I had goosebumps listening to Nyma!! She is absolutely right!! One part we are overlooking as well is - Did the school find out how that video got online? A 10yr old uploaded such a video online? Who uploaded it???
Nyma thank you for your passionate and apt input . Our children will live out our hypocrisy as a society . When education is paid for by some entitled parents, and public schools where teachers can discipline without fear and intimidation have been plundered by our leaders, this is what happens. Private schools will not offer a safe space for our kids when they see what we do as a society . Our neglected public schools are riddled with drugs, petty crime and other vices and we look the other way hoping our children are safe in ill led private schools full of privileged children. As a teacher with experience both in Nigeria and in the UK, it beggars belief the way some of the private schools are run; there is systemic failure . I expect better from Chrisland school leadership and safeguarding unit because of their pedigree. Our social service needs life injected into it to take charge from parents who themselves need parenting and the ministry of Education monitoring body need a stand alone agency to inspect and scrutinise the level of provision put in place by schools interms of children safety( online and offline ) and safeguarding. Min of edu needs to adopt an inspection rating of schools to increase accountability. Finally our govt need to take charge of education like it was in the 70s and 80s by funding public schools and bringing them to the standard of private ones so schools doesn’t become customer service but a tool for social engineering .
Morayo, CAN YOUR PLATFORM TALK ABOUT THE BOYS AS WELL? They too are minors and have been abused. We need to police male behaviors surrounding sex as well, not just the girls. It’s unfortunate we still do this thing of focusing more on the girls, meanwhile our boys are just running haywire in society. Nyma, I feel your pain.
This is not a gender issue please, after all the school said the boys involved were also disciplined and their parents were invited. Not everything is about feminism please.
@@bafemiplus1999 Has majority of the conversation not revolved around the girl? Are you trying to be dishonest or what exactly are you trying to do? I’m speaking up for the boy child you people ALWAYS forget and you have the audacity to come in here with your agenda against women? You are part of the problem in this country. You would rather sweep serious issues under the carpet than critically analyze these issues because of your weak sensibilities. If gender issues threaten you, get off the internet and let adults discuss.
What do you want us to talk about the boys? The boys erred, their parents were invited and they were punished... What else should be happened Immediately the news was out, the mother of the girl lied that it was Rape Everyone was quick to call out the boys, trust me if it was true, the boys identity will be out already Not until the video came out to debunk the mother's lies The mother did this to her child by doing the nonsense video for public sympathy... The parent was also lackadaisical when they were called by the school not showing up for upto a month Fact is, the cause of this problem on ground is Bad Parenting simple
This Alajah is really making great points. Followed by d woman who said she saw legs in toilet when she was in school during her secondary days followed by d remaining two speakers. It is well.
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Please why is all attention on the girl. What is really going on here? I looked at the videos what’s erotic about it? We see all these dance moves on afrobeats dance groups that has no pg rating. Why are females held to a higher and unfair standard? Every sex tape that has ever leaked the female is always the bad one. What happened to the boys in the video? What is going on here???? Society keeps failing women all the time. I hope this girl is guided and protected so she doesn’t harm herself by all the comments that the public is making cos everyone seems to be focused on her. Nyma is right. What is wrong with people. It’s official, society has gone to shits. Who recorded? Why did he or she feel they had to? Why isn’t anyone speaking about how ridiculous this is? Only Nyma is looking at this as a whole, the rest are just interested in blaming the mother and parents 😂😂😂😂 like Nyma said you will receive your report cards soon, so judge less. I have seen kids whose parents instill the best values, but they mix with other and succumb to peer pressure and bullying, not just from peers but even so called family members. Hmmmm there is more to this story and I think we need to watch what we say about this. I hope the people hosting this show reads this comment and see how some of the things they say can harm these kids mentally.
It seems we have all forgotten what happened months ago where a child was bullied and threatened by his peers and even while dying was still afraid to speak. Parents do their best but do not forget these children spend more time with strangers than their families, are our children bold enough to report certain things to us? When they do, do we do the needful? All the kids involved in this tape, is this their first time? When was? How long? What can be done to help them realize they are too young for this? Other students who are aware but not in the tape, why didn’t they speak up or report to a teacher? Are there othe pupils that fancy this things but haven’t been caught yet? How do we educate these kids? Are schools still employing people that have passion for teaching or they are just people with no better alternative? When should we start sex education for children in the school curriculum? because seeing this video has made me have deeper conversation with my 7 year old than I intended to at this age. It makes me worried as a mother.These are the things we need to be discussing and not just finding who is at fault or not. How do we prevent more of this from happening again?
For goodness sake the children were in the school's custody. From every angle you want to look at it, the school failed it. The very first person they should have reached were the girl's parents. All those stories by the school are excuses and which point to incompetence. They couldn't take care of the children and couldn't also manage an already bad situation. And of course the parents too are not doing enough on their own part.
The teachers who accompanied the students went out shopping and sightseeing. At anytime, there should be a supervisor watching over them as they are not adults. Day and night an adult should be watching. They are being paid. Shame on that school. It should be closed down. We know it has, and is still happening, but this has come to light therefore the school should be closed or they should ,all be fired. A new management is needed.
Honestly I know of a parent that I cautioned about her children. Sincerely I regretted it at the end of the day. Some parents just love to live in denial. I do not exonerate the school. They are culpable. School and parents alike.
The blame of the school is the handling of the situation...it got way out of hand. The problem here is the circulation of the video and informing the mum late with bits and pieces of info
The truth is “We” as a society have failed, there is a thin line between “minding one’s business “ and “being Nonchalant “.we admit the girl’s parents have failed, what about the parents pf the other kids that realized the girl’s parent were not present in the meeting and the whole corrective process, they didn’t care about the girl because they felt the girl was not their responsibility…until we realize that it takes more than parent to raise a child, I’m afraid we’ll experience something worse in future.. Yoruba will say when we fold our arms and allow matter get worse,it will affect everybody ( a kan jeje ni mo joko mi)… It’s just reminds me of this saying “the hate we give the little infant, affects everybody “” Apologies for any typo error, I was really angry typing this
Madam Opeyemi, I respectfully disagree with your statement, “We” as a society have failed." The days of: It takes a village to raise a child has passed o my sista! Some parents will almost kill you when you try to correct or report their children o. They prefer to to look away from their children's atrocities. Nowadays it is better to mind one's business.
@@gracenmercy1085 I totally understand your point of view too, Nigerians will frustrate you into minding your business. I just felt bad that some parents were actually seated to plan how to correct their own children while the parents of the girl involved were absent and they kept quiet too. I’m sure if the table was turned and this woman in question happens to be the mother of one of the boys,the other parents would have insisted on meeting the parents(especially if she turns out to be the mother of the boy in which they were in d act together)…it brings us to how we view a male child and female child..May the almighty have mercy on this country and may we have mercy on ourselves too (Amen)
Morayo, pls it's not right to call the girl the main actor. It takes two to tango. everyone involved are main actors. Not just the girl. Also imagine school punishment for the girl and what punishment for the boys? certainly it's a judgemental attitude of the school management who defined the girl as main actor. if she knows how to do it, how about the boys who participated, recorded and shared it?
