If you're facing failure right now, know that there is hope. I've been in some dark places myself, but things always worked out in the end. It isn't always easy, it isn't always fun, but you, and you alone, get to write your own story. Good luck friends
Dr. Jubbal, I’m an MS3 at an American medical school and I failed Step 1 by one point. It really sucked. I had to take some time out of my third year to study for it again, and I retook the exam yesterday. I felt a lot more confident the second time around. This was a great video and very motivational. Thanks so much for producing this content.
I'm so stressed that i feel bad about my parents working hard to support me financially, I'm so scared because they're expectation on me is really high but there's one thing inside me that i couldn't tell them "Mom, dad what if i failed will you be mad at me?"💔
Me too..I'm worried I won't be able to financially help them when I grow up if I don't succeed in a good job. I don't want them to worry about taking care of me when I'm older and should have a good enough job and life, its hard to balance this out sometimes...
I'm currently experiencing this right now, and I know I have a big chance of failing my class this semester because I missed 2 post test because of bad internet connection. Online school makes it harderrrrrrr
I feel like failure can be amazing as long as we learn from it. Obviously, nobody wants to fail but if we learn from our mistakes then we can do a lot better with our life/ career than if we never failed.
If you guys have time or are interested I am a first year med student in USA and I talk about increasing your productivity and practicing good self care stuff
I just got my test results yesterday and I failed 4 subjects I thought I did well but it's just a fail again and again it seems like that everyone got a good mark and they can keep up with everything making myself feel even worse... edit: I almost forgot about this comment i made from 3 years ago.. but to everyone reading this, things do get better!! To be honest, I wasn't really putting all my efforts into my studies, compared to others who got a good score, i was definitely not working as hard as they were. However, I eventually found a study method that worked for me, studied hard and made improvements! I did recently move to a new country so i'm now in a completely new school and environment. I'm also studying subjects i enjoy so I'm doing much better academically, my grades are no where near failing :) thanks for the encouraging words and i hope anyone whos struggling now overcomes them
Update: I am actually in third year biochem now (nearing towards the end really) and currently an A student lol. It is possible to turn things around :) I'm writing my final exams next months, wish me luck
I'm often failing classes and i feel bad because my classmates say that the grade I'm getting is bad and that makes me feel like I'm disappointing my parent's. They say :you should work more on school, get your grades up and more. I'm often crying because of this and I'm trying my best to study but it doesn't work ): my friend have a life and good grades, my life is just study with bad grades.
Honestly, you should try to find different methods to study, ask for help, talk about it with someone close to you, find the reason why you’re really doing this and remember yourself that your life isn’t your grade.
I hate the teacher my best class was in 7 grade and 4 grade I got all A + then in 8 I failed then I had to retake then we had corona virus and I still fail 8 I got 4 F+ they are telling me I will have to repeat the same grade two times in row I am mad
I went from a 6 to a 4 in math. I can’t believe i am crying over this. But it will affect my career. It will show on my diploma. My teachers know i am at least a 5. But I did so bad this lasts months during the pandemic. I really feel like a failure. It is my fault. I have really disappointed myself. But with the grades i had from before (who wont count now) I got into this 2 year program thing. (UWC) And I was hesitant, but i am more convinced i will go now. My school who had so much fait in me the first half of the year. Have probably lost it now. (Because of other stuff that i also feel like a failure for.) I did REALLY well at the start of the year. But around January it started to go to hell. More and more. Only made worse by the pandemic, (because of self-isolation) (made only worse because I feel so alone) (the only family member i have is my mom who works all the time) (I didn’t stay in contact with my friends)(I didn’t enjoy myself at all) (i was just waisting my time, alone) I guess I blamed my situation in the start. But that was probably my biggest mistake. I dug myself into a hole. I knew what i was doing to. Told myself that from bow on things will be different go back to normal. But i never did, because I gave myself a reason why i could fail. Never doing that again. I have to learn from it or this will just be a waist of my life. After my country opened a bit more up I have felt a bit better. Especially when i went back to school. Nobody will read this, i just needed to get it off my chest. I have nobody to listen to me anyway.
I'm doing really bad on math as well... Last year I had really good grades and this year I have really bad grades..I honestly feel really discouraged and sad. I don't deal with failure really well and this has led to me feeling like a failure. Good luck, stranger.
hello! I wanted to say that you're an amazing person to even think about sharing this. I know you said nobody would read this, but I somehow came across your comment. I want you to know that failure IS a process and only progresses to success!! I'm here because I just had anxiety and a meltdown because in a few more years I'd be taking a Medical intern exam and I'm so worried about how much embarrassment and failure I'd bring upon myself, but I decided that its always worth a try, no matter how many it'd take. You'd get there, my friend! Keep going!!
My social studies grade sucks it's a 60 I always have about 90=100 I cried so much and my grades are bad becuse when I send my test it does not send and I am useless at everything:(
I just failed organic chemistry and have to take it again next semester. I feel so mad at myself. A huge pit of disappointment in my heart... but I REFUSE to give in. I REFUSE. I've got to make it. I have to.
I'm in 8th grade and I have almost all d's I of course have a A in p.e. I'm trying to get them to a c ad better but I can't I'm so disappointed with my self and especially to my mom because I dont want to disappoint her because she will think I'm a failure
I studied for 10 hours for anatomy homework, still failed. This is a new thing, for me I usually spent 1-2 hours to study one subject and was pretty good at it
I feel you. I only had ONE Anatomy class during the summer (although condensed). I studied like 8 hours a day but didn’t get the mark I wanted. The class average was 68%….
@@lonewolf604what did you end up doing, because I just got 50-65% on my anatomy exam. I studied for like 8 hours a day and was very dedicated and now, I don’t know if I have what it takes to even get into medschool.
@@lilhomiebro7539 I ended up passing, and the professor scaled the mark because the average was low (it was the first few months of all ZOOM classes. I ended up with a B- which is about a 68% in Canadian grades. It taught its a bit of luck, a bit of of perseverance and hard work . But it also taught me a harsh truth, I'm not meant to be great at everything, and sometimes studying 8 hours a day can't overcome it.
I'm literally crying. I got my results this evening and I got a C in English, I never expected it to be like this. I just said my mom about the results and she was pretty disappointed eventhough she didn't scold me. I feel like a freakn loser. This exam was so important to me, my igcse's, and they've spent so damn much on my exams. It sucks to be the disappoint of the family.😷💔☺
I have a depression and anxiety disorder, currently failed 2 classes and I'm on the edge being a drop out of medical school. I'm doing everything to pass my classes because I don't want to be a disappointment. If anyone has been in the same situation as me in the past and is currently working as a doctor, instruct me.
