I was into the idea of minimalism for a while, but I eventually realized that what I actually wanted was to be intentional about what I own. I should only own clothes that I wear, I should only have kitchen gadgets that I use, and the only things under my bathroom counter should be items that get frequent use or overstock for items that run out quickly (but not an excess amount unless it was on sale and doesn't expire). I also wanted to be able to easily give up things easily and not cling to things that only took up space but weren't necessary for my happiness. I own plenty of things, and I have several large collections of items, so I'm nowhere near a minimalist. I love Jenny Mustard's quote (which may or may not be verbatim): "Own only what you know to be useful or believe to be beautiful." That quote really helped me during my exploration of my own relationship with stuff.
Congratulations! You are also a minimalist. Because that’s the REAL definition by the inventors of the „movement“... you can also say that you are an essentialist. Everything you own is essential to you. If you need 24 t shirts, that’s nice and good! Still an minimalist/essentialist, because you NEED them for yourself and it has a purpose in your life! Real minimalism doesn’t mean to own one or two pieces of stuff from something.
It is truly frustrating that progressive movements like veganism and minimalism always has a band of folks that sit on a righteous pedestal condemning beginners with labels and political correctness. Its simply too much drama considering these movements are to help us become more compassionate. I absolutely loved this video! We need more voices reassuring people that we are individuals and are in control of our own journey.
J Jackson Dont be racist. Black people can own stuff too. Why would you say something so bigoted? Stop hating on black people. They can do just as good in this country as everyone else.
Why do people think vegans are stuck up? I am a vegan and I keep my mouth shut unless I am asked or when I am having a discussion with someone and the topic goes that way, or I just really need to share my feelings, like now. I don't preach, but people react so badly to veganism. I think maybe it could be, not sure, that some people feel bad that they could never do it. It is hard, and you have to be very motivated, cause everyone around you is different. If I am at a party, or bar-b-q, some people think it is okay to comment on the fact that I am eating differently. Then they laugh. Then they light up a cigarette, and open another beer. I just don't get it. It seems like the same people that, if they had a fancy car, would only put the best gas into it, and I would never tell them what gas to put in their car. Well, my body is my car, so I get to do what I want with it. Does that make sense? Hope so, lol. I think vegans are just highly motivated, and want to share, and really passionate. Seems like a good thing, but it can be overdone, I know. It is sort of like, when people find out you play guitar, they make excuses why they don't play the guitar. "Oh, my fingers are too short." Well, you don't have to play the guitar just because I do. It is okay to not play an instrument, maybe you are really really good at something else that I suck at. You know what I mean? Everyone is on their own path.
A lot of these minimalist videos I've watched are so sad. I watch what I buy and I don't like lots of rubbish , but I like my home to have colour. It's all about comfort and being able to feel good. Going in a bland home without colour is depressing. It's comforting to have the things you like around you.
The Danish have a word for it, "hygge". It mean to live in a warm, inviting, calm and cozy space surround by simple yet practical items that make you want to have a cup of tea, chat with an old friend, read a book while you cuddle with a pet. ❤
Obsessiveness can happen with anything. I've read stories about people so minimalistic that they can pack everything they own in a backpack and they still feel like they own too much or people who keep getting rid of things that they actually need and then have to keep repurchasing that item which is self defeating and expensive if you keep that habit up.
When something becomes a movement, it's no longer freeing, but imprisoning set of rules and obligations. Doris Lessing wrote an interesting book titled Prisons We Choose. Acting as part of the group is at first comforting, but in the end, it makes you less agile.
I disagree; you are free to define & practise your own brand of minimalism. I'm not even aware of any '"rules and obligations" to which one apparently must adhere to 'officially' live as a minimalist. For example, my ideal small home is a 700-900 sq ft bungalow, basement-less, on grass-free property, NOT a tiny house on wheels. You are the architect of your own life; you can choose to live that life on your own terms, adopting that which resonates with your spirit, discarding what does not. Simple as that. Once you consciously align with your own Truth in every facet of your life, you become utterly and blissfully impervious to the beliefs of all the sheeple around you. That is freedom.
I'm not sure what you disagree with. In any case, this is why Doris Lessing's book is titled "Prisons We Choose to Live Inside", the operative word being Choose. And no, it's not always simple--the mind isn't a constant and stable thing.
I disagreed with Todd's assertion that "when something becomes a movement, it's no longer freeing" on account of an "imprisoning set of rules and obligations" one must apparently comply with to qualify as a true minimalist. I say you are always free to write your own script, as it were, incorporating those minimalist 'rules' that feel right for you while rejecting those that don't, that's all. Simple enough.
writerforlifeify Movement: A group of people working together to advance their shared political, social, or artistic ideas. People working together do so through language, rules, plans, style. What you are talking about, instead, is Shopping.
It really hard to be a minimalist when you have hobbies. I try to go through my stuff and weed it out. Balance is key and doing what feels right. Very insightful.
Stacy Lamb I have loads of wool and knitting and crotchet hooks cos 'one day' I hope to have the time to sit in my uncluttered house and enjoy a hobby.!
I'm only just starting on my journey. I live in a tiny apartment with a toddler. Since having my baby, I was given, and bought so much stuff, on top of the clutter that I already had. I'm literally tripping over things and hurting myself! I NEED to declutter and minimise my life. But as you said, you need to keep the things that make you happy, and the things you need, so I decided early that my craft supplies are staying. I am using them, and they do make me happy, especially when a project turns out how I was hoping (or better). I started with the baby clothes that no longer fit, and I'm now ready to start attacking other parts of the house. So far, no regrets, and I'm looking forward to clearing out my home for a better life for my toddler and me.
I truly needed to hear this! I've been told many times that I'm not a minimalist cause I have many stuff. I do arts and crafts,sewing and I run a small animal rescue so i need lots of stuff for that, but besides that I am a minimalist and a mindful shopper so your video was very supportive!!
I live simply because it it good for my mental health condition. Less is more is so true for me. I love simple, organized but with a few very special items of beauty
I just say I like learning about minimalism rather than I am a minimalist. I think it's a little bit of a misnomer and maybe intentional living or conscious living is a better description. For me it's just about being conscious of what I'm getting from things, whether tangible or intangible, and acting accordingly once I let myself see the truth that's usually hiding at first for whatever reason. You become stronger when you stop pacifying your needs and instead listen to them and satisfy them in a genuine way.
