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AITA for refusing to accept an old friend's apology?
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You are never obligated to accept anyone’s apology.
Bestie needs therapy. That’s crazy. I’d keep her no contact.
Nta! No you don't have to accept someone else's apology! End of conversation!
There are no rules or laws that say you have to be friends with someone. Keep your sanity and go on with your life. Best of luck OP.
Yikes... Bestie was obsessed.
Did... did she go to 7 years of therapy? Just because she got issues doesn't mean they have to affect me. Bye, Felicia. NTA
Oh, boo-hoo! She's a control freak and after 7 years, the only reason she's wanting to apologize is because she's ruined all her other friendships and meddled in their lives so much they've distanced themselves as well. After 7 years, OP's life sounds less chaotic without her, stable, happy, thriving and he's in a relationship; to engage the former friend in any kind of communication would be the opening she's drooling over and even if he set boundaries, she'd cross over them because that's who she is; snakes only shed their skin to become larger snakes. It would only take one time for her to throw a monkey wrench into the peaceful and joyous life he's got now and stir up dissention of some sort and he doesn't need that and he doesn't need her, which the last 7 years has proven. If OP was one of my brothers, as his sister, I'd caution him about opening that door with her: leave it closed and locked. She contacted him via someone else to let him know she wants to apologize so she's already manipulating someone else to be her spokesperson with him: she's a master puppeteer and she can't breathe unless she's controlling someone's life other than her own. OP can ask that same person who brought him the message to reply to her just one time, and relay his message that for old time's sake, he'll accept her apology but he won't forgive her behavior, that he will never be friends with her again, that he wishes her well, but she's not to contact him again. Some friendships are lifelong and some are for a season and the "season" of their friendship has run its course, but I'm pretty confident that the moment he breaks his own "no contact" boundary and responds to her in any way at all, she'll ignore his words and bulldoze her way back into his life and disrupt everything he's got going on now that's good. Ignoring her and asking the messenger to never speak about her to him again is the way to go and if she sends another messenger, do the same.
Uhhh….NOooo‼️… She needs Therapy…she’s obsessed ‼️ No One wants to be friends with that…that’s NO FRIEND ‼️
7 years later? I call shenanigans.
Is this a serious question? 😂 Sometimes I worry for people. Of course you don’t let someone this toxic back in. She’s alone because she’s mean, toxic and controlling. She is also not your problem.
R is giving those "If I can't have you, no one will" vibes. I don't think she cared if OP got with her(I mean that's what she ultimately wanted but wasn't the immediate goal with the message to the GF). She just wanted to break them up. Maybe the end goal was he would eventually get with her because she would ruin any other relationship. Crazy is crazy. Never sleep with crazy.
Girl needs some serious therapy. NTA. She’s crazy and OP is in the right for not letting her stay in his life.
R is totally the WHOLE DAMN BOX OF FRUIT LOOPS! Stay aware & if necessary, get a restraining order!
Oh gosh....
I was with somebody that was a friend of a person like R.
She was mentally abusive. She play the ultimate victim and everybody felt sorry for her. I'm glad these people don't feel sorry for R, and they all blocked her..
This friend my ex was a friend with used to cause nothing but problems on the internet. Play one against the other in her group friends. And tried to use people's words against them. She demanded people to be friends with who she approved of.
My ex kept bringing her into a relationship and that's why she's an ex. Because misery deserves company
NTA it's DEFINITELY a HER problem. It's not up to OP to forgive to keep her from being an outcast. If people don't want to be friends with her that's up to them and not OP. She was NEVER a friend. she wanted OP as a backup and when he found other people she sabotaged those relationships. Ex bestie needs major mental health help
Damn I gotta submit my own story
Extreme mental health
Actions have consequences. If you can't handle the consequences, behave. Simple as that. Perfect example of FAFO. 😂😂😂😂
She is only apologising to get back into everyone’s good graces and then trust the insecurity and toxicity will start again. Been there myself and it’s NEVER good. Don’t do it.
Scary and needs help.Stay safe Op.
She sounds absolutely insane! R lacks self awareness in the worst way. I’m just gonna say/hope that OP just wanted to share a story of a crazy person cause ain’t no way he thought he was the AH. She is literally danger personified.
OP needs to get a restraining order as well as his SO. When people are this unstable they can escalate suddenly and unpredictably.
No idea if this is narcissism, BPD, schizophrenia, or some other severe disorder, but it is clear her grasp of reality is fleeting at best.
He may even consider contacting her family and sharing the extent of her behavior so they can stage an intervention before someone gets hurt, physically.
This is not something that can be resolved voluntarily on "bestie's" part. She will require hospitalization and it will undoubtedly need to be against her will.
I wish OP the best and hope he stays vigilant.
Damnnnnn! Bestie is nuttier than squirrel turds!
This kinda reminds me of the movie Death Becomes Her.
WTF?!?! No contact is an acceptable response. Also R definitely wanted intimacy with him. Has she had therapy yet? Sounds like no, so the answer remains the same. NO CONTACT!!
NTA. she is crazy
NTA! You don't have to accept an apology from her to make her feel better. Maybe she should learn what is and is not any of her business.
UPDATE: The only thing I would be concerned about with R is the state of her mental health, which appears to be iffy. But even that is not your problem.
bestie has issues that require professional help.
bestie was trying to f**kzone op.
R was probably mad because op wouldn't talk to her so she tried to destroy his life after 6 years she needs to be over it. Clearly she needs help
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Uh, Dusty, I think we all need to hear about your personal experience!!
NTA! “Friend” sounds like she has some mental issues and sounds like she wanted to date OP
Nta 😂