The Worst Part Of Being A Nurse | Nurse Blake

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  • Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024

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  • @ghost.8032
    @ghost.8032 Месяц назад +1393

    The mutual sass between these two seems like the start of a beautiful friendship 😂😭♥️

    • @kairaparamo7564
      @kairaparamo7564 27 дней назад +94

      I thought it was flirting

    • @Smiley-yk7vw
      @Smiley-yk7vw 27 дней назад +13

      @@kairaparamo7564is Dr. Mike gay?

    • @dionneferguson2661
      @dionneferguson2661 27 дней назад +3

      A

    • @tHatGuYdubs
      @tHatGuYdubs 27 дней назад +5

      ​@@Smiley-yk7vw Nah

    • @abhisheksharma-sb3er
      @abhisheksharma-sb3er 25 дней назад +19

      ​@@Smiley-yk7vw who knows 😅 though non of our business, I'm sure he had a gf, it's bi u might be looking.

  • @sayan9566
    @sayan9566 Месяц назад +1702

    Dr Mike please please interview a veterinarian or a vet tech. We are very underrepresented and misunderstood. We need your type of audience and platform to raise more awareness. I am a current vet student and I cannot even describe how many misconceptions there are in our field / career

    • @0ExpectTheUnexpected
      @0ExpectTheUnexpected Месяц назад

      Both small and large animal representation too would be great. Especially with corporations buying up small animal clinics lately and jacking up the prices of animal care.

    • @justahugenerd1278
      @justahugenerd1278 Месяц назад +32

      What misconceptions if I might ask?

    • @kellenungaro
      @kellenungaro Месяц назад +44

      I would love to see this!! Although never heard anything bad said about a vet in my life. Yall are hero’s❤️❤️🙌🏼

    • @sayan9566
      @sayan9566 Месяц назад

      @@justahugenerd1278 that they make a lot of money, that our job is just filled with seeing a lot of cute puppies and kittens, that clients treat us kindly because they’d do anything for their animal (when client bullying is a very big problem in our job). We deal with a lottttt of misconceptions and people don’t really give us a platform to talk about it

    • @sayan9566
      @sayan9566 Месяц назад +13

      @@kellenungaro thank you so much for the kind words!!

  • @Battle_Hippos11
    @Battle_Hippos11 Месяц назад +645

    The nurse that was with me when my grandfather was dying will be in my mind forever. When his breathing got so low that the oxygen machine would beep she came in and turned it off. She gave me a hug said i didnt need to listen to it. Then she caught me sneeking turing it on just to see how much it had dropped again she removed it from the room and hugged me said she wasnt going to let me torture myself. She sat with me for a solid 20 min, which i know she didnt need to do she had other patients to get to, but she conforted me. She asked me about him and his hobbies and my fav memories with him.

    • @m.5748
      @m.5748 Месяц назад +20

      Wow! Thankyou for sharing this!

    • @Battle_Hippos11
      @Battle_Hippos11 Месяц назад +30

      Wow thank you everyone for liking my post. His birthday was last week and I was really thinking about him a lot recently and the video reminded me a lot about how thankful I was of the staff there helping me and my family thru it all.

    • @Battle_Hippos11
      @Battle_Hippos11 Месяц назад +3

      💜💜💜

    • @TriinaG
      @TriinaG Месяц назад +10

      This is why I got into nursing🙏🏾💙

    • @user-vb6ky1mo9e
      @user-vb6ky1mo9e 25 дней назад +4

      Wow. What an exceptional nurse! And I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @shizzlestickx
    @shizzlestickx 29 дней назад +487

    I love that half of Blake's jokes are going right over Mike's head lmao, most honest nurse to doctor interaction

  • @Sweetbobaatea
    @Sweetbobaatea Месяц назад +534

    30:24 Doctor Mike's ability to keep the conversation on track is unmatched.

    • @turcj
      @turcj Месяц назад +4

      LOL

    • @_Starry820
      @_Starry820 Месяц назад +3

      @@AasuYadav-d2fuhm. Ok? What does their ethnicity have to do with this?..

    • @Alanasianful
      @Alanasianful Месяц назад +20

      @@AasuYadav-d2fmy brother in Christ, what are you talking about?

  • @Coreyj06
    @Coreyj06 Месяц назад +739

    “I’m bad with names. I thought I was meeting doctor OZ today” 😂😂
    Dr Mike didn’t even acknowledge him saying that. And that was sooooo funny.

    • @user-bb9qb5hw1v
      @user-bb9qb5hw1v Месяц назад +21

      @@Coreyj06 Nurse Blake is wicked funny.

    • @Coreyj06
      @Coreyj06 Месяц назад

      @@user-bb9qb5hw1v yes he is this my first time being introduced to him I’m not a nurse but I wld definitely go to his show

    • @Spajari
      @Spajari Месяц назад +1

      😂😂

    • @Coreyj06
      @Coreyj06 Месяц назад +9

      @@user-bb9qb5hw1v I didn’t know. The hits just kept coming. This my first time seeing him. I live him.

    • @laurasuarez2860
      @laurasuarez2860 25 дней назад +2

      He did reply, but just brushed it off 😂

  • @rabbitsedits
    @rabbitsedits Месяц назад +1066

    love how blake perfectly explains the main difference between doctors and nurses:
    nurses spend way more time with patients. that's why it's so irritating when people imply we chose nursing because we we're not smart enough to be doctors. we're very smart, it's just that the social aspect of the job takes priority for us. we could never spend so much time behind a desk. that's why we're grateful that there are a lot of people who actually enjoy that type of work and i'm sure that doctors feel the same way about our job.
    doctors and nurses need each other - we have the same goal, which is helping people, but we prefer different approaches. our differences are CRUCIAL for our health care system, because if you remove one group - doctors or nurses - the whole system collapses.
    diagnosis and treatment orders are useless if there's no one to execute them. and nurses can only do so much without a doctor's assessment, because they give us the important information we need in order to properly take care of our patients.
    we're like yin and yang. we complement each other. love this video 🎉

    • @emilymaeflower93
      @emilymaeflower93 Месяц назад +2

      +

    • @robynhunter6718
      @robynhunter6718 Месяц назад +8

      Beautifully said. I'm incredibly lucky to work in the community because our patients really do appreciate us helping keep them at home and out of hospitals unless absolutely needed. I don't know if I could ever do hospital nursing with so little time for each patient and just a snapshot in time. I love being able to spend 30 - 60 minutes at a time with someone and get to know them throughout their healthcare journey ❤🙂
      Signed
      ~ a community visiting nurse

    • @kyravarsakelis5650
      @kyravarsakelis5650 Месяц назад +3

      Absolutely love how you put this!!