Hello addy. I came across your comment because I failed my exam of medical school and I am so scared I will be a failure and disappointment. I don’t know what to do. I hope to hear advice from you
Watching this from Australia, I did GAMSAT (the Australian version of MCAT) 6 times now, took two gap years after my Bachelor's degree to focus on GAMSAT, finally this year I got an interview and just two weeks ago, I received the rejection Email. What a great present for my 24th birthday. When my friends graduate from medical/dental school next year I will be applying again. At this point, I can't distinguish between persistence and unhealthy obsession anymore.
First Year Med Student here...I recently had to take a medical leave because I developed severe anxiety and depression due to the firehose that is med school and partial because of being homesick....it has been a difficult time as I’ve been preparing to head back home and put a pause on my dream of becoming a doctor....I have been a mess with emotions....There have been days when my mind thinks I can’t be a doctor anymore and that I am a complete failure...like the video say... I need to do a lot of reflecting and decide (not if I want to be a doctor)...but rather it it is worth all this pain I am feeling right now :(
If you really want to become a doctor you have to be stronger than you ever think. I hope you are doing well and find your strength into getting back on track. Let me know how it goes!
oh my god 💔💔 can't tell anything but *BE STRONG* you can be a *DOCTOR* no matter what ever everyone says. maybe you'll do better in your home , you always have the choice to *fight* . don't let your depression define your goal let your goal define your mental health. I'm just like you I've left my home country and I'm studying in another country. it was hard like *hell* and giving up wasn't an option for me. I tried and became one of the 5 best students in my class. I'm in last year in highschool & I'll go study medicine next year. * feel free to talk to me any time if you wanna a friend to talk to , I know , I was just like you 😊
That sounds really tough, i sincerely hope you make it through that trying time. Just a curious student question - what are the two biggest issues you’re dealing with in regards to doing well in med school? What would you wish for more than anything else? Sometimes listing a clearly defined end goal, however simple might help a bit ;). Hope you thrive in the future, stranger!
This was a very good video. From my experience as an M.D. - Ph.D. student, this is the hardest lesson to learn especially transitioning between medical school to research and from research back to medical school. I'm currently in my Ph.D. training and failure is definitely something I had to get used to or learn to move beyond. The best advice I have is to fill your life with things that fill you with positive reinforcement and encouragement. Often times, I listened to motivational speakers and other speakers that reminded me that my experience is not only normal but critical for my success overall. The truth is that you won't often receive motivation from your peers or coworkers. What you'll see is either learned helplessness or complaining. I used to waver between both. But remembering my "why" and even my dreams really made a huge difference. Having a list and reading it every day is a great way to have it in your mind every time a failure, unfortunate event, or painful experience happens. In the end, it's all about habits.
I had many health issues trough out my 3rd and 5th year, I had 3 surgeries and one tumor. I failed twice, as my problems peaked during the final as I had to put my health first. I still have two surgeries to go. I failed two years of faculty, saw my colleagues moving up and I got late by two years. Still, my will to become a doctor is much bigger than any fear or temptation to quit. I will become a doctor, maybe two years later more than planned, but I will become a doctor. I’ve learned a lot with my health problems, the mental and physical strain of fighting multiple illnesses demands a lot of time, let alone during med school. I am lucky that my faculty understood my health situation and didn’t kick me out, they allowed me to fail.
@@betbow7439 Hey, I'm an orthopedic surgery intern. I'm accomplishing my dreams. The best thing I did was going to therapy, that taught me to believe in me and respecting my priorities. Health, happiness and hard work are the ingredients for success. No grind culture is better that self respect and love.
@@tomasnunes4831 I cannot explain how joyful I am to hear this. May God bless you. continue to follow your dreams, work hard and remember to take care of yourself
Im struggling hard in med school as i have anxiety disorder.. I always went blank in exam :'(... I know other people have the same problem too.. But when u have anxiety disorder, the thing u wrote in exam is always something that u revised for a long time.. Not something u revised yesterday.. But im still glad o didnt fail any module or rotation.. But still cannot score much in exam :'(..
*YOU* just remember that one piece of paper doesn't tell how much *SMART* you are. knowing information doesn't consist with *SCORING MARKS* you made it to *MED SCHOOL THAT'S GREAT* ! you are *STRONG* & *HELL YOUR SMART PAL* wish you all good luck in the world in the next exam. *I BELIEVE YOU CAN DO IT*
I have been watching your videos over the last year and they have helped me when nothing was going in my favour after having been rejected from medical school for the first time. I spent a year redoing my alevels and faced several rejections from medical schools within the uk and europe. After following your advice, day after day I slowly began to change as a person and started implementing good habits. I have now finally studying medicine in the uk. Thank you.
Awesome that you improved you situation to be able to study medicine Just a curious student - what are the two biggest issues you’re dealing with in regards to getting good grades? What would you wish for more than anything else? Hope you achieve your desired results in med school, stranger!
I failed a class i'm not sad because I have to retake it. The sad thing is my mother has to work for a 100 Hours straight just to pay for my backloads. I feel really bad about it.
True , this is just too much for us students , the pression on us is unreal , i cant even tell my parents about my grades , this whole thing is just frustrating , man every time i think about it , i get depressed 😭😭😢
I am so glad my mom is a nurse. She is the only one that understands what I am going through. These finals have been hard for me. I am the type of dude that learns when he is in class with the teacher, asking questions,etc...this pandemic forced us to learn from home. I was up playing videogames with my medschool friends while the teacher was teaching on microsoft teams. Failed most of my exams this winter.I hope I get back and track. I screwed up these winter finals... Hopefully I will recover next semester. 3rd year dentistry.
This video really uploaded at the perfect time. I’ve been struggling with organic chemistry and got a lower grade on the exam I just took. This gives me perseverance to keep trying!
A failure is often the best way to learn how to succeed. It might seem difficult at the time, but if let it stop you, there's no chance of succeeding. This was a great video, shows how self talk plays a vital role in how you choose to live life.
Going from having a 3.8 in high school to now having to failed classes at the end of my freshman year of undergrad has to be one of the worst feelings I've ever had
I am in the middle of the video but I just wanted to say that I cried listening to your words. It is exactly what I needed to hear. You make med school a thousand times better thank you!
Thank you for this. I'm currently at 2nd year med school and have been failing constantly. This video helped me a lot in coping with my constant failings undergoing med school. Thank you for reminding about the "why's" in my life.
You should do podcasts too. Thanks to the video, sometimes we're raising like everything you dou it's the reflect of yourself, now I know how to separated that parts. (sorry for my English) thanks again 🧚🏻♂️
I'm not a med student but i failed a subject and have to retake it. I feel so down because my classmates are all doing good but i'm here failing.. But i know i can do it :')
your not alone:) i failed 2 of my major class and im gonna do a summer class im so down too i cry every night but i know i did my best and i have no friends to talk with it i wish i have a bff everytime i need to talk to someone....
