demeanor. It’s actually quite comical. Edit, correction, explanation of “18 to look younger” I was in my early 20’s, approx 21. It’s called “18 to look younger” as in your over 18 but you look younger so you can play a high schooler, cheerleader etc for purposes of filming a show that is set in a scene or scenes that call for younger looking people. If they were to hire people under 18 the production company would have to follow very strict rules, protocol and have very limited hours that minors can work. So when they hire tv background or other roles they are classified as “18 to look younger” between casting and the production company.
@@hashtagmate sure so I was in my early 20’s, approx 21. It’s called “18 to look younger” as in your over 18 but you look younger so you can play a high schooler, cheerleader etc for purposes of filming a show that is set in a scene or scenes that call for younger looking people. If they were to hire people under 18 the production company would have to follow very strict rules, protocol and have very limited hours that minors can work. So when they hire tv background or other roles they are classified as “18 to look younger” between casting and the production company. I mentioned it in my original message because it seems like the ppl are in highschool and I was clarifying that I was not a kid at the time.
I used to manage a sports team in high school and before some of them started to know me- none of them would talk to me. It was so uncomfortable and I cried when I got into my car everytime cause I hated it. I convinced myself that I was crazy but them learning my name and eventually acknowledging my existence and making me welcome was what got me so interested in the sport
@@uncarley yep in biology class we tested this out by doing genetic testing on “Non GMO” corn tortilla chips and they contained modified genes because crazily you cannot tell the bees where they can and cannot pollinate lol
I mean, if we want to get real specific, corn only exists because of careful selective breeding--the original genetic modification. Always makes me giggle on the inside when I see any corn product labelled "non-GMO."
Someone recently asked me what was on my bucket list. The only item on my bucket list is to get a urine sample jar, half fill it with apple juice then roll it down the middle of a bus. Its a small thing, but I don't know I will ever have the courage.
@@loftyradish6972 you gotta do it. When I was a kid, an apple with a bite taken out of it rolled down the aisle on the school bus. Everyone was very entertained and to this day idk who did that lol cherished memory. Why don’t you help someone else have a cherished bus-apple memory
@@brioche8123 I just really like imagining a bus full of adults watch what they think is a jar of urine roll down the isle. Everyone would quietly ignore it, too disgusted to touch it while desperately hoping no one would think it was theirs. The awkwardness would be 10,000 more intense than a box of tampons spilling. I don't know if it would cause the same entertainment for others as an actual apple.
Hi, just a small correction: I have bipolar disorder, BPD is actually the abbreviation for borderline personality disorder! Fantastic video as always, drag her queen
Where I’m at (Aus) bipolar disorder also has the acronym BPAD - bipolar affective disorder. Not always but I’ve come across that in the mental health field
@@cerebratt2752 interesting! Is this something in media or is this the abbreviation used in literature surrounding the disorder? In Europe we use BD for bipolar disorder, and that’s the only way I’ve seen it as well in American research papers.
@@julieannelovesbooks I’ve seen it used in documenting, psychiatric correspondence in the hospital system from working in the mental health service within a large health district. To be fair it was new to me to when I came across it, so I’m not sure how widely implemented it is - but it seems enough so that clinicians are familiar with it. My idea is that it could be easier to differentiate it in records, or that it may lessen stigmatisation
@@cerebratt2752 That’s so interesting! My first thought would be for insurance purposes. The insurance company demands certain abbreviations and codes to be used by clinicians?
I thought maybe "how your ancestors came to America" might have been a brief moment of self-awareness and LM realising she didn't have the pull to sell books to an international audience, but as I went on I realised she probably just doesn't think the world outside the USA exists
"as we discussed at length in Brunette Ambition" the vibes this gives off, the implication that not only did you read her other book already, but that it is required reading and also somehow counts as a long involved conversation that you, the reader, had with Lea Michele personally
I love that she says you have to work hard for things in the same chapter she says she just tagged along to an audition not even knowing she could sing and got the part
As a current dietetic intern studying to become a dietitian, THANK YOU for calling out the diet and nutrition part! I swear me and my friends rant about how many unqualified people (aka, NOT DIETITIANS) are out here giving nutrition advice and encouraging disordered eating! Drives me insane!!!
