As an ENTP with Ne and Ti i feel so introverted because my inner dialogue NEVER stops. Its like I'm constantly having a never ending conversation and sometimes a real person comes along and i turn my voice on and speak and then voice off and i still talk to myself as if I'm being interrogated😂 makes me feel psycho. Even if I'm listening to something or someone my mind can be thinking of new possibilities for different areas by one triggering word that person uses. I often feel misunderstood for that reason.
When walking alone, do you assess every possible outcome from talking to a bypasser to getting crushed by a meteor with every step you take? I do this with everything lol
This is extremely relatable as a fellow ENTP I am never not thinking! Sometimes I thought I said something but it doesnt even exit my mouth or I can tune out what people are saying because my mind is constantly tapping a database of word association regarding something they said that triggered it. I will also forget what I am doing physically if something gets me really thinking! For example I will be walking into a room to try to locate snd grab an object but on the way there Im thinking about why I need the object and how it relates to the world then I look at something or hear something that reminds me of something else and then by the time my body autopiloted itself to the room my mind is thinking of something completley different then When I started walking there leading to the inevitable question What was I looking for?
As an ENFP, I also relate to this too. I don't necessarily need to socialize and often prefer to be alone, constantly learning about things that interest me, which is why I thought I might be an introvert. But whenever I need to work through a concept, I find it's easiest to formulate my thoughts and gain insight by imagining that I'm talking to someone. I was surprised to learn that not everyone does that :D But when I find another Ne dom in real life who shares my interests, then we can talk non-stop for hours, jumping from idea to idea super fast and often having several different conversations at the same time, while still effortlessly being able to follow each other's train of thought.
I relate to this but not all the time, I'd say somewhere around 40% of the the time 60% of the time is silence. But when it's on it seems never ending. Am thankful am not the only one, was beginning to think I was mad.
NE dom here, I'm a ENFP. "They don't always need someone to listen they can just talk to their selfs." 😂👌Accurate lol "NE's don't like routine." Yesss HAHA😂Today I just wanna be free! Kakaw!✌🤙🏄♀️🌎
I'm an entp and I agree with a lot of what you said about Ne doms. Except I think what makes me an extrovert is the fact that I have to externalize all my thoughts/ideas. It's almost relieving and therapeutic to do so. To spend all day just bottling up my ideas or "talking to myself" is draining. Lol and it really bothers me when someone won't listen or engage or encourage my ideas--which is why it can be frustrating to live with a sensing dominant type who always want to just do
I’m an Ne Dom and I definitely feel like an introvert and usually choose to do stuff by myself but I have to admit that spending long periods of time by myself makes me sluggish, whereas meeting and chatting with people I like makes me feel more animated and alive. So I might have a personal preference for being alone but it’s clear what gives me more energy. Without people, I am left to pace up and down and talk to myself about my ideas and thoughts. 🤪 I guess what’s great about that is that you can give yourself full disclosure, the kind of honesty you can’t share with friends. You can only be really yourself when alone, I feel, which maybe adds to the appeal, and being out and with people means having to use my Fe a lot more, which I hate.
3:35, I don't think extroverts are necessarily "people oriented", I think they're in tune with something relating to the external world, including people. ^ ^
I understand extroversion and introversion as how the person gets energy: either from the outside world or from going inward. So extroverts are not necessarily people oriented, but they do seek outward stimuli to "charge their batteries". People/ socializing are normally an easy, quick source of outward stimuli for an extrovert to collect energy from. They can also get energy just by walking a mall by themselves not talking to anyone (idk a better example because I'm an introvert lol). But that's why some extroverts might be described as geared towards people, because they seek that energy. That's how an introvert can like socializing and can be people oriented as well, but needs to go home or to a "safe, quiet place" where they can go into their internal worlds to get energy back. Being around people (which is very stimulating) to an introvert costs energy where an extrovert receives energy.
It is ineed often described that this is how introversion and estroversion are defined, by 'how do you recharge your energy", but i'd say this devision is too simple. I'd say an extrovert bascically has their cameras aimed outwards , hence experienced the outside world more than their inner world, and an introvert has their cameras aimed inwords, and experiences their inner world more intensily. If you put an extrovert in a room full of people they dislike, they might even experience this more intensily (negatively) than the introvert. The introvert is half of the time tuned out in their thoughts, so experiences only half of it and dreams away in their inner world. However, the extrovert gets pushed in all these extroverted sensations whether he/she wants it or not. After all, all the cameras are aimed towards that direction.
@@PickNicole I can give you plenty of examples: Swimming, rollerblading, skateboarding, biking, playing tag, playing hide and seek, ice skating, building snowmen, gymnastics etc. Why yes, I was using examples from my own childhood.
@@PowerRedBullTypology As an extrovert, I can definitely tune out of my environment (and the people in it) thanks to Ti parent. Similiarly, an ESJ can tune out their external world by using their Si parent. Ditto for EFPs and Fi parent and ENJs and Ni parent.
You are so right about Se doms!!! My mom's an ESFP and her reflexes are incredible. When dangerous or scary things happen, most people freeze (including me--I get stuck trying to analyze and think of the best possible action), but my mom acts really fast--she reacts really fast!
As a Te dom, having Fi inferior doesn’t necessarily manifest in disregarding others emotions, but more disregarding our own. I don’t know about other Te doms, but having Fi inferior manifests in the sense that I can’t identify when I am overworking myself and spreading myself too thin because I objectively disconnect from my own feelings.
Watched this to understand my ESTP dad (I’m an INFJ) and this cleared a lot up. He does not care about my opinions or emotions, just wants us to have the kind of relationship where we hang out and go bike riding or to concerts together. He’s a ski instructor and a photographer, loves systems, loves to be around people, but talks over everyone and never considers if what he says hurts others feelings... we basically have nothing in common except being related. I guess it’s not that he doesn’t care, it’s just not what his brain is trained to focus on.
