How to Redpill Yourself: The Process

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @americanskeptic138
    @americanskeptic138 6 лет назад +72

    Telling the truth is a great way to lose "friends"

    • @bregjejabra25
      @bregjejabra25 5 лет назад +4

      And mine....

    • @David6.3
      @David6.3 5 лет назад +8

      Everyone's situation. People don't like being called out on the lies they tell themselves, or others. The lies people tell themselves are the most painful ones to face, sometimes even world shattering. Easy way to lose friends shining a light on them.

    • @SHAKA-NEU-LU
      @SHAKA-NEU-LU 5 лет назад +2

      Loki Ilkivalta You’re exactly right. I made a comment at work about 2 females talking shit about a guy they really didn’t know. My “friend” said he was going to keep his opinion to himself about the comment I made cuz that’s how you lose friends. So I said “so are you my fake friend now?” He couldn’t look me in the eyes

    • @blah8934
      @blah8934 5 лет назад +9

      This is why redpill leads to alienation and solitude. It's hand in hand with the nature of pursuit of truth. Solitude to find truth that is within us and alienation because of separation from the "matrix". You leave on a journey to find the truth and once you do, you find yourself back where you started, it was always there and you simply move on living in reality playing with illusion.

    • @carlos31302
      @carlos31302 3 года назад +3

      That's why men seeking truth are on a their way to finding it alone and at peace with themselves. I found that out on my own after 11 years of marriage and divorce. It's not an easy path but it is one that leads to enlightenment and wisdom.

  • @japanimated9683
    @japanimated9683 6 лет назад +37

    A considerable amount of attraction I had for women was based on the false idea that women love you for who you are and not what you provide them.
    Now that I’ve been shown the truth, what remaining attraction I have for women is nothing but a biological and chemically driven system that is devoid of any anything spiritual. I strive to find anything inside a woman that would be well deserving of anything more than just a fawk.

  • @rogerblakely7453
    @rogerblakely7453 6 лет назад +28

    One of your best ever. Many men's lives will be saved as a result of this video.

    • @joshm6683
      @joshm6683 6 лет назад +2

      best channel on RUclips

    • @anonymousronin7572
      @anonymousronin7572 5 лет назад

      @Roger Blakely: I totally agree on both accords, great assessment 👍

  • @thewanderer2041
    @thewanderer2041 6 лет назад +21

    My red pill moment happened (2014-15) because of a break up, living with western feminists for 3 months and moving out, and losing my job because of female colleagues that collectivized against me. I found the MGTOW community, moved to Asia and haven’t looked back.

    • @bregjejabra25
      @bregjejabra25 5 лет назад +4

      @Branzinotito Vietnam is not a bad place. They don`t hate Americans, but they don`t like Chinese...

  • @SisypheanRoller
    @SisypheanRoller Год назад +1

    I really like your outlook on life man. I feel like we're kindred spirits.
    One of my personal humbling moments was when I had a health crisis in grad school, my girlfriend started cheating, my parents got sick and I basically lost a good chunk of progress I had made in life. It really woke me up, and the most interesting part was that I was aware of the red pill thanks to a much earlier crisis of faith that led me down the path of scientific inquiry so it wasn't like I was oblivious to fundamental human nature and the role of biological reality in how things worked, but those few years really hammered home (to me) how ignorant we all are about the underlying reality that drives us and makes us who we are.
    Until then I had prided myself in being well read and well versed in the big picture of reality, but nowadays I just find that pride has been shattered and replaced with awe. I can't put into words how viscerally I can feel my own ignorance now. Sometimes I talk to younger guys and I can't help but feel a little sorry for them, because I know that they're either going to be this delusional and irrationally self-confident until death, or they'll experience some kind of intense pain that will wake them up. I don't know which is worse, frankly.
    I must have just lucked out and been blessed with a biological make-up that helps me accept reality for what it is, even if I don't like it. I recall being very angry for a while at the unfairness of it all, having done everything right but having one incident basically turn my life upside down, and having been "betrayed" by the woman I thought was going to be a place of support in my darkest hours. I had felt a similar rage when I was much younger, and had grappled with the idea of religious faith and all that it entails. Still, at the end of the day, being angry at nature is as silly as being angry at gravity for pulling matter together. It's pointless and misdirected energy better spent elsewhere.
    I think you're spot on when you said that we just have to be forgiving and accepting of nature's laws. We were never in control, but that's okay. You just gotta ride the waves as they come. Cheers man. Hope you're doing well!

  • @japanimated9683
    @japanimated9683 6 лет назад +36

    If you want a good book for red pilling read The rationale male!

    • @SweetSourPickle
      @SweetSourPickle 5 лет назад

      Are there three parts to the book, which one do I buy? I am kind of confused. Thanks in advance.

    • @willcoleman2014
      @willcoleman2014 5 лет назад +1

      The first of the three is ‘The Rational Male’. Best starting point. Sam Botta reads the audiobook version.

    • @WolfStory
      @WolfStory 5 лет назад +2

      @@willcoleman2014 Just purchased this on audible.

    • @gunofapreacherman1340
      @gunofapreacherman1340 5 лет назад +1

      Japanimated I would also recommend, “The Predatory Female”.

    • @douglasweir1
      @douglasweir1 5 лет назад

      Yes. Excellent book for Red Pilling if you apply it to your life. I Highly recommend that you experiment with “Plate Theory” from “The Rational Male.” Life changing. I have habit of tearing myself up inside when I suspect or even know for a fact that my girl is cheating, which kills attraction on all levels and in all directions. But when I have other girls in my life, there’s no self torture, and attraction sky rockets. Applying “Plate Theory” probably even minimizes the chances that a girl will cheat on you.

