HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU'RE BISEXUAL? | BISEXY SERIES
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- Опубликовано: 6 авг 2024
- Hi guys! This week I'm discussing a lot of your questions in a bisexy Q&A! It's quite an emotional one, we dive in deep! After having met a lot of you on tour, I was really touched by your stories and struggles. I definitely felt it was time to talk about a lot of the hurdles you've faced on your journey of self discovery. Hopefully this video will help anybody seeking advice or guidance, or perhaps just let people know that they're not alone! If you guys have any other questions I didn't touch upon, make sure you leave them in the comments below!
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Fun fact: Shannon's gone and I can't remember life before she stayed with us.
Sorry to detract from the importance of the content, but I look really good in this video.
yes really good
Rose Ellen Dix always Rose 😂
HA
When DONT you look really good, I wish I could have seen you on tour!
Please let your wife know she is amazing 😁
As soon as you said "I had a boyfriend before Rose" immediately in my head Rose's voice popped up and yelled OH DID YOU 😂
Sarah P I HEARD THAT
*died laughing*
I can imagine that voice and it really makes me laugh !
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Sarah P SAME 😂
I am still confused about my label. At least I know that I love my wife. 😂❤️
Living Rosa.omg I love u gys...❤❤❤
Living Rosa Ahh I love you guys. hello.
Mandi is Tarasexual and Tara is Mandisexual lmfao :'D Love you guys !!
Oh my gosh Tara and Mandi (+Lennon, Delilah and Roxanne and AppleSeed) I love you so much
Living Rosa haha
With me: Liking a guy is like: ooooh. Liking a girl is like: aaaaah. It's very weird to explain it like that, but it's accurate cuz you can't explain it, it just is?
totally feel you. falling for a girl is different than falling for a guy. so awkward.
Toskaleemusic true.
Lina C this is where pansexuality comes in! You just described bisexuality perfectly, where you feel differently depending on the gender of the person, however u are still attracted to both/all genders. Pansexuality is when there is no difference depending on the person’s gender. We are like the gender fluid of sexuality lol! Many people describe pansexuality as being ‘blind to gender’ which is a very vague statement and can give off false information. Rather its being ‘sexually/romantically blind to gender’. Although many people don’t like it, labels especially gender labels can make some people feel identified and valid, so its completely insensitive to say theres no such thing as them, which is what many people think when the phrase ‘blind to gender’ is said. Instead, gender simply isn’t a factor that is countered in when falling for a person.
Sorry for the little rant! You may have already known this info but just felt like educating!
Me Yu YES SOMEONE FINALLY ANSWERED MY QUESTION. I think I might have a tiny crush on a girl (my first girl crush, even though I’m not sure if it’s a crush), though I barely ever get butterflies. I was obsessed with trying to get her attention, though, and I wanted to get to know her so bad. With my guy crushes, I definitely get butterflies, and I feel super nervous so I was wondering if guy crushes feel different than girl crushes. Ilysm 💕😭
@@meyu1468 This was so incredibly helpful. Thank you!!!
I'm generally in love with rose and Rosie..... anyone else???
DUH
Hannah Spencer Genuinely? But yes, so in love with them!
Freya Mary I'm sorry :( I struggle with dyslexia :(
same.
me too,
I looove this darling!
love u Melanie! your new video with Jessie was amazing!
Melanie Murphy I swear I'm gonna marry you one day. 😋
Aww thank you babes! I loved making it! Glad you enjoyed! xxxx
TheRoxetera so much in love with yah
Melanie Murphy
You are a great example for the LBGT community. I am a straight male (boring), married for 15 years with a woman. Thank you to explain the reality of being L, B, G or T to others. It is very humble of you. Cheers.
Luc Toulouse Tu viens de Toulouse ? Allez salut 😂
Luc Toulouse no one is boring when they have an open mind :)
NOOOOO your NOT boring... Dont u onderstand?! We are all pretty at our onze ways😕😪...
you're not boring why would you think that?
@@nightskystars0762 It is a joke, no worries. ha ha ha
People say like "I always knew I was gay" but It took me getting to my freshman year of highschool?? I think I'm bisexual but more attracted to girls. Even though before I never even looked at girls that way, but suddenly I prefer them? It feels different for me liking a girl, it feels more right? I guess you can say. But I do occasionally feel attracted to boys so I just say I'm bisexual for that. As you can tell I'm still confused from all the question marks LMAO. I still need some more experience, but I'm young so I'm not trying to push it too hard. But sexual identity is a big part of life.
Oshi Juji I SUPPORT YOU!!!!