Thanks to stress, depression and a knee injury (and, sadly, thinking shopping could help my depression) my house has gotten embarrassingly/overwhelmingly cluttered over the past 4 yrs. I've been learning about minimalism, but was turned off by the notion of having to get rid of the things that bring me pleasure to look at. I really like this video, I'm starting to downsize and this was encouraging!
What really derailed me is trying to be part of declutter community. Or decluttering in general. It started when I was barely 19 years old trying to follow a Cathryn Ponder book I read that said to clean up and clear out my life. I dumped anything I could trying to take her advice. I hardly owned a thing at that point. It’s only been recently, decades later after being part of the decluttering community on Facebook that I have realized decluttering is not helping me. I need to be organized and clean and not have stuff I don’t need, yes. But so many times I’ve had an item and tossed it in the name of decluttering only to realize it was part of something of a future thing I’d be involved in or interested in.
I am not sure I want to be a minimalist, like others who have commented down below,I am starting to feel more comfortable with the 'intentional living' label. Still, I loved the video. I guess it doesn't matter how we label things as long as they work for us.
Minimalism is something that has evolved out of our prosperity, just like the previous generation saving everything because they lived through the depression. Take it all with a grain of salt, because the next new movement is on it's way!
I was very happy to find your video honestly ! Since a few weeks I'm watching videos and videos about minimalism and I started to declutter my home and my life but I can't get rid of things that I love ! I saw videos of girls saying things like "why do you keep all these books ? Will you read them again ? No. Get rid of it." But I just can't because I love books ! So I wrote my own definition of minimalism and now it is easier for me ! Thank you for saying the truth to beginners
I can relate to that! I dream of having a whole wall high book shelf one day when Im old and I love having my books around because thats what makes a room cozy and enjoyable to me
I guess I never really thought about this. The reason I like to clean out my closet and room is because I like having less stuff because I realize I have a lot of things I don’t need. Having a lot of things is also stressful and I like feeling uncluttered. And it has taught me to let go of things that are sentimental but are also junk. And say no thank you to things I don’t need like gifts people wanna get me and I don’t need or even like sometimes. And to not impulse buy. I like having a small number of things so I know what I have and what I need when I go shopping. That way I don’t end up with doubles or impulse buying crap I don’t need. Living with less makes my life easier and makes me feel more relaxed. And it helps to think that when I move out I won’t have a crap ton of things to take with me. These are all positives to me I never would have imagined minimalism to be a problem for anyone but you’re right we are all different.
I suffer from depression, so keeping my bedroom space clean with no clutter influences my brain. But I also try to give myself time when I'm having a hard time and my bedroom falls into a messy space because I understand that my room is simply reflecting my state of mind and in time, and slowly, I'll start to pick up after myself.
The hardest part of my journey has been fixation on objects or behaviors I feel I should let go of, but for one reason or another I'm not ready yet - or there just isn't a good way to let it go. I think that sort of extreme desire to be congruent with your values to the point where it bothers you borders on perfectionism, and is when minimalism can go too far and be a burden. I appreciate that you talk about the drawbacks up front, I feel as if a lot of youtubers and bloggers can be defensive or dismissive rather than acknowledging minimalism isn't purely good. I think that contributes to why some people are reluctant to be labeled minimalist or vegan - they can't fully relate to the people representing the community. Enjoyed the video! Thanks!
Well-said and thought provoking. I am highly interested in minimalism primarily as a mindset, but I have an eye for fashion and love thrift shopping 😂 I definitely prefer the term "mindful living" versus minimalism.
🤔IMHO people are over complicating & over thinking it in my opinion. Do what makes you happy or brings you joy / sparks joy for you & the best thing to do is not care what other people think. You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. It’s your life...do you. I’m new to your channel so I’ll check out your other videos. 💞
Not a minimalist but I listen to the movement and find it useful in removing those things that don't matter to me, clearing my life of debris that would otherwise detract from happiness.
"Giving away so much that you are left with nothing?" yes, one must be careful, but I'd rather have a hundred of my favorite pictures on a thumb drive these days than a hundred various-sized framed pictures on the wall. I make sure I have a digital copy of everything and backed up. I only keep the very most important papers. I'm so glad to get rid of stuff. I don't want someone else to clean up after me when I die or am totally disabled. Only keep what you absolutely need to survive and enjoy life and be comfortable. I have been getting rid of stuff for five years and still have a long way to go. It's so overwhelming to me now that I am older and I almost feel allergic to unnecessary stuff.
I think Einstein was probably talking about theories and equations (he was a theoretical physicist after all). Look up "Occam's razor", it's a principle often used in science and this quote sounds a lot like it. But it can certainly be applied to material minimalism as well and I love how you explained this.
It just shows how people with different backgrounds interpret things differently. You are a minimalist and to you the quote sounds like one of the principles of minimalism. I recently got my degree in physics and to me the quote sounds like every homework and exam ever ;-)
I was just about to comment that he was referring to science, and being a minimalist when it comes to lifestyle. However, I think the quote is true for both life in general and science :)
remmirath42 The original quote is probably "It can scarcely be denied that the supreme goal of all theory is to make the irreducible basic elements as simple and as few as possible without having to surrender the adequate representation of a single datum of experience."
