She just looks so incredibly sad and in pain which is completely understandable given her loss. She only lights up when talking about her daughter, you can tell how much she loves her. My heart goes out to her
I hope she gets the help she needs and is in therapy and counseling maybe she needs a treatment center go inpatient I hope losing her brother didn’t make her spiral again into her addictions Hayden is the best I love Nashville it’s sad how everything went downhill for her she’s really trying to make a career comeback
Thats not sadness or pain. She is not showing any emotions because her face is neutral, its relaxed, no muscle retractions until she talks about her daughter. She is extremely heavily medicated for depression and I dont judge her. I know exactly how she feels. I hope she stop using the meds before she gets addicted to it and cant live witout it because it wont cure the depression, never will. It will only cause problems later in life, family and partner life. Its great that she talk about her rough experiences, thats a huge step to move on. I have always rooted for her, she is an amazing actress, so beautiful and very unique in Hollywood. We need more people like Hayden.
I know people are disturbed by this interview but this is the reality of loss and grief and attempting to navigate a new life without your loved one in it. It’s hard. I’ve been going thru the same thing the past 5 years. I lost my sister on September 29, 2019 and it hasn’t gotten any easier. I still cry at the very mention of her name. But I know the one thing she’d want me to do is pull thru. And I’m trying my best. This seems like Hayden just took a bit more of a relaxer than she should have. But she’s 100% coherent and articulate. She’s not stumbling over her words or stuttering like an inebriated person would. She was most likely nervous to do the interview and took a bit more of a relaxer than necessary, like I said. She looks fine in the photos with her trainer, etc. My heart goes out to her. She was so very brave to do this. Pull thru, girl.
I agree. Considering everything she’s been through I think she looks fantastic. She is not the young woman we knew over 10 years ago. Love, heart ache, loss, divorce, death, pregnancy, separation, addiction, alcohol, and about a hundred things we’ll never know about. She is clear, and articulate and I think she’s doing great. I support her and we all should. I’m sorry about the loss of your sister. She’s lucky to have someone who loves her so much.
@@FieldAndForum your stigma hurts everyone. Nothing about your comment is helpful or insightful, your comment is simply reactionary evil based on your own trauma.
Everybody saying they should take this down but this is one of the most honest things I’ve ever seen. Grief is hard, her co-parenting situation has been hard, the way the industry has treated her has been Hard. Seeing her being any level of functional after all of that is incredible. Her smile when she’s exercising or talking about her daughter is So Beautiful! There is life after the storms! Stay strong Hayden! I’m so Proud of You!❤❤❤
She's either high on men's or alcohol. We don't need to baby people getting high to mask pain. We all have deaths. Getting high isn't the answer. Nor are the fellow ladies or mem who slurr because they're on so many meds. It's gross
But if people never made it...we would never be this concerned in the first place. :( we wouldnt have seen her on that day, at that moment, im that state. We love you Hayden! @irokursoks12
She’s actually quite eloquent here. She doesn’t seem unwell beyond being heartbroken and grief-stricken. Maybe she’s medicated but who could blame her..? Life is so hard for so many. If it isn’t for you, realize you are among THE most blessed.
@@FieldAndForumshe’s clearly medicated and slurring, but the content of what she’s saying has substance and makes perfect sense.. dig a little deeper than what you see on the surface
_”Maybe she’s medicated but who could blame her”_ … she’s literally admitted to being a drug addict and alcoholic… as for who can blame her, I’m sure her daughter, who she lost custody of, could and will one day blame her… and rightfully so.
People Mag knew exactly what they were doing posting this interview. They knew people would comment and it would generate attention. Kudos to her for speaking candidly about grief and how it impacts our mind, body, and soul.
She looks like she's carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders, like a completely different person. I hope she recovers, and may her brother rest in peace 🙏
The weight of a rich white woman with all the support that money could buy and none of the real measures to make healthy progress with it? Lol ridiculous stop taking Xanax like candy and solve your problems
This lady is actually an inspiration. She's had long term post natal depression and is grieving her brother's untimely death and she's still here looking beautiful and not giving up.
I lost my little sister in March 2024, the grief is unbelievable and overwhelming and I still find it hard to leave the house. She sounds as sad as I feel. Sending Love🙏🏾
She is absolutely medicated, and I say that with empathy, not judgement…hoping someone can step in to help her bc her grief was obviously too great to have maintained her sobriety.
I also think she is medicated, are maybe drinking. Her eyes look weird. Don,t mean to judge. I bin in a bad place. I know how hard it is. But something is different. Hope she takes good care of herself.
@@dannyclarkemacomber7022An you're an MD!?! I was the same reck when my mother died tragically young, and I HATE drugs never touched it in my life. I don't drink, smoke, nothing. Mind your own business!!! There is a law called HIPPA and you may just want to shut up and say nothing if you've got nothing of kindness or caring to contribute!!! Just because you're a junkie don't go around eager to "diagnose" everyone else with that. Sleep deprivation could also explain things along with her shock & emotional blow. My dissertation was on sleep disorder and as it turns out after I read a bit, this lady does struggle with sleep problems. It's really not our business and the interview should be appreciated for the candid, very heart breaking and honest piece that it is!!! It takes courage to open up publicly and expose your vulnerabilities and all you can do is judge and focus on "drugs"!!! Says a whole lot about you.
This is heartbreaking. My heart goes out to her. This video should not be here PEOPLE magazine. She is obviously under the influence of some sort of medication. She has a young daughter. Have some compassion, sad as it is, she’s going to get horrific backlash from this.
I went through years where I struggled with PTSD and depression and stayed indoors the entire time. What contributed to her grief/depression and mine are completely different but on an emotional level she's reminding me of the space I was existing in. Please have compassion for her.
She is very hurt. I'm her age and I'm beyond hurt. Honestly, to me it reminds me life is hard and you're allowed to be here and speak even when you're down. Thank you Hayden for sharing, I'll pray for your peace to be restored.
I agree! 💯 😥💔😔 I was a reck when my mom died rather young and tragically. Somehow all the druggie's and their innuendo could never respect a person who lost a loved one and see anything as a "sign" of substances/abuse. Sick of hearing about all the focus on it. It's her business and people should just appreciate her honesty in opening up her heart and sharing in her experiences. I took away a lot of positives from seeing this. I could definitely do without all the drug obsessed comments though. Yours was a fresh air!!! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🕊️
@@beepbopboop7727You obviously haven't experienced psychological emotional shock, trauma such as a close death because it can do a lot of things to us we aren't in control of. Her whining mumble and groveling was exactly how I sounded and sometimes still do. And I have never done drugs ever and have no interest. But she's sleep deprived in the interview, that can explain things too. That was what my dissertation was about. These aren't educated people because if they were they wouldn't be publicly "diagnosing" her and secondly they wouldn't be judging, third they would know these behaviors can be explained through natural circumstances. Too many drug addicts eager and obsessed in attacking her and too drug minded to realize there are actually other explanations and stop jumping to their own conclusion. Unless they are a doctor they should mind their own business and respect this lady. It's simply not nice and insensitive not to mention sickening!!!
@@melissahouse3488 No one is pretending to be a doctor, she’s an ADMITTED drug addict and alcoholic who has used for decades and given many excuses for it throughout the years… because that’s what addicts do. These excuses are just more in decades worth of excuses she’s given. I know you don’t have experience in addiction, but enabling her behavior, like helping her justify her behavior, even if just online (because she’s admitted to reading comments online), is far more damaging to her than people calling her out on her actions. Within your same comment, you condemn people for “judging her”, and also judge people yourself. That’s hypocritical. Lastly, it’s BECAUSE of people calling her out, that her family recently forced her back into rehab, where she can actually get help for her addictions.
