This video 200% nails Blast last. I was listening to this video in a room with someone else who knows my husband and myself and they were listening in. After they went- omg that’s your husband! He is Blast last! Hahaha and in fact, he is!
Having Consume over Blast is everywhere in my life. For example : killing every mob and openning all the chest in a level while playing an RPG before moving on with the story. Doesn't matter if the mob won't give me much exp or good loot, or that the chest probably got crap in it. It. Must. Be. Done.
Yes! Must play entire level. Must have been in every secret room (I document them so I can go through them quicker next time). Must be ultimately prepared for the next level. Must go for respawns of ammo until fully loaded and armed before moving on.
As a Consume over Blast I constantly need to remind myself that Writing a Mastertheses includes WRITING not just reading. Guess I should try a paragraph today ... or maybe 2 sentence (small steps!)
@@sybrandwoudstra9236 Either pressure, or do it incrementaly, as the previous comment stated it. As an EJ Consume over Blast, I'd prefer to do things incrementaly, instead of naturally giving myself a lot of preparation time to consume. When you are results vs energy/time oriented, you get to realise how much it doesn't make sense or it gets less efficient to consume for too long.
Def blast last person. My opinions, feelings are my own, when I have fully explored, constructed an opinion/feeling, then maybe I'm ready to share, but never will I be comfortable with sharing anything, because everything is work in progress all the time. Until I get sick of it and then I blast all at once on one unsuspecting person.
Omg, never felt so called out in my life, what is this??? I love it As an ENFP who is very invested in worldbuilding, I feel like I never have enough information to begin, I'm always finding more and more holes to fill within the fabric of my worlds
OH MY GOSH THIS IS ME Pretty sure I have Play last and Blast third but THIS IS DEFINITELY ME OMG I’m an aspiring writer, but I rarely ever put my ideas on paper because of the hassle of just... starting. I get scared I don’t know enough, and then I don’t start. It’s so annoying. Edit: I will mention what has been helping me get past this, though! Have you heard of the website Speare? It’s an idea organizing website for writing. Best decision I’ve ever made. Highly recommend; it gets me off my butt and helps me to be confident in the info I have with worldbuilding and character development.
What worked for me (while writing a story) is to just start with some kind of average dinner scene. Just people eating dinner. From there, the story will write itself and go to places you had never imagined. I don't knof if this is an Ni heavy way of doing it (Infj 6w5), but it works fairly well.
OMG YES!! On every assignment, I have to sit down and read and highlight the chapters in the textbook before I can start on it. In anticipation of every presentation I've done for school (and yes, I mean EVERY), I researched the subject so much before making a single slide that I always went way over time and had to be shut down lol. There was this physics project Junior year that we had to work on and I was h o r r i b l e. Sure, I showed up for every meet and provided many of the supplies, but while my group members were engaging in high play/blast in order to hurry and build a working 3D model, I was stressing over what to do and how to implement it. Because I put so much energy into preparation, I dread doing everything and end up procrastinating. Yes, I need small steps! Ahhh this accounts for so much!
This is great advice for anyone, regardless of their “animals,” including people like myself who have dealt with adult ADD and also OCD- writing in graduate school as you can imagine was a nightmare at times. Jon Acuff talks a lot about this idea of tricking yourself into doing work by just putting a crappy version out there first, and this taking off the pressure has helped me immensely in terms of preparing things that were eventually high-quality lessons, papers, or presentations.
I think I really needed to hear this conversation. It gave me a lot of anxiety, as I am trying to get a new job. - INFP probably with blast last and consume first.
🇸🇪 Same struggle here. Having a thypical consume+sleep (play) cycle until I have someone is puttning a "gun" on my head, forcing me to blast 😂 I can be scared puttning a comment online due to me not fully knowing about the subject at hand.
I didn't know this was a thing but this is a reoccurring problem in my life. I'm never too ready to start anything or settle down for something. It constantly feels like I never have enough information at hand and how, no matter how much I try to look into it, I would never have all the questions answered, meaning that even though I like theorizing and speculating, my conclusions will never be good or concrete enough.
Going back to watch these old videos, a ton of gems. I really liked the being allowed to restart a game. I think I have run away from a lot of hurtful failures instead of restarting while the iron was hot.
I am putting my own 2 cents here. An individual can not consume and blast at the same time and in my case consuming takes energy but blast does not when it is done alone. Sitting down, working on a personal project or a dream and ignoring everything around me (environment to consume) energizes me. I really don't think blast need to be done with other people around, It can be done with you just sitting down and getting your work done.
To practice my Blast muscle, I started recording myself talking or trying to teach something for 15min a day. Not to post it yet, just to practice the speaking, articulating and packaging everything I have consumed into words for the tribe. This was a good first step for me
This video is really relevant for me. Along time ago I used the lessons I taught myself while playing a video game to dig myself out of a hole and massively expand my mental awareness. I've been trying to get back into the mindset I used to help myself and these videos have really helped me out a lot.
4:34 WOAH when you describe things in terms of relationships they are way more helpful to me. I feel like most problems/goals are described as buisness/home tasks and not relationships and i think it made me think i was an observer
3:52 absolutelyyyyyy!!!! it seems so silly because i can literally feel some part of my brain getting just ignored.... but I have this new thing where I'm like "ok. 21 days of journaling. it doesn't matter if it helps or not,, no discussion or thinking about it or research or WHATEVER, just do the fucking 21 days." and my ego kicking and moaning just gets put on the back burner and i can blast and fucking move forward babyyyyy
I'm challenged to identify if I am more blast or consume. First, I am quite confident with my type as an INFJ, which has been confirmed by your regular teaching here on your channel (i.e., self/tribe, organize/gather, observer/decider). My biggest challenges seem consistent with what your description of blast last. I have always struggled with completing...er, no...starting thesis papers because I never felt I had enough info to begin or have organized my thoughts thoroughly enough to put them into words. But, at the same time, I also equally felt I have already learned/explored this info already and that I was tired of discussing it further. Been there; done that. The action of writing a paper about the topic after I have organized the info in mind just feels redundant or circular. I'm not sure where to begin my expression of the information since it all connects together anyway and my brain has already moved in to bigger, better things. For example, writing the introduction of the paper when I'm ready to dive into the hypothesis and methods phases of my research study. (I really hope that makes sense; I habe already edited this comment twice. See?!?). While I seem to consume more with writing, I also find that I do engage in the blasting as well with verbal communication (sharing new info). I feel I do this as a way to process the information more myself, though. It's as if I'm digesting & assimilating the information more into my existing knowledge by applying the concepts to real world situations (I.e., friends' concerns) and communicate it intelligibly in my own words to someone else. In saying all of this, it's difficult to decipher if my behavior patterns are more blast or consume at this point. Maybe I'm both? Not really blast last or first?
I also am an INFJ (at least, as far as I can tell by self-typing lol) and I also am unsure about whether I am more blast or consume. I feel like you just wrote down exactly how I feel!
@@Elle-ira as a fellow INFJ, you probably understand how good that makes feel. 😄 also, take note. I have edited my comment bcuz didn't feel I expressed it in quite the way I meant to. See if the new version still aligns with your insight. ;)
Ooh, that sounds tricky. If you're a "standard" INFJ, then you'd have to have Blast above Consume due to the savior functions, but if you feel more balanced then maybe you're an NiTi INFJ, which has Sleep first. Sleep as an animal is concerned with preserving energy and personally processing information, which might explain why you already feel that the information is so stagnant by the time you must do Blasting. (Such as with your thesis.) Saying that you were literally tired of discussing the info further also makes me think that the energy preservation is strong with this one. ;P Obviously there's only so much you can say based on a RUclips comment, but your question itself has an NT puzzler vibe ("where the heck is the missing info???") and makes you seem at ease with your own Ti reasoning. I'm inclined to say SC|B(P) overall. Of course, all of this could just be a one-off fluke, so here's a belated apology for my armchair theorizing. Best of luck figuring things out!