SAME
Me too
i was homophobic till i was 15 and then had a year where i was okay with gay people and then had an oh shit moment when i was 17, which was me discovering i was infact gay, so i get you. however now i look back at my life and think of many moments where it was just so obvious?? like how did i not know
Same girl except I have a preference for guys
Rosie, I really appreciate how open-minded and accepting you are of other genders and that you are so open to sharing your experience being bi! You're incredible (and I don't mean that lightly) xoxoxo
Thanks Julia, I really appreciate that! xxx
TheRoxetera I definitely am going through an identity/sexuality crisis, married with children, 16 years, but definitely want to be with women now. It's thrown me for six. I can't do anything about it as would hurt my family. the biggest mind fu*k I've every gone through. It feels like I'm going to explode.
I really hope everything works out and you can express your sexuality however you desire
Delphine Delphine I'm in pretty much the exact same position. Takes up a whole lot of head space but with not much I can really do about it.
Debs Debs REALLY, I'm actually thrilled to hear that. Not that you are going through this, but that someone is going through the same as me. I feel so alone. It really is one of the hardest periods of my life
That was so interesting and informative. I learnt something and I'm 63 😳. No, really I am.
Yes I know exactly what you mean. They both seem to reach out to everyone. I think they're truly inspirational and I love to watch them. I only discovered Rose and Rosie about three weeks ago and in that short time I've found the courage to be more open about my sexuality. Although I've been out of that bloody closet 20 years (came out when I was 43) I've stuck a rainbow badge on my bag and that's directly because of the influence of them both.
You Maggie Jones are an absolute legend. :) xxx
Fernanda Lima - yes and hopefully it's only a matter of time before they're mainstream. The world needs more of Rose and Rosie 🙂
Laura Recovery Thank you Laura, I've always wanted to be legend 🙂
ahh you are amazing dear love it ❤❤❤
The word bisexual isn't necessarily non-inclusive of nonbinary genders; the bi in bisexual can mean two as in two groups of genders: those like mine and those unlike mine.
Erin Jolley um no? the fuck.
Why not? It makes the term more like the definition of pansexuality, but still keeps the word bisexuality for those who are attached to it. I'm not the only one who defines it this way: www.advocate.com/commentary/2015/10/08/heres-why-i-claim-bisexuality
I'm not saying it's the only way to define it, of course -- that's different for every person. I'm just saying it's one way to define bisexuality without bi meaning binary gender.
Agreed! It could also be "two or more" 😁 That said, in the past, the bisexual community has been discriminative towards people outside the M/F binary, and only more recently have we come to be more accepting and including. Just thought I'd share! I identify as bi myself, and I try my best to be informed and thoughtful about the label I use 😊
isn't that why pansexuality exists though?
No.. when you're bisexual, you're attracted to just the male and female gender.. what are you on about?
I feel like it's a bit naive for anyone to think that because someone is 50/50 bisexual, that they can only give 50% of their attention or love to somebody that they're in a relationship with.. If somebody is straight they could still fancy other people, but at the end of the day if you love somebody you'll give them 100% because they are all that you want. So just because somebody is bi doesn't mean they are more likely to give their partner less love/attention
I think you are mssing the point. Of course a 50/50 bisexual can be 100% fully attracted to his/her partner, just like straight and gay people. The thing is bisexuals are also 100% attracted to the opposite gender of their partner they're currently with. Straight people fancy other people too BUT their heterosexual desire can be fulfilled by their partners. Bisexual people, meanwhile, can't have their hetero/homosexual desire fulfilled when being with a guy or girl.
mrmvpvip this is why healthy non monogamous but committed relationships are great
I came out as bisexual on the night I went to your show!! Thank you so much🌈❤️💛💚💙💜
congrats
Kelly O'Sullivan so proud sister🌈✨💫❤️💜💛💚💙
Thank yous xxx
idk u but im so happy for u!
Shin Cabello thank you😚😚
Love how this is just so genuine. No music, no nothing. Just you and your voice. Love it X
I also strongly identify with the term "Bisexual". And for me, the "Bi" is "I'm attracted to people like me and people who are not like me" so that's basically two groups I guess, it helps erase the whole "there are only two genders" thing.
Can someone explain why there arent only 2 genders? I mean if you are a transwoman or man doesnt that still mean there are 2 genders? Not trying to be antagonising. Just trying to learn
@@justcharlie6038 don't worry you're right there's only 2
@@justcharlie6038 Without knowing 100% gender and sex are two separate things. some people identify as they/them because they're what you call gender-fluid. They don't identify as male or female regardless of their sex. I'm still trying to get educated in all of this 😅 hope this helped tho
@@justcharlie6038 There are non-binary folks.
