Lela Rochon deserved better, ESPECIALLY from women!!
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Lela Rochon deserved better, ESPECIALLY from women!!
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She is beautiful outside and inside you can’t buy that! God bless this woman and 🖕🏽the haters.
My whole mood in doing this video! She’s such a class act and lived so privately never bothering anyone. She didn’t deserve any of this and I hope she knows that.. I can’t even image.. smh
@@KarineAlourde facts!! No woman deserves that! We all go through shit and we all deserve compassion for the shit we gotta put up with. I truly hope and wish the best for her.
And thank you for shedding light on her and giving her the flowers she deserves! Love your videos! ❤️❤️❤️ may god bless you as well!
Indeed.
What a Beauty and Brains ❤ No response is a response. She is a class act and forever a Hollywood Starlet. ❤❤❤❤
@@KarineAlourde , hey Karine there is scammer out here trying to use your image to lure people into their scam.I thought I would tell you .
*I’m 5’10”, literal Barbie doll and I have been cheated on, when I tell you it doesn’t matter the woman but, the man who wants to cheat ☕️*
Halle Berry was cheated on 😮
And Jay-Z cheated on Beyoncé🥴 I said to myself then, if a nigga can cheat on Queen B then a pretty woman looks literally ain’t ish no mo🤣 the Thrill is gone & all the hope😂
I know what you mean. I know women who are gorgeous, have an attractive personality, smart, etc. And a good portion of them have gotten cheated on. It really is on the other party since you can do everything right, put your all into the relationship, but they can still betray you
I'm the opposite, short, no makeup and alt style yet I'm always getting approached, plenty of times men clearly out with their girlfriends are looking at, nodding, smiling and winking at me. It truly doesn't matter who you are.
Men NEVER cheat with what's better...just with what's easier!
My wife and I have been married for almost 25 years. She was 130lbs when we met. She’s over 200 now after 7 kids. I still see her as the way I first saw her. It doesn’t matter to me. I love “her” and everything about her. She’s watched many women try me only for me to tell them “no”. I am only for “her”. That’s just the way I am.
That's how it should be brother.
If you married you can't cheat on your partner period. That's the sanctity of marriage. Be blessed
She didn’t even look bad considering her age, disease, and having kids she’s still beautiful just like before ❤ and I agree it really was cruel how people treated her 😢
I agree. It’s disturbing.😟
@@JuliaShalomJordan it shows how unrealistic people are like she’s supposed to look 20 forever 🙄
Exactly… look what happened to Nia Long…. These men are going to cheat regardless. There is no rhyme or reason.
Nice back handed compliment
@@deedee-ew6so how? nothing is wrong with getting older and your body changing after birth it’s natural and she does have a disease I think it’s lupus so it will have an effect on her weight
MEN CUT FROM HER HUSBAND'S TYPE OF CLOTH ARE CHEATERS BEFORE THEY EVEN MEET YOU..........HE WAS GONNA CHEAT WITH OR WITHOUT HER WEIGHT GAIN, HE JUST WANTED TO MAKE IT HER FAULT....
No matter how beautiful a woman is a man is going to cheat
👏🏿👏🏿
@@lisamccray9079 NOT ALL MEN ARE CUT FROM A CHEATING CLOTH AND NOT ALL WOMEN FEEL A MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO CHEAT SIMPLY BCUZ HE IS A MAN.....
Her name alone is so dreamy. I think my favorite role of hers was in "Why Do Fools Fall In Love?" I hate how she's been body shamed. Some women put on weight after having children or getting older. I feel like the women who were blaming her for her husband's cheating are not only "pick-mes" but also misogynistic. Yes women can perpetuate misogyny too.
Women be the main ones, low key.
She has some disease that made her gained weight so I think that is worst.
I have an aunt like that. She used to ask me to walk and go get her food when I was pregnant. She had a car too
@@Luckimee
Not 😎at all. Just because you are young, or younger, does not always mean more able.
When you are pregnant, you need rest whenever you are not busy with what is yours to do.
Also, people should always be grateful for what they can do for themselves, even if they not feel like it.
I am nearing the 5-0 and my son always watched me do for myself. I never asked anything from him, even now during my physical challenges. I did once asked him to help me to clear the trunk of my previous vehicle and fix the carpet in it, but I offered to pay him because that was not his to do and it was not his responsibility. I want to lead by example by him seeing me do what is mine to do myself.
Then too many adults complain about today's youth are too lazy when adults wants to use their children or other youth to do something that is theirs to do but do not feel like it. I hope my example will lead my son and if he has children one day, that he won't use his kids to get out of doing something he needs or wants himself.