(I am not intentionally a minimalist.) I had not thought of Einstein as a minimalist in lifestyle (more of a quirky hippy precursor) until seeing this reflective video, but he was in some way. Einstein is readily recognized in his later photographs for the haircuts he would rather not get. It was not for looks. In fact, Einstein sarcastically joked that future generations would see these photos and imagine that people once worshiped the Great Hair God. Einstein had an edge on the average person by not being interested in most of the things people generally are, but being abnormally focused. He also could barely be dragged into things, because of his strong will, unless he chose to be. He could not even be dragged into thinking about physics in the direction his professors wanted to go, which did not endear him, or make it easy to find a position for the graduate generally known to be remarkable. Einstein may have preferred, if he had the choice, the job he got at the Swiss patent office (through his friend) examining patents for physical validity, because his light duties only required thinking about physics, his favorite pastime. At home (where the dutiful, finely-educated wife of a man she was confident was a major genius did everything to the point of her exasperation) Einstein had plenty of energy left to think through the physics for what has become known as his miracle year. As Einstein's fame began and spread, Einstein got positions with ever fewer requirements, until he was recruited as the star of The Institute for Advanced Study, where the novel premise was no requirements. Einstein only used his advantages to think at greater length, more deeply and more focused, to the point that quantum physicists thought of him as an old fogey when he didn't ride on the bandwagon he was instrumental in starting. (Einstein said he did not care for the style of physicist that is like a carpenter who selects where to drill holes by finding the easiest place.) In his younger days, his colleagues would see Einstein, not scribbling endless algebra, but sitting in his chair in deep thought his entire work day. Einstein (who was a devoted violinist) claimed that whatever he had achieved came by intuition, which he learned directly from music. He didn't say algebra. When it came to dying, Einstein might have elected to have newly possible surgery for the arterial aneurysm that took years to burst, but he is quoted as saying, "it is tasteless to prolong life." He wished that his grave would not be marked.
What a nice refreshing perspective to the minimalism lifestyle. You are so wise for your age. I really needed to hear this. I have a tendency to think in black and white. What is your take on keeping/discarding journals?
Thanks for the kind and thoughtful words, Barnetta. I still want to call myself a minimalist, despite the criticism and negativity that I've heard. I feel like it's like any ascetic behavior: some people just take it too far. You want to lose weight but not become anorexic. Marie Kondo says that everyone has a click point amount of stuff that is right for them. Mine is different from yours. People do way too much comparing and judging when it comes to minimalism. I don't really care though, because it's really helped my life a lot.
There are some things that can really damage you if you are too minimalist. For example, it's important to keep emergency supplies in case you get sick or injured or some natural disaster or family emergency happens. Just because the chances of you using it is low doesn't mean you aren't going to wish you had it when you suddenly wake up with the flu. Also, running out of toilet paper can be an emergency, or if your glasses break or your contacts get ruined. In addition, lots of non-minimalist things can help you save money, like supplies to wash your own car, or healthy quick meals stocked up for nights you don't have time to cook. Life is messy and disorganized even if your stuff is clean and tidy!
This is a great video. I don't think I could ever go minimalist even though I know I'd personally benefit from it. I think some forget, even if you'd benefit from a minimalist life if it's a constant battle that's not healthy. So it's about balance. For me I'm finding it helpful to just ask myself every time I'm about to buy something "will buying this item make me more happy than just having the space this item will take up in my life". It's made all the difference.
The problem with minimalism is that there is a certain aesthetic that is associated with minimalism. You know the kind where you have the white bedspread and you are devoid of any color. Now I personally find this aesthetic rather boring. I like my bedspread to have color and my bed to have character, I like there to be posters/paintings on the wall, I like to display my pop figurines around the house because they bring me joy. The problem with minimalism isn't the idea itself be its the expectation that if your house doesn't look like that of another minimalist then your doing it wrong.
@August Butterfly I dont concern myself with many things minimalism and I do have the same aesthetic in mind that Bea does. It may be the prevalent thing. But also, her last sentence was important. Minimalism Influencers might be unintentionally telling you what is right and wrong in minimalism when really, there is no right and wrong. There is only your way.
Your health, whether physical, mental or spiritual, must come first. If you're sick you can't help yourself or anyone else. I've learned this the hard way and now live with the consequences. Be kind to yourself. :)
We are a nation of GLUTTONY, I believe that we should be mindful, of all the stuff (junk) we are piling up in our lives, without making it a cult!!! Plus having our environments clean and neat is a plus!!
Americanism is a bit of a 'cult'. We spend a lot of time and money trying to get everyone else to think like we do. She's trying to hit a good balance here.
I think this applies to all movements and lifestyles. People in lifestyle movements have developed a strict set of guidelines to follow and it creates elitism and a sense of shaming for those that may be struggling, aren't transitioning fast enough into the lifestyle or etc. Which honestly, people who do those things hurt the cause more than it helps because it scares people from the movement. Like in the minimalist lifestyle, you are expected to get rid of a lot of things that you own and be able to fit all your waste from the year in a tiny mason jar. When it's not that simple to just do right off the bat. Any lifestyle is a trial and error journey and no ones path is the same as another. So why attack others because they're not on the same path as you?
When we moved into our tiny shipping container home we definitely downsized, but haven't gotten around to going "minimalist" yet. But with six kids, I really feel that simplifying our surroundings helps with everyone's moods. Too much clutter I've found leads to an elevated feeling of general chaos (if that makes any sense!).
Suzi Hazlove I believe minimalism is only having things around that add value to your life. Of course my children aren't "things", but I definitely believe they add value to my life! 💖
Anything too extreme isn't good for you. Be balanced but keep it simple. I personally think minimalism is your state of mind. Too many things will possibly distract you from what you really need in your life. Stay simple and focus on you and what you really love.
By necessity I am downsizing my possessions. But I am keeping a lot of things that serve no other purpose then to make me happy. A lot of art I've collected makes me happy so it stays. I am not a minimalist by any stretch of the imagination but I am true to myself. I really dislike people who push any movement on me. I like to hear the basic principles that give enough information to make a sensible decision on whether or not this way of living is something I would like to do or would help me in some way. I thank you for sharing the downside of what minimalism could become for some. I like living a simple life but true minimalism isn't for me. :)
I just think walking into a 200 SQ ft apartment that is completely institutional looking.. white walls, chrome front on appliances with a couple of floor mats in the living space and a bamboo floor mat for your bed would make me miserable! Maybe a small desk with a laptop is the only thing that greets you walking into your minimalist space! I think they are really trying to dehumanize us all by convincing us to take away everything that reminds us of a home and being cozy! I have no problem with people choosing to live in smaller spaces... but fill it with things that can make you smile and feel content..it's better for your psyche and all around health! After all it doesn't have to be a hoard!