  • @WorldlyNomadic
    @WorldlyNomadic 4 года назад +5

    I was talking to a younger friend about girls and told him about pick up, so we went out and started talking to girls. The next week we went to a party and this guy starts to tell everyone at the party that I was approaching strangers (females) and basically trying to pick them up, in a way making fun of what I was doing. Meanwhile every other day he asks me advice about girls. So now I don’t reveal anything to him. After someone shows they are not on your side you have to let them out of your inner circle

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  4 года назад +2

      wise and decisive action

  • @bw5187
    @bw5187 5 лет назад +7

    It all started with the book Rich Dad Poor Dad. New philosophies on earning money opened my eyes to other aspects of life. The book The System by Doc Love changed my perspective on relationships and the behaviors and reactions of women and why they act a certain way towards one man vs another. After a few years I came across the topic of Red Pill and my life has never been the same. Oh the brainwashing. I'm still trying to figure out why true nature is HIDDEN AND OBSCURED from how people live their lives. For what reason does the blue pill exist in the first place? Control? Maybe. Down the rabiit hole we go. . .

  • @gunofapreacherman1340
    @gunofapreacherman1340 5 лет назад +5

    I keep coming back to this video.
    My personal journey mirrors many of the things Ronin Man discusses here.
    I really wish I’d heard this when I was a younger man.
    Having said that, I’m not sure I would’ve been convinced back then, because I was so indoctrinated into believing the “boy meets girl, then they lived happily ever after” narrative.
    Thanks for sharing!

  • @ViperXSS2
    @ViperXSS2 2 месяца назад +2

    Glad you linked the books you read. I have been red pilled since my 20s, let’s just say I live in a military town and a lot of military wives tricked me into sleeping w/ them and then let me know they were married! Anyways, I want to check these books out. Love books.

  • @prunejuice3796
    @prunejuice3796 6 лет назад +3

    My first real red pill moment was when my best mates old girl had an affair, her partner of over 25 years was so fucking loyal! Use to cook, clean...gave her the kids she wanted, house. I trusted that woman and thought really highly of her, then after that, the whole family split up...
    Shit happens, that was the first time I really thought fuck that! I'm not going to give a woman my whole life and then get fingered. I don't hate woman, I just understand them now.
    Definitely take the high road, get away from bitterness, stay positive and achieve your dreams! Like you said you can't hate people for what they are at a biological level, it's just how it is...
    Nice clip ronin!

  • @rajcheche1486
    @rajcheche1486 6 лет назад +31

    You need to write a movie and produce it.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  6 лет назад +17

      Thanks Ric. Dude you really got me thinking. A movie with characters that are like real women. The way they really are and act. And lie. That could be very popular. I'll have a think. Thank you for the idea! I never thought of it

    • @bebopbountyhead
      @bebopbountyhead 6 лет назад +1

      Have you read Aristotle? He's the OG redpill.

    • @bebopbountyhead
      @bebopbountyhead 6 лет назад +6

      He claimed that women are "more mischievous, less simple, more impulsive ... more compassionate ... more easily moved to tears ... more jealous, more querulous, more apt to scold and to strike ... more prone to despondency and less hopeful ... more void of shame or self-respect, more false of speech, more deceptive, of more retentive memory [and] ... also more wakeful; more shrinking [and] more difficult to rouse to action" than men.

  • @LavishPatchKid
    @LavishPatchKid 6 лет назад +23

    I like to tell dudes, "getting screwed over isn't the real red pill. Going after other dudes chicks is the real red pill."
    There's no going back once you see how they really are.
    I promise, fellas. It is EASIER to bed a free woman in a relationship than a single one.
    A single one you have to guess what her current delusion is.
    A woman in a relationship - you just have to present yourself as everything her man isn't.

    • @dragonfly3714
      @dragonfly3714 6 лет назад +1

      Thats why we love the guy who "stole" our wife. 😃

    • @garypowell4565
      @garypowell4565 5 лет назад +2

      Is this where all the Home-Wreckers hang out?

    • @David6.3
      @David6.3 5 лет назад +9

      @@garypowell4565 there really is no reason to blame men for being the home wrecker. The most popular saying is that you can't turn a whore into a housewife. What you have to understand is that ALL women are whores. No matter how much a woman HAS in her life, she will always be MOST aware of what she LACKS in her life. A woman is ALWAYS open to upgrading. A woman will ALWAYS be open to someone who is offering exactly what she is lacking in her life and will seek it out, if it's OBTAINABLE, she'll go for it. Whether it's physical, emotional, or financial, if what she feels she is lacking in her life is obtainable, she will dump everything she has, no matter who it hurts. A woman will obsess over what she lacks, not what she has. What she lacks will drive her insane. No matter how good you are to her, no matter how much you give her, there will be something she notices she does not have. She won't ask you for it, she'll see it in someone else and she'll just say to herself that if you really loved her, you'd be able to give it to her, or she'll realize that you are just incapable of giving it to her. No matter how long you're with someone, she is either thinking about this, already doing this, or at some point, she's GOING to. It's in a woman's nature to seek out the best provider. The best provider is always the person who is offering what she feels she is lacking most AT THE TIME. The biggest question going through her mind is not how badly it will hurt you, not is it a smart thing to do, not how much she'll lose, but is that person who is offering what she is lacking actually OBTAINABLE.

  • @davebellamy4867
    @davebellamy4867 Год назад +1

    18:35 Getting red-pilled sounds quite a lot like the stages of grief, at least it has parallels.

  • @JasonJayJJ1
    @JasonJayJJ1 6 лет назад +2

    I appreciate your videos Ronin. I'd rather live in cold reality than quiet desperation & ignorance.
    Heartless bitches, yeah, hypergamy doesn't care, hypergamy is a self-feeding monster that's never satisfied. Kinda like that plant in the movie "Little Shop of Horrors". Feed me! FEED ME!! Lol ! In fact the similarities are so uncanny that I wonder if the writer of that movie used the plant as a metaphor for women's never-ending wants and controls.