I currently find ways to do things that are challenging to keep the independence, and will only ask for help if need it it be truly, but I believe in doing what I can in return, or at least, offer to.
Plus, there are so many people of all ages who are worse off and only dream of getting their own glass of beverage and wash their own clothes, wishing they can independently do things the next person would gripe having to do and want it done for them.
@shikabane🐉hime fat women do it, so no.
Her and Robin Givens almost favored each other. She really is gorgeous and she lives such a private life ! I respect it ❤️❤️❤️
Wow Just remembered Robin as you mentioned her. I wonder whats going on with her.
They are not the Sam person?
@@d.c.e who are you referring to?
Yes they do. They could have been cousins sisters even. Lela's features are softer whereas Robin's more defined and chiseled but still both stunning ladies.
I just saw the thumbnail and thought this was about Robin Givens. They are both very beautiful women
I never knew Lela Rochon dated Shemar Moore. Skinny or weight gain she is still one of the most beautiful women ever. Her funny looking husband should have been thankful to have her. Nicole Murphy is definitely getting her karma damn near 60 and just a pump and dump.
I agree about nicole Murphy. The only one who lost in that situation was her.
@@kathiaserrano7740 facts
A pump & dump 😂😂😂👍🏾
pierce brosnan loves his wife, appreciates that she raised their children, never affected by her body size.
Delta Burke and Gerald McRaney, Married 33 Years
Yesss! 💯
Kevin Costner too. I think they're old asses were STILL MAKING BABIES a few years back😂😂😂
Exactly!!!
Bill and Hillary Clinton
🤵🏼♂️👰🏼
47 Years and still going
🙃🙂
Seeing women like her growing up made me so proud to be a black woman.
She looks fine to me.
We can't be 20 and sticks forever. I was a size 0-2 for most of my life until I had a kid now I'm a 6. Thats life baby
Carrying and Giving birth does so much to a woman’s body. Leave People alone 😢 I love her and she is a classic beauty always ❤️
So informative. When will women just allow each other to age gracefully🤷🏾♀️
Exactly!
Amen to ‘dat.
Exactly it's like we get more bullied by women when it come to age/getting older than men.
Women are evils, that’s why I don’t like being friends with girls
IMO I think hating on other women getting older ages YOU.
It’s said that people can’t age without being ridiculed. She’s so beautiful. I’m glad she didn’t run to the plastic surgeon and mess herself up.
The crazy thing is even when I was in my 20s I never thought that women in the 30s, 40s, or 50s were old. I just thought it was old enough to have wisdom. I feel like this crazy war between the ages and the sexes is very recent (like within the last 5 years).
So weird.
Now so many people have plastic surgery 🙄 and it mess them up.
Those women justified it because they were probably jealous of her and wanted what they thought she had.
I loveeeeee Lela. Her acting never felt forced or fake.
It's so sad that women are their harshest critics
Yeah it's sad but I'm not surprised
She was one of my clients between 2009-2010 when I was a Banker at BofA. She was the most down to earth, beautiful women.
One of my friend's husbands left her because she gained weight, and he died three years later.
He was an asshole for that.
😯😯
♻️
Karma..
Wow smh
Lela is GORGEOUS! Loved her in Waiting to Exhale. If a man wants to cheat, he will cheat. It has nothing to do with how his significant other looks. The stress & medical issues she has been through is no joke! People need to show more grace to others. ❤ 😔
Couldn’t agree more
Men usually abandone women in sickness while they act like crybabies during fly.
@@sharlaamysamuel ❤️❤️
I'm still a fan of Lela! She's dropped dead gorgeous! Very talented actress! When a man puts on weight its no problem! I miss seeing her on tv and movies! I love her in Waiting to Exhale, Boomerang, Harlem Nights, and other projects! Our bodies go through changes through pregnancies and aging! I miss her!! Thank you for doing her breakdown!!💕💕💕💕
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Indeed she is.
So Am I! She deserves a LOVING HUSBAND!
Kind, smart and absolutely beautiful! I got upset too about the audacity of Nicole and the public. As usual, she showed what a class act she is!
She was soooo beautiful 🤩 had no idea she was Haitian like Fancy 😻🙀
@The Traveling Bug Haitian heritage they said
She is French Creole from Louisiana. We are not Haitian!
She still is beautiful…
@@MayMay-el4wg calm down. 😂
@@MayMay-el4wgI hope you know Haitians are the same only difference is yall from Louisiana 😂
Shes still very beautiful! It’s ridiculous how society and plastic surgery has skewed people’s perception of beauty. She has ages gracefully and I am happy for her.