I'm currently at a very bad place, partly because of the colitis, just like Dr Jubbal. So this video is a little bit more impactful for me than it would be otherwise
I'm 21, I left my parents and friends on the island where I was born and where I grew up to go to college in The Netherlands during this pandemic. I'm lonely, depressed,stressed about finances, social life and my grades are super bad. I've never felt like a failure in my life
honestly you are not alone im feeling the same way in med school but you will eventually come out of this phase you will become stronger than ever !! you are so capable dont let bad grades tell you that you are a failure, you are not a failure these times are hard the world is fighting a pandemic just have faith and just try
I'm so glad that I found your channel! I'm coming back to school after a long time and I feel so overwhelmed... after watching this video I found some hope to keep looking foward and pursuing my dream. Thank you very much
Thank you so much, Dr. Jubbal, for putting so much time and effort into helping others. I haven’t even entered college yet, but I’ve always wanted to become a physician, and your study strategies and tips are helping me so much, even now! So thank you again for creating Med School Insiders and helping so many people on their paths to becoming doctors (or whatever else it is that they want to be)!
Im a freshmen in high school and online class is stressful to me already. Our WiFi connection sucks, someone's I don't even have any data connections. In the first semester, I have missed some activities to these subjects; History and MAPEH(Music, Arts, PE and Health. It's submerged in our country). I was feeling scared that my grandmother will like get mad and disappointed at me because before this pandemic happened I was a good student with good grades, but this pandemic happened that made me go crazy and unmotivated. I searched for this video to calm myself down and it really helped me. Even if I'm literally a freshmen and this vid is mostly talking about Med lmao. I just wanna thank for making this video, it really helps me motivated for the next semester. I hope everyone feels the same too
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Thanks so much for the tips here. Way better than that other failure motivation video which I swear to God did not help at all. Why? Too horridly overwhelming; Way too overwhelming. But thankfully, this video isn't so overwhelming at all. It's very helpful, very useful, very encouraging, and most of all, very thoroughly executed.
It's a bit late to ask but it'll still be super helpful to know. How do you best spend your summer break - balancing preparation for the next school year & relaxation? And how do you get back in the groove of thing when it's finally time to start?
Needed this, really underperformed on my HLS mid exam because of this whole online test taking thing that meant I couldn't focus well during the exam. On top of that we were given very little time/ question. I feel so down because I studied very hard for it but I'm going to try my best to do better on the final in a week. Will update this as to how that goes!
Dropped out of med school (on 30th to be precise I'll be out), I have an autoimmune disease too, but for me the physical and mental burden it's too much, see you
I needed this video after bombing on my first ochem exam. I felt like a failure. Even now I’m struggling to understand ochem, but I’m sure I can still make it. I may not get an A in ochem but I will succeed
I'm not even a med student. I just want to become a psychology major. But I feel like a failure because I just submitted my research essay late by a few minutes and I don't even think I did my essay correctly nor did I incorporate any primary sources because I had trouble finding them. And then I didn't incorporate enough secondary sources either. I was supposed to have 5 sources, 2 primary and 3 secondary and all I had was 2 secondary sources. I'm not even sure I even did the essay the best I could. I struggled with writing it and with correct spelling. I feel like a failure right now and feel like if I can't get this right then I'll never make it in life. I'm having anxiety and depression over this + I struggle with anxiety and depression by myself. I wanted to become a psychologist so I could help others that feel like me that also struggle with anxiety and depression. I find this video really helpful and informative even though I'm not a med student. The advice is really empowering and encouraging.
Like I've been not caring about my grades at all I WAS IGNORING EVERYTHING IN COLLEGE Last semester I failed everything WTF is wrong with me ? Since this online school became a thing I'm not giving a shit about my studies Like I want to successful man and made my parents proud but why why why I feel like I can't do anything anymore But I'll try my best in this semester hope I can change anything For the last year I almost failed every class I attended to Hoping for the best For all of u feeling the same or in similar situation Try ur best don't give up 💙
If u fail take it as a memory for you to smile for the given chance that would be offer to u in life... stay safe online class is really hard especially when u are not familiar with it
Just learned that I will not be able to return to the same school for my fifth year of high school as I have failed senior year. I have a very intense social anxiety and am most likely going to drop out as i've already had to go through moving to a new school once and it didn't turn out well. I have no friends most of my "friends" are my hometown have forgotten about me. I had already been crying all day just thinking about how I'm going to have to go back to school for a 5th Year it's for my dad to drop a bombshell on me telling me that I'll most likely have to go to a different school
Medicine and getting into medical school are hard. If it were easy, a lot more people would do it. If you are honest with yourself in a constructive way and do not beat yourself up, and your motivations are strong, eventually you will get to where you want to be.
When I came to the US I was motivated and happy. I was doing good middle school and freshmen year. However, after I grew older and matured I realized high school is worthless and trash. I am in junior year and I have D’s for most of my classes. It’s not like school is way too hard or in dumb, it’s just that I feel like I don’t wanna waste years on high school and college. I want to do something other than college, maybe like start a business. Even thought I know there’s multiple ways to being successful without college, but I’m scared I might fail and have nothing in the future. I’m sad.
It’s funny how you hit every nail perfectly Dr. Thanks, I was feeling awful about what a stupid person I am and how the heck am I aiming to become a doctor if I can’t even do some improper integrals, Again thank you, it’s like this video was specifically made for me and here are many others that feel the same as me Thank you
I'm at risk of failing my major because of the lack of time. I'm a graduating student and the fact that I'm at risk of failing and being able to graduate at the same time as my batch makes me feel so bad! My mother told me that it's alright and they'll not be mad but I still feel so terrible knowing that I'm going to waste my parents money and time just to send me to college and then I'm here going to fail a major worth a whole year and might need to retake it. I feel bad for my parents specially my mom.
I got a 67% on my stats mid term but i was at a 99% in the class befofe the mid term. I feel like a failure. I took the test earlier this week. Yes, i am really sad. But im taking this as an opportunity to say "look, yoi got a 67% because your studying technique was poor and didn't take it serious. Now, you need to try harder". This keeps me motivated. Much love to you guys, stay strong, and always remember: being a doctor isnt about getting an A in a class, its about caring and being an altruistic person and want to spend years of your life to save others :)
My MCAT score is coming out on Tuesday, and I’m wondering if this is a sign ... 😂 send help. EDIT (Aug 2020): After all the mcat cancellations and stressors, I retook in July 2020 and scored 9 points higher. DO NOT GIVE UP!
Breanna Durant UPDATE: Unfortunately, I bombed it and feel like a complete l, utter failure for even trying. I did much worse than any of the practice tests I’ve done... (8 points lower than my average -which shocked me). So I’m hoping to retake in April 2020... we will see. Thank you for the kind comments though!