Delegating parenting to others especially domestic staff is a big no no. Try and create time for your children , bond well with them allow them to be free with you , that will make them to start talking to you immediately there is an issue. Do not always surrounds the female child with opposite sex in the name of driver, cook, lesson teacher. Personal assistant, male relations. It always starts with someone very close to the child right under your roof.
Parents are the first educators of their children but today, a lot of parents have outsourced their responsibilities to the schools, drivers, housemaids, gatemen...
@@UntangledMind_CPM What are you saying?You are contradicting yourself."Many parents have outsourced their responsibilities to the schools, drivers,housemaids....."Could you translate that for us then?
God bless you Alhaja. I am blaming the school all the way. They should have told the mother from the beginning. Throughout Today, the 10 year old girl has been abused so much and I remember the girls mother saying they said it a men's world. Why is the boy not abused today like the girl.
This is a parenting problem. Train a child in the way that he/she should go and he/she shall not depart from it. That is what the bible says, to the parents, not the school or society.
I visited Nigeria some years ago and we saw some young children smoking, my host who doesn’t even know the parents saw them and actually whipped them and poor me was shouting,, eeeh uncle pls oo, police ,police will arrest you, to my amazement, people came out and actually hailed and thank him
My view is that, this incidents happened under the watch of chrisland school, so the school should be held responsible, no matter how bad a student from home, the school should have a standard of high discipline for their students while they’re in school, or during school hours, after school hours, the parents take over their wards, and schools should not bring down their rules and regulations, or their high standards at all.
One big problem with secondary schools is mixing boarding and day schooling. You can never have adequate control boarding on students character development when they have daily outside influences from day students. The day students are the condits for drugs, pornography, unchecked phones and other contraband in the boarding houses.
So that means if someone wanted to kidnap any of these children on that trip they could have. Let’s really think about it. Someone should have been in the room with them. How do we even know it’s not a teacher that has abused this girl?
The mother said it with her mother that when the school invited to come that she wanted to travel, she came back after two days. So the school invited with other parents but unfortunately her travel is more important to her.
I did not get the opportunity to watch the video. From what everyone has said, my conclusion is that that girl (10yeae old) is still a child. The parents have a part to.play in their parental skills but on this point I agree with the lady talking so passionately about the school being so negligent. There was no proper supervision of those children. First of all those kids who posted the video should also be held responsible, the school who concealed this from the girl's mother for so.long did not do well at all. The school should be held responsible for everything giving the fact that she was under the protection of the school at the moment. Whether the parents raised her well or not is not the issue right now but how the school is trying to cover up their grounds is what I can not understand myself. That child needs help right now so the best thing to do now is to find ways to help her mentally, physically and spiritually. God help her and the other kids involved.
I agree there’s a major crisis. It’s time parents start discussing the realities of sexual maturity in the modern age. Avoidance isn’t protecting innocence. These kids may be exposed, however the long term consequences are still immaturely understood. That’s the sad irony of this all. Passionate expression for the girl child Nyma👍🏾
There should be a CCTV camera in the hotel room, and one of the teachers should monitor also the teachers should visit the hotel room of the students. Thank you.
Parent don’t know it all…some parents grew up in the villages and can only teach what they were exposed to growing up. The society is terribly polluted across all levels. Children of the rich are more exposed to evils than the children of the “poor”. Well this can be argued. Children from rich families can afford phones, internet, personal car for drivers to take them anywhere, point and buy food or material things… Nevertheless, show more love and care and be the best friend to your child, he/she will not hide anything from you.
Spot on Nyma, welldone! Ladies of yourview you are all mothers,would you like it,appreciate it if society blames you for your child behaviour that's meant to be under someone care,like a school,a day care,an aunt,etc? Concluding that the girl has been doing it for a while is wrong, it's just an assumption not fact.She could have taken the liberty of been away from her parents to act out her desires.Thank you.
@TVC why is all the attention on the girl???? What about the boy??? Shouldn’t he be suspended and talked about too??? Talk about how the boy may have been damaged already!
Chrisland failed in not informing the parents on time. But don’t blame the school for the event happening cos it has been happening and could have continued.
Nyma and I are always on the same page perhaps because we’re legal professionals. I also considered what she said about the psychological and emotional state of the girl. Diversion from the real culpable party is a no no. My goodness we all know the mother failed her child but please don’t ignore that the school screwed up immensely. But for the negligence of the school, the incident would never have happened. They had a duty of care for the children placed in their custody and they failed woefully. That being said, woh, Olorun lo nsho gbogbo wa! Ko ju ma ri bi ni oh!
Did the school lodge them in thesame room? If yes , they should be blamed , but if not then the school is innocent . School is just a business. If you are expecting school to train your child morally, you are mistaken! Who did God give the responsibility of training their children ? PARENTS (read Joshua 1:8) not school or anyother organization or person. If you send your child out to a boarding school, especially at an early age, when will you then train your child. It's quite unfortunate that we place scholar education above moral education . Parents are now comfortable with their children being intelligent animals . Unless you keep your child by your side while he or she is also getting educated scholarly, you are not handling your assignment as a parent well. There is imbalance
They are blaming the school for not assigning teachers to sleep in the room with the children, so tomorrow they'll say it was teacher that assaulted and molested the children. Besides when did teachers start sleeping with students in the same room?? Was the separation of boys to 10th floor and girls to 4th floor not enough?? Can't these kids just be kids??
@@ekaettejoseph6085 I wonder! Parents will fail in their responsibility to train children , and then come and start looking for who to blame. I understand the mischievous of teenagers, but for a child to be this hardened and wayward at just 10-13 years, God! It's too early. What has the parents been doing these few years ? This is ridiculous!
Did you not listen to the video?? Girls were on the 11th floor... Boys were on the 4th floor Well separated... but the girl came all the way down to the guys room to do rubbish The school made mistakes but get enough info before you give opinions
Schools with lackadastical attitude... I remembered when i was teaching in a school and i overheard some students discussing on how to initiate one another... Immediately i had to inform other teachers, then informed the school management..As a trainer or school, we had to be vigilant and careful when dealing with these children
Rubbish analysis…the blame is 80% the parents and 20% the school cos the Bible explicitly says; Parents train your children in the way of the Lord so they do not depart from it! No where in the Bible did it mention school or neighbours or family members….The bible knows there will always be bad children, bad influences and bad people constantly trying to influence innocent kids, that’s why as a parent, it is paramount and most burden lies on them to train their kids so when they go out to face the evil influences of this world, they would remember the strong and good upbringing , morals and values their parents instilled on them and engraved in their mind and resist bad influences…children will err normally but minimising the fall to influence is the essence….Why haven’t some few young boys joined yahoo and do rituals or some decent young girls not join Olosho and Hookup? with the immense massive pressure on youngsters today?