She did not write a book about being friendly to co-workers when all of her co-stars from Glee said she was a terrible human being and super rude now, did she ? Big yikes
absolutely obsessed with the notion that miss ma'am over here wrote this book, sent it to her publishers, and not a single person had ANY feedback to give. they read all this nonsense about dieting and friendship in the workplace and went 'oh this. this is fine. this is good actually. good and great. readers are gonna eat this up' and agreed to publish it
this is turning into celebrity memoir book club in the best way possible. you and those podcast girlies would get along so well - they also do stand up!
"Food as a punishment." YES! YES! YES! Of course we should eat healthy, and encourage children to do so as well in an age appropriate way, but eating should be ENJOYABLE, and not just a chore we perform 3 times a day to keep ourselves alive. Four years ago, my daughter (at 25) found herself at 350lbs. We realized that we both had to lose weight. We changed the way we ate, without sacrificing taste or the enjoyment of eating. We experimented more with food, and discovered so many new cuisines and recipes that we now eat regularly. We also began looking at fast food as a treat...something we have once a month, with no guilt attached to it. If we go to a family birthday, and have an extra big slice of cake, we enjoy it guilt free. I hate the expression "cheat days", because it implies that you're doing something wrong. There should never be any guilt attached to food. If your diet is generally healthy, it can withstand a couple treat days (not cheat days) a month. My daughter worked hard, and lost 200 lbs, and feels very good about herself at 150lbs. I went from 200lbs to 150lbs, and feel fantastic. And since we lost the weight slowly, and by changing our eating habits, instead of "dieting", we'll be able to maintain those weight losses.
Oh my god yeah, people with small dreams should be respected. Honestly bestie be realistic, set goals you can reach, that will build your confident like nothing else. idk about yall but I was kind of conditioned to look down on people who wanted humble and fulfilling lives :)
same! i was told that you need to dream as big as possible and if thats your jam then go for it! but also its fine to want to have a quiet lovely life too!
A big dream also looks different for everyone, that is also something to consider. A person might want to be CEO of everything, and that is a big dream. Another person might just want to live a financially stable life with good work life balance, in a home on the countryside. Sipping tea in the sun and reading. In todays world, that can be an equally big and challenging dream to reach. We should just not look down on people, maybe as long as they don’t maliciously harm other people for their goals. Also, life becomes easier if you see that even just getting up and doing the tiniest thing, means you did reach a goal, and you don’t need to beat yourself up for not reaching that „that girl“ image or dream.
Also, in this economy, I wouldn't even consider settling with financial stability as dreaming small. I can't even afford adopting a dog right now, and I'm 32 yo
I hate self help books. The language is always classist and ableist. I’ve written for years I want a healthy body. Wanna know what I got? Surgery and even more limited energy. Yay me. /s
@@sampepper7682 yeah 💀there’s genuinely helpful stuff in there somewhere but all the self-help books I’ve read operate from a very neurotypical, non-disabled POV. Like yes it’s good to try and exercise or go outside and it is helpful for many people, but assuming that everyone has both the energy and strength and privilege to do that is not great
she is insane I'm SHOOK at the diet and nutrition part.. I've had ED struggles since i was young and this is literally like a pro eating disorder guide I would've made or saved off of tumblr back then. I cant believe she thought was a good idea to publish..??
Girl I love that you said, that people dream small as well, because thats so me!! I am a med student and i am just looking forward to just having my little family medicine practise and I do not aspire to be chief of internal medicine. My friends and family don‘t really get this and I felt like everybody else on this planet either 😅 So just thank you for seeing me and the other non ambitious souls 😊 (sorry for my poor english skills…😂 love from germany ✨)
I'm not a med student but isn’t aspiring to have your own practice pretty ambitious? Actually, becoming a doctor is a pretty big goal, too 😂 Weird that your friends and family don’t get it! Edit: as someone with depression and anxiety my goals are making friends, socialising, working through my trauma, becoming happier, being able to contribute more to chores… I can’t even imagine striving to become a doctor 😅
That's so interesting, I'm the opposite and I've always wondered if everyone wants what I do or if there are people that prefer a quieter less out there life/work. Thank you for sharing and I hope you get your dream ❤
I found out one of my ancestors was a German tassel maker and if that doesn't mean I should follow my bliss as a burlesque performer I don't know what does.