I don't think Ne doms are the most removed from reality, just less concerned about present physical circumstances. As an ENTP, I am constantly checking in with my Ti database. What happens in the moment is important, but I naturally think about other things I've learned from previous situations to see the possible directions a current event could go. I suppose that can look a lot like being in your own world, but it's still influenced by external factors. Great video by the way, I'm enjoying your channel a lot.
Lmao I can see myself doing that as an INFP. I tend to save useless paper that's been printed on one side, to sometime use it for drawing or writing in the future, but I rarely actually use them so in the end I just have stuff lying around for no purpose, for the case that I MIGHT need it later.
@@chiaram3469 Funnily enough, just yesterday I had an interview for a school I'm applying to, and I happened to have some useless paper lying around on my desk when I had to make notes for some questions. It all worked out great :D
To clarify, Te doms are TASK oriented. In the DISC personality matrix, that would be the extrovert 'D' -dominant type. Still usually need to interact with people, but less for the sake of connection. As an ENTJ I deeply care about people, including if they feel happy or not. My tendency is to not like people or social interaction because the VAST majority of people do social interaction for reasons totally irrelevant to my interests (e.g. to get sensations or give sensations in the moment, to feel some emotion, to not be alone, to JUSTIFY their problems, to be popular, to enforce social norms) and its hard to get them to articulate it - which would be interesting actually. They seem fine with mediocrity or not interested in bringing out their best selves to the world. That would take a lot of painful self reflection and hard work. The hardest thing to learn was to hold back unsolicited advice and divert my efforts to optimising things in other ways. Instead I've developed a habit of being more subtle with advice, which is even less effective!! Lol. I want to be a giver but tend to receive more from interaction because of set intentions eg. To learn a new perspective, improve my social skills, see how something lands etc. As I get older, there seem fewer things to gain from the relationships and I'm becoming more introverted writing books, designing systems and courses etc. for those who care and can make the improvement possible. While I think it's awesome we have such a variety of people with different strengths and concerns, happiness and wellbeing is declining, school system failing, our technology has outpaced our social evolution and I think we need more NJs to be foreceful at a tough time like that - at least to prevent WWIII or Idiocracy before they happen. Maybe even learn from each other. Once things are better - feel free to ignore us. We won't be able to stop being ourselves, as you yourselves. XD
These girls are cool and fun examples of their types! Many infp's and intj's can come off a lil "lost in my little projects" and y'all are very engaging.
I always get the result of INTP but when I think of it somehow it feels that I'm an ENTP that never made it (long story short: growing up in the ruins of post-Soviet Union sucked big time). Or it could just be that my secondary Ne is more expressive. But I can relate a lot to the Ne part.
Omg my dad is such a Te dom. He's always trying to force his thoughts and opinions onto the rest of the family. He wants things to be done in a certain way and if it's not done in that way he will argue with you, he never takes our feelings into account. He'll raise his voice, talking like "I'm right, you're so dumb for thinking otherwise" and if we don't agree with him he repeats the same thing again. He says "I'm tryna make you understand, you don't seem to understand so I have to say it again". I do understand your perspective, I might just think that there are other ways to view things. You're the one who doesn't understand that your perspective isn't the only right one and that it isn't black or white...
Extroverts do not have to be that people orientated. They are , at least in my view, mostly just "outside world orientated". The Fe's doms are indeed outside-world-HARMONISE-PEOPLE orientated, but the Te DOMs's are actually more outside-world-ACHIEVE-THINGS-oriented. People in the outside world to an TE dominant are just 'things' they have to deal with in order to get to their goal. A typical car salesman (typical TE) sees people as things he needs to deal with in order to achieve his goal.. In a sense you could call it people orientated since they do in a degree (have to ) deal with people, but i'd say that term "people orientated" is a little bit too positive for them in my view.
INTJ: Yeah, I totally agree. I think I mentioned it in the beginning, and I was trying to show how the extrovert besides Fe doms might be people-oriented in a non-traditional way, but maybe that didn't come across.
Let me just say this as a Te Dominant person, I DO NOT SEE PEOPLE AS THINGS. Whoever sees people as an Object probably has a mental illness/issues. We may not be capable to fill the emotional needs of everyone but we DO CARE FOR PEOPLE. We just manifest it in a different way. In a way we think we're good at like organizing, providing security and stability. And this might not be PEOPLE ORIENTED to some but we do this for the people too, specially for the ones we care about. So it's not like we don't want to connect with people, we just can't do it in a "feeler" way. Same as to how people can't stop feeling things and being emotional in a situation, we too cannot stop thinking about organizing things or improving situations. It's like built in our system since birth. So Please DO NOT MISTYPE US AS SOCIO/PSYCHOPATH. And I'm tired of people judging Te Doms as "Evil Manipulators" Or "Selfish Acheiver"
I agree with Hei Anh, and I'm a Te dominant as well. I definitely do NOT see people as things or as mere means to an end. The way I show that I care is just very different from an Fe dominant person. I generally show that I care either by spending time with them (and I don't give out my time lightly, because I always have like a dozen projects going on at any point in time) or I will do things for them (or offer solutions to their problems if they come to me for advice). In fact, I will run myself ragged for my loved ones.
