Ex-Wife Tried to Run Me Over When She Was Caught Cheating, Then Struggled Financially While...
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- Ex-Wife Tried to Run Me Over When She Was Caught Cheating, Then Struggled Financially While My Life Improved.
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This guy is his own worst enemy.
It's like he's the one standing there going "stop hitting yourself, stop hitting yourself, stop hitting yourself" over and over.
No doubt. What a fucking loser.
Damn this story is depressing. Op is a lump of pathetic sadness even at the end.
Couldnt grow a real pair even if given to him...
Thank you for this comment I don't have to continue listening. I hate reddit confession from spineless men who still a doormat in the end
@@kos2919 me too, brother. I like stories of men with a spine.
@@legiontepes3474absolutely insane to me that in this day and age people still choose to stay in relationships with someone that will resort to violence at the drop of a hat
i screamed Doormat a few times while reading this. 😅
Remember to believe someone when they show you their true colors the first time, feelings be damned.
It’s a fake story so the point is meaningless
@@ReverseRslash wdym there's so many updates
Easy for u to say coz u hv no one to love, u won't realise how hard it actually is until ur in the same boat
@@uselessmoron6947Vast assumption for a stranger. somebody peed in your coffee today!🤣
@@uselessmoron6947 buddy it’s an AI generated post. People put stuff like that on the internet. Clearly you’re new to this
it’s so hard to feel bad for a guy who just. refuses to leave a cheater.
It's hard not to be dusgusted by people like you who's magical solution to abusive relationships is "just leave lol" as soon as the victim is male.
Yeah why do they insist to be with such a pathetic being
he is what we call a doormat gentlemen
That's offensive to doormats
No no no. He isn’t the doormat. He’s a whole factory of doormats plus the distribution center
He’s the CEO of doormat LLD
Sorry I'm late guys, didn't know yhis is where the victim blaming club had moved the meetings.
@@ZenoDovahkiin welcome to a discussion thread regarding Spineless Simps Inc.
Jesus....OP is pathetic even after the divorce
He kept in touch with her like she was still his wife
i read this comment thread before the vid even started. i'm not watching the rage bait lmao
@@idontknow2591same here lol. Glad the comments warned me, don’t wanna watch some doormat get stomped all over for 20 minutes
Oh shit, I just see the half of the video
Wow that title is full clickbait huh
OP is what we here in rural America call a pussy.
Alternative title: human reusable toilet paper grows a spine and builds self respect.
Alternate profile name for you: Obvious Delta Male
@@goneloko1368 no. I'm a yogurt morbius male.
sadly op still seems pretty broken :/
Lmfoaooo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Can I be a Lion-Man-Horse with weapons?
...I literally had to stop the video and facepalm HARD when OP bought that woman's lies and took her back.
When you act like a doormat youll get treated like one.
Weird how that's never how we talk about abused women.
@@ZenoDovahkiin bro your messages on RUclips shows you are a doormat. Please check yourself AND have accountability.
Legally speaking, engagement/wedding rings are a gift with an expectation attached and thus, in most states now, are required by law to be returned.
yes and no, engagement rings are a "conditional gift" in the eyes of the law the condition being marriage. once you get married they are "a completed" gift and no longer have a condition applied to them, and are legally just a gift (some jurisdictions may change)
Also it’s stated they don’t live in the US and were just there for college
@@nofun594 That does depend on more details tho. Like history (if the ring is passed down through family members, then its a family heirloom and needs to be returned).
Then you can also argue that a wedding ring is no longer a completed gift on divorce. Since its purpose was to seal the marriage.
But this is why pre-nups should be standardized.
@@Predated2unfortunately prenups are no good if the beta judgea rules against them.
@@nofun594
So, does that Rule about "not needing to Return the Engagement Rings after Marriage" only apply for Women or is it the same (for Men) when the woman asks her STBX Husband to Return His Rings??
- she cheated on you
- you found out and confronted her
- she got mad and put her hands on you
how can op not notice that this person is irredeemable?
Nah it’s because Op is dumb and prolly blinded by love. But dam how much you loved that women to the point you let her do that to you.
It's called an abusive relationship.
And when it happens to a woman, somehow we don't collectively sit here going "why didn't you just leave bro."