Different spaces work for different people. What makes you happy won't make everyone happy. Personally, I like living spaces that are free of visual clutter and with minimal decoration. I get overwhelmed easily, so a simple home helps me relax and focus on tasks that are more important. A home with lots of things and many colors wouldn't work for me as it's too chaotic.
Hey, I just found your channel and this really resonates with me. I do not consider myself a minimalist but over the last 4-5 years I have given care and effort to purge my life and household of things I don't use or that don't bring me joy. I still have tons of stuff and sometimes I wish I wasn't such a sentimental pack-rat, but hey at least I am an organized sentimental pack-rat! I appreciate the point of view that even though I may not appear minimalist on the surface, that doesn't dismiss or negate the way I feel inside. Thank you :)
I love this video so much! I have seen minimalist videos where people give up their beds and their homes in favor of living in their cars. It’s videos like that, that made me feel like I was vehemently anti minimalist. I have a lot of belongings but lately my dream has been to start a small business and sell vintage rather than just collect all of it for myself. I also stopped buying clothes from retail stores unless I’m looking for something very specific. This has made me more mindful of the things I don’t need that I shouldn’t spend my money on.
I started de-clutering about 3 years ago, I was forced financially to move into a studio apartment and I decided that if a thing doesn't serve a purpose in my house it doesn't belong there, I didn't even know until a couple of days ago that there is a name for it "minmalism", it's not a life style actually, it's just a choice you make to live more carefree without things binding you, I see people paying plenty money to store crap in storage facilities, things they most likely will never use again, it's like Tyler Durden said in "Fight Club" "Things you own end up owning you", ...oh and I've never done yoga or drink drinks made from grass, I love my tv and gaming console, my bed is perfect and also my washing machine, but the rest of the crap advertisers throw at me, yeah...that crap they can keep.
I really appreciate your message, It's so true! I am an artist, athlete and I have hobbies and these pastimes require "gear" that needs to be stored and space to do the things. I lived on a sailboat and also in a small travel trailer and I was not super happy because I had no where to store my gear which left me with constant clutter and not much space
Minimalism is just one part of me, but not all that defines me. As such i don't call myself a minimalist. No i am not a vegan, no i don't own less then 150 items, and no i don't have a complete white interior. I just reduced the excess and carefully contemplate about what i bring/keep into my life.
Given that I have six kids and two dogs, there is only so far I will ever go with minimalism. At least three of the kids are also packrats and I have found that you can't "declutter" someone else. Sure, you can go through and get rid of their things but it won't stop them from accumulating more. So, when I started on my decluttering/minimalism journey, I didn't go in my kid's rooms at all. My plan instead is to teach them and lead by example- and maybe help them with decluttering but only when they are taking the lead. Perhaps simplicity is a better word, though. For example, one major tenant of minimalism is having bare surfaces so that they are easier to clean and wipe down. But having two kids who toast things all the time, it is more SIMPLE to keep the toaster on the counter instead of taking it out and putting it away every day- dropping crumbs on the floor, heavy for the kids, etc. Like you said, it has to serve you. When my kids no longer toast things every day, we either won't need a toaster or we can keep it in the cupboard.
Hello Barnetta, I am a first time viewer and a honest to goodness hoarder. I have autoimmune disorders and have been unable to do regular everyday things. I was busy with 30 plus years of nursing, I would work 50-60 hours a week until about 4 years ago. I ruptured 2 disc in my back and over the last two years I worked that’s all I could do. I was very unhealthy and just getting worse the longer I pushed. Needless to say I neglected so many things, because I had nothing left to give after work. I would love to say “I want to live a simpler life” but I’m totally stagnant looking at all that needs to be done. My daughter is a fanatic about her minimal life style and can no longer stand to come to my home. I did retire about 2 years ago due to my health issues but I’ve been so depressed and feel like such a failure, that I mostly just lay on my bed or lay on the couch. My husband retired about 3 weeks ago and we have a mobile home that we want to live full time in. I’m hoping and really have been determined to not take anything with me from my home except what I use and what makes me happy. Please tell me that’s a good thing. I have 30 years of stuff in my home, plus I seemed to have inherited all my parents and in law parents “treasures.” If you have any suggestions of where to begin I would love to here them. My daughter says she is just going to set a bomb off in our house when we are buried, because she refuses to keep anything. Thank you for coming up on my FB Page, I will be bingeing on your past vlogs to hopefully learn some different approaches to this problem. God Bless you, from NM.
This was a great video to explain my ideal concept of minimalism. Living simpler, but don't deprive yourself of things you like if that makes sense. If you want that new blanket or piece of clothing and know you'll love it and use it a lot go for it! Just be more conscious of what you're buying, how impulsive or certain of a choice it is, and work on being more frugal and decisive in what you do and what you gather and keep. I am not a minimalist, but I am interested in downsizing my things and living with less items and more focus. This was a nice first video to watch. Also, random, but if you ever see this comment, your hair is absolutely lovely. :)
2 weeks ago I started my journey tward living simply. I have more to do with my life just take care of my stuff. It was quite dounting to even pick a chore. I have taken 6 boxes to donation, rearrange 2 rooms of my house and started on my room yesterday. I just have too much to do than worry about the house all time. I can't keep up and it's very oppressing. So I decided to do something about it. I feel so great already.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I definitely find that more isn't more..sometimes there are so many noises around me and it is hard to focus on what really matter to me" Thank You ❤ I have been decluttering since a couple of years ago. I do have at least 80 % of possession gone. However I still feel overwhelmed in some areas in my life. Something that I have been afraid to let go of. The freer me keeps telling me what if I do get rid of them...What would it be like? It is so easy to be distracted and got intrigued or sidetracked by so many things these days. Maybe too many good things aren't good anymore. Maybe when everything is gone, something really matter will remain. I just miss being a carefree kid that didn't really have many things yet happy.