Sometimes I get super depressed but this always makes me really happy and oddly enough it also makes me want to drink coffee. Thanks thanks thanks thanks
I believe I am an Infj, maybe an Enfj. My dad is either an ISFJ, Istj, or Intj. He is a preacher and his way is basically the only way. He loves debates. He likes to pin you in and I hate it but I dearly love him- he means well. My mom is an Esfj and lovely cares about me and everyone. I was not aware of my Ni for a long time. I take Se in without realizing and have an immediate feeling/impression (Ni) how to respond-which now I am learning better to recall my experience that gave me my feeling/idea. I was really sheltered, home schooled, and had a slight speech problem that has taken time to get over as far as being secure in communication. I really relate to an Enfj, but I am considered an introvert maybe because of a nurture problem. There are people that say they did not realize I was an introvert and others that just think I am nervous. Which I am. 😊 I have anxiety, sometimes it is worse. I feel people’s positive and negative energy- it affects me very much. I definitely am a strong Fe user and how I gather (Se) is much more understood at 32 years of age instead of just getting my Ni or Ne and not knowing exactly how when I was younger. I like to talk out loud or in my head- very busy and I am always mostly analyzing relational things and feelings. I like to keep busy and be my best for others. I get depressed if I do not feel productive in some sense- whether its making things nice, helping others or learning more about how we relate. I do not watch tv unless it is with someone who wants me to. I hate wasting time. I need to get typed. 😜
Now that I think about it,Se doms are always interested in photography and food.They like food buffets.Se doms may be in groups but it does not feel like they are the leader.They blend in with their surroundings in a way.They fit in.Se doms are not very noisy too among the extroverts.They may even have this peaceful "zen" aura.And what u said about them moving from one place to another hits the nail on the head.Fe doms are always inviting people.They exude this friendly aura.Fe doms can be very loud,in fact maybe even the loudest among the extroverts.Emotional potency yes.Fe doms you can just see that they are good at dealing with people.Te doms they give off this forceful aura.Don't know any Te dom except a teacher lol.Ne doms can be erratic or flighty.This is especially obvious in messaging.Ne doms can be talking and talking even if you are not listening lol.They are usually with a group of people to talk to,to bounce off ideas of.They'll talk more than the average person if they do talk.They may tell a lot of jokes or be humorous.They just always have something to share with people I guess.One last thing,Se doms are good with people too.Second best.Why second best?Fe doms are the best at it,because unlike Se doms,they can affect the emotional environment.Everyone likes Se doms (especially ESFPs).Nobody seems to be able to hate them.
as an ESTP i’m more like this than the stereotypical jock-party-person one. people like me a lot and like almost immediately even if i don’t make deep connections with them - for me, that’s my favorite quality about myself, because i do struggle with being a bit too impulsive and like not sticking with things through the end. i also had a lot of social fears i’m still dealing off with so i might come off as shaky when i’m not comfortable. but my family helps me with that a lot and yeah, i’m trying my best. also, i do love sensory experiences but i grew up on the internet so i don’t really need all that bungee(is that how it’s spelled??) jumping and crazy adventures haha. fast-marathoning series’ and trying new snacks/clothes/etc is quite fun too. but maybe not as cool?
I'm definitely an Ne dom, I always have to air my ideas, it can get overwhelming to my family members. I also don't do routine unless I have to, even then its a struggle for me.
By your initial definition, I'd definitely say I'm Fe dominant (I'm an ENFP highschooler by the way, hehe) I feel like I almost unintentionally shift my personality around certain people, just to get along with and understand them better. I can also pick up on peoples underlying emotions even if they aren't super obvious (if that makes any sense) Awesome content you got here! I've been binge watching your vids LOL, you guys seem like cool peeps! :D It's really cool to look into the different personalities of people, I find it so fascinating. Keep up the good work!
The Type Tips guy theorizes that we all have strong albeit less intentional/conscious "shadow" functions sort of parallel to our conscious ones. Enfp's do in fact have strong Fe but maybe you could say it's not as primary a goal / intrinsically motivating as for a "conscious" Fe-dom.
entj here and just wanted to make a point that i found the flower ears commentary particularly fitting, as it was the first thought that crossed my mind when the video popped up. i've always found it frustrating (not the person but the idea that such a thing would happen) when someone did something just because they liked it because i always thought, "but WHY? what's the concrete reasoning behind it?" (i understand people might not always do things for a conscious purpose--they do them just because they like them--but it just feels illogical/pointless/confusing in a way.) and just wanted to say that she is almost a carbon copy of my sister (who also happens to be an infp) hahahahaha ;'D when it comes to manner of speech and mannerisms. find it all very amusing :D
hey ladies. I'm almost 50 and have NEVER, ever know a SENSATE that knows about the MBTI, ever. Of course, this is the internet, so anything goes... But the reality is that 99% of your videos will be seen by INTUITIVES. I would tailor your videos to them. Love, INFP
awesome, u guys ~ again, i could watch over&over. It's great to get personalized perspectives (re mbti), esp by 2 obviously educated/ interested folk...and FUNny** (enfp, i think...unless i'm infp -- DAMNIT!!)
Yes, Se is possibilities as well as Ne, lots of people forget this and they are like "This person/I see possibilities definitely Ne." That's why lots of Se doms get mistyped as Ne doms because they are opportunity seekers with lots of hobbies.
My sister is a controlling ESTJ. My dad is a controlling ESTJ. My mom is a mean ESTP. My brother is a mean ESTP. ESTPs can be mean and sneaky. ESFPs are not mean but can be sneaky.
Im an Ne Dom and i think im too extroverted for the introverts, but too introverted for the extroverted sensors and feelers. I used to think that i was an "Ambivert" but im Ne. Im ENFP.
Literally everything about every "type" applies to me in spades and I tested for ENFP. I feel like boxing people into an archetype limits the capacity for a true understanding of human nature. It's not this simple. No one person, especially an extrovert, can be fully described with one of these types. Everyone, especially extroverts, have some aspect of every single one of the types. the 5-factor model is vastly superior for this reason. It measures specific traits on a graph that apply to your personality. It's often much more accurate as a result, and doesn't label you a "type," it just measures specific traits about your personality. I know it's fun to do this, but they're horoscopes with at least some scientific foundation. There's a reason this system was discounted decades ago. It's just not scientifically accurate nor is it an effective tool for measuring specific personality traits.