For people judging the way Hayden is speaking, I want to say that this is what profound grief looks like and sounds like. I lost my little brother, then four years later I lost my only son. My voice normally sounds happily animated, but when I speak seriously about my overwhelming losses, I sound just like she is during this interview. And no, I am not on medication. Grief sucks everything out of you. My heart goes out to her. Please don’t judge.
I lost family too. This isn't "just grief" Her eyelids are moving slowly. The slurring. The way she's sitting with her hands not moving at all with her speaking. Glazed over. This is what heavily medicated looks like.
This was very real, raw, and relatable. If she was medicated so what. I love her even more for being this vulnerable and I’m glad she shared a bit of herself with the world.
I've been where she is. As an addict, a mother, and a widow. The pain associated with loss is real. The urge to numb yourself is the hardest thing to get over. I just didnt want to feel. She simply looks exhausted and drained. And talking about these things has to be so difficult. I'm proud of her. She has been through a lot and with a lot of people watching.
She looks and sounds just like I did when I was heavily medicated on psych drugs trying to deal with ptsd and grief. I'm grateful I'm on the other side of all that now and off of all the psych meds. I hope she finds her way.
One year is not very long babe. I lost my brother to heroine and it took me 6 years to fully grieve him. The first year is shock. Second year is accepting your new reality. The rest is slowly relearning how to live without them. Everyone grieves at their own pace. You just have to make sure you're feeling it when you're ready to. Don't get addicted to drugs. Your dreams will be your way of seeing him and the drugs can put those dreams on pause. Unfortunately the silver lining is that being high in this video is what will bring more people to see it and many people need to know that they are not alone. This is the reality of grief.
She’s incredibly articulate and vulnerable in this interview and I don’t see anything wrong with it. She maybe on antidepressants or anxiety medication which could have caused a slight flat affect in the beginning of the interview. She’s a brave woman for even agreeing to speak on such difficult topics.
Bless her heart 💙 This reminds me so much of Anna Nicole Smith's final interviews. Why would "People" do this to her? She can barely keep her eyes open.
I lost my big brother suddenly in january, and i supoose it may depend on how close you were, but the loss hits you hard, it is something i will never ever get over, i never thought about him not being here, its like you lose a part of your identity, my heart goes out to her, it really does, im crying just writing this 😔
Why is everyone saying to take this down ? This is a person being real. Being vulnerable. This is what grief looks like. It’s ok for a celebrity to be sad. It’s ok for a celebrity to to be turned off sometimes
@@Conservewoodhonestly, this is a side effect of psych meds which she’s admitted to needing. Unfortunately a lot of them have this type of side effect, which is why people have a hard time staying on them….
@@cecily532 I don’t think she shouldn’t be taking them or something. But I don’t think she should be out on display during what is obviously a dark time for her. It feels wrong. My heart breaks for her. I hope time treats her well.
Her affect is flat and slow speech from meds but you can tell she’s comfortable to give this interview. I think It’s people’s way of wanting to protect her since they can tell she is different and are pry just worried. Her honesty is definitely admirable.
@@samanthacole2920 Addicts don’t willingly seek help, there’s always something or someone that “forced” them into rehab, so no, it doesn’t suck, she’s extremely lucky her family stepped in and forced her into rehab, they and the media outlets that chose to expose her, may have just saved her life. Think of all the celebrities who have died because of drugs… they died not only because of the bad choices they were making, but also because no one forced them to get help. Enabling is extremely damaging to addicts.
She looks so broken 💔 sounds so broken 💔 I CANNOT Imagine! I ONLY Have my brother and I could NEVER Imagine Her Pain ..But At the same time putting myself in her shoes just breaks my soul for her! I pray for her heart and soul and healing and her family! May she find peace away from the public eye and get some peace in privacy, like everyone deserves 🕊️ ❤️🙏❤️🫶❤️🙌
It’s really hard to know that so many people don’t have her best interest- from the doctor who is overprescribing whatever she is on, her team that is allowing her to talk about her trauma when she’s not sober, the people who tell her that she’s healed/she’s doing better, it’s so sad.
Stress and grief can really make you gain a lot of weight because of cortisol and so on…happened to me, my fave uncle passed away then my mom then my father then best friend in a matter of 3 yrs and they all passed on tragically so I’m just forcing myself everyday to be normal and i can’t recognized myself in the mirror anymore. I wish her healing and peace.
I'm sincerely sorry for your pain and experiencing that many deaths so close and timely. That's extremely sad and shocking to read. I hope you find strength and comfort in Hayden's pain she's shared and pray!!! Prayer works, it'll bring good to you. Take care of yourself and remember those that lived you would want you to be well and happy!!! ❤️🙏🏻❤️
Oh Hayden, I know this pain! I hope you’re reading these comments and Please know I’m thinking of you. Something that helped me after a year or so was I knew my brother wouldn’t want me to hold onto my grief to the point that I wasn’t happy or couldn’t enjoy time with my living family or friends. Or to the point I was harming myself by drinking too much or self medicating in other ways. Each day I am grateful I had wonderful memories of my brother and remember he wants me to live my life, not waste it anymore.
I feel her pain. I lost my big brother to Covid almost 4 years now. I will never be the same or get over it completely. I pray for her healing and strength to find her new normal ❤💔😢💋☀️🙋♀️💖
I remember her from Heroes I thought at the time that she was the brightest and most beautiful girl l've ever seen, I loved everything her acting, her beauty, her bubbly personnality. It's so sad to witness how she has faced struggle after struggle these past years. I really hope she will be ok.
gosh i’ve loved this girl since until dawn and it’s heartbreaking to have to watch her go through this. no one should ever have to suffer such big losses :(
She was ALWAYS so happy looking when I’d watch her growing up. The biggest, brightest smile. Now I know from her interviews the people around her gave her “happy pills” starting at 16 before red carpets. She described it as what can be considered like an Adderall pill that was not prescribed but from a doctor in Mexico. Now look at her. She said she’d never let her worst enemy be a child actor. Growing up watching all the women I grew up with come out looking so broken and struggling is really heartbreaking.
My little brother passed a few years ago. He took his own life. As his older brother, there is So much guilt over not being the big brother he deserved. “Protection” is the one thing you’re told you’re supposed to always provide for your younger sibling. Feeling like a failure is what his loss has meant to me, and it’s why I now understand how the loss of a loved one can change who you are and the way you see yourself.
This might be Ativan for anxiety and not opioids. She's been through a lot, but she seems doped up. I wish her peace and healing and I hope she does Scream 7 but only if she wants to
I lost my brother in 2022 from an overdose & it broke me in ways I didn’t know were possible. My heart goes out to her. She was one of my absolute favorites growing up. But, she is definitely on some type of benzo or downer. She’s trying very hard to keep her eyes open & not nod off. The way she has her hands on the chair. She’s trying her best not to slur her words and pronounce them in a way that isn’t obvious she’s on something. But I don’t judge at all. I couldn’t process losing my brother and ended up going down a dark path with Xanax and other stuff. Thank God and God only that I was able to dig myself out of that depressive hole. I’ll never be the same without my brother, you’ll never forget but it does get easier.
