My grandpa died when I was 7 years old. The only thing I remember him telling me, "never let anyone know if you're rich or poor. Some people target rich people, and some target poor people. If they never know, they'll never target you." I wish I would have had just a couple more years with him, being raised by a single mom, I can only imagine his advice as I had gotten older. Female advice is worthless. Such is life. Solid advice.
MGTOW Keep Your Cards Close to your Chest: Be a Blackbox Don't reveal how much money you make bitcoin, etc Don't reveal how much you know about women. Use Google incognito so she can't see your viewing history Don't let her know how hot she is to you. always have pictures of opposite girls on your wall. Don't notice her hypergamic nature-looking at more powerful guys. Don't get sucked into sexual conversations in groups, pretend you don't notice Don't comment after sex how horny she is Don't remind her that you had sex on the first date Don't notice her gaining weight. just start getting ready to leave Don't complain about her. just start quietly exploring options Don't fight reality. Accept and always be ready for rapid and radical change
good points here, another one very powerful i noticed in my personal experience is that the less you care about the relationship the more they r attracted to u.
Your channel is high level stuff, which I am afraid will go over the head of the vast majority of MGTOWs.. and your channel will likely never be mainstream.. however, I will be listening! Other channels are a bit complainy and basic. Be well!
Thanks Re3iRtH! I want to give the good indepth stuff because that's what it takes to really nail this part of a guys life. So far seem to be attracting the right audience who really want to improve. I'd rather have a good channel than a big one. In the end, guys are worth it. It's not cool the way guys are being fucked over by society. There is much to learn. Thanks for listening and adding your wisdom to the comments/questions!
Women try to guess your 'probable' net worth with prying questions. So just say 'No'. Been to Italy? No. Overseas? No. Is this nice car yours? No....its leased. Is this your house? No, I rent it.
Way back in '92 my father was going through a divorce and his evil soon to be 3rd ex-wife hired a forensic accountant to investigate him to find out where he was hiding his money. It's hard to describe the utter dismay she experienced when the forensic accountant reported back that my dad had even less money that he'd been saying, not more. My dad was pretty much MGTOW after that. He learned slow but he did learn.
This is the best advice ever. Not wearing your heart on your sleeve will keep predators away. History if full of people who had their lives destroyed because of this foible alone. Not showing your cards is also one of the 48 laws of power. It makes you more intriguing and mysterious as well.
Thanks produceman13! Once you start implementing this in your life you'll look around you and take another dose of red pill. You'll see people all around you striving for validation from others and paying a huge price time after time. At the same time, human emotion and interaction is what makes life worthwhile so there needs to be a balance. And you will err at times. But compared to mindlessly exposing yourself to all and sundry you will be in a much better space than others. And you will get better at vetting people so you can go very deep indeed with good people who care about you. You actually go deeper, without fear and get a real connection when you filter out all the people who have bad intentions or are unable to control their mouths and do real harm without conscious intention
Ronin Man this is one of the best videos for someone going through the red pill rage. Hating women is a huge waste of time and energy and it leads to nothing positive. In the end all we can do is take care of ourselves and know how to play the game if you want to be involved with women. Otherwise just go your own way and be free.
Thanks Battle for Hoth! Can't agree more. Life is a massive challenge. No time for wasted energy on stuff that doesn't improve it. When men put their minds to stuff amazing things come out of it.
Kudos! This is indeed how it should be done, once she knows about how much you have TRUST ME she would want to spend it. My grandma's first advice for me since I first engaged 10 years ago was "don't tell her how much money you have". Period. And my grandma is over 90 now yet she was spot on, I didn't follow her advice, and it truly caused me a lot of trouble. Not that I don't want to give her money but her focus turned to be all about spending money. It goes without saying, this applies for the rest of the matters, don't tell her she got fat, don't tell her you feel jealous, don't tell her she is the only one in your life, ...etc.
You can choose to disclose your situation at a later date. Once it's revealed to others, the disclosure cannot be rescinded. Pride cometh before a fall.
Amen. I'm not sure why men have such desire to blab this stuff. It's more fun to hold it in. It just feels right. When a guy blurts this stuff out, it feels so wrong. Like when you make a fool out of yourself in Jr High. After making a mistake, many guys tend to double down and share more things they shouldn't. It's like 3 wrongs will make a right or something. Anyway, if you slip, get physically out of the location. They might not even remember or might have been not paying attention. I've been saved by sloppy listeners. Just leave and revaluate. And be harsh on yourself. Call yourself out
I'm pretty wise now - But, I think you are much younger than I am, and for that I envy you greatly. What you are doing, the life you are living, is what I should have done when I was young enough. I missed my chance. Your insights are extremely deep and practical, but what surprises me is that you are a moral, ethical man who has seen through the veil and has not lost his sense of right. Are you tending toward Buddhism?
Peter Herge absolutely! I'm 52. Many guys here are in their 60's and 70's and doing very well in every aspect of life. Tons of young internet guys too.