GFBC GlenFaughan BorderCollies Trans men and trans women still fit within the binary. They are still men and women, just with the adjective of trans in front of it because they were born with a sex that does not match their gender identity.
Non-binary people are people who’s sex does not match their gender identity and who have a gender identity that does not fit the binary of man or woman. They’re kind of somewhere in between or they’re outside of it completely(people who are outside of it sometimes identify as agender). By default of having a gender identity that does not match their sex(because the closest thing to a non-binary sex is intersex, but even that doesn’t really work because there’s often one sex it leans more toward that can be identified) non-binary people are also included under the adjective of trans.
There are also some people who float around amongst and between the genders of woman, man, and somewhere between or outside of the gender spectrum. They can feel like a man or a woman or non-binary or agender or something else at given times. These people are gender fluid although from what I can tell they are extremely rare(obviously), even in the trans community.
Gender’s a fucking mess and it’s really hard to explain but from what I’ve been able to gather over the years, this is honestly the best explanation I can give you. In any case we’re always working with a binary, but just like a lot of things where there are two extremes, there’s gonna be something in the middle that doesn’t fit in enough with either of the two to still be included under those labels. Like yeah there can still be masculine women and feminine men, but that shows that they still know they fit somewhere in the binary. Non-binary don’t feel they can say they fit within the binary in all honesty.
" You gotta let people find themselves" THANK YOU!
You look like an actual angel, and the way you hold yourself and speak is incredibly graceful. You're just a gorgeous human overall
Awww thank you babes!! xxx
**Patiently waits for Rosie and Melanie to collab and make the best bisexy vid!!**
I'm not bi, but I watch these to educate myself more because I have bi friends and know people whom are bi and it's just nice to be educated and maybe peek into their own thoughts. Like you said, not everyone has the same opinion, but it's still good for me to know these things.
So thanks, Rosie! Also, Rose, you looked great in the video. Fantastic.
Selena Shepard Top Freakin' Comment! 👏
Selena Shepard same lmao
We stan an ally 💓
Great comment, incorrect use of ‘whom’
I’m sorry I do hate myself
rose does not appear on camera
As a 72 year old 'straight' male I have learned so much from Rosie (and Rose). They are a great example to all. Very important during the Australian debate about legislating for SSM.
I LOVE the Bisexy series!!
Me too! xxx
You and rose saved my life ... like you actually did ... if i didnt find your channel i wouldnt be here to make this comment ... THANKYOU! ❤❤❤
Mousie Carter this is beautiful❤️❤️❤️ proud and happy for you💪🏼😊
Mousie Carter Really glad you're still around. ☺️ have an incredible day!
The rapper Taylor Bennett (Chance the Rapper's brother) is bisexual. It's cool to see someone so masculine breaking stereotypes about bisexuality
+referral madness this is a PSA to everyone to listen to his stuff because it's great
Loved the video! You touched on a topic that bothers me a lot, which is men not feeling threatened by women. I believe that if a guy "allows" his girlfriend to kiss/sleep with women but not men, it shows that he feels superior to women. That is obviously crap but it makes me mad anyways that some men think a man could "steal their woman" but a woman couldn't because he's better than her.
i agree that it is annoying if the "freedom" is given in this superior way,and honestly it makes the guy unintresting. but let's say you have a relationship where u trust, that your partner doesn't walk away from you if he/she/they has a flirt/kiss/sex with s.o. else. doesn't necessarily has to be a generally open relationship, i just want to put emphasis on the trust. i "only" have my body with my sex and my definition as gender. i wonder sometimes if i can ask of my partner to not have intimate physical experiences, that i'll never be able to give. so if a person would give me the "freedom" with this kind of view, then this act can be very much sincere and loving. and it would be trust and not superiority that makes the person believe your not gonna get "stolen". just a thought...
I wish Rose and Rosie knew how much they help me in my rough times and my everyday life. I love you guys!!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEAASSSEEEE RELEASE SOME BI-SEXY MERCH! You don't understand what it would mean to mean to own something, anything, that let me feel proud about my identity (although I'm plus size so I don't know what options you could cater for. But even a pin would be amazing)
Ok, I will totally take that on board!! xxx
TheRoxetera thank you so much!
Hannah Melia omg what a great idea! I would totally buy! Or should I say bi? 😛
omggg yaaasss
YES!!! please !!