I don't see anything of what you're describing with Hayden in this video. People can be emotional, touch the arms of chairs, without being high on meds. All the drug innuendo says more about you than it does her. That seems to be a focus for you to the extent you are eager to diagnose others in anything of behaviors. She has sleep disorder which I do too. That can have a devastating effect on how people are. Their moods, emotions, functioning, physical well being, psyche, etc. People take grief in all different ways and this could be all harming her ability to communicate to your liking but I think she sounds typical of a devastated individual who's in pure shock and loss does a number on us!!! I don't think it's our business nor useful to focus on drugs rather than her message. Perhaps you need the help but HIPPA exists for a reason and it's not for us to speculate. Appreciate the interview for what it is! A brave lady exposing herself and being vulnerable to an audience she trusts and clearly thinks highly of us enough to open up!!! ❤️
I am praying she didn’t relapse and whatever caused her slurred speech is simply anxiety medication that probably isn’t working. However I met Hayden when I was 15 and she was 18 through a family friend. She was so nice to me and I absolutely despise when everyone would trash the hell out of her and say mean things. It’s unfair because they don’t know the pressures she had since she was a child becoming an actress. I always will be grateful for my interaction with her, because looking back, people don’t understand what she went through all her life. This is long before the birth of her daughter. Hayden, I’ve been pulling for you for 17 years and counting. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Bless her for speaking so openly about her grief, it may help others not feel so alone. Loss can be traumatic and life changing. I lost my son in 2015, and i can relate to much of what she said, and I don't use illegal substances. People say how bad for her they feel but criticize her publicly in the same breath.
Obviously, there's no one at People with a conscience or this interview never would've seen the light of day. We need to pray for her. She's undoubtedly still going through a lot.
Sibling loss is not talked about enough. It is catastrophic when you are close. There's no replacing or replicating a bond like that. They're meant to be beside you from birth to old age, so when they're ripped away it's an indescribable pain. You're just never ever the same person.
@@erincoulter8103 I'm so sorry. And no there isn't. I'm going on a little over 2 years since I lost mine, and I'm sending you so much love because those first 6 months are brutal. You're almost in a fog.
@@traceychapman4825 My brother was 39. Losing them in their thirties is so weird, because you feel like you've had them forever, but if we grow to be old, on reflection it'll seem like we barely had them. I'm so very sorry we're in this club together. They deserved to be here till the end.
I relate so much to her sadly. Also lost my brother in 2023 at age 26 and he was my only sibling. I hope she is doing alright. This took so much courage. I wish nothing but healing for her. It really never gets easier.
The hardships of life, the loss of a loved one, addiction, depression. It breaks you. She explains it very well at the beginning, time takes a long time but the scar remains for life. Much courage to this beautiful young woman
She looks like a real human. Imagine that. We need more of this!! Why the hell would anyone want this taken down?! Does she want it taken down? That’s all that matters!
I have always thought she is just the most beautiful woman. She is still so beautiful and I wish her nothing but the best and to finally heal and be healthy ❤
She really lights up when she talks about her daughter. With everyone saying she seems medicated, it does remind me of some of the Britney interviews from the Femme Fatale era...especially with the nasaly sound as well. Can't wait for this autobiography to come out.
I agree, you can feel her pain so heartbreaking. She is so brave t speak about it and she said she is doing it for her brother hopefully her daughter and brothers memory will give her the sense of purpose to help turn her pain into something meaningful.
I lost my sister August of this year. I immediately said that as long as we know we'll never really heal, we stand a chance of being ok. It's devastating and life changing. I'm sorry we share this type of loss. It's very traumatic. 🖤
TAKE THIS DOWN! Shame on whoever allowed this video to be shared. Taking advantage of a poor woman who’s clearly having a hard time with substance abuse. Whoever took any part in this interview should be held accountable.
It's never easy to lose someone you love, especially when that someone is family member because in a way you lose a piece of yourself. However there's one thing to remember...no one's ever really gone. As long as we keep them in our mind and our heart, their memory will live forever. Hayden is one of my favourite actresses and I can definitely tell that this loss still hurts...no one should ever have to go through something like this. I hope you get well soon Hayden and just remember...your brother may be gone, but he'll never be forgotten. He will be with you always.
I think she’s just medicated. I hope she will be alright. Grief is unimaginable. She’s just trying to live day to day. I understand, I lost my 28 yr old daughter June 12/24. I’ll never be the same. I am medicated. Love and hugs to Hayden
Very emotional girl and I’m very proud of her. She’s doing this to educate to go to heal up to come stronger help people become stronger and help them know that there is people out there still struggling with a death of a loved one so I’m very very proud of hersuper passionate super proud. God bless you, Hayden . Thank you.
Some of yall saying shes drunk or taking illegal drugs are insane. This is **not** how a drunk person acts. She is still able to form sentences, recall memories, and get across what she is trying to say. Its far more likely that shes overmedicated, on top of being exhausted. Which makes perfect sense given her career and loss of her brother, fairly recently. I just hope shes taking care of herself and is happy, regardless of what she needs to get by regularly.
You must not have been around addicts. They are called FUNCTIONAL addicts for a reason. In addition, to the fact that she's an actress...We can speculate all we want but she has said that she has struggled with addiction in the past and this isn't her first interview where she has slurred her words and has exhibited this behavior.
"...I see people make a big deal out of little things and, you know, God bless them for wanting it perfect, but once something that massive has happened to you, you really learn to pick fights and just not let the little things upset you. Because once...once something so so horrific, so so deep...so, I mean catastrophic happens in your life...there's not much that can really rock you." I feel her. This quote is true. 1:13
She’s a real sweet soul. You can see it so clearly. But I’m sad to see her like this. I know she’ll get past this and she’s clearly medicated, but she’s got her brother on the other side now protecting her. ❤
So sorry for your tremendous loss, opening up is a good sign towards healing wishing u the best in your journey bc I know how difficult this life can be.🙏💛
Sadness changes a person's face and appearance. Sadness is written all over her. It's heartbreaking. She perked up when she talked about her daughter, which was sweet.
Hayden I know you’re probably not reading this but if you are just know you don’t need to be ashamed. You’re not okay and you have every reason to not be. Help is there whenever you’re ready.
I just love Hayden. My heart goes out to her. Shameful that People allowed this interview to go on whilst she was facing heartbreak. Sad. Please be well, Hayden. You deserve the best.
She looks so pretty 😍 however I can see the sadness in her eyes, and her voice. the loss of an immediate family member is incredibly painful, life altering, maybe the deepest heartbreak one can ever experience. Grief stays with you, you kind of experience very low lows.. and even in the happiest of moments, your happiness is kind of capped - you never really feel joy the same way. I hope anyone experiencing a loss, whether you’re on day 1 or 10 years later - know that God is with you, one day you will be reunited with your loved one, the person is kept alive through your memories of them- always talk about them. to pray for them, do something charitable in their name and do things that honours the memory of them. ❤
She’s on meds and we all need to have grace and send her healing prayers, energy 🙏🏻 what ever your thing is, no negativity, just grace and understanding. She’s suffering and she’s an addict so she’s really in full blown suffering mode. Be kind 🌞🙏🏻
My worst fear is losing one of my two brothers 💔 I am SO sorry you lost your brother. This had to be so heartbreaking and unimaginably heart wrenching. Truly awful to hear you have been going through so much 💔 You are amazing, and I love you. Your brother loves you. ❤️
I cant believe im just remembering that i met Hayden once. I used to work as a ticket agent for Scandinvian Airlines and i had the pleasure to check her in. She was so down to earth and cool. this was back in 2010
Thank you for sharing these vulnerable emotions. I understand the hole grief can create in your life. It’s been 3 years since my loss and it still feels heavy sometimes. Seeing beyond the loss is so hard but you learn a lot about yourself and what really matters. Our loved one would want us to be kind to ourself and heal slowly. I send her love and light during those hard times❤️
God bless her. Stop saying this interview should be taken down. This is reality guys. Yeah she may be on Valium or something to be able to cope! Leave her alone! That’s totally normal to do in this event.