MrAeneas thanks for your heartfelt input MrAeneas. And I have to agree with Peter that it isn't too late. Hit me up at roninmgtow@gmail.com and I'd be happy to explain all the details on living here legally long term. (Retirement visa etc)
If I were only talking about my age, that would be different. But, I'm also too sick, and not going to get better. So, I'm pretty well stuck where I am until I leave the planet. I should have explained that earlier. If I were healthy, even in my 80s or whatever age, I would make the move; I'm free enough at last and have the financial resources to do it. But, it's just not practical now. Thanks anyway, and enjoy your time to the fullest.
Understood. One of my best friends and the hardest core MGTOW+PUA type guy you could ever meet died from cancer here in Bangkok last year. I learned so much from him. Every once in awhile I go out to his grave at Wat Tanod to pay my respects to the coolest guy I ever met. Sounds like you too have a lot to give to teach others. Appreciate your input.
Ronin Man, this is tremendous advice. Flying below the radar is a wise move, especially when it comes to "flaunting" wealth, which in my opinion puts a target on one's back. Animals that stray from the herd can become victims by predators. We can remain independent minded and amass wealth, but I am unaware of any good that can come from being ostentatious or controversial. I would love to share your channel and red pill advice with my blue pill male friends but fear they would spite me for it so I remain silent.
In honesty, i have stated my financial state to a woman. A pathetic attempt to impress. I can only believe it is residual belief or practice. However, education/knowledge is king. So appreciate you for the lesson. I am new to this but after a year post of being out of the mainstream, i am realizing my weaknesses and vulnerabilities. So for now I am staying alone until I have the skill set required to manage myself around females. My ignorance is vast... hypergamy? New term for me... definition was a shadow in my mind but now it is reality. I feel that I am too old and can’t afford being an investor. Realizing that women don’t want a partner but an investor... or more like investors. Sad that I have wasted so many years. Thanks for the talk and will integrate and assimilate.
Joe Lucero - strength to you. Keep learning. One of the messages of RM is even though we were culturally set-up to be taken advantage of by women, that they in themselves (as individuals) are not to blame for how it is. This at least helps us to forgive ourselves for being such chumps for so long (30 years & two divorces in my case). I am very positive for young men having such wisdom so available as in the manosphere. They have never needed it more though. Best wishes to you sir.
Very interesting perspective here. I agree with all of that except the dealing with women bit, which should be avoided at all costs. No relationship, no dates, no sex, no cohabitation, no marriage and no kids. It's full on monk mode for me.
After dealing with women for near on 50 years, I’m leaning more towards the way you speak of, rebuilding and then getting it destroyed again is quite frankly frightening.
Wealthy men don’t flaunt it, play it down, this is golden advice I need to apply every time. The reality of this wisdom is hitting me hard, especially after getting forced through the divorce wringer and looking back on past transgressions of this law all men need to internalise, it takes time, even years to fully grasp the importance, I’m getting there, cheers.
Bro, I have been in the game and studied it forever, studied alleged masters and this is BRAND NEW ADVICE. THANK YOU! Lol, you had me flash backing for decades of all the times I had the upper hand/ interest and completely lost them from saying too much or being to open with my thoughts. Especially with online dating. It all makes sense now. Love the advice about weight because I usually tell them and they don't do anything about it even if they say will. Wrong move. This is my missing link. Interesting stuff about the small mining town or whatever it was. I thought small towns with less options would be different in terms hypergamy. Thanks for this.
Thanks rash b! Each of those warnings was paid for with hard fought experience: Sometimes several times over. Who did you study under? I'm a firm believer that self improvement has the highest rate of return and that it's not possible to know too much about women and ourselves
+Ronin Man You're the new sensei by the way. Lol. Well in my teen years I studied my brother who was once a master. Women used to buy him stuff and fight over him in his 20's. He was a player. My Dad warned him about accepting gifts from non girlfriends and not being upfront. I watched it come back to bite him in the ass. This led me to being upfront about everything which was a gift and a curse. When I got older I just started talking to and getting advice from guys or friends that were outstanding with women. I had no problems asking a stranger how he got a hot girl if I saw him with one. Then I would do my own research on women, reading any book I could on them and then that book The Game came out and I watched and studied PUAs. Then I had multiple periods of mastery, especially one through Domming but recently I'm in limbo. Like I know too much now because of MGTOW and so I'm trying to process it all. But love still learning because I want to get back out there and apply this now because yes it's a study and as you've pointed out inadvertently there's a self-discipline in it.. On a sidenote I hope you talk about sleeping with married women one day. Guys need to know just how much they do it.
+rash b In the first Godfather movie, Marlon Brando's character (Vito Corleone) tells James Caan (Sonny) "Never tell anyone outside the family what you're thinking".
