It may surprise you that I am a 54 yo man. I follow you because I want to understand others pov. My 53 yo wife is more beautiful than she thinks. Extremely rare for her to leave the house without fresh hair, makeup and clothes. A man that encourages his partner to be plain is afraid another guy will be attracted to them. A confident woman with great posture is very attractive.
My boyfriend says I am naturally beautiful and appreciates it, but I notice how he is so impressed when I’m all done up (even natural makeup takes time) they don’t know what goes on behind it, the money, the learning, the effort; but they are affected and impressed by it.
My husband of 14 years used to love watching me do my makeup when we were just friends in high school. It was so calmly romantic cause he didn't judge my choices or pace and was amazed like it was a crazy talent haha. Now I go times without it for a few days and he is just like "you seriously look that good without makeup?!" And then when I put on makeup again he's amazed all over again. I love him so much.
20 years ago I was babysitting for wealthy family. The mother told me to open 'pretty me' savings account for future. I'm about to have mini facelift with 1 of the best docs in NYC. I look tired and want refreshed look. Invest in yourself for you, not for others. Do what makes your soul happy.
It’s sad that all the advice is for gaining male attention and validation. A real woman does it for herself. Even when it comes to s**. Some women are just performing and this is why men aren’t getting any better!!
@n0426 The world treats you better if you are pretty. It is a fact of life. Everyone in this world who wants to get to high places has to perform. Pretty privilege exists, so why not use it to our advantage? If male attention gets you promoted or gets you new opportunities, then there is no problem.
@@badriquette you need to understand that it’s still superficial and unfulfilling to your core. And those guys aren’t even doing it for you it’s all about their ego. It takes real personal growth to understand the way of the world. Not everyone who likes you loves you. Love takes on a different more slow tone. And the more you grow up the more you understand that you only need one to love you. Not many likes from men who don’t even know the real you. You will have way more self respect and feel more comfortable the more you develop into your womanhood.
If you don't want to look great and if you don't desire the male gaze then just do you and make no effort. Simple. The right women will appreciate this message.
You’re not lying! My ex used to say he wasn’t into BBLs or cosmetic surgery, yet I caught him cheating with a Brazilian girl who had the full BBL, with fillers in her face and lips. When a man says he doesn’t have a type or claims not to like something, trust me-that’s probably exactly what his dream girl looks like.
He was with me for status. When we met, he was living on cereal, nuts, and milk for breakfast and dinner. But once he got back on his feet, he started acting like he was a “high-value man,” as he called it! Seems like he just stuck around until he thought he could get his “dream girl.” It turned out that the very thing he claimed he had no interest in was exactly what he pursued.
Something I read recently said, “No one is ugly, just neglected” and I feel like that is just so true. Channel that energy into yourself and it will make you bloom. Love this episode, it’s almost funny how these things are taboo to say in today’s society but it’s just facts.
Neglected is such a real word... I've been married for a couple of years, and I feel like I'm losing my beauty, because I have zero energy for myself... Just chores, work, again chores, meal prepping, work again
Start to prioritise yourself, cause that cycle will never stop on its own unless you break it. And in the long term it will benefit everyone. @MarieM-ui4bu
My guy doesn't even have any social media so... He's the one claiming he likes a natural look and he prefers me with no make up on, I have no way of checking if he really means it 😅
There are no ugly women, just lazy or broke women. Every woman is beautiful in her own way, and has the ability - if she truly wants to - to be prettier than she is
Even broke women can look good if they want to. I think making your self look better improves your chances of getting a better job and opens more opportunities
@@Chinni_C888I have a friend who is naturally very pretty and has to make an effort to hide some ways to attract less attention. It’s an interesting thing.
Adore this! Perfect garden party dress, would love to see the bottom half. I am very small chested but have a push up bra and a tank top in mind when Spring hits again!
8:06 beware… if he is trying to keep you the way that you are, it could be because he has self esteem issues and doesn’t want you to look good. My ex told me he liked me to be a little overweight, and that he was into overweight women, and I am normal weight. It came to light later on that he was telling me that so I would gain weight and he didn’t have to worry about losing me. Yuck.
Also I just saw this elder goddess at a quartet concert last night. She was very elegant and minimal makeup I think in her 60s but she was extremely attractive and sexy! Even though she didn’t have tight clothes or anything like that. She was manicured but also relaxed and feminine. She inspired me so much to invest in myself more. Absolute queen
also with clothes, for all the young people, please, please, PLEASE stop buying cheap clothing. I am NOT saying this out of moral obligation (although that's obviously a relevant point). you will look, and feel so much better in more premium clothes AND you will spend less on clothing if you just choose a few nice pieces. I've spent hundreds on shein etc and you know how many of those pieces I still have? maybe 2 ratty old crop tops that I haven't replaced yet. it's not even that they fall apart quickly, it's that they will give you this feeling of 'I have nothing to wear' when in reality you have hundreds of cheap tops that are really worth less than 1 or 2 beautiful tops that you want to wear every day.
Needed to hear this!! Not specifically shein but still quick trendy brands and fast fashion. I have a mix but the lesser quality overwhelms me and definitely makes me say I don’t have anything to wear
This is very true!! You do feel different wearing premium clothes. The confidence you have is awesome indeed. I’ve never believed this until I tried. I bought clothes from shein too. But never again.
