Why your EX narcissist must always return, when they see you healing

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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024

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  • @ShalomISmyname
    @ShalomISmyname Год назад +47

    They work for Satan. When they haven’t finished the job that Satan sent them to do, they are tortured. So they have to always try and come back to finish you off. It’s never been about love or them realizing the errors of their ways. They want to destroy you. Period. Don’t EVER give them that chance!

    • @fionahawkes1758
      @fionahawkes1758 Год назад

      This is 💯 exactly how I thought it to be with narcs... They are absolutely sent on a mission to destroy us & they are indeed sent from the evil one 😮

    • @Lucyfindit
      @Lucyfindit Год назад +13

      Yes, it is demonic

  • @tauzerm
    @tauzerm Год назад +61

    When the devil can not get you he sends you a narcissist in your life. They are small demons working for him. You can see that by the way their eyes go completely big and black when they are in rage.

    • @irielion3748
      @irielion3748 Год назад

      Yawn. Stop spreading unproven crap.

    • @Tokolos
      @Tokolos Год назад +7

      It is also a warning to not be lukewarm in your connection/conviction with love and authenticity. To God, yourself and others.

    • @penibeni1085
      @penibeni1085 10 месяцев назад

      I saw his eyes go black. His whole face changed into a dark monster with a voice much deeper than his voice

  • @Job.Well.Done_01
    @Job.Well.Done_01 Год назад +59

    There are no phenomena here with a narcissist.
    They work quite hard to track you. They NEED YOU to make themselves feel in control.
    Don’t be naive about these toxic monsters; they watch your every single move and they know a lot more about your life than you would feel comfortable with.

    • @jessicaabbott10
      @jessicaabbott10 Год назад +9

      YES, they will stalk you and watch your every move like a hawk, and when you notice this, they will gaslight YOU into thinking that “you’re” the stalker/harasser.

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 Год назад +3

      Yes, and what's even worse is they are probably doing the same thing towards other exes of theirs' or other supply. As soon as I deleted & blocked my ex-Narc from FB, he texted me in real-time how sad he was. Without saying how he knew I blocked him. But, We know He was watching my fb and saw I blocked him and He was upset.

    • @Job.Well.Done_01
      @Job.Well.Done_01 Год назад

      @@SagittariusBabe87 they’ll do all kinds of annoying scary sh** they get off on it. They do! They get a thrill out of scaring and mind-jamming exes. Demon energy 💯

    • @Job.Well.Done_01
      @Job.Well.Done_01 Год назад +3

      @@jessicaabbott10 yes they do. This has happened to me a few times all by the opposite sex.
      It’s really scary to think people spend that much time trying to play with your life.

  • @thepurplequeen256
    @thepurplequeen256 Год назад +81

    Their timing is absolutely INSANE..its truly spiritual because when your life is going the perfect direction. They come back crying and begging you to work it out. I will never return to him. Great video 😊🙌🏾

    • @irielion3748
      @irielion3748 Год назад

      Don't believe that shite! They damage us, which hurts, whenever they return it will bring back painful memories and feelings. No need to insert spirits into the equation.

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  Год назад +21

      They are programmed to want to destroy anything which is good. Their sixth sense

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga 10 месяцев назад

      @@joebhousecrazy people! Yeah Ive never felt so low after beeing with this man. And I also still love him thats the crazy thing. But I will mever give him myself ever again cause I know I will be low again, I try to pick myself up after this insane relationship/situationship. He never loved me. He will never love anyone cause he does not love himself! I went no contact 27 of october, and It feels like coming of a drug, even though Ive never used drugs. How do I get stronger? Im trying to do fasting now. And eating alot of vegetables. Have tested alot of supplements too.

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga 10 месяцев назад +3

      Joe! Ive heard they can stand on our door. Im scared even talk to him, If I see him I will run the other way. And if his friends will call me I will NOT take the phone. I do not wanna have anything to do with this man. NEVER. Now Im working on looking for a new apartment. Im NOT letting any man into my private parts. Not before I see a man that actually is not a narsisist.