Humm Good day my people, this matter is just a simple matter. Yes, the school is at fault but the parents are the people that are at fault more. Especially the mother sorry to say that she is not a good parent to her daughter. 10years old using an Android phone for what. In one of the pictures of the girl with the mother that I saw, I can not believe that is a 10yr-old girl because she was with waist beads that even a responsible adult can not put on. Do you want to tell me the mother didn't see it? The mother is just shielding the crocodile tears. She is not a good mother at all. Please parents, that have plenty of money and they don't know how to spend it kindly remember that there are some children whose parents can not pay for the school fees not to talk of paying for the excursion. Please Government should stop all these so-called private schools to stop taking school children for any excursions be it local or international. If any parents have money let them travel with their children to anywhere they want. These schools are using it to make money for themselves.
Schools should not take the place of Parenting Guidance & Counselling is not to take your Parental job Parents are responsible to build Child's Character not School... Stop pushing responsibilities... We should learn to be accountable too
If I may ask, assuming this video wasn’t seen would the act have elicited the concern and the discussion that it is having now. Remember the parent said that she was only told that the daughter kissed a boy only for the video to prove otherwise . Why not address issues and the decadence instead of trying to be a Pope
nyima is right....NT I blame our society....we accept alot of nonsense and what kids see us do they copy...just c how the girl is on social media dancing, and we see it as normal, had it been things like this are frowned at she wouldn't have reached here
Madame, there is no need for prayers, this entire family must be ostracized from society before they come and pollute and traumatize us with their bad content.!
Boarding school is not common in America like Nigeria.When you give your responsibility to someone to raise your kids dt is what happened. Ds 10 years old is on tiktok twerking touching her herself up and down. The mother should go and ask all area brother who train their 10years to be a professional.
@@rahmatmuhammad8736 Her social media handle which is 3 years old is called: Bhadgurl4k! And it is full of erotic content. So this girl is not naïve. I believe the school did what was necessary to rectify the situation after their investigations
Imagine a 10 years teenagers she, s on tweeter, Instagram, Facebook, tittok, what is she doing on internet, This is the question we need to ask ourself, she knows Different style,s of Dance, strippers and stuff lime that.
I think kids doesn't exist again in Nigeria, even people at the age of 25years are already old the way they behave, this Nigeria society is a crazy society total break down in everything Nigeria. Politicians, police, judiciary, Agbero, journalists everything is gone.
The school is a business unfortunately and they do what is best for them...now what do we have in place to support and counsel d children n family involved...this is not going to b d first or last of children abuse and trauma...as a society we need accessible and affordable counseling organizations for these kinds of this...blaming will not help of suffering mental health problems we have
Well what i can say is that this act has been happening for2 decades, i know what i am saying, Thank God for technology, honestly when i saw the video, its just like when they were playing, the 10 years old teenager was on top of boy, and some guys was there too, i think this lady has been spoiled since, They have been practising this nonsense amongs and themselve before. She really enjoyed it, i must tell the fact.
Love Nyma’s passion here. Yes, her parent may have failed in their parenting. That child is a child and somebody or a grown man might have been molesting that child at home or at school. So they need to investigate further. However, the school has also failed on their managing of this case. How can they have the knowledge of what happened at the trip, but they called the mother and said it was just a kiss? The mother said they even told her not to tell the father. Immediately the school knew this was a sex act, they supposed to have invited the parents and tell them everything they know. How can they wait a whole month before telling the parents while their child’s sex video was flying all over the internet. That child could have done something dangerous to herself. It seems like the school cares more about their image, than the child. The school need to face repercussions for that. We have to remember this is a child, no matter how spoiled you think the child is. The child needs a lot of therapy and love from the parents at this time to help with her mental health
Honestly I think journalist need to analyze issues objectively and consider the context of issues. So many hanging questions! It is also important to consider the timeline of this case. Question1 : Why was this video out just after the mother of this girl spoke that her daughter was molested? Who released the video? What step did the school take to properly and holistically address the issue? Yes I agree the school is as culpable as the parent? The child spends 3 terms as a boarding student which is a total of 36/37 weeks at school with 16 weeks at home. And talking about western world, this is a different story entirely because it's a boarding school and kids over 12 year old in western world sort of have their own opinion on things not that the social services won't be involved but it is not solely parent fault in this case as this is a boarding house. And why is only the girl's parent that is being bashed. The boys are as culpable as the girl. Plus we only saw the part the recorder wanted us to see, how about the boy's part. Honestly it's high time tv stations start bringing in experts in their field of discussions who can always analyze issues objectively and in an holistic manner!
This nonsense act is happening Everywhere now, imagine a small girls having a 24k follower on internet, before u can check her account you need to subscribe imagine.
Ladies please learn to handle only one aspect (centre of an issue/occurrence/incident) to be able to put even justice on the specific incidence and not to muddy your conversation or just present arguments like a debate. Children are children, and cases involving minors should be wisely justify by questioning the adults(workers/authority)that assumed the responsibility over the children at the crime scene.
Morayo can you stop interjecting Nyma, please!!! How can Morayo say character building is for parents only. Children spend a lot of hours in school compared to even at home. How can you say character building is not a requirement of the school?
Murayo isn't upto scratch to head such program not on TV not anywhere. She lacks the education and training on journalism. Moreover, her poor diction and speech makes to compensate by shouting, interrupting , impecience and sheer rudeness intolerable to watch. I feel for the other women
@@werqzeleke2815 hmmm, that's quite harsh every one is a work in progress. She is a fantastic moderator but remember she tries to balance most people's opinions and tries to see how to change their mindsets even when they don't voice it out, they are thinking it. It can be annoying especially when you see things black and white with rarely gray areas.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. We all cannot see things from the same angle and lens. What she said is what has led a lot of our Nigerian schools to be where they are currently. We all have to do better honestly.
I don’t agree with you Children spend 8-9hours in school out of 24 hours in a day and they’re not coaching only one child It’s is the responsibility of the parents to train their child well and then the teacher will take up from there…the primary responsibility of a teacher is to impact knowledge academically to these children…every other thing is secondary You don’t expect a teacher to start from scratch and train your child for you…a job that you as a parent has failed to do
@@blessingadaeze1205 I am not saying the teacher does the training completely or starts from scratch. Schooling, especially in the early formative years is not about academics alone. You learn social skills, interpersonal relationships, basic discipline like being punctual, submitting home work as when due ( diligence), cleanliness back then, don't know about now, sometimes spirituality if you go to a religious school and much more. If you calculate 8-9hrs for 5 days x 4months at a stretch... School and schooling should not and cannot be for academics alone in the formative years. It does not take the responsibility off the parents. It is not one child at a time, there are academic and ethical standards that ought to be met per school policy.