Rosie is like the most respectful human being while still managing to delve into/analyze really complex and possibly sensitive topics so FUCKIN PROPS TO YOU. Also, I think it totally makes sense that you would act differently in a female-male relationship than a female-female relationship because OF COURSE our relationships are shaped by society! And yes, in an ideal world, we could have straight relationships and gay relationships and whatever other relationships and you could act exactly the same in all of them, but it's not your fault if you fall into these sort of predetermined heteronormative roles-- if you think you can be in a relationship that's entirely free of societal expectations and pressures, you're kidding yourself! That's why I find same-sex relationships so interesting; there's so much less predetermined structure, but sometimes we still find ourselves drifting towards one "role" or another. Anyway, no need to feel bad about perhaps following some girlfriend stereotypes when in a same-sex relationship, I think that the fact that you're AWARE of this and questioning it is totally admirable and that's how we're ultimately going to change society! Again, props to my absolute favorite RUclipsrs for being so respectful yet genuine, love you guys!!
"I don't know what bar it is!" 😂 I love Rosie so much
Just got my straight male best friend subscribed to your channels! Who says Rose & Rosie aren't for everyone?! :D Really blessed that I got someone so supportive as a friend!
Ah Rosie, loved the video. The way you speak is just so ... I can't find a word, but its informative but graceful and accepting. I'm not bisexual myself, I haven't ever identified as bi, but my girlfriend is. And I think I enjoy the bisexy series so much because of that and also because the way you talk about sexuality and gender in general. You're very open minded and forward thinking. If only there were more people like you. Idk where I'm going with this comment but thank you and Rose for existing, without you two, I wouldn't have found myself (maybe I would have but it would have taken years idk haha). Lots of love 💓
Lauren Elloise
You watch NoahFinnce!! I see your comments all over his video, haha
the realization of "female societal roles" is really important, i hope all women will be able to see that as clear as you do soon!
It took me until I was almost 40 to admit I was bi. You have helped me a lot to get in touch with my emotions.
I found super interesting the chat about different feelings for man and woman (your point and rose's point), really helpful and relatable! :D
IVE BEEN REFRESHING MY RUclips PAGE FOR THE PAST 5 MINUTES WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ROSIE!!!!
Auba's Chronicles SAME 😂
Auba's Chronicles I was doing that on rose's and was wondering why it wasn't showing up😂
This series has always been excellent but I feel like this episode you seemed especially wise and educated (even more than usual!) - it was such a good video and you acknowledged so much in the way of equality and genders etc. and you covered both sides of all the topics so well, which was really wonderful to hear and makes it such a well-rounded video without you hiding your own opinion! This is such a good video, especially to show younger people. Just yes yes yes 🙌
Aww thank you so much!!!! xxxx
"Different people have a different path and its different for everyone."
So well put! 😍😍
Me in 2014: Of course I'm not bis-
_starts watching Rose and Rosie_
Me in 2017: I am bi, my house is bi, my bed is bi, my cat is bi, my tea is bi
IM SO EARLY ROSIE PLEASE GIVE ME LOVE
HAVE YOU MY LOVE, TAKE IT ALL!
RIP ME
So I personally use bi to describe myself, to mean I am attracted to both my gender and other genders, so it doesn't have to mean 'two genders' as such - you aren't necessarily being dismissive of non-binary or genderfluid people
Exactly ! Bi and non binary person here :D
Katie Vero But "bi" literally means two. Bicycle. Bilateral. Binaural. Binary. You can't just change the definitions of words. Bisexual means being attracted to both sexes/both sides of the gender binary, that is what it has always meant and people can't just change that. There's a reason pansexual and polysexual exist. So that people who feel attracted to more than the gender binary can have a label as well. You don't have to change the definition of bisexual when existing labels already fit the bill. There's nothing wrong with not being attracted to non-binary people. I have nothing against them, I'm just personally only attracted to cis men and women. And that's ok. We don't need to change the definitions of sexualities to be more "inclusive." It's like saying a gay person is sexist towards the opposite sex simply bc they aren't attracted to them, it just doesn't work that way.
xotbirdox who the fuck changes the meaning of a word? literally the bisexual community has been defining bisexuality ever since the 90s as the attraction to people from one's gender and other genders. Two groups. Bi. Bisexuals recognized ever since the 90s the existence of the gender spectrum.
xotbirdox also you can't pull that pan/poly card. before pan there was omnisexual and those two terms merged to mean "gender blind attraction". So did polysexual and bisexual. Definitions change. Also, "bisexuality" started as a term to describe what doctors thought was a medical condition like "homosexuality". Straight people defined bi people's identities for years, so sorry that we claimed our identity as ours and gave it our meaning. Ultimately, bi people as a community define bisexuality as the attraction to their gender and other genders, and there's nothing you or anyone else trying to dictate our identity can do. Sorry.