I always thought Lela Rochon was soo beautiful. Those cheekbones could cut glass!
I just love her cheekbones so much 😍😍
Yass!😍
Facts I be so jealous of women with beautiful high cheekbones.
She have nice cheek bones
Her and Robin Givens were both stunning in Boomerang.
She is a beautiful woman ❤ and a class act.
delusional
Lela is a gorgeous woman at any weight and Anton Fuqua was lucky to get her. I loved her in Waiting to Exhale.
He sure was lucky to get her with his funny looking self.
Anton should Fuqua off
@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302still cheated
Lela is one of my favorite actresses from the 90's!! She's always been beautiful, intelligent & classy...so NOPE, there will NOT be any Lela slander!!
A perfect example of a man loving his wife for who she is would be Pierce Brosnan and Hugh Jackman. Their wives really go through it on social media. Btw, I'm no fan of Twitter.
You mean to tell me women justified her husband cheating simply because she gained weight🤦🏾♂️ so much for the damn Sistahood🥴🥴🤣 smh
Yep it was sad.
@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 very! This “fake Sistahood” is really a conversation that needs to be had, cause I never see anyone on any Podcasts or any social media platform that’s discussing the phoniness of the Sistahood.. it’s a conversation that really needs to be had.
I Mean She Was Truly Effortlessly Gorgeous
Shes a class act and he never deserved her.
Wow, people can't grow in age in peace. The same ones who critiqued her should wait and see what life had to offer them.
The audacity of people trying to bring her down, they don’t know what was the reason of her weight gain, she’s beautiful no matter what size she is .
Thank goodness! Somebody is honest! There is no sisterhood! Nonetheless, Lela Rochon was/is a beautiful legend! She's a great actress! She DEFINITELY stole the show in Boomerang, Waiting to Exhale and Why Do Fools Fall in Love! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yeah I was so disgusted with so many women and how they responded to her tragedy… just a shame
@@KarineAlourde She also has Lupus. This could have contributed to her weight gain. She STILL has a lovely face. Same with her doppelganger daughter. Hope Lela is healing. 🙏🏾
An the wayan brothers
Women are too insecure and need the validation from men. They will also never stick up to men but will attack other women
Harlem nights
You SO speak the truth. I'm sick and tired of this world that only sees how a woman looks. It is especially horrible if women do it to each other. So many insecure and immature so-called "ladies" out there. What goes around, comes around.
So she’s an actor not on heavy drugs like every other thin actor. And they think her husband should cheat…humans are disgusting
Loved her in the 90’s and still think she is one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen! ❤
Never disappoints, always bringing it. She is very gorgeous That's why the famous black mama saying always goes "Not everyone is going be your friend" and "I'm not one of your little friends".
I always see her as a gorgeous comedienne. I hope she is happy wherever she is now in her life.
I looked high and low for a white dress with cutouts along the waist just like her character wore in a scene from Waiting to Exhale. When I found one similar, I was ecstatic!
She is so beautiful, talented and classy. I love seeing her on the screen. ❤✨🔥
She seems like a sensitive and introspective woman. Respect for her big time.
I almost forgot how stunning she is just naturally beautiful
Oh my goodness!! I’ve been waiting on this for a while! I just love her and I hate how people have degraded her because of her weight gain. She is beautiful and always has been- inside and out! She definitely deserves her flowers❤️🌹🌺🌸🌹🌷🌼
I was always mesmerized by her aura, too.💐
I loved her in "Boomerang". Loved that movie.
Especially the scene with her walking the dog in that Fabulous Winter White Outfit and Plush Scarf 🌟
@@sonyadrake3428 That was one of my favorite scenes. I must have watched that movie at least 20 times.
@@AbeJacoby
She's a Vision of Natural Beauty and Class! 💐🌹🌷🌺🌸
She also was in The Harlem Shuffle video by the Rolling Stones. Gorgeous! She still is. One of the most beautiful women I ever saw. Too bad her beauty tended to overshadow her talent when people would talk about her which happens to actresses that are "too" beautiful, but she's just as talented as she is beautiful. As you can tell, I'm a big fan of her talent and career as an actress. Her beauty too. I feel bad she lost her baby. At least she was able to have children afterwards. She will always be Beautiful no matter what size she is. She deserves a confident loving and loyal man in her life. God Bless this woman. She's a Warrior. Amen.
Lela Rachon is such a class act. Definitely one of those Black Scarlett that was popular in the 90s. She doesn't get the flowers that she deserves. Beautiful Woman.