@@ShogoMakishimaxx I just moved to the US so not super familiar with the brands, but personally I really like Aritzia, Madewell, and Vuori. I don't even know for sure if they're good materials but I find I get a decent amount of wear out of the clothes and feel good when I wear them (vs just when I first buy them). They're also not crazy expensive. Urban Outfitters for example is about the same price but I feel like it's crazy expensive for the quality of their clothes (worse than Forever21 IMO)
@@wge621I look up Rebecca Taylor on Poshmark and Mercari. She makes clothes usually from silk, cotton, linen, wool, depending on the piece. They're very cheap now that RT left the company. I only wear her clothes. All my work clothes are from her too. I read somewhere that polyester generates a frequency of 15, which is the same as a dead person. So I try to avoid unnatural fabric or I settle with a blend with natural fabric. Usually, I noticed vintage Elie Tahari and RT both have silk lining. But since then, they cut costs. Both original designers left the brand. So it's best to get gently used clothes on Poshmark and Mercari.
We have a term in Italian that defined the effortless, simple, yet put-together style. It’s called sprezzatura, or “nonchalance”. For me in my feminine energy goddess era, a word to live by. As always I resonate so much with your ideas. Love you Margarita 💗!
Hahaha, I just learnt the word sprezzatura yesterday on Love is Blind 😅 Never heard it before, now I bet it will be everywhere around me! I like the concept of it.
@@talkativeacademy4528you probably won't hear anyone use the word "sprezzatura" in Italy, merely because it's an archaic term dating back to the 1500s. So no worries if you've never heard it before, it's not vernacular in Modern Italian 😊
@@Snappernose The misogynistic practice of “rating” women belongs in the past. Margarita is beautiful, and every woman is as beautiful as she feels inside. I reported your mean comment for bullying.
Looks and outfits were the easiest to tweak in my life that I used to my advantage. I had the brain, the humor but I thought I wasn't very attractive but paying attention to beauty, how to improve my posture, my smile, my grooming, my manners, it was easier for me to get noticed and when you do get noticed, that's when you pull out your brain and humor... it is worse to be pretty with nothing to show for it, they always just assume that pretty means dumb but it is a delight when someone who is bright and has a personality is also pretty.
I agree with everything you said in this video ❤ I have always known but sometimes forget, that keeping a healthy weight and exercising can do absolute wonders for your appearance. Clothes look better, face looks snatched and confidence and mood is better. I look significantly better when my BMI is around 22, but not lower. A few years ago I stopped going to the gym because I absolutely hated it. So I started walking between 15.000-20.000 steps a day and incorporating Pilates at home. Walking completely changed my body. I get to listen to podcasts and enjoy my alone time. What I also noticed is that I never feel that insane hunger I used to have when I would run or go to the gym.
100%! When I was focusing on my man and neglecting myself, my ex cheated on me. Now, I’m focusing on me, upgraded my looks and had better man chasing me. Loving yourself is the best investment you can ever have. ❤
Growing up, I saw my mother, older sister, Grandma and Aunt doing their makeup each morning and looking presentable. I always thought it was a form of self-respect and etiquette when you go in public.
I agree skin is actually more important than make up . I only learnt how to do my make up properly at 23 . All the girls I know who started wearing make up early have very bad skin . But I’m 31 now and my skin glows like a new born because I always prioritized my skin and learnt this from my mum . So luckily for me I can up and leave the house with barely nothing on my face and still look fine . No point of having great make up on with bad skin under . Invest in your SKIN ladies .
True, I just got a well paying job and all I can think about is fixing my teething, eating healthier, getting supplements for female health, face peel and gym. I can't wait.
@@1TLA7That doesn’t work for everyone. It’s best to either see a nutritionist or eat everything in moderation (unless you have an actual medical allergy) just like fashion trends, diet trends are useless. I know many people who have naturally high cholesterol and cannot eat butter and bacon for breakfast lunch and dinner. Some people will lose weight on a carnivore diet but it’s not sustainable. The moment they start introducing other foods into their diet (because their body needs it) they will gain back all the weight and then some. Some people don’t eat meat for cultural, ethical or religious reasons. Personally, I don’t feel comfortable eating pork. It’s simply not a one size fits all. And lastly, sugar isn’t the enemy. Of course it’s not healthy to eat sugary food and drink soda every single day but it’s perfectly ok to have ice cream or chocolate or a big fruit salad if that’s what you feel like having
I love that you’re encouraging ur followers to not buying what the industry sells yet telling us to take care of ourselves to be beautiful. The wisdom there is so sexy love❤❤❤
Any manifesto on beauty needs to spend 2/3 of the time on not being overweight and the remaining time on skin, hair, diet, makeup, posture, etc or else it’s not addressing the real problems. Being an appropriate weight is baseline. Makeup, etc only adds significant value once that baseline is reached.
The older you are, ladies, the harder you have to work and the more you are going to have to spend. Me, I forego other expenses to invest in my looks. I have several cosmetic surgeons and their work is very natural. Choose a plastic surgeon that has a good reputation, results that look natural, and is willing to reign you in if you ask for a procedure that will make you look unnatural. This involves more lifts and lasers than fillers. Don’t go overboard on the latter. Save up for the former. If you are a lip filler gal, make sure you get it dissolved and re- done periodically. Don’t keep stacking it. That’s how you get migrated product and obviously unnatural results. For skin, prescription grade tri-retinoin at minimum. Take week long breaks for glamorous events as your skin will continually peel like a snake. Micro needling for maintenance following facelift surgery. With those things any dermatologist approved moisturizer will do the trick. Hair: good stylist. I tend to go lighter because I’d rather blend the grays that are coming in than cover them with an awful brown color that will reveal roots. Stay as skinny and fit as you can. Personal trainer, and I run 8-10 miles a day. These red pill guys that say women in their 30s and 40s are ugly? They haven’t met me.