@@Pharitafication like Iam gonna say, love is one heck of a poison also, most of the times victims are to afraid to stand up for themselves. And sometimes people are dumb like that 0
I think that some times before stay in abusive relationships for different reasons like they are afraid of being alone or the person is like a drug to them stuff like that
@@PharitaficationYou end up still loving the person you thought she was, and try to get her to be that person again.
Really stupid behavior when seen from the outside, but people who are being emotionally manipulated don't see these things in a rational way. That's why emotional manipulation works in the first place.
The dude was such a simp to keep giving her chances.
We all begin as SIMPS.
It takes the cold soul crushing reality to set us free.
@@Thiccness_Is_Delicious If that's what helps you sleep at night bro.
You do realise it’s a fake story? Is that one you’ve heard before??
@@Thiccness_Is_Delicious who the fuck is we? its just you and some people
@@Thiccness_Is_Delicious I did not, don't project your weakness into me buddy.
2:40 bruh, why would he give her another chance, when he already had bad thoughts about her and her ex?
It’s fake. Done for drama
@ReverseRslash you seem pretty obsessed regarding whether a story is real or fake dude given thats all you've been commenting on this vid. Why care so much about it?
@@WeaponXSigma because it’s cringe
Because he's pathetic
OP is a sad weird dude and for that he has my sympathy. Nobody normal would put up with all that or ignore the neon red light flashing warnint signs.
"Nobody normal would be manipulated by an abuser" is the kind of analysis that is somehow always incredubly hard to find when the victim is a woman.
Isn't it interesting? When women are in the situation they are the victim but when men are taken advantage of/ abused physically or emotionally he's a doormat? The sooner society learns men can be broken and r less likely to get help the better off society will be. Ppl say spread awareness but do they really mean it? Because I see stories like this and so many are negative but I know that if the roles were reversed he would be called a survivor or warrior.
@@Breeanna-og3js both people are weak. When a Woman get used by an abusive guy. And she still goes back I do have Pitty but people make choices. Being a guy at least you would try to have Honor and some type of backbone. I know women are abusive. Just being a guy AND allowing it AND feeling in "love" with someone like that instead of feeling Hate Is weird. You can blame it on everything on the World. But people at the end of the day deside who they spend Time with.
A Story could've ended 2 years earlier and last about 3 minutes, nothing else to say.
As soon as I read/heard that he “cried” and “begged” for her I knew this story wasn’t for me 😂 thank goodness it only took 1minute and 20 seconds to save myself
I wish I had that much foresight and didn't sit through this reusable toilet paper of a man
Some people want it all- to live the single life AND have the stability of marriage.
Well, that's not possible for long.
16 minutes in, “call me stupid but I still loved her” buddy I’ve been calling you stupid since the title. Get a clue
How it wasn't painfully obvious she hust used him for a roof over her head after shit went side ways for her is beyond me. But I don't even want to finish this
Lesson for today: If you constantly suspect someone of cheating and go through their messages, whether they are or aren't actually doing it thats not love that's an unhealthy insecurity and boderline controlling. Just leave
So let me get this straight: even if they are cheating, or show every sign of it and make it look like it, was me should never check to see if correct or not because it is controlling?
@@jamegumb7298 People who cheat defend their actions with weasel-words and emotional gaslighting like "yOuRe BeInG ConTrOLliNg" and other such loaded phrases.
OP is likely a cheater who just wants to keep people from checking their phone so they gaslight people into thinking its a "boundary" issue when it really isn't.
You're in a RELATIONSHIP. If you can't trust your partner to have access to your phone, its either because you're an online "c0rn" addict or you're cheating.
There's really no other reason for couples to be so unbelievably obstinate about something as paltry as a phone.
People say "iTs AbOut mY pRiVaCy" when talking about their WIFE or HUSBAND. They gave up the right to keep ANY secrets from their partner the day they committed to them. We're not talking about the GOVERNMENT look through your phone but rather your SPOUSE.
If you have something so heinous or weird on your phone that you keep it locked even from your partner, I'll never understand it and think its weird tbh.
Smh, if OP wasnt such a gulible simp, this would have ended in the first minute of the video. Right when he noticed her shady phone behavior.
Could have saved him a lot of suffering if he had a backbone to follow up on that.
I wonder Y he married her
I see what you did there. And it is appreciated
@@Maninawig thanks 👍
If you are going to act like a doormat, you will be treated like a doormat
Bruh... we as men gotta do better with our sons because this is phucking ridiculous. It's not all on his father, tho if he had a damn back bone and either got rid of her when he found out or went to someone with experience. This probably wouldn't have gotten this far. At the same time I know some dudes gotta learn the hard way, but at least he could have been warned ⚠️ if he would have said something early on.