Your comment resonates with me on many levels. This issue that you have described seems to hit at much of what I seem to be struggling with academically as well. I have been watching these videos for about 6 months and I really believe that I am INFJ as well. It has given me some peace of mind to go that superficially into it, however with trying to figure out the masculinity and femininity side of the coin and the dominating animals I am still at a bit of a loss. self-typing is a dangerous path to go down so trying to see myself through other people's comments has been a great strategy for me to tease out the image that I would like to have of myself with the true image of myself demons and all.
As an INFJ, you could be SB/C (P) or SC/B (P) and then you wouldn't have Blast first or last. Those are the only two animal stackings you could have which don't have Blast first or last, though, so that would automatically make you an INFJ jumper who prefers Ni/Ti and is more NT temperament than NF. And it would automatically mean you have missing Play.
Wow, this was awesome. With knowledge and action you form a good and then the good is tested and refined. So the blaster I guess gets at least moving while the consumer stays stuck.
As a self typed ENTP blast last, I always piss of my friends because I never want to do anything planned. I always think I have something more important to do than hang out with friends. A big reason I stopped being friends with my cousin is because he's high play and always wanted to hang out and he'd get mad at me if I didn't want to. Now I just don't talk to him at all because he's too demanding, even though I'm sure a lot of people think it's normal to hang out all the time
ENFP who’s blast third and play last. This is me. I FEEL this. I’m debating deleting some of my messaging apps as of late because there are so many people who want to talk to me all the time or arrange plans and I just... can’t. It’s so much. I feel bad, though, for saying no to people if I don’t have a good reason other than “I’m not in the mood.” And I’m usually never in the mood. Gahhhh
@@sophiaredwood5825 Why Blast last instead of Play last? I'm probably Play last and I have no trouble communicating with people or presenting informations (as long as I am prepared), in fact, I love it. My problem is "dancing with the tribe", as if, doing things for no reason except "for fun" with other people. I do like fun, but the concept fun for me is definitely different than fun for a lot of people who demand me to "go outside and do crazy things together". They are barely friends for me anyway, just some acquintances.
@@caffemocca8855 You’re a legend, and I’m being serious- appreciate your Blast. I’m quite sure I’m Blast last now, and I’ve come to realize it’s ruining my life!!! Yes, I do hate making plans with anybody, and I hate taking time out of a free day to spend time with anybody else, even the people I like. I’m practically addicted to being alone. But while demon Play is a nightmare, demon Blast is actually killing me and making my life miserable. It’s not the communication aspect of Blast that I hate the most, though I do abhor it in my own little ways. Whenever I talk something out or explain a concept, I’m very bad at it, and I’ve actually been told this long before I even heard of Objective Personality. But it’s something I’ve learned to live with and accept as part of myself, and to maybe try to improve little by little. The aspect of Blast that I actually hate, though, is _starting._ I hate STARTING anything, and the thought of it makes me panic. As a lead Consume, I never feel ready to do anything, and I’m always just... scared to. Even if I LIKE what I’m doing, I get apprehensive and daunted at the idea of getting started and putting in the work. I naturally overthink a lot, too, so I’m really good at stressing myself out over things I haven’t even done yet. Perfectionism and constant fear of failure definitely exacerbate the issue. But the bottom of it is that I cannot stand being fully conscious of starting something new, and then doing it. (If I had opened up this comment, and then thought to myself, “You know you’re starting this long comment back and have a commitment to finish it, right?” I can assure you that you definitely would not be getting this reply.) But then, after all that, throw in school and a deadline (commitment to the external world to get stuff finished) and you’ve got a full-fledged panic attack from me. Bonus points if I wait until the morning an assignment is due to start it... my breathing actually messes up, my throat and chest close up, and my hand practically shakes as I try to do my math homework before I get into class. Every assignment is an ordeal, and it’s terrible. Nobody else I know freaks out this much about work and deadlines. And nobody else I know can’t do any of their hobbies or ever pursue any of their dreams because they’re too scared to start them, or too terrified of that commitment that comes with starting a project. The only way I ever get anything notable done is if I start it without really thinking. I started drawing a picture as a joke a few years back, and ended up pouring four hours into it and making a beautiful piece of art still hanging on my wall to this day. (But I’ve never done anything like it since). I started playing piano one day, also as a joke, and ended up coming back again and again and learning a harder song. I also composed a short segment of music when I was experimenting with my piano for fun and not really being serious. I’m an aspiring writer (HA, demon blast is ruining it every day) and I usually only ever write my best pieces when I’m strangely in the mood or have fallen in love with a new idea enough to forget all of my inhibitions for a short time. Every single one of my biggest feats either live only in my head, or have only been accomplished when I’m not consciously trying to make them happen. I don’t know if I’ve ever had a purposeful accomplishment in my life. Because that requires discipline and commitment, and commitment is literally the demon that plagues my life. Soooooo, yep, that’s about it 😅 I hate going out of my way to spend time with other people, but it doesn’t wreck me the way that Blast does. Using Play just drains me after a while, and I’ll gladly take that over the debilitating anxiety that comes with trying to Blast.
@0:34 oh this is interesting (before listening to the video). Just understanding that the animals are two functions working together I actually can figure out when and where my weakest animals come together. I'm blast last (Fe and Si). When I do blast, it's mostly complaining about how I feel when I'm frustrated or upset. It's usually quite the temper tantrum. It's rather rare, but usually comes under extreme duress. My play (Fe and Ne) is when I goof around and tease my cowrkers. Consume/sleep comes easily and naturally, but understanding that they are Ti/Ne and Ti/Si respectively helps me understand their 'nature', which is kind of helpful to understand what the purpose of those modes are. My take away of all this is - if I want to work on my demons, I need to recognize my Fe and speak out about it more in productive ways.
You two ARE a blast. (is there a type that likes puns, 'cause I'm thinkin' it's ENFP...) Anyway. My Te (blast, apparently. I'm learning) is third, but really I feel my 60/40 Fi Te is more interchangeable. 50/50 maybe. My consume (Ne) is number one all day long. I LOVE the gathering of information, and yes, it is hard to start sometimes because then I have to narrow. I don't want to narrow! To chose. Over thinking stuff is actually fun. Those of you that don't should try it sometime... I feel I am actually a good teacher and see what I did there. I just bragged! Yay me :-) I mean, I really am pretty awesome. I CAN blast! Sometimes very naturally, but I'm weak to very weak on getting started and controlling. Especially controlling! That sounds exhausting (I'm guessing I'm not fully understanding that one. Maybe it's more I want control over the "situation"?). Thanx for the education. My Ne is saying keep it coming!!! More please! FYI. I grew up in Oregon. One of these days when I'm up for a visit I'll pop in and say hi.
Mike Shaw be mindful that Play can be nuancingly similar yet different from Blast, the biggest game changer being going over the known information that stems from within, which is sourced at the core of your experiential data whether read, written or interacted with. Where as play is very present tense information sourcing that stems from the outside world and can potentially be altered or added to as you go along or continually observe
Makes me think I'm not Blast last, at least in certain areas. Think my dad's Blast first or second and he's always on about how important it is to, "let people know," so I've got some free lessons there I guess.
I wasn’t sure why they talked about blast last in the thumbnail and had super Mario Then I realized that back in the 16 bit era, it was the Genesis that had blast processing
ENTP PC/B(S): everyone tells me to calm the fuck down when talking to people with Ne/Fe. When I’m alone or listening to someone I’m consuming the shit out of new information and processing it with Ne/Ti. Once I finally get all my shit together I try to be productive and start blasting to do something good. Then when I finally burn out I go to *s l e e p* mode and regain my energy. This involves thinking about shit with Ti and reflecting on the past with Si.
Pretty good advice. There's more to it you may have noticed with people... blasting may have more elements to it. I don't like to talk much, but give me a guitar (hell, even a musical instrument i can't play) and i literally won't shut up. And it can be all improv. I guess it's some sort of verbal vs. Musical type blast, but may make since being MF audio.
I think you're onto something. I have a similar problem. With speaking I'm more blast (I think), but with research/writing, I'm more consume (I think).