In terms of skin care, this is all pretty good device haha. I take Tretinoin and working my way up to doing micro needling again (I always go to a clinic). As for cosmetic surgery, always go for natural and reversible looks. Most men (people in general) dislike unnatural features. I’m completely natural but might get a little Botox at some point to prevent wrinkles. 🤷♀️
Dont bother about red pill guys, they are ugly since childhood so why bother what ugly people think? Even if our beauty fade atleast we had a taste of being beautiful. Its better to once be beautiful and lose it than never being beautiful at all.
I have a big nose but honestly the older I get (30) the more confident I feel about it. It makes me look different and I still pull looks compliments with how I look. ❤
Understand the best colors for your hair and skin. There are so many videos that teach color class - you buy and wear only colors that bring out your best features . Seriously life changing
So glad I came across this video. I’m really needing some encouragement. I’m in a mental, physical rut and don’t feel like I have anyone for support. I feel like I’m on autopilot and just getting through the days and not enjoying the journey. Need the encouragement to get myself together mentally and physically bc I’m the only one that can help myself.
I so agree with all this and want to implement it again for myself because I just feel better when I do. But I am so so so over men. So it’s not for them anymore .
I love how honest and straightforward Margarita is. She's no nonsense, but it comes from a genuinely good place and is very thoughtful and helpful advice.
I just finished listening to the audiobook version of your book, and I couldn’t stop for two days straight! Omg, you’ve completely opened my mind-thank you so much ❤️. I’ve already ordered the paper version too! Thank you again, Margarita, you’re amazing! xx
Dear Margarita, thank you so much for your video. It is a bit of a wake-up call, but so on point and motivating with the way you talk and almost seem to care about all of us! Love this.
Margarita, I absolutely love your content! As a married woman with a provider husband who’s completely devoted, I’ve never struggled to attract men like him, but now with marriage, kids, and hormones, I wish there was more focus on sustaining that dynamic. There’s so much content for single women, but what about those of us in this phase? I’d love to hear your insights on that!❤
When I was a young teen I studied fashion design and beauty very briefly as an ADHD hyperfocus and the first thing I learned was that if you can’t eliminate a flaw, then ✨flaunt it✨ and make it a focus of your own personal style. Celebrate it, so that people are compelled by it.
For finding clothes that suit you, I found Kibbe body type analysis soooo helpful. There's a channel about it here on YT called Aly Art. Thanks for the awesome video Margarita
I love this and wholeheartedly agree. Also, just discovering the KIBBE and Kitchener body types and essences has compeltely opened up my world on how to dress my body properly with my God given lines/coloring and personality! Hair makeup everything. Game changer And now at 40 Im renewing my style and rediscovering what I like and dont like and just wearing black🤣 Its awesome! 💖 Peace and love all✨️
Thank you darling. You are beautiful too ❤ I never forgot (or better said) I always keep in mind one of you advises that works wonders. That was: “Ladies if you want your man to love you, don’t talk to them”. As you mentioned it sounds counterproductive, but it surely works 😂😂😂
I am going to practice this bit of advice like a religion. I don’t have much to really say anyway that’s not me “defending” myself and justifying everything I do and think.
I've heard you say this Margarita and this has helped me love my face and body so much (as where I really struggled before). I look at my features in the mirror and I see my lineage from both sides of my family. I see my Scottish/English and then also Hispanic/Peruvian side and I feel so grateful to my ancestors before me that made it possible for me to be here and have this beautiful experience of life💖 Mindset shifts like this have prompted me to take care of myself like never before. I'm in the best shape of my life in my 30's than I ever had been in my 20's. When you love yourself, through and through; you take care of yourself inside and out
OMG! I just found you and I love you!. You said the key words about embracing our unique beauty. Because I have a nose, sort of a young Sofia Coppola's nose, not the biggest, but a strange one for sure. The phrase "It's a nose, It gives vibes" is amazing! Love it! 😄😂 Also I agree with embracing the joy of womanhood! I love to see how beautiful us as women can be. Never shamed anyone for that, even though I have been criticized by others for being girly, I really enjoy beautiful people and aesthetics!
Omg. So true ab the nose. I have a roman nose. A huge one lol. Up until recently i wanted to do it(not bc of me bc my mom always brings me down-You could do so much better if you had the small nose. You could be on tv if you had the nose😢bla bla bla.)4 months in i have done small movies,a commercial & a small part in a song as an extra. I never had problem with it but also other people always tell me i should do my nose then i would be unstoppable (bc i have full lips,curly hair & long lashes😂,i just love me )But its always the outside that has made me such a debbie downer since i was a kid. Only now im learning that my mom is a classic narcissistic. She only. cares when im doing successful stuff ,but when im sick or not working she turns her back on me and starts her emotional manipulation. Love yourselves girls. Never someone else before yourselves. 🎉❤Thank you @MargaritaNazarenko
Oh how I love you Margarita 🤩 you tell it how it is but with so much love and sass! Love this topic so much! A nice natural tan looks so nice on me! Working on my teeth and my fat loss - gotta work on that mama tummy because I want my clothes to lay nicely on me ☺️❤️🙏🏼 grateful for you!!!!!
I only disagree with the make up part, because it is toxic chemicals after all. I only wear it on special occasions. I find myself beautiful even without it.
I love so much about this. Great tips, and great older-sister pep talk! The one thing that bothers me is the condescending attitude toward men, encouraging us to “stroke his ego”, it seemed to me in an insincere way, just to keep him from going elsewhere to feel like a man. Suppose we took the time to notice, really see, and really appreciate all that our men are and all they do for us, and genuinely express our gratitude not from condescending contempt, but sincere respect?
thank you!! I wish beauty wasn't so "antagonized" in our society too, its like something thats so valued in society beauty just like academic intelligence is just another trait thats good to invest in, but one is allowed to be "focused" on and one is "shallow"?