I dont know why Nyma keep shouting the school name.....the parents are to be blamed 100%. how many hours do kids spend in school for God sakes. You want a school to teach and protect your kids from what you failed to do....haba
The school put boys on 10th floor and girls on 4th floor is that not enough separation?? So their kids can't just be normal?? The teachers have to sleep in the same room with them?? The same parents who refuse schools to discipline their kids are now blaming kids for their waywardness. The same parents that sit at home to watch big brother with their kids even commenting why would they not expect their kids to act it at any given chance?? They give their kids the latest phones and data unlimited to what end???
Even if the parents did not do their job it does not mean the school should not provide a place of sanity and safety were such thing could happen. When they go home they can continue with their nasty ways that their parents have failed to address. Remember this could be someone sneaking in to kill or poison these kids or even disguise as anyone. That should have been a supervisor 24hrs with these kids. Kids can’t be left alone on school trip. The school failed to provide a place of safety and sanity for the kids. I guess they went shopping and sightseeing..
@@tuforu4 you critic the presenters using phones on the studio, you can as well buy a better device for them. You don't critic without proffering solutions
Tope not Lagos parents o When some mother's especially in Lagos would ask you to mind your business Tope correct who ???? ! Not this generation of mother's o 🤷 I'm speaking from experience! So I do respect my size and age whenever someone's child is involved Biko
Why is this woman shouting and blaming the school only? What is this emotional bullshit? How many children can the school monitor? The parents have the biggest blame.
Nyma's passion. She always speaks from the depth of her heart.
Infact she proved her intelligence once again today
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I had goosebumps listening to Nyma!!
She is absolutely right!!
One part we are overlooking as well is - Did the school find out how that video got online? A 10yr old uploaded such a video online? Who uploaded it???
This is the same question I had. Who is the child that did the recording and how is it online. Why hasn’t it been taken down. It’s a shame honestly
Nyma thank you for your passionate and apt input . Our children will live out our hypocrisy as a society . When education is paid for by some entitled parents, and public schools where teachers can discipline without fear and intimidation have been plundered by our leaders, this is what happens. Private schools will not offer a safe space for our kids when they see what we do as a society . Our neglected public schools are riddled with drugs, petty crime and other vices and we look the other way hoping our children are safe in ill led private schools full of privileged children. As a teacher with experience both in Nigeria and in the UK, it beggars belief the way some of the private schools are run; there is systemic failure . I expect better from Chrisland school leadership and safeguarding unit because of their pedigree. Our social service needs life injected into it to take charge from parents who themselves need parenting and the ministry of Education monitoring body need a stand alone agency to inspect and scrutinise the level of provision put in place by schools interms of children safety( online and offline ) and safeguarding. Min of edu needs to adopt an inspection rating of schools to increase accountability. Finally our govt need to take charge of education like it was in the 70s and 80s by funding public schools and bringing them to the standard of private ones so schools doesn’t become customer service but a tool for social engineering .
In my secondary school days I never heard of a private school only primary school and this was in the 80s.
Nima you are the best in this argument 👏 👌 🙌
Morayo, CAN YOUR PLATFORM TALK ABOUT THE BOYS AS WELL? They too are minors and have been abused. We need to police male behaviors surrounding sex as well, not just the girls. It’s unfortunate we still do this thing of focusing more on the girls, meanwhile our boys are just running haywire in society.
Nyma, I feel your pain.
God bless you . I am with the girl all the way.
This is not a gender issue please, after all the school said the boys involved were also disciplined and their parents were invited. Not everything is about feminism please.
@@bafemiplus1999 Has majority of the conversation not revolved around the girl? Are you trying to be dishonest or what exactly are you trying to do? I’m speaking up for the boy child you people ALWAYS forget and you have the audacity to come in here with your agenda against women? You are part of the problem in this country. You would rather sweep serious issues under the carpet than critically analyze these issues because of your weak sensibilities. If gender issues threaten you, get off the internet and let adults discuss.
What do you want us to talk about the boys?
The boys erred, their parents were invited and they were punished... What else should be happened
Immediately the news was out, the mother of the girl lied that it was Rape
Everyone was quick to call out the boys, trust me if it was true, the boys identity will be out already
Not until the video came out to debunk the mother's lies
The mother did this to her child by doing the nonsense video for public sympathy... The parent was also lackadaisical when they were called by the school not showing up for upto a month
Fact is, the cause of this problem on ground is Bad Parenting simple
@@ebbflows3696 Well said 👏
I am with Nyma on this!!!! Well said!!! I am still shocked!!! What is happening?????
Nyma is the best analysts of situation without biases. I totally love her. She is the heart of the show I only watch when she is here.
I’m with Nyam 💯 May our parenting never be tested you can do the best as a parent but things still fall apart
This Alajah is really making great points. Followed by d woman who said she saw legs in toilet when she was in school during her secondary days followed by d remaining two speakers. It is well.
Maybe it's time middle-class Nigerian parents stop letting boarding school raise their kids for them.
Nyma is spot on! She has articulated clearly my thoughts and sentiments on this issue.
Why is the attention on the girl alone??? The boy is just as guilty too.
This issue that has just happened has been going on for decades. It's technology that has allowed matters that were private to become public
REMINDER: *DONT SHIFT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO TEACHERS*
It is *AT HOME* that children should learn to say:
01 - Hello
02 - Good afternoon
03 - Good evening
04 - Please
05 - May I
06 - Sorry
07 - Forgive me
08 - Thank you very much
09 - Thank you
10 - I was wrong
It is *AT HOME* that we also learn to:
01 - Be honest
02 - Be punctual
03 - Not insult
04 - Be polite
05 - Respect everyone: friends, colleagues, elders, teachers, authorities
Again *at home* we learn to:
01 - Eat everything
02 - Not speak with a mouth full
03 - Have personal hygiene
04 - Not throw waste on the ground
05 - Help parents accomplish their daily tasks
06 - Not take what does not belong to you
Still *At home* we learn to:
01 - Be organized
02 - Take care of our business
03 - Not touch other people's belongings
04 - Respect the rules,
05 - Speak our mother tongue (s), master our culture and ancestral spirituality
Because *AT SCHOOL* teachers should teach:
■ Mathematics
■ English
■ History
■ Literature
■ Government
■ Geography
■ Foreign language
■ Social Science
■ Chemistry
■ Physics
■ Biology
■ Philosophy
■ Sociology
■ Physical education
■ Art
■ Civic Studies
■ Economics
■ Religious Studies
■ Agric Science
■ Commerce
■ Home Economics
■ Technical Drawing
And only reinforce what the student has learned *AT HOME* !!!
Because it is from what we learned *AT HOME* that we, individuals will be respected, that we will respect the life, freedom and property of all.
