Why ASIAN Parents Expect SO MUCH! | The Hop Pod Ep.14
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Are our parents expecting too much from us? Whether you're living under your parents' roof or independently, we can’t escape parental expectations. Today, we explore how these expectations evolve from childhood to adulthood, how we deal with them and why they even exist.
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Teaser
00:32 Topic of the day
01:07 What parents’ expectations looked like in childhood
06:17 How Q’s dad react to her not going university
11:16 Why Q didn’t fit into her family
12:19 What parents’ expectations look like in adulthood
14:25 How much time do we spend with our family?
15:49 The Question Pod
18:54 Are we not spending enough time with our parents?
22:28 When was the last time we travelled with our family?
24:39 How much financial support do our parents expect of us?
26:15 Family expectations of household chores
28:01 Why do our parents have these expectations on us?
30:15 How do we feel about these expectations?
31:23 Outro
31:37 Bloopers
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keep in mind, parents also don't know how to be parents. They were just like us when they were younger and they teach what they've been taught and what they liked or didn't like about their parents.
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I resonate so much with Joie, being an only child of divorced parents. The guilt I have had as I have been living abroad for 8 years and that my parents are getting old. I've recently made the decision to leave the life ive lead overseas to go back to Sg and spend time with my parents before its too late. I worry about my mum being alone. I am afraid to go back to a new life, sacrificing my comfort zone here in London but I know that this is what I need to do for them right now. Thank you for such a wholesome episode, enjoyed it as always.
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Thank you for sharing your story
I only moved in with my mum at 17. And so we never truly understand each other - she's very traditional and simple, my brother and i are quite liberal. So having no privacy is a thing, bit it's better now that i'm in my 30s. She still comes in to throw things away or keep things in my room and i'm just an organized mess kinda person, so we have regular tiffs about it because when i can't find something... It gets extremely frustrating.
At the end of the day, the only resolution is my mum saying "it's my house and you're staying in my room" and i'll have to live with it until I move out. I can't wait to move out!
We hope that happens for you soon!
14:13 lol epic comment and that laugh !
I mistook Joie for Nicole. 😂
Last time right, when i came home with a sixty marks, I will use the red pen to change it to 80 marks. Then right, my parents go count the section marks then they say " how come add up to only 60 ah " . Now that I think back, it was really funny and nostalgic. But then again, I really love my parents . If not for their contribution and unconditional love, I would not have what I have today ! I am really grateful to them.
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I don't really give that much of a f#$k anymore. I'm not a perfect person. That's all I'm saying.
Teacher : find ex
no body ...
litterally no body.... in class
Me : Tell me why
Maths nothin' but a heartache
Tell me why
Ex nothin' but a mistake
Tell me why
I never wanna hear you say
Why want it that way...
yeh my parents are in the do anything just don't give me a 9 month old present.
also parents want to be westernised but yet still traditional.