Ryan Thai im sorry dude, i am sure you will get it next time. Now you know what to expect. Personally, I have a track record of not doing well the first time around but nailing it the second time. I will certainly be in the same boat as you are right now when it is my turn. For now, chill out and enjoy life. Then next year go for it again.
I failed twice in college class that required for my graduation. I cry for a week's and feel dumb. I still passes my other courses. It sometimes too heavy. I felt like a burden.
Don’t worry, you ain’t the only one. Actually, I failed 3 classes while COVID started and I’m still them failing now. At this point, I’ve called a orientation counsellor to see what to do from now on and I’ve decided to find my real motives and all. I really do try to not let the grades control me but damn...
I’m about to take my first mcat exam and I don’t feel good about it. I know it’s not the end of the world if I do poorly, and that I have more chances. But it feels like it will be. I really needed this right now
I am someone who get nervouse seeing the first question of the test but this vedio encouraged me . First of all i was too scared that if my grades fail i wont get a good job and i might be judged by others now i see... well my father used to say " if we fail that means we learned some mistakes and try to avoid them next time and do better.. " well those were the only courageous words i had.. adding this video makes me overcome my nervousness more 😭😭 hope you uplod more 🤧🤧
On 29th December 2019, the results from my exam came out and it turned out that i failed my main course and cant continue on for my diploma. It's been a pretty rough starting point for 2020 and even tho my friends keep on trying to cheer me up, i always end up with depression at the end of the day
I'm an optometry student in Malaysia and I'm facing a lot of difficulties and failures in my clincs. Luckily for this video, I might need to reflect those mistakes and get back on track again 💪
i’m so messed up right now i’ve missed 2 years of high school i have to go back in august. on top of that a lot of other things are stressing me out so much all the guilt and everything is catching up to me its messing me up so bad i don’t know what to do anymore i hate it i’ve never felt this down and alone i got no one to talk to everyone will just laugh at my problems
I would like to share how my teachers roast me after failing, they are teaching me, they are my teachers, it's their work to educate me, why do I come like this,online classes isnt for me, I'm such a failure
I just failed my first year of college for the second time I was 0.26 points less than what I needed to succeed and my depression is peeking but what’s making me more sad is mom her heart aches because of me
Failed my driving exam, failed my A levels, didn't get into uni all in 1 year and now im 2 days away from my resits. I am so scared and i just dont have any hope.
To be honest, nobody should be ashamed, angry, anxious, depressed or have any of those bad kind of emotions because they failed a test, quiz, exam or anything. Percentages, marks and grades don't and will never define you. A grade is just a letter, a mark is just a number and a percentage is just a number, none of these will ever have the right to define you as a human and it will never tell whether you're dumb or smart, you should never worry If you get a score or grade you aren't pleased with, or if you get a score or grade that doesn't reach somebody else's standards. Grades, percentages and marks NEVER and I mean never define you, and they never will either.
this is my second time failure at law school i try to hard and i came back stronger than my first year but i failed harder than last year. i am a failure but i'll keep trying cause this is the only way that i could save myself from suicidal thoughts
12/6/21 My entire family was riding on me for success. I would've been the first to attend a big college and i lied to everyone saying i was doing good. Literally all my friends and family and now my lies are about to be shown in 4 days from now. I dug myself a hole that i can't come back from. Im going to just end myself. I hope whoever is reading this doesn't follow in my path. Control yourself. Do no procrastinate.
If you're facing failure right now, know that there is hope. I've been in some dark places myself, but things always worked out in the end. It isn't always easy, it isn't always fun, but you, and you alone, get to write your own story. Good luck friends
Med School Insiders any advice on how to handle failure as first year med student 😔
I don't know what to do I'm in high school and I'm so tired pleaseeeeeee I needdd your help and advices plz read my message on Instagram
Dr. Jubbal,
I’m an MS3 at an American medical school and I failed Step 1 by one point. It really sucked. I had to take some time out of my third year to study for it again, and I retook the exam yesterday. I felt a lot more confident the second time around. This was a great video and very motivational. Thanks so much for producing this content.
Im 2nd year med student i dont wanna continue what to do 😭im in confusion
@@dr_ais_h_u so how is it? You continue?
I'm so stressed that i feel bad about my parents working hard to support me financially, I'm so scared because they're expectation on me is really high but there's one thing inside me that i couldn't tell them "Mom, dad what if i failed will you be mad at me?"💔
I feel this way too
I can’t stop feeling this for the last 9 months
Me too..I'm worried I won't be able to financially help them when I grow up if I don't succeed in a good job. I don't want them to worry about taking care of me when I'm older and should have a good enough job and life, its hard to balance this out sometimes...
I'm sure they are proud of you and love you since you feel so strongly for them. All the best!
I'm currently experiencing this right now, and I know I have a big chance of failing my class this semester because I missed 2 post test because of bad internet connection. Online school makes it harderrrrrrr
“Failure Is an event, not a person” -
Prince Ea
Stress and failure, online classes are hard.
IM FAILING WTF
I'm failing and my mental health is falling apart. Oh and I also gained a lot of weight. Life is good 😀
@@hugnboba I’ve never been depressed in my life but online school has finally made me feel it
Yeah I’m failing a Required high school course which is biology I’m failing every test I get I don’t know what to do
@@zairetorres8889 Facts😔Even when I study, I still manage to fail...
I feel like failure can be amazing as long as we learn from it. Obviously, nobody wants to fail but if we learn from our mistakes then we can do a lot better with our life/ career than if we never failed.
If you guys have time or are interested I am a first year med student in USA and I talk about increasing your productivity and practicing good self care stuff
Yes but success at first try is better
but what if ur poor. what next?
I just got my test results yesterday and I failed 4 subjects I thought I did well but it's just a fail again and again it seems like that everyone got a good mark and they can keep up with everything making myself feel even worse...
edit: I almost forgot about this comment i made from 3 years ago.. but to everyone reading this, things do get better!! To be honest, I wasn't really putting all my efforts into my studies, compared to others who got a good score, i was definitely not working as hard as they were. However, I eventually found a study method that worked for me, studied hard and made improvements! I did recently move to a new country so i'm now in a completely new school and environment. I'm also studying subjects i enjoy so I'm doing much better academically, my grades are no where near failing :) thanks for the encouraging words and i hope anyone whos struggling now overcomes them
I’m in the same situation, just got my results last week and it’s a fail again! As well as my First semester , feel depressed 😞
please just know it will get better. you're not a failure! you are so much better that those worthless grades
I failed all of my subjects all of them
What i thought you just do all of the activities and you pass automatically even without test but you will get low grade
Cuz here thats it but there is tons of sht of activities
I’ve failed an exam that led to me getting kicked out of medical school but I came out stronger! Informative video!
Just out of curiosity how does one exam get you kicked out of med school? Was it a pass/fail class w/ a cumulative final or something?
Why does it still say dr in your name then?