Well if enfp never stop talking and they still don't say everything about what are they thinking, I just can imagine how many hours they can be talking xd
ENTPs are more extroverted than ENFPs, because of the cognitive functiions. ENFP's third function is Fe, extraverted feeling, while ENFPs third function is Te
Se doms scare the shit out of me lmao. I️ guess it’s because I’m an INFP and Se is my weakest function, but Jesus do Se doms make me uncomfortable sometimes 0_o
I wonder, how does an Fe dom use Fe when they’re alone? Or when they’re making decisions that only affect them? Suddenly the “social atmosphere” doesn’t seem relevant anymore
When Fe doms are alone, they will begin processing with their introverted perceiving functions (Ni or Si). Most of their processing will include thinking about people they know, what they can do for others, how they can better connect. ENFJs are more okay with being alone, I would say. Ni focuses more on patterns, so it takes longer to connect everything they've learned out using their Fe. When alone making decisions, the ENFJ might imagine the other person's, or group's, reaction and think about the best fit in regards to the whole. When spending time alone they will be analyzing their Fe experiences in accordance with their Ni vision --- researching humanitarian topics/sharing thoughts on social media/commenting with others/making youtube videos -- SOMETHING for the public. ESFJs want to actually be with people more often/talk to them over the phone. They like to hear your voice and ask about your life. When they are truly alone they will begin using Si to plan for the future, cook for others, evaluate their lives and the lives of those close to them, thinking up ideas to please others.
They get into researching, writing stuff, wold building, character building, animating movies in their head, planning stuff to talk about and discuss online/ share publicly? Thinking about self: "What do I want to do for myself that will help make the world a better place?"
Im an infj so Fe is secondary function and i have to agree with what people say here. I didnt develop my Ni that great growing so I think my Fe is especially well developed. Alone time is spent with a social purpose. I have serious problems with social media and forums: I will spend all my alone time on them interacting with people, so i had to delete my accounts. I will plan out conversations for the next time i see people or work thru the best way to word something on my mind, or ruminate on recent social interactions. And the creativity stuff of character building already mentioned. I like having youtube on constantly lol its nice having people to listen to in the background, or reading articles/learning weird random crap.
Around 3:23 Hmm. I've heard people say that it's very obvious when an INTP is mad, for instance, even if we're not aware that we're mad or are unwilling to admit it. So with inferior Fe users, I think there's less intent, per se, but still clarity, in a way. Maybe.
I think I am the 1and the 3 extrovert! Okay I can be very random. So the 4th as well. My sister is the 2 and my mom is mostly 1. I thought all women are extroverts and men were introverts because that is how my parents but I found out that was not always true. A friend of mine is an introvert which blow up my theory. Because she is a wonderful woman!
I kind of disagree with your statement about the Fe dom always needing people when the Ne dom doesn't. Then again I'm borderline on the J/P and borderline on the E/I. How I work with my alone time is turning inward into my mind and doing worldbuilding and and make up story characters and expanding my imagination. Or if I am not focusing on writing, then I am working on art and having an internal monologue running in my mind of things I want to say or talk about if the situation arises. It's kind of like planning a speech. Whatever it is that I am working on tends to be planned for sharing to the public eventually. Outwardly that may appear very ENxP/ INxP, but the more I talk about it, it is the same world and the same main characters and different aspects of their lives. Parts of the stuff in my internal monologue may come up later in speech or writing.
Yeah I’ve tested as an INTP/J (P type with J tendencies, probably due to upbringing and autism), but many people have thought that I’m an extrovert… so I wonder if I’m an ENTP because I test very strongly with Ne, sometimes more than Ti! But then I also test high/well on Si and Fi, which many ENTPs are weak at… help! Can someone give me some questions to determine which I am?
How do you tell an Fe vs Te dom apart. I have a friend and he seems similar to both Te and Fe. Like he is very loving and supportive, but then he tends to want to solve my problems instead of offering a sympathetic ear, as well as avoiding expressing his sadness in public.
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The question is,when are they ever alone? When they are alone,it's usually after a long period of extroversion. They will still be exhausted after using their Fe for such a long period of time and will be using other functions after that. I don't know about other dom Fe users except my mother and grandfather but my mom will be watching shows,movies,videos. My grandfather will be videocalling someone and more lol.
INFP: Interesting scenario! I don't know if Fe can manifest if the user is alone in the world. Perhaps Fe Ni would become depressed, and Fe Ne would attribute emotional tones to inanimate objects.
I'm an INTP male with some good Te-dom friends, and I like it sometimes where they give me endless debates where I can logically dazzle them, but that habit really rubs me the wrong way too. Goes completely against my live & let live attitude. You can make suggestions if someone asks, but they LOVE to just, completely uninvited, tell people what to do to (in the Te-dom's mind) better themself.
Ok I feel like I'm an ENTP who's just really dumb. Like I have a lot of ideas normally, but sometimes I can't like in group activities. Also like I'm really awkward in social situations.
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As an ENTP with Ne and Ti i feel so introverted because my inner dialogue NEVER stops. Its like I'm constantly having a never ending conversation and sometimes a real person comes along and i turn my voice on and speak and then voice off and i still talk to myself as if I'm being interrogated😂 makes me feel psycho. Even if I'm listening to something or someone my mind can be thinking of new possibilities for different areas by one triggering word that person uses. I often feel misunderstood for that reason.
When walking alone, do you assess every possible outcome from talking to a bypasser to getting crushed by a meteor with every step you take? I do this with everything lol
@@miguemigue6969 yes. If people heard my inner voice they would think I was paranoid af lol.
This is extremely relatable as a fellow ENTP I am never not thinking! Sometimes I thought I said something but it doesnt even exit my mouth or I can tune out what people are saying because my mind is constantly tapping a database of word association regarding something they said that triggered it. I will also forget what I am doing physically if something gets me really thinking! For example I will be walking into a room to try to locate snd grab an object but on the way there Im thinking about why I need the object and how it relates to the world then I look at something or hear something that reminds me of something else and then by the time my body autopiloted itself to the room my mind is thinking of something completley different then When I started walking there leading to the inevitable question What was I looking for?
As an ENFP, I also relate to this too. I don't necessarily need to socialize and often prefer to be alone, constantly learning about things that interest me, which is why I thought I might be an introvert. But whenever I need to work through a concept, I find it's easiest to formulate my thoughts and gain insight by imagining that I'm talking to someone. I was surprised to learn that not everyone does that :D But when I find another Ne dom in real life who shares my interests, then we can talk non-stop for hours, jumping from idea to idea super fast and often having several different conversations at the same time, while still effortlessly being able to follow each other's train of thought.
I relate to this but not all the time, I'd say somewhere around 40% of the the time 60% of the time is silence. But when it's on it seems never ending. Am thankful am not the only one, was beginning to think I was mad.