That dress!! 😍 I initially started watching your videos years ago when you were showing us your delightful designer handbags and clothing. You have such an eye for design, Margarita. Would love to see some more fashion related content at some stage. Xx
Hi Margarita, it was a beautifuk surpsie to have your video pop up this morning, because I DIDNT KNOW YOU HAD A RUclips channel omgggg! I binge watch you on tiktok for a year and had not idea you were on here. I love your personality, how you talk to us like if youre sitting in front of me. You have kept me in line in moments ive strayed against whats the best for me. Thank you for putting time out every day to make all your videos! I love todays dress on you, looking like a Glamorous Goddess.
Thank you so much for being HONEST and saying it like it is!! Wish I had a woman like you in my life when I was in my late teens/early 20s but better late than never💓
Hot tip for hormonal acne, I started taking a supp called DIM. It's derived from cruciferous veggies and helps your liver metabolize out a form of estrogen associated with acne, PMS, and even breast cancer. I started taking it and my skin has done a total 180.
I don't know if it has anything to do with it, but my skin never looked better than when I was eating bell peppers and sauerkraut (fermented, not pickled) every day. Sauna helped a lot too.
Finally someone who tells it like it is! I too adore my beauty and make up routine (Chanel and Sisley are my best, but costly, friends). I always leave the house trying to look my best (and yes I'm a mom but I give myself that time). It makes me happy. I cannot imagine why so many woman don't put in the effort to look better.... it's beyond me.
Маргарита, спасибо за видео! Обожаю вас))) Мне нравится ваш канал! Ваш тон голоса и уверенность))) Спасибо, обожаю вас слушать по утрам за кружкой кофе! Мотивируете)
You are right. Still, the way you dress in this video I wouldn't recommend it to any women that wants to find a good partner or wants to be respected for real.
I love the information you provide🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thank you. I would love to have a video on how to handle jealous women around us in inner circles, in husband family or in our families
I had to listen to this 2x in a row 👏🏽 Do you get professional spray tans or do you recommend any at home products ? I have tried so many and can’t get over the smell
I'm so glad you're not just another pretty girl lying to other women about looks being unimportant. Our femininity is our power and it's in our interest to harness it.
It may surprise you that I am a 54 yo man. I follow you because I want to understand others pov. My 53 yo wife is more beautiful than she thinks. Extremely rare for her to leave the house without fresh hair, makeup and clothes. A man that encourages his partner to be plain is afraid another guy will be attracted to them. A confident woman with great posture is very attractive.
I love being a plane Jane. But not a sloppy Jane. It has its perks
The concept of success in " The Art of Seductive Power" book completely explains this. I wish I read it sooner.
How about reading the Bible? Your looks won’t get you into heaven.
By who Juliet Arden or Robert Greene ??
My boyfriend says I am naturally beautiful and appreciates it, but I notice how he is so impressed when I’m all done up (even natural makeup takes time) they don’t know what goes on behind it, the money, the learning, the effort; but they are affected and impressed by it.
Very true! I was about to comment the same thing
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So true!
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My husband of 14 years used to love watching me do my makeup when we were just friends in high school. It was so calmly romantic cause he didn't judge my choices or pace and was amazed like it was a crazy talent haha. Now I go times without it for a few days and he is just like "you seriously look that good without makeup?!" And then when I put on makeup again he's amazed all over again. I love him so much.
20 years ago I was babysitting for wealthy family. The mother told me to open 'pretty me' savings account for future. I'm about to have mini facelift with 1 of the best docs in NYC. I look tired and want refreshed look. Invest in yourself for you, not for others. Do what makes your soul happy.
It’s sad that all the advice is for gaining male attention and validation.
A real woman does it for herself. Even when it comes to s**. Some women are just performing and this is why men aren’t getting any better!!
@n0426 The world treats you better if you are pretty. It is a fact of life. Everyone in this world who wants to get to high places has to perform. Pretty privilege exists, so why not use it to our advantage? If male attention gets you promoted or gets you new opportunities, then there is no problem.
@@badriquette you need to understand that it’s still superficial and unfulfilling to your core. And those guys aren’t even doing it for you it’s all about their ego.
It takes real personal growth to understand the way of the world. Not everyone who likes you loves you. Love takes on a different more slow tone. And the more you grow up the more you understand that you only need one to love you. Not many likes from men who don’t even know the real you.
You will have way more self respect and feel more comfortable the more you develop into your womanhood.
If you don't want to look great and if you don't desire the male gaze then just do you and make no effort. Simple.
The right women will appreciate this message.
Genuinely asking for myself (just turned 38), how much does that cost on average?
You’re not lying! My ex used to say he wasn’t into BBLs or cosmetic surgery, yet I caught him cheating with a Brazilian girl who had the full BBL, with fillers in her face and lips. When a man says he doesn’t have a type or claims not to like something, trust me-that’s probably exactly what his dream girl looks like.
"Don't trust men ever" I wonder why things are going downhill
Yeah I don’t know… men particularly go after voluptuous women for affairs not for relationships… just saying
😢Then why be with someone that isn't that I don't get it 😢
He was with me for status. When we met, he was living on cereal, nuts, and milk for breakfast and dinner. But once he got back on his feet, he started acting like he was a “high-value man,” as he called it! Seems like he just stuck around until he thought he could get his “dream girl.” It turned out that the very thing he claimed he had no interest in was exactly what he pursued.