Thank you so much for this Beautiful Articulate underrated women of the 90s!!!... she was definitely one of the shining stars of the 90s🕛🔁♥️👍
Happy Birthday Lela 🎈🍡🎂🌺
I always thought she was so beautiful and kind… i can not imagine anyone saying anything negative about her. If so, it is obviously jealousy and envy toward her person and beauty. I am so sorry she was put down, she did not deserve that. I hope shes doing great now!
She’s a beautiful talented woman!
Omg she is literally one year younger than I am. She is 59 years young. Critics have no place body shaming her. We see folks in movies and then we believe that because the film preserves their likeness, their physical appearance should never change over time. Do we expect the same for ourselves?? Karine acknowledged that the industry will stress you out, and you had your moments of fame, and now your priorities have committed to family. Her roles are different now. Fortunately we are not all held to that glamour standard. It’s only the people who have no life, no integrity and no compassion who would be so arrogant as to shame her in any forum. 🤔🧘🏽♀️🌹
That woman has been beautiful since birth! May joy, blessings, and healing rain upon her and those she loves EVERY SINGLE DAY!!
I will forever love this woman.
Lela will always be a sweetheart. A lot of times...people who are selfless and empaths by nature carry a lot of the world without complaint. It shows in our bodies and how we move. Always self last, putting everything and everyone first. To bear the weight of "as long as everyone else is happy, I'm happy" 🌺 Lela is amazing for all her experience and sacrifice. Wish her love and best ❤️❤️
Damn shame how folks were trying to okay the infidelity that happened. She is STILL beautiful! Props to her.
Lela Rochon has that 'Angela Basset" type of beauty CLASSIC
CHEATING IS OUT FOR ME AND OUTSIDE KIDS THAT IS A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME
Uh noooo He didn't love his wife enough to NOT hurt her like that.
When I was a young girl I used to think her and Robin Givens were the same person until I watched the movie Boomerang. Such a beautiful woman
Your words on Lela Rochon were beautifully said and I concur I'm also fan of hers and wish her nothing but the best.
Loved Lala on waiting to exhale. I wanted that outfit with the diamond shapes in it. I would like to see a story on Nicole Murphy.🤷🏽♀️
Well, well, well just talking about that...Nicole Murphy one, self admitted arranged marriages never work...said they were under the same roof for the sake of the kids, therefore Ms Murphy should have never been judged...mind your business in reference to such matters, Nicole looks Great to be a Grandmother of all things...hasn't let herself go like bitter others.
@@MONEYAINTATHANG100 I’m trying to understand why such a negative post just because I said I would like to see a story on Nicole Murphy. I never said anything bad about her. Just the fact that you watched this video and commenting on others comments shows the lack of ability you have to mind your own business hunny. Carry on
@ gods what has Nicole done apart from marrying eddy
@@kanmoore2793 I think she is one of the most beautiful women I’ve seen. Even though she is a model I think she had potential to be one of the top models in her younger days. I would like to know about her life.
@@godsbow8703 damn lie...Nicole looks like a man...lela vs Nicole at lela acting days... she wayyy prettier...Nicole been sleeping with her husband getting back at lela being in 2 movies with her husband.
Lela Rochon is so beautiful and you so much for doing a video on her. I completely agree with you about how we should treat each others. I really hope that she is in a good space I never heard anything negative about her so it is really sad to hear about how people were so cruel to her.
😂 everyone in my family has those cheekbones, none are Hatian.
What a fantastic job Karine! Ms. Lela Rochon is hands down one of the most beautiful women to have ever grace the screen. I hope to see her do more work in the future. If she chooses not to, it will never change that fact that she is forever black girl magic, beauty and class.
From my own experience, I know that it hurts having to remind people that I am more than my weight. I can't imagine how Lela must've felt. She's not only gorgeous but intelligent, talented, classy, and successful. Yet, all people could talk about was her weight. 🙄
Every "body" changes. He took a vow when he married her so he should honor that. And I can definitely believe that she is a Haitian beauty. I will never forget Ritchie in Harlem nights telling his wife that he ain't never coming home again after falling in love with Sunshine LOL! One of the most memorable scenes in Harlem Nights.
Okay now! Now I see why someone in the comments gave a shout-out to Camden! I guess that I'm now not that far as I reside in "The Bluff!" I never knew that Lela was an Arkansas native, that she was Haitian-American, or that ignorant women (and probably some men) felt that it was okay for Antoine to cheat on her because of her size; that is extremely horrible.
I still think she's beautiful 😍. I gained weight myself, and my entire family body shames me. I hate being around them So I know being a celebrity is 30 times harder . She's so talented and one of my favorite actress. I understand her position and wish her happiness and strength.