  • @ceruleansky8319
    @ceruleansky8319 6 лет назад +4

    How did I awake to red pill knowledge? I wish I were as lucky with women as you were and are, it would have been a lot more fun! However, to me red pill is not only related to male/female dynamics. It means waking up to the nature of reality. For me it started with what I guess could be called "paranormal" or "non ordinary reality"" personal experiences , that led me to understanding the political and financial world in a completely different way { oddly enough}. And religion and tradition and history in a different way. I was always totally confused by my romantic relationships and now I do understand so much of what happened to me over the years after MGTOW and red pill wisdom from men like you. That feels still new and so liberating to me.

  • @joshuatrachtenberg8264
    @joshuatrachtenberg8264 3 года назад +1

    Hey ronin man. I have to tell you I love your videos. Long time listener and I think you have really amazing content and I will continue to listen. But I do have to say hearing about your past exploits and all the fun that you had really got me extremely depressed. I have to say I came to the red pill and the mgtow community Through years and years of pain. Being hurt by the opposite sex and then becoming disillusioned. But I always followed the rules and tried to do what I thought was right and in the end never had one tenth of the experiences I'm hearing from you so I wonder how someone like you and someone like me can come to the same path. Your past experiences with women sounded better than my dreams. Either way I still love your channel and I wish you the best and I think you have great content and I will continue to listen and get involved in any way I can and if there is any future get-togethers or conventions I would love to be a part of that, thank you so much for everything you do.

  • @ceruleansky8319
    @ceruleansky8319 6 лет назад +3

    As you said, you have awakened to the reality of this social construct that we are living in; would you ever consider sharing other aspects of your red pill journey other that male/female dynamics? Thank you.

  • @kvjqxzz5905
    @kvjqxzz5905 6 лет назад +12

    and never try to help ANYONE out who does not want help, and just because they are saying they want advice or help, second guess them every time every day every way, they are just LARPing to sucker you in most of the time

    • @americanskeptic138
      @americanskeptic138 6 лет назад +7

      K Vjqxzz so much of my valuable time has been wasted on these fools already...I gotta see it to believe it!

    • @WolfStory
      @WolfStory 5 лет назад

      @@americanskeptic138 Mine too

  • @ultimatesin3544
    @ultimatesin3544 6 лет назад +13

    Haha you're several ten-thousand feet from me, I work at the Prudential.. thought you were a West-coast guy, what are you doing up here? On the way home last night I overhear two girls, one was saying she hadn't eaten all day but doesn't semen have nutrients and the other was like "of COURSE it does!".. watch out up here bro..

  • @LordOsiron
    @LordOsiron Год назад +1

    This is one of the greatest videos on the Internet! I come back to it often and like you and the Predatory Female, (Which Ive read and is great!) this is a good place to reground and see how things really are. Women want you to fall in love, and any "Love" they feel in the begining, is just a way for them to hypnotize themselves so they can begin the work of hypnotizing you more effectively. But if you as a Man do fall in love you're dead! And the best way to not get consumed by just one woman is to be sexual with multiple women at the same time, and NEVER apologize for it.

  • @emmanuelo.2480
    @emmanuelo.2480 5 лет назад +1

    Great content Ronin man, you are different from other mtgow channels. You bring intellectualism and reasoning.

  • @markedwards7721
    @markedwards7721 5 лет назад +3

    Ronin Man, I didn't go through it, but I supervised three guys who went through the whole ordeal. I saw what happens to these guys. I could not ignore it. I saw the Matrix and my brother got obsessed with it.

  • @EnriqueGiliOrtiz
    @EnriqueGiliOrtiz 6 лет назад +1

    Not many people have the wisdom and the courage to talk with such sincerity in the Media. I share your thoughts, Ronin man, you are so right! All the investment we make being more demanding with ourselves, and improving as much as we can is priceless and more useful than waiting for ideal friends, couples, society or trying to change others. Ourselves is all we can change or improve for sure. After doing so, after achieving knowledge and good habits, all comes easier and naturally, even effortless as far as our health allows us to. Best regards!

  • @Seven-oi8hx
    @Seven-oi8hx 6 лет назад +5

    There is this married dude who came to me for advice... I helped, next thing his wife and all his friends hate me (Considering one of his friend's girls was banging me it was to be expected). I quickly learned that being a black box is for my best interest. I have to gauge the person in front of me before sharing some of this stuff.
    On that note... if you know the rapper xxxtentacion and his death, it has everything to do wit him and failing to be an effective black box. Anyone in the red pill community could tell that he was breaking out of society, but didn't have the guidance we have here... he would lash out at society and act irrationally. In return, most people will act on their feelings towards his irrationality then logic would come flowing later.... Everybody who wanted that rapper dead is now retracting their statement.
    The red pill can save your life, or kill you. It depends on how you use it.

  • @chriscunningham6828
    @chriscunningham6828 5 лет назад +3

    My red pill moment came in a flash. I had been separated for about two years but I was still trying to put things back together and trying to keep things normal for my sons. For some reason, and I can't remember why I started reading a copy of Codependent No More. I was sitting and reading and had an AHA moment. This one was so strong that I started having a panic attack. I knew in a flash exactly what my ex had been doing for the previous fourteen years. I drove myself to the hospital and described my symptoms. It felt like a heart attack with shooting pains down arms. I spent the night in intensive care on oxygen. That was the beginning. That was fifteen years ago now. I did go through an anger phase, but mostly I gained emotional distance. A girl I dated for a while a few years later told me I reacted as if I 'had been through something.' The shrink I was seeing told me ( in a way to try and fix me) that it was as if I had one terrible experience and had decided to simply give up on commitment and relationships. I didn't realize at the time that I had Exactly the right response to the situation. Best Redpill/MGTOW movie- Up In The Air.