@@xotbirdox Educate yourself instead of spreading misinformation for your own self interest, the word bisexual is not your property to use and decide what other people can and cannot do. You can only decide how you define it specifically for yourself within the broader definition, but only for you! Flash news: words change meaning over time since language exist by being used, it's called living language. Also no, word don't necessary stick to their ethymological meaning and can actually go sideways. You are 30 years late, the definition of bisexuality changed in the 90ties and meant as an umbrella terms where people can have their own defintion with subtlties and where pansexuality is included in. Yes, all pansexual people are bi but not all bi people are pan. Depends of the def of different peeps. It's about politicall awarness, bi people didn't wait for the awarness of trans/NB folks to have sex and/or relationship them, it was always the case, it's just that it wasn't specified in the defintion. The awarness of trans/NB peeps didn't make them magically appear, that just made them more socially visible. Your personal defintion of bisexuality is included in the broader definition of bi, just don't think it's the only valid one. Bi/Pansexuality are overlapping because of the usage people are doing of it and there's nothing wrong with that.
I love this series. I love the what you say, the way you say it, the discussions you start, and I especially love the fact that you're not acting as if you are the perfect human and you identify your own flaws and things that you personally want to work on. Thank you for being so real, and so honest, this is why you're my role model.
Rosie that highlight tho ????❤😍
I already know this video is going to be informative , thank you for making more Bisexy videos 💓 you've helped me overcome my fears about my sexuality so much
I love how laid-back, deep, open, honest, intelligent, informative and reassuring you are in this video while talking about something so complex and personal. Totally admire that. And love how it inspires further discussions to be the same. Please keep making these types of videos!
The part about the difference between a girl and a girl hitting on your girlfriend really fucks me up because I don’t even fully understand why it’s like that. It 100% has to do with society though. My girlfriend is absolutely gorgeous and is naturally more feminine than I am and attracts lots of straight men, well she attracts every living thing tbh lol. But when a girl hits on her, I don’t feel any jealously, and I know it’s because I feel equal to other girls even if I think they are more physically attractive than I am. Then when a guy hits on her it’s literally completely different and I’ll get super protective. I know half of the reason it’s like this for me personally is because I’ve had girlfriends where they cheated on me with a guy, but I know this happens to people who haven’t experienced that too!. I think a big part of it is in general, of course not every guy ok but they are bad at taking rejection and I’ve literally encountered this on multiple occasions. If we go out together and a girl hits on my girlfriend, she will be friendly and say she has a girlfriend and then 99% of the time the girl will be super friendly back, compliment us both, sometimes apologise and then leave us alone. Whereas when a straight guy hits on my girlfriend it’s like almost every time a completely different reaction. Once my girlfriend says she isn’t interested, and will be as friendly as she was towards a girl who hit on her, the guys almost every single time will either straight away get super offensive and angry or say something like “why don’t both of you come with me” or “i’ll change that”, like there’s only been a few occasions where the guy will have a nice reaction and leave us alone.
It’s just literally so annoying, does anyone else get this???
Yeah I have found men to react worse to a rejection, to not get the point & move on, where as women tend to accept it & go away.
I would get super insecure if my boyfriend(who's straight tho) got hit on by a girl rather then a boy because I would feel like I should be the only girl and I wouldn't mind him getting hit on by a guy at all, because I don't have what they do, so it wouldn't feel like cheating. 💜💜💜
Rose is like that with Rosie. She hates when dudes hit on her. I guess its different for everyone tbh
I love you so much 🌈
Detectivedimples s Liked because of your picture.
omg maggie😍
your picture and name are amazing,, i feel like the sg fandom are slowly creeping everywhere
rosa wright I'm wherever the gays are 👀
Detectivedimples s And we're here! Also with Unfortunatly Ashly, Clexa (sobs), Supercorp, OITNB, OUAT, Carmilla, LP, Lady Gaga, Wynona Earp etc.
Thank you so much for this video, lately all this stuff has been very confusing for me and you took the stress and self judgement away for a sec so I could relax and just go with things.
This series is so amazing Rosie - as someone who previously identified as bisexual but now view myself as a lesbian, it's so validating to hear you talk about all the fluidity with labels etc. Thank you! 💜
I literally have looked for a video like that for a thousand years because I am really struggling with myself concerning this topic. So happy YOU have made a video about it now!
I really like the way you talk and explain things, especially because you also question yourself and you don't claim to be always right.