I need to see every black cardigan on the market known to man then I need to see All of them with price tags and materials.. which one is the closest to the one in my imagination...... maybe none. Maybe I won't buy one. Maybe I will wait until I can learn to sew..... 😂😭
not sure if it's really "before I can get started" and more before "my ass is on the line / I'm responsible for it / held accountable" I can blast as much as possible with my friends on topics that have no significance or weight to the situation but the moment it becomes serious and I am held accountable (my identity could be judge) I will go in doubt / knowledge-deprecating / etc. FYI ENxP here
Could each animal be a coin in and if itself? Like with consume if the Di is above the Oe vs if the Oe is above the Di. There could be two flavors or variations of each animal.
okay, I know I'm saviour consume. my RUclips and reading proves that I think. but then I've never struggled with blasting. I mean I've always been quite balanced in terms of use of functions but my teaching has been on point since primary when I realised that I had to break things down using Tii and connect them in front of people so that they can follow Ne (metaphors/analogies are good for that). so at certain points classmates have preferred me to teach. but I know I procastnate so I might be play last but my sleep is also weak in a sense. I got energy for days if I'm careful with my social activities. oh I an ENTP by the way. and oh I can work hard at something I just have to not hate it so I might be sleep last...
I've always had really strong fe I think. I might have suppresed it in my emo years but I remember crying with friends and for hurt animals when I was younger. they once killed an owl violently in front of me and I was so distraught😢 remembering that I was still 7 the memory is still quite raw...
NO F'N WONDER - Blast Last here.. I have to research and research and talk about it, and i still cant just f'n do it.. i start calling "it" stupid! And escape into another thing, and then that thing wears me down with guilt, then i start getting critical on others transferring that energy.. I thought it was just my Si weakness as an ENTP.. but this Sleep, Consume, Play (B) is making f'n sense! Start as little stupid mario, do the stupid little things, know its going to take me months (Damn, stupid commitment.. not naturally good).. Why is everything so stupid.
Comparing Two Systems Here: Consume And Blast Sound Like The "Flow State" Or "Genius State" In The Personality Hacker's System, While Sleep And Play Sound Like "Defensive" States In Personality Hacker's System; Which All Makes Sense To Me, But How Would Sleep Or Play Be Used Towards Someone's Career Benefit Using Objective Personality's System ?
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ENFP here with demon blast. I’m trying to write a story with an Enneagram 5 protagonist, and one of her main setbacks is her fear of getting started or doing things. I have spent the last three hours attempting to write the first chapter, and I keep getting so scared to actually write it because I think I don’t know enough. The irony is real. Wish me luck; I’m sitting here until I get this done.
What if you mainly focus on the lower half of your functions? Like for me, I feel like I'm more of blast for my first two functions but Whenever explaining things I always lock up, afraid that I'll provide the wrong information. But when I'm alone, I'll be a lot like the blast where I'll be confident in what have gathered (which is why I say I feel like a primary blaster rather than a consumer) but then once I am trying to explain it to others, I end up getting that locking up, and not being able to explain it and second guessing what I had gathered. That's probably the only reason I still haven't gotten any closer to figuring out my MBTI type. Or is that not an example of focusing more on the consume side and is some form of the sleep?
🇸🇪 The confidence could be Sleep. My experience with Blast Last is feeling confident when I'm alone in my own little world but have a hard time explaining it to tribe. I tend to go play with people, talking about ideas rather than explaining stuff. In my head I always think... "Geez, why should I explain this? You must already know this. You are probably better informed than me...". Until I remember myself about the 80/20 rule in consuming. Try take a 20% bite of the "information cookie" that gives you 80% of the value. This mindset gives me some minor confidence to teach even if it's hard sometimes to be the one force to take control and telling others what to do lol.
I think I have blast first. When I do Te it is in scientific research or surgery. I would of course have the information confirmed by the scientific standard. And I function this way in other areas of life where so much validity is not necessary. I want to control the chaos, make other people's lives better. I don't want to teach. I never want to give people information that isn't valid by what we know as objective truth. What do you think of this angle on blast?
Okay, now I'm actually confused about my animals. I always thought that I had sleep then consume on first, then play and blast on last. But I simply don't relate to the problems you mention, well not all of them. I relate a little bit, but I seem to have totally different problems in general. Because I do have a tendency of winging it. Like, I use my consume and sleep to form a vague plan, then I just wing the rest. Even when I learn, there is a point where the information gathering stops being enough and I just have to do stuff. I can't learn everything just on a theoretical level, I have to be in action to truly learn it. Music is a perfect example: When I was going to a teacher regularly, it took a lot of time for a lot of things to stick. But when I actually became a musician and started doing stuff, I learned far more. But then again "teaching" and "controlling" are words that don't describe me, so I don't know. Is it possible that I just got better at blasting? Or did I misunderstand it the whole time and I actually have play on last? Here's another question: How do I get over the total uselessness that is having sleep first?
Bro sleep first is not useless. Being yourself is not useless. It's not just what you think you need to value but everything serves its purpose and sleep allows you to process deeply and easily compared to sleep last.
Your blast is probably on the third place, judging from what you say at least. If your play is last your probably gonna feel exhaustion from engaging with other people. For example, if you often find yourself distancing, being in your head while interacting with a group of people that means that you don't really wanna deal with "playing" with other people. To answer the other question, to escape the sleep trap do more play in your case
Winging it is Play. If you are lead Sleep then you will plan excessively and mentally rehearse everything before doing it. Not useless at all. It's actually being extremely prepared, to the point of overprepared. Spending so much time mentally rehearsing and playing out scenarios in your head that you're basically never winging it.
Cool, so I've got two different answers and the obligatory insistence that sleep isn't totally useless. I mean, you just spend all day sleeping and consuming, and doing at least a little bit takes immense effort. Totally useless! But I'm gonna go with Djura's answer, because what they described is exactly what I go through. I say hi to a stranger and I feel like I gotta take a nap for two days. Which further illustrates how much of a pain it is to have sleep first.
ive no idea really f ive typed my self correctly... but im fairly certain im blast last.. pos consume first... and i have too developed similar tricks to just start . .. found this one of the more helpful snipets any way... one day when i can afford it ill sign up.
Why do I have to show up anywhere? Why can't I just tell the chump who wants to be typed that he would be better off typing himself? Yeah, I think that I have Blast last lmao.