As someone who has struggled with EDs since high school, my jaw was on the floor during that horrendous section dude. Thank you for making fun of this trainwreck and your humor. ❤
carley. you own my heart. also as a current theater kid i hope you know that watching you eviscerate *the* theater kid is all the therapy i will ever need and i thank you
God I hate the idea that keeps being perpetrated that theatre is unimportant, or just a temporary thing to focus on while moving on to bigger, better things. Theatre is one of the most impressive, entertaining and physical art forms i can think of
My friend and her brother had a lot of food intolerances growing up and ultimately wrote a cookbook called “What to eat when you can’t eat anything “ WITH a qualified dietician- yes they were on the cover and the recipes were theirs but anything relating to diet and nutrition came from the professional
'I never want to eat these foods again'??? LIKE?? this is what we definitely DON'T need in our lives. thank you for the video tho, the way you summarise it is pretty incredible. eye-opening to say the least.
“incessantly and obsessively” lol 😂 this whole book reads like me writing a paper the night before desperately trying to reach the word count. she also sounds like she’s genuinely trying so hard to use the biggest words she can think of.
I agree with your appraisal of peanut butter. Got gifted almond butter - it's not bad. But adding honey to it makes it magnificent, and I was sooo disappointed to come to this realisation when I was close to finishing it. But peanut butter rules
Girl, I had a journal similar to the nutrition section of her journal when I was deep into my bulimia. The "goal" page of foods to cut out of your diet is verbatim what people with ED use. This is awful.
Lea’s story about unintentionally getting a role on Broadway when her friend went to audition reminds me of a Rachel and Santana storyline from Glee, except in that case Santana is the girl who unintentionally got a big role on Broadway. There’s a lot of differences, but also some interesting similarities.
as someone from scotland with grandparents from ireland, your great-uncle sounds like an absolute lad and you should absolutely model your life on his 💖💖
totally off topic hehe but i've been binging uncarley's videos for about a week and she single-handedly helped me get out of my reading schlump due to my mid reading comprehension levels lol & just wanted to express my thanks to the biggest girlboss there ever was😌
I've been having panic attacks every morning for like a week now and your videos have helped me so much, thank you. You make me laugh and you are so spot on ❣
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This is literally the first person I’ve seen getting sponsored by a game I actually like ❤
Also love the video 🥰
I play this game every day. It's my favorite of this genre of game because the story actually progresses! Although I have made my way to the end of the written story, so I keep having to do a 2 week side quest while they write more, still worth it #ameliaandjoeforever
BRUH I love this game and I am new here but I liked you already and now I like you even more for accepting this sponsorship
Could you pleease do a video reviewing Lana Del Rey’s poetry book?
the fact she thinks broadway is a small unimportant goal is ASTOUNDING
It seems like she sees it as a minor thing because it gives you less mainstream recognition and celebrity status. She probably loves being famous more than actual "love for the craft"
@@sylviacorvalan7716 which is wild on it’s own because without her Broadway career she’d literally be nowhere?
Suddenly the wild turn Rachel's character took in the last season or so of Glee makes sense. That wasn't Rachel, it was Lea.
FR girly is so oblivious 🫥
I think it's likely because she grew up on Broadway (wasn't she playing child roles as a kid?) so she doesn't view it as a huge life achievement. It's something she's always had, so hanging on to it was a minor goal.
she’s never beating the illiterate allegations😭
sorry lea babe
I noticed when someone mentions it to her, she laughs but never denies it. So it's either true, or she's hardcore trolling.
@@societycrumbles tbh I think she's playing into it because it has taken so much attention away from her being terrible to everyone she works with
@@Clorala That makes a lot of sense! Also, it's so funny people forgave her for all the racism and bullying because she was good in Funny Girl. At least the whole reading rumor is giving her more attention and that's what she probably loves. Better than being on the hot seat for doing shitty things for sure.
no because the thing is it would be easy to prove she can, but she won't.. BECAUSE SHE CANT
The line "My ancestors suvived the potato famine so I could become reliant on adderall" is pure comedy gold
That's the most relatable thing I heard in my life
7:43
Best sentence in the whole video!
I just subscribed because of that sentence. I was like, this girl gets it🥲
omg yes i lost it😂
I'm a dietitian and the part about health is horrendous. It's basically a how to guide to disordered eating. Also as a health professional I'm really hecking tired of celebrities talking about nutrition like the know something
It’s probably Lea Michele’s own view and beliefs on food, which, just because you are a celebrity, should not be published as truth or advice. This triggered some shit in me, ngl. People who are unaware of their own problems, such as with food, should not write books about it.