The Bisexy series help a lot, I absolutely LOVE IT!!!! xoxo
NOTIFICATION SQUAD ❤❤❤❤🌈
I PROBABLY GOING TO COME OUT AS BISEXUAL OR SOMETHING THIS YEAR. THANKS FOR ALL THE ADVICES, I LOVE YOU ROSIE ❤❤❤❤
I love your attitude. You always express your opinion (controversial or not) but you do it very respectfully. You are aware that there are things you don't know but argues well from the information you have. Thank you, Rosie. I got to think a lot through the video.
Oh about the different attraction to men and women thing. I think even though stereotypes and gender roles don't matter, we can't deny that our sex influences us both biologically and socially. In general, men and women do have differences (even though there can are people who don't fit into that stereotype). For example, testosterone makes people more aggressive and assertive, so personally I'm actually quite into soft guys. Conversely, I like strong women. So I realized it's the fact that they stand out against stereotype that I'm into. Also, if you're into athletic people, they are more likely to have bulging muscles if they are men, but not so much as women. I think it's those differences between the genders that make us seem to have different attractions to men and women, although it's not like I can check with everyone's sexuality to see if it's true. But yeah we still have to check ourselves with these things coz we shouldn't automatically play the housewife role just coz we are in a straight relationship.
oh my gosh that sentence you saying it's different you having an attraction to guys and girls was the one thing I NEEDED to hear. most videos on bisexuality I've heard it all before and I know but I've never ever ever ever ever ever heard a bisexual person say it's different and that was so so so important for me so thank you!!!!!!!
And you help a looot doing the bisexy videos! Please continue! I feel so understood and conntected somehow while you're talking because I'm living it the exact same way. Just so that you know: YOU ARE VERY HELPFUL and I love to listen to you talking about your experiences. Great job!
I love this discussion of feminism and gender roles v straight / same-sex relationships. And the trans-inclusive language and discussions!! Rosie, you're a constant source of inspiration and light. Love you soooo much.
So proud of you for explaining this and for recognising my gender identity as valid, thanks Rosie it means a lot! 💛 you and Rose helped so much when I was accepting my sexuality and gender identity, love to you both and Wilma and Flynn
very well said..👌 loved the part where rosie explained the love she's giving as a bi when she fall in love with a person when viewing it on a percentage perspective and the way she said how she love rose with all her heart. keep making this kind of video because this was really helpful.
It's so nice hearing you talk about a serious topic (although I LOVE your funny videos!). You're so articulate and have such essence, it's fascinating. Please don't stop posting this sort of content :)
I can't believe how much one notification makes me smile x
Hey Rosie, theres something wrong with my phone... it doesn't have your number in it. *winks*
xxx
This was handled so well! It's often hard for people to make honest videos like this without offending people because sexuality is just SO broad, but you spoke about everything so thoughtfully and sensitively it was great. I (Deryn) identified with everything you said about bisexuality so much. Please keep making these, they are so good and so important x
The whole video was great but i love that your relationship with Rose is so great that you two can talk so open about such a delicate topic as is jealousy, and you both are so respectful of each other, like Rose can talk openly about how she feel and is capable of recognizing that the jealousy is a problem from her side and not yours
Loved this video! Can you make a video about your ex's and how different it is and how happy you are now and how much your life has panned out to the way you maybe had planned throughout the years and how rose has impacted you?
I think what some people don't understand is that bisexual people... well, for some people it's like finding a man more attractive than another, you could find a woman more attractive than a man sometimes. It just depends on the particular person, not just because of the sex and/or sexuality.
For other people, it feels different finding a woman attractive than finding a man attractive.
It just depends on the person >♡
I need more videos like this! This really made me think deep about my own bisexuality and really analyze it more! You are super helpful and thought-inducing and rose's answer really made me understand my gf a lot better when she tried to explain why she felt more "threatened" (not really though) when guys hit on me rather than girls. This was so so so informative! Please more!
I feel like I've said this before in a comment, but I genuinely love how open you are and how dedicated you are to respecting people's truths, being inclusive, and learning. I'm also bi and we're the same age so I relate to you about the levels of knowledge I had growing up aroud sexuality and gender. I've had to learn a lot as an adult about the lgbt community. But I think so often, even older lgbt people don't want to do that learning and don't want to be inclusive because it scares and confuses them. And as a society, we just don't want to interrogate our own understanding of gender because it is really hard. So yeah, I just think your willingness to do those things and do them on camera and create this supportive community are beautiful parts of you as a person and really make a difference for others. Keep it up!