NE dom here, I'm a ENFP.
"They don't always need someone to listen they can just talk to their selfs." 😂👌Accurate lol
"NE's don't like routine." Yesss HAHA😂Today I just wanna be free! Kakaw!✌🤙🏄♀️🌎
Routine sucks!! >:D free live !!!
I'm an entp and I agree with a lot of what you said about Ne doms. Except I think what makes me an extrovert is the fact that I have to externalize all my thoughts/ideas. It's almost relieving and therapeutic to do so. To spend all day just bottling up my ideas or "talking to myself" is draining. Lol and it really bothers me when someone won't listen or engage or encourage my ideas--which is why it can be frustrating to live with a sensing dominant type who always want to just do
I’m an Ne Dom and I definitely feel like an introvert and usually choose to do stuff by myself but I have to admit that spending long periods of time by myself makes me sluggish, whereas meeting and chatting with people I like makes me feel more animated and alive. So I might have a personal preference for being alone but it’s clear what gives me more energy. Without people, I am left to pace up and down and talk to myself about my ideas and thoughts. 🤪 I guess what’s great about that is that you can give yourself full disclosure, the kind of honesty you can’t share with friends. You can only be really yourself when alone, I feel, which maybe adds to the appeal, and being out and with people means having to use my Fe a lot more, which I hate.
3:35, I don't think extroverts are necessarily "people oriented", I think they're in tune with something relating to the external world, including people. ^ ^
I understand extroversion and introversion as how the person gets energy: either from the outside world or from going inward. So extroverts are not necessarily people oriented, but they do seek outward stimuli to "charge their batteries". People/ socializing are normally an easy, quick source of outward stimuli for an extrovert to collect energy from. They can also get energy just by walking a mall by themselves not talking to anyone (idk a better example because I'm an introvert lol). But that's why some extroverts might be described as geared towards people, because they seek that energy.
That's how an introvert can like socializing and can be people oriented as well, but needs to go home or to a "safe, quiet place" where they can go into their internal worlds to get energy back. Being around people (which is very stimulating) to an introvert costs energy where an extrovert receives energy.
It is ineed often described that this is how introversion and estroversion are defined, by 'how do you recharge your energy", but i'd say this devision is too simple. I'd say an extrovert bascically has their cameras aimed outwards , hence experienced the outside world more than their inner world, and an introvert has their cameras aimed inwords, and experiences their inner world more intensily. If you put an extrovert in a room full of people they dislike, they might even experience this more intensily (negatively) than the introvert. The introvert is half of the time tuned out in their thoughts, so experiences only half of it and dreams away in their inner world. However, the extrovert gets pushed in all these extroverted sensations whether he/she wants it or not. After all, all the cameras are aimed towards that direction.
@@PickNicole I can give you plenty of examples: Swimming, rollerblading, skateboarding, biking, playing tag, playing hide and seek, ice skating, building snowmen, gymnastics etc. Why yes, I was using examples from my own childhood.
@@PowerRedBullTypology As an extrovert, I can definitely tune out of my environment (and the people in it) thanks to Ti parent. Similiarly, an ESJ can tune out their external world by using their Si parent. Ditto for EFPs and Fi parent and ENJs and Ni parent.
@@ErinDavila76 Nailed it with a Te ;)
Yess! My ENTP husband always swears he’s introverted. I’m an INTJ over here thinking... uhhh, no you’re not. 😂
You are so right about Se doms!!! My mom's an ESFP and her reflexes are incredible. When dangerous or scary things happen, most people freeze (including me--I get stuck trying to analyze and think of the best possible action), but my mom acts really fast--she reacts really fast!
As a Te dom, having Fi inferior doesn’t necessarily manifest in disregarding others emotions, but more disregarding our own. I don’t know about other Te doms, but having Fi inferior manifests in the sense that I can’t identify when I am overworking myself and spreading myself too thin because I objectively disconnect from my own feelings.
Watched this to understand my ESTP dad (I’m an INFJ) and this cleared a lot up. He does not care about my opinions or emotions, just wants us to have the kind of relationship where we hang out and go bike riding or to concerts together. He’s a ski instructor and a photographer, loves systems, loves to be around people, but talks over everyone and never considers if what he says hurts others feelings... we basically have nothing in common except being related. I guess it’s not that he doesn’t care, it’s just not what his brain is trained to focus on.
I don't think Ne doms are the most removed from reality, just less concerned about present physical circumstances. As an ENTP, I am constantly checking in with my Ti database. What happens in the moment is important, but I naturally think about other things I've learned from previous situations to see the possible directions a current event could go. I suppose that can look a lot like being in your own world, but it's still influenced by external factors.
Great video by the way, I'm enjoying your channel a lot.
Her notes are on a paper bag HAHAHAHA
Lmao I can see myself doing that as an INFP. I tend to save useless paper that's been printed on one side, to sometime use it for drawing or writing in the future, but I rarely actually use them so in the end I just have stuff lying around for no purpose, for the case that I MIGHT need it later.
@@era1442 same😂
@@chiaram3469 Funnily enough, just yesterday I had an interview for a school I'm applying to, and I happened to have some useless paper lying around on my desk when I had to make notes for some questions. It all worked out great :D
@@era1442 amazing😂😂
Ne Dom here who definitely needs people to express all my new ideas too...not quite the same simply talking to yourself !!
To clarify, Te doms are TASK oriented. In the DISC personality matrix, that would be the extrovert 'D' -dominant type. Still usually need to interact with people, but less for the sake of connection. As an ENTJ I deeply care about people, including if they feel happy or not. My tendency is to not like people or social interaction because the VAST majority of people do social interaction for reasons totally irrelevant to my interests (e.g. to get sensations or give sensations in the moment, to feel some emotion, to not be alone, to JUSTIFY their problems, to be popular, to enforce social norms) and its hard to get them to articulate it - which would be interesting actually. They seem fine with mediocrity or not interested in bringing out their best selves to the world. That would take a lot of painful self reflection and hard work. The hardest thing to learn was to hold back unsolicited advice and divert my efforts to optimising things in other ways. Instead I've developed a habit of being more subtle with advice, which is even less effective!! Lol.