    • @Ms_SexxyDiva504
      @Ms_SexxyDiva504 6 месяцев назад

      💫I was boo boo the fool before for ex narc but NEVER again. I still remain NO CONTACT 2 years in and moved on and healed and happy and healthy and at peace. I ignore ALL manipulative tactics and fake manufactured drama and fake hoover and flying monkeys and delusions and attempts and triangulation and seeking out negative reaction and wanting my attention and needing control. I've learned all the tricks and trades and lies and headgames from ex narc and I still remain unbothered by ex narc. And ex narc hates that he can't break me like he thought. Totally underestimated how resilient and indifference and independent and strong I am. 😊💪🏾 Nolalower9Ward ⚜️⚜️

  • @BR9900-w5l
    @BR9900-w5l Год назад +34

    He never broke me..I discarded his ass and will never look back.

    • @lioubovgrant1935
      @lioubovgrant1935 Год назад +12

      Same here, he never broke me, he wasted my time.

    • @fionahawkes1758
      @fionahawkes1758 Год назад +7

      Exactly my case also 💯 He tried, he failed 😂

    • @DiscoveredTheNarc
      @DiscoveredTheNarc Год назад +6

      It’s been a couple months since the discard… I am doing well and he seems blissfully happy with his 20 year younger than him new supply. Even though I started to figure him out, and he knows that, will he still try to Hoover?

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 Год назад +7

      @@DiscoveredTheNarc Most likely. Too many stories when the narcissist tries to return years later. Be prepared.

    • @mostHigh23
      @mostHigh23 Год назад +3

      You got lucky 😜.

  • @MissyHelena
    @MissyHelena 11 месяцев назад +13

    It's just sick and sadistic that a person needs to inflict such pain to feel better about themself. It' Evil 💯

    • @Ms_SexxyDiva504
      @Ms_SexxyDiva504 9 месяцев назад +1

      Totally agree 👍🏾💯 I've had my own toxic hell experience with an ex narc. Glad to have that demon out of my life for good. And I'm still standing stronger 💪🏾 than ever 2 years later and ex narc hates that😁 Nola9Ward ⚜️💃🏽

  • @sanjmalik6282
    @sanjmalik6282 Год назад +25

    Going no contact with the narc, his family, enablers, friends or anyone that associated with them. Taking yourself off social media and working on yourself and keeping your success very much low key until you have healed completely then your success can talk volumes.

  • @jasonsmith3594
    @jasonsmith3594 11 месяцев назад +11

    They drag down to there hell to make them feel that they did that and that makes them better in themselves remember this YOU DONT NEED THEM YOUR FREE!!! ❤

  • @andreashea4303
    @andreashea4303 Год назад +16

    I have all my Power and will never give it away

  • @markmartin2292
    @markmartin2292 Год назад +17

    Dick Cavette said "It's not enough in Hollywood to be a success, all your friends must become failures"

  • @dayofthejackal9658
    @dayofthejackal9658 3 месяца назад +2

    Truly demons sent from the depths of hell .. the only way to true healing is through God

  • @nancysmith6655
    @nancysmith6655 11 месяцев назад +6

    These people are truly evil

  • @jessicaabbott10
    @jessicaabbott10 Год назад +12

    The more I tried to heal, the more I was belittled and RAGED at. I didn’t have her special permission to NOT be scapegoated anymore. I was told that it was my fault that she felt as miserable as she felt about herself, and my own misery was punishment/karma.

  • @BeTheLight624
    @BeTheLight624 11 месяцев назад +3

    This video revealed to me more clearly the narcs end game motives and ultimate mental cruelty, as sickening and demonic as it is…it resolves some things that didn’t make any sense.
    It also reminds me of how he would spend hours looking up his old ex’s and become friends with their friends on Facebook….that is such an insidious tool for narcs.
    He has come very close to ruining me.
    With God on my side, he won’t.