Thank you so much for this video! I'm so confused sometimes about myself and what I feel but you and Rose helped me so much already, so thank you for that! xxx
hi rosie love this channel, currently ill but just binge watching your vids and rose's too. thanks for making my day with this video xx
Honestly, I'm so glad that you keep posting this series. Because I also like to make research about these themes and keep myself informated. In some point of the video I cried a bit, because all the things u said they were actually true. Thank you so much for this, I love you with all my heart.
ROSIE THIS IS LIKE MY FAVORITE VIDEO YOU HAVE EVER MADE I would love if you would do another video on like the diff feelings between being w a guy and a girl and maybe open up a discussion w us. I feel like my relationships w men and women are definitely different, and it would be cool to hear more about that from you.
Just Subscribed to your channel, you literally have the best video and voice I've heard so far! I'm Bisexual &
I really am trying to know as much as I can. So plz
Keep these videos coming. Thnx so very Much!
more of these please, this was really interesting and informative
I love how you just talk to your camera and as you are doing this, you discover more perspectives of yourself and we can follow your thinking process :)
I love Rosie's excitement, passion and enthusiasm for everything she does, it's really endearing! She's really landed on her feet here!
THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video ❤ I can't remember the last time I watched a video this useful. I am struggling with finding out who I am and what I like. I don't really identify as anything, just because I think that love is love no matter what. Still, if anyone asks me what I am, for the sake of not needing to explain a whole lot, I say I'm bisexual. The truth is, I don't know. I might be lesbian? I haven't figured that out. Anyway, thank you, it was really good to hear your opinion, and to know that I actually am not alone ❤
I don't know if this helps at all, I'm bisexual too, and choose to define the label as attraction to my gender and attraction to other genders. It's still technically defining two things, just without the exclusion.
Natalie Tris I do to. The information i got from research is that when the term bisexual was coined, people weren't super aware of non binary genders so that's why it's called that but with more awareness coming forward I don't think it has to literally mean two genders, just more than one. So that's how I define it.
Natalie Tris being bisexual is being attracted to male and female.
Vencya not necessarily. it's defined as being attracted to your same gender and other genders. just means more than one.
Labels can be whatever you want it to be
I've done a lot of research and bisexual has been, since day one, the meaning of being attracted to male and females. My friends who even had troubled identifying their sexuality all said it as well. That's why there's pansexual. My friends have admitted that they label themselves as bisexuals because they feel like it's easier and simple than saying you're pansexual.
yay , finally another part of the series, can't wait for more! I love you both and all your videos together but I really enjoyed just hearing your thoughts on these subjects. Please do more of them :)
This was beautiful. Thank you for creating these videos. I don't identify as bisexual personally, but I relate to so much of this content and it is so refreshing to have someone talk about these topics. Like I love that you are having an honest stream of consciousness conversation with us. Thank you so much Rosie! ❤️
Regarding the last question, I don't think it's right that your boyfriend is ok with you having sex with other women but not other men because it clearly shows he doesn't respect women as much as men. Like he doesn't take them as seriously and that kinda shows his whole character in general.
This is very deep indeed! Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm really glad we have you as a ROLE MODEL. Thanks, Rosie!
I LOVED this video, Rosie! I thought it was very helpful and deep and idk, I just really love hearing your thoughts on things, especially about bisexual things (as a fellow bisexual myself). Can't wait for the next video!
I love this series Rosie, I honestly don't know how to define myself. I think predominantly attracted to men but I feel like there's something there for women as well. I don't know if I'm 'gay' enough to consider myself bi or what, but I find it so interesting and wonderful to hear you talk about your experiences. It's so amazing that you knew who you were from such a young age and I really look up to you and Rosie :) thank you so much 💜
Oh my god I meant you and Rose!! Stupid autocorrect!! Sorry 😂
Even if you have a preference for men, even if u only liked 1 other gender ever...you'd still be bi enough! don't worry about it. People who tell you you're not "gay" enough to be bi are biphobes.
I highly relate to the different feeling towards guys and girls. I don't think we should feel guilty about it, i mean for me i don't control it at all
This was by far the best 'bi-sexy' series video yet. Thank you for making these. They honestly do help and they are really comforting. You and Rose are the coolest. Again, seriously, thank you.