You're beautiful you're loved and you matter
🙏❤️
@@shakeyras_beauty Your beautiful for seeing beauty outwardly. Thank you!
@@merazhroberts how are you doing
Always remember her as Sunshine from Harlem Nights. Funny movie with many characters.
🙏🏾She’s STILL BEAUTIFUL😍❤️
Her first husband was Shabba Doo Quinones
It's not about liking how a person looks if they change. Most people would not like their spouse to double in size. But true LOVE is for better for worse so to speak. I think we don't take vows seriously these days. Great video. And great points about being kind. Thank you.
Admittedly, I mentioned her weight gain as well. Having learned more about her situation since then, I have to admit, I am embarrassed. Though I did ultimately go on to say, it was still no excuse for her husband to cheat on her.
Beautiful big or small. Her and her husband created a beautiful daughter. Hope that she’s able to find peace
It’s his MORALS, not “morale.” Morale relates to a general feeling or emotion, usually among many people. If a group of employees do not buy into a company’s initiatives and feel unhappy with the direction of that company, we would say their morale is low.
Morals impact behavior. A man who fails to honor his vows demonstrates poor morality or morals.
“Waiting to EXHALE”!!!!
Lela Rochan has always stood out in many Roles, She most underrated actress.
Can you please do a look into Olivia Brown of Miami Vice and 48 Hours with Eddie Murphy fame....
Thanks for your research and valuable content. Karine Alourde 👑 Respectfully
I adore her! Society not to mention her ex did her so dirty 🥺
She is an icon, she deserves her respect, grace & flowers.
No one is immune to the trials & tribulations that come along as you are living life.
I probably have seen all the movies she's been in. 1996 is when waiting to exhale. I went to the theater & saw it with my best friend back then. I was in 6th grade. I went on to see it countless times more. One of my all times favorites. 🫶♥️🥰
Great breakdown as usual Karine blessings & prosperity to you love ❤️
Weight is not a reason to be unfaithful. She is beautiful no matter what her size.
Lela Rochon was so beautiful back then, and so beautiful now! 😍😍😍😍
When I learned she was of Haitian descent, I loved her even more.
Dang. This title.🫣🤯
Lela was such a beautiful child…born to be a star.🤩
A man's constant betrayals can break a woman down to the point where eventually, even she is unrecognizable TO HERSELF.
Karine thank you so much for highlighting our famous black starlets I've learned so much. The one thing I love is how you demand respect for all because there is so much hate in this world instead of love and appreciation for so many who paved the way for so many today. Keep up the excellent work.
Great video, she's one my favorite actress.The unforgettable "Sunshine" character did it 4 me.
She had him SPRUNG!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂
She is definitely of Haitian descent. We’re actually distant relatives, I found her in my family tree that my uncle put together.
Beautiful beautiful beautiful beautiful and will always be beautiful she shines God is with her❤❤❤🎉
There are so many gorgeous women in the world, Lela Rochon was in the top 5. And her beauty continues to this very day.
I recently saw her in an episode on Family Reunion. She's still amazing and beautiful.
I get nostalgic watching
Lela. She's one of my
fav actresses, from the
90's. Lela's had some
awesome projects..
I enjoyed her on
Boomerang, Waiting to
Exhale, Mr. and Mrs.
Loving etc.
Is it just me or does anyone mistake Lela Rochon for Robin Givens especially since both of them were in Boomerang, the movie with Eddie Murphy 😅😅😅🤣
No because Robin is brown skin and Lela is very light. 😂😂😂
I always mistake them.
She looks more like Theresa Randle. I don't see any resemblance to Robin Givens
She was the most beautiful woman of the 90s. Loved her in that white diamond dress in waiting to exhale. That dress? Gorgeous.
Lela Rochon is how most folks mommas look like after kids so they need to chill tf out on her weight.
Seems like everybody back then had affairs with Jackie and Jermaine Jackson. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And then surprised when they get cheated on 🤣
@@missbee1451 Right lol
Lela Rochon is beautiful at any size!! Period!
When will women learn to leave when a man disrespects them like that?, a man would have never stayed, women grow a back bone.
She beautiful period!! 💐💝🥰 She is NOT responsible for her X ‘s lack of morals/ bad behavior!!!
14:53 I must say she always was a beautiful woman, dazzling, attractive, powerful and a class act
I really loved this particular video by this content creator ❤ Jealousy comes in many forms, especially among Black women and also from non Black women.
Lela Rochon hails from Louisiana and is of French Creole descent. I know this personally (sans the intimate details) and it’s only been in the last few years this total lie about her ancestry has been perpetuated. Her husband is Haitian but she isn’t.
She was a beautiful talented woman.
IS.