  • @mostHigh23
    @mostHigh23 Год назад +11

    Mine's caught me at a vulnerable time. He let me use his car. I had it for a couple days and I thought about it. I immediately gave it back and went no contact again. I knew he wanted to ensnare me. And this was after two-and-a-half years no contact. I slipped but no damage done😅.. I'll never get that close again 😅

  • @wintergoddess8210
    @wintergoddess8210 Год назад +17

    It is a trap and a dangerous one for me .

  • @cajuncrackerranch7990
    @cajuncrackerranch7990 Год назад +12

    Thank you 🙏 Joe.
    I cannot be found nor do I wish to be found. Cluster B Experience Protection & Relocation Program.
    Missing someone is a terrible feeling. Ask a sniper!

  • @mostHigh23
    @mostHigh23 Год назад +14

    Omg... I Dodged a bullet 😅

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  Год назад +3

      Lol

    • @noturbo
      @noturbo 11 месяцев назад +1

      a nuclear warhead you mean

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 Год назад +9

    Good morning ! 🌞 a cup of joe with Joe ! ☕☕ Pretty dramatic video , but a good thing is that sometime those losers have a bad luck ( they always have a bad luck) and they meet someone, who will brake them and never return to them , brake them for good !!! Beatles have a good song about it called '' I'm A Loser'' Thank you Joe, great as always !!!🤗❤

  • @truthseeker_phoenix
    @truthseeker_phoenix 9 месяцев назад +2

    The narcs are so sad and pathetic, because I’m out of the abuse now and starting to feel amazing after so long where my entire energy went to be a supporting role in someone else’s life. Now I get to focus on me and my wonderful life. All I dream and desire moving forward. Looking back I don’t feel too sorry, but I can’t help but feel bad for the narc. How sad their lives are? They can never feel real joy or love. Instead their entire lives are built upon emotional regulation and needing to eat other people’s energy. To be so codependent is never a good idea because your happiness based on others feeling crappy is building your regulation upon a house of cards. For we can only control ourselves NOT other people. When we eventually wise up to the manipulation we are done with that.

  • @kellyandaaron2005
    @kellyandaaron2005 10 месяцев назад +4

    He could offer me a million bucks to have him back in my life and I would say hell no.

  • @mostHigh23
    @mostHigh23 Год назад +10

    I was tricked last week. 😢... He almost had me again 😅... Still going NC forever 😅. He was subtlety very nice to me. Weird. I knew something was wrong. I almost fell for it. Not the love bomb. There was none. He was just being too nice😅

  • @Mjones4949
    @Mjones4949 Год назад +13

    After 5 yrs of engagement, I wouldn't marry her and told her she needed to start supporting herself. She immediately left and got engaged in only 3 months. Lol

    • @mostHigh23
      @mostHigh23 Год назад +1

      😅..MF predictable

    • @Mjones4949
      @Mjones4949 Год назад

      @superworld22 right?! She knows how to love bomb, that's for sure!🤣🤣

    • @ambientbeathub1415
      @ambientbeathub1415 Год назад +1

      If I were engaged to you for 5 years and you wouldn’t marry me, I’d have left you too.

    • @Mjones4949
      @Mjones4949 Год назад

      @ambientbeathub1415 you realize the channel is about lying, cheating narcissists, right? Figured people would know why I wouldn't marry her. My point was, once I had enough and cut her off, she split. MY LORD!