Same!! My ex had this one girl he claimed he didn’t like and when we broke up, he got with her. I don’t get it 🤷♀️
Something I read recently said, “No one is ugly, just neglected” and I feel like that is just so true. Channel that energy into yourself and it will make you bloom.
Love this episode, it’s almost funny how these things are taboo to say in today’s society but it’s just facts.
Neglected is such a real word... I've been married for a couple of years, and I feel like I'm losing my beauty, because I have zero energy for myself... Just chores, work, again chores, meal prepping, work again
Start to prioritise yourself, cause that cycle will never stop on its own unless you break it. And in the long term it will benefit everyone. @MarieM-ui4bu
I guess you never met rapists and otger abusers if you think it's all neglect and not internal ugliness and hollowness.
That's why I have no plans to marry..... Ever.
It's simply not appealing.
@@Cekatu marriage doesn't mean more chores if you're married to the right person. my husband does 80% of all chores. and i never ask him to do it
"Look at who he follows on Instagram" hahahaha. Agree a lot of men who say they don't like effort want to make sure you can't leave them.
My guy doesn't even have any social media so... He's the one claiming he likes a natural look and he prefers me with no make up on, I have no way of checking if he really means it 😅
There are no ugly women, just lazy or broke women. Every woman is beautiful in her own way, and has the ability - if she truly wants to - to be prettier than she is
I would add one more: the "leave me alone" woman, who looks broke and lazy on purpose 😅
Even broke women can look good if they want to. I think making your self look better improves your chances of getting a better job and opens more opportunities
@@Chinni_C888I have a friend who is naturally very pretty and has to make an effort to hide some ways to attract less attention. It’s an interesting thing.
I’m hella focused on bettering myself, even though by what I am now is better than before. ❤
I'm ugly because I'm broke. Only surgery would make me beautiful in any real way. No amount of diet or exercise will ever be enough.
The print dress with the pink bra(?) lining.. with the slicked back bun.. you look like a billion bucks!!!!
Boss bitch barbie 👌🏼✔️✔️✔️
It’s giving Carrie Bradshaw! I love it!
Adore this! Perfect garden party dress, would love to see the bottom half. I am very small chested but have a push up bra and a tank top in mind when Spring hits again!
💯✔️ She is a million bucks.
Super sexy! Love it 😍
8:06 beware… if he is trying to keep you the way that you are, it could be because he has self esteem issues and doesn’t want you to look good. My ex told me he liked me to be a little overweight, and that he was into overweight women, and I am normal weight. It came to light later on that he was telling me that so I would gain weight and he didn’t have to worry about losing me. Yuck.
It’s also a money thing with men
This is such a sick sabotaging tactic men commonly do . Yuck my ex did that
Also I just saw this elder goddess at a quartet concert last night. She was very elegant and minimal makeup I think in her 60s but she was extremely attractive and sexy! Even though she didn’t have tight clothes or anything like that. She was manicured but also relaxed and feminine. She inspired me so much to invest in myself more. Absolute queen
also with clothes, for all the young people, please, please, PLEASE stop buying cheap clothing. I am NOT saying this out of moral obligation (although that's obviously a relevant point). you will look, and feel so much better in more premium clothes AND you will spend less on clothing if you just choose a few nice pieces. I've spent hundreds on shein etc and you know how many of those pieces I still have? maybe 2 ratty old crop tops that I haven't replaced yet. it's not even that they fall apart quickly, it's that they will give you this feeling of 'I have nothing to wear' when in reality you have hundreds of cheap tops that are really worth less than 1 or 2 beautiful tops that you want to wear every day.
Needed to hear this!! Not specifically shein but still quick trendy brands and fast fashion. I have a mix but the lesser quality overwhelms me and definitely makes me say I don’t have anything to wear
This is very true!! You do feel different wearing premium clothes. The confidence you have is awesome indeed. I’ve never believed this until I tried.
I bought clothes from shein too. But never again.
What are some premium brands you recommend?
@@ShogoMakishimaxx I just moved to the US so not super familiar with the brands, but personally I really like Aritzia, Madewell, and Vuori. I don't even know for sure if they're good materials but I find I get a decent amount of wear out of the clothes and feel good when I wear them (vs just when I first buy them). They're also not crazy expensive. Urban Outfitters for example is about the same price but I feel like it's crazy expensive for the quality of their clothes (worse than Forever21 IMO)
@@wge621I look up Rebecca Taylor on Poshmark and Mercari. She makes clothes usually from silk, cotton, linen, wool, depending on the piece. They're very cheap now that RT left the company. I only wear her clothes. All my work clothes are from her too. I read somewhere that polyester generates a frequency of 15, which is the same as a dead person. So I try to avoid unnatural fabric or I settle with a blend with natural fabric. Usually, I noticed vintage Elie Tahari and RT both have silk lining. But since then, they cut costs. Both original designers left the brand. So it's best to get gently used clothes on Poshmark and Mercari.
So true - if you let yourself go looks-wise he will devalue you. Beauty is our leverage.
We have a term in Italian that defined the effortless, simple, yet put-together style. It’s called sprezzatura, or “nonchalance”. For me in my feminine energy goddess era, a word to live by. As always I resonate so much with your ideas. Love you Margarita 💗!
Same in french ❤
Hahaha, I just learnt the word sprezzatura yesterday on Love is Blind 😅 Never heard it before, now I bet it will be everywhere around me! I like the concept of it.
@@talkativeacademy4528you probably won't hear anyone use the word "sprezzatura" in Italy, merely because it's an archaic term dating back to the 1500s. So no worries if you've never heard it before, it's not vernacular in Modern Italian 😊
Is anyone going to say something about her dress? Insanely pretty
Yes, such a gorgeous print and design!