Yeah - as a vegan, I’m tired of seeing veganism being leveraged as a heath fad. Being vegan - IMO is about 50% about diet! And the diet part of this belief system - isn’t necessarily heathy, depending on your choices. One can be a junk food vegan.
Well they DO hire the best nutritionists and always look FANTASTIC so uh… maybe they do
@@JTScott1988 hiring a nutritionist and listening to their advice is very different from being qualified to give their own advice
@@jessicastjames6202 I agree to a degree but my 600lb life ain’t it either…
That shit shouldn’t be normalized.
Her saying just getting Spring Awakening would be a "small career" is fucking crazy. It's a literal BROADWAY ROLE that she's ORIGINATING. That's huge! Especially at 19! It's not even "dreaming small."
It’s also crazy because surely her broadway career IS the successful one? Obviously starring in glee was a huge achievement but to my knowledge it’s the only big tv role she’s ever had (and broadway was also a huge part of it?) vs so many huge stage roles.
lea michele encouraging disordered eating patterns and then immediately being like "it's not extreme it's just about AWARENESS".. girl.
LITERALLY
the way she reveals her twisted mindset so earnestly shocks me every time😭 she’ll just heavily imply shes only nice to people so she can use them and then move on to another super sincere story like its normal
Funnily enough bad people do that often, they don't even think anything is wrong with what they do so they aren't scared to show their intentions
As someone with celiac (so I have to eat gluten free all the time) it always bugs me that people think gluten free is healthier 😭 there's so much added sugar and other stuff to make the food taste better since it doesn't have gluten in it so it's unhealthy for anyone who doesn't actually need to eat gluten free
literally and we have to take supplements bc gluten free means not always getting nutrients
There are some health reasons for avoiding gluten but if one has to do that then they most likely cannot eat replacement products either, there are both colon and skin diseases that need very strict diets. I don’t know if it’s specifically wheat or if it’s the gluten because I can’t eat gluten but I know that one of them can cause and worsen inflammations!
Another celiac reporting in - I eat like absolute trash. It's possible, thanks to the developments in food science. A hearty thank you to all the fad dieters that made gluten free Oreos possible. And yes, Lea, I am very cognizant of what I am eating when cramming potato chips in my face at 3 am. Get bent.
Unless u don’t even like taste lolz and lots of (snow bunnies and hares” do not.
Whats really good for folks is yeasted/sourdough breads
I worked on Glee as an extra cheerleader when I was 18 to look younger (I was about 20ish). My brother also worked on the same set as a student and we would sometimes work together.
Lea was one of the lead actresses who wouldn’t even so much and LOOK at you. No smile, no hello, no anything, ever.
The coach (I do not remember her name although I remember her to be a more known actress at the time) was far more cordial, as well as the other members of the cast and crew.
I definitely don’t think that anyone is owed conversation just because they are sharing the same space. However, it can make for a very uncomfortable experience when your existence goes completely unacknowledged. Especially when the hours are very long and you are there for many days out of the week. A single hello, head nod or moments eye contact can go a long way. Which would be standard for any working environment. Imagine being at a job and a higher ranking employee refuses to even so much as look at you.
It’s just funny to me that she has the audacity to put in her book and journal anything at all about work space demeanor. It’s actually quite comical.
Edit, correction, explanation of “18 to look younger”
I was in my early 20’s, approx 21. It’s called “18 to look younger” as in your over 18 but you look younger so you can play a high schooler, cheerleader etc for purposes of filming a show that is set in a scene or scenes that call for younger looking people. If they were to hire people under 18 the production company would have to follow very strict rules, protocol and have very limited hours that minors can work. So when they hire tv background or other roles they are classified as “18 to look younger” between casting and the production company.
YES I AM SO GLAD SUE IS OK
Girl were you 18 or 20ish I'm so confused
@@hashtagmate sure so I was in my early 20’s, approx 21. It’s called “18 to look younger” as in your over 18 but you look younger so you can play a high schooler, cheerleader etc for purposes of filming a show that is set in a scene or scenes that call for younger looking people. If they were to hire people under 18 the production company would have to follow very strict rules, protocol and have very limited hours that minors can work. So when they hire tv background or other roles they are classified as “18 to look younger” between casting and the production company.
I mentioned it in my original message because it seems like the ppl are in highschool and I was clarifying that I was not a kid at the time.