    • @daemonfox5456
      @daemonfox5456 Месяц назад +22

      Most doctors do in fact want to be with their patients and hate being stuck behind a computer all day. It's only relatively recently that doctors have been forced into this position by administrators and insurance companies. The general joke is if you want to be a doctor but not interact with patients is that you should become a radiologist or pathologist, because then you'll be off in a room/lab somewhere. Source: I am a pre-med student applying to medical school. I have yet to meet a doctor or pre-med who says, "I want to be a doctor to be at a desk writing charts."

    • @ndrew.Vietnam
      @ndrew.Vietnam Месяц назад +1

      Very well said

  • @lenaraviolin
    @lenaraviolin 28 дней назад +235

    Them flirting with each other hade me so happy hahahah

  • @mistyb5577
    @mistyb5577 Месяц назад +184

    Huge sign-on bonuses for new hires that most likely will leave once their contract is met, but not giving your experienced/long haul nurses any bonuses for retention….so frustrating!

    • @joygernautm6641
      @joygernautm6641 Месяц назад +10

      Our health authority recently stopped paying travel nurses so much, and started paying retention bonuses. If you take a full-time permanent line, you automatically get an extra $2.50 an hour for every scheduled shift in your line. Also, if you take a full-time line in a remotely served area, you can apply for a loan forgiveness. 30% for every year you work. Also, you get a bonus based on the hours you work every three months for the first two years. My last paycheque I got an $1800 bonus just because I work in a remote community. This is how you keep nurses from leaving to go travel

  • @thryssinstitches9655
    @thryssinstitches9655 Месяц назад +332

    Panic attacks are terrifying! I hate how embarrassed some medical professionals will make you feel. Unless you've had one, you don't understand how much you feel like you're dying.

    • @angelachouinard4581
      @angelachouinard4581 Месяц назад +14

      My mom was claustrophobic. On a tour of vintage aircraft I could see in front of me a woman who was going into panic. As her husband forged on ahead I went up to her and said "Come with me. I see you're claustrophobic". I took her to the observers seat in the aircraft, sat her down and had her look out the window and stayed with her. I'm so glad I was there, no one else noticed and I could she where she was headed. Not only is the attack awful but people just don't understand and the sufferer is often embarrassed.

    • @angelinadrobina5037
      @angelinadrobina5037 Месяц назад

      @@angelachouinard4581God bless you for doing that I don’t fly any more I can’t / last flight full anxiety attack on takeoff - they stopped the plane and kicked me off because I was trying to open the handle / I’m a completely sane professional person but that was the lowlight of my life

    • @jblyon2
      @jblyon2 Месяц назад +10

      I was having them for years not knowing what they were. It felt like something was wrong with my heart, but the test results were always perfectly fine. The doctors would just blame it on my weight and refuse to do anything until I lost weight. I finally got a new doctor who said they were panic attacks and I was stuck in fight or flight mode 24/7, which coincidentally made it damn near impossible to lose the weight the other doctors insisted I needed to lose before they would do anything else.
      New doctor treated the underlying health issues causing the anxiety and panic attacks. I've lost 130 pounds / 59 kg since then. Doctors need to quit using weight as an excuse to not do their jobs!

    • @justahugenerd1278
      @justahugenerd1278 Месяц назад +8

      I was actually in the ER earlier this week for a bad panic attack that made me think I was dying. The doctor who saw me was so nice and understanding about it and reassured me that my heart was fine. I was so touched by that kindness (rather than frustration or shame) that I ended up crying 😅

    • @faithdiamond2102
      @faithdiamond2102 27 дней назад +1

      Several years ago I had an allergic reaction to penicillin after I had almost finished the script. I was covered in hives, in a bunch of pain from all my joints swelling, and I itched all over. Then I started feeling like I couldn't breathe. My mom rushed me to the ER.
      I felt like I was suffocating.
      Turned out I was having a panic attack and hyperventilating. The nurse actually seemed angry at me. The remark she made just made it sound like I wasted their time.
      That was the second worst way a nurse treated me in the ER.

  • @luccazb8001
    @luccazb8001 Месяц назад +183

    Is it me or were they flirting? Cause I felt sparks, “I’ll give you good chest compressions” ~ Dr. Mike. SIR saying that with those eyes and smile is a crime

    • @Grizz..
      @Grizz.. 21 день назад +6

      No

    • @natashablanchette2541
      @natashablanchette2541 21 день назад +29

      100🙌🙌
      - "what DO they say about male nurses"*side eye, raised brow, cutie smile*
      - "i dont know, i was hoping youd tell ME"*side eye, raised brow, cutie smile*
      - "no, YOU tell ME"*giggle, laugh, smile etc😍

    • @kathleenmoore9534
      @kathleenmoore9534 21 день назад +9

      Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.
      ​@@Grizz..

    • @kathleenmoore9534
      @kathleenmoore9534 21 день назад

      ​@@natashablanchette2541Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.

    • @liamevans7661
      @liamevans7661 19 дней назад +27

      ​@@kathleenmoore9534 You are why people are leaving the church lol

  • @autumn3510
    @autumn3510 Месяц назад +124

    “Cracked her skull”
    “No, Jesus Mike!”
    😂😂😂

    • @yr8211
      @yr8211 Месяц назад +7

      This needs more likes because that part was so funny! 😂

    • @deadlypyre
      @deadlypyre 21 день назад

      Someone give me timestamp for this

    • @brisk8471
      @brisk8471 16 дней назад

      @@deadlypyre32:23

    • @itsjanedoe
      @itsjanedoe 13 дней назад

      I FREAKING SCREAMED! Lmao

  • @michaelgallagher1717
    @michaelgallagher1717 29 дней назад +74

    As a male NICU nurse who is still relatively early in my career (4.5 years) this was extremely inspiring and is probably one of my favorite podcast episodes I’ve ever listened to!

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 11 дней назад +6

      I've never known a male being NICU nurse. Rad awesome cool.

  • @Chachabeetch
    @Chachabeetch 28 дней назад +178

    The sex**l tension and friendly flirting was real! 😂
    Specially while talking about chest compressions! 😅
    These two need their own podcast.

  • @NinjaSimms
    @NinjaSimms Месяц назад +376

    Bearded, bald, straight, male nurse here. I work in emergency and yes, my hobbies are all adrenaline based.

    • @rawrrawrpiggy
      @rawrrawrpiggy Месяц назад +22

      You NEED to be able to release the tension and adrenaline that builds up. I’m glad you’re able to do it with things that are fun to you.