نصيحة لكل بنت هتقرأ الكلام ده .. من أخ والله مش عايز حاجة غير الخير لكي.. أختي الكريمة.. عارف إنك محترمة ومؤدبة ونيتك كويسة وواثق إنك مسلمة بتحبي ربنا والنبي صلى الله عليه وسلم ونفسك تدخلي الجنة وربنا يرضى عنك.. والكلام اللي هقوله ده ممكن الشيطان يقنعك إني عدو لكي ويخليكي ترفضي أي حاجة منه.. أختي الكريمة.. مش عادي إنك تعدي سن التكليف ومتلبسيش الحجاب.. مش عادي إنك تلبسي لبس يظهر زينتك وجسمك لأي حد .. مش عادي إنك تلبسي هوت شورت عشان في الساحل .. مش عادي إنك تصاحبي ولد حتى لو نيتك كويسة وفي بينكم حدود .. مش عادي إنك تتزيني وتتعطري وأنتي خارجة من بيتك .. مش عادي إنك تحضري حفلة وتشربي وترقصي وصورك تنزل على صفحات زي cairo zoom والشباب يتفرجوا عليكي.. مش عادي دي كلمة بقولها عشان تكون مستساغة .. لكن الواقع إن اللي فات حرام وذنوب عظيمة جداً في حق ربنا وممكن تكون سبب لدخولك النار وغضب ربنا عليكي في الدنيا ويوم القيامة.. متخليش الشيطان يضحك عليكي ويقنعك إن هي دي الحرية والتقدم والسعادة.. الإنسان خلق عبد وهيفضل عبد.. لو مش هنعبد ربنا هنعبد أي حاجة تانية.. هنعبد شهواتنا والموضة والفلوس.. الحرية في عبودية ربنا والعزة في عبودية ربنا.. والله العظيم فعلاً خايف عليكي لما بقرأ حديث النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم لما قال إن في نوعين من الناس من أهل النار والنبي صلى الله عليه وسلم مشافش النوعين دول في عهده.. منهم البنت اللي بتلبس لبس يظهر جسمها .. في صحيح مسلم عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " صِنْفَانِ مِنْ أَهْلِ النَّارِ لَمْ أَرَهُمَا ؛ قَوْمٌ مَعَهُمْ سِيَاطٌ كَأَذْنَابِ الْبَقَرِ يَضْرِبُونَ بِهَا النَّاسَ، وَنِسَاءٌ كَاسِيَاتٌ عَارِيَاتٌ، مُمِيلَاتٌ مَائِلَاتٌ، رُءُوسُهُنَّ كَأَسْنِمَةِ الْبُخْتِ الْمَائِلَةِ، لَا يَدْخُلْنَ الْجَنَّةَ، وَلَا يَجِدْنَ رِيحَهَا، وَإِنَّ رِيحَهَا لَيُوجَدُ مِنْ مَسِيرَةِ كَذَا وَكَذَا ". هو إحنا قلوبنا بقت قاسية لدرجة إني أسمع حديث النبي بيقول إن اللي بتلبس كده دي من أهل النار وعادي مش خايف؟ هو إحنا متخيلين يعني إيه نار؟ والأعظم من كده إن يوم القيامة النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يعرض عني عشان أنا كنت بعيد عن سنته ومكنتش بلبس الحجاب اللي أمرني بيه؟ والأعظم إن ربنا يغضب علي عشان عصيت أمره؟ بعد كل النعم دي وربنا يحب لكي الستر نعصي أمر ربنا ونقول لا مش عايزين حجاب كده أحسن؟ طيب نفكر في الموت .. لما أموت وأنا بلبس كده وبكلم ولاد ومبصليش هقول إيه لربنا لما يسألني؟ يجي برضه الشيطان ويقولك هو يغض بصره وأنتي تلبس براحتك.. والله هو هياخد ذنب عشان مغضش بصره.. بس برضه أنتي مع كل نظره هتاخدي ذنب عشان عصيتي أمر ربنا وملبستيش الحجاب صح.. لكن لو أنتي ملتزمة بحجابك وهو مغضش بصره هو ياخد ذنب وأنتي أصلاً في طاعة طول ما أنتي محتشمة بتاخدي حسنات .. أنا ركزت الكلام عن الحجاب عشان الحجاب ده منظومة مش مجرد طرحة.. البنت المسلمة المحجبة محتشمة متكلمش ولاد عندها حياء بتحافظ على صلاتها بتحفظ أهلها وبتراعي غياب أبوها وأخوها وزوجها وبتتقي الله فيهم .. البنت المحجبة بتاخد بالها من كلامها مع أي شخص غريب عشان ربنا أمرها إن هي متتدلعش في الكلام وتقول قول معروف .. بس عارفة إيه العادي؟؟ عادي إن إحنا نكون ماشيين في طريق غلط .. ونقرر نرجع عادي لو أنتي مش محجبة أو مبتصليش أو بتشربي أو مصاحبة أو حتى وقعتي في ذنب عظيم وفاحشة إنك ترجعي.. وتاخدي خطوات لربنا .. عشان ربنا تواب رحيم يقبل التوبة ويعفو عن السيئات ويبدل السيئات حسنات.. المهم نندم ونعترف إن إحنا غلط ونسيب الطريق .. لو مش محجبة يلا خدي خطوة من انهاردة متأجليش.. لو مصاحبة اقطعي علاقتك بيه فوراً وتوبي من الذنب ده وزودي من العمل الصالح وإن شاء الله ربنا يعوضك خير ويبقى في الحلال.. لو مبتصليش ابدأي جددي العهد مع ربنا إنك مش هتسيبي صلاة في وقتها .. لو حتى وقعتي في ذنب عظيم وفاحشة والله ربنا يقبلك بس اقطعي أي سبب للذنب وابعدي عن أي حد بيوصلك للفاحشة دي وغيري صحبتك.. قال تعالى : ﴿قُل يا عِبادِيَ الَّذينَ أَسرَفوا عَلى أَنفُسِهِم لا تَقنَطوا مِن رَحمَةِ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغفِرُ الذُّنوبَ جَميعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الغَفورُ الرَّحيمُ وَأَنيبوا إِلى رَبِّكُم وَأَسلِموا لَهُ مِن قَبلِ أَن يَأتِيَكُمُ العَذابُ ثُمَّ لا تُنصَرونَ وَاتَّبِعوا أَحسَنَ ما أُنزِلَ إِلَيكُم مِن رَبِّكُم مِن قَبلِ أَن يَأتِيَكُمُ العَذابُ بَغتَةً وَأَنتُم لا تَشعُرونَ أَن تَقولَ نَفسٌ يا حَسرَتا عَلى ما فَرَّطتُ في جَنبِ اللَّهِ وَإِن كُنتُ لَمِنَ السّاخِرينَ أَو تَقولَ لَو أَنَّ اللَّهَ هَداني لَكُنتُ مِنَ المُتَّقينَ أَو تَقولَ حينَ تَرَى العَذابَ لَو أَنَّ لي كَرَّةً فَأَكونَ مِنَ المُحسِنينَ بَلى قَد جاءَتكَ آياتي فَكَذَّبتَ بِها وَاستَكبَرتَ وَكُنتَ مِنَ الكافِرينَ﴾ [الزمر: ٥٣-٥
The irony of this channel, is that the best advice I get from it is to stop watching these videos because of how lead Consume-Sleep I am.
Me too
Same
Ne+Fi / Fi+Si C/S here too
Ugh I feel you hahaha damn Rolodex Ne mind
SAME
This video 200% nails Blast last.
I was listening to this video in a room with someone else who knows my husband and myself and they were listening in. After they went- omg that’s your husband! He is Blast last!
Hahaha and in fact, he is!
Having Consume over Blast is everywhere in my life. For example : killing every mob and openning all the chest in a level while playing an RPG before moving on with the story. Doesn't matter if the mob won't give me much exp or good loot, or that the chest probably got crap in it.
It. Must. Be. Done.
Do you play defensively by any chance?
Interesting! I would do the same thing! In Zelda I had to break every pot too. Or cut every bush. Or bomb every boulder. Lol!
I would purposely explore all the landscape in GTA just for fun, I would rob a car just to ride it on the mountains all day long 😂
I totally agree with this illustration of Consume>Blast
Yes! Must play entire level. Must have been in every secret room (I document them so I can go through them quicker next time). Must be ultimately prepared for the next level. Must go for respawns of ammo until fully loaded and armed before moving on.
As a Consume over Blast I constantly need to remind myself that Writing a Mastertheses includes WRITING not just reading. Guess I should try a paragraph today ... or maybe 2 sentence (small steps!)
Do you have tips for how to handle Consume Blast. The only thing which works for me is increasing pressure (stress) to just start with something.
I always start with a draft. Like throwing up words onto the paper then structuring it into a full paper.
@@sybrandwoudstra9236 Either pressure, or do it incrementaly, as the previous comment stated it. As an EJ Consume over Blast, I'd prefer to do things incrementaly, instead of naturally giving myself a lot of preparation time to consume.
When you are results vs energy/time oriented, you get to realise how much it doesn't make sense or it gets less efficient to consume for too long.
Def blast last person. My opinions, feelings are my own, when I have fully explored, constructed an opinion/feeling, then maybe I'm ready to share, but never will I be comfortable with sharing anything, because everything is work in progress all the time. Until I get sick of it and then I blast all at once on one unsuspecting person.
Omg, never felt so called out in my life, what is this??? I love it
As an ENFP who is very invested in worldbuilding, I feel like I never have enough information to begin, I'm always finding more and more holes to fill within the fabric of my worlds
OH MY GOSH
THIS IS ME
Pretty sure I have Play last and Blast third but THIS IS DEFINITELY ME OMG
I’m an aspiring writer, but I rarely ever put my ideas on paper because of the hassle of just... starting. I get scared I don’t know enough, and then I don’t start. It’s so annoying.