    • @Grumpyoldtwit
      @Grumpyoldtwit 5 лет назад +1

      Another good red pill movie is ‘The Art Of Travel’. I watched it last week.

    • @roguepill
      @roguepill 2 года назад

      Up in the Air was a great movie

  • @JTu8925
    @JTu8925 6 лет назад +3

    It's crazy. Last year around this time I was in this weird online relationship with a woman I never met in person. She was from Brazil and she was helping me learn Portuguese, I was helping her with English. We had some weird drama from the start so it was very up and down. The highs were high but the lows were low. I was very blue pill before, very accommodating in whatever ways I mentally, emotionally and psychologically could, spiritually as well. Around this time last year I went on RUclips and searched "Relationship Advice"...haha I found nothing but videos of grown men sharing stories of red pill philosophies. I realized that I wasn't fully living my life for myself and was putting too many eggs in a one basket, a foreign basket at that lol. Then I started to realize how the women in my family had me under a lie and it made sense why the older men in my family (that I was taught to villafy to a certain extent) had reasons for why they are the way they are. So I went cold turkey on blue pill and overdosed on red pill, calming down now. But that whole marriage, relationship thing is out the window for a hot minute. I spent years simping, getting my feelings crushed, watching chicks follow their pussies and not their minds so I ain't going back to that no time soon. I'm strictly focused on my goals outside of women's "necessities" in regards to marriage and families. I'm close to 30, I'm only hitting on chicks 18 to 24. Fitness, fun, fucking, finance...and finding The Most High in the mist of it all.
    #JohnStamosPlan #RoninRoad

  • @malvessidrums
    @malvessidrums 6 лет назад +5

    Paul Elam enlightened me. Found a video of his by accident, never looked back.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  6 лет назад

      I listened to many of his videos too. And his mens right conference speeches. They were amazing. Helped me a lot too. Thanks Louie

    • @andrebonds4199
      @andrebonds4199 5 лет назад +2

      The same! Out when I was on the road working. Didn’t know how I randomly ran across an Ear for Men

  • @nicholasnovak4
    @nicholasnovak4 5 лет назад +2

    I would guess that in Japan and in cities in general women are more this way. Its a hard pill to swallow indeed.
    Both men and women have a natural instinct and prerogative its true. Our modern society, I believe makes it easier for both men but especially women to indulge in that. In times past there were more constraints on a women than there is now.
    And there are even extraordinary stories about women who willingly chose to die with their husbands.
    Specifically this was true in the early Christian church, and in ancient India.
    In the early church, only widows who were known to have been faithful were given help from the church. On the other hand, if their husband died when they were young they were encouraged to remarry.
    In ancient Judea, it was a tradition that men give their wives their full attention for about a year before going off to war, etc.
    In puritan marriages in colonial America, the women had to pledge obedience to their husbands. Men would pledge faithfulness.
    Its interesting to note that there were commands given in the early church for wives to "be satisfied" with their husbands.
    If people were out of line they were literally kicked out of the community, even the men.
    Of course back then it wasnt a big deal to marry a young girl who was past her flower either. Men hung out with other men more learning a trade and daily interaction with women was more enjoyable and respectful.
    It aint easy being a man seeing that booty walking down the street in yoga pants. Back then in most cultures men had the wisdom to understand that this is a power play that women do. Here in the west men are all for it. We love it. But that is a woman's form of manipulation over men. Its not about equality for them, its about control and power over men to get resources in an easy way.

  • @shaunmcgee4204
    @shaunmcgee4204 3 года назад +3

    Ronin Man, I know that this is an old clip, but if you do read this, I was wondering how you think I could go about dropping red pill reality on my soon to be 17 year old son? I would very much like him to be prepared for the rules of engagement when it comes to the opposite sex, instead of him having to navigate his way through the disappointments and heartache that inevitably happen when a man views relationships courtesy of societal indoctrination, Hollywood untruths and the myth of everlasting love.
    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  3 года назад +1

      I’d say line up the top ronin man vids and pass them on. See if he takes to it

    • @shaunmcgee4204
      @shaunmcgee4204 3 года назад +2

      @@RoninMan I was planning to do that, thank you Ronin Man. My son lives in New Zealand, while I live in the U.K., so it’s a tricky situation. I do really appreciate all your work. Your channel has been an incredibly valuable resource for me.
      Thank you.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  3 года назад +2

      @@shaunmcgee4204 so welcome Shawn. Thanks for spreading the word. You have no idea how many copies of the manipulated man and predatory female I photocopied and have to my friends back when I first figured this stuff out (1991 era) I really felt it was important to wake guys up

    • @shaunmcgee4204
      @shaunmcgee4204 3 года назад +2

      @@RoninMan Thanks Ronin Man! I’m currently on my fourth hard copy of The Predatory Female now, the other three having gone to friends who are, or who have been experiencing relationship turbulence.
      Everybody’s been burned.
      Armed with this information, my son and his generation will hopefully manage to swerve the worst elements.
      Thank you so much, your hard work is really appreciated.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  3 года назад

      @@shaunmcgee4204 that makes me so happy ! Thank you !

  • @acheron101
    @acheron101 5 лет назад +2

    As it seems, one of the best methods for teaching and presenting the fundamental MGTOW truths is WALKING. Your ideas are very clear-minded and dynamic... Thank you for the video!

  • @jasonsperatos6412
    @jasonsperatos6412 6 лет назад +12

    Red pill is a cure

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад

      jason speratos sup i am alone?

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад +1

      jason speratos i am a black box!

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад

      21:/yeah of course you will be red pilled with males!