    • @katie-kb6qd
      @katie-kb6qd Месяц назад +26

      I work in an ER and so many ER workers have the most adrenaline based hobbies, like one nurse loves sky diving 😭

    • @TheNurseInvestors
      @TheNurseInvestors 26 дней назад +2

      🤣😂😂

    • @user-vb6ky1mo9e
      @user-vb6ky1mo9e 25 дней назад +5

      Very common for ADHD people to go into Emergency Care

    • @katie-kb6qd
      @katie-kb6qd 25 дней назад

      @@user-vb6ky1mo9e Can confirm this lmao

  • @ptrinch
    @ptrinch Месяц назад +229

    1:12:40 as the son of a doctor, I can relate. He had two criteria... Are you bleeding? No. Are you breathing? Yes. Go to school.

    • @kerriecu2
      @kerriecu2 Месяц назад +21

      My kids used to say to me……”you’re the worst nurse ever” , because I rarely let them stay home sick. Actually, they rarely got sick 🤔. Nurse in Australia here, more than fifty years and still at the bedside and loving it. But I think we have better staffing levels here in Australia than the US.

    • @floria-loubunda7303
      @floria-loubunda7303 Месяц назад +5

      Hahaha wow same for me! my mom was a nurse 😂❤

    • @paskuda696
      @paskuda696 Месяц назад +4

      sounds like my and other Eastern European mums in the 90ties ^^ - with a sprinkle of "stop moaning and get going" on top ;)

    • @mangantasy289
      @mangantasy289 27 дней назад +2

      My sister is a doctor. Just the last weekend I was at her place and her 19 month old daughter, in a glimpse of moment unseen, tried to climp the office chair. Fell over and bumped her head.
      Mama doctor mode activated in my sis, soothing the baby, make her show her tongue to see if she may have bitten it, check the few teeth she has, palpating her head, nose, hands... Little been was fine.

  • @michelemcdermott75
    @michelemcdermott75 Месяц назад +175

    Attention: my husband fought pancreatic cancer- the nurses got us through so many dark moments! One nurse- as I was struggling to learn now to give him a shot for insulin (as he was going home to die) looked at me and said, “he’s already starting his journey” it snapped me back into reality! What the hell was I thinking? Total respect for nurses! 🙏❤️ He passed 16 years ago but her words have stayed with me!

    • @DesertPrimrose
      @DesertPrimrose Месяц назад +14

      My dad also had pancreatic cancer. That's when I learned that nurses are among the best humans.

    • @michelemcdermott75
      @michelemcdermott75 Месяц назад +9

      @@DesertPrimrose I’m so sorry. Yes- it’s the nurses that got a comfortable recliner for me to sleep in for so many days-the list goes on! Nurses that work the “cancer” floor are truly a gift!

    • @traceymcelhaney674
      @traceymcelhaney674 8 дней назад +3

      Staying by my Dads side the entire time through his journey with pancreatic cancer six years ago is what made me completely alter my career path and go in to nursing in my late 30’s. I consider it a true honor to be welcomed by so many families during their most broken and critical times.

  • @bjornullmann2095
    @bjornullmann2095 Месяц назад +59

    Nurses and doctors are both under appreciated. Nurses give a lot of themselves to care for patients. Doctors make huge sacrifices in their lives to study and learn to treat complex diseases. Together we both make a kick ass team.

    • @stevek2121
      @stevek2121 29 дней назад +6

      However, doctors get rewarded on their paychecks

    • @daliam8715
      @daliam8715 23 дня назад

      @Steve, in the US maybe

    • @madeleinebontu3926
      @madeleinebontu3926 20 дней назад

      @@stevek2121 absolutely not. I’m in Ghana, the workload is crazy and the nurses are enjoying. I do 16hours at the ER, finish and go to the ward to do my reviews and close at 4pm and have to go back at 8am the next day. And when you are on call the entire week, you cannot even sleep at home properly after duties. Nurses work 6hour shifts and they even have rotation and student nurses who take vitals and administer drugs. Y’all should stop comparing. We have to think on our feet quickly, and work long hours and because you do most routine stuff you think it is better, please become a doctor and see

    • @lesleyflores1582
      @lesleyflores1582 20 дней назад

      ​@stevek2121 maybe, maybe not. depends on location and specialty. same with nursing

  • @andrewhegstrom2187
    @andrewhegstrom2187 Месяц назад +85

    I'll never forget the day that a little 98 year old woman with a UTI who was confused and was trying to pull her foley out broke my friend's finger when he tried to stop her. (He was a former Marine too, we actually did have a good laugh). He just splinted it, we finished our shift, and then he reported it and went to see an ortho the next day. It's funny the things we put up with.

  • @nolanay831
    @nolanay831 Месяц назад +179

    Doctor Mike…can y’all delve deeper on the role of support staff? Nurse Blake mentioned being a transporter which reminded me of my past life as a unit clerk and current role in scheduling. We don’t always get love because we’re non-clinical but it’s important to recognize we’re all a big team babyyyyyy!

    • @nicolekent9518
      @nicolekent9518 Месяц назад +5

      Hospital transports have almost always made or broke my hospital stay, once I was brought to a hospital that scared me and even though they have already signed over medical custody they stayed and made sure I was at least feeling safe before they went back to the general hospital

    • @emilymaeflower93
      @emilymaeflower93 Месяц назад +10

      my friend has been an ER intake/receptionist(?) for years!! the non-clinical staff are SO crucial to the medical system ❤ thanks for what you do!

    • @psychlover42
      @psychlover42 Месяц назад +2

      Please interview a MLS! My Dad has been one for 35 years and they're very underappreciated, but very important to the healthcare system.

    • @captaintwoneil9488
      @captaintwoneil9488 27 дней назад +4

      I work in food service and deliver food and drinks to patients. I spend the majority of my time in rehab interacting with long term patients. A positive attitude and a smile goes a long way.

  • @LiseGood
    @LiseGood 23 дня назад +42

    I literally love Dr. Mike’s (for lack of a better term) “ignorance” to certain topics. And I mean that as a compliment bc it really speaks to how respectful and nice he really is.

    • @GrinBrain
      @GrinBrain 22 дня назад +2

      U mean obliviousness? 😭

    • @LiseGood
      @LiseGood 22 дня назад +3

      @@GrinBrain eh a meaning of ignorance is lacking awareness. Oblivious is more of a self centered thing but it sounds much better 😅

    • @GrinBrain
      @GrinBrain 22 дня назад +3

      @@LiseGood no cuz oblivious can be like " he has no clue cuz innocence " loll

  • @ireboren11
    @ireboren11 Месяц назад +42

    I met nurse Blake last year in Victoria, BC. He is such a charismatic sweetheart. Hilarious show.