"A CAMPAIGN AGAINST THE PERVERSION OF VALUES AND IN FAVOR OF THE FAMILY AND A BETTER NIGERIA AND WORLD !!!"
*Please send to all your contacts !!!*
*All families let’s fight together as one!!!*
*YES, IT IS MY BUSINESS!*
We are in a time when evil is upheld, and even defended, at the expense of the good.
Have you observed that in recent times, people hate to hear the truth about their children's abnormal behaviour?
Have you also noticed that some "accidental parents" will call you all kinds of names and even threaten to deal with you, just because you tried to correct some error in their parenting?
This happens most especially on the social media.
And before you know it, you see thorns of abuses being showered upon you, because you made a statement that did not agree with their ill- conceived ideas of parenting.
And the summary most often is, "How does it concern you? Is it your business how other people raise their children? Can't you mind your own business?..."
I want to tell everyone here that it is my business how you raise your children.
And it should also be your business how I raise mine, if you are a parent indeed.
🔴 It is my business because, your ill-parented children will corrupt other children, including mine.
🔴 It is my business because, you may raise more hoodlums, prostitutes, drug addicts, rapists, etc., in addition to the ones we already have in the society; thereby making the environment more unconducive and unsafe for everyone.
🔴 It is my business because, you may raise bullies and send them to the same school where normal children are.
And we cannot afford to continue losing innocent children to untamed bull dogs who pretend to be students😡.
🔴 It is my business because, I am praying to be a father-in-law/mother-in-law tomorrow and I don't know who my child will bring home to me.
What if fate brings them together with your ill-parented son or daughter, whom you have craftily taught the art of deceit and pretence?
Wouldn't that mean that I may spend the rest of my life in bitterness watching my son or daughter going through pains in their marriage?
🔴 How you parent your children is my business because, every intentionally parented child is a special gift from God to humanity.
Who knows whether that child you are spoiling or neglecting today would be my destiny-helper tomorrow?
🔴 Don't tell me to mind my business when you are raising charlatans who will waste, rather than save lives in our hospitals; traumatise, rather than teach students/pupils in our schools; profane, rather than glorify the name of God in religious organizations, and cause havoc in every sector of the society, which all of us are meant to coexist in.
🔴 Stop telling me to mind my business because, I am a stakeholder in the upbringing of every child born in this time and season.
Every intentional parent knows that we are all stakeholders in the b raising of the next generation.
Posterity will judge us if we see or hear evil and keep mute.
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This Muslim lady Is so right...👏
Please why is all attention on the girl. What is really going on here? I looked at the videos what’s erotic about it? We see all these dance moves on afrobeats dance groups that has no pg rating. Why are females held to a higher and unfair standard? Every sex tape that has ever leaked the female is always the bad one. What happened to the boys in the video? What is going on here????
Society keeps failing women all the time. I hope this girl is guided and protected so she doesn’t harm herself by all the comments that the public is making cos everyone seems to be focused on her.
Nyma is right. What is wrong with people. It’s official, society has gone to shits. Who recorded? Why did he or she feel they had to? Why isn’t anyone speaking about how ridiculous this is?
Only Nyma is looking at this as a whole, the rest are just interested in blaming the mother and parents 😂😂😂😂 like Nyma said you will receive your report cards soon, so judge less.
I have seen kids whose parents instill the best values, but they mix with other and succumb to peer pressure and bullying, not just from peers but even so called family members. Hmmmm there is more to this story and I think we need to watch what we say about this. I hope the people hosting this show reads this comment and see how some of the things they say can harm these kids mentally.
It seems we have all forgotten what happened months ago where a child was bullied and threatened by his peers and even while dying was still afraid to speak. Parents do their best but do not forget these children spend more time with strangers than their families, are our children bold enough to report certain things to us? When they do, do we do the needful? All the kids involved in this tape, is this their first time? When was? How long? What can be done to help them realize they are too young for this? Other students who are aware but not in the tape, why didn’t they speak up or report to a teacher? Are there othe pupils that fancy this things but haven’t been caught yet? How do we educate these kids? Are schools still employing people that have passion for teaching or they are just people with no better alternative? When should we start sex education for children in the school curriculum? because seeing this video has made me have deeper conversation with my 7 year old than I intended to at this age. It makes me worried as a mother.These are the things we need to be discussing and not just finding who is at fault or not. How do we prevent more of this from happening again?
I ve been calling out on RESTORING LOST MORAL VALUES....O GOD SAVE OUR CHILDREN...
For goodness sake the children were in the school's custody. From every angle you want to look at it, the school failed it. The very first person they should have reached were the girl's parents. All those stories by the school are excuses and which point to incompetence. They couldn't take care of the children and couldn't also manage an already bad situation. And of course the parents too are not doing enough on their own part.
I even gave another example. What if the kids sneaked out at night and had a terrible accident who would be blamed? The parents or the school?
The school?
The parents 💯
The parents 💯
The parents 💯
The teachers who accompanied the students went out shopping and sightseeing. At anytime, there should be a supervisor watching over them as they are not adults. Day and night an adult should be watching. They are being paid. Shame on that school. It should be closed down. We know it has, and is still happening, but this has come to light therefore the school should be closed or they should ,all be fired. A new management is needed.
Honestly I know of a parent that I cautioned about her children. Sincerely I regretted it at the end of the day. Some parents just love to live in denial. I do not exonerate the school. They are culpable. School and parents alike.
Well said 💯
The blame of the school is the handling of the situation...it got way out of hand. The problem here is the circulation of the video and informing the mum late with bits and pieces of info
The truth is “We” as a society have failed, there is a thin line between “minding one’s business “ and “being Nonchalant “.we admit the girl’s parents have failed, what about the parents pf the other kids that realized the girl’s parent were not present in the meeting and the whole corrective process, they didn’t care about the girl because they felt the girl was not their responsibility…until we realize that it takes more than parent to raise a child, I’m afraid we’ll experience something worse in future.. Yoruba will say when we fold our arms and allow matter get worse,it will affect everybody ( a kan jeje ni mo joko mi)…
It’s just reminds me of this saying “the hate we give the little infant, affects everybody “”
Apologies for any typo error, I was really angry typing this
Your comment is brilliant and I completely agree with you! I am a young adult and I am shocked at what I saw! I am still speechless walahi!
Madam Opeyemi, I respectfully disagree with your statement, “We” as a society have failed." The days of: It takes a village to raise a child has passed o my sista! Some parents will almost kill you when you try to correct or report their children o. They prefer to to look away from their children's atrocities. Nowadays it is better to mind one's business.