Oscar Barron I have a video about this on my channel but to cut the long story short, I went back to medical school.
MarineBeast_86 this happened in the UK, it was a fail in a class.
Dr. Nosa how much time and money did you lose?
I needed this, I'm currently battling a huge failure from my last microbiology test, it's not over yet :)
I believe in you bro💪
Omg whats up ? Whats happening now ? Pls tell
YOU GOT THIS!!!but I am dum:(
Update:
I am actually in third year biochem now (nearing towards the end really) and currently an A student lol. It is possible to turn things around :) I'm writing my final exams next months, wish me luck
@@tshephangmoswete1286 best of luck bro 🙏
When fecal matter hits the fan is a great quote
Don't want to anger the RUclips gods! 😂
I'm often failing classes and i feel bad because my classmates say that the grade I'm getting is bad and that makes me feel like I'm disappointing my parent's. They say :you should work more on school, get your grades up and more.
I'm often crying because of this and I'm trying my best to study but it doesn't work ):
my friend have a life and good grades, my life is just study with bad grades.
@L Series lol no😂😂
I can relate
Same ako din
Honestly, you should try to find different methods to study, ask for help, talk about it with someone close to you, find the reason why you’re really doing this and remember yourself that your life isn’t your grade.
I hate the teacher my best class was in 7 grade and 4 grade I got all A + then in 8 I failed then I had to retake then we had corona virus and I still fail 8 I got 4 F+ they are telling me I will have to repeat the same grade two times in row I am mad
Everbody fails at some point! But the successful get back up, learn from it and get stronger!
I went from a 6 to a 4 in math. I can’t believe i am crying over this. But it will affect my career. It will show on my diploma. My teachers know i am at least a 5. But I did so bad this lasts months during the pandemic.
I really feel like a failure. It is my fault. I have really disappointed myself.
But with the grades i had from before (who wont count now) I got into this 2 year program thing. (UWC) And I was hesitant, but i am more convinced i will go now.
My school who had so much fait in me the first half of the year. Have probably lost it now. (Because of other stuff that i also feel like a failure for.)
I did REALLY well at the start of the year. But around January it started to go to hell. More and more. Only made worse by the pandemic, (because of self-isolation) (made only worse because I feel so alone) (the only family member i have is my mom who works all the time) (I didn’t stay in contact with my friends)(I didn’t enjoy myself at all) (i was just waisting my time, alone) I guess I blamed my situation in the start. But that was probably my biggest mistake. I dug myself into a hole. I knew what i was doing to. Told myself that from bow on things will be different go back to normal. But i never did, because I gave myself a reason why i could fail.
Never doing that again. I have to learn from it or this will just be a waist of my life.
After my country opened a bit more up I have felt a bit better. Especially when i went back to school.
Nobody will read this, i just needed to get it off my chest. I have nobody to listen to me anyway.
I'm doing really bad on math as well...
Last year I had really good grades and this year I have really bad grades..I honestly feel really discouraged and sad.
I don't deal with failure really well and this has led to me feeling like a failure.
Good luck, stranger.
hello! I wanted to say that you're an amazing person to even think about sharing this. I know you said nobody would read this, but I somehow came across your comment. I want you to know that failure IS a process and only progresses to success!! I'm here because I just had anxiety and a meltdown because in a few more years I'd be taking a Medical intern exam and I'm so worried about how much embarrassment and failure I'd bring upon myself, but I decided that its always worth a try, no matter how many it'd take. You'd get there, my friend! Keep going!!
My social studies grade sucks it's a 60 I always have about 90=100 I cried so much and my grades are bad becuse when I send my test it does not send and I am useless at everything:(
@Blind Bandit same:(
@Just Me My grades got better hope fully yours does too
I just failed organic chemistry and have to take it again next semester. I feel so mad at myself. A huge pit of disappointment in my heart... but I REFUSE to give in. I REFUSE. I've got to make it. I have to.
That's the spirit,my friend.Please,pass it this time for me,my year is already ruined so I just hope that you will rise instead of me
I'm in 8th grade and I have almost all d's I of course have a A in p.e. I'm trying to get them to a c ad better but I can't I'm so disappointed with my self and especially to my mom because I dont want to disappoint her because she will think I'm a failure
I studied for 10 hours for anatomy homework, still failed. This is a new thing, for me I usually spent 1-2 hours to study one subject and was pretty good at it
I feel you. I only had ONE Anatomy class during the summer (although condensed). I studied like 8 hours a day but didn’t get the mark I wanted. The class average was 68%….
@@lonewolf604what did you end up doing, because I just got 50-65% on my anatomy exam. I studied for like 8 hours a day and was very dedicated and now, I don’t know if I have what it takes to even get into medschool.
@@lilhomiebro7539 I ended up passing, and the professor scaled the mark because the average was low (it was the first few months of all ZOOM classes.
I ended up with a B- which is about a 68% in Canadian grades. It taught its a bit of luck, a bit of of perseverance and hard work .
But it also taught me a harsh truth, I'm not meant to be great at everything, and sometimes studying 8 hours a day can't overcome it.
@@lonewolf604 are you trying to get into medschool?
@@lilhomiebro7539 I am yes, and you?
I'm literally crying. I got my results this evening and I got a C in English, I never expected it to be like this. I just said my mom about the results and she was pretty disappointed eventhough she didn't scold me. I feel like a freakn loser. This exam was so important to me, my igcse's, and they've spent so damn much on my exams. It sucks to be the disappoint of the family.😷💔☺
I have a depression and anxiety disorder, currently failed 2 classes and I'm on the edge being a drop out of medical school. I'm doing everything to pass my classes because I don't want to be a disappointment. If anyone has been in the same situation as me in the past and is currently working as a doctor, instruct me.
Hello addy. I came across your comment because I failed my exam of medical school and I am so scared I will be a failure and disappointment. I don’t know what to do. I hope to hear advice from you
instrut me...this was 2 years ago for you. Now I’m going through my own stuff.
Watching this from Australia, I did GAMSAT (the Australian version of MCAT) 6 times now, took two gap years after my Bachelor's degree to focus on GAMSAT, finally this year I got an interview and just two weeks ago, I received the rejection Email. What a great present for my 24th birthday. When my friends graduate from medical/dental school next year I will be applying again. At this point, I can't distinguish between persistence and unhealthy obsession anymore.
First Year Med Student here...I recently had to take a medical leave because I developed severe anxiety and depression due to the firehose that is med school and partial because of being homesick....it has been a difficult time as I’ve been preparing to head back home and put a pause on my dream of becoming a doctor....I have been a mess with emotions....There have been days when my mind thinks I can’t be a doctor anymore and that I am a complete failure...like the video say...