Never have i wanted to call the victim of cheating an idiot as much as this guy, he put himself deep into a situation that he could have ended before it began
And for god’s sake, take the goldendoodle, that poor thing is suffering living with that woman, I guarantee it
I guess one lesson to be learned is once they cheat, just let them go. It's constant cheating and pain with cheaters, and are only sorry they don't have help and they got caught, not for what they did.
I hope the golden doodle stays fine and health despite being with that crazy lady. Poor doggy 😢
Bro ngl you sound like you deserved this. You keep going backa nd giving her chances and she keeps showing you she doesnt care.
this OP is such a wet blanket
Ok ok Op is unfortunately kinda a doormat and a simp. This is ridiculously funny
Na cuz like it was pretty obvious she wasnt loyal like she literally wanted a divorce then when she got kicked out she wanted to be back?
Boohoo I'm a doormat take pity on me
Whenever someone decided to show their true colors, those damn good memories would play in my mind which makes my stupid heart say give them another chance. If that happens, I always shout in my mind
"THOSE MEMORIES ONLY PROVIDE NOSTALGIA NOT SHOWING WHO THEY ACTUALLY ARE (HAD ALWAYS BEEN) DON'T BE STUPID AND NAIVE UNLESS YOU WANT TO GET HURT MORE. IF YOU GET HURT AGAIN, THEN IT'S YOUR FAULT BECAUSE YOU LET THEM IN ONCE AGAIN BECAUSE YOUR STUPID ENOUGH TO BELIEVE THAT THEY CHANGED, NEVER BE A DUMBASS, THE OH POOR ME AGAIN!"
It always work, cut off toxic shits out, your mind has more space for peace.
Dude is such a pushover
You know someone is not smart when they instantly confront after they find out. And God was I not wrong. He is way too annoyingly dumb
12 minutes in and they're still talking? like wtf 1st minute in and she should've been ghosted. After being purposely run over and he's still talking to her like she's worth talking to? Jesus if only I could enter reddit and knock some sense into him.
why would you marry someone that early? You were in fucking college, OP, holy shit.
Glad things worked out for you, but my *guy*. fairytales don't exist, and even the most perfect marriages have ups and downs. Yours was a cliffdive. glad you got out of there and saw the light, but do both give yourself a pat on the back and a swift kick up the backside for tolerating it for so long.
bro is more pathetic than jerry from rick and morty and that says something
She cheated repeatedly....he knowing this took her back again and again he's a total door mat and simp😐
Op is weak
Why would OP wait until another update to reveal something like this is a soap opera? ...However, I'm starting to think posting these contrived stories is better than taking real stories from reddit without the OP'S consent. 🙃
He is a doormat and childish.
3:48 - That's when I stopped watching, everything that happens from that point on is on you, fool.
"I woke her up by splashing her with water"
"I'm not a violent person"
The best piece of advice I can give men as a woman, is to always tell people when you get married. Your family and friends will always see behaviors from your partner that you will not be able to see. Women are taught this from the day they are born, so many men make this mistake and I’m surprised they aren’t taught the same. The marriage was doomed to fail when they got married in secret.
As a man, this being your analysis and putting the responsibikity all on him and ignoring the woman being abusive and violent and literally getting away with attempted murder tells me all I need to know about you.
You need to raise your daughters not to lay hands on a man. Men are taught this from the day they are born.
Misandrist.
4:50 the voice went to puberty by 5 seconds
Absolutely right! 👍
Let me honest, what did he expect,she cheated on him multiple times he let it slide , so she would a course do it again !!!!
Both OP and Ex are fucked though ex took it to nutz levels with nearly running him over. However someone fucking periodically searching through your shit even when things are going well is such a gigantic red flag. The whole waking up to scream at someone for 3+ hours must have also been fucking terrifying even though she was OBVIOUSLY in the wrong with her actions he must have also been a fucking terror to be with.
That's what we call a simp because wtf ?? ... It's so hard to even feel bad for him.
I feel sorry for his father, to have raised such a weak dude🤦🏿♂️
"I would never find a guy like you" Well you HAD a guy like him and it wasn't enough for you.