She’s a hard 5 at best.. that thinks she’s a 10.5😂
@@Snappernose The misogynistic practice of “rating” women belongs in the past. Margarita is beautiful, and every woman is as beautiful as she feels inside. I reported your mean comment for bullying.
@@Snappernose it’s the fact that a hard 0 thinks that this 10.5 cares what she thinks of them. Cringe 🤡
You’re right Amber she’s only here for likes and validation just like the rest of you… all thirsty for attention
Scarlett Johansson just posted❤
Omg yas she looks exactly like her here
Looks and outfits were the easiest to tweak in my life that I used to my advantage. I had the brain, the humor but I thought I wasn't very attractive but paying attention to beauty, how to improve my posture, my smile, my grooming, my manners, it was easier for me to get noticed and when you do get noticed, that's when you pull out your brain and humor... it is worse to be pretty with nothing to show for it, they always just assume that pretty means dumb but it is a delight when someone who is bright and has a personality is also pretty.
What a gorgeous woman with a gorgeous attitude. No woman left behind vibes and I'm here for it❤
I agree with everything you said in this video ❤ I have always known but sometimes forget, that keeping a healthy weight and exercising can do absolute wonders for your appearance. Clothes look better, face looks snatched and confidence and mood is better. I look significantly better when my BMI is around 22, but not lower. A few years ago I stopped going to the gym because I absolutely hated it. So I started walking between 15.000-20.000 steps a day and incorporating Pilates at home. Walking completely changed my body. I get to listen to podcasts and enjoy my alone time. What I also noticed is that I never feel that insane hunger I used to have when I would run or go to the gym.
100%! When I was focusing on my man and neglecting myself, my ex cheated on me. Now, I’m focusing on me, upgraded my looks and had better man chasing me. Loving yourself is the best investment you can ever have. ❤
Growing up, I saw my mother, older sister, Grandma and Aunt doing their makeup each morning and looking presentable. I always thought it was a form of self-respect and etiquette when you go in public.
I get the most compliments on my skin. I am sooooo grateful! I don’t spend much money on makeup at all. Girls 📣 SKIN IS EVERYTHING 📣
I agree skin is actually more important than make up . I only learnt how to do my make up properly at 23 . All the girls I know who started wearing make up early have very bad skin . But I’m 31 now and my skin glows like a new born because I always prioritized my skin and learnt this from my mum . So luckily for me I can up and leave the house with barely nothing on my face and still look fine . No point of having great make up on with bad skin under . Invest in your SKIN ladies .
True, I just got a well paying job and all I can think about is fixing my teething, eating healthier, getting supplements for female health, face peel and gym. I can't wait.
Go carnivore and you’ll literally age backwards lol cut sugar
@@1TLA7That doesn’t work for everyone. It’s best to either see a nutritionist or eat everything in moderation (unless you have an actual medical allergy) just like fashion trends, diet trends are useless.
I know many people who have naturally high cholesterol and cannot eat butter and bacon for breakfast lunch and dinner. Some people will lose weight on a carnivore diet but it’s not sustainable. The moment they start introducing other foods into their diet (because their body needs it) they will gain back all the weight and then some.
Some people don’t eat meat for cultural, ethical or religious reasons. Personally, I don’t feel comfortable eating pork. It’s simply not a one size fits all. And lastly, sugar isn’t the enemy. Of course it’s not healthy to eat sugary food and drink soda every single day but it’s perfectly ok to have ice cream or chocolate or a big fruit salad if that’s what you feel like having
I love that you’re encouraging ur followers to not buying what the industry sells yet telling us to take care of ourselves to be beautiful. The wisdom there is so sexy love❤❤❤
"we get this one life this one experience one time around this earth on this globe, enjoy girlhood enjoy dressing up" this is so beautifully said
Any manifesto on beauty needs to spend 2/3 of the time on not being overweight and the remaining time on skin, hair, diet, makeup, posture, etc or else it’s not addressing the real problems. Being an appropriate weight is baseline. Makeup, etc only adds significant value once that baseline is reached.
Yep
@@1TLA7100% the big girls with all the hair, make up eyelashes is insane …put that time into make up and Meal prep
100%
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The older you are, ladies, the harder you have to work and the more you are going to have to spend. Me, I forego other expenses to invest in my looks. I have several cosmetic surgeons and their work is very natural. Choose a plastic surgeon that has a good reputation, results that look natural, and is willing to reign you in if you ask for a procedure that will make you look unnatural. This involves more lifts and lasers than fillers. Don’t go overboard on the latter. Save up for the former. If you are a lip filler gal, make sure you get it dissolved and re- done periodically. Don’t keep stacking it. That’s how you get migrated product and obviously unnatural results. For skin, prescription grade tri-retinoin at minimum. Take week long breaks for glamorous events as your skin will continually peel like a snake. Micro needling for maintenance following facelift surgery. With those things any dermatologist approved moisturizer will do the trick. Hair: good stylist. I tend to go lighter because I’d rather blend the grays that are coming in than cover them with an awful brown color that will reveal roots. Stay as skinny and fit as you can. Personal trainer, and I run 8-10 miles a day. These red pill guys that say women in their 30s and 40s are ugly? They haven’t met me.
I love this. I bet you look great queen ❤
In terms of skin care, this is all pretty good device haha. I take Tretinoin and working my way up to doing micro needling again (I always go to a clinic).
As for cosmetic surgery, always go for natural and reversible looks. Most men (people in general) dislike unnatural features. I’m completely natural but might get a little Botox at some point to prevent wrinkles. 🤷♀️
Love this. Slay!!