The thing is it should be more about efficiency in my case since I have a tool shed that allows me to do much but I cannot go without many things but weeding out the unnecessary clutter is key... Since if I do away with to much things get not done by lack of the necessary tools but at the same time keeping my shed down to the stuff I really need is most important... I am used to having everything around including many sorted electronics components in drawers that allow me to reach for the stuff I need... Indeed in my case effectively going about what to keep and what not.,. It mostly depends on what do I use much and that I need to have a supply at hand... What is so common that I can get it at the store close by if not used very often I don’t need it... And what is so rare that keeping it in a box in the attic makes sense ?Radio tubes are sometimes hard to come by so I have a large supply of spares... What can I order online easily that I don’t need often and thus can go out of my store space... And there are also jobs like cleaning up and tidying up my workspace... And throwing out the defect components and getting it to the right places for the right environmental recycling proces, not all can be thrown in the bin... Congratulations on your brother... We in Europe like to go more slowly instead of running from here to there...We literally cal that behavior of crazy Americans while speaking amongst ourselves in our own language... You could also apply the minimalist way to the amount of places you go to in a day or a week and imagine that less is more... While visiting less places you can stay longer at a place and watch and study or let it get through to you more..So instead of going to the zoo and the amusement park and the sea and the bars at the night after, all in one day and than claiming you know the place or you have been there... Just order a ticket to downtown and go look around a whole day by just walking around and do that proces for a week.., And once settling in somewhere instead of hiring a car rent or buy a bicycle and peddle around so you can really see and absorb where you are and train your muscles at the same time... Greetings from the Netherlands....
To be a minimalist is consuming consciently, do not ignore the effects that consumerism brings to the environment. The benefits are: we will stop impulse buying, you will get rid of anxiety disorder, will have gratitude and sense of satisfaction for what we have. Money doesn't buy satisfaction, it just gives a temporary satisfaction, at the end of the day, we just wish more and more...
Having so much stuff is chaotic. I’ve never liked collections. I don’t like holding on to stuff I don’t need or ever going to use. I don’t like all my house walls covered with stuff. House looks beautifully without all walls covered looking like a museum or a hobby lobby.😊
I do believe that quote is about retaining the accuracy of data, not simplifying life, but I do really like your points and it's good to see them expressed. Minimalism has become a fad in many places, which is sad; anything which enhances someone's life style should become a habit, not a phase. The very best of luck with your channel.
Minimalism sounds good at first, because it is intended to take the focus off of material possessions, but that can backfire. When you become obsessed with keeping clutter out of your house, that is still putting an unhealthy focus on material possessions. Not to mention that no one will know what to get you for Christmas, and it's pointless to buy you anything other than gift cards because you'll probably get rid of it anyway. It's also pretty sad when your kid only has one present to open, while their cousins have several. There is definitely a way to simplify one's life without going overboard. Minimalism attracts people whose mindset is: if I need it later, I'll buy it. The opposite end of that is the Great Depression generation, who saved money by not throwing out things they could use later. I think a healthy balance can be found in between. I was forced to live with a minimal capsule wardrobe when our car broke down last January and I had to wait 3 weeks to get it fixed. We stayed at my in-laws', and I was very thankful to be able to do laundry for free. However, I was sick to death of wearing the same 4-5 sweaters for that long! I was ecstatic to access the rest of my winter wardrobe when we finally got home! So yeah, extreme minimalism is not for me. The best advice I have heard for decluttering is to not focus on a number, but rather what feels right. I love variety and abundance, so even my pared down wardrobe is bigger than what would be considered "minimal", but I only buy what fits and what I love.
I rarely comment, but loved this video. I'm happy that I can approach minimalism without feeling empty, and also guilty that I can't seem to let go of some things because they do make me happy. Minimalism should also be more focused as a state of mind (peace), and material things are just the icing on the cake.
Since I do my own home, car, and garden repairs and maintenance, I keep and use lots of tools and materials. When I clean out and throw out for minimalism, I later have to go out and buy the very tools and stuff I have thrown out. This chaotic cycle is expensive, wasteful, and stressful. My "as simple as possible but no simpler" involves having all the stuff I need (and will likely need) at hand; but no more. It doesn't look like a Dwell magazine garage, but it is honest, and I am comfortable.
I definitely recognize this view, I'm also a practical minimalist myself. I like Simple living, not complicating my life more than neccessary by getting rid of everything I own. Thank you! Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen
I admire the minimalist approach. I wouldn’t take it to the extreme or beat myself up if I cheated. But just from the standpoint of gaining clarity through decluttering, or reaching a financial or spiritual goal, it could be very liberating.
So glad I found your Channel. I'm trying to be a minimalist and I've gotten rid of so much things. I'm even dressing nicer to work because I have nice quality clothes that I didn't even know I had in my closet and I got rid of a lot of the cheap stuff. My teenage daughter is on the other side of the spectrum she is a big-time hoarder but she is slowly trying to simplify her life and she admitted that she feels less stressed in her room since we got rid of some stuff. She loves clothes and that's okay I just want her to be more organized. I am also an artist so it's really hard for me to not have random things laying around and I am trying to figure out how I can be an artist but a very neat and clean artist LOL
Barnetta, Thank U 4 the time U give making these video’s. This is the 1st. 1 👁’ve watched & it was most informative🙂. 👁 am a senior citizen trying 2 “lighten” up. Like the term “ mindful” living. Often find myself OVERWHELMED when trying 2 sort my belongs. U R an easy person 2 listen 2, no ummm’s & ah’s.🙂. Again thanks, 🙂. M🍀. Looking forward 2 listening 2 more of your video’s 😊.
I enjoy your videos and learn things about becoming minimalist. It’s a journey and clothes! It started with capsule wardrobe that is one of the first videos I watched when you shared your wardrobe. I am on a journey and happy to know that this is a process❤️ I use to have large totes each season I had to pack up and store what didn’t fit😫 Happy to share the only thing I store is sweaters. I am looking forward to spring and l’ll do another purge, this happens about twice a year now and it fits in one small closet🌺
So I've only started adapting the "minimalist" mind set the last week. I am already see positive improvements. As I started to look more into it I found the more accurate term some people use is "intential living". As in you are "intential" about your time and the things you keep. But the word "minimalist" sounds way better.
I am working toward living a minimal lifestyle but in my own way. I don't like too much clutter but I do want what I love around me without being overwhelmed with stuff.
Donna Harris Exactly! I used to say I was a minimalist because I didn’t like to have too many things (for various reasons), I lived in a relatively small space (500 sq ft), I was hard pressed to find people my age who had less than I did, etc. However, that was before people were writing books and blogs and making RUclips videos about owning 100 things or less. Now, even if I still had that same lifestyle, I wouldn’t call myself a minimalist because of what the word has come to mean.