    • @jasonsperatos6412
      @jasonsperatos6412 6 лет назад +2

      I am in trucking school on the weekends and deliver soda during the day. I'm out of shape but fighting through the pain.

  • @ceruleansky8319
    @ceruleansky8319 6 лет назад +2

    Ronin, thank you for your wisdom. I agree with you on the fact that, after the first stage of red pill rage, hate is pointless. Understanding is all that matters. Women are hypergamic, men are polygamist, these urges are almost subconscious, they are part of our nature. Some try to fight this nature, I guess that's called morality, decency, modesty. Most can not. This is just how it works, as you say. Once one starts to understand, one becomes more forgiving and also more detached. Certainly human female hypergamy has helped human kind to become the most dominant species on the planet. The never ending quest for the best possible male mate for protection/provision/procreation.

  • @matth3002
    @matth3002 5 лет назад +2

    For me I fashioned myself into the "perfect" guy for a certain girl. Then she went off with a guy who was the polar opposite of what she said she wanted. I had to ask myself why I was doing what I was doing. It didn't feel natural and it was far from what I wanted, I just thought you have to make sacrifices to get what you want. Yet this other guy was doing what he wanted AND getting what he wanted. I didn't copy his life, I just started living in accordance to what I wanted. Anyway down the line she re-entered my life. I didn't know it at the time but she considered me her back-up option/safety option cause I had always put her first (it's kind of fucked up saying this aloud because that's what women always say they want and I don't know if I was doing it cause I had been trained to or if I really wanted to put her first, in any case it's a failed strategy) and she had gotten to a point in her life where that's what she wanted. But I was past that. Which turned her on. It was a really confusing time because in my mind I thought, well maybe she has changed with time as I had and it's only fair to give her a shot. Then I would revert to my old self as would she. Seemed every time I walked toward her she walked away and when I walked away she came to. In a sense she wanted a guy who didn't care what she wanted (maybe cause a guy like that could be knocked off course -- even if he's just doing it for her, in which case he could be seen as being duplicitous/incongruent).
    Anyway it finally got me to understand why girls I like don't seem to like me and the only girls I got where ones I wasn't that into. Even now I have to keep the ones I like at arm's length, but, hey, it's better than nothing.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  5 лет назад +1

      It's a curse from nature. LoL The thing you really, really want makes you fall apart like a blubbering idiot but the thing you don't care about, you approach with confidence. Totally normal

  • @gunofapreacherman1340
    @gunofapreacherman1340 5 лет назад +1

    @Ronin Man My son has just turned 15. He lives with his mother and her husband, over 12000 miles away from me. I’m concerned that his world view is going to be warped beyond repair and that he might make the same mistakes that I made, when I was a young man.
    Do you have any advice on how I can avoid being the father who gives him bad advice?
    When your dad was telling you that you had a great girl, but then she fucked you over; what advice do you think he should have given you?
    I’m absolutely red pilled now, but I made so many mistakes and got hurt very badly on the way.
    Thanks!

  • @JoBlakeLisbon
    @JoBlakeLisbon 6 лет назад +1

    Awesome video Ronin Man. I basically got red-pilled through 10 years of Game. Banged married women, women with boyfriends, women with kids - also been left, deceived, cheated on and robbed by women. MGTOW has given me something different though - an angle that basically says it's cool to walk the fuck away - I've literally never had that in my life. Guys who didn't have girlfriends or hos are considered losers in my circles - probably the same for most guys.
    One idea I have is that as more men get red-pilled, we're going to need ways to start our own families outside the norms of society. Surrogacy is one solution but it's expensive. I wonder if we can begin to make arrangements. I personally love kids, I work with young people all day long and there is a big part of me that would love to raise a son one day.

  • @bush696
    @bush696 5 лет назад +1

    A woman tells you what she wants you to hear, the bitching about boyfriend/husband is to lay it on thick so you feel for her and give her a good seeing to which she feels she deserves. Modern women are born entitled and if a guy doesn't buy, spend, workout, own things, gets tired then she will feel entitled to do as she feels entitled to...

  • @crazyinvestor5987
    @crazyinvestor5987 6 лет назад +5

    yeah i dont try to redpill random dudes, its not for them

  • @avocadoman9598
    @avocadoman9598 6 лет назад

    Great freakin' video RoninMan! I love your videos because not only do we get to hear your philosophy/opinions/stories but we get to see many different cities and landscapes around the world! As an adventurer myself, I appreciate seeing the new city you film and looking at the demographics/sociology/geography of the new setting. Let me know if you ever come up to Minnesota!

  • @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975
    @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975 6 лет назад +4

    Robin Man! Stellar video as usual, super helpful to men.
    I’m in Boston dude, let’s hang out!

  • @MCC876
    @MCC876 4 года назад +3

    Very good video. You’re right. We have to protect ourselves. Do not get married, men. It’s a mess.

  • @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975
    @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975 6 лет назад +3

    Walking from the Cambridge side of the Charles River across to Boston......

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  6 лет назад

      Rick Boiardi World Builder Summer is so beautiful there. Stunning

    • @msnbmnt
      @msnbmnt 7 месяцев назад

      I was in Boston at this time. In grad school at MIT. Walked across that bridge almost everyday. Wild to watch it here 5 years later post pandemic.

  • @nomadic-mind
    @nomadic-mind 5 лет назад +1

    @13:00 This is what did it for me, the day I realized my own mom's past was the day I realized that there were no innocent women.

  • @Onnitfan1
    @Onnitfan1 3 года назад +1

    All soooo true!

  • @MichaelBrown-zp1sf
    @MichaelBrown-zp1sf 10 месяцев назад +1

    Once you really understand female nature and behavior it is actually quite easy to deal with them. They are like a football team that only has two or three plays in their play book. Men try to over complicate it but it really is quite simple.