    • @melissacarter334
      @melissacarter334 18 дней назад

      When he came through Vancouver that time I was shattered because I had to work but you are so lucky you could go❤

  • @jaydem8611
    @jaydem8611 Месяц назад +63

    I’m glad he’s talking about the pitfalls of hospitals. I work in a non clinical role and we feel it too. All this money is being thrown at new hires that come in and out like a revolving door, but those of us who have been there for years get “rocks”.

    • @joanhoffman3702
      @joanhoffman3702 Месяц назад +2

      They give you rocks? They just handed you weapons. Oops.

    • @roxcyn
      @roxcyn 28 дней назад +3

      Stick up for yourself. Advocate for yourself. Talk to the C level employees if you have to! If you’re not being valued or given the appropriate raises, it’s time to move on.

    • @genevievec.8002
      @genevievec.8002 27 дней назад +4

      I feel like it's a pretty ubiquitous experience in most jobs - new hires getting treated better than tenured folks. That's been my experience at most of the jobs I've worked, or people I know have worked. That's why they say getting a new job often pays better (usually, that's not inclusive of minimum wage type jobs).
      However, it is crazy that such an important and stressful job gets that same treatment.

    • @CzolgoszWorkinMan
      @CzolgoszWorkinMan 14 дней назад

      you have as much right as any other workers to organize

  • @abigaylelauer8766
    @abigaylelauer8766 Месяц назад +35

    Baby RN here… very grateful for people like Blake for advocating for the conditions of the profession. Patients over profits!!

  • @saumyasrivastava6093
    @saumyasrivastava6093 Месяц назад +149

    Being able to attend Nurse Blake's cruise might be the best reason to marry a healthcare provider. Sounds like an absolute blast!

    • @rachaellaplant902
      @rachaellaplant902 Месяц назад +2

      @@saumyasrivastava6093 it sounds like a booze fest when sobriety is better for our health

    • @Uncle_Smidge
      @Uncle_Smidge Месяц назад +13

      ​@@rachaellaplant902Sounds like you have a fixation and warp other people's comments so you can stand on your soapbox.

    • @rachaellaplant902
      @rachaellaplant902 Месяц назад +4

      @@Uncle_Smidge sounds like your opinions of me is wrong. It’s not hard to read up on the information on what the healthcare community knows about it today. You should try it sometime instead of trying to create a rhetoric about someone that truly isn’t there. You really don’t have a leg to stand on with it. Research and read it for yourself then since you know all

    • @rachaellaplant902
      @rachaellaplant902 Месяц назад +1

      @@Uncle_Smidge there is no soapbox lol. Blake is bragging about alcohol sales when alcoholism is a disease and alcoholic cirrhosis of the liver is a thing. What’s unfair is these people destroy their own livers and then come looking for a transplant. In the world of transplant, someone usually has to die to get one. Something has to give because it’s getting obscene

    • @BlueMJBerries
      @BlueMJBerries 26 дней назад +1

      ⁠@@rachaellaplant902Stfu lol it’s clear you have no idea how to have fun. As a PACU nurse, I’m rolling my eyes and it’s funny to me how you just need to ruin a vibe when nurses are trying to find community and advocate for ourselves as usual. What are we, robots? Life is short and when you’re near the end of your life it’s us who take care of you, mostly without any gratefulness.

  • @ryanjones7202
    @ryanjones7202 20 дней назад +17

    I ran into doctor Mike during one of my rotations and was like wait was that doctor Mike! Had to do a double take. Later that day I had to interact with him regarding a patient and he was extremely kind and welcoming which was a nice change of pace!

  • @skincarebychrisa223
    @skincarebychrisa223 25 дней назад +35

    Why is their chemistry cute ❤

  • @lamike1982
    @lamike1982 25 дней назад +18

    There was some light flirting between the two of them and it’s cute. When Blake talks about potentially being involved in a helicopter crash and not wanting to be resuscitated and Dr. Mike asks why and says that he can give Blake damn good chest compressions. I would’ve been like what about mouth-to-mouth, Dr. Mike? You can’t forget mouth-to-mouth; how else am I going to get the breath of life?

  • @billydoyle6919
    @billydoyle6919 Месяц назад +51

    I run a resus training company here in NZ. He's so damn right about dull conferences! Education cruises are awesome from what I hear. Problem for me is if I chartered an entire cruise liner, it would take every nurse in our country to fill it!
    I love to see RNs & MDs succeed in business, especially if they're doing something so positive for the front-line.
    Bravo dude.

    • @joanhoffman3702
      @joanhoffman3702 Месяц назад

      The budget option is lots of floaties in a pool.

  • @sketchyskies8531
    @sketchyskies8531 Месяц назад +323

    Nurses are under appreciated

    • @cannonb873
      @cannonb873 Месяц назад +7

      absolutely. VERY.

    • @rachaellaplant902
      @rachaellaplant902 Месяц назад

      That’s not even a little bit true. I’ve met nurses that use their degree to bully and hurt people.

    • @JonnyQuest4000
      @JonnyQuest4000 Месяц назад +5

      Definitely

    • @jnicole2440
      @jnicole2440 Месяц назад +1

      Hot take but I feel like they're not. They get lots of attention, societal benefits etc. Maybe it's area based (pnw here)

    • @yougottaseizetheopportunit5778
      @yougottaseizetheopportunit5778 Месяц назад +3

      @@jnicole2440what has attention and societal benefit got to do with them being under appreciated

  • @antaeres4696
    @antaeres4696 29 дней назад +29

    "Doctor Mike on your chest, pushing two inches deep?"
    "Four inches deep?" *grins*
    (later)
    "We'll make a hole"
    We love seeing a flirtationship unfold

  • @turcj
    @turcj Месяц назад +63

    I'm constantly amazed at how similar nurses and teachers are. I taught for 38 years and can relate to most of this.

    • @anneplemons
      @anneplemons Месяц назад +10

      I always relate teaching and nursing, overworked and underpaid-strenuous job!

    • @kellbellslyrics
      @kellbellslyrics 29 дней назад +4

      And both have a larger proportion of females working in these fields…this is a big part of the problem. Women are taught more often to suck it up and haven’t across the board stood up to it and demanded better treatment/pay/benefits. Hopefully we can turn it around

    • @brandnew91495
      @brandnew91495 28 дней назад +1

      Social workers too

    • @TheNurseInvestors
      @TheNurseInvestors 26 дней назад +2

      Two very needed careers in America but not enough appreciation

  • @dabien1
    @dabien1 Месяц назад +21

    the chemistry between these two are amazing!