I commented on a minimalist video, saying that my husband has to use straws d to drink with due to his disability. What followed was pages and pages of vile comments, most saying that because he is disabled we can't be minimalists. We have been organizing and simplifying our home for over 20 years, so I would say we are quite minimalist. We have art and collections, but only the best things and the displays are small and everything we own has a permanent home, which we believe shows those are the things we love. I hear you about the minimalist community sometimes being cruel.
It depends on how we define minimalist. I still think minimalism have a lot of benefits.. that's how i feel. And i'm loving it, coz im a "clutter" person so less things less clutter less stress for me. 😎
you are the first that makes sense to me. I live in the bush in a very tiny town. Now store that sells where you can take jar to the shop etc. I cant not buy food that is not in wraps or something like that. It is to hot here to grow my own food. soil is rotten bad. Water is a real problem just to drink. I love to be as green as I can. We have no recycling here. Council refuses to have it. You make so much sense.
Great video💚and very well said! I'm just starting my journey on minimalism and I'm so excited because I need to focus on more important things in my life 🙂 God bless you!💙
I really loved this video Barnetta. What you said really reminded me that I need to not get down on myself for feeling like I am failing because I have a lot of makeup, clothes, and accessories. These are things that I love and enjoy. We each have our own minimalism. I have been using it as a tool to be a more deliberate consumer and that has been successful! Plus..I live with 4 other people in a rather large old farmhouse so we have a bit more room for things than other people may have. I hope that you are feeling better.
faeriesmak ..good point... I actually like having alot of things, products.. I rily like it.. Can't imagine myself having 10 clothes only like av seen on some vids.. Lol.. Good video tho
I am minimalist, I have lots of stuff but something that I don't use in a 6 month period I sell it or trash or donating center, I don't have credit card, no debts and this life is awesome
Happy to hear that you talking about the other side of this beautiful thing "minimalism" , people need to understand that every thing has his yin and yang and its ok , just stick with what true to your nature , thank you !
Well, in Brazil we are minimalistics not because we want but brcause we need. Hahaha. Kidding. I must to say, that i changed by agging, and from the others perspectives i've never thought before. I started to ask myself, why should i have 25 jeans, and usually wear only 2 or 3? Dozens blouses and t-shirts and never wear it? While a lot of people doesnt have, why not share with them? Since this, i must to say, i became soft, gentle, and happy, and received warm and love. =) Thank you for the video, I am learning english, sorry for the mistakes. I subscribed you. ♡
A coach/psychatrist once told me that there r 3 levels to minimalism: 1- get rid of useless , un-nessecary things. 2-Get rid of unwanted, negative ppl in ur life. 3- Get rid of negative thoughts. And u cant reach this stage if u dont go through the 1st one and the second one and that makes sens to me. Coz if u lead a messy life( messy home, many ppl who cant let u focus on ur life), you will never be able to control ur thoughts and u wont reach ur goals or at least u will need a LOT OF efforts and time to reach them.
Thankyou yes living simpler is the best Description and action Pace yourself , slow down, be gentle on yourself and enjoy your daily effirt wuth peaceful reflection you put in alot of effort God bless you for sharing .
Love this channel! I would like to see anything you would like to share about your passions, your art, music that inspires you, what your thoughts are on home design but yet still staying minimal, etc. what do you like to eat? Does minimalism come into play in your meals and choices in that area? And how does minimalism affect your choices or perspectives in other areas of your life? Totally curious about all of those things. Keep up the great work and I look forward to whatever you are going to talk about next! 🤗
Allie, love your video. My struggles being a minimalist are people buying me gifts. I have spoken to loved ones about gift certificates for salon's or restaurants. I am still showered in coffee mugs and cute stuffed animals. My other struggle is my Bible collection. I have two full bookshelves of Bibles and two more of devotionals that i cannot part with. Then yesterday i bought another Bible. I feel kind of defeated. I aspire to be able to live simply in all areas.
Thank you for your support Dianne. I understand the feeling when it comes to gifts. I think the best advice I have in that respect is to continue to say you do not want certain things. If someone gets you the things you said you didn’t want, then you keep it for a short time and then let it go. It’s within your rights to let go of that which doesn’t serve you or make you happy. As for your collection- be kind to yourself. Collecting bibles is not such a bad habit. It’s a projection of your faith, and perhaps you can make more space for the Bible’s and declutter in other areas. Always focus on the things you don’t love first. You’re entitled to your happiness and to enjoy your collection. 💕
Minimalism is about thinking what is really importent to you. That also could be a collection.an empty house is sometimes a sad house, depending on your perspective:)
I love your approach to minimalism, it is important to still be you and keep that life style only if it makes you happy!! Great video! I still do not consider myself to be a minimalist but it is a journey and i have hope to sill on this path :)
hi everyone! I would have to say that my biggest hurdle in trying to start my minimalist journey would have to be my sentimentality. I hold on to things for so long and then struggle to get rid of them because I have had them for so long.
I honestly wish people wouldn't judge others so much when it comes to this lifestyle- everybody has their own definition of what "minimalism" means to them anyways. I love fashion, so I own at least 18 different purses, 24 pairs of shoes and a fairly sized collection of clothes. Just do what works best for you; that's the only thing that matters
Hey nice video, and I admire the effort you put into it. Yet I there is a thing that bothers me, which is that you made the statement that Albert Einstein would have a "wonderful perspective on living minimaly and simply" (2.12). The quote you used from Einstein does not refer to minimalism as the lifestyle. This quote of Einstein most likely refers to the need in science and research to formulate theories in science as simple as possible. This means that you should not use more factors or variables as necessary (or more than actual present) to explain a certain phenomenon. Just look at his slick and short formula: e= mc2. It falls in line with other philosophers of science like Wilhelm Ockham ( Ockham's Razor). Don't mistake me, I agree to most aspects you mention on minimalism as the lifestyle, yet Einstein probably did not refer to the message you conveyd when saying this. Nonetheless, keep on doing this =D Minimalism is a good way to live a life !