I need to do a lot of reflecting and decide (not if I want to be a doctor)...but rather it it is worth all this pain I am feeling right now :(
If you really want to become a doctor you have to be stronger than you ever think. I hope you are doing well and find your strength into getting back on track. Let me know how it goes!
oh my god 💔💔
can't tell anything but *BE STRONG*
you can be a *DOCTOR* no matter what ever everyone says.
maybe you'll do better in your home , you always have the choice to *fight* .
don't let your depression define your goal let your goal define your mental health.
I'm just like you I've left my home country and I'm studying in another country.
it was hard like *hell* and giving up wasn't an option for me.
I tried and became one of the 5 best students in my class.
I'm in last year in highschool & I'll go study medicine next year.
* feel free to talk to me any time if you wanna a friend to talk to , I know , I was just like you 😊
That sounds really tough, i sincerely hope you make it through that trying time.
Just a curious student question - what are the two biggest issues you’re dealing with in regards to doing well in med school? What would you wish for more than anything else? Sometimes listing a clearly defined end goal, however simple might help a bit ;).
Hope you thrive in the future, stranger!
Perfect timing...
Failure can set you up for success if you learn from your mistakes ❤
This was a very good video. From my experience as an M.D. - Ph.D. student, this is the hardest lesson to learn especially transitioning between medical school to research and from research back to medical school. I'm currently in my Ph.D. training and failure is definitely something I had to get used to or learn to move beyond. The best advice I have is to fill your life with things that fill you with positive reinforcement and encouragement. Often times, I listened to motivational speakers and other speakers that reminded me that my experience is not only normal but critical for my success overall. The truth is that you won't often receive motivation from your peers or coworkers. What you'll see is either learned helplessness or complaining. I used to waver between both. But remembering my "why" and even my dreams really made a huge difference. Having a list and reading it every day is a great way to have it in your mind every time a failure, unfortunate event, or painful experience happens. In the end, it's all about habits.
I had many health issues trough out my 3rd and 5th year, I had 3 surgeries and one tumor. I failed twice, as my problems peaked during the final as I had to put my health first. I still have two surgeries to go. I failed two years of faculty, saw my colleagues moving up and I got late by two years. Still, my will to become a doctor is much bigger than any fear or temptation to quit. I will become a doctor, maybe two years later more than planned, but I will become a doctor.
I’ve learned a lot with my health problems, the mental and physical strain of fighting multiple illnesses demands a lot of time, let alone during med school. I am lucky that my faculty understood my health situation and didn’t kick me out, they allowed me to fail.
Hi if u still use this account how are u doing now and are you in med sch? You got this is believed in you
@@betbow7439 Hey, I'm an orthopedic surgery intern. I'm accomplishing my dreams. The best thing I did was going to therapy, that taught me to believe in me and respecting my priorities. Health, happiness and hard work are the ingredients for success. No grind culture is better that self respect and love.
@@tomasnunes4831 I cannot explain how joyful I am to hear this. May God bless you. continue to follow your dreams, work hard and remember to take care of yourself
Im struggling hard in med school as i have anxiety disorder.. I always went blank in exam :'(... I know other people have the same problem too.. But when u have anxiety disorder, the thing u wrote in exam is always something that u revised for a long time.. Not something u revised yesterday.. But im still glad o didnt fail any module or rotation.. But still cannot score much in exam :'(..
*YOU* just remember that one piece of paper doesn't tell how much *SMART* you are.
knowing information doesn't consist with *SCORING MARKS*
you made it to *MED SCHOOL THAT'S GREAT* !
you are *STRONG* & *HELL YOUR SMART PAL*
wish you all good luck in the world in the next exam.
*I BELIEVE YOU CAN DO IT*
@@asawerabbood thank you so much.. :') you just gave me lot of motivation to stand still n keep my journey.. I hope your journey would be easy too 😊
@@azzy3754 thank you too.
we'll be great *DOCTORS* one day & we'll forget all the hard work it takes when we save someone's life.
❤
As someone who also struggles with anxiety and wants to be a doctor, I think you're doing great. You made it to medical school. You got this!
Been there done that
I have been watching your videos over the last year and they have helped me when nothing was going in my favour after having been rejected from medical school for the first time. I spent a year redoing my alevels and faced several rejections from medical schools within the uk and europe. After following your advice, day after day I slowly began to change as a person and started implementing good habits. I have now finally studying medicine in the uk. Thank you.
Awesome that you improved you situation to be able to study medicine
Just a curious student - what are the two biggest issues you’re dealing with in regards to getting good grades? What would you wish for more than anything else?
Hope you achieve your desired results in med school, stranger!
I failed a class i'm not sad because I have to retake it. The sad thing is my mother has to work for a 100 Hours straight just to pay for my backloads. I feel really bad about it.
True , this is just too much for us students , the pression on us is unreal , i cant even tell my parents about my grades , this whole thing is just frustrating , man every time i think about it , i get depressed 😭😭😢
Same i think i will commit suicide because I just can't go to another year
@@gamerjojo4591 keep on trying. Fight the good fight
@@khg2233 sorry i just cant i wanna die if i fail this grade im doomed i just cant im just so depressed already, i studied for 3 hours and yet....
@@khg2233 but i hope my test results are good i am so stressed
I am so glad my mom is a nurse. She is the only one that understands what I am going through. These finals have been hard for me. I am the type of dude that learns when he is in class with the teacher, asking questions,etc...this pandemic forced us to learn from home. I was up playing videogames with my medschool friends while the teacher was teaching on microsoft teams. Failed most of my exams this winter.I hope I get back and track. I screwed up these winter finals... Hopefully I will recover next semester. 3rd year dentistry.
This video really uploaded at the perfect time. I’ve been struggling with organic chemistry and got a lower grade on the exam I just took. This gives me perseverance to keep trying!
A failure is often the best way to learn how to succeed. It might seem difficult at the time, but if let it stop you, there's no chance of succeeding. This was a great video, shows how self talk plays a vital role in how you choose to live life.
Going from having a 3.8 in high school to now having to failed classes at the end of my freshman year of undergrad has to be one of the worst feelings I've ever had
Failing to face failure is, in my opinion, worse than failing in some other ways!
Thanks
I am in the middle of the video but I just wanted to say that I cried listening to your words. It is exactly what I needed to hear. You make med school a thousand times better thank you!
Thank you for this. I'm currently at 2nd year med school and have been failing constantly. This video helped me a lot in coping with my constant failings undergoing med school. Thank you for reminding about the "why's" in my life.
Dr Jubal is secretly wolverine...he’s just humble about it
Thank you for this. I’ve had the worst semester as a premed and I needed a reminder that I can get myself back up.
I needed this. Thank you!
You should do podcasts too. Thanks to the video, sometimes we're raising like everything you dou it's the reflect of yourself, now I know how to separated that parts. (sorry for my English) thanks again 🧚🏻♂️
I'm not a med student but i failed a subject and have to retake it. I feel so down because my classmates are all doing good but i'm here failing..