  • @TheNurseInvestors
    @TheNurseInvestors Месяц назад +174

    I finally got my first none sh*t cleaning nursing job working at an addiction recovery center. Don’t be afraid to switch jobs if you don’t like it, plus you’ll get paid more by switching jobs every few years!

    • @kiki13450
      @kiki13450 Месяц назад +18

      Yeah I started on the unit and only lasted a year before I went to the OR and love it. I hated the floor and was pressured into staying. But I was/am too young to have my blood pressure so high every day lmao

    • @11892rosa
      @11892rosa 29 дней назад +2

      Oh wow I didn't know that could be a nursing job. Is it better paid than bedside nursing?

    • @TheNurseInvestors
      @TheNurseInvestors 29 дней назад

      @@11892rosa The pay will depend on your employer and your experience, but I’m definitely making more money at this job than I was making working bedside. That’s also my third nursing job

    • @TheNurseInvestors
      @TheNurseInvestors 29 дней назад +1

      @@kiki13450 Yeah I feel you. If I had stayed on med surg, I would have become a patient😂

  • @antongunther3977
    @antongunther3977 Месяц назад +18

    My PA program does some mixed training between pharmacy, PA, and nursing students. We dont have classes together but we do have a few sessions where we go through a simulated patient case with patient actors. The nursing students take vitals and do some assessments. PA students diagnose and put in orders often taking the nursing student's assessment into account. The pharmacy students make sure the med list is accurate and double check our dosages/med choices.
    Its a great exercise and really builds respect for the professions. Best part is that its not really graded, its purely an attendance thing so you just focus on your team work skills.

  • @brackguthrie9470
    @brackguthrie9470 Месяц назад +222

    Hospitals do not want to retain nurses. New nurses are much cheaper than experienced nurses. If a nurse stays in a position for more than two years, they are losing money. The piddly merit raises do not keep up with the market.

    • @CanCricket12345
      @CanCricket12345 Месяц назад +1

      This! I’ve been saying this for years. Managers and administrators don’t care about experience and benefits for patients. They care about money. And young, inexperienced nurses get paid less and get less in the ways of extras like paid time off.

    • @jblyon2
      @jblyon2 Месяц назад +7

      There's a reason LPN stands for Low Paid Nurse!

    • @taintwasher3703
      @taintwasher3703 Месяц назад

      What about the travel nurses getting paid 60 dollars an hour on a 12 week contract?

    • @mambaforever3239
      @mambaforever3239 Месяц назад +5

      Unfortunately, that is true. The hospital I work in even had a dedicated nursing school so that they can swap experienced nurses with newly graduated nurses that have a lower salary grade. And they gave out scholarships to make sure these new nurses stay and work for the hospital. A terrible way to treat our hardworking nurses 😢

    • @AnnaMiluska1
      @AnnaMiluska1 28 дней назад

      ​@@jblyon2 I really want LPN and RN just be nurses and not two different job groups.

  • @witchofthewild2289
    @witchofthewild2289 Месяц назад +40

    Sounds like both teachers and medical staff have a lot of the same issues with upper management and patients/students. As a teacher listening to this it’s like oh damn, you guys too? I wish more doctors and nurses cared like this.

    • @TheNurseInvestors
      @TheNurseInvestors 26 дней назад

      Yeah I knew teachers had it rough, but I didn't expect it as a nurse

  • @thefoxeshideaway
    @thefoxeshideaway Месяц назад +39

    It's people like you two that will change the world for the better, becuase you don't do it the way it's always been. You question and challenge and I'm so glad you two exist in the fields that you do! Thank you! ❤

  • @Robbie-pp1ij
    @Robbie-pp1ij 18 дней назад +7

    I love how nurse blake is he’s so authentic

  • @simplyexisting604
    @simplyexisting604 Месяц назад +32

    It's becoming really apparent that most departments in hospitals are being neglected and overworked. I enjoy hearing the perspectives on nursing, and that it's getting out there for people not in that environment to see & hear. I'd love to see you have a medical lab tech on your channel next, since they're also suffering with overloads of work, abysmal pay, misconceptions about what they do, abuse from different levels of faculty all day, living in a windowless basement, etc. It's not just "push a button on a machine all day*

    • @ElijsDima
      @ElijsDima Месяц назад +7

      "neglected and overworked" seems to be the modern de-facto way of doing things for almost every business.

    • @simplyexisting604
      @simplyexisting604 Месяц назад +2

      @@ElijsDima It's actually getting ridiculous. It was already heading there, but I feel like the pandemic really streamlined it into getting even worse, faster. I'm only in my 20s and I don't think I've ever had a well-staffed, not insanely stressful job (out of a variety of different types), and it's already begun taking its toll on my mental & physical health.

  • @kristinjones5690
    @kristinjones5690 Месяц назад +89

    I loved this! Please do more content with nurses! I’m also a strong believer that physicians should have a 2 week rotation in residency where they have to work as a nurse on the floor to gain more insight on nursing

    • @m.5748
      @m.5748 Месяц назад +5

      Great Idea!!! 🙂

    • @sammanthat
      @sammanthat Месяц назад +3

      We had a unit patient care tech who was doing it before med school and he was the nicest guy I knew. Now when I talk to premed shadowers I suggest being a patient care tech, even if it's for a short while, to get a reality check of the field they're wanting to get into!

    • @chinenyeikeako770
      @chinenyeikeako770 Месяц назад

      Then the nurses take over their jobs lol. Mortalities 😂

  • @TheChosenEditss
    @TheChosenEditss Месяц назад +55

    “And.. where did you attend medical school?”
    …..
    “Doctor Mike University..”

  • @morganhough1022
    @morganhough1022 Месяц назад +14

    as a nurse educator, I 1000% agree that paying nurse educators is foundational to fixing the staffing issues and safe staffing is foundational staff retention!!!

  • @samanthapalafoxestrada1539
    @samanthapalafoxestrada1539 Месяц назад +22

    i would love to see you have someone in EMS on your show. under appreciated, under paid, and plenty of stories and insight to tell.

  • @lzee6875
    @lzee6875 Месяц назад +29

    I am a retired(by injury)62 year old RN. I would have loved to have worked with you Nurse Blake. Omg we would have peed our scrubs.
    I worked 30 years in the OR. If you want some funny/annoying doctor info talk to the staff in the OR.
    Bottom line we are a team in a hospital, so do your job and help your teammates to win the game.❤

  • @magicalskeptic
    @magicalskeptic Месяц назад +42

    I didn't hear about Nurse Blake until now and I'm hooked!