I want to be a giver but tend to receive more from interaction because of set intentions eg. To learn a new perspective, improve my social skills, see how something lands etc. As I get older, there seem fewer things to gain from the relationships and I'm becoming more introverted writing books, designing systems and courses etc. for those who care and can make the improvement possible.
While I think it's awesome we have such a variety of people with different strengths and concerns, happiness and wellbeing is declining, school system failing, our technology has outpaced our social evolution and I think we need more NJs to be foreceful at a tough time like that - at least to prevent WWIII or Idiocracy before they happen. Maybe even learn from each other. Once things are better - feel free to ignore us. We won't be able to stop being ourselves, as you yourselves. XD
INFPs are my favorite type! They are so fascinating!
These girls are cool and fun examples of their types! Many infp's and intj's can come off a lil "lost in my little projects" and y'all are very engaging.
I always get the result of INTP but when I think of it somehow it feels that I'm an ENTP that never made it (long story short: growing up in the ruins of post-Soviet Union sucked big time). Or it could just be that my secondary Ne is more expressive. But I can relate a lot to the Ne part.
I am an ESTP, and yes it's true, I don't ever make long-term plans and day-to-day schedule. I don't won't to compromise my freedom.
Omg my dad is such a Te dom. He's always trying to force his thoughts and opinions onto the rest of the family. He wants things to be done in a certain way and if it's not done in that way he will argue with you, he never takes our feelings into account. He'll raise his voice, talking like "I'm right, you're so dumb for thinking otherwise" and if we don't agree with him he repeats the same thing again. He says "I'm tryna make you understand, you don't seem to understand so I have to say it again". I do understand your perspective, I might just think that there are other ways to view things. You're the one who doesn't understand that your perspective isn't the only right one and that it isn't black or white...
Extroverts do not have to be that people orientated. They are , at least in my view, mostly just "outside world orientated". The Fe's doms are indeed outside-world-HARMONISE-PEOPLE orientated, but the Te DOMs's are actually more outside-world-ACHIEVE-THINGS-oriented. People in the outside world to an TE dominant are just 'things' they have to deal with in order to get to their goal. A typical car salesman (typical TE) sees people as things he needs to deal with in order to achieve his goal.. In a sense you could call it people orientated since they do in a degree (have to ) deal with people, but i'd say that term "people orientated" is a little bit too positive for them in my view.
INTJ: Yeah, I totally agree. I think I mentioned it in the beginning, and I was trying to show how the extrovert besides Fe doms might be people-oriented in a non-traditional way, but maybe that didn't come across.
Let me just say this as a Te Dominant person, I DO NOT SEE PEOPLE AS THINGS. Whoever sees people as an Object probably has a mental illness/issues.
We may not be capable to fill the emotional needs of everyone but we DO CARE FOR PEOPLE. We just manifest it in a different way. In a way we think we're good at like organizing, providing security and stability. And this might not be PEOPLE ORIENTED to some but we do this for the people too, specially for the ones we care about. So it's not like we don't want to connect with people, we just can't do it in a "feeler" way.
Same as to how people can't stop feeling things and being emotional in a situation, we too cannot stop thinking about organizing things or improving situations. It's like built in our system since birth.
So Please DO NOT MISTYPE US AS SOCIO/PSYCHOPATH. And I'm tired of people judging Te Doms as "Evil Manipulators" Or "Selfish Acheiver"
This took me the many years to figure this out!
I agree with Hei Anh, and I'm a Te dominant as well. I definitely do NOT see people as things or as mere means to an end. The way I show that I care is just very different from an Fe dominant person. I generally show that I care either by spending time with them (and I don't give out my time lightly, because I always have like a dozen projects going on at any point in time) or I will do things for them (or offer solutions to their problems if they come to me for advice). In fact, I will run myself ragged for my loved ones.
Sometimes I get super depressed but this always makes me really happy and oddly enough it also makes me want to drink coffee. Thanks thanks thanks thanks
I believe I am an Infj, maybe an Enfj. My dad is either an ISFJ, Istj, or Intj. He is a preacher and his way is basically the only way. He loves debates. He likes to pin you in and I hate it but I dearly love him- he means well. My mom is an Esfj and lovely cares about me and everyone. I was not aware of my Ni for a long time. I take Se in without realizing and have an immediate feeling/impression (Ni) how to respond-which now I am learning better to recall my experience that gave me my feeling/idea. I was really sheltered, home schooled, and had a slight speech problem that has taken time to get over as far as being secure in communication. I really relate to an Enfj, but I am considered an introvert maybe because of a nurture problem. There are people that say they did not realize I was an introvert and others that just think I am nervous. Which I am. 😊 I have anxiety, sometimes it is worse. I feel people’s positive and negative energy- it affects me very much. I definitely am a strong Fe user and how I gather (Se) is much more understood at 32 years of age instead of just getting my Ni or Ne and not knowing exactly how when I was younger.
I like to talk out loud or in my head- very busy and I am always mostly analyzing relational things and feelings. I like to keep busy and be my best for others. I get depressed if I do not feel productive in some sense- whether its making things nice, helping others or learning more about how we relate. I do not watch tv unless it is with someone who wants me to. I hate wasting time. I need to get typed. 😜
Now that I think about it,Se doms are always interested in photography and food.They like food buffets.Se doms may be in groups but it does not feel like they are the leader.They blend in with their surroundings in a way.They fit in.Se doms are not very noisy too among the extroverts.They may even have this peaceful "zen" aura.And what u said about them moving from one place to another hits the nail on the head.Fe doms are always inviting people.They exude this friendly aura.Fe doms can be very loud,in fact maybe even the loudest among the extroverts.Emotional potency yes.Fe doms you can just see that they are good at dealing with people.Te doms they give off this forceful aura.Don't know any Te dom except a teacher lol.Ne doms can be erratic or flighty.This is especially obvious in messaging.Ne doms can be talking and talking even if you are not listening lol.They are usually with a group of people to talk to,to bounce off ideas of.They'll talk more than the average person if they do talk.They may tell a lot of jokes or be humorous.They just always have something to share with people I guess.One last thing,Se doms are good with people too.Second best.Why second best?Fe doms are the best at it,because unlike Se doms,they can affect the emotional environment.Everyone likes Se doms (especially ESFPs).Nobody seems to be able to hate them.