I wonder if Y is bipolar or mentally ill (I’m not that far in the story )
5:55
No, it sounds like basic trailer trash
Classic simp behavior
To OP if you ever read this comments section, don't take us the wrong way. We are frustrated that we can be there to shakee you out of it and let you make decision like this. We are sorry you never had friends like us.( They really should have don't something)😢 anyways. I hope you forgive us and are happy now. Take more control of your life. Stay strong, you can do it!!! Be safe
As far as I'm concerned OP got what he deserved after not going through with the divorce just before moving back in with his parents when he first got the opportunity. You'll never convince me that she wasn't cheating their entire relationship. Cheaters tend to project and her asking OP to cut all ties with his ex solidified everything I needed to know. Dude put up with not 1 but 2 relationships where he was abused. I have zero sympathy for people who willingly stay with an abuser.
It's easy to hear this story and criticize the guy but when you're deeply in love with a person, especially your first, you can have a near religious amount of trust and faith in them. Imagine trying to break the faith of a religious person? A religious person is incredible at mental gymnastics, and loses a piece of themselves when they lose their faith.
Tragically, after seeing the "truth", no matter how much you try, you'll never rid your clouds of doubt. After ripping your heart out you're left with broken faith, a hollow part and unable to bond to the same degree again.
This reminds me so much of my first love. I look back and laugh at myself. I can hardly believe I was so foolish. But, it's impossible for me to attach myself to a partner like that ever again.
No Trust, No Privacy
So this woman was cheating on this idiot and he decided to bring her and his parents house, when their lease was up. I don't feel sorry for people like this you all may think it's not having any compassion that's not it when people sit there and keep themselves in these situations and then start whining for sympathy that's on you.
I was laughing at this like how she married without telling her mom saying why involving families after she cheats in 3month of marriage and refused to give back ring.
All im saying is the OP in this is downright pathetic and cant stand up for his life
She cheated on him and divorced him out of the blue and he took her back and stayed with her after she assaulted him and lied non stop and started talking to her ex’s after saying she wouldnt yes hes in love but its a cheater nothing more he needs to grow a spine and not fall for people like that
Well OP gave her enough chance, even went against his family to be with after her cheating 2x. Her both her 2 ex bf left her, she realised OP is best men for her 😆
The voice-change broke me💀😭
What’s the guitar song in the background
HOLY SHIT,i am Having to force myself to keep going,OP is Pathetic as shit
Stay strong dude. Stay strong. This will be a true test of strength lol. You can do it brother.
She kept cheating and he kept accepting her after finding out she cheated. Honestly I'm not even feeling sorry for him
Doormats have no choice but to have their inner-simp beat out of them until they get the hint
These are the type of men we actually don’t need in the world
Op is a NTR protagonist and the worst kind 😭
If "weak men create hard times" were a person
There are very few cases where you should get back with an ex. But generally you should never get back with an ex. If they can make you hurt so much and that easily discard you and your relationship, they’re not worth the energy. Feel the hurt and keep getting better, it takes time, but never take them back. Women have a backup when they break up with you, so it’s not just because it didn’t work out it’s because there is someone else
2 counties away from Miami dade county, they’re from Palm Beach County 😮
Bro, 4:50 voice crack 😂
It all makes sense now jws at the end makes this all understandable
Bro is a doormat
10:04
'"the female"
You making it hard for us to root for you, its all your fault, you may be the victim but it's your fault.
"conversating"? Seriously?
The word is "TALKING". FFS.
Wow! I wonder if OP has ever heard the saying fool me once, shame on you but fool me twice shame on me? I think this applies here. Being young, naive and in love is no excuse for staying with a prolific serial cheater. I understand maybe staying after the 1st but after the 2nd or the 10th? No way. I hope OP gets themselves some therapy because they deserve so much better than what they keep settling for. They will also want to get tested for every sti known to man.
Why would he beg her ? Wimp !
OP, she didn’t steal you from your family, you are the one responsible for leaving your family.
You willingly made a decision to blindly go with her, not once but on multiple occasions.
I once had to escort one of my soldiers down to TDC to point out the bar girl (hookers) he had slept with.
He caught an STD, so there we are two ROK Military Police, two KATUSAs from my Platoon, two U.S. Army MPs, myself and of course the soldier with the STD.
“All of the bar girls were lined up and he walked up, pointed at one of them and said “she is the one who gave me the STD.”
“The girl immediately said I didn’t give you anything, you bought and paid for it.”
OP get the point?