@@Iphie2019 thank you ma
@@gracenmercy1085 I totally understand your point of view too, Nigerians will frustrate you into minding your business. I just felt bad that some parents were actually seated to plan how to correct their own children while the parents of the girl involved were absent and they kept quiet too. I’m sure if the table was turned and this woman in question happens to be the mother of one of the boys,the other parents would have insisted on meeting the parents(especially if she turns out to be the mother of the boy in which they were in d act together)…it brings us to how we view a male child and female child..May the almighty have mercy on this country and may we have mercy on ourselves too (Amen)
@@opeyemizaynab2651 Thank you o....I Agree....May the almighty have mercy on this country and may we have mercy on ourselves too (Amen)
Nyma, thank you! You said it all
Morayo, pls it's not right to call the girl the main actor. It takes two to tango. everyone involved are main actors. Not just the girl. Also imagine school punishment for the girl and what punishment for the boys? certainly it's a judgemental attitude of the school management who defined the girl as main actor. if she knows how to do it, how about the boys who participated, recorded and shared it?
Nyman truly you are mother
Why are they shouting? Why is it that Nigerians cannot talk without shouting? The person you're talking to is sitting next to you.
Nyma, GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH!!
Delegating parenting to others especially domestic staff is a big no no. Try and create time for your children , bond well with them allow them to be free with you , that will make them to start talking to you immediately there is an issue. Do not always surrounds the female child with opposite sex in the name of driver, cook, lesson teacher. Personal assistant, male relations. It always starts with someone very close to the child right under your roof.
God bless Nyma! The Real MVP 👌🏽✨
Parents are the first educators of their children but today, a lot of parents have outsourced their responsibilities to the schools, drivers, housemaids, gatemen...
Was the parent there?She did not do it at home but under the guidance of the school.
@@suntanglory The comment was not blaming the parent. Read, reflect and digest.
@@UntangledMind_CPM What are you saying?You are contradicting yourself."Many parents have outsourced their responsibilities to the schools, drivers,housemaids....."Could you translate that for us then?
@@suntanglory u very EDUCATED i bet and well travelled.
@@tuforu4 😃🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much Nyam.. you said it all
The caller from Kaduna warmed my heart. God bless you ma.
God bless you Alhaja. I am blaming the school all the way. They should have told the mother from the beginning. Throughout Today, the 10 year old girl has been abused so much and I remember the girls mother saying they said it a men's world. Why is the boy not abused today like the girl.
Made up. The school is responsible for her doing things on Instagram too I guess
Nyma spoke with passion (abiyamo dada).I like Tope's top, it's beautiful.
I’m with Nyma on this
So angered. The school is MAD!
Yes, let's blame the school because some parents cannot train their children.
@@solomonobihan9465 if a parent can't raise their own child then the parent is a failure.
This is a parenting problem. Train a child in the way that he/she should go and he/she shall not depart from it. That is what the bible says, to the parents, not the school or society.
Thank Ms. Nyma🙏. I will never understand the stand of the school
I visited Nigeria some years ago and we saw some young children smoking, my host who doesn’t even know the parents saw them and actually whipped them and poor me was shouting,, eeeh uncle pls oo, police ,police will arrest you, to my amazement, people came out and actually hailed and thank him
everyone is mentioning the mother. Where is the father of the girl ?
The smart man no show for video...typical naija mind . Na woman dey train pikin mentality
God BLESS you Nyma. Infact u gave me so much Joy with the way u hit the nail on the head without any form of bias. ❤️
My view is that, this incidents happened under the watch of chrisland school, so the school should be held responsible, no matter how bad a student from home, the school should have a standard of high discipline for their students while they’re in school, or during school hours, after school hours, the parents take over their wards, and schools should not bring down their rules and regulations, or their high standards at all.
If teachers ar hard on this school children their bad parents wl come to the school and be fighting the teacher that is trying to correct their child
@@ajayimutiatadepitan4889 exactly
It's a lie. The school didnt contact this girls mother. If it's about money they will be able to contact her.
Talk only what u know pls. That woman is not even confident saying what she is saying. She is not even sincere about the real age of the girl
She said they contacted her but she didn’t come immediately but she came later….Go and watch her interview
One big problem with secondary schools is mixing boarding and day schooling. You can never have adequate control boarding on students character development when they have daily outside influences from day students. The day students are the condits for drugs, pornography, unchecked phones and other contraband in the boarding houses.
I just love this Muslim woman, speaking with a very sane mind, she's indeed a defination of abiyamo, real mother!
So that means if someone wanted to kidnap any of these children on that trip they could have. Let’s really think about it. Someone should have been in the room with them. How do we even know it’s not a teacher that has abused this girl?
The mother said it with her mother that when the school invited to come that she wanted to travel, she came back after two days. So the school invited with other parents but unfortunately her travel is more important to her.
I did not get the opportunity to watch the video. From what everyone has said, my conclusion is that that girl (10yeae old) is still a child. The parents have a part to.play in their parental skills but on this point I agree with the lady talking so passionately about the school being so negligent. There was no proper supervision of those children. First of all those kids who posted the video should also be held responsible, the school who concealed this from the girl's mother for so.long did not do well at all. The school should be held responsible for everything giving the fact that she was under the protection of the school at the moment. Whether the parents raised her well or not is not the issue right now but how the school is trying to cover up their grounds is what I can not understand myself. That child needs help right now so the best thing to do now is to find ways to help her mentally, physically and spiritually. God help her and the other kids involved.
I agree there’s a major crisis. It’s time parents start discussing the realities of sexual maturity in the modern age. Avoidance isn’t protecting innocence. These kids may be exposed, however the long term consequences are still immaturely understood. That’s the sad irony of this all. Passionate expression for the girl child Nyma👍🏾
God bless you Nyma. You spoke my heart.
There should be a CCTV camera in the hotel room, and one of the teachers should monitor also the teachers should visit the hotel room of the students. Thank you.
Parent don’t know it all…some parents grew up in the villages and can only teach what they were exposed to growing up. The society is terribly polluted across all levels. Children of the rich are more exposed to evils than the children of the “poor”. Well this can be argued. Children from rich families can afford phones, internet, personal car for drivers to take them anywhere, point and buy food or material things…
Nevertheless, show more love and care and be the best friend to your child, he/she will not hide anything from you.
Nyma spoke well on this issue.
omg this panel.....i just watch arise news and same topic was discussed with class
Spot on Nyma, welldone! Ladies of yourview you are all mothers,would you like it,appreciate it if society blames you for your child behaviour that's meant to be under someone care,like a school,a day care,an aunt,etc? Concluding that the girl has been doing it for a while is wrong, it's just an assumption not fact.She could have taken the liberty of been away from her parents to act out her desires.Thank you.
@TVC why is all the attention on the girl???? What about the boy??? Shouldn’t he be suspended and talked about too??? Talk about how the boy may have been damaged already!
I just love Nyma's passion
Ride on alhaja Nyma. Ramadan Kareem alhaja.
Schools these days are more concerned about their image, they can sweep everything that concerns the children under the rug to protect their image
Chrisland failed in not informing the parents on time. But don’t blame the school for the event happening cos it has been happening and could have continued.