  • @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975
    @rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975 6 лет назад +1

    The red pill for me started when I moved back to the US at age 10, my parents split up and we were just barely surviving economically.
    The red pill rage/depression hit me big time when I was in college.
    It was a hell of a long road but I sorted it all out

  • @thestrongervessel2181
    @thestrongervessel2181 5 лет назад +2

    When people get angry from hearing the truth the Bible says ‘do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.”

  • @gabetorresx
    @gabetorresx 6 лет назад +2

    Hey man, you red pilled me!
    After my last break up, I was looking up how to get into Japanese porn and I came across your channel hahah

  • @petaczk
    @petaczk 3 года назад +1

    I like how your doing body language with your hands even when you're not on camera

    • @petaczk
      @petaczk 3 года назад +1

      8:18 look at the shadow on the right

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  3 года назад +1

      I can't help being expressive. When I speak Japanese on the phone, I find myself bowing etc. LoL

  • @LordOsiron
    @LordOsiron 5 лет назад

    I don't know if you've ever heard of Ross Jeffries or not, but he's an old Speed Seduction founder and guru, and I began studying him many years ago now so I'm fortunate enough to have been Red Pilled in regards to women since way back then. So yeah, this is information men need to be taught at a young age.

  • @vols5193
    @vols5193 6 лет назад +2

    Another great video, I went through the same thing. Now I never offer any advice. I am a black box only comment and offer advice when asked. Some men just have to get slapped in the face by a women to understand what questions to ask and more importantly WHO to ask.
    I was that guy who needed to be slapped.

  • @AllTotalCoaching
    @AllTotalCoaching 6 лет назад +2

    Spot on

    • @AllTotalCoaching
      @AllTotalCoaching 6 лет назад

      Can I share here my video here how women manipulate

  • @maketheworldabetterplaceki4028
    @maketheworldabetterplaceki4028 5 лет назад +1

    I want to give that redpill back! Ignorance is bliss unfortunately

  • @jaxa5990
    @jaxa5990 3 года назад

    For me, I watched Sandman videos and then did an experiment on the girls at my high school. Then I made a youtube channel discussing the red pill and ways to be more intelligent.

  • @frenchalpscycling5283
    @frenchalpscycling5283 5 лет назад +1

    If you grow. You will lose friends, especially if they stay where they are. Like any relationship.

  • @mgtowcowboy8159
    @mgtowcowboy8159 6 лет назад

    Running Man, cheers from Chicago! The video went a tad bit long, but I thought it was excellent content overall. Yes indeed men are lie to me from the very start

  • @MrPoe22
    @MrPoe22 5 лет назад

    Best advice for men on RUclips!

  • @WolfStory
    @WolfStory 5 лет назад +1

    Hey man... so I am in the 'cynical' stage right now and I am having a hard time getting out of it. Your background and mine is very similar as it relates to woman. I have never had a hard time getting hot woman (9, 10's no problem) but my experience with them is the same as yours... they almost ALL were cheating on their husbands/boyfriends. I did this for 20 years... Fast forward to today and I look at woman and, now that I can see their true colors, frankly I am disgusted. It makes me want to treat them all like shit... like they deserve it. I don't want to feel this way but I cant help it. How do I get out of the funk man? Im afraid that if i stay on this course I will meet a girl who is not like the rest but i will treat her like shit and miss an opportunity. Anyways... what do you recommend?

  • @AgeofMachines
    @AgeofMachines 6 лет назад +2

    Strolling down Mass Ave to the Prudential Building (2nd tall building on the left).
    Ah the memories.
    Had similar experience with my world shattered as women unleashed are very different from what I was told.
    Can't unsee that stuff.
    Started skipping movies and TV for the exact same reasons.
    Gynocentric brainwashing runs about as deep as my schlong.

  • @stefanostokatlidis4861
    @stefanostokatlidis4861 5 лет назад +2

    There is no point on hating women, because that is their biology and they cannot change. Men’s biology is also a fact, but the consequences of men’s biology knowadays are much lesser than those of females. Also I think that in the extent that they change, it meant biology change is more easily. Men are more able to convince themselves of a certain way of life which is against their biology, like for example being a monk. Still sometimes I hate listening to women talking all the time and telling lies, but this is their nature, I cannot change it. However, I still hold a grudge to my parents and to society in general that didn’t teach me those hard lessons. Of course it is not difficult to think why that happened. A society that gives readily the rent pill to Its members is going to experience a drop in birth rates. It is just evolution. Eat ease the same mechanism that created religions which promoted reproduction.

  • @jamessolomon4864
    @jamessolomon4864 6 лет назад

    Moving back there in a month and can't wait! How is Boston?

  • @IsitReallyrealreally
    @IsitReallyrealreally 5 лет назад

    “I just had to do it, like, this instinct”. We are not apes. We have society. This base level operation is not good. That regret you felt; was it worth it? What are we saying here?

  • @Jamessss1010
    @Jamessss1010 5 лет назад

    I really enjoyed watching this video, specially the water.
    Makes me wish it was summer time haha

  • @red.samurai
    @red.samurai 6 лет назад +4

    yep you have to be carful what you say, I have been stabbed in the back by more men than woman, lol

    • @williamgarcia9858
      @williamgarcia9858 5 лет назад

      Even a nice and sweet girl will stab you in the back.

  • @ivomarcelosantossimoes2113
    @ivomarcelosantossimoes2113 Год назад +1

    I was RP watching Alpha Male Strategies

  • @yuzurname
    @yuzurname 5 лет назад +1

    I wish you would’ve elaborated on the cheating wives attitude towards their husband and children. It’s as if women have no regard for their children when they’re out cheating.

  • @0x0abb
    @0x0abb 5 лет назад +2

    We are all programmed

  • @michalphillip800
    @michalphillip800 5 лет назад

    excellent take on reality ,....