    • @ellenmorse8559
      @ellenmorse8559 11 месяцев назад

      @@Mjones4949 A 5 year engagement?!!!! You are the narcissist! I would have dumped your sorry ass after 2 years, tops! 😝

  • @billlyons7024
    @billlyons7024 11 месяцев назад +5

    Mine just came back after almost 15 years of no contact. She keeps driving past my house trying to get me to wave to her lol. I have been enjoying pretending not to see her. I think she thought that if I saw her, I would contact her. I won't.
    I guess she is watching my Linkedin account and sees that my business is kicking ass. It's the only way she could know. I am having fun knowing that all I have to do to drive her crazy is just keep doing what I enjoy doing. I can have my revenge and I don't have to do anything.
    I'm wondering if she will snap and finally try to contact me. I kind of hope she will. I won't respond, but I will know she's suffering. She already must be, I caught a glimpse of her face on one drive by and she looked scared. I guess I understand her a little better since I am feeling really happy about it.

    • @1111spiritualone
      @1111spiritualone 8 месяцев назад +1

      i’m waiting on this day lmao. mine i’m sure been on my linkedin since i deleted social media a year ago. i have gotten 4 certifications and elevating in my career. I changed my number. I been in no contact 2 years. I just want the satisfaction of a hoover so i can ignore them and watch them get upset. 😂.

    • @JohnSzwed327
      @JohnSzwed327 16 дней назад

      Crazy!!!

  • @natasharichard3900
    @natasharichard3900 Год назад +3

    It’s so sick!

  • @mostHigh23
    @mostHigh23 Год назад +9

    He tried to break me. 😅 but no😅

  • @mariojanaf5474
    @mariojanaf5474 Год назад +20

    "The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it..."

  • @penibeni1085
    @penibeni1085 10 месяцев назад +1

    I dont think he'll ever hoover me, as he threatened to go to the police if i ever tried to contact him. I'm finally healing, not totally but more so than a couple months ago

  • @Ikaros23
    @Ikaros23 11 месяцев назад +2

    If you have done the « no contact» correctly.
    That is no contact in real life. Delete them on social media, block on the phone, delete their enablers
    Then they don’t get any information. No supply. They don’t know if you have heald or not.
    I say 🖕fuck the narcissist, and their servants the enablers. The supply is no longer.

  • @iamsoohappy
    @iamsoohappy 9 месяцев назад

    I was with my narcissist for 30 years before I broke away. He moved on in 3 months which revealed to me how little he ever loved or cared for me in the first place. If the tables were turned, it would’ve taken me years..proves they never loved you in the first place, it was just convenient to have the human equivalent of a mental and emotional punching bag at their convenience.

  • @killjoyredux8361
    @killjoyredux8361 Год назад +12

    6 months after no contact I get a hoover while I'm on holiday overseas...'did I leave a dress at your house.'
    It's so uncanny how they all act according to the same pattern. And eerie how they time it all...

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 Год назад

      How did you respond? IF you responded, That must've been surprising after 6mos to get that message.

    • @killjoyredux8361
      @killjoyredux8361 Год назад

      @@SagittariusBabe87 by that time I had already worked out who and what she was...so instead of ignoring altogether (being empathetic I'm also aware that when she had previously had narc collapses she got very depressed and suicidal, she was on antidepressants, so I didn't want that on my conscience) I just played agree rock, 'oh the one I bought you, you looked nice in that, but I don't have it sorry'. To which she replied 'yeah I'm so sad I can't find it'. Which was probably a lie. Then I saw her out with some other victim a few days later lol. She was a pathological liar.

  • @dinosaurlover2829
    @dinosaurlover2829 Год назад +3

    Even if you exposed them tbey can try to come back or will be gone for good?

  • @1111spiritualone
    @1111spiritualone 8 месяцев назад

    anyone get a direct hoover a few years after discard if you have gone complete no contact? I see people saying hoovers only happen if you left them. Just curious.

  • @TriniStarr3527
    @TriniStarr3527 9 месяцев назад

    🙏💙

  • @noturbo
    @noturbo 11 месяцев назад

    she said that you make out i am a monster lol i am not making you out to be you are.

    • @carolovesteven
      @carolovesteven 5 месяцев назад +1

      Nobody can make someone someone that they’re not.

  • @Dazz3881
    @Dazz3881 10 месяцев назад

    🙏👌🙏🤠