Edit: I will mention what has been helping me get past this, though! Have you heard of the website Speare? It’s an idea organizing website for writing. Best decision I’ve ever made. Highly recommend; it gets me off my butt and helps me to be confident in the info I have with worldbuilding and character development.
What worked for me (while writing a story) is to just start with some kind of average dinner scene. Just people eating dinner. From there, the story will write itself and go to places you had never imagined. I don't knof if this is an Ni heavy way of doing it (Infj 6w5), but it works fairly well.
OMG YES!! On every assignment, I have to sit down and read and highlight the chapters in the textbook before I can start on it. In anticipation of every presentation I've done for school (and yes, I mean EVERY), I researched the subject so much before making a single slide that I always went way over time and had to be shut down lol. There was this physics project Junior year that we had to work on and I was h o r r i b l e. Sure, I showed up for every meet and provided many of the supplies, but while my group members were engaging in high play/blast in order to hurry and build a working 3D model, I was stressing over what to do and how to implement it. Because I put so much energy into preparation, I dread doing everything and end up procrastinating. Yes, I need small steps! Ahhh this accounts for so much!
I always think, “I need to do better” which ends up stressing me out to the point where I stop. This really helps.
So, basically, approach life like you approach Dark Souls.
Humanity restored! \[T]/
Still haven't approached Dark Souls....
This is great advice for anyone, regardless of their “animals,” including people like myself who have dealt with adult ADD and also OCD- writing in graduate school as you can imagine was a nightmare at times. Jon Acuff talks a lot about this idea of tricking yourself into doing work by just putting a crappy version out there first, and this taking off the pressure has helped me immensely in terms of preparing things that were eventually high-quality lessons, papers, or presentations.
If I hear break down the problem into smaller steps one more time, I will just die.
I think I really needed to hear this conversation. It gave me a lot of anxiety, as I am trying to get a new job. - INFP probably with blast last and consume first.
🇸🇪 Same struggle here. Having a thypical consume+sleep (play) cycle until I have someone is puttning a "gun" on my head, forcing me to blast 😂
I can be scared puttning a comment online due to me not fully knowing about the subject at hand.
You two are fire. Keep it up
For anyone looking for tips, Mel Robbins' 5-second rule seems specifically designed for blast last people.
I love it! "I'm going to just say "hi" and run away!"
I totally relate to blast last lol. When I overthink and I'm stuck. But once I get going I get it done :) You guys are so happy I love it
Nice to see you guys.
I didn't know this was a thing but this is a reoccurring problem in my life. I'm never too ready to start anything or settle down for something. It constantly feels like I never have enough information at hand and how, no matter how much I try to look into it, I would never have all the questions answered, meaning that even though I like theorizing and speculating, my conclusions will never be good or concrete enough.
Going back to watch these old videos, a ton of gems. I really liked the being allowed to restart a game. I think I have run away from a lot of hurtful failures instead of restarting while the iron was hot.
That. Jacket. Is. socute!
I am putting my own 2 cents here.
An individual can not consume and blast at the same time and in my case consuming takes energy but blast does not when it is done alone. Sitting down, working on a personal project or a dream and ignoring everything around me (environment to consume) energizes me.
I really don't think blast need to be done with other people around, It can be done with you just sitting down and getting your work done.
Yes, it so true
@@deimantebruzaite5343 What type are you
Analogies are Great for Blast Last.
Another movie example of this archetype can be seen in the Tom Cruise movie "The Edge of Tomorrow: Live. Die. Repeat."
I tend to listen only, or monopolize the conversation talking about myself.
The first one is consume. The second one is sleep processing outloud. Im also consume sleep. I can't tell if play or blast is next though.
@@spannycat2 I think I'm blast last. Play feels exhausting, but I only blast when something has gone wrong.
Blast Last folks are great at Irish Goodbyes
Also, the Irish.
To practice my Blast muscle, I started recording myself talking or trying to teach something for 15min a day. Not to post it yet, just to practice the speaking, articulating and packaging everything I have consumed into words for the tribe. This was a good first step for me
This video is really relevant for me. Along time ago I used the lessons I taught myself while playing a video game to dig myself out of a hole and massively expand my mental awareness. I've been trying to get back into the mindset I used to help myself and these videos have really helped me out a lot.
Ugh blast 😩 I certainly have sleep and consume above blast. And I can’t stand control.
4:34 WOAH when you describe things in terms of relationships they are way more helpful to me. I feel like most problems/goals are described as buisness/home tasks and not relationships and i think it made me think i was an observer
3:52 absolutelyyyyyy!!!! it seems so silly because i can literally feel some part of my brain getting just ignored.... but I have this new thing where I'm like "ok. 21 days of journaling. it doesn't matter if it helps or not,, no discussion or thinking about it or research or WHATEVER, just do the fucking 21 days."
and my ego kicking and moaning just gets put on the back burner and i can blast and fucking move forward babyyyyy
I'm challenged to identify if I am more blast or consume. First, I am quite confident with my type as an INFJ, which has been confirmed by your regular teaching here on your channel (i.e., self/tribe, organize/gather, observer/decider). My biggest challenges seem consistent with what your description of blast last. I have always struggled with completing...er, no...starting thesis papers because I never felt I had enough info to begin or have organized my thoughts thoroughly enough to put them into words. But, at the same time, I also equally felt I have already learned/explored this info already and that I was tired of discussing it further. Been there; done that. The action of writing a paper about the topic after I have organized the info in mind just feels redundant or circular. I'm not sure where to begin my expression of the information since it all connects together anyway and my brain has already moved in to bigger, better things. For example, writing the introduction of the paper when I'm ready to dive into the hypothesis and methods phases of my research study. (I really hope that makes sense; I habe already edited this comment twice. See?!?).
While I seem to consume more with writing, I also find that I do engage in the blasting as well with verbal communication (sharing new info). I feel I do this as a way to process the information more myself, though. It's as if I'm digesting & assimilating the information more into my existing knowledge by applying the concepts to real world situations (I.e., friends' concerns) and communicate it intelligibly in my own words to someone else.
In saying all of this, it's difficult to decipher if my behavior patterns are more blast or consume at this point. Maybe I'm both? Not really blast last or first?
I also am an INFJ (at least, as far as I can tell by self-typing lol) and I also am unsure about whether I am more blast or consume. I feel like you just wrote down exactly how I feel!
@@Elle-ira as a fellow INFJ, you probably understand how good that makes feel. 😄 also, take note. I have edited my comment bcuz didn't feel I expressed it in quite the way I meant to. See if the new version still aligns with your insight. ;)
Ooh, that sounds tricky. If you're a "standard" INFJ, then you'd have to have Blast above Consume due to the savior functions, but if you feel more balanced then maybe you're an NiTi INFJ, which has Sleep first. Sleep as an animal is concerned with preserving energy and personally processing information, which might explain why you already feel that the information is so stagnant by the time you must do Blasting. (Such as with your thesis.) Saying that you were literally tired of discussing the info further also makes me think that the energy preservation is strong with this one. ;P
Obviously there's only so much you can say based on a RUclips comment, but your question itself has an NT puzzler vibe ("where the heck is the missing info???") and makes you seem at ease with your own Ti reasoning. I'm inclined to say SC|B(P) overall. Of course, all of this could just be a one-off fluke, so here's a belated apology for my armchair theorizing. Best of luck figuring things out!
Your comment resonates with me on many levels. This issue that you have described seems to hit at much of what I seem to be struggling with academically as well. I have been watching these videos for about 6 months and I really believe that I am INFJ as well. It has given me some peace of mind to go that superficially into it, however with trying to figure out the masculinity and femininity side of the coin and the dominating animals I am still at a bit of a loss. self-typing is a dangerous path to go down so trying to see myself through other people's comments has been a great strategy for me to tease out the image that I would like to have of myself with the true image of myself demons and all.