@@MarsMcCarthy did you get to talk to any of the other main cast members?
I used to manage a sports team in high school and before some of them started to know me- none of them would talk to me. It was so uncomfortable and I cried when I got into my car everytime cause I hated it. I convinced myself that I was crazy but them learning my name and eventually acknowledging my existence and making me welcome was what got me so interested in the sport
Non-GMO popcorn is peak irony because technically all corn in America has been genetically modified.
WHAT
@@uncarley yeah to make it resistant to disease.
@@uncarley yep in biology class we tested this out by doing genetic testing on “Non GMO” corn tortilla chips and they contained modified genes because crazily you cannot tell the bees where they can and cannot pollinate lol
@@uncarley girliepop every single crop has been genetically modified through history
I mean, if we want to get real specific, corn only exists because of careful selective breeding--the original genetic modification. Always makes me giggle on the inside when I see any corn product labelled "non-GMO."
youre so brave for reading all these memoirs
thank you honestly
shes the hero we dont deserve
😂
"Normalize small goals." Yes, this should be accepted more in society. My favorite takeaway from your vid. 💯
Someone recently asked me what was on my bucket list. The only item on my bucket list is to get a urine sample jar, half fill it with apple juice then roll it down the middle of a bus.
Its a small thing, but I don't know I will ever have the courage.
@@loftyradish6972 you gotta do it.
When I was a kid, an apple with a bite taken out of it rolled down the aisle on the school bus. Everyone was very entertained and to this day idk who did that lol cherished memory. Why don’t you help someone else have a cherished bus-apple memory
@@brioche8123 I just really like imagining a bus full of adults watch what they think is a jar of urine roll down the isle. Everyone would quietly ignore it, too disgusted to touch it while desperately hoping no one would think it was theirs. The awkwardness would be 10,000 more intense than a box of tampons spilling. I don't know if it would cause the same entertainment for others as an actual apple.
@@loftyradish6972 lol yes! It would be hilarious even if it’s only for your own twisted entertainment.
yes!
Hi, just a small correction: I have bipolar disorder, BPD is actually the abbreviation for borderline personality disorder! Fantastic video as always, drag her queen
thank you! i honestly just guessed but this is really good info to know! thank you for watching
Where I’m at (Aus) bipolar disorder also has the acronym BPAD - bipolar affective disorder. Not always but I’ve come across that in the mental health field
@@cerebratt2752 interesting! Is this something in media or is this the abbreviation used in literature surrounding the disorder? In Europe we use BD for bipolar disorder, and that’s the only way I’ve seen it as well in American research papers.
@@julieannelovesbooks I’ve seen it used in documenting, psychiatric correspondence in the hospital system from working in the mental health service within a large health district. To be fair it was new to me to when I came across it, so I’m not sure how widely implemented it is - but it seems enough so that clinicians are familiar with it. My idea is that it could be easier to differentiate it in records, or that it may lessen stigmatisation
@@cerebratt2752 That’s so interesting! My first thought would be for insurance purposes. The insurance company demands certain abbreviations and codes to be used by clinicians?
petition to stop letting famous ppl think they can do it all
let's bully them, knock them down a peg lol
Please let me sign this-
A great way to do that is to not pay attention to them ie not making videos on them or having discussions about them
She's always been like this her parents fed her ego that much
Exception for Idris Elba
I thought maybe "how your ancestors came to America" might have been a brief moment of self-awareness and LM realising she didn't have the pull to sell books to an international audience, but as I went on I realised she probably just doesn't think the world outside the USA exists
I think that sadly many Americans don't really consider that other people might not live there lol.. especially on the internet 🫣
That, but also clearly not thinking much outside of WHITE Americans 💀💀💀
"as we discussed at length in Brunette Ambition" the vibes this gives off, the implication that not only did you read her other book already, but that it is required reading and also somehow counts as a long involved conversation that you, the reader, had with Lea Michele personally
I like to imagine the therapy session after this was just a slightly more unhinged rant on this book
just me going "AND ANOTHER THING!" over and over
This was exactly what I was thinking lmaooo
love explaining my therapist the plot of my favourite show/book/drama and paying her for it
Hahaha
I'd need a therapy session after that sponsorship ad 🥲
I'm so glad Lea Michele invented self help ❤️
lea michele invented journaling 💖
Let’s be real, Lea michelle invented ambition!