It’s sad that grief is the dirty little secret that nobody talks openly about…It’s not necessarily true that Hayden is medicated…grief just changes how you move, how you act. I lost my son on July 28th, 2021…he was only 27, and died of a sudden illness. I will NEVER move the same, be the same, feel the same…Hayden suffered a catastrophic loss…please show her some grace.
Hayden seems beautiful inside and out. Watching this interview makes me truly want the best for her in every aspect. Her vulnerability and honesty are admirable
All I see is a beautiful, resilient woman, turning up to work despite horrendous grief and sharing her experience during a work interview. Hayden your love and adoration for your daughter shines. She is lucky to have you as her mother ❤
That’s what she wants you to see, hence her lies and excuses for the way she’s acting. But you’re completely wrong, she’s high and she’s currently back in rehab.
@@LouiseMariexx Just about anything could be a “trauma response”, particularly to addicts who are always looking for excuses and justifications for their substance abuse… of which Hayden is a pro at this point. Her poor daughter, being taught that drugs and alcohol are more important to her mother than she is & that substance abuse is an acceptable way to deal with one’s problems. Hopefully her father is a better role model for her than Hayden is, otherwise her daughter will end up the same way Hayden is teaching her to be. To lose custody of your child because of your addictions and erratic behavior, and for that not to be a good enough reason to get clean, is despicable.
I remember her brother. He was so adorable! I remember a movie he was in as a pre-pubescent where the theme of the movie was a groundhog day scenario. I am so sorry for Hayden's loss of her beloved brother. She seems like such a loving and caring sister. Rest in peace, young Mr. Pannetiere.
For all those insensitive trolls out there, this is what grief looks like. It takes such a massive toll on you that you even struggle to speak. Wish nothing but the best to Hayden.
I pray for you Hayden and that your brother’s memory gives you the strength to heal. He is still around you. The soul never dies. Courage and find solace with your daughter. With all that pain and suffering she is still a gorgeous lady ❤️🩹🥹
It’s just probably anxiety and depression medicine that will do it to you with how slow she is talking they give you that after a love one has passed close to you and you become to scared to do anything or be around anyone and she just seems like she needs something for her state of mind with the loss of him but they should of waited to interview her. Her manager and people should of have gave her some time off until she feels better but then again she did have a problem a few years ago with drinking so she could of had something to drink because it’s hard talking about her brother and what she went through with her daughter and husband. It’s a lot she has to heal and grief and cope. I love her she such a beautiful woman and very talented I hate to see someone like this that deserve so much love and happiness
I can’t believe this is the girl from one of my fav pre teen movies of all time! Bring it on! I thought she was so beautiful & loved her energy! I pray she pulls through & turn her pain into power
Very heartbreaking to watch my heart feels for her she is forever affected by the loss of her brother and its definitely something she will never heal from I pray for her and hope for healing and peace within herself
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She just looks so incredibly sad and in pain which is completely understandable given her loss. She only lights up when talking about her daughter, you can tell how much she loves her. My heart goes out to her
I know it was very sweet to see how happy she was talking about her daughter.
Yeah if this was a bit more convincing acting, it would believable
@PowerRedBullTypology "acting"
I hope she gets the help she needs and is in therapy and counseling maybe she needs a treatment center go inpatient I hope losing her brother didn’t make her spiral again into her addictions Hayden is the best I love Nashville it’s sad how everything went downhill for her she’s really trying to make a career comeback
Thats not sadness or pain. She is not showing any emotions because her face is neutral, its relaxed, no muscle retractions until she talks about her daughter. She is extremely heavily medicated for depression and I dont judge her. I know exactly how she feels. I hope she stop using the meds before she gets addicted to it and cant live witout it because it wont cure the depression, never will. It will only cause problems later in life, family and partner life. Its great that she talk about her rough experiences, thats a huge step to move on. I have always rooted for her, she is an amazing actress, so beautiful and very unique in Hollywood. We need more people like Hayden.
I know people are disturbed by this interview but this is the reality of loss and grief and attempting to navigate a new life without your loved one in it. It’s hard. I’ve been going thru the same thing the past 5 years. I lost my sister on September 29, 2019 and it hasn’t gotten any easier. I still cry at the very mention of her name. But I know the one thing she’d want me to do is pull thru. And I’m trying my best. This seems like Hayden just took a bit more of a relaxer than she should have. But she’s 100% coherent and articulate. She’s not stumbling over her words or stuttering like an inebriated person would. She was most likely nervous to do the interview and took a bit more of a relaxer than necessary, like I said. She looks fine in the photos with her trainer, etc. My heart goes out to her. She was so very brave to do this. Pull thru, girl.
I agree. Considering everything she’s been through I think she looks fantastic. She is not the young woman we knew over 10 years ago. Love, heart ache, loss, divorce, death, pregnancy, separation, addiction, alcohol, and about a hundred things we’ll never know about.
She is clear, and articulate and I think she’s doing great. I support her and we all should.
I’m sorry about the loss of your sister. She’s lucky to have someone who loves her so much.
@wnn101 she looks high as kite it's Gross. Everyone deals with death. Taking meds so your numb isn't the answrr
@@FieldAndForum your stigma hurts everyone. Nothing about your comment is helpful or insightful, your comment is simply reactionary evil based on your own trauma.
Yeah, she may be talking a bit slow, but to me it just comes of as being thoughtful and thinking before speaking on a difficult topic. 100% coherent
Nah..she’s rocked outta her mind.
Her eyes & her speech are telling..
Everybody saying they should take this down but this is one of the most honest things I’ve ever seen. Grief is hard, her co-parenting situation has been hard, the way the industry has treated her has been Hard. Seeing her being any level of functional after all of that is incredible. Her smile when she’s exercising or talking about her daughter is So Beautiful! There is life after the storms! Stay strong Hayden! I’m so Proud of You!❤❤❤
she is very clearly under the influence. this video is in bad taste, if they had a conscious they would not have posted this. it’s sad to watch.
She's not through the storms, she's in the eye of it!! She's high af!! Most likely Xanax or pain meds. She needs help. Praying hard. God bless.
She's either high on men's or alcohol.
We don't need to baby people getting high to mask pain.
We all have deaths. Getting high isn't the answer.
Nor are the fellow ladies or mem who slurr because they're on so many meds. It's gross
But if people never made it...we would never be this concerned in the first place. :( we wouldnt have seen her on that day, at that moment, im that state. We love you Hayden! @irokursoks12
@@FieldAndForum nah, your comment is gross.
She’s actually quite eloquent here. She doesn’t seem unwell beyond being heartbroken and grief-stricken. Maybe she’s medicated but who could blame her..?
Life is so hard for so many. If it isn’t for you, realize you are among THE most blessed.
I completely agree with this statement.. I was trying to think how to put it..
If you think looking high and gross is eloquent that's pretty dumb
She’s slurring…
@@FieldAndForumshe’s clearly medicated and slurring, but the content of what she’s saying has substance and makes perfect sense.. dig a little deeper than what you see on the surface
_”Maybe she’s medicated but who could blame her”_ … she’s literally admitted to being a drug addict and alcoholic… as for who can blame her, I’m sure her daughter, who she lost custody of, could and will one day blame her… and rightfully so.