Years ago a minimalist told me Never compromise with your comfort! I have always been a minimalist but if it's something I need I get it, if I'm hungry I eat, I pay my bills and maintain my minimalist lifestyle. The danger comes in when you start doing without just not add to minimalist equation.
That was always a reason for me not to try minimalism because RUclipsrs told you to throw things out or Buy new minimalist „things“ instead or only have a certain amount of clothes or sheets and Stuff like that , But If i have all of that stuff at Home and use it every now and than it’s more minimalistic in my opinion than to throw it out and buy something new , which is such a bad thing to do because this is shitty for The Environment and they only See what is good for themselves 😥
Oh, i've spotted the artistic touch then. Thanks for the advice. I use copic markers, that are very good too. No need to tell that to a person who has an art degree though. Drawing with markers on a paper sheet is a physical pleasure that no graphic tablet can replicate. ^^
Replace “Perfection” with ‘simplicity’ Perfection is achieved, not when there’s nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away ~ Antoine de Saint Exupery
I have most of my books on Kindle to save space; have been able to now have just one bookcase instead of two. My question: if you have books in several different categories, how do you decide which one you'll read when? In the new year I want to read one book a week, so I thought I would switch categories and then after the next book, switch again...does that sound ok? So glad to meet you and find your channel - I am full of positivity, like you, and also having a minimalist lifestyle adventure. :) Thanks.
Being a minimalist is not a good thing. It's like, you try to get rid of something bad in your life, a trauma, or something like that. You can sell everything that you have in your house, until the last object, your problem is still in your head and not resolved. It's just an abstract way and false idea to convince you to "resolve" your problem in your life, which is not true at all. Like _"everything is clean, sanitized, and in the right place in my house. I feel way better. No problem can reach me now, it so reassuring... problem solved! My sweet little cocoon!"_ It's just a feeling, nothing is resolved in your life - It's just an illusion. In fact, you are afraid of you and of your memories; It's also a constant and perpetual fear of yourself, of others, and of the world around you - Your dream is to live just like in an Apple commercial; where everything is design, slick, clear, sanitized, and extremely minimalistic - Where there are no emotions. Well, good luck to you because now, you are not a human being anymore but a robot. Your life becomes more and more dull and/or empty and doesn't make sense anymore, you live in a virtual world, and depressed - And one day, you gonna die... alone.
I would love to hear your perspective on minimizing paperwork for someone who's a bookkeeper. I find this part of the de-cluttering process has me really stumped and I've kind of dropped the whole thing because it's too overwhelming. Love your content and would also love to see more stuff on other things as well... so YES branch out babe!!!
I don't know whether it is a value thing that is different in various countries, or maybe America consumer culture is something else, but I have always called it being sensible. Maybe also because many live in limited spaces with limited finances? It's usually a cycle thing anyway: you grow older, you sort your toys, trash the posters. You go trough your clothes twice a year for season change (because your closet is only that big) and throw away what you don't need. You feel bad for everything you spent money on you didn't wear and vow to do better. You get stuck in daily life and try to get your balance back by purging some drawer to make room literally and in your head. Your make-up shelf is too small so you sit down one day and sort through what you really use. Like this you go through most of your posessions once a year or so. Make a buck on ebay. I always thought that's just how it is.
I really would like to know: Is there this dream "get a job, buy a big house" still a thing in America? I see many youtubers who start sizing down and decluttering and have these really big homes.
Minimalism is counter to what makes our economic system function. If minimalism is to be acceptable in a capitalist country, the first thing we must do is rethink our economy, which defines are society. Here are a few questions we should ask ourselves: - Do we really want to drastically cutback our excessive consumerism? - Is always being on the bleeding edge important to us? - Do we want to measure our social standing by our monetary wealth (wealth used to mean more than just having money?) - Are we concerned about our environment being able to support us in the future? It all comes down to whether we want to put forth the effort to unlearn our wasteful habits in order to live a sustainable lifestyle and have time to enjoy what we already had when we were born.
Im not minimalist either but cutting down on objects does help to simplify life, strangely konmari method helped me greatly :) i got rid of over 8 bin bags worth of stuff dont miss most of it am happy with what I have
I subscribed 🤗 I would like to tackle emotional sentiments vs minimalism I'm having the hardest time letting go of everything. The clutter around me is depressing 🤦🏻♀️
Minimalism is not about deprivation, it’s just having what you need and use and no more.
This! I have found that doing what feels right to me, fits me makes me happier.
I was into the idea of minimalism for a while, but I eventually realized that what I actually wanted was to be intentional about what I own. I should only own clothes that I wear, I should only have kitchen gadgets that I use, and the only things under my bathroom counter should be items that get frequent use or overstock for items that run out quickly (but not an excess amount unless it was on sale and doesn't expire). I also wanted to be able to easily give up things easily and not cling to things that only took up space but weren't necessary for my happiness.
I own plenty of things, and I have several large collections of items, so I'm nowhere near a minimalist. I love Jenny Mustard's quote (which may or may not be verbatim): "Own only what you know to be useful or believe to be beautiful." That quote really helped me during my exploration of my own relationship with stuff.
That's a William Morris quote ;)
Congratulations! You are also a minimalist. Because that’s the REAL definition by the inventors of the „movement“... you can also say that you are an essentialist. Everything you own is essential to you. If you need 24 t shirts, that’s nice and good! Still an minimalist/essentialist, because you NEED them for yourself and it has a purpose in your life! Real minimalism doesn’t mean to own one or two pieces of stuff from something.
Sarah i love and identity with what you have said. Thank you
Your explanation is exactly right - what I would call Essentialism.
It is truly frustrating that progressive movements like veganism and minimalism always has a band of folks that sit on a righteous pedestal condemning beginners with labels and political correctness. Its simply too much drama considering these movements are to help us become more compassionate. I absolutely loved this video! We need more voices reassuring people that we are individuals and are in control of our own journey.
@Sasha V just troll those types of people. They deserve to be laughed at. And minimalism is not progressive. It's as old as monks.
J Jackson Dont be racist. Black people can own stuff too. Why would you say something so bigoted? Stop hating on black people. They can do just as good in this country as everyone else.
J Jackson Coming from you, that's a compliment.