But i know i can do it :')
your not alone:) i failed 2 of my major class and im gonna do a summer class im so down too i cry every night but i know i did my best and i have no friends to talk with it i wish i have a bff everytime i need to talk to someone....
@@kevinb.7234 aww let's cheer up together. Let me give you a virtual hug *(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ*
@Soldier Of Deez Disease 🏳️🌈⃠ same I have 10 subjects and failed 5 including math this is the worst thing ever and I just can't seem to get over it
Resilience often leads to success 💪
"Know that there is hope and it does get better"
*[X] Doubt*
I'm currently at a very bad place, partly because of the colitis, just like Dr Jubbal. So this video is a little bit more impactful for me than it would be otherwise
I'm 21, I left my parents and friends on the island where I was born and where I grew up to go to college in The Netherlands during this pandemic. I'm lonely, depressed,stressed about finances, social life and my grades are super bad. I've never felt like a failure in my life
Be brave, I know it's really hard
Hope you get better you really got down in life
Hey, i know you can face it. Believe in yourself! 💜✨
honestly you are not alone im feeling the same way in med school but you will eventually come out of this phase you will become stronger than ever !! you are so capable dont let bad grades tell you that you are a failure, you are not a failure these times are hard the world is fighting a pandemic just have faith and just try
I'm so glad that I found your channel! I'm coming back to school after a long time and I feel so overwhelmed... after watching this video I found some hope to keep looking foward and pursuing my dream. Thank you very much
Thank you so much, Dr. Jubbal, for putting so much time and effort into helping others. I haven’t even entered college yet, but I’ve always wanted to become a physician, and your study strategies and tips are helping me so much, even now! So thank you again for creating Med School Insiders and helping so many people on their paths to becoming doctors (or whatever else it is that they want to be)!
Im a freshmen in high school and online class is stressful to me already. Our WiFi connection sucks, someone's I don't even have any data connections. In the first semester, I have missed some activities to these subjects; History and MAPEH(Music, Arts, PE and Health. It's submerged in our country). I was feeling scared that my grandmother will like get mad and disappointed at me because before this pandemic happened I was a good student with good grades, but this pandemic happened that made me go crazy and unmotivated. I searched for this video to calm myself down and it really helped me. Even if I'm literally a freshmen and this vid is mostly talking about Med lmao.
I just wanna thank for making this video, it really helps me motivated for the next semester. I hope everyone feels the same too
Thank you very much !!!
These tips are awesome from a fellow enginnering student who is stressing in Portugal !!!
I really appreciate the representation in all of your videos!
Thanks man. I low,low,low key really needed this. Its been hard to pick myself up recently and this really helped :)))) so tenks you :)))
ima just watch this every day for a while I really need this
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Students should never feel discouraged due to failures.
Every student has special ability.
What they need is to identify their skills.
There is little time to get disappointed. Realise your goal and energise yourself.
I feel like everyone who watches this video judge a B as failure (I do sometimes as well) EVERYONE LIGHTEN UP!
Yeah..
Well. It is pretty horrible
Wtf I’m actually failing
I needed this to reflect and think again about my situation
Thanks so much for the tips here. Way better than that other failure motivation video which I swear to God did not help at all. Why? Too horridly overwhelming; Way too overwhelming.
But thankfully, this video isn't so overwhelming at all. It's very helpful, very useful, very encouraging, and most of all, very thoroughly executed.
It's a bit late to ask but it'll still be super helpful to know. How do you best spend your summer break - balancing preparation for the next school year & relaxation? And how do you get back in the groove of thing when it's finally time to start?
Needed this, really underperformed on my HLS mid exam because of this whole online test taking thing that meant I couldn't focus well during the exam. On top of that we were given very little time/ question. I feel so down because I studied very hard for it but I'm going to try my best to do better on the final in a week. Will update this as to how that goes!
I just failed the last exam of the year but when I watched this video I was motivated
Dropped out of med school (on 30th to be precise I'll be out), I have an autoimmune disease too, but for me the physical and mental burden it's too much, see you
I needed this video after bombing on my first ochem exam. I felt like a failure. Even now I’m struggling to understand ochem, but I’m sure I can still make it. I may not get an A in ochem but I will succeed
Ochem is a nightmare don't worry as you get through med school there should be less focus on it and more focus on other subjects
I'm not even a med student. I just want to become a psychology major. But I feel like a failure because I just submitted my research essay late by a few minutes and I don't even think I did my essay correctly nor did I incorporate any primary sources because I had trouble finding them. And then I didn't incorporate enough secondary sources either. I was supposed to have 5 sources, 2 primary and 3 secondary and all I had was 2 secondary sources. I'm not even sure I even did the essay the best I could. I struggled with writing it and with correct spelling. I feel like a failure right now and feel like if I can't get this right then I'll never make it in life. I'm having anxiety and depression over this + I struggle with anxiety and depression by myself. I wanted to become a psychologist so I could help others that feel like me that also struggle with anxiety and depression.
I find this video really helpful and informative even though I'm not a med student. The advice is really empowering and encouraging.
Like I've been not caring about my grades at all
I WAS IGNORING EVERYTHING IN COLLEGE
Last semester I failed everything
WTF is wrong with me ?
Since this online school became a thing I'm not giving a shit about my studies
Like I want to successful man and made my parents proud but why why why
I feel like I can't do anything anymore
But I'll try my best in this semester hope I can change anything
For the last year I almost failed every class I attended to
Hoping for the best
For all of u feeling the same or in similar situation
Try ur best don't give up 💙
No matter the outcome; don’t give up. 💯
If u fail take it as a memory for you to smile for the given chance that would be offer to u in life... stay safe online class is really hard especially when u are not familiar with it
I needed step 2 man. Thank you so much.
I reeeeeeally needed that right now
In some time, I'm gonna look back at this failure I'm experiencing right now and think, "Holy crap, that was worth it,"
Just learned that I will not be able to return to the same school for my fifth year of high school as I have failed senior year. I have a very intense social anxiety and am most likely going to drop out as i've already had to go through moving to a new school once and it didn't turn out well. I have no friends most of my "friends" are my hometown have forgotten about me. I had already been crying all day just thinking about how I'm going to have to go back to school for a 5th Year it's for my dad to drop a bombshell on me telling me that I'll most likely have to go to a different school
Great video at the right time. Thanks
Medicine and getting into medical school are hard. If it were easy, a lot more people would do it. If you are honest with yourself in a constructive way and do not beat yourself up, and your motivations are strong, eventually you will get to where you want to be.
When I came to the US I was motivated and happy. I was doing good middle school and freshmen year. However, after I grew older and matured I realized high school is worthless and trash. I am in junior year and I have D’s for most of my classes. It’s not like school is way too hard or in dumb, it’s just that I feel like I don’t wanna waste years on high school and college. I want to do something other than college, maybe like start a business. Even thought I know there’s multiple ways to being successful without college, but I’m scared I might fail and have nothing in the future. I’m sad.