Lea Michele is a prime example of when you feed a person's ego
shes just a social experiment at this point!
I love that she says you have to work hard for things in the same chapter she says she just tagged along to an audition not even knowing she could sing and got the part
This woman writing a self-help book is like the Staircase Murderer writing a book about how to not murder people on staircases.
love that the only people you’ve made two videos about are emma chamberlain and lea michelle. truly the farthest ends of the spectrum-
there are two kinds of people in this world
@@uncarley inside you there are two wolves
A magnet has two poles
The only two genders
two genders: katy or gaga
"i know i have therapy i just read a lea michelle book" i’m CRYING
we had a lot to unpack in that session
She really said "ask not what you can do for your colleagues, but what your colleagues can do for you" and she is so wrong for that xD
As a current dietetic intern studying to become a dietitian, THANK YOU for calling out the diet and nutrition part! I swear me and my friends rant about how many unqualified people (aka, NOT DIETITIANS) are out here giving nutrition advice and encouraging disordered eating! Drives me insane!!!
Wow! I genuinely appreciate you calling out the diet culture and food shaming speech! Love you and your videos!
anytime bestie! that shit PISSED ME off food is already so loaded in our culture i dont need a glee cast member giving children EDs
once again … thank you for reading a book i never wanted to read myself but now i can laugh and talk about it … you’re doing god’s work as always !
thank you for watching! i love giving back to my community
She did not write a book about being friendly to co-workers when all of her co-stars from Glee said she was a terrible human being and super rude now, did she ? Big yikes
I love that she said never made it a priority to read books so she found more creative was to expand her mind like DVD’s
She really manifested funny girl (and her fans' EDs) by journaling 😍📝👑
absolutely obsessed with the notion that miss ma'am over here wrote this book, sent it to her publishers, and not a single person had ANY feedback to give. they read all this nonsense about dieting and friendship in the workplace and went 'oh this. this is fine. this is good actually. good and great. readers are gonna eat this up' and agreed to publish it
this is turning into celebrity memoir book club in the best way possible. you and those podcast girlies would get along so well - they also do stand up!
I will write an entire paper thanking you for reading these books just for us not to. Truly girlboss hero !
thank you for your service
I will even use APA style for the references !!!
The way you dropped the great-uncle story and then just moved on 😭😭 The delivery was so funny.
Not Lea Michele shaming me for eating a bag of chips when she got part of her face permanently removed 💀
I admire what she went through in order to write a book as an illiterate person
As a person with dyslexia this comment is very rude
@@VideosOfRandomContext I'm also dyslexic + have asygmatism and I found it HILARIOUS
I love how she frames Broadway being as low on the totem pole as something to attain.
"Food as a punishment." YES! YES! YES! Of course we should eat healthy, and encourage children to do so as well in an age appropriate way, but eating should be ENJOYABLE, and not just a chore we perform 3 times a day to keep ourselves alive.
Four years ago, my daughter (at 25) found herself at 350lbs. We realized that we both had to lose weight. We changed the way we ate, without sacrificing taste or the enjoyment of eating. We experimented more with food, and discovered so many new cuisines and recipes that we now eat regularly. We also began looking at fast food as a treat...something we have once a month, with no guilt attached to it. If we go to a family birthday, and have an extra big slice of cake, we enjoy it guilt free. I hate the expression "cheat days", because it implies that you're doing something wrong. There should never be any guilt attached to food. If your diet is generally healthy, it can withstand a couple treat days (not cheat days) a month.
My daughter worked hard, and lost 200 lbs, and feels very good about herself at 150lbs. I went from 200lbs to 150lbs, and feel fantastic. And since we lost the weight slowly, and by changing our eating habits, instead of "dieting", we'll be able to maintain those weight losses.
@@jessicastjames6202 Thank you. 😊
Honestly that's how anyone looking to loose weight or eat healthier should go about it. I also want to change my eating habits that way.
This is a very healthy approach to things that we never see enough of. Congrats to you both on the changes and your achievements!
Eating isn't enjoyable though, it is a chore lol
@@divine555get therapy
Nearly choked on my dinner when you made the matcha joke. Thank you for the laughs and for reading these books.
the level on unhinged is unmatched in this video and I'm living for it
honestly thank you
Oh my god yeah, people with small dreams should be respected. Honestly bestie be realistic, set goals you can reach, that will build your confident like nothing else. idk about yall but I was kind of conditioned to look down on people who wanted humble and fulfilling lives :)
same! i was told that you need to dream as big as possible and if thats your jam then go for it! but also its fine to want to have a quiet lovely life too!