Ronin Man ..but it is possible to Learn just enuFF to alert you that this isn't working out. Mouth shut and eyes Open. You can't understand chiT if YOUR mouth is running!
I really like your videos, but I fucking love this particular video. I play this once a day now in the morning or at work. Helps to control the ego. Be a black box. So useful.
That's inspiring. You got me thinking about man's biggest weaknesses. Ego, shame, jealousy, pride. Have you seen this one on shame? ruclips.net/video/VK920XrE2G8/видео.html You might like this one on jealousy too. ruclips.net/video/JQGhQu3HfQA/видео.html Getting a handle on these puts a man in a very good position. i'll work on this more for the upcoming Unblackmailable member's area. These are frickin pernicious but can easily be minimized if better understood
Ronin Man I just started watching the video on shame. Good stuff. I really like the examples you give. It makes things easy to understand and relatable. I didn't realise how much I needed to work on myself before watching this video (and others). I've come to realize how far from zen I really am. Thanks man.
MrAeneas, M. K., Mārtiņš Beļskis, Michael: I appreciate all the comments and input but your comments in particular touched me deeply. WTF. So proud to be part of this community! Thank you
Be very careful when deciding whether to hide assets during a divorce, say, cryptocurrencies or real estate owned in corporations or limited liability companies. If you are caught, then you are at risk of total forfeiture of assets and imprisonment for perjury.
Not entirely in agreement. I think a man should lay his cards on the table about sexual interest. If she does not bite or she wants to drag you along, drop her immediately. With other men or with women you don't have any interest in, I agree with you....
23M here, not gonna lie, I was a total noob and your points hit home runs in my mind xD all i can say is, i extracted enough from my ex to know how much of your points are TRUE! Thank you for the video
A smart Warrior never exposes himself to his enemy, hiding in plain sight means they're never looking for you. Be like water move through the undercurrents while the storms of women blow themselves out. Cats may have nine lives but have you ever seen one hang itself a hundred times on a leash
I'm watching this video a second time AND taking notes. The content is top quality - useful not only for mgtows but also for increasing our inner Alpha!
Today i went to a barbershop. I rememberd what You said in this clip and i act like a black box...You were right! I only told a joke about my hair. Good advices!
This is a good idea and I have tried to put this into practice, but what if someone who is close to you, that you really don't want tell what you are thinking about asks you a question based on something you did. (For example: You were easily able to figure out what to invest in at a young age. Or you you know how to deal with aggresive people and talk them down before a fight happens and then actually know how to fight.) The reason you don't wanna tell them is because they will gossip to others you both know as well as use this new information about you to their advantage. How do deal with those types of prying questions? Especially if they ask you frequently, but not too much (they do this on purpose so you can't keep track of the times that they ask as easily and get suspicous)
How do you stop yourself from trying to help other men in need when they are taken advantage of? I see it happen all the time. Men getting verbally abused and dominated by a girl, for absolutely nothing. I just want to tell them that what they are going through ain't worth the trouble. I just saw the other day in a cafe, this one college student was surrounded by three girls. He was basically getting "consultation" on what to do to get with a girl he likes. He believes he is getting solid advice from these girls, but to me it looked like they were using this poor guy as some cheap entertainment. They were manipulating him to do all these simpy stuff, all the while laughing amongst themselves at the ridiculous lengths of what he would go through to have a chance with this one particular girl. They would read his texts, and giggle. He thinks he is getting good advice, and he is having a good time because they are reading his texts, and giggling. He thinks they were laughing with him. To me it was clear that they were laughing AT him.. There was some kind of insidious sisterly dynamic going on with the three girls, but it was at an expense at this poor young lad. What do you think of these type of situations? How do you quell the urge to help in that moment? My whole life I've been thinking about how to be a good person, and I believe these guys getting advice from these girls are kind ppl that are playing by the rules. What's messed up is that they are the ones that get end up seriously hurt..
Very tough call. I do it on a case by case basis. Mostly best avoided because the guy will usually turn on you. If you find guys asking you questions, then carry on but beware that brainwashing runs deep. Don't put yourself at risk unless the guy is begging for help. Unless it's your brother or very good friend. Then it's worth the risk but keep in mind that it usually turns against you. If you do well, others will come to your for advice. Best to wait as there will be an endless procession of guys getting skinned alive around you
I usually help but I know that most guys will, tell the woman everything I told them. Guys just simply don't know how or why they need to protect themselves. They think that by sharing the details, the girl will be sympathetic and deal straight with them. So they can win her over. And when that doesn't work, they blame it on the guy who told them (tried to help them).I think it's worth it but I've lost access to many a married friend by trying to help him. Years later, when it all comes true, they say, "I should have listened...."
Yo Ronin, what has been your method of deflecting financial questions? Obviously depends on context but how would you respond to high school friends for example asking you “so what’s is it you’re doing these days” or “what career route did you take” or “what do you do for a living” etc. It seems kinda social inept and shady to respond with, not important and switching topic
@@RoninMan I’m 22 myself. I guess you need a different answer for each group. Main groups would be girls, “friends” (I put this in quotations because there are tiers of friends, the inner circle I would be cool with telling what I do for a living but never the amount) and the final group would be family members yeah.