As an INFJ, you could be SB/C (P) or SC/B (P) and then you wouldn't have Blast first or last. Those are the only two animal stackings you could have which don't have Blast first or last, though, so that would automatically make you an INFJ jumper who prefers Ni/Ti and is more NT temperament than NF. And it would automatically mean you have missing Play.
I'm coming to the revelation that I don't actually have Blast last like I thought I did. So enlightening--you guys are great 💜
3:13 "this is just how you do it"
wow.
Wow, this was awesome. With knowledge and action you form a good and then the good is tested and refined. So the blaster I guess gets at least moving while the consumer stays stuck.
As a self typed ENTP blast last, I always piss of my friends because I never want to do anything planned. I always think I have something more important to do than hang out with friends.
A big reason I stopped being friends with my cousin is because he's high play and always wanted to hang out and he'd get mad at me if I didn't want to. Now I just don't talk to him at all because he's too demanding, even though I'm sure a lot of people think it's normal to hang out all the time
INFP, completely related. My friends know I'm like a ghost that shows up out of nowhere every once in a while.
ENFP who’s blast third and play last. This is me. I FEEL this. I’m debating deleting some of my messaging apps as of late because there are so many people who want to talk to me all the time or arrange plans and I just... can’t. It’s so much. I feel bad, though, for saying no to people if I don’t have a good reason other than “I’m not in the mood.” And I’m usually never in the mood. Gahhhh
Update: now I’m realizing I may be blast last
@@sophiaredwood5825 Why Blast last instead of Play last? I'm probably Play last and I have no trouble communicating with people or presenting informations (as long as I am prepared), in fact, I love it. My problem is "dancing with the tribe", as if, doing things for no reason except "for fun" with other people. I do like fun, but the concept fun for me is definitely different than fun for a lot of people who demand me to "go outside and do crazy things together". They are barely friends for me anyway, just some acquintances.
@@caffemocca8855 You’re a legend, and I’m being serious- appreciate your Blast. I’m quite sure I’m Blast last now, and I’ve come to realize it’s ruining my life!!! Yes, I do hate making plans with anybody, and I hate taking time out of a free day to spend time with anybody else, even the people I like. I’m practically addicted to being alone. But while demon Play is a nightmare, demon Blast is actually killing me and making my life miserable.
It’s not the communication aspect of Blast that I hate the most, though I do abhor it in my own little ways. Whenever I talk something out or explain a concept, I’m very bad at it, and I’ve actually been told this long before I even heard of Objective Personality. But it’s something I’ve learned to live with and accept as part of myself, and to maybe try to improve little by little. The aspect of Blast that I actually hate, though, is _starting._
I hate STARTING anything, and the thought of it makes me panic. As a lead Consume, I never feel ready to do anything, and I’m always just... scared to. Even if I LIKE what I’m doing, I get apprehensive and daunted at the idea of getting started and putting in the work. I naturally overthink a lot, too, so I’m really good at stressing myself out over things I haven’t even done yet. Perfectionism and constant fear of failure definitely exacerbate the issue. But the bottom of it is that I cannot stand being fully conscious of starting something new, and then doing it. (If I had opened up this comment, and then thought to myself, “You know you’re starting this long comment back and have a commitment to finish it, right?” I can assure you that you definitely would not be getting this reply.)
But then, after all that, throw in school and a deadline (commitment to the external world to get stuff finished) and you’ve got a full-fledged panic attack from me. Bonus points if I wait until the morning an assignment is due to start it... my breathing actually messes up, my throat and chest close up, and my hand practically shakes as I try to do my math homework before I get into class. Every assignment is an ordeal, and it’s terrible. Nobody else I know freaks out this much about work and deadlines. And nobody else I know can’t do any of their hobbies or ever pursue any of their dreams because they’re too scared to start them, or too terrified of that commitment that comes with starting a project.
The only way I ever get anything notable done is if I start it without really thinking. I started drawing a picture as a joke a few years back, and ended up pouring four hours into it and making a beautiful piece of art still hanging on my wall to this day. (But I’ve never done anything like it since). I started playing piano one day, also as a joke, and ended up coming back again and again and learning a harder song. I also composed a short segment of music when I was experimenting with my piano for fun and not really being serious. I’m an aspiring writer (HA, demon blast is ruining it every day) and I usually only ever write my best pieces when I’m strangely in the mood or have fallen in love with a new idea enough to forget all of my inhibitions for a short time. Every single one of my biggest feats either live only in my head, or have only been accomplished when I’m not consciously trying to make them happen. I don’t know if I’ve ever had a purposeful accomplishment in my life. Because that requires discipline and commitment, and commitment is literally the demon that plagues my life.
Soooooo, yep, that’s about it 😅 I hate going out of my way to spend time with other people, but it doesn’t wreck me the way that Blast does. Using Play just drains me after a while, and I’ll gladly take that over the debilitating anxiety that comes with trying to Blast.
THIS VIDEO IS SO HELPFUL
Another killer vid! I'd like to see more of these short little explanations in the class as well 👍
I feel like the baby steps is good for a lot ty 😁
fail faster is the best advice I've ever recieve as an SC or CS
@0:34 oh this is interesting (before listening to the video). Just understanding that the animals are two functions working together I actually can figure out when and where my weakest animals come together.
I'm blast last (Fe and Si). When I do blast, it's mostly complaining about how I feel when I'm frustrated or upset. It's usually quite the temper tantrum. It's rather rare, but usually comes under extreme duress.
My play (Fe and Ne) is when I goof around and tease my cowrkers.
Consume/sleep comes easily and naturally, but understanding that they are Ti/Ne and Ti/Si respectively helps me understand their 'nature', which is kind of helpful to understand what the purpose of those modes are.
My take away of all this is - if I want to work on my demons, I need to recognize my Fe and speak out about it more in productive ways.
Great. This is what I need. Thanks!
4:31 As someone with demon Fe and Blast last, this one hits me.
It was really nice to see you fill in the gaps with blast.
This has implications for manoeuvres in being for oneself to engage effective energies.
You two ARE a blast. (is there a type that likes puns, 'cause I'm thinkin' it's ENFP...) Anyway. My Te (blast, apparently. I'm learning) is third, but really I feel my 60/40 Fi Te is more interchangeable. 50/50 maybe. My consume (Ne) is number one all day long. I LOVE the gathering of information, and yes, it is hard to start sometimes because then I have to narrow. I don't want to narrow! To chose. Over thinking stuff is actually fun. Those of you that don't should try it sometime... I feel I am actually a good teacher and see what I did there. I just bragged! Yay me :-) I mean, I really am pretty awesome. I CAN blast! Sometimes very naturally, but I'm weak to very weak on getting started and controlling. Especially controlling! That sounds exhausting (I'm guessing I'm not fully understanding that one. Maybe it's more I want control over the "situation"?). Thanx for the education. My Ne is saying keep it coming!!! More please! FYI. I grew up in Oregon. One of these days when I'm up for a visit I'll pop in and say hi.
Mike Shaw be mindful that Play can be nuancingly similar yet different from Blast, the biggest game changer being going over the known information that stems from within, which is sourced at the core of your experiential data whether read, written or interacted with.
Where as play is very present tense information sourcing that stems from the outside world and can potentially be altered or added to as you go along or continually observe
I like the Mario for this because Mario knows bowsers stress from 1-1 but carries it all the way to 8-4
Can you guys do a video on Play Last?
Good call on the communication issue with low Oi. Probably why I don't like working with other people or setting deadlines.
Could you guys make any structure on your channel in form of playlists?.. I love your content but I'm lost on where to begin...
Makes me think I'm not Blast last, at least in certain areas. Think my dad's Blast first or second and he's always on about how important it is to, "let people know," so I've got some free lessons there I guess.
"Yes Morbius. A simple blaster." - Robbie the Robot.
I wasn’t sure why they talked about blast last in the thumbnail and had super Mario
Then I realized that back in the 16 bit era, it was the Genesis that had blast processing
ENTP PC/B(S):
everyone tells me to calm the fuck down when talking to people with Ne/Fe.
When I’m alone or listening to someone I’m consuming the shit out of new information and processing it with Ne/Ti.