People Mag knew exactly what they were doing posting this interview. They knew people would comment and it would generate attention. Kudos to her for speaking candidly about grief and how it impacts our mind, body, and soul.
we don't need famous people to share...we have our own
She looks like she's carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders, like a completely different person.
I hope she recovers, and may her brother rest in peace 🙏
The weight of a rich white woman with all the support that money could buy and none of the real measures to make healthy progress with it? Lol ridiculous stop taking Xanax like candy and solve your problems
I agree.
not a great idea to do an interview on this topic
This lady is actually an inspiration. She's had long term post natal depression and is grieving her brother's untimely death and she's still here looking beautiful and not giving up.
She’s high as a kite here
This isn't an inspiration, unfortunately she's definitely on something more than recommended obviously
@@amberr1314 Whatever meds she maybe on is between her and her MD. It doesn't make her any less of a human being that's survived really hard times.
Not only that, she was in a very abusive relationship.
@@laurenpylant897this comment is disgusting
I lost my little sister in March 2024, the grief is unbelievable and overwhelming and I still find it hard to leave the house. She sounds as sad as I feel. Sending Love🙏🏾
I hope she is okay I genuinely do because she's been through so much but she looks like she is heavily medicated.
She is absolutely medicated, and I say that with empathy, not judgement…hoping someone can step in to help her bc her grief was obviously too great to have maintained her sobriety.
She probably is. Depression meds can make you very spacey and tired. I can't imagine losing my sister. 🕊️🙏❤️
I thought the same thing she doesn't look well
That's whaT I was saying
I also think she is medicated, are maybe drinking. Her eyes look weird. Don,t mean to judge. I bin in a bad place. I know how hard it is. But something is different. Hope she takes good care of herself.
You can hear the heartbreak still in her voice. Heartbreaking ❤
That's drug induced slurred speech. Shes clearly using again
Unfortunately I feel her pain. I too lost my younger brother and I WILL NEVER GET OVER IT. MY HEART IS SHATTERED 😢😭😭😭
@@dannyclarkemacomber7022 stfu. Please and thks. Read the room!
@@dannyclarkemacomber7022her eyes not being able to track is heartbreaking..
@@dannyclarkemacomber7022An you're an MD!?! I was the same reck when my mother died tragically young, and I HATE drugs never touched it in my life. I don't drink, smoke, nothing. Mind your own business!!! There is a law called HIPPA and you may just want to shut up and say nothing if you've got nothing of kindness or caring to contribute!!! Just because you're a junkie don't go around eager to "diagnose" everyone else with that. Sleep deprivation could also explain things along with her shock & emotional blow. My dissertation was on sleep disorder and as it turns out after I read a bit, this lady does struggle with sleep problems. It's really not our business and the interview should be appreciated for the candid, very heart breaking and honest piece that it is!!! It takes courage to open up publicly and expose your vulnerabilities and all you can do is judge and focus on "drugs"!!! Says a whole lot about you.
She's so heartbroken and I pray she finds peace. Such a tragedy. God bless her and her family. 🕊️🙏❤️
This is heartbreaking.
My heart goes out to her.
This video should not be here PEOPLE magazine.
She is obviously under the influence of some sort of medication.
She has a young daughter.
Have some compassion, sad as it is, she’s going to get horrific backlash from this.
I thought the same but... I wonder if this may result in an intervention? Could there be some helpful intentions?
why not.. Its called People... Not everything is birthday cakes !
I think you’re off base. Her message is profound and from the heart.
Really? I like her message and what she’s saying here
I don’t see any signs of her being on a substance. That’s a little bit over-dramatized.
I went through years where I struggled with PTSD and depression and stayed indoors the entire time. What contributed to her grief/depression and mine are completely different but on an emotional level she's reminding me of the space I was existing in. Please have compassion for her.
She is very hurt. I'm her age and I'm beyond hurt. Honestly, to me it reminds me life is hard and you're allowed to be here and speak even when you're down. Thank you Hayden for sharing, I'll pray for your peace to be restored.
I don’t see anything out of the ordinary for someone who has suffered a recent loss and is in deep grief.
The speech seems slowly in an uncanny way.
I agree! 💯 😥💔😔 I was a reck when my mom died rather young and tragically. Somehow all the druggie's and their innuendo could never respect a person who lost a loved one and see anything as a "sign" of substances/abuse. Sick of hearing about all the focus on it. It's her business and people should just appreciate her honesty in opening up her heart and sharing in her experiences. I took away a lot of positives from seeing this. I could definitely do without all the drug obsessed comments though. Yours was a fresh air!!! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🕊️
@@beepbopboop7727You obviously haven't experienced psychological emotional shock, trauma such as a close death because it can do a lot of things to us we aren't in control of. Her whining mumble and groveling was exactly how I sounded and sometimes still do. And I have never done drugs ever and have no interest. But she's sleep deprived in the interview, that can explain things too. That was what my dissertation was about. These aren't educated people because if they were they wouldn't be publicly "diagnosing" her and secondly they wouldn't be judging, third they would know these behaviors can be explained through natural circumstances. Too many drug addicts eager and obsessed in attacking her and too drug minded to realize there are actually other explanations and stop jumping to their own conclusion. Unless they are a doctor they should mind their own business and respect this lady. It's simply not nice and insensitive not to mention sickening!!!
@@melissahouse3488
No one is pretending to be a doctor, she’s an ADMITTED drug addict and alcoholic who has used for decades and given many excuses for it throughout the years… because that’s what addicts do. These excuses are just more in decades worth of excuses she’s given.
I know you don’t have experience in addiction, but enabling her behavior, like helping her justify her behavior, even if just online (because she’s admitted to reading comments online), is far more damaging to her than people calling her out on her actions.
Within your same comment, you condemn people for “judging her”, and also judge people yourself. That’s hypocritical.
Lastly, it’s BECAUSE of people calling her out, that her family recently forced her back into rehab, where she can actually get help for her addictions.
@@beepbopboop7727I suspect that she’s survived a mild stroke and still recovering.
For people judging the way Hayden is speaking, I want to say that this is what profound grief looks like and sounds like. I lost my little brother, then four years later I lost my only son. My voice normally sounds happily animated, but when I speak seriously about my overwhelming losses, I sound just like she is during this interview. And no, I am not on medication. Grief sucks everything out of you. My heart goes out to her. Please don’t judge.
I lost family too. This isn't "just grief"
Her eyelids are moving slowly. The slurring.
The way she's sitting with her hands not moving at all with her speaking.
Glazed over.
This is what heavily medicated looks like.
This was very real, raw, and relatable. If she was medicated so what. I love her even more for being this vulnerable and I’m glad she shared a bit of herself with the world.
I've been where she is. As an addict, a mother, and a widow. The pain associated with loss is real. The urge to numb yourself is the hardest thing to get over. I just didnt want to feel. She simply looks exhausted and drained. And talking about these things has to be so difficult. I'm proud of her. She has been through a lot and with a lot of people watching.
She looks and sounds just like I did when I was heavily medicated on psych drugs trying to deal with ptsd and grief. I'm grateful I'm on the other side of all that now and off of all the psych meds. I hope she finds her way.
One year is not very long babe. I lost my brother to heroine and it took me 6 years to fully grieve him. The first year is shock. Second year is accepting your new reality. The rest is slowly relearning how to live without them.
Everyone grieves at their own pace. You just have to make sure you're feeling it when you're ready to. Don't get addicted to drugs. Your dreams will be your way of seeing him and the drugs can put those dreams on pause.
Unfortunately the silver lining is that being high in this video is what will bring more people to see it and many people need to know that they are not alone. This is the reality of grief.