I guess i throw the question back to you. How do you feel about people asking financial questions? If you don’t like it and would prefer not answering them, you need to learn how to set personal boundaries. “I'm sorry, but it's personal.” “I don't know, sorry.” “I'm not able to answer that question, sorry.” “I'm not comfortable answering this question, sorry.”
@@RoninMan interesting so would most people you know not even know what you do for a living? like day to day? Must have a very mysterious/shady veneer haha. I think answering something along the lines of “Just some online business stuff, its not important” if they ask how it’s going you can say “I’m just about making it work” this can be your answer regardless of how much you’re actually making, making 500k? “Just about making it work” .
@@___Alexander___ having personal boundaries is not shady, it’s healthy and normal. Not having boundaries is abnormal and usually a sign of abuse and trauma. All people have a right to share things they want to and keep other things private. You have no obligation to answer every questions you’re asked by anyone.
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The tenth time I'm watching this video. Awesome as fuck.
Kenyan Man 247 Repetition is the mother of learning!
@@urbosasfurry2126 Yes sir ..
Agree, this is the RM video that whose lessons I took most to heart. Not only women, but everything. Give away what you know is giving up power.
Read Leykis 101, this is just repeating info from 20+ years ago.
My grandpa died when I was 7 years old.
The only thing I remember him telling me, "never let anyone know if you're rich or poor. Some people target rich people, and some target poor people. If they never know, they'll never target you."
I wish I would have had just a couple more years with him, being raised by a single mom, I can only imagine his advice as I had gotten older. Female advice is worthless.
Such is life.
Solid advice.
Up!
Female advice worthless. EXACTLY fuckin right.
MGTOW Keep Your Cards Close to your Chest: Be a Blackbox
Don't reveal how much money you make bitcoin, etc
Don't reveal how much you know about women.
Use Google incognito so she can't see your viewing history
Don't let her know how hot she is to you. always have pictures of opposite girls on your wall.
Don't notice her hypergamic nature-looking at more powerful guys.
Don't get sucked into sexual conversations in groups, pretend you don't notice
Don't comment after sex how horny she is
Don't remind her that you had sex on the first date
Don't notice her gaining weight. just start getting ready to leave
Don't complain about her. just start quietly exploring options
Don't fight reality. Accept and always be ready for rapid and radical change
Wisdom right there.
good points here, another one very powerful i noticed in my personal experience is that the less you care about the relationship the more they r attracted to u.
Rock'nRolla So true! women love/hate the feeling that you don't care about them because it makes them feel they have to work harder for your attention
Your channel is high level stuff, which I am afraid will go over the head of the vast majority of MGTOWs.. and your channel will likely never be mainstream.. however, I will be listening! Other channels are a bit complainy and basic. Be well!
Thanks Re3iRtH! I want to give the good indepth stuff because that's what it takes to really nail this part of a guys life. So far seem to be attracting the right audience who really want to improve. I'd rather have a good channel than a big one. In the end, guys are worth it. It's not cool the way guys are being fucked over by society. There is much to learn. Thanks for listening and adding your wisdom to the comments/questions!
"Men don't stumble on mountains; they stumble on pebbles. Pride is a man's downfall." -- Sicilian Mafia
AND IT ALWAYS COMETH BEFORE THE FALL
Women try to guess your 'probable' net worth with prying questions. So just say 'No'.
Been to Italy? No. Overseas? No. Is this nice car yours? No....its leased. Is this your house? No, I rent it.
Way back in '92 my father was going through a divorce and his evil soon to be 3rd ex-wife hired a forensic accountant to investigate him to find out where he was hiding his money.
It's hard to describe the utter dismay she experienced when the forensic accountant reported back that my dad had even less money that he'd been saying, not more.
My dad was pretty much MGTOW after that. He learned slow but he did learn.
Discovery is better than discretion. It’s way cooler for people to figure out you are a stable guy rather than telling them.
This is the best advice ever. Not wearing your heart on your sleeve will keep predators away. History if full of people who had their lives destroyed because of this foible alone. Not showing your cards is also one of the 48 laws of power. It makes you more intriguing and mysterious as well.
Thanks produceman13! Once you start implementing this in your life you'll look around you and take another dose of red pill. You'll see people all around you striving for validation from others and paying a huge price time after time. At the same time, human emotion and interaction is what makes life worthwhile so there needs to be a balance. And you will err at times. But compared to mindlessly exposing yourself to all and sundry you will be in a much better space than others. And you will get better at vetting people so you can go very deep indeed with good people who care about you. You actually go deeper, without fear and get a real connection when you filter out all the people who have bad intentions or are unable to control their mouths and do real harm without conscious intention
Ronin Man this is one of the best videos for someone going through the red pill rage. Hating women is a huge waste of time and energy and it leads to nothing positive. In the end all we can do is take care of ourselves and know how to play the game if you want to be involved with women. Otherwise just go your own way and be free.