Once I finally get all my shit together I try to be productive and start blasting to do something good.
Then when I finally burn out I go to *s l e e p* mode and regain my energy. This involves thinking about shit with Ti and reflecting on the past with Si.
Pretty good advice.
There's more to it you may have noticed with people... blasting may have more elements to it. I don't like to talk much, but give me a guitar (hell, even a musical instrument i can't play) and i literally won't shut up. And it can be all improv. I guess it's some sort of verbal vs. Musical type blast, but may make since being MF audio.
I think you're onto something. I have a similar problem. With speaking I'm more blast (I think), but with research/writing, I'm more consume (I think).
I need to see every black cardigan on the market known to man then I need to see All of them with price tags and materials.. which one is the closest to the one in my imagination...... maybe none. Maybe I won't buy one. Maybe I will wait until I can learn to sew..... 😂😭
not sure if it's really "before I can get started" and more before "my ass is on the line / I'm responsible for it / held accountable"
I can blast as much as possible with my friends on topics that have no significance or weight to the situation but the moment
it becomes serious and I am held accountable (my identity could be judge) I will go in doubt / knowledge-deprecating / etc.
FYI ENxP here
Could each animal be a coin in and if itself? Like with consume if the Di is above the Oe vs if the Oe is above the Di. There could be two flavors or variations of each animal.
*to self* That explains it.
entps have consume but wont shut up. explain?
They could be play Ne-Fe.
Wow. The level system is really hard for me. I jump the gun to the end and big picture instead of just doing.
Great vid
okay, I know I'm saviour consume. my RUclips and reading proves that I think. but then I've never struggled with blasting. I mean I've always been quite balanced in terms of use of functions but my teaching has been on point since primary when I realised that I had to break things down using Tii and connect them in front of people so that they can follow Ne (metaphors/analogies are good for that). so at certain points classmates have preferred me to teach. but I know I procastnate so I might be play last but my sleep is also weak in a sense. I got energy for days if I'm careful with my social activities. oh I an ENTP by the way. and oh I can work hard at something I just have to not hate it so I might be sleep last...
I've always had really strong fe I think. I might have suppresed it in my emo years but I remember crying with friends and for hurt animals when I was younger. they once killed an owl violently in front of me and I was so distraught😢 remembering that I was still 7 the memory is still quite raw...
Such facts!!!
INFJ - you guys changed my life.
NO F'N WONDER - Blast Last here.. I have to research and research and talk about it, and i still cant just f'n do it.. i start calling "it" stupid! And escape into another thing, and then that thing wears me down with guilt, then i start getting critical on others transferring that energy.. I thought it was just my Si weakness as an ENTP.. but this Sleep, Consume, Play (B) is making f'n sense! Start as little stupid mario, do the stupid little things, know its going to take me months (Damn, stupid commitment.. not naturally good).. Why is everything so stupid.
I literally love you people
I like this new set up :)
Comparing Two Systems Here: Consume And Blast Sound Like The "Flow State" Or "Genius State" In The Personality Hacker's System, While Sleep And Play Sound Like "Defensive" States In Personality Hacker's System; Which All Makes Sense To Me, But How Would Sleep Or Play Be Used Towards Someone's Career Benefit Using Objective Personality's System ?
Pretty nice video
Infinite Zest, the world's best spice. It comes from Indochina, but you can't go there anymore because it hasn't existed since 1954. It taste like a mixture of fly garlic, psilontro and hybiscus
That last point though lol... oof
Enneagram 5 problems
ENFP here with demon blast. I’m trying to write a story with an Enneagram 5 protagonist, and one of her main setbacks is her fear of getting started or doing things. I have spent the last three hours attempting to write the first chapter, and I keep getting so scared to actually write it because I think I don’t know enough. The irony is real. Wish me luck; I’m sitting here until I get this done.
Their channel is my kind of Netflix. I have a paid Netflix account by the way....so let me get back to the video.
What if you mainly focus on the lower half of your functions? Like for me, I feel like I'm more of blast for my first two functions but Whenever explaining things I always lock up, afraid that I'll provide the wrong information. But when I'm alone, I'll be a lot like the blast where I'll be confident in what have gathered (which is why I say I feel like a primary blaster rather than a consumer) but then once I am trying to explain it to others, I end up getting that locking up, and not being able to explain it and second guessing what I had gathered. That's probably the only reason I still haven't gotten any closer to figuring out my MBTI type.
Or is that not an example of focusing more on the consume side and is some form of the sleep?
🇸🇪 The confidence could be Sleep. My experience with Blast Last is feeling confident when I'm alone in my own little world but have a hard time explaining it to tribe.
I tend to go play with people, talking about ideas rather than explaining stuff. In my head I always think... "Geez, why should I explain this? You must already know this. You are probably better informed than me...". Until I remember myself about the 80/20 rule in consuming.
Try take a 20% bite of the "information cookie" that gives you 80% of the value. This mindset gives me some minor confidence to teach even if it's hard sometimes to be the one force to take control and telling others what to do lol.
Very cute! Keep up the good work 🙏
I think I have blast first. When I do Te it is in scientific research or surgery. I would of course have the information confirmed by the scientific standard. And I function this way in other areas of life where so much validity is not necessary. I want to control the chaos, make other people's lives better. I don't want to teach. I never want to give people information that isn't valid by what we know as objective truth. What do you think of this angle on blast?
That entire last part literally drains me to even hear. I'd rather just not have a tribe that I have to "flow" with.
Okay, now I'm actually confused about my animals. I always thought that I had sleep then consume on first, then play and blast on last. But I simply don't relate to the problems you mention, well not all of them. I relate a little bit, but I seem to have totally different problems in general.
Because I do have a tendency of winging it. Like, I use my consume and sleep to form a vague plan, then I just wing the rest. Even when I learn, there is a point where the information gathering stops being enough and I just have to do stuff. I can't learn everything just on a theoretical level, I have to be in action to truly learn it. Music is a perfect example: When I was going to a teacher regularly, it took a lot of time for a lot of things to stick. But when I actually became a musician and started doing stuff, I learned far more. But then again "teaching" and "controlling" are words that don't describe me, so I don't know.
Is it possible that I just got better at blasting? Or did I misunderstand it the whole time and I actually have play on last?
Here's another question: How do I get over the total uselessness that is having sleep first?
Bro sleep first is not useless. Being yourself is not useless. It's not just what you think you need to value but everything serves its purpose and sleep allows you to process deeply and easily compared to sleep last.
Your blast is probably on the third place, judging from what you say at least. If your play is last your probably gonna feel exhaustion from engaging with other people. For example, if you often find yourself distancing, being in your head while interacting with a group of people that means that you don't really wanna deal with "playing" with other people.
To answer the other question, to escape the sleep trap do more play in your case
Winging it is Play. If you are lead Sleep then you will plan excessively and mentally rehearse everything before doing it. Not useless at all. It's actually being extremely prepared, to the point of overprepared. Spending so much time mentally rehearsing and playing out scenarios in your head that you're basically never winging it.
Cool, so I've got two different answers and the obligatory insistence that sleep isn't totally useless. I mean, you just spend all day sleeping and consuming, and doing at least a little bit takes immense effort. Totally useless!
But I'm gonna go with Djura's answer, because what they described is exactly what I go through. I say hi to a stranger and I feel like I gotta take a nap for two days. Which further illustrates how much of a pain it is to have sleep first.
How to know which is above which for sleep and consume?
ive no idea really f ive typed my self correctly... but im fairly certain im blast last.. pos consume first... and i have too developed similar tricks to just start . .. found this one of the more helpful snipets any way... one day when i can afford it ill sign up.
5:47 - By the way Shan is saying this, seems like there was a situation where this actually happened LOL
Yesssss i was wondering why no one brought this up until i saw your comment
Can you guys please explain the difference between a Lead Blast with Female Oi/Male De and a Lead Blast with Male Oi/Female De?
Blast third here, but I'm still somewhat of a mumblefuck™
So does it mean that people who have more of "Consume" and low "Blast" will have Di or Oe as Saviour and De or Oi as Demon?
Which personality types have blast last?