There's a "anyone can talk to me" feeling with Se doms
Demon Windu When they are in a more introverted mode,u can see their Ni.It's not always obvious though.
as an ESTP i’m more like this than the stereotypical jock-party-person one. people like me a lot and like almost immediately even if i don’t make deep connections with them - for me, that’s my favorite quality about myself, because i do struggle with being a bit too impulsive and like not sticking with things through the end. i also had a lot of social fears i’m still dealing off with so i might come off as shaky when i’m not comfortable. but my family helps me with that a lot and yeah, i’m trying my best. also, i do love sensory experiences but i grew up on the internet so i don’t really need all that bungee(is that how it’s spelled??) jumping and crazy adventures haha. fast-marathoning series’ and trying new snacks/clothes/etc is quite fun too. but maybe not as cool?
I'm definitely an Ne dom, I always have to air my ideas, it can get overwhelming to my family members. I also don't do routine unless I have to, even then its a struggle for me.
By your initial definition, I'd definitely say I'm Fe dominant (I'm an ENFP highschooler by the way, hehe)
I feel like I almost unintentionally shift my personality around certain people, just to get along with and understand them better. I can also pick up on peoples underlying emotions even if they aren't super obvious (if that makes any sense)
Awesome content you got here! I've been binge watching your vids LOL, you guys seem like cool peeps! :D
It's really cool to look into the different personalities of people, I find it so fascinating. Keep up the good work!
fuzzychewbacca enfp's have dominant Ne...
The prophet Frank doesn't mean I have it, I know for a fact that I don't move my eyes that much when I talk
The Type Tips guy theorizes that we all have strong albeit less intentional/conscious "shadow" functions sort of parallel to our conscious ones. Enfp's do in fact have strong Fe but maybe you could say it's not as primary a goal / intrinsically motivating as for a "conscious" Fe-dom.
Consider INFJ
entj here and just wanted to make a point that i found the flower ears commentary particularly fitting, as it was the first thought that crossed my mind when the video popped up. i've always found it frustrating (not the person but the idea that such a thing would happen) when someone did something just because they liked it because i always thought, "but WHY? what's the concrete reasoning behind it?" (i understand people might not always do things for a conscious purpose--they do them just because they like them--but it just feels illogical/pointless/confusing in a way.) and just wanted to say that she is almost a carbon copy of my sister (who also happens to be an infp) hahahahaha ;'D when it comes to manner of speech and mannerisms. find it all very amusing :D
"but why? What's the concrete reasoning behind it", is also my thought process as an Se dom/Ti parent aka ESTP.
I found this so helpful, thanks for sharing! 😊
hey ladies. I'm almost 50 and have NEVER, ever know a SENSATE that knows about the MBTI, ever. Of course, this is the internet, so anything goes... But the reality is that 99% of your videos will be seen by INTUITIVES. I would tailor your videos to them. Love, INFP
Awesome videos on extroverts and introverts too💯🤩💐💐🥳😁
awesome, u guys ~ again, i could watch over&over. It's great to get personalized perspectives (re mbti), esp by 2 obviously educated/ interested folk...and FUNny** (enfp, i think...unless i'm infp -- DAMNIT!!)
Yes, Se is possibilities as well as Ne, lots of people forget this and they are like "This person/I see possibilities definitely Ne." That's why lots of Se doms get mistyped as Ne doms because they are opportunity seekers with lots of hobbies.
fantastic work!
Do Si inferior have a Pigpen problem? Spots in shirts or ties
My sister is a controlling ESTJ. My dad is a controlling ESTJ. My mom is a mean ESTP. My brother is a mean ESTP. ESTPs can be mean and sneaky. ESFPs are not mean but can be sneaky.
Im an Ne Dom and i think im too extroverted for the introverts, but too introverted for the extroverted sensors and feelers. I used to think that i was an "Ambivert" but im Ne. Im ENFP.
Literally everything about every "type" applies to me in spades and I tested for ENFP. I feel like boxing people into an archetype limits the capacity for a true understanding of human nature. It's not this simple. No one person, especially an extrovert, can be fully described with one of these types. Everyone, especially extroverts, have some aspect of every single one of the types. the 5-factor model is vastly superior for this reason. It measures specific traits on a graph that apply to your personality. It's often much more accurate as a result, and doesn't label you a "type," it just measures specific traits about your personality. I know it's fun to do this, but they're horoscopes with at least some scientific foundation. There's a reason this system was discounted decades ago. It's just not scientifically accurate nor is it an effective tool for measuring specific personality traits.
You totally nailed Ne
Stop exposing meeeeeee this is too accurate aaaaa
I still don't think ENFPs are the most introverted extroverts.
I know at least ENFPs are crazy :,D they never stop
True that. I feel like ENTPs are a bit more introverted than ENFPs, at least that's what I've got from dealing with these types of people irl. :D
Well if enfp never stop talking and they still don't say everything about what are they thinking, I just can imagine how many hours they can be talking xd
Maybe I’m not sure. If ENFP isn’t most introverted Extrovert.....then it would have to be ESFJ or ENFJ
ENTPs are more extroverted than ENFPs, because of the cognitive functiions. ENFP's third function is Fe, extraverted feeling, while ENFPs third function is Te
Se doms scare the shit out of me lmao. I️ guess it’s because I’m an INFP and Se is my weakest function, but Jesus do Se doms make me uncomfortable sometimes 0_o
Same, they can be really intense.
My INFP gf also has this discomfort around them.
I'm related to an Se dom. When I'm with this person, I'm usually drained within 2 minutes. Sometimes it's sooner...
isn't Te an INFP's weakest function?