Thanks Battle for Hoth! Can't agree more. Life is a massive challenge. No time for wasted energy on stuff that doesn't improve it. When men put their minds to stuff amazing things come out of it.
Kudos!
This is indeed how it should be done, once she knows about how much you have TRUST ME she would want to spend it. My grandma's first advice for me since I first engaged 10 years ago was "don't tell her how much money you have". Period. And my grandma is over 90 now yet she was spot on, I didn't follow her advice, and it truly caused me a lot of trouble. Not that I don't want to give her money but her focus turned to be all about spending money.
It goes without saying, this applies for the rest of the matters, don't tell her she got fat, don't tell her you feel jealous, don't tell her she is the only one in your life, ...etc.
I'm gonna have to listen to this regularly to imprint this on my mind.
Wise words, indeed!
I’ve come back to this one at least eight times now.
I've shown this video to 5 Male friends that were ready for change and it changed their lives. Thank you SO much Ronin.
Wow! That's frickin awesome! Thank you Hayden and nice to hear of the positive impact on your friends lives.
You can choose to disclose your situation at a later date. Once it's revealed to others, the disclosure cannot be rescinded. Pride cometh before a fall.
Amen. I'm not sure why men have such desire to blab this stuff. It's more fun to hold it in. It just feels right. When a guy blurts this stuff out, it feels so wrong. Like when you make a fool out of yourself in Jr High. After making a mistake, many guys tend to double down and share more things they shouldn't. It's like 3 wrongs will make a right or something. Anyway, if you slip, get physically out of the location. They might not even remember or might have been not paying attention. I've been saved by sloppy listeners. Just leave and revaluate. And be harsh on yourself. Call yourself out
If a woman has the scent of money but doesn’t know for sure if you have it, she will be everything you want
I'm pretty wise now - But, I think you are much younger than I am, and for that I envy you greatly. What you are doing, the life you are living, is what I should have done when I was young enough. I missed my chance. Your insights are extremely deep and practical, but what surprises me is that you are a moral, ethical man who has seen through the veil and has not lost his sense of right. Are you tending toward Buddhism?
Peter Herge absolutely! I'm 52. Many guys here are in their 60's and 70's and doing very well in every aspect of life. Tons of young internet guys too.
MrAeneas thanks for your heartfelt input MrAeneas. And I have to agree with Peter that it isn't too late. Hit me up at roninmgtow@gmail.com and I'd be happy to explain all the details on living here legally long term. (Retirement visa etc)
If I were only talking about my age, that would be different. But, I'm also too sick, and not going to get better. So, I'm pretty well stuck where I am until I leave the planet. I should have explained that earlier. If I were healthy, even in my 80s or whatever age, I would make the move; I'm free enough at last and have the financial resources to do it. But, it's just not practical now. Thanks anyway, and enjoy your time to the fullest.
Understood. One of my best friends and the hardest core MGTOW+PUA type guy you could ever meet died from cancer here in Bangkok last year. I learned so much from him. Every once in awhile I go out to his grave at Wat Tanod to pay my respects to the coolest guy I ever met. Sounds like you too have a lot to give to teach others. Appreciate your input.
@@RoninMan Much respect to you, and your friend. Your very fortunate to have had such a friend.
Loose lips sinks ships.
Ronin Man, this is tremendous advice. Flying below the radar is a wise move, especially when it comes to "flaunting" wealth, which in my opinion puts a target on one's back. Animals that stray from the herd can become victims by predators. We can remain independent minded and amass wealth, but I am unaware of any good that can come from being ostentatious or controversial. I would love to share your channel and red pill advice with my blue pill male friends but fear they would spite me for it so I remain silent.
@@sbc4434 everyone has to choose their own path, and all we can do is model our path and perhaps other men will catch on.
Self mastery is the key. Not letting outside influences dictate your actions.
Three things to keep private: Income, Personal Life, and Next Move.
This is arguably, in my opinion, your best video so far.
This and unblackmailable are two of RM's best work
Agreed!
Maybe it’s just pertinent to me personally, but I think this is one of your best videos.
This is a nitty gritty “how to” type of vid. I’m planning a hardcore how to vid now
In honesty, i have stated my financial state to a woman. A pathetic attempt to impress. I can only believe it is residual belief or practice. However, education/knowledge is king. So appreciate you for the lesson. I am new to this but after a year post of being out of the mainstream, i am realizing my weaknesses and vulnerabilities. So for now I am staying alone until I have the skill set required to manage myself around females. My ignorance is vast... hypergamy? New term for me... definition was a shadow in my mind but now it is reality. I feel that I am too old and can’t afford being an investor. Realizing that women don’t want a partner but an investor... or more like investors. Sad that I have wasted so many years. Thanks for the talk and will integrate and assimilate.