You can really see and hear the medications she's on. I hope her heart heals a little more. It's so so hard to lose soo much of yourself
I find bravery in this. I see myself and I see humanity. Thank you for the vulnerability and honest conversation. Blessings to everyone involved ♥️
She’s incredibly articulate and vulnerable in this interview and I don’t see anything wrong with it. She maybe on antidepressants or anxiety medication which could have caused a slight flat affect in the beginning of the interview. She’s a brave woman for even agreeing to speak on such difficult topics.
She should grieve outside the public eye. Let her heal.
@@williamsweeney3215 not up to you
Bless her heart 💙 This reminds me so much of Anna Nicole Smith's final interviews. Why would "People" do this to her? She can barely keep her eyes open.
Unfortunately, they probably like that she looks and acts medicated as it draws more views from her exploitation.
It’s really sad
I agree. Poor girl!
She’s fine…..
I just said the same thing b4 reading your comments. 😮
I lost my big brother suddenly in january, and i supoose it may depend on how close you were, but the loss hits you hard, it is something i will never ever get over, i never thought about him not being here, its like you lose a part of your identity, my heart goes out to her, it really does, im crying just writing this 😔
I’m sorry for your loss. Can’t even imagine that pain
Why is everyone saying to take this down ? This is a person being real. Being vulnerable. This is what grief looks like. It’s ok for a celebrity to be sad. It’s ok for a celebrity to to be turned off sometimes
Because she’s obviously not sober and people think people are exploiting her
Because it’s very clear she’s on substances.
@@Conservewoodhonestly, this is a side effect of psych meds which she’s admitted to needing. Unfortunately a lot of them have this type of side effect, which is why people have a hard time staying on them….
@@cecily532 I don’t think she shouldn’t be taking them or something.
But I don’t think she should be out on display during what is obviously a dark time for her. It feels wrong. My heart breaks for her. I hope time treats her well.
Her affect is flat and slow speech from meds but you can tell she’s comfortable to give this interview. I think It’s people’s way of wanting to protect her since they can tell she is different and are pry just worried. Her honesty is definitely admirable.
She probably took something for anxiety specifically for this interview. She's trying.. She's working on herself and her career. Keep going girl.
Like what… opiates?!
recent article came out and said she’s been forced back into rehab
@The.Hawaiian.Kingdom Lol, hopefully something more like a Benzodiazepine..
@sienanoelle Sucks if she had to be forced. Thinking you're on the up and up, and having to accept that you're not. I'll still be rooting for her!
@@samanthacole2920
Addicts don’t willingly seek help, there’s always something or someone that “forced” them into rehab, so no, it doesn’t suck, she’s extremely lucky her family stepped in and forced her into rehab, they and the media outlets that chose to expose her, may have just saved her life.
Think of all the celebrities who have died because of drugs… they died not only because of the bad choices they were making, but also because no one forced them to get help. Enabling is extremely damaging to addicts.
She looks so broken 💔 sounds so broken 💔 I CANNOT Imagine! I ONLY Have my brother and I could NEVER Imagine Her Pain ..But At the same time putting myself in her shoes just breaks my soul for her!
I pray for her heart and soul and healing and her family! May she find peace away from the public eye and get some peace in privacy, like everyone deserves 🕊️
❤️🙏❤️🫶❤️🙌
It’s really hard to know that so many people don’t have her best interest- from the doctor who is overprescribing whatever she is on, her team that is allowing her to talk about her trauma when she’s not sober, the people who tell her that she’s healed/she’s doing better, it’s so sad.
💯
So, you think the Dr is "over prescribing" not the addict SELF medicating? 😂
@meeks1201 I would love to know how you know her doctor is over-prescribing. Please show the proof
Why do you always leave nasty comments about other women under videos? @@dfrey1885
Stress and grief can really make you gain a lot of weight because of cortisol and so on…happened to me, my fave uncle passed away then my mom then my father then best friend in a matter of 3 yrs and they all passed on tragically so I’m just forcing myself everyday to be normal and i can’t recognized myself in the mirror anymore. I wish her healing and peace.
I'm sincerely sorry for your pain and experiencing that many deaths so close and timely. That's extremely sad and shocking to read. I hope you find strength and comfort in Hayden's pain she's shared and pray!!! Prayer works, it'll bring good to you. Take care of yourself and remember those that lived you would want you to be well and happy!!! ❤️🙏🏻❤️
@@melissahouse3488 thank you 🙏🏼
Oh Hayden, I know this pain! I hope you’re reading these comments and Please know I’m thinking of you. Something that helped me after a year or so was I knew my brother wouldn’t want me to hold onto my grief to the point that I wasn’t happy or couldn’t enjoy time with my living family or friends. Or to the point I was harming myself by drinking too much or self medicating in other ways. Each day I am grateful I had wonderful memories of my brother and remember he wants me to live my life, not waste it anymore.
I think this interview is beautiful. If anyone is actually listening to what she’s saying you would realize how beautiful her pain and realness is
She's the most articulate high person i've ever heard. Poor soul has been through so much. Bless her heart.
It's easy to hide it when you're ALWAYS high, trust me I know 😢
Does she have to be high? She might be on psych meds. I've been accused of being high when I'm just taking my meds.
@@heidimichellemoenkhaus3569that’s called being high on your meds. Theyre scheduled drugs for a reason lol
@@heidimichellemoenkhaus3569This doesn’t really sound like the case tbh.. It sounds more like Xanax abuse.. maybe also mixed with alcohol
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Don’t project. She’s an admitted drug addict and alcoholic and she’s since these interviews been forced back into rehab.
I feel her pain. I lost my big brother to Covid almost 4 years now. I will never be the same or get over it completely. I pray for her healing and strength to find her new normal ❤💔😢💋☀️🙋♀️💖
I lost my big sister to covid 3 years ago , it truly is something you never get over. So sorry for your loss 💔
Lost my brother 2 years ago to liver failure, I havent been the same since, for me the pain is only getting worse.
As someone who lost their brother and struggled with addiction, my heart goes out to her! I pray for healing and recovery.
I remember her from Heroes I thought at the time that she was the brightest and most beautiful girl l've ever seen, I loved everything her acting, her beauty, her bubbly personnality. It's so sad to witness how she has faced struggle after struggle these past years. I really hope she will be ok.
gosh i’ve loved this girl since until dawn and it’s heartbreaking to have to watch her go through this. no one should ever have to suffer such big losses :(
She was ALWAYS so happy looking when I’d watch her growing up. The biggest, brightest smile. Now I know from her interviews the people around her gave her “happy pills” starting at 16 before red carpets. She described it as what can be considered like an Adderall pill that was not prescribed but from a doctor in Mexico. Now look at her. She said she’d never let her worst enemy be a child actor. Growing up watching all the women I grew up with come out looking so broken and struggling is really heartbreaking.
My little brother passed a few years ago. He took his own life. As his older brother, there is So much guilt over not being the big brother he deserved. “Protection” is the one thing you’re told you’re supposed to always provide for your younger sibling. Feeling like a failure is what his loss has meant to me, and it’s why I now understand how the loss of a loved one can change who you are and the way you see yourself.