At all....when dey will not give their children moral values
God bless you abundantly my dearest sister. Barakallahu fihi wa feekum. Parenting is a full time job for we adult.
Nyma and I are always on the same page perhaps because we’re legal professionals. I also considered what she said about the psychological and emotional state of the girl. Diversion from the real culpable party is a no no. My goodness we all know the mother failed her child but please don’t ignore that the school screwed up immensely. But for the negligence of the school, the incident would never have happened. They had a duty of care for the children placed in their custody and they failed woefully. That being said, woh, Olorun lo nsho gbogbo wa! Ko ju ma ri bi ni oh!
Did the school lodge them in thesame room? If yes , they should be blamed , but if not then the school is innocent . School is just a business. If you are expecting school to train your child morally, you are mistaken! Who did God give the responsibility of training their children ? PARENTS (read Joshua 1:8) not school or anyother organization or person. If you send your child out to a boarding school, especially at an early age, when will you then train your child. It's quite unfortunate that we place scholar education above moral education . Parents are now comfortable with their children being intelligent animals . Unless you keep your child by your side while he or she is also getting educated scholarly, you are not handling your assignment as a parent well. There is imbalance
Go VISIT a psychiatrist u are sick.
They are blaming the school for not assigning teachers to sleep in the room with the children, so tomorrow they'll say it was teacher that assaulted and molested the children. Besides when did teachers start sleeping with students in the same room?? Was the separation of boys to 10th floor and girls to 4th floor not enough?? Can't these kids just be kids??
@@ekaettejoseph6085 I wonder! Parents will fail in their responsibility to train children , and then come and start looking for who to blame. I understand the mischievous of teenagers, but for a child to be this hardened and wayward at just 10-13 years, God! It's too early. What has the parents been doing these few years ? This is ridiculous!
Did you not listen to the video??
Girls were on the 11th floor... Boys were on the 4th floor
Well separated... but the girl came all the way down to the guys room to do rubbish
The school made mistakes but get enough info before you give opinions
@@benjaminowolabi6891 they need hire NEW MEN OF GOD...
Hmmmm I don't know what to say, but the parent need to buckle up it is sad.
Nyma needs to calm down when speaking on National TV, she’s always yelling without control
Really?
Schools with lackadastical attitude... I remembered when i was teaching in a school and i overheard some students discussing on how to initiate one another... Immediately i had to inform other teachers, then informed the school management..As a trainer or school, we had to be vigilant and careful when dealing with these children
Am a teacher have u forgotten that we are dealing with kids as vigilant as u are dey can outsmart u
Very sad ! May God help us all
Good day, I really think the person that made the video should be duely punished.
IMO, the blame is 60% to the parents and 40% to the school....
Rubbish analysis…the blame is 80% the parents and 20% the school cos the Bible explicitly says; Parents train your children in the way of the Lord so they do not depart from it! No where in the Bible did it mention school or neighbours or family members….The bible knows there will always be bad children, bad influences and bad people constantly trying to influence innocent kids, that’s why as a parent, it is paramount and most burden lies on them to train their kids so when they go out to face the evil influences of this world, they would remember the strong and good upbringing , morals and values their parents instilled on them and engraved in their mind and resist bad influences…children will err normally but minimising the fall to influence is the essence….Why haven’t some few young boys joined yahoo and do rituals or some decent young girls not join Olosho and Hookup? with the immense massive pressure on youngsters today?
@@aceit1078 I agree!!
For this incident in Dubai, the school is 100% to blame. The school had 100% duty of care in Dubai.
Nyma is on point
Nima may God bless you all.
Hhhmmmmmm
Children of the world
I love this tope point
Humm
Good day my people, this matter is just a simple matter.
Yes, the school is at fault but the parents are the people that are at fault more. Especially the mother sorry to say that she is not a good parent to her daughter. 10years old using an Android phone for what. In one of the pictures of the girl with the mother that I saw, I can not believe that is a 10yr-old girl because she was with waist beads that even a responsible adult can not put on. Do you want to tell me the mother didn't see it? The mother is just shielding the crocodile tears. She is not a good mother at all.
Please parents, that have plenty of money and they don't know how to spend it kindly remember that there are some children whose parents can not pay for the school fees not to talk of paying for the excursion.
Please Government should stop all these so-called private schools to stop taking school children for any excursions be it local or international. If any parents have money let them travel with their children to anywhere they want. These schools are using it to make money for themselves.
From the look n image of the mama, it's clear that the school didn't engage her sooner
Schools should not take the place of Parenting
Guidance & Counselling is not to take your Parental job
Parents are responsible to build Child's Character not School...
Stop pushing responsibilities... We should learn to be accountable too
Parenting now is so difficult because most children are living in a virtual world that parents cant get into and dont even understand.
If I may ask, assuming this video wasn’t seen would the act have elicited the concern and the discussion that it is having now. Remember the parent said that she was only told that the daughter kissed a boy only for the video to prove otherwise . Why not address issues and the decadence instead of trying to be a Pope
nyima is right....NT I blame our society....we accept alot of nonsense and what kids see us do they copy...just c how the girl is on social media dancing, and we see it as normal, had it been things like this are frowned at she wouldn't have reached here
Pls let pray for this family. I fill for the mother and her daughter. This is too much for this family
Madame, there is no need for prayers, this entire family must be ostracized from society before they come and pollute and traumatize us with their bad content.!
Boarding school is not common in America like Nigeria.When you give your responsibility to someone to raise your kids dt is what happened. Ds 10 years old is on tiktok twerking touching her herself up and down. The mother should go and ask all area brother who train their 10years to be a professional.
She is on tiktok?😳
They need to investigate and find the adults using these children for their evil afventures
@@rahmatmuhammad8736 Her social media handle which is 3 years old is called: Bhadgurl4k! And it is full of erotic content. So this girl is not naïve. I believe the school did what was necessary to rectify the situation after their investigations
She is 14
Imagine a 10 years teenagers she, s on tweeter, Instagram, Facebook, tittok, what is she doing on internet, This is the question we need to ask ourself, she knows Different style,s of Dance, strippers and stuff lime that.
How did a 10-year old know where to upload immoral videos? who uploaded the video ?
Well said yk
Are those children normal?
If that video resurfaced 10 years from now, nobody is going to care about the school.
But the girl will never be forgotten
I think kids doesn't exist again in Nigeria, even people at the age of 25years are already old the way they behave, this Nigeria society is a crazy society total break down in everything Nigeria. Politicians, police, judiciary, Agbero, journalists everything is gone.
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The school is a business unfortunately and they do what is best for them...now what do we have in place to support and counsel d children n family involved...this is not going to b d first or last of children abuse and trauma...as a society we need accessible and affordable counseling organizations for these kinds of this...blaming will not help of suffering mental health problems we have
Was it that they didn't invite her or that they invited her and she didn't show up.