Joe Lucero - strength to you. Keep learning. One of the messages of RM is even though we were culturally set-up to be taken advantage of by women, that they in themselves (as individuals) are not to blame for how it is. This at least helps us to forgive ourselves for being such chumps for so long (30 years & two divorces in my case). I am very positive for young men having such wisdom so available as in the manosphere. They have never needed it more though. Best wishes to you sir.
Elder brother dispensing gold dust wisdom. Love the attitude and the perspectives, thanks!
Very interesting perspective here. I agree with all of that except the dealing with women bit, which should be avoided at all costs. No relationship, no dates, no sex, no cohabitation, no marriage and no kids. It's full on monk mode for me.
After dealing with women for near on 50 years, I’m leaning more towards the way you speak of, rebuilding and then getting it destroyed again is quite frankly frightening.
That's Called Wisdom! The hardest part of your body to control is your Tongue!!!
Wealthy men don’t flaunt it, play it down, this is golden advice I need to apply every time.
The reality of this wisdom is hitting me hard, especially after getting forced through the divorce wringer and looking back on past transgressions of this law all men need to internalise, it takes time, even years to fully grasp the importance, I’m getting there, cheers.
My take away is not fighting women to keep them in your life. I know a few that I am going to go "Ghost" on. Thank you for your service Sir.
Your videos are great. Found your channel in the last few weeks. This is amazing stuff.
Thank you! Good to have you
Bro, I have been in the game and studied it forever, studied alleged masters and this is BRAND NEW ADVICE. THANK YOU! Lol, you had me flash backing for decades of all the times I had the upper hand/ interest and completely lost them from saying too much or being to open with my thoughts. Especially with online dating. It all makes sense now. Love the advice about weight because I usually tell them and they don't do anything about it even if they say will. Wrong move. This is my missing link. Interesting stuff about the small mining town or whatever it was. I thought small towns with less options would be different in terms hypergamy. Thanks for this.
Thanks rash b! Each of those warnings was paid for with hard fought experience: Sometimes several times over.
Who did you study under? I'm a firm believer that self improvement has the highest rate of return and that it's not possible to know too much about women and ourselves
+Ronin Man You're the new sensei by the way. Lol. Well in my teen years I studied my brother who was once a master. Women used to buy him stuff and fight over him in his 20's. He was a player. My Dad warned him about accepting gifts from non girlfriends and not being upfront. I watched it come back to bite him in the ass. This led me to being upfront about everything which was a gift and a curse. When I got older I just started talking to and getting advice from guys or friends that were outstanding with women. I had no problems asking a stranger how he got a hot girl if I saw him with one. Then I would do my own research on women, reading any book I could on them and then that book The Game came out and I watched and studied PUAs.
Then I had multiple periods of mastery, especially one through Domming but recently I'm in limbo. Like I know too much now because of MGTOW and so I'm trying to process it all. But love still learning because I want to get back out there and apply this now because yes it's a study and as you've pointed out inadvertently there's a self-discipline in it.. On a sidenote I hope you talk about sleeping with married women one day. Guys need to know just how much they do it.
+rash b In the first Godfather movie, Marlon Brando's character (Vito Corleone) tells James Caan (Sonny) "Never tell anyone outside the family what you're thinking".
Ronin Man
..but it is possible to Learn just enuFF to alert you that this isn't working out. Mouth shut and eyes Open. You can't understand chiT if YOUR mouth is running!
"Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice; Take each man's censure, but reserve thy judgment." Thanks so much Ronin Man for a kick ass talk!
Up!
You’re one of the best at providing quality content
This is the 13th time I'm watching this video. Have to once every 1-2 months. Totally kick ass!
One of best videos on RUclips! Great work Ronin Man.
Respect from Maceió!
Great video! Please consider doing a second or a series! THX.😀👍
By the way did you ever figure out the name of the video about the steel mill women?
It's lost in the sands of time
@@RoninMan Do you know if it's still available on RUclips?
Ronin Man. This great advice all around - one of your best! Advice even for blue-pullers too.
I really like your videos, but I fucking love this particular video.
I play this once a day now in the morning or at work. Helps to control the ego.
Be a black box. So useful.
That's inspiring. You got me thinking about man's biggest weaknesses. Ego, shame, jealousy, pride. Have you seen this one on shame? ruclips.net/video/VK920XrE2G8/видео.html You might like this one on jealousy too. ruclips.net/video/JQGhQu3HfQA/видео.html Getting a handle on these puts a man in a very good position. i'll work on this more for the upcoming Unblackmailable member's area. These are frickin pernicious but can easily be minimized if better understood
Ronin Man I just started watching the video on shame. Good stuff.
I really like the examples you give. It makes things easy to understand and relatable.
I didn't realise how much I needed to work on myself before watching this video (and others). I've come to realize how far from zen I really am.