    • @CCRhorst
      @CCRhorst Месяц назад +7

      What?!?!? Oh you’ve got some good content in store for you. Nurse Blake is hilarious! Really love his skit about medical dramas

    • @roxcyn
      @roxcyn 28 дней назад +2

      Me, either. He sounds like he would be a blast! 😂

  • @galacticstationfm9350
    @galacticstationfm9350 Месяц назад +24

    i have been disabled all my life and have been taken care of by nurses all my life and i am friends with alot of them americans and canadains alike and i am greatful that they have taken care of me. i am friends with most of them still i am 26 now

    • @spoonfulofsalt
      @spoonfulofsalt Месяц назад

      My home health nurses are some of my favorite people! There's one I haven't seen in a while who was like an older brother to me (I miss him). They are all so sweet and truly care.

  • @NezuChan
    @NezuChan Месяц назад +14

    My mother was a nurse. She worked gruelling 14 hour shifts to provide for me as a child. She never wanted those tough shifts for me so she dissuaded me from becoming a nurse. I decided to study pharmacy instead.

  • @seanrubiolo4055
    @seanrubiolo4055 Месяц назад +21

    Staffing is one of the one things keeping me in California because the majority of other states do not have mandated nurse to patient ratios.

    • @TheNurseInvestors
      @TheNurseInvestors 26 дней назад +2

      Yeah, I heard a lot of good things about California. Where I am it can be 6-1 sometimes

  • @Aztecadr
    @Aztecadr Месяц назад +12

    Dr Mike looked lost in some instances while trying to understand what Blake was trying to say but he did a great job going with the flow while attempting to keep it onntrack😅😅

  • @erinodonnell386
    @erinodonnell386 26 дней назад +3

    Nurses can really make a huge difference for patients. I wound up in the ER and I was waiting in one of the exam rooms and I was confused and terrified and all alone and id been sitting there quietly by myself for hours. And I remember when one of the nurses came in and asked me if I was ok and if I needed anything. I felt so bad asking for anything but she got me the closest thing she could find to what I needed and it just… I was so scared and it helped so much. That little act of kindness. that moment will stick with me for life. Little things matter a lot.

  • @breebrat56
    @breebrat56 Месяц назад +14

    39:40
    Idk about what other ppl are saying about male nurses, but from a patient perspective….. they are awesome. ❤
    My last trip to the ER 7/4/24 for acute abdominal pain ( kidney stone) & my PNES ( check Epilepsy foundation website for explanation) started up during my ER stay.
    I had all male nurses & they did a great job taking care of me & I felt completely safe, didn’t feel like they were rushing with my care, & took the extra time to explain everything. ❤
    It sucked being in the ER on July 4th & I know they would prefer to not be there either, but despite that they were kind, reassuring, truly paid attention, & actively listened.
    That means so much when you’re in pain & full body myoclonus.
    Thanks so much to all the nurses out there! ❤

  • @graceycrnjak2128
    @graceycrnjak2128 Месяц назад +11

    I love this video, im so happy to see Doctor Mike spread awareness about how doctors and nurses around the world are overworked. One type of health care worker I see everyone overlook is PCA/STNA/Nursing Assistance, whatever you have as the title as I believe they are severely overworked and underpaid. I work as a PCA at a hospital, and I don't know where to begin. we have to take care of 15 to 30 people. That all entails vitals,blood sugar levels, charting, changing patients, giving baths, and most importantly, letting nurses know if something is going on with their patients. We are usually the one calling the codes or rapids, telling a nurse if a patient has changes in behavior or status of health. A lot of times, nurses come to us to make a call before going to the doctor. Sadly, we are yelled at by patients, nurses, and doctors for things that we may not be able to catch. I wish Doctor Mike would find someone who could spread their opinions and voice.

  • @catlamaking137
    @catlamaking137 Месяц назад +13

    I would love to see Dr Mike bring in a guest from the prehospital setting. As a Paramedic it feels like hospital staff look at EMS almost in a demeaning manner. Would love to see some other perspectives on the show!

  • @briannzegers2720
    @briannzegers2720 Месяц назад +26

    23:34 here you go

    • @johnradium9994
      @johnradium9994 Месяц назад

      Thank you!

    • @briannzegers2720
      @briannzegers2720 29 дней назад +2

      @@johnradium9994 😅 all good. I’m like I came here from the shorts and don’t have time to watch a video this long

    • @NikolaiWowe
      @NikolaiWowe 28 дней назад

      Thanks so much 😂

    • @marthals89
      @marthals89 27 дней назад

      THANK YOU

  • @melissag9160
    @melissag9160 Месяц назад +7

    I LOVED my cancer nurses at Mayo in MN. They were the BEST. So nice to see Dr. Mike and Nurse Blake feature the hard work and dedication of nurses.

  • @7.zombie.7
    @7.zombie.7 Месяц назад +17

    Please interview someone who works in forensic science. I've always found that type of work interesting and I don't see many things about it actually.

  • @paulsdrc
    @paulsdrc Месяц назад +26

    I’ve had a nurse kick three residents off the floor for doing a procedure without anesthesia, I was in pain but later I thought it was awesome.

  • @dramonmaster222
    @dramonmaster222 Месяц назад +11

    Nurses really deserve better.
    I remember when I went to the hospital for HBP, I shocked my Nurses because I was polite which blew my mind.

    • @TheNurseInvestors
      @TheNurseInvestors 26 дней назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @taylorfoster3948
      @taylorfoster3948 21 день назад +1

      This reminds me of one time I was at the hospital and the nurses said the same thing “oh you’re so nice and polite”

  • @FutureDoctorDylan
    @FutureDoctorDylan Месяц назад +9

    My son is Nine and he watches your videos and he’s learning so much. I’m so impressed.

  • @NEK711
    @NEK711 Месяц назад +15

    30:18 😂 I had to pause the video because I laughed so hard

    • @jnunez489
      @jnunez489 16 дней назад +1

      Just paused at this point too to run to the Comments 😂

  • @amyspeers8012
    @amyspeers8012 Месяц назад +9

    I’m loving Nurse Blake! I graduated from Emory University School of Nursing in 1990 and you have brought so many memories back! My mom lives in The Villages! I now live in SW France and no longer practice. I’ve also been in treatment for melanoma here in France and I absolutely love the French healthcare system.