It’s funny how you hit every nail perfectly Dr.
Thanks, I was feeling awful about what a stupid person I am and how the heck am I aiming to become a doctor if I can’t even do some improper integrals,
Again thank you, it’s like this video was specifically made for me and here are many others that feel the same as me
Thank you
I'm at risk of failing my major because of the lack of time. I'm a graduating student and the fact that I'm at risk of failing and being able to graduate at the same time as my batch makes me feel so bad! My mother told me that it's alright and they'll not be mad but I still feel so terrible knowing that I'm going to waste my parents money and time just to send me to college and then I'm here going to fail a major worth a whole year and might need to retake it. I feel bad for my parents specially my mom.
I got a 67% on my stats mid term but i was at a 99% in the class befofe the mid term. I feel like a failure. I took the test earlier this week. Yes, i am really sad. But im taking this as an opportunity to say "look, yoi got a 67% because your studying technique was poor and didn't take it serious. Now, you need to try harder". This keeps me motivated. Much love to you guys, stay strong, and always remember: being a doctor isnt about getting an A in a class, its about caring and being an altruistic person and want to spend years of your life to save others :)
My MCAT score is coming out on Tuesday, and I’m wondering if this is a sign ... 😂 send help.
EDIT (Aug 2020): After all the mcat cancellations and stressors, I retook in July 2020 and scored 9 points higher. DO NOT GIVE UP!
Good luck! No matter what, you will succeed in the end. Whether it is now or a little bit from now. Stay focused!
Give us an update pls!!
Breanna Durant UPDATE: Unfortunately, I bombed it and feel like a complete l, utter failure for even trying. I did much worse than any of the practice tests I’ve done... (8 points lower than my average -which shocked me). So I’m hoping to retake in April 2020... we will see. Thank you for the kind comments though!
Ryan Thai im sorry dude, i am sure you will get it next time. Now you know what to expect. Personally, I have a track record of not doing well the first time around but nailing it the second time. I will certainly be in the same boat as you are right now when it is my turn. For now, chill out and enjoy life. Then next year go for it again.
Ryan Thai Good luck!
I failed twice in college class that required for my graduation. I cry for a week's and feel dumb. I still passes my other courses. It sometimes too heavy. I felt like a burden.
Don’t worry, you ain’t the only one. Actually, I failed 3 classes while COVID started and I’m still them failing now. At this point, I’ve called a orientation counsellor to see what to do from now on and I’ve decided to find my real motives and all. I really do try to not let the grades control me but damn...
Best one yet applies to so many life issues thx
I’m about to take my first mcat exam and I don’t feel good about it. I know it’s not the end of the world if I do poorly, and that I have more chances. But it feels like it will be. I really needed this right now
Thank you for your words and motivation at least this cheer me up a little bit. damn my youtube algorithm even know my grades its scary
thank you so much for med school insiders!!!!
I am someone who get nervouse seeing the first question of the test but this vedio encouraged me . First of all i was too scared that if my grades fail i wont get a good job and i might be judged by others now i see... well my father used to say " if we fail that means we learned some mistakes and try to avoid them next time and do better.. " well those were the only courageous words i had.. adding this video makes me overcome my nervousness more 😭😭 hope you uplod more 🤧🤧
On 29th December 2019, the results from my exam came out and it turned out that i failed my main course and cant continue on for my diploma. It's been a pretty rough starting point for 2020 and even tho my friends keep on trying to cheer me up, i always end up with depression at the end of the day
Hope you're doing better!
Thank u so much men ❤️❤️❤️ this video right here is what I needed right now❤️
I'm an optometry student in Malaysia and I'm facing a lot of difficulties and failures in my clincs. Luckily for this video, I might need to reflect those mistakes and get back on track again 💪
What a perfect timing !
damn, this video topic is way too specific to my current situation right now
i’m so messed up right now i’ve missed 2 years of high school i have to go back in august. on top of that a lot of other things are stressing me out so much all the guilt and everything is catching up to me its messing me up so bad i don’t know what to do anymore i hate it i’ve never felt this down and alone i got no one to talk to everyone will just laugh at my problems
Im so sorry about that, im going thru the same thing but as everyone says it'll be alright every fail has a purpose just believe on urself
I would like to share how my teachers roast me after failing, they are teaching me, they are my teachers, it's their work to educate me, why do I come like this,online classes isnt for me, I'm such a failure
no fr like online classes made my grades all down and the fact that im probably gonna fail all my classes shit
The reason you fail is because you are making yourself one. What can you do to be a better person, whatever your goal is, how to get better, etc.
I love your videos so much, I’m a premed and they always remind me of my “why” :)
I failed all my classes this year because we all got a bunch of work in a app that kept giving work....online was the worse😞
I just failed my first year of college for the second time I was 0.26 points less than what I needed to succeed and my depression is peeking but what’s making me more sad is mom her heart aches because of me
Im so sorry about that, it must've been really really hard but dont worry you have so much oppurtunities than that
Youst what I needed. Thank you
My advisor told me I won’t get into medical school but I’m going to prove him wrong
Great video Dr. J. Thank you 🙏🏾
Failed my driving exam, failed my A levels, didn't get into uni all in 1 year and now im 2 days away from my resits. I am so scared and i just dont have any hope.
I just failed. I won’t get into uni. I’m dead. And that’s why I’m here.
Same:/
To be honest, nobody should be ashamed, angry, anxious, depressed or have any of those bad kind of emotions because they failed a test, quiz, exam or anything. Percentages, marks and grades don't and will never define you. A grade is just a letter, a mark is just a number and a percentage is just a number, none of these will ever have the right to define you as a human and it will never tell whether you're dumb or smart, you should never worry If you get a score or grade you aren't pleased with, or if you get a score or grade that doesn't reach somebody else's standards. Grades, percentages and marks NEVER and I mean never define you, and they never will either.
I don't want good grades, I don't want to disappoint my parents
Watched this video 2 weeks ago, thinking that i failed my grades. And this day i got 7 line of 9 and 1 line of 8, this video really helped me to excel
this is my second time failure at law school
i try to hard and i came back stronger than my first year but i failed harder than last year.
i am a failure but i'll keep trying cause this is the only way that i could save myself from suicidal thoughts
This is excellent. Thank you.
12/6/21
My entire family was riding on me for success. I would've been the first to attend a big college and i lied to everyone saying i was doing good. Literally all my friends and family and now my lies are about to be shown in 4 days from now. I dug myself a hole that i can't come back from. Im going to just end myself. I hope whoever is reading this doesn't follow in my path.
Control yourself. Do no procrastinate.
I was in the top last year and today I just failed my second test in statistics WORST DAY OF MY LIFE AS OF NOW-!