Thanks man.
5:04 "Part of being a very powerful MGTOW is that you never give in to the pride bullshit."
Pride is a trap that men set for themselves
My first Ronin Man vid, pure gold, great work. Be the black box.
Roning man, u r GOOD!!!! I'm evolving, refining, and changing after every one of ur videos... THANK U!!!
My mom in her wisdom told me: "never volunteer information." best advice ever.
Thanks Man!
You give us those adwises our fathers should have given us early on..
MrAeneas, M. K., Mārtiņš Beļskis, Michael: I appreciate all the comments and input but your comments in particular touched me deeply. WTF. So proud to be part of this community! Thank you
You're welcome. Keep up with the good work!
Be very careful when deciding whether to hide assets during a divorce, say, cryptocurrencies or real estate owned in corporations or limited liability companies. If you are caught, then you are at risk of total forfeiture of assets and imprisonment for perjury.
@EvanShmevan Brilliant advice
Monero
They don’t call it FULL discovery for nothing.
I stumbled upon this channel and subbed, keep making good vids man👍
Genius mix of mgtow wisdom and pua wisdom, black box, ninjutsu mgtow!
They ask , I lie 🤣🤣...
Great advice as always Ronin! One of my favourite MGTOW channels.
Not entirely in agreement. I think a man should lay his cards on the table about sexual interest. If she does not bite or she wants to drag you along, drop her immediately.
With other men or with women you don't have any interest in, I agree with you....
Thank you for this. Metaphors are everything and all I find is poker videos
This video is my weekly meditation
Great info Ronin Man, how I see it is two things... self worth and self discipline (need to work on both of them...) thanks again!
Aldo! Sorry I just saw this
23M here, not gonna lie, I was a total noob and your points hit home runs in my mind xD all i can say is, i extracted enough from my ex to know how much of your points are TRUE! Thank you for the video
Good to hear. Thanks Sakurad49!
Omerta... All the cool guys are doing it, best part is it is The Red Pill, and The Art of War. >>>Great Content Ronin Man. 👍👍👍
Another brilliant video and advice. Howe do you not have a million subs? Wtf!
Damn🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I will play this for my son, he will need this
another question i have is, for how long are we going to hide in a world that belongs to us?
A smart Warrior never exposes himself to his enemy, hiding in plain sight means they're never looking for you. Be like water move through the undercurrents while the storms of women blow themselves out. Cats may have nine lives but have you ever seen one hang itself a hundred times on a leash
Until we don’t have to
Love your message and perspective. Thanks for all the vids and wisdom!
You're very welcome Ryno H! Thanks for the props!
when its time to bail ,.....ghost em quick !
Excellent survival strategies..thanks
I'm watching this video a second time AND taking notes. The content is top quality - useful not only for mgtows but also for increasing our inner Alpha!
Today i went to a barbershop. I rememberd what You said in this clip and i act like a black box...You were right! I only told a joke about my hair. Good advices!
wow! this applies to many aspects of life! great show!
RONIN MAN IS TOP DOG 100%!!
What the hell is that @ 14: 10 ? A fish? This is a great video, especially for me as a 20 year old.
Thanks Blade Zero!
This is a good idea and I have tried to put this into practice, but what if someone who is close to you, that you really don't want tell what you are thinking about asks you a question based on something you did. (For example: You were easily able to figure out what to invest in at a young age. Or you you know how to deal with aggresive people and talk them down before a fight happens and then actually know how to fight.) The reason you don't wanna tell them is because they will gossip to others you both know as well as use this new information about you to their advantage. How do deal with those types of prying questions? Especially if they ask you frequently, but not too much (they do this on purpose so you can't keep track of the times that they ask as easily and get suspicous)
Healthy relationships require smart personal boundaries. And that requires knowing yourself well. Both require work but it pays off handsomely.
Say you don’t know how it just who you are.
Nice very nice... excellent information. I will listen again and perhaps remark further but what you say is sensible and smart.... very smart.
Absolutely great advise. Thanks for addressing this issue. This is an area I need to improve.
Great fkin message!! OMG
How do you stop yourself from trying to help other men in need when they are taken advantage of? I see it happen all the time. Men getting verbally abused and dominated by a girl, for absolutely nothing. I just want to tell them that what they are going through ain't worth the trouble.
I just saw the other day in a cafe, this one college student was surrounded by three girls. He was basically getting "consultation" on what to do to get with a girl he likes. He believes he is getting solid advice from these girls, but to me it looked like they were using this poor guy as some cheap entertainment. They were manipulating him to do all these simpy stuff, all the while laughing amongst themselves at the ridiculous lengths of what he would go through to have a chance with this one particular girl. They would read his texts, and giggle. He thinks he is getting good advice, and he is having a good time because they are reading his texts, and giggling. He thinks they were laughing with him. To me it was clear that they were laughing AT him..