A big dream also looks different for everyone, that is also something to consider. A person might want to be CEO of everything, and that is a big dream. Another person might just want to live a financially stable life with good work life balance, in a home on the countryside. Sipping tea in the sun and reading. In todays world, that can be an equally big and challenging dream to reach.
We should just not look down on people, maybe as long as they don’t maliciously harm other people for their goals.
Also, life becomes easier if you see that even just getting up and doing the tiniest thing, means you did reach a goal, and you don’t need to beat yourself up for not reaching that „that girl“ image or dream.
Also, in this economy, I wouldn't even consider settling with financial stability as dreaming small. I can't even afford adopting a dog right now, and I'm 32 yo
I was also conditioned that way
I hate self help books. The language is always classist and ableist. I’ve written for years I want a healthy body. Wanna know what I got? Surgery and even more limited energy. Yay me. /s
Yeah "Go on a walk it will make you feel better" I'm sorry Barbra but it looks like I have three knees now instead of one so imma stay inside
@@sampepper7682 yeah 💀there’s genuinely helpful stuff in there somewhere but all the self-help books I’ve read operate from a very neurotypical, non-disabled POV. Like yes it’s good to try and exercise or go outside and it is helpful for many people, but assuming that everyone has both the energy and strength and privilege to do that is not great
@@kaykeunil Yeah
The story about your murderer relative made me far happier than it should’ve, sorry English policemen
Hahaha... me too
cannot believe carley's great uncle invented acab omg
I imagine her family visiting Ireland and everyone high-fiving them and giving them free drinks lol
she is insane I'm SHOOK at the diet and nutrition part.. I've had ED struggles since i was young and this is literally like a pro eating disorder guide I would've made or saved off of tumblr back then. I cant believe she thought was a good idea to publish..??
Girl I love that you said, that people dream small as well, because thats so me!! I am a med student and i am just looking forward to just having my little family medicine practise and I do not aspire to be chief of internal medicine. My friends and family don‘t really get this and I felt like everybody else on this planet either 😅
So just thank you for seeing me and the other non ambitious souls 😊
(sorry for my poor english skills…😂 love from germany ✨)
I'm not a med student but isn’t aspiring to have your own practice pretty ambitious? Actually, becoming a doctor is a pretty big goal, too 😂 Weird that your friends and family don’t get it!
Edit: as someone with depression and anxiety my goals are making friends, socialising, working through my trauma, becoming happier, being able to contribute more to chores… I can’t even imagine striving to become a doctor 😅
That's so interesting, I'm the opposite and I've always wondered if everyone wants what I do or if there are people that prefer a quieter less out there life/work. Thank you for sharing and I hope you get your dream ❤
7:17 I love how she just assumes everyone reading her book is American
“If you want to dream smaller…that’s not like immoral” !!!! ty yes
I found out one of my ancestors was a German tassel maker and if that doesn't mean I should follow my bliss as a burlesque performer I don't know what does.
Perfect video for a little break during a late night study session for med school finals
omg praying for you bestie YOUVE GOT THIS
Good luck girl! ✨️
I'm so proud of Leah for finally learning how to read. She's an icon 😍
"My ancestors survived the potato famine so that I could become reliant on adderall." 🤣 that felt like a call out
the blissful moments between leah michelle scandals where i can just forget she exists are truly my favourite time of the year
As someone who has struggled with EDs since high school, my jaw was on the floor during that horrendous section dude.
Thank you for making fun of this trainwreck and your humor. ❤
Omg, when you said "i always wondered what wet dust tasted like" about almond butter i almost spit out my drink 😂😂
carley. you own my heart. also as a current theater kid i hope you know that watching you eviscerate *the* theater kid is all the therapy i will ever need and i thank you
God I hate the idea that keeps being perpetrated that theatre is unimportant, or just a temporary thing to focus on while moving on to bigger, better things. Theatre is one of the most impressive, entertaining and physical art forms i can think of
My friend and her brother had a lot of food intolerances growing up and ultimately wrote a cookbook called “What to eat when you can’t eat anything “ WITH a qualified dietician- yes they were on the cover and the recipes were theirs but anything relating to diet and nutrition came from the professional
'I never want to eat these foods again'??? LIKE?? this is what we definitely DON'T need in our lives. thank you for the video tho, the way you summarise it is pretty incredible. eye-opening to say the least.