  • @terranmarine7395
    @terranmarine7395 6 лет назад +2

    Nice patch of lavender, there.

  • @matth3002
    @matth3002 5 лет назад +1

    In Japan the women control the bank account. So there's some poor chump who is slaving away so his women can spend his money on a guy. What a world.

  • @lmjak
    @lmjak 5 лет назад +1

    Only the truth can give you an accurate view of the world.

  • @QuadBeetle
    @QuadBeetle 6 лет назад

    Where are all the redpilled guys in London, we should all get together for real

  • @ronaldk6485
    @ronaldk6485 6 лет назад +1

    Hi Ronin,
    I love your videos. Have enjoyed this one especially, It resonates with me very much. I went through a long angry phase.
    I live in Asia and I have boned couple of girls who were in a "committed" relationships. I would love to learn more how to bone married women. I am tired of these single or girls in relationships. They now want to be my girl friend. I do not want any commitments and want to bone girls. I feel married girls are great choice, but sometimes I feel guilty for even approaching them.
    I would love it if you can make a video on this topic. And share with the tactics to get married women. Some married women are smoking hot here. Also the traps to avoid when playing this game. I am sure more guys will benefit from this.
    I was so fed up of single women. I started hanging out at Karaoke bars. I have had few encounters from there, but they ask for money or favours. I do not know what to make of it even though the boning is good. I don't wanna spend so much money on these girls. Please make a video on how to bone married women.
    I will surely share the video with my friends and get your more subscribers.
    Thanks!

  • @dragonfly3714
    @dragonfly3714 6 лет назад +2

    Seeing this film make me think about all the homeless men who definitely took the blue pill,- we have a job to do here. Maybe being a communist is not not bad either...
    Thanks Ronin 🎈🎈

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  6 лет назад +2

      Dragon Fly men have their spirits crushed and give up. Then wander off

    • @kentr.1391
      @kentr.1391 5 лет назад

      @@RoninMan True story I'm there now and going down hill fast ,starting to let shit go man what the hell do I do where does a man start at 53 ? divorced , disappointed about the bad decisions I made and trying to not be depressed about it all but its a tough road to walk and I'm finally starting to wake up and yes I want to wander and try to make the most out of the rest of my life .. and you are right women change so much that its hard to go back to anything resembling blue except maybe the ocean !

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  5 лет назад

      @@kentr.1391 A smart step at a time

  • @donnahannaford6840
    @donnahannaford6840 6 лет назад +2

    I just want to fish that river it look fabulous

    • @williamgarcia9858
      @williamgarcia9858 5 лет назад +1

      @SGHOW women invading men spaces, can't blame her it's in their nature to do.

  • @unitunreal9805
    @unitunreal9805 5 лет назад +1

    Where is this place man?

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  5 лет назад +1

      Charles River Esplanade in Boston

  • @bebopbountyhead
    @bebopbountyhead 6 лет назад

    Using the Redpill metaphor, you have to watch for the Cyphers and the Banes.

  • @XRIS.D.MUGIWARA
    @XRIS.D.MUGIWARA 2 года назад

    Red pill is the scene from American Me
    and the Asian Guy says OPEN YOUR EYES VATO and gets stabbed in the Yard
    The Red Pill .
    Im just a soul who’s intentions
    Oh lord plz don’t let me be misunderstood

  • @ShutingFromTheSky
    @ShutingFromTheSky 6 лет назад

    dont add guy friends to your social media like facebook or instagram. he will text every bitch in your friend list and even text your girlfriend. you will end up fighting and blocking each other.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  6 лет назад

      LoL I never had that happen. Damn that's evil. Sorry to hear you had to deal with the bs.

  • @jaxa5990
    @jaxa5990 3 года назад

    Life is all a construction, made by both man's observations of the world and the way the Earth has been created from it's birth.

  • @6688ya
    @6688ya 5 лет назад +1

    31:12 hahahahahha. If you ever have played MK X (mortal kombat. X) on ps4
    Quanchi has a fatality . . where he posses. His opponent . makes him walk towards a sword and goes into his mouth . and is cut in half

  • @dig-ga
    @dig-ga 6 лет назад

    Hey Ronin Man, what's your take on the Black Pill? I never heard of the so called "incel" community until recently and these guys just lost all hope. Maybe rightfully so? Don't know, since they are claiming women don't give them any chance. They say that they are being cut off by women because of there looks.

    • @bocadelcieloplaya3852
      @bocadelcieloplaya3852 6 лет назад +3

      STAY AWAY FROM DEPRESSION! ...and depressing people, it's contagious. You got the best gift in the world: A set of testosterone producing wonders hanging between your legs. Plus the nice kick-stand that cums with them.

    • @americanskeptic138
      @americanskeptic138 6 лет назад +1

      dig.ga the main problem with these "incels" is that they're lazy and stubborn...refusing to log in time at the gym or work on themselves..."incels" are the Cyphers (The Matrix) of the MGTOW movement and will gladly join the waves of blue pill manginas joyfully cucking for today's women...I have no respect for these low testosterone males

    • @Re3iRtH
      @Re3iRtH 6 лет назад +1

      Loki Ilkivalta Well said!

    • @americanskeptic138
      @americanskeptic138 6 лет назад +1

      Comfy Cummies men overcome obstacles no matter what... little boys cry because the girls won't fuck them and go on killing sprees instead of killing it at the gym...

    • @americanskeptic138
      @americanskeptic138 6 лет назад

      Comfy Cummies not selling a damn thing, just saying common sense... exercise is an excellent way to boost your morale, improve your self-esteem and get pussy...if it doesn't apply, let it fly!

  • @li6706
    @li6706 5 лет назад

    This would have been a good video but it’s too noisy due to the vehicles flying by on that bridge.