There was some kind of insidious sisterly dynamic going on with the three girls, but it was at an expense at this poor young lad.
What do you think of these type of situations? How do you quell the urge to help in that moment? My whole life I've been thinking about how to be a good person, and I believe these guys getting advice from these girls are kind ppl that are playing by the rules. What's messed up is that they are the ones that get end up seriously hurt..
Very tough call. I do it on a case by case basis. Mostly best avoided because the guy will usually turn on you. If you find guys asking you questions, then carry on but beware that brainwashing runs deep. Don't put yourself at risk unless the guy is begging for help. Unless it's your brother or very good friend. Then it's worth the risk but keep in mind that it usually turns against you. If you do well, others will come to your for advice. Best to wait as there will be an endless procession of guys getting skinned alive around you
I usually help but I know that most guys will, tell the woman everything I told them. Guys just simply don't know how or why they need to protect themselves. They think that by sharing the details, the girl will be sympathetic and deal straight with them. So they can win her over. And when that doesn't work, they blame it on the guy who told them (tried to help them).I think it's worth it but I've lost access to many a married friend by trying to help him. Years later, when it all comes true, they say, "I should have listened...."
Amen
Had to watch this thrice. Very very nice!
short and sweet information is on need to know basis,always!
I don't know if you are a really nice guy or a heartless killer :) nice video men
He is a good guy who has learnt to fend off people with bad intentions for him.
If you're going with the flow, you don't have to do this one. It frees your mind to other stuff.
Good stuff
Always interesting videos!
Great one.
mustno3 thanks for the encouragement Mustno3!
'Post-contract party-B type individual' = "wife" :D
What is the name of the steel mill that closed, in the example, and where was it located?
I know nothing
LOL Sargent Schultz!
I can't go to the eastern front because of my back, my head, my gut! A bullet in any one of those places could be fatal! Sargent Schultz.
Best line ever
at 42,,, I realized I was a mgtow my whole life, ,sure as a younger guy i was nerved,,,but to see mgtow take off is like watching my children grow!.
Make a video about what happens if you fail to keep some of these things inside
You get fleeced
Great info - Thanks
Yo Ronin, what has been your method of deflecting financial questions? Obviously depends on context but how would you respond to high school friends for example asking you “so what’s is it you’re doing these days” or “what career route did you take” or “what do you do for a living” etc. It seems kinda social inept and shady to respond with, not important and switching topic
Girls asking? Older people like parents? Friends same age? How old?
@@RoninMan I’m 22 myself. I guess you need a different answer for each group. Main groups would be girls, “friends” (I put this in quotations because there are tiers of friends, the inner circle I would be cool with telling what I do for a living but never the amount) and the final group would be family members yeah.
I guess i throw the question back to you. How do you feel about people asking financial questions? If you don’t like it and would prefer not answering them, you need to learn how to set personal boundaries. “I'm sorry, but it's personal.”
“I don't know, sorry.”
“I'm not able to answer that question, sorry.”
“I'm not comfortable answering this question, sorry.”
@@RoninMan interesting so would most people you know not even know what you do for a living? like day to day? Must have a very mysterious/shady veneer haha. I think answering something along the lines of “Just some online business stuff, its not important” if they ask how it’s going you can say “I’m just about making it work” this can be your answer regardless of how much you’re actually making, making 500k? “Just about making it work” .
@@___Alexander___ having personal boundaries is not shady, it’s healthy and normal. Not having boundaries is abnormal and usually a sign of abuse and trauma. All people have a right to share things they want to and keep other things private. You have no obligation to answer every questions you’re asked by anyone.
Explaining it as if it’s a videogame is something we all can relate
Great advice! Be James Bond
Incognito doesn’t hide your history from your isp, etc.
Very true. It’s good enough for girlfriends and wives though.
Lol
Try TOR
Use the Brave browser and the DuckDuckGo search engine.
I think your videos are alright, I don’t really care
BLACK BOX ! nothings coming out of me
This is some ninja shit. I was hopeless at this 'under the radar' approach to sex and money but better late than never.
Perfect
Thank you
you are a wise men, saudos from Mexico.
osvaldo olvera thanks Osvaldo! Much appreciated. Where are you in Mexico?
Ronin Man Dude you cracked me up with the her gaining weight escape plan. Lol
I would use incognito, but I hate RUclips ads.
On point re money and income!
31.03.2022 ...stil awesome info!
taking notes.. awesome wisdom thanks
Civisme Secret you’re welcome! Thank you!
what was the name of that town?
Ross Baradoy I can’t find the link to that article but that scenario plays itself out all the time. If you find it please post
Their are web browsers that are more protected than google. For example Duckduckgo.
Great video man.
Very simple but powerful video..thank you RM..your my online mentor 555
Pay your Property Taxes and you won't have anything to worry about, I'm for more concerned about the golddigger.
commenting again ... lol just watching these videos ... great videos ... very helpful info too Respect !