Is this the new generation of men? We're in trouble.
Partly. The most common version is boys trained to be simps by their boss chick single mothers....
However, in this case you have a broken kid who was never sent to a therapist to build himself back up.
he took her back? damn. Why are some men like this man. If she asks for a divorce and has someone els right after that, you can bet your ass she cheated. Just move on man, how hard is it
This is why you have more than 1 child, so that if one turns into a disappointment like the op you have a spare or two.
If I were in his position, finding my partner cheating me even just verbally/emotionally (not physical) ,I would just dump them and turn my back on them without regret.. Seriously?? It literally that when the person whom you thought ur significant other clearly has some emotional and intimate intentions towards another even though they had u currently with them in relationship....Its literally means ur Just a replacement for them and they are untrustworthy ...Coz once a Wolf gain a taste which it find interesting it could never stop it from doing that 🙄😏
He is talking about the next "part of the story" before having experienced that part of his life to even describe it. Afterwards the update is started. This makes no sense, if youre gonna make an AI create the story at least make it good
Only forgive your partner once,if they repeat it, dump right away...love yourself,get a dog or other pet. Being alone is not bad,even better than
being in relationship that
gives you so much pain.
And to try to answer op question: why does she do what she do? Answer: because you allow her to do so.. be a stronger,better man. Get yourself a better woman. Or maybe you two deserve each other...
It's a telltale sign of blatant ignorance to say "There opinions dont matter cuz they've never been married." bro I've never been married and I know what gaslighting is.
OP high-key pathetic. I feel for him... but he makes it so hard to not be pissed at his ignorance.
To everyone calling him a doormat, why do you feel the need to make up derogatory names for people? He didn't make the best choices, but he did eventually wise up. Regardless of how you feel about it, you're an asshole if you are calling the victim names. Like, clearly he's the victim in this story but instead of discussing how terribly he was treated, you are piling the hate on him instead. What a bunch of pathetic losers.
It’s unfortunate, because I am friends with most of my exes, so I think it is possible to be “friends with exes”. But friends in a way that we don’t have to leave establishments if we are both there and can say hello and be genuine if we see each other. My ex and I co parent well. But texting constantly is such a red flag. That’s not “being mature” or anything of the sort, that’s being in love still.
I dont know who I hate more, Y, or the dude that STAYED with her, I see crazy stories of people ruining their wives life just because of a one night stand, and this dude STAYS with her.
This is crazy.... this kind of sounds like the story of my ex boyfriend and his ex wife.....crazy.
I absolutely would have taken the Dog as soon as she claimed she couldn't care for him without more money. She was most likely lying or spending the money to party and shop.
Even if I couldn't care for the poor fella myself, I would have at least taken him and found him a better home.
You buried her because you're a simp thinking if the marriage gets a stick in the mud that you should just wait it out until it fixes itself out rather than leave a marriage and go find a better relationship but instead you were too dumb for that until the last moment like almost every other relationship story where the original poster takes so long to realize how toxic their relationship is only to end the relationship after several red flags lol
I stopped reading after ‘I got a phone call frm her saying she was being kicked out of her parents house & that she now loved me’. Guy’s brain cells obviously went on vacation.
Am I the only person that feels like this guy is part of the problem and toxicness… he screamed at her for two hours and threw water in her face??? Like why not just leave. He also takes her back the moment her mom kicks her out? She seems like her pressured her to stay and she was used to living off someone. He remained married.. I don’t know… lots of holes.
I don't feel bad for op. Dude mentally abused himself for ages and even at the end he barely learned to stop being a doormat. Never fails to surprise me how pathetic people can be
The comments are so aggressive. Any and all of you will have put up with unacceptable behaviour multiple times. Very easy to sit and judge from behind a screen.
If OP’s relationship was toxic in highschool then he shouldn’t have married Y. This was a stupid mistake.
Not finished yet but op says his life is going great but all I'm thinking is, he invited all this onto himself. She clearly shows multiple times and constantly she don't give a sh** about him and even states she needs to stay with him cuz she has nowhere else to go, and he's just like "sounds good to me"
My God it sounds like both these two were way too young and more importantly Immature to get married. This was one big eye roll from me from start to... well the middle. That's about as much as I could stand.
What sense does it make that she's so pissed about you reconnecting with a female ex/friend she made you stop talking to, but she actively stays in contact and cheats with 2 of her males ex? Like wtf is wrong with her brain