This is so sad to watch because it looks like she’s sedated and not there
This might be Ativan for anxiety and not opioids. She's been through a lot, but she seems doped up. I wish her peace and healing and I hope she does Scream 7 but only if she wants to
Definitely sedated. I get it. I lost 2 brothers in the last 5 years
Hello Pharma
She looks relaxed(like from a med) but she’s speaking clearly. Watching her talk about her daughter was very sweet
She’s high on opiates. 💯 without a doubt
I lost my brother in 2022 from an overdose & it broke me in ways I didn’t know were possible. My heart goes out to her. She was one of my absolute favorites growing up. But, she is definitely on some type of benzo or downer. She’s trying very hard to keep her eyes open & not nod off. The way she has her hands on the chair. She’s trying her best not to slur her words and pronounce them in a way that isn’t obvious she’s on something. But I don’t judge at all. I couldn’t process losing my brother and ended up going down a dark path with Xanax and other stuff. Thank God and God only that I was able to dig myself out of that depressive hole. I’ll never be the same without my brother, you’ll never forget but it does get easier.
I’m so sorry. Lost mine in 2019 from an overdose. I’m sorry
so glad you're here today. grief is hard.
I don't see anything of what you're describing with Hayden in this video. People can be emotional, touch the arms of chairs, without being high on meds. All the drug innuendo says more about you than it does her. That seems to be a focus for you to the extent you are eager to diagnose others in anything of behaviors. She has sleep disorder which I do too. That can have a devastating effect on how people are. Their moods, emotions, functioning, physical well being, psyche, etc. People take grief in all different ways and this could be all harming her ability to communicate to your liking but I think she sounds typical of a devastated individual who's in pure shock and loss does a number on us!!! I don't think it's our business nor useful to focus on drugs rather than her message. Perhaps you need the help but HIPPA exists for a reason and it's not for us to speculate. Appreciate the interview for what it is! A brave lady exposing herself and being vulnerable to an audience she trusts and clearly thinks highly of us enough to open up!!! ❤️
I am praying she didn’t relapse and whatever caused her slurred speech is simply anxiety medication that probably isn’t working.
However I met Hayden when I was 15 and she was 18 through a family friend. She was so nice to me and I absolutely despise when everyone would trash the hell out of her and say mean things. It’s unfair because they don’t know the pressures she had since she was a child becoming an actress. I always will be grateful for my interaction with her, because looking back, people don’t understand what she went through all her life. This is long before the birth of her daughter. Hayden, I’ve been pulling for you for 17 years and counting. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
It seems to be working too well, and many people are addicted to Xanax, Valium, etc...
Bless her for speaking so openly about her grief, it may help others not feel so alone. Loss can be traumatic and life changing. I lost my son in 2015, and i can relate to much of what she said, and I don't use illegal substances. People say how bad for her they feel but criticize her publicly in the same breath.
Obviously, there's no one at People with a conscience or this interview never would've seen the light of day. We need to pray for her. She's undoubtedly still going through a lot.
she should not have agreed to do this either---who's her PR person?
Sibling loss is not talked about enough. It is catastrophic when you are close. There's no replacing or replicating a bond like that. They're meant to be beside you from birth to old age, so when they're ripped away it's an indescribable pain. You're just never ever the same person.
I can relate to this. My big and only brother passed away unexpectedly 5 months ago. There is no way to describe how incredibly painful that loss is.
This is exactly what I said at my sister’s funeral when she was 35. We were supposed to grow old together 😢
@@erincoulter8103 I'm so sorry. And no there isn't. I'm going on a little over 2 years since I lost mine, and I'm sending you so much love because those first 6 months are brutal. You're almost in a fog.
@@traceychapman4825 My brother was 39. Losing them in their thirties is so weird, because you feel like you've had them forever, but if we grow to be old, on reflection it'll seem like we barely had them. I'm so very sorry we're in this club together. They deserved to be here till the end.
@@truthunwinding I’m sorry for your loss too ❤️ my sister was born with a very rare liver disease and underwent 3 liver transplants in her lifetime 😞
This is heartbreaking, but I don't think shes very well. Such a shame, Hayden you are an incredible talent. I hope you can heal yourself
I relate so much to her sadly. Also lost my brother in 2023 at age 26 and he was my only sibling. I hope she is doing alright. This took so much courage. I wish nothing but healing for her. It really never gets easier.
Her body is doing something, trauma can do harm, I hope she heals and will be able to move forward. He is never forgotten❤
She’s using again … without a doubt
The hardships of life, the loss of a loved one, addiction, depression. It breaks you.
She explains it very well at the beginning, time takes a long time but the scar remains for life. Much courage to this beautiful young woman
There is no such thing as “getting over” a loss this huge. All you can do is adapt to life without them 💔
She looks like a real human. Imagine that. We need more of this!! Why the hell would anyone want this taken down?! Does she want it taken down? That’s all that matters!
I have always thought she is just the most beautiful woman. She is still so beautiful and I wish her nothing but the best and to finally heal and be healthy ❤
This so so sad that People would share this when she’s clearly struggling. I truly hope she gets the help she needs.
She really lights up when she talks about her daughter.
With everyone saying she seems medicated, it does remind me of some of the Britney interviews from the Femme Fatale era...especially with the nasaly sound as well.
Can't wait for this autobiography to come out.
First thing that came to mind was Lithium.
I agree, you can feel her pain so heartbreaking. She is so brave t speak about it and she said she is doing it for her brother hopefully her daughter and brothers memory will give her the sense of purpose to help turn her pain into something meaningful.
No matter what everyone is saying, she is so beautiful and I hope she heals ❤
People magazine ya should be ashamed of yourself how dare you. They know what they doing posting this videos. This woman is so sleepy / out of it😡
Heartbreaking she went through this. I truly feel for her. Im rooting for her. Life is hard, we need to help lift her up.
I lost my sister August of this year. I immediately said that as long as we know we'll never really heal, we stand a chance of being ok. It's devastating and life changing. I'm sorry we share this type of loss. It's very traumatic. 🖤
TAKE THIS DOWN! Shame on whoever allowed this video to be shared. Taking advantage of a poor woman who’s clearly having a hard time with substance abuse. Whoever took any part in this interview should be held accountable.
Substance abuse might be a bit misleading. She might be on antidepressants that she’s acclimating to, or any other number of prescribed medication.
This is actually inspiring and relatable to alot of people in the world. We’re all dealing with sh*t and shouldn’t be ashamed of it…
@@joshualuke7003yes normalize being over medicated 🙄
@@joshualuke7003 Even if that IS the case, she shouldn't have been allowed to do this interview.
Delete your comment?????
Such a sweet soul. So sorry for this heartbreaking loss. God bless her for sharing her pain and vulnerability. ❤🙏
This is a combination of grief and meds. I’ve been there !!
It's never easy to lose someone you love, especially when that someone is family member because in a way you lose a piece of yourself. However there's one thing to remember...no one's ever really gone. As long as we keep them in our mind and our heart, their memory will live forever. Hayden is one of my favourite actresses and I can definitely tell that this loss still hurts...no one should ever have to go through something like this. I hope you get well soon Hayden and just remember...your brother may be gone, but he'll never be forgotten. He will be with you always.
I think she’s just medicated. I hope she will be alright. Grief is unimaginable. She’s just trying to live day to day. I understand, I lost my 28 yr old daughter June 12/24. I’ll never be the same. I am medicated. Love and hugs to Hayden
Very emotional girl and I’m very proud of her. She’s doing this to educate to go to heal up to come stronger help people become stronger and help them know that there is people out there still struggling with a death of a loved one so I’m very very proud of hersuper passionate super proud. God bless you, Hayden . Thank you.
This interview is terribly sad and heartbreaking, she's not mentally healthy and she's hurting. People magazine this should be taken down.
This is a step forward for her. She chose to do this.