Yeah Te is the last function of an INFP, buuut it's still third so it's still somewhat weak.
im a NE dom (ENFP)
And yEpp!! You nailed everything
XD I'm an introvert watching this like: wut
As an INFP My Ne has Ideas that back up the Fi
I can relate a lot to Ne but also to Fe so honestly I have no idea what my type actually is. I go back and forth between the same three types.
I wonder, how does an Fe dom use Fe when they’re alone? Or when they’re making decisions that only affect them? Suddenly the “social atmosphere” doesn’t seem relevant anymore
Demon Windu That's so...boring
When Fe doms are alone, they will begin processing with their introverted perceiving functions (Ni or Si). Most of their processing will include thinking about people they know, what they can do for others, how they can better connect.
ENFJs are more okay with being alone, I would say. Ni focuses more on patterns, so it takes longer to connect everything they've learned out using their Fe. When alone making decisions, the ENFJ might imagine the other person's, or group's, reaction and think about the best fit in regards to the whole. When spending time alone they will be analyzing their Fe experiences in accordance with their Ni vision --- researching humanitarian topics/sharing thoughts on social media/commenting with others/making youtube videos -- SOMETHING for the public.
ESFJs want to actually be with people more often/talk to them over the phone. They like to hear your voice and ask about your life. When they are truly alone they will begin using Si to plan for the future, cook for others, evaluate their lives and the lives of those close to them, thinking up ideas to please others.
They get into researching, writing stuff, wold building, character building, animating movies in their head, planning stuff to talk about and discuss online/ share publicly? Thinking about self: "What do I want to do for myself that will help make the world a better place?"
Im an infj so Fe is secondary function and i have to agree with what people say here. I didnt develop my Ni that great growing so I think my Fe is especially well developed. Alone time is spent with a social purpose. I have serious problems with social media and forums: I will spend all my alone time on them interacting with people, so i had to delete my accounts. I will plan out conversations for the next time i see people or work thru the best way to word something on my mind, or ruminate on recent social interactions. And the creativity stuff of character building already mentioned. I like having youtube on constantly lol its nice having people to listen to in the background, or reading articles/learning weird random crap.
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Hmm. I've heard people say that it's very obvious when an INTP is mad, for instance, even if we're not aware that we're mad or are unwilling to admit it. So with inferior Fe users, I think there's less intent, per se, but still clarity, in a way. Maybe.
I think I am the 1and the 3 extrovert! Okay I can be very random. So the 4th as well. My sister is the 2 and my mom is mostly 1.
I thought all women are extroverts and men were introverts because that is how my parents but I found out that was not always true. A friend of mine is an introvert which blow up my theory. Because she is a wonderful woman!
"you can just talk to yourself in a room" lmaooo literally me every night till 5 am xDDD
I kind of disagree with your statement about the Fe dom always needing people when the Ne dom doesn't. Then again I'm borderline on the J/P and borderline on the E/I. How I work with my alone time is turning inward into my mind and doing worldbuilding and and make up story characters and expanding my imagination. Or if I am not focusing on writing, then I am working on art and having an internal monologue running in my mind of things I want to say or talk about if the situation arises. It's kind of like planning a speech. Whatever it is that I am working on tends to be planned for sharing to the public eventually.
Outwardly that may appear very ENxP/ INxP, but the more I talk about it, it is the same world and the same main characters and different aspects of their lives. Parts of the stuff in my internal monologue may come up later in speech or writing.
Yeah I’ve tested as an INTP/J (P type with J tendencies, probably due to upbringing and autism), but many people have thought that I’m an extrovert… so I wonder if I’m an ENTP because I test very strongly with Ne, sometimes more than Ti! But then I also test high/well on Si and Fi, which many ENTPs are weak at… help! Can someone give me some questions to determine which I am?
My Fe dom spouse will often exaggerate when telling stories, and I have to bite my Se/Ti tongue.
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How do you tell an Fe vs Te dom apart. I have a friend and he seems similar to both Te and Fe. Like he is very loving and supportive, but then he tends to want to solve my problems instead of offering a sympathetic ear, as well as avoiding expressing his sadness in public.
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Wow, i think i might be ESFP
I'm halfway se-ne dom? I think?
Does Se a decision maker?
Great video, as always =D. I wonder something. How does Fe manifest if the user is all alone?
The question is,when are they ever alone? When they are alone,it's usually after a long period of extroversion. They will still be exhausted after using their Fe for such a long period of time and will be using other functions after that. I don't know about other dom Fe users except my mother and grandfather but my mom will be watching shows,movies,videos. My grandfather will be videocalling someone and more lol.
Don't forget about the auxiliary and tertiary functions.
But what would happen if the lived alone in the world? How would Fe manifest without people?
INFP: Interesting scenario! I don't know if Fe can manifest if the user is alone in the world. Perhaps Fe Ni would become depressed, and Fe Ne would attribute emotional tones to inanimate objects.
INTJ: Probably not answering your question, but it makes me think of this (8:27-9:00): ruclips.net/video/gNyO1VmRE7A/видео.html
Do they do Ne for themselves or the tribe?
Ohhh, I really dont like those „let me solve your problems-people“ .. INTP girl here
I'm an INTP male with some good Te-dom friends, and I like it sometimes where they give me endless debates where I can logically dazzle them, but that habit really rubs me the wrong way too. Goes completely against my live & let live attitude. You can make suggestions if someone asks, but they LOVE to just, completely uninvited, tell people what to do to (in the Te-dom's mind) better themself.
14:09 Yes that's me 😭😭😭
Ok I feel like I'm an ENTP who's just really dumb. Like I have a lot of ideas normally, but sometimes I can't like in group activities. Also like I'm really awkward in social situations.
I'm a unicorn ENTJ.
Ne Dom here! Enfp
ENxP sounds like Sagitarius to me. Which happening I am one XD
Idk if the people know if they spelled extrovert wrong
Or maybe that is Fi only.
The infp is definitely an enfp
I think I might be ENTP 😅.
-INTP
Fe dominance sounds like it observes rather than decides.
Te too.