Dont bother about red pill guys, they are ugly since childhood so why bother what ugly people think? Even if our beauty fade atleast we had a taste of being beautiful. Its better to once be beautiful and lose it than never being beautiful at all.
“I’m an Eastern European woman with a nose nose 😂” … so am I … but I’m learning to love it
I have a big nose but honestly the older I get (30) the more confident I feel about it. It makes me look different and I still pull looks compliments with how I look. ❤
Big noses are completely underrated. They add so much character to your face in the best way.
Understand the best colors for your hair and skin. There are so many videos that teach color class - you buy and wear only colors that bring out your best features . Seriously life changing
So glad I came across this video. I’m really needing some encouragement. I’m in a mental, physical rut and don’t feel like I have anyone for support. I feel like I’m on autopilot and just getting through the days and not enjoying the journey. Need the encouragement to get myself together mentally and physically bc I’m the only one that can help myself.
Brick City had me crying girl😂
Anyway, thank you so much for being our big sis to your girlies out here, we appreciate and love you Margerita❣
"Look who he follows on Instagram" This right here says it all.
I so agree with all this and want to implement it again for myself because I just feel better when I do. But I am so so so over men. So it’s not for them anymore .
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I love how honest and straightforward Margarita is. She's no nonsense, but it comes from a genuinely good place and is very thoughtful and helpful advice.
I just finished listening to the audiobook version of your book, and I couldn’t stop for two days straight! Omg, you’ve completely opened my mind-thank you so much ❤️. I’ve already ordered the paper version too! Thank you again, Margarita, you’re amazing! xx
Agree with all of this! I started to research every single thing I wanted to change- made a plan based on time and money.
Why are not our mothers mothering the way that RUclips mothers do.
Seriously, I ask myself this too. I have been re-mothering myself online
I was thinking this😂
Because they didn’t know either
@ well some clearly did because they raised their daughters to be like that.
You are so so witty, funny and like such a beautiful older sister. Absolutely LOVE your videos ❤
Dear Margarita, thank you so much for your video. It is a bit of a wake-up call, but so on point and motivating with the way you talk and almost seem to care about all of us!
Love this.
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden". I have studied men before.
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Margarita, I absolutely love your content! As a married woman with a provider husband who’s completely devoted, I’ve never struggled to attract men like him, but now with marriage, kids, and hormones, I wish there was more focus on sustaining that dynamic. There’s so much content for single women, but what about those of us in this phase? I’d love to hear your insights on that!❤
You’re amazing.. Your content literally changed me, and people around me can sense it.. love you
When I was a young teen I studied fashion design and beauty very briefly as an ADHD hyperfocus and the first thing I learned was that if you can’t eliminate a flaw, then ✨flaunt it✨ and make it a focus of your own personal style. Celebrate it, so that people are compelled by it.
For finding clothes that suit you, I found Kibbe body type analysis soooo helpful. There's a channel about it here on YT called Aly Art. Thanks for the awesome video Margarita
I love this and wholeheartedly agree. Also, just discovering the KIBBE and Kitchener body types and essences has compeltely opened up my world on how to dress my body properly with my God given lines/coloring and personality! Hair makeup everything. Game changer And now at 40 Im renewing my style and rediscovering what I like and dont like and just wearing black🤣 Its awesome! 💖 Peace and love all✨️
I love this. There are many female empowering gurus here in youtube but your video managed to keep me watching the whole of it.
Thank you darling. You are beautiful too ❤
I never forgot (or better said) I always keep in mind one of you advises that works wonders. That was: “Ladies if you want your man to love you, don’t talk to them”. As you mentioned it sounds counterproductive, but it surely works 😂😂😂
I am going to practice this bit of advice like a religion. I don’t have much to really say anyway that’s not me “defending” myself and justifying everything I do and think.
I've heard you say this Margarita and this has helped me love my face and body so much (as where I really struggled before). I look at my features in the mirror and I see my lineage from both sides of my family. I see my Scottish/English and then also Hispanic/Peruvian side and I feel so grateful to my ancestors before me that made it possible for me to be here and have this beautiful experience of life💖 Mindset shifts like this have prompted me to take care of myself like never before. I'm in the best shape of my life in my 30's than I ever had been in my 20's. When you love yourself, through and through; you take care of yourself inside and out
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One of the best ones yet. I love you. I really really like what u noted about noses, i needed that.
I've watched this two times in a row and I will watch it again. You're are really remothering me. Thank you soo much! ❤
OMG! I just found you and I love you!. You said the key words about embracing our unique beauty. Because I have a nose, sort of a young Sofia Coppola's nose, not the biggest, but a strange one for sure. The phrase "It's a nose, It gives vibes" is amazing! Love it! 😄😂
Also I agree with embracing the joy of womanhood! I love to see how beautiful us as women can be. Never shamed anyone for that, even though I have been criticized by others for being girly, I really enjoy beautiful people and aesthetics!
Omg. So true ab the nose. I have a roman nose. A huge one lol. Up until recently i wanted to do it(not bc of me bc my mom always brings me down-You could do so much better if you had the small nose. You could be on tv if you had the nose😢bla bla bla.)4 months in i have done small movies,a commercial & a small part in a song as an extra. I never had problem with it but also other people always tell me i should do my nose then i would be unstoppable (bc i have full lips,curly hair & long lashes😂,i just love me )But its always the outside that has made me such a debbie downer since i was a kid. Only now im learning that my mom is a classic narcissistic. She only. cares when im doing successful stuff ,but when im sick or not working she turns her back on me and starts her emotional manipulation. Love yourselves girls. Never someone else before yourselves. 🎉❤Thank you @MargaritaNazarenko
Who invented that small duck nose is beautiful?