  • @theevaluator6444
    @theevaluator6444 2 года назад

    You can't be too red pilled Ronin and no she wasn't nice, none of them are.

  • @araysfan8243
    @araysfan8243 6 лет назад

    Beantown..a great walking city..when its warm 555

  • @massimobargagna5641
    @massimobargagna5641 6 лет назад +1

    Welcome to Boston brother only 11% of females are not hygergamers not good odds for marrige or girlfriend but we still love them when it's your turn to ride roll that power on

    • @JasonJayJJ1
      @JasonJayJJ1 6 лет назад

      I'm from Chicago, how can I figure out the hyper-gamer percentage in my city?

  • @davidflash603
    @davidflash603 5 лет назад

    1 58 what country was this?

  • @hypolaristic
    @hypolaristic 5 лет назад

    so logical people can be seen as more evil than illogical and dumb people when they do bad things?

  • @H20Jonez
    @H20Jonez 3 года назад

    👏🏿PAUSE👏🏿... SISTERS DAUGHTERS FRIENDS DAUGHTER????🤔🤔🤔 Did I hear that correctly? 30:10 mark

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  3 года назад

      My sister is 58. Everyone involved were adults

  • @mgtowcowboy8159
    @mgtowcowboy8159 6 лет назад

    ronin man*

  • @peterm1892
    @peterm1892 5 лет назад

    The Matrix is real

  • @danman1992
    @danman1992 6 лет назад

    lol I've got the same gang

  • @neox9369
    @neox9369 6 лет назад

    Their are no "nice" girls bro. Your cynicism saved you bro because that very same "nice" girl can't shut down her natural conniving hypergamous INSTINCT. With the laws here in place, none are worth the risk.

  • @zeroexea
    @zeroexea 6 лет назад +1

    You sound as though you don't think cheating in and of itself is not saying f*** the marriage

    • @crazyinvestor5987
      @crazyinvestor5987 6 лет назад +2

      apparently u didnt read my name it starts with M-G-T-O-W meaning no wife here ; ive banged many married women just as ronin man has. thats why im fine with married dudes getting cheated on cuz im NOT one of them LOL ! Cheers !

    • @zeroexea
      @zeroexea 6 лет назад +2

      Mgtow Investor
      Good point although I'm still right it should mean the end of any marriage of any self-respecting man

  • @checkingonjack
    @checkingonjack 2 года назад

    Did you ever feel qualms or guilt about banging some dude's wife? I realize it is almost impossible to resist in the heat of the moment, but once you found out did you question whether you should continue doing it or not? And what view of morality told you to continue doing this? I mean there are tons of single chicks?

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  2 года назад

      Once you really take the redpill about female nature your vision changes. To answer your question, I do have a moral code that I go by. And I don’t deviate from that. Can lay it out in a video sometime but in order to really answer your question is like to know a few things about your beliefs and experience. Have you ever had sex with and subsequently gotten into a relationship with a woman only to later find out she is married? What would you do if a woman told you she and her husband were separated? Divorced? That they were not physical any more? That he had a lover and it broke her heart? What would you do if A. If she told you these things after you had sex and you believed her? B. You had already had sex, she told you these things and you weren’t sure if it were true or not? All these are separate questions/scenarios. Keep in mind that almost every married woman will not say she’s married and even if she does, she will repeat the above statements. Also consider that it is very likely that each of the statements is true or at the least partially true

    • @checkingonjack
      @checkingonjack 2 года назад

      @@RoninMan Thanks for your detailed response. Lots of good questions. No doubt life and all the variables of life are too complex to codify into rules for everyone. But I do have a code of choice. Mine. To simplify things I will answer "Yes" to pretty much every one of your questions (and since that would-be truth) My point isn't to avoid banging married women because it's socially or religiously wrong. I don't believe that's the case. My point is that I draw the line knowingly banging a married woman who uses me as a thing. In this case, as an object easily manipulated or to get back at some poor dude. I'm too proud to let some chick treat me like this. Let them get divorced first, too many other single chicks to enjoy.

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  2 года назад

      @@checkingonjack that’s my point exactly. You’ll never know if she is knowingly banging you as a thing (ie break your rule) so it isn’t a real rule at all

    • @RoninMan
      @RoninMan  2 года назад +2

      @@checkingonjack I have one rule that I have never broken in my life. That is to bang a chick who is a GF or wife of my friend. I won’t even bang ex’s of my friends. And I never break my rule

    • @checkingonjack
      @checkingonjack 2 года назад +1

      @@RoninMan Good rule. I respect that.

  • @hypolaristic
    @hypolaristic 5 лет назад

    manifesto down

  • @stfducky489
    @stfducky489 6 лет назад +2

    fo4! hahaha!

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад

      ha ha restarted 3 likes out of 9! 3some? run a train! as horrible it sounds, it's not bad when you look @ other dude and say oh i know i did not prego cuz i put it in her ass!(:

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад

      the wife i want i have not found cuz the are whore$! cuz well even last night i had a female tell me she sucked off my brother and that i hit her! cuz i open palm of my hand that touched her not even hit! cuz where A CUNT will hit you the only thing you can do is self defense! And that leads to rape what can? yes i am in a horrible mindset! but i know unlike brainwashed!

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад

      yes it is wrong cuz momma told me wrong, knowing and understanding is the the difference. ha ha text to voice work th8s t8me! see the mindconceothlse !d! baha

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад

      suck some more!

    • @stfducky489
      @stfducky489 6 лет назад

      how did you get ass to puss? to ass?

  • @0x0abb
    @0x0abb 5 лет назад

    This is all guy’s fault

  • @zeroexea
    @zeroexea 6 лет назад +2

    I'm sorry that you're only as low as your animal and you can't control yourself through higher reasoning and deny instinctual desires I guess that doesn't make you much better than a woman does it