    • @Kenzalina_
      @Kenzalina_ Месяц назад +1

      Right?! The US should model the healthcare system in France. They are constantly using the NHS a warning against universal healthcare. When the French system is one of the few still functioning. With the boomers aging and putting more stress on the system. Which is happening in every country.
      I am sorry to hear you are dealing with melanoma. I am happy that you are getting good care. 💗

  • @iceangel587
    @iceangel587 Месяц назад +6

    Im a rookie but most of our doctors are very respectful, im so grateful. I also notice the younger dr are very respectful.

  • @izzy_peters
    @izzy_peters 27 дней назад +6

    PLEASSEEEEE interview a pharmacist!! We're so underrepresented and I would love to hear the conversation!

  • @13Fools
    @13Fools Месяц назад +5

    My mom was a nurse for over 30 years and her stories of the hospital were always some of the best.

  • @Kevin_B1428
    @Kevin_B1428 Месяц назад +8

    Two gorgeous medical guys together on my screen! Yes please!! Love the interaction, Nurse Blake is adorable, funny, and an amazing advocate for nurses! And thank you Doctor Mike for having such amazing guests! You made my day. It's really sad that nurses don't get the recognition that they deserve, they're the lifeblood of the medical system! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tristanferrerthegreat
    @tristanferrerthegreat Месяц назад +39

    This dude has crystal clear white teeth. It's impressive to see him give us medically accurate and sound advice on how to better take care of our bodies and overall oral health.

    • @DayDreamerXX
      @DayDreamerXX Месяц назад +10

      i’m pretty sure he got them whitened or some kinda dental whitening thing

    • @Kenzalina_
      @Kenzalina_ Месяц назад +13

      Those are veneers. Most celebrities have them.

    • @victoriamccullough6464
      @victoriamccullough6464 Месяц назад +6

      teeth look un naturally white

    • @donaldlewis567
      @donaldlewis567 Месяц назад +2

      I agree. They are distracting. Too fake.

    • @1utube01
      @1utube01 19 дней назад

      White teeth is unnatural. It can only be accomplished chemically. Naturally clean teeth are off-white.

  • @ElyjaJones
    @ElyjaJones Месяц назад +14

    I’ve been a pediatric ICU nurse for a little over a year now and despite having a very secure and important job I feel even more expendable than I did while working at grocery stores and restaurants before I was a nurse lol idk why but I do

    • @scottiaburrows3291
      @scottiaburrows3291 29 дней назад +3

      I feel like this is true with high sought after nursing jobs.
      OR, peds, L&D, etc. I feel like it's harder to get a job and they have the feeling that someone else will be there to take it.
      Those are also the Nurse units that retain nurses though.

  • @kiahammond9419
    @kiahammond9419 25 дней назад +3

    Postpartum nurse here! A lot of us from my unit- and our L&D unit went to a Blake show in 2023 & it was hilarious!! We were literally like “wow, who’s actually working at the hospital” 🤣🤣

  • @krishnanandaarevalo1112
    @krishnanandaarevalo1112 Месяц назад +5

    This is one of the best interviews I have ever seen, I didn't know I could love nurses even more

  • @Cheng_97
    @Cheng_97 Месяц назад +14

    Ive been waiting for this collab for YEARS!!! I know what I'm watching on my lunch break 😊

  • @cherrytree2165
    @cherrytree2165 21 день назад +3

    When my grandmother was on hospice she had an incredibly kind male nurse. very young, very handsome, very gay, very empathetic. Loved him and was so grateful he was there

  • @Christel-sx7er
    @Christel-sx7er Месяц назад +9

    I was a nursing supervisor on the night shift and I would take a floor when we were short and I'd go out on rounds besides doing my own work. Night shift was the best 🎉😂

  • @letshavehavefun5683
    @letshavehavefun5683 Месяц назад +20

    I want to be a doctor when i grow up and Doctor Mike is teaching us and he is such an inspiration to me and u guys ❤😊🙃

  • @sincitygurl28
    @sincitygurl28 Месяц назад +16

    Our Hospitals don't have "Nurse Lounges" but they do have "EMS Rooms" that have snacks, sports drinks, sandwiches, energy drinks, and some have ice cream freezers. But we do find the ER nurses raiding them occasionally. 😅

  • @Liyahtaliah
    @Liyahtaliah 25 дней назад +4

    im trying to get to the “you don’t like me/ I don’t care” mindset 😅

  • @RoboticComplexity
    @RoboticComplexity Месяц назад +17

    I work for a hospital system that just did a mass firing while spending millions on new buildings they don't need at all. These rich hospital systems do not care about anything but the bottom line.

    • @meri_teri_82
      @meri_teri_82 17 дней назад

      Agree with you about the greed of money over patient care. Early in my nursing career I worked in a smaller county hospital. After an increase in the population
      they made some changes. Like where you were, they "laid off" a lot of nurses because the ER expansion cost many millions. It was impressive. Unfortunately, they filled it with idiots 🤦‍♀️.

  • @WVclogger
    @WVclogger 26 дней назад +6

    And Dr Mike brought up the break room I thought Blake's visceral reaction was epic! What do you mean doctors don't have good lounges?😅😅😂😂

  • @GunnerM60
    @GunnerM60 Месяц назад +17

    What Blake said about Travel Nursing, that is 100% TRUE! I have LOVED EVERY travel nurse I have worked with! They are so much fun at work, out of wrok, they're awesome! I may only be a CNA currently, but man I adore Travel Nurses! They are so cool!
    Another thing I agree w/ Blake, is I always bond w/ the older nurses. They have so much experience in both life & nursing. They amount of knowledge they have & their willingness to share & teach you whether you ask for it or not, is out of this world!

    • @cassandrasanchez122
      @cassandrasanchez122 29 дней назад

      Yes! I still remember the OG Nurse during my prison clinicals. She is AWESOME!

  • @Plsbringtea
    @Plsbringtea 26 дней назад +61

    This is flirting if I’ve ever seen it

    • @jsanch12
      @jsanch12 22 дня назад +1

      Smash

    • @armygirl85fuckhitler74
      @armygirl85fuckhitler74 22 дня назад

      The opposite of toxic masculinity ❤

    • @Yxxyn._
      @Yxxyn._ 20 дней назад +6

      Literally like what is this tension

    • @johnnystudly3778
      @johnnystudly3778 20 дней назад

      Okay, I guess this is the point where I become the villain.
      I fully 100% believe that Dr. Mike is down to smash other men.
      And I fully believe that if Dr. Mike offered that proposition to Nurse Blake, Nurse Blake would be on his knees in no time.
      And, to be clear, there is nothing wrong with any of that.