She didn’t show up immediately…she even said it in the video she made
Well what i can say is that this act has been happening for2 decades, i know what i am saying, Thank God for technology, honestly when i saw the video, its just like when they were playing, the 10 years old teenager was on top of boy, and some guys was there too, i think this lady has been spoiled since, They have been practising this nonsense amongs and themselve before. She really enjoyed it, i must tell the fact.
Love Nyma’s passion here. Yes, her parent may have failed in their parenting. That child is a child and somebody or a grown man might have been molesting that child at home or at school. So they need to investigate further. However, the school has also failed on their managing of this case. How can they have the knowledge of what happened at the trip, but they called the mother and said it was just a kiss? The mother said they even told her not to tell the father. Immediately the school knew this was a sex act, they supposed to have invited the parents and tell them everything they know. How can they wait a whole month before telling the parents while their child’s sex video was flying all over the internet. That child could have done something dangerous to herself. It seems like the school cares more about their image, than the child. The school need to face repercussions for that. We have to remember this is a child, no matter how spoiled you think the child is. The child needs a lot of therapy and love from the parents at this time to help with her mental health
I believe that child had been abuse
Honestly I think journalist need to analyze issues objectively and consider the context of issues. So many hanging questions! It is also important to consider the timeline of this case. Question1 :
Why was this video out just after the mother of this girl spoke that her daughter was molested?
Who released the video?
What step did the school take to properly and holistically address the issue?
Yes I agree the school is as culpable as the parent? The child spends 3 terms as a boarding student which is a total of 36/37 weeks at school with 16 weeks at home. And talking about western world, this is a different story entirely because it's a boarding school and kids over 12 year old in western world sort of have their own opinion on things not that the social services won't be involved but it is not solely parent fault in this case as this is a boarding house. And why is only the girl's parent that is being bashed. The boys are as culpable as the girl. Plus we only saw the part the recorder wanted us to see, how about the boy's part. Honestly it's high time tv stations start bringing in experts in their field of discussions who can always analyze issues objectively and in an holistic manner!
Uncle, the video only went viral after. If you were hearing, the mother mentioned that another mother showed her the video online.
This nonsense act is happening Everywhere now, imagine a small girls having a 24k follower on internet, before u can check her account you need to subscribe imagine.
COULD THE CHILD B PREGNANT
JESUS CHRIST LOVES Y'ALL REPENT EVERYONE HE HIS COMING VERY SOON, HALLELUYAH
Your INSANE.
Over religiosity. If u have nothing to say, just skip.
Ladies please learn to handle only one aspect (centre of an issue/occurrence/incident) to be able to put even justice on the specific incidence and not to muddy your conversation or just present arguments like a debate.
Children are children, and cases involving minors should be wisely justify by questioning the adults(workers/authority)that assumed the responsibility over the children at the crime scene.
Morayo can you stop interjecting Nyma, please!!! How can Morayo say character building is for parents only. Children spend a lot of hours in school compared to even at home. How can you say character building is not a requirement of the school?
Murayo isn't upto scratch to head such program not on TV not anywhere. She lacks the education and training on journalism. Moreover, her poor diction and speech makes to compensate by shouting, interrupting , impecience and sheer rudeness intolerable to watch. I feel for the other women
@@werqzeleke2815 hmmm, that's quite harsh every one is a work in progress. She is a fantastic moderator but remember she tries to balance most people's opinions and tries to see how to change their mindsets even when they don't voice it out, they are thinking it. It can be annoying especially when you see things black and white with rarely gray areas.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. We all cannot see things from the same angle and lens. What she said is what has led a lot of our Nigerian schools to be where they are currently. We all have to do better honestly.
Ma ....if u are in d system u will under stand what motunrayo is saying
I don’t agree with you
Children spend 8-9hours in school out of 24 hours in a day and they’re not coaching only one child
It’s is the responsibility of the parents to train their child well and then the teacher will take up from there…the primary responsibility of a teacher is to impact knowledge academically to these children…every other thing is secondary
You don’t expect a teacher to start from scratch and train your child for you…a job that you as a parent has failed to do
@@blessingadaeze1205 I am not saying the teacher does the training completely or starts from scratch. Schooling, especially in the early formative years is not about academics alone. You learn social skills, interpersonal relationships, basic discipline like being punctual, submitting home work as when due ( diligence), cleanliness back then, don't know about now, sometimes spirituality if you go to a religious school and much more. If you calculate 8-9hrs for 5 days x 4months at a stretch... School and schooling should not and cannot be for academics alone in the formative years. It does not take the responsibility off the parents. It is not one child at a time, there are academic and ethical standards that ought to be met per school policy.
Morayo for goodness sake, why do u always always interrupt wen ur co-ladies are expressing themselves...it really is annoying....
She is the moderator!
She has to be conscious of time and ensure the topic of discussion is maintained
Exactly, the work of moderator. She's in charge
Ever heard of a moderator?
I dont know why Nyma keep shouting the school name.....the parents are to be blamed 100%. how many hours do kids spend in school for God sakes. You want a school to teach and protect your kids from what you failed to do....haba
The school put boys on 10th floor and girls on 4th floor is that not enough separation?? So their kids can't just be normal?? The teachers have to sleep in the same room with them?? The same parents who refuse schools to discipline their kids are now blaming kids for their waywardness. The same parents that sit at home to watch big brother with their kids even commenting why would they not expect their kids to act it at any given chance?? They give their kids the latest phones and data unlimited to what end???
💯 she is just ranting
Even if the parents did not do their job it does not mean the school should not provide a place of sanity and safety were such thing could happen. When they go home they can continue with their nasty ways that their parents have failed to address. Remember this could be someone sneaking in to kill or poison these kids or even disguise as anyone. That should have been a supervisor 24hrs with these kids. Kids can’t be left alone on school trip. The school failed to provide a place of safety and sanity for the kids. I guess they went shopping and sightseeing..
Thank you….how many hours to they spend in school which is very wrong
THE PHONES IN A STUDIO SO BACKWARD AND PRIMITIVE.
You can buy other gadgets for them
@@edowitch4703 how do you know?
@@tuforu4 you critic the presenters using phones on the studio, you can as well buy a better device for them. You don't critic without proffering solutions
@@edowitch4703 their phones are not broken.
NIGERIA is very wealthy.
@@tuforu4 Nigeria is a wealthy country on paper not the reality.
Tope not Lagos parents o
When some mother's especially in Lagos would ask you to mind your business
Tope correct who ???? ! Not this generation of mother's o 🤷
I'm speaking from experience! So I do respect my size and age whenever someone's child is involved Biko
Why is this woman shouting and blaming the school only?
What is this emotional bullshit?
How many children can the school monitor?
The parents have the biggest blame.
Legally and morally the school is to blame. They had 100% custody of these kids at that time.
Very BACKWARD NIGERIA
D school are nt to be blamed at all
@@josephineifeoma5449 nt?
The school is responsible for everything they did after, how they handled the situation.