Oh how I love you Margarita 🤩 you tell it how it is but with so much love and sass! Love this topic so much! A nice natural tan looks so nice on me! Working on my teeth and my fat loss - gotta work on that mama tummy because I want my clothes to lay nicely on me ☺️❤️🙏🏼 grateful for you!!!!!
Posture is everything
This woman is a genius
I only disagree with the make up part, because it is toxic chemicals after all. I only wear it on special occasions. I find myself beautiful even without it.
Queen pls change our worlds with your skin care routine! A high end and affordable version! Also skin prep for makeup!
brick city 😂 you kill me. great video, as always! 🥰🔥
It takes balls to make a video like this. Thank you!!! I REALLY want you to be in a movie as you are. Would be incredible.
I love your videos Margarita!! You give practical, detailed examples and are direct about it! 💯👑
I absolutely love this video! Your delivery & message is spot on. You’re a breath of fresh air.
I love so much about this. Great tips, and great older-sister pep talk! The one thing that bothers me is the condescending attitude toward men, encouraging us to “stroke his ego”, it seemed to me in an insincere way, just to keep him from going elsewhere to feel like a man. Suppose we took the time to notice, really see, and really appreciate all that our men are and all they do for us, and genuinely express our gratitude not from condescending contempt, but sincere respect?
Yes! Yes! Yes! I love this! Keep up the good work.
definitely hitting the follow button ! amazing thankyou!!! keep on posting
thank you!! I wish beauty wasn't so "antagonized" in our society too, its like something thats so valued in society beauty just like academic intelligence is just another trait thats good to invest in, but one is allowed to be "focused" on and one is "shallow"?
I think you re a gorgeous speaker!
Thanks you for having the balls to say this, thank you for speaking the truth but still in a kind way. ❤
That dress!! 😍 I initially started watching your videos years ago when you were showing us your delightful designer handbags and clothing. You have such an eye for design, Margarita. Would love to see some more fashion related content at some stage. Xx
you are so funny im here for your humor
Hi Margarita, it was a beautifuk surpsie to have your video pop up this morning, because I DIDNT KNOW YOU HAD A RUclips channel omgggg! I binge watch you on tiktok for a year and had not idea you were on here. I love your personality, how you talk to us like if youre sitting in front of me. You have kept me in line in moments ive strayed against whats the best for me. Thank you for putting time out every day to make all your videos! I love todays dress on you, looking like a Glamorous Goddess.
You said everything I didn’t want to hear but needed to
Margarita, thank you for this video! I love your content so much! I find you interesting, funny and knowledgeable! ❤
"Nose gives vibes." Just 4 minutes in the video and I love you already.
Wow love your new looks and setting with flowers and amazing clothes!
Thank you so much for being HONEST and saying it like it is!! Wish I had a woman like you in my life when I was in my late teens/early 20s but better late than never💓
This video is so real. Thank you for being genuine. This is exactly what I think too.
i love you so much haha your aura and the way you talk is so no-nonsense and deadpan in the best way. A+ advice ♡
I love this look. Yesss, continue ❤
Just liked it. Right the way i needed to heart that. Gives me hope I can still feel beautiful even with my nose and ears.
first time seeing your video.. I appreciate your confident delivery.. very on point! I am excited to resume getting my nails done:)
Hello i m 24 and so glad I found you at the right time ..love from India ..you give very elder sister vibes ....so glad ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes! That’s exactly what she’s been for me too! Trendy, smart, sassy, bad ass older sister vibes!
Elder* sounds better! Please excuse me saying older. 😅❤
Hot tip for hormonal acne, I started taking a supp called DIM. It's derived from cruciferous veggies and helps your liver metabolize out a form of estrogen associated with acne, PMS, and even breast cancer. I started taking it and my skin has done a total 180.
I don't know if it has anything to do with it, but my skin never looked better than when I was eating bell peppers and sauerkraut (fermented, not pickled) every day. Sauna helped a lot too.
Nice stuff! A nice diffuser than you could use to soften the new light, which might prevent the glare behind you as well. Diffusers are SO flattering!
Маргарита, вы абсолютно правы
Love your content ❤
I'm always listening to your podcasts from Brazil
Finally someone who tells it like it is! I too adore my beauty and make up routine (Chanel and Sisley are my best, but costly, friends). I always leave the house trying to look my best (and yes I'm a mom but I give myself that time). It makes me happy. I cannot imagine why so many woman don't put in the effort to look better.... it's beyond me.
Маргарита, спасибо за видео! Обожаю вас))) Мне нравится ваш канал! Ваш тон голоса и уверенность))) Спасибо, обожаю вас слушать по утрам за кружкой кофе! Мотивируете)
I honestly loved this episode so much because it's all so true.
Omg the best talk. Saying it how it is and I'm so here for it. Yes yes and another yes ❤
Damn girl, girls are GIRLING ❤️🔥
All the girls are girling girling
You are right. Still, the way you dress in this video I wouldn't recommend it to any women that wants to find a good partner or wants to be respected for real.
Suchhhh a good breakdown of things ❤❤
this was the best episode everrrr thank you Margarita ❤️❤️
I love the information you provide🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thank you. I would love to have a video on how to handle jealous women around us in inner circles, in husband family or in our families
I love your videos so much youve become my favourite account on youtube💖
I had to listen to this 2x in a row 👏🏽
Do you get professional spray tans or do you recommend any at home products ?
I have tried so many and can’t get over the smell
I'm so glad you're not just another pretty girl lying to other women about looks being unimportant. Our femininity is our power and it's in our interest to harness it.
Omg my heart dropped when your video popped up you look stunning 🤩
Love it! & you! Killin it