The talent oozing off of you is real
omg 😳so kind thank you
thanks for going hard on the food section, that kind of thinking stole a lot of joy from my childhood and teen years ❤
And she's back with another absolute banger 🙌🏻 thank you for feeding us, master girlboss 🙇♀️
I’m vegan and I hate when people associate veganism to diets or “””clean””” eating, vegan does not equal healthy and it’s not its purpose either
You've officially become one of my comfort youtubers... you will be playing to try to fall asleep when I'm struggling yey
The part about your great-uncle actually caused me to choke on my non-GMO McDonald's fries. 💀
“incessantly and obsessively” lol 😂 this whole book reads like me writing a paper the night before desperately trying to reach the word count. she also sounds like she’s genuinely trying so hard to use the biggest words she can think of.
haters will say it's because she can't read
im haters
you’d need external help after completing that self help journal
it literally undoes any mental wellness you had beforehand
This honestly makes me want to write a guided journal for kids and teens that encourages actually healthy behavior and not, like, EDs
The “my ancestors survived the potato famine so I could be reliant on adderall” line 💀💀💀💀 subscribing right away
Why is this so cathartic to me
I agree with your appraisal of peanut butter. Got gifted almond butter - it's not bad. But adding honey to it makes it magnificent, and I was sooo disappointed to come to this realisation when I was close to finishing it. But peanut butter rules
Literally been binging your vids the past few days this came at perfect timing 😂🤍
eeek im glad!
Literally same
I love your humor and your delivery! thanks for uploading
Jack bullies celeb's taste in books and Carley bullies celeb's books.
These vids the only thing keeping me going 😭 Carley is the best - HAVE FUN TONIGHT BTW
omg thank you!!
"I've had people at work tell me I legit smell like a teabag". Okay, I quit being a writer. It's all already been done.
i’m so glad i found your channel, i love your videos sm 😭💗
omg welcome! thanks for watching!
just so you know, your channel is now my comfort channel. i now re-watch your videos when i'm having a bad day because they are so funny and so good
Girl, I had a journal similar to the nutrition section of her journal when I was deep into my bulimia. The "goal" page of foods to cut out of your diet is verbatim what people with ED use. This is awful.
You have very quickly become a new comfort person for me to watch and I absolutely cannot handle how funny you are 😭
same. she my new fav youtuber!
Lea’s story about unintentionally getting a role on Broadway when her friend went to audition reminds me of a Rachel and Santana storyline from Glee, except in that case Santana is the girl who unintentionally got a big role on Broadway. There’s a lot of differences, but also some interesting similarities.
I can't believe Lea Michelle published a book if she can't even read 😍 how inspiring
I am loving these memoir book videos
as someone from scotland with grandparents from ireland, your great-uncle sounds like an absolute lad and you should absolutely model your life on his 💖💖
at this point carley's videos do be saving me from the everyday atrocities of life, ily bestie
The term partner sitting there like 👁️👄👁️every time Lea writes “guy or girl”
15:28 she's never beating the allegations
watching carley's videos at 1.5x speed is really upping my auditory processing abilities
Why is the story of Emilia from Love and Pies better than anything Lea Michelle will ever write!
already know it’s gunna be a banger ❤ love these sm
thank you!
totally off topic hehe but i've been binging uncarley's videos for about a week and she single-handedly helped me get out of my reading schlump due to my mid reading comprehension levels lol & just wanted to express my thanks to the biggest girlboss there ever was😌
Same
The way you're constantly falling on grenades for us is incredible. We owe you everything, Our Battlefield Queen
my tenacious and can-do attitude is willing me to take the ttc tmrr😩🤩
you need a lot of tenacity for that
I've been having panic attacks every morning for like a week now and your videos have helped me so much, thank you. You make me laugh and you are so spot on ❣
You guys, Lea CAN read, she just never prioritizes it, like ever 😂
This is my favorite series you’ve been filming! So thank you 🥹🫶🏻
You're really coming for the second Nobel prize sis
Carley you always cure my depression with your videos
omg im so glad im here for you bestie
@@uncarley Lots of love all the way from Sweden ❤ ❤ ❤
The diet/food section showed us a slice of unhinged Carley and honestly, it was glorious.