Some of yall saying shes drunk or taking illegal drugs are insane. This is **not** how a drunk person acts. She is still able to form sentences, recall memories, and get across what she is trying to say. Its far more likely that shes overmedicated, on top of being exhausted. Which makes perfect sense given her career and loss of her brother, fairly recently. I just hope shes taking care of herself and is happy, regardless of what she needs to get by regularly.
Could still be drunk. I've been able to do all of these things, but still be pissed out of my head
You must not have been around addicts. They are called FUNCTIONAL addicts for a reason. In addition, to the fact that she's an actress...We can speculate all we want but she has said that she has struggled with addiction in the past and this isn't her first interview where she has slurred her words and has exhibited this behavior.
"...I see people make a big deal out of little things and, you know, God bless them for wanting it perfect, but once something that massive has happened to you, you really learn to pick fights and just not let the little things upset you. Because once...once something so so horrific, so so deep...so, I mean catastrophic happens in your life...there's not much that can really rock you."
I feel her. This quote is true. 1:13
She’s a real sweet soul. You can see it so clearly. But I’m sad to see her like this. I know she’ll get past this and she’s clearly medicated, but she’s got her brother on the other side now protecting her. ❤
I would need to be heavily medicated too if I lost one of my siblings. On top of not being able to see my child. I’m devastated for her.
So sorry for your tremendous loss, opening up is a good sign towards healing wishing u the best in your journey bc I know how difficult this life can be.🙏💛
Sadness changes a person's face and appearance. Sadness is written all over her. It's heartbreaking. She perked up when she talked about her daughter, which was sweet.
I really want the best for Hayden ❤❤❤ She’s been through experiences that no one should have to go through 🙏🙏🙏
Hayden I know you’re probably not reading this but if you are just know you don’t need to be ashamed. You’re not okay and you have every reason to not be. Help is there whenever you’re ready.
I pray she has good people around her. She needs extra care. I feel for her.
Love Hayden❤️. She’s incredibly brave to share such a raw side of her.
I just love Hayden. My heart goes out to her. Shameful that People allowed this interview to go on whilst she was facing heartbreak. Sad. Please be well, Hayden. You deserve the best.
She looks so pretty 😍 however I can see the sadness in her eyes, and her voice. the loss of an immediate family member is incredibly painful, life altering, maybe the deepest heartbreak one can ever experience. Grief stays with you, you kind of experience very low lows.. and even in the happiest of moments, your happiness is kind of capped - you never really feel joy the same way. I hope anyone experiencing a loss, whether you’re on day 1 or 10 years later - know that God is with you, one day you will be reunited with your loved one, the person is kept alive through your memories of them- always talk about them. to pray for them, do something charitable in their name and do things that honours the memory of them. ❤
I just want to hug her forever. You can see her pain so much. 😢
She’s on meds and we all need to have grace and send her healing prayers, energy 🙏🏻 what ever your thing is, no negativity, just grace and understanding. She’s suffering and she’s an addict so she’s really in full blown suffering mode. Be kind 🌞🙏🏻
My worst fear is losing one of my two brothers 💔 I am SO sorry you lost your brother. This had to be so heartbreaking and unimaginably heart wrenching. Truly awful to hear you have been going through so much 💔 You are amazing, and I love you. Your brother loves you. ❤️
She seems heavily medicated, I really hope she’s okay she’s an amazing actress ❤
I cant believe im just remembering that i met Hayden once. I used to work as a ticket agent for Scandinvian Airlines and i had the pleasure to check her in. She was so down to earth and cool. this was back in 2010
Losing a sibling is an unimaginable loss. Push thru Hayden 💜💜
Thank you for sharing these vulnerable emotions. I understand the hole grief can create in your life. It’s been 3 years since my loss and it still feels heavy sometimes. Seeing beyond the loss is so hard but you learn a lot about yourself and what really matters. Our loved one would want us to be kind to ourself and heal slowly. I send her love and light during those hard times❤️
God bless her. Stop saying this interview should be taken down. This is reality guys. Yeah she may be on Valium or something to be able to cope! Leave her alone! That’s totally normal to do in this event.
Much love and respect to u Hayden. You've got this 🙌🙌🙌 Keep on keeping on, we'll all welcome u with open arms each and every time ❤❤
I'm so sorry for your loss of your brother..May GOD wrap his arms around you and help you through this hard time ❤🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
It’s sad that grief is the dirty little secret that nobody talks openly about…It’s not necessarily true that Hayden is medicated…grief just changes how you move, how you act. I lost my son on July 28th, 2021…he was only 27, and died of a sudden illness. I will NEVER move the same, be the same, feel the same…Hayden suffered a catastrophic loss…please show her some grace.
Hayden seems beautiful inside and out. Watching this interview makes me truly want the best for her in every aspect. Her vulnerability and honesty are admirable
Ugh, poor young woman. I really hope she gets better and gets the help. 😢❤
All I see is a beautiful, resilient woman, turning up to work despite horrendous grief and sharing her experience during a work interview.
Hayden your love and adoration for your daughter shines. She is lucky to have you as her mother ❤
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That’s what she wants you to see, hence her lies and excuses for the way she’s acting. But you’re completely wrong, she’s high and she’s currently back in rehab.
@@The.Hawaiian.Kingdom the use of drugs to numb emotional pain is also a trauma response.
@@LouiseMariexx
Just about anything could be a “trauma response”, particularly to addicts who are always looking for excuses and justifications for their substance abuse… of which Hayden is a pro at this point.
Her poor daughter, being taught that drugs and alcohol are more important to her mother than she is & that substance abuse is an acceptable way to deal with one’s problems. Hopefully her father is a better role model for her than Hayden is, otherwise her daughter will end up the same way Hayden is teaching her to be.
To lose custody of your child because of your addictions and erratic behavior, and for that not to be a good enough reason to get clean, is despicable.
@@LouiseMariexx Stop making excuses for selfish women.
She looks under some medicaments effect. Bless her.
I think she is just having a hard time looking back and talk about his brother. It's must have been traumatic.
@@Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father That's why
She's drunk
I remember her brother. He was so adorable! I remember a movie he was in as a pre-pubescent where the theme of the movie was a groundhog day scenario.
I am so sorry for Hayden's loss of her beloved brother. She seems like such a loving and caring sister. Rest in peace, young Mr. Pannetiere.
For all those insensitive trolls out there, this is what grief looks like. It takes such a massive toll on you that you even struggle to speak. Wish nothing but the best to Hayden.
I pray for you Hayden and that your brother’s memory gives you the strength to heal. He is still around you. The soul never dies. Courage and find solace with your daughter. With all that pain and suffering she is still a gorgeous lady ❤️🩹🥹
It’s just probably anxiety and depression medicine that will do it to you with how slow she is talking they give you that after a love one has passed close to you and you become to scared to do anything or be around anyone and she just seems like she needs something for her state of mind with the loss of him but they should of waited to interview her. Her manager and people should of have gave her some time off until she feels better but then again she did have a problem a few years ago with drinking so she could of had something to drink because it’s hard talking about her brother and what she went through with her daughter and husband. It’s a lot she has to heal and grief and cope. I love her she such a beautiful woman and very talented I hate to see someone like this that deserve so much love and happiness
I can’t believe this is the girl from one of my fav pre teen movies of all time! Bring it on! I thought she was so beautiful & loved her energy! I pray she pulls through & turn her pain into power
I dont think they should have released this interview. 😢
and she should not have done it either---who's her PR person?
Very heartbreaking to watch my heart feels for her she is forever affected by the loss of her brother and its definitely something she will never heal from I pray for her and hope for healing and peace within herself