The whole video, all the words were all well said. I swear, you and Rose changed my life since the day I knew about you. I now feel more... confident about myself. And I'm planning on coming out because of you and Rose. I'm glad I found out about you. So wish me luck on coming out😅❤🌈
potentially I am bisexual, but then I am, personality wise, very much unable to focus on more than one thing at a time - so when I was interested in men, I tried to ignore my attraction towards women, I tried to say I was straight; then I got pissed off with never attracting my ideal kind of guy, and opened up to channeling my energy towards women and its actually easier for me to say I prefer women sexually and men romantically. I am so complex because I will have feelings for a particular guy and get all loved up and attracted to them physically, but then... I switch and I will have even stronger feelings for more women, in particular one kind of woman, so I know I have a feminine side but I feel I have a dominant male side and its that male side that maybe gets me more attracted to women... but then I always wondered... why do we have to be masculine to fall in love with women? Why can't feminine energy attract female energy and male energy attract male energy? In a spirutual sense I fall in love with archetypes... and its like I live in this web of connectivity and I have all these soul mates dotted around me in certain positions depending on their vibe... I feel I am usually always linked to one person in a close way, such as this position I am in on the web of connectivity is my home and where I feel most comfortable and that person next to me has a lot of feminine energy... THEN elsewhere on the web is a being with male energy and has a different personality but when I am in a certain mood, like I'm feeling hyper or sociable, I will seek out that being and want to put my romantic energy towards them... so I've pinned it down to, when I am still and in a homely mood I want the woman there so I can connect with my still and calm side, but when I am in a hyperactive, loose mood where I don't want to play the man, I want the guy there so I can connect with that part of myself. So it's like I have dual personalities, but for some reason the main personality I need to feed in this lifetime is the male personality who is into the woman - it still seems very off that men are supposed to be attracted to women 😕 I'm trying to figure out whether in a spiritual sense we just belong with certain archetypes and we recognise them in certain genders for some reason, or spiritually we are flexible but depending on our genes our bodies crave sex from one or maybe it depends on our life purpose or individual personality? I'm just inclined to think we are all androgynous beings and we link to certain beings depending on multiple factors and our circumstance.
Actual love this segment, wish you would do more bisexy series ❤️❤️
i really love this video sooooo much .rose and rosie are my favorite youtuber in the world
@Rosie and @Rose, yours is the first video that I watched that made me reassess my sexuality. I was out and gay during 7th grade until 2nd year in college. Its when I tried to be straight and went with the flow until lately nothing is really happening with trying to be straight. Its not expressing me. I have always been attracted to my friends that are girls but I try not to be obvious or else they'll freak out. But when I watched these 2, they made accepting myself and being 'out' to myself possible. That's step I didnt even thought of. I just want to thank them both! You're always making us feel accepted. You have the charm of making a hard situation look easy. Many Thanks!!! 😘
I am bi and I completely understand about how it feels different loving a boy or a girl. That’s part of the reason i didn’t realize I liked girls because it felt different from when I liked boys💗💜💙
I HAVEN'T EVEN WATCHED THIS YET BUT I KNOW ITS GONNA BE AMAZING
I just want you to know that's this video was extremely helpful as someone trying to figure things out. And it was really great to see you struggle with some of the questions--they are difficult and not even you have all the answers.
Loved this video! I'm in my early 30's and still trying to find who I am. But at the same time, not worrying about a label to give to society to identify me. Excited to see more videos like this ❤️
I think comparing gender to haircolor helps:
One can prefer red hair or blond or like both. If you like both you can still have 100% relation with just one.
She's so beautiful inside and out. Damn. This is amazing.
I've been following you both for the past couple of years! I have a blast with your videos, but never felt like commenting until now. Amazing video! So serious and truthful... Thank you so much for sharing! Congrats!!!
I completely agree with everything you said in this video, it was so helpful! being bisexual myself I can completely relate to everything, especially when people say that bisexuality is 'a phase'. that's extremely irritating. thank you for making this video rosie. it has impacted me a hell of a lot, I love you!
I love that unicorn pillow! Where is it from?!
Primark! xxx
thanks Rosie! Adore you both!
Here's a comment on the last question: I had an ex who was okay with me sleeping with other women but not with men. It wasn't that he saw my sexual relations with women as "less valid" he just understood that sex with women offered me physical things that he could not provide. Why would I need to sleep with another person with a penis, when I had him already? But to have sex with somebody with with a vagina, he couldn't do that for me and was comfortable with me seeking that elsewhere, so long as we remained open about it and communicated if either of us were uncomfortable with anything, and I was clear with any woman I slept with too.
HOWEVER. I have also been in relationships where guys have told me "other girls don't count" and "sure you can sleep with girls, that's hot" and THAT is a problem.
This whole video was just so encouraging, even though I know ultimately my sexuality is personal and shouldn't be effected by others, but it really feels good to hear it from someone I really admire. You and Rose are truly an inspiration and thanks for all dem good videoZ! 😁
I LITERALLY relate to this video and understand you 1000% Rosie! Thank you for it! Keep making more videos!!!
I really agree with the ‘playing part rol’ with being with a guy or with a woman!!!!!
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