INFP
@@orangeziggy348 any other ones?
@@Kathryn_Jordyn I dont know. Sorry, I am a newbie. You might be able to find out by looking a their chart that they sometimes put in their videos.
INTP in my case and others.
Who dies at level one? When I do die I get so annoyed 😂🤣
1:07 jesus fucking shit
TLDR; You cant complete the Boss level as a level 1 noob with sucky gear and starting stats.
Why do I have to show up anywhere? Why can't I just tell the chump who wants to be typed that he would be better off typing himself? Yeah, I think that I have Blast last lmao.
You guys should have this as background music to all your videos:
ruclips.net/video/Nd24SgxemW0/видео.html
Lol
:)
نصيحة لكل بنت هتقرأ الكلام ده .. من أخ والله مش عايز حاجة غير الخير لكي..
أختي الكريمة..
عارف إنك محترمة ومؤدبة ونيتك كويسة وواثق إنك مسلمة بتحبي ربنا والنبي صلى الله عليه وسلم ونفسك تدخلي الجنة وربنا يرضى عنك..
والكلام اللي هقوله ده ممكن الشيطان يقنعك إني عدو لكي ويخليكي ترفضي أي حاجة منه..
أختي الكريمة..
مش عادي إنك تعدي سن التكليف ومتلبسيش الحجاب..
مش عادي إنك تلبسي لبس يظهر زينتك وجسمك لأي حد ..
مش عادي إنك تلبسي هوت شورت عشان في الساحل ..
مش عادي إنك تصاحبي ولد حتى لو نيتك كويسة وفي بينكم حدود ..
مش عادي إنك تتزيني وتتعطري وأنتي خارجة من بيتك ..
مش عادي إنك تحضري حفلة وتشربي وترقصي وصورك تنزل على صفحات زي cairo zoom والشباب يتفرجوا عليكي..
مش عادي دي كلمة بقولها عشان تكون مستساغة .. لكن الواقع إن اللي فات حرام وذنوب عظيمة جداً في حق ربنا وممكن تكون سبب لدخولك النار وغضب ربنا عليكي في الدنيا ويوم القيامة..
متخليش الشيطان يضحك عليكي ويقنعك إن هي دي الحرية والتقدم والسعادة..
الإنسان خلق عبد وهيفضل عبد.. لو مش هنعبد ربنا هنعبد أي حاجة تانية.. هنعبد شهواتنا والموضة والفلوس..
الحرية في عبودية ربنا والعزة في عبودية ربنا..
والله العظيم فعلاً خايف عليكي لما بقرأ حديث النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم لما قال إن في نوعين من الناس من أهل النار والنبي صلى الله عليه وسلم مشافش النوعين دول في عهده.. منهم البنت اللي بتلبس لبس يظهر جسمها ..
في صحيح مسلم عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " صِنْفَانِ مِنْ أَهْلِ النَّارِ لَمْ أَرَهُمَا ؛ قَوْمٌ مَعَهُمْ سِيَاطٌ كَأَذْنَابِ الْبَقَرِ يَضْرِبُونَ بِهَا النَّاسَ، وَنِسَاءٌ كَاسِيَاتٌ عَارِيَاتٌ، مُمِيلَاتٌ مَائِلَاتٌ، رُءُوسُهُنَّ كَأَسْنِمَةِ الْبُخْتِ الْمَائِلَةِ، لَا يَدْخُلْنَ الْجَنَّةَ، وَلَا يَجِدْنَ رِيحَهَا، وَإِنَّ رِيحَهَا لَيُوجَدُ مِنْ مَسِيرَةِ كَذَا وَكَذَا ".
هو إحنا قلوبنا بقت قاسية لدرجة إني أسمع حديث النبي بيقول إن اللي بتلبس كده دي من أهل النار وعادي مش خايف؟
هو إحنا متخيلين يعني إيه نار؟
والأعظم من كده إن يوم القيامة النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يعرض عني عشان أنا كنت بعيد عن سنته ومكنتش بلبس الحجاب اللي أمرني بيه؟
والأعظم إن ربنا يغضب علي عشان عصيت أمره؟
بعد كل النعم دي وربنا يحب لكي الستر نعصي أمر ربنا ونقول لا مش عايزين حجاب كده أحسن؟
طيب نفكر في الموت .. لما أموت وأنا بلبس كده وبكلم ولاد ومبصليش هقول إيه لربنا لما يسألني؟
يجي برضه الشيطان ويقولك هو يغض بصره وأنتي تلبس براحتك..
والله هو هياخد ذنب عشان مغضش بصره..
بس برضه أنتي مع كل نظره هتاخدي ذنب عشان عصيتي أمر ربنا وملبستيش الحجاب صح.. لكن لو أنتي ملتزمة بحجابك وهو مغضش بصره هو ياخد ذنب وأنتي أصلاً في طاعة طول ما أنتي محتشمة بتاخدي حسنات ..
أنا ركزت الكلام عن الحجاب عشان الحجاب ده منظومة مش مجرد طرحة..
البنت المسلمة المحجبة محتشمة متكلمش ولاد عندها حياء بتحافظ على صلاتها بتحفظ أهلها وبتراعي غياب أبوها وأخوها وزوجها وبتتقي الله فيهم .. البنت المحجبة بتاخد بالها من كلامها مع أي شخص غريب عشان ربنا أمرها إن هي متتدلعش في الكلام وتقول قول معروف ..
بس عارفة إيه العادي؟؟
عادي إن إحنا نكون ماشيين في طريق غلط .. ونقرر نرجع
عادي لو أنتي مش محجبة أو مبتصليش أو بتشربي أو مصاحبة أو حتى وقعتي في ذنب عظيم وفاحشة إنك ترجعي.. وتاخدي خطوات لربنا ..
عشان ربنا تواب رحيم يقبل التوبة ويعفو عن السيئات ويبدل السيئات حسنات.. المهم نندم ونعترف إن إحنا غلط ونسيب الطريق ..
لو مش محجبة يلا خدي خطوة من انهاردة متأجليش..
لو مصاحبة اقطعي علاقتك بيه فوراً وتوبي من الذنب ده وزودي من العمل الصالح وإن شاء الله ربنا يعوضك خير ويبقى في الحلال..
لو مبتصليش ابدأي جددي العهد مع ربنا إنك مش هتسيبي صلاة في وقتها ..
لو حتى وقعتي في ذنب عظيم وفاحشة والله ربنا يقبلك بس اقطعي أي سبب للذنب وابعدي عن أي حد بيوصلك للفاحشة دي وغيري صحبتك..
قال تعالى :
﴿قُل يا عِبادِيَ الَّذينَ أَسرَفوا عَلى أَنفُسِهِم لا تَقنَطوا مِن رَحمَةِ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغفِرُ الذُّنوبَ جَميعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الغَفورُ الرَّحيمُ وَأَنيبوا إِلى رَبِّكُم وَأَسلِموا لَهُ مِن قَبلِ أَن يَأتِيَكُمُ العَذابُ ثُمَّ لا تُنصَرونَ وَاتَّبِعوا أَحسَنَ ما أُنزِلَ إِلَيكُم مِن رَبِّكُم مِن قَبلِ أَن يَأتِيَكُمُ العَذابُ بَغتَةً وَأَنتُم لا تَشعُرونَ أَن تَقولَ نَفسٌ يا حَسرَتا عَلى ما فَرَّطتُ في جَنبِ اللَّهِ وَإِن كُنتُ لَمِنَ السّاخِرينَ أَو تَقولَ لَو أَنَّ اللَّهَ هَداني لَكُنتُ مِنَ المُتَّقينَ أَو تَقولَ حينَ تَرَى العَذابَ لَو أَنَّ لي كَرَّةً فَأَكونَ مِنَ المُحسِنينَ بَلى قَد جاءَتكَ آياتي فَكَذَّبتَ بِها وَاستَكبَرتَ وَكُنتَ مِنَ الكافِرينَ﴾ [الزمر: ٥٣-٥
so is this some shit they have invented or is it based in actual jungian doctrine?
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