    • @user-fz8jk3qi7c
      @user-fz8jk3qi7c 19 дней назад +6

      I'm like,should I be here???👀

  • @dredayetheridge
    @dredayetheridge Месяц назад +5

    Nurse Blake helped me so much during nursing school

  • @AndySaenz924
    @AndySaenz924 18 дней назад +1

    His name is nurse Blake? He has a great smile! He must really improve his patients’ lives with that smile, it lights up the whole room.

  • @jelymeyong9963
    @jelymeyong9963 24 дня назад +4

    “You think I look like that ? 👁️👄👁️” kills me

  • @ambers9430
    @ambers9430 27 дней назад +6

    Really thought Dr.Mike was going to say damn good mouth to mouth vs. Compressions when they were talking about DNR 😂

  • @lyssavaught4958
    @lyssavaught4958 Месяц назад +3

    I'm so happy to see both Dr. Mike and Nurse Blake coming together to advocate for nurses and the patients we care for! As a nurse myself, I think I might be a biiit biased but this was my favorite podcast yet!

  • @Amabadam
    @Amabadam 19 дней назад +2

    OMG Blake is so sweet. Love his aura ❤ thanks for introducing him to us Mike 😊

  • @ejespinac
    @ejespinac 26 дней назад +8

    The friendship between you guys is infectious!

    • @MsAnzoe
      @MsAnzoe 24 дня назад +2

      almost like... roommates :D

  • @leahh.4796
    @leahh.4796 25 дней назад +3

    Such a great conversation! I really appreciate that Dr. Mike and Nurse Blake both promote education, and they truly care about their professions.

  • @3jdpa
    @3jdpa Месяц назад +8

    You should interview the guy from Fire Department Chronicles. Hilarious content creator and could provide a great viewpoint from EMS.

  • @tphayes021211
    @tphayes021211 26 дней назад +2

    I'm in the educational field and I really enjoyed this interview. Blake seems like a fun loving person.

  • @mcjester1523
    @mcjester1523 Месяц назад +10

    bro owns highland cows instant W. i already liked nurse blake from the intro energy. but that seals it

  • @200352543
    @200352543 14 дней назад +1

    My med school actually does simulations with nursing students! So the collaboration is increasing! It’s really interesting how we all know different things.

  • @pcott1289
    @pcott1289 Месяц назад +4

    This collab between two creators who I have been following for so long broke my brain. 🥰

  • @kelseyreed1315
    @kelseyreed1315 22 дня назад +1

    I was a security guard for the hult center for nurse blake he was amazing person to talk to alongside with his people they were all so nice.

  • @randomcrap4230
    @randomcrap4230 Месяц назад +3

    I need these two to just co-host a whole podcast together. I need this duel energy in my life every week. 😂

  • @brendonm.deverix8491
    @brendonm.deverix8491 24 дня назад +2

    med students and nursing students having a couple courses together sounds so genius wow. getting two pieces of the same machine on the same page that early in the education and introduction into the clinical practice would be so effective

  • @SuiLagadema
    @SuiLagadema Месяц назад +6

    Respect to all my nurses. I know is wrong but hearing their stories smoking a ciggy is always fun. "Remember the patient from yesterday? He found his inner Van Gogh with poopy paint."

  • @Aphungkoo
    @Aphungkoo 19 дней назад +2

    Omg! The flirtings😂❤

  • @floria-loubunda7303
    @floria-loubunda7303 Месяц назад +8

    Im a caregiver in a rehabilitation center in canada (préposé au beneficiaries), and nurses are the best people to be around ❤❤❤

  • @gusmonster59
    @gusmonster59 Месяц назад +43

    My sister was a nurse for 30 years. So many doctors are dismissive of nurses. You know - the people who actually are involved with the care hospitalize patients day to day, not just for 10minutes on rounds. Heavens forbid the nurse knows a stop order needs to made, or the patient is having an adverse reaction to medications, etc.. I am not a nurse and my mother's doctor got angry at me for pointing he never wrote stop orders for THREE of her meds and she was being over medicated (after that, we changed doctors). Nurses are so often under appreciated. Now, as with all jobs - not all nurses are good at, or enjoy their jobs. Not all doctors are rude to the nursing staff.

    • @calicat1996
      @calicat1996 Месяц назад +3

      Love this comment! I have lost patients after a doctor refusing to listen to me. But at the same time, I have saved SO many patients. If I call a doctor and tell them I'm concerned, why, and the order I want, a lot will trust and give me the order. The doctors spend maybe a minute with them a day, don't do their own assessments, so if we go to them with a finding or concern, they better listen. I didn't realize just how much power the nurses have in that regard until I started.

    • @debrawilden1971
      @debrawilden1971 Месяц назад +3

      Every person needs to speak up for himself. No excuses, no blaming. If a dr is dismissive, then that is the nurse's fault for not speaking up. If a nurse knows something, then she needs to speak up appropriately.

    • @calicat1996
      @calicat1996 Месяц назад +4

      @debrawilden1971 it is certainly not the nurses' fault for doctors being dismissive. Yes nurses should advocate, and most of us do. But it is not our fault if they continue to be dismissing. It's frustrating as a patient being dismissed, and it's frustrating as a nurse being dismissed, especially when i am the one with this patient and i know something is wrong. I have cried over patients who have died after going to the doctor ALL DAY advocating that something is wrong and asking for orders and being told no. I have gone to them after angry saying I told you why didn't you listen to me. There are patients I will never forget because the doctor wouldn't listen to me. There are many patients I have saved because I wouldn't back down and they finally gave in or I went above them. If I am concerned, they should be too. Unfortunantly, we are at the doctors mercy for orders and we cannot order imaging labs etc unless a physician will agree to ordering it no matter how many times we ask. That is why as a nurse, our favourite physicians 10/10 will be the ones who listen to us. If you think it's nurses' faults that doctors are dismissive, you're severely mistaken and quite frankly it's very offensive.

    • @debrawilden1971
      @debrawilden1971 Месяц назад +1

      @@calicat1996 Yes, there are people, everywhere, that think they are 'better' than everyone else, won't listen, etc.
      But if we, the nurse, continue to let that happen, it is our fault. A dr who habitually is dismissive is being abusive. There are channels to deal with those people. Use them. If it gets you nowhere, then the choices are to continue to speak out, or to be walked over, or to find a diff position. It could mean that you might have to leave all together, or even be let go. But the nurse has a choice, and that is what I mean by her 'fault.'
      No, it's not pretty, and it shouldn't be, but it is.
      (And yes, I've been there, done that.)