Sasha V. Yup, the hippies ruin everything
Why do people think vegans are stuck up? I am a vegan and I keep my mouth shut unless I am asked or when I am having a discussion with someone and the topic goes that way, or I just really need to share my feelings, like now. I don't preach, but people react so badly to veganism. I think maybe it could be, not sure, that some people feel bad that they could never do it. It is hard, and you have to be very motivated, cause everyone around you is different. If I am at a party, or bar-b-q, some people think it is okay to comment on the fact that I am eating differently. Then they laugh. Then they light up a cigarette, and open another beer. I just don't get it. It seems like the same people that, if they had a fancy car, would only put the best gas into it, and I would never tell them what gas to put in their car. Well, my body is my car, so I get to do what I want with it. Does that make sense? Hope so, lol. I think vegans are just highly motivated, and want to share, and really passionate. Seems like a good thing, but it can be overdone, I know.
It is sort of like, when people find out you play guitar, they make excuses why they don't play the guitar. "Oh, my fingers are too short." Well, you don't have to play the guitar just because I do. It is okay to not play an instrument, maybe you are really really good at something else that I suck at. You know what I mean? Everyone is on their own path.
A lot of these minimalist videos I've watched are so sad. I watch what I buy and I don't like lots of rubbish , but I like my home to have colour. It's all about comfort and being able to feel good. Going in a bland home without colour is depressing. It's comforting to have the things you like around you.
The Danish have a word for it, "hygge". It mean to live in a warm, inviting, calm and cozy space surround by simple yet practical items that make you want to have a cup of tea, chat with an old friend, read a book while you cuddle with a pet. ❤
I agree with you.
I ONLY like 'black', so, I'm good. 😆👍 WAY TOO MUCH white wall space. I'm planning for the future to balance that out. 😂
I like neutral tones as a base and bursts of the brightest colours- this makes me happy. A life with no colour is not for me
I was a teenager in the 70's. I NEED color!
Obsessiveness can happen with anything. I've read stories about people so minimalistic that they can pack everything they own in a backpack and they still feel like they own too much or people who keep getting rid of things that they actually need and then have to keep repurchasing that item which is self defeating and expensive if you keep that habit up.
When something becomes a movement, it's no longer freeing, but imprisoning set of rules and obligations. Doris Lessing wrote an interesting book titled Prisons We Choose. Acting as part of the group is at first comforting, but in the end, it makes you less agile.
This comment is everything. So accurate Wow.
I disagree; you are free to define & practise your own brand of minimalism. I'm not even aware of any '"rules and obligations" to which one apparently must adhere to 'officially' live as a minimalist. For example, my ideal small home is a 700-900 sq ft bungalow, basement-less, on grass-free property, NOT a tiny house on wheels.
You are the architect of your own life; you can choose to live that life on your own terms, adopting that which resonates with your spirit, discarding what does not. Simple as that. Once you consciously align with your own Truth in every facet of your life, you become utterly and blissfully impervious to the beliefs of all the sheeple around you. That is freedom.
I'm not sure what you disagree with. In any case, this is why Doris Lessing's book is titled "Prisons We Choose to Live Inside", the operative word being Choose. And no, it's not always simple--the mind isn't a constant and stable thing.
I disagreed with Todd's assertion that "when something becomes a movement, it's no longer freeing" on account of an "imprisoning set of rules and obligations" one must apparently comply with to qualify as a true minimalist. I say you are always free to write your own script, as it were, incorporating those minimalist 'rules' that feel right for you while rejecting those that don't, that's all. Simple enough.
writerforlifeify Movement: A group of people working together to advance their shared political, social, or artistic ideas. People working together do so through language, rules, plans, style. What you are talking about, instead, is Shopping.
It really hard to be a minimalist when you have hobbies. I try to go through my stuff and weed it out. Balance is key and doing what feels right. Very insightful.
Stacy Lamb I have loads of wool and knitting and crotchet hooks cos 'one day' I hope to have the time to sit in my uncluttered house and enjoy a hobby.!
I enjoy my aspirational clutter.
Balance is everything
I'm only just starting on my journey. I live in a tiny apartment with a toddler. Since having my baby, I was given, and bought so much stuff, on top of the clutter that I already had. I'm literally tripping over things and hurting myself! I NEED to declutter and minimise my life. But as you said, you need to keep the things that make you happy, and the things you need, so I decided early that my craft supplies are staying. I am using them, and they do make me happy, especially when a project turns out how I was hoping (or better). I started with the baby clothes that no longer fit, and I'm now ready to start attacking other parts of the house. So far, no regrets, and I'm looking forward to clearing out my home for a better life for my toddler and me.
I truly needed to hear this! I've been told many times that I'm not a minimalist cause I have many stuff.
I do arts and crafts,sewing and I run a small animal rescue so i need lots of stuff for that, but besides that I am a minimalist and a mindful shopper so your video was very supportive!!
I live simply because it it good for my mental health condition.
Less is more is so true for me.
I love simple, organized but with a few very special items of beauty
Lynne Neil cluttered house, cluttered mind.
I just say I like learning about minimalism rather than I am a minimalist. I think it's a little bit of a misnomer and maybe intentional living or conscious living is a better description. For me it's just about being conscious of what I'm getting from things, whether tangible or intangible, and acting accordingly once I let myself see the truth that's usually hiding at first for whatever reason. You become stronger when you stop pacifying your needs and instead listen to them and satisfy them in a genuine way.
I say aspiring Minimilist.
Good word
Thanks to stress, depression and a knee injury (and, sadly, thinking shopping could help my depression) my house has gotten embarrassingly/overwhelmingly cluttered over the past 4 yrs. I've been learning about minimalism, but was turned off by the notion of having to get rid of the things that bring me pleasure to look at. I really like this video, I'm starting to downsize and this was encouraging!
What really derailed me is trying to be part of declutter community. Or decluttering in general. It started when I was barely 19 years old trying to follow a Cathryn Ponder book I read that said to clean up and clear out my life. I dumped anything I could trying to take her advice. I hardly owned a thing at that point. It’s only been recently, decades later after being part of the decluttering community on Facebook that I have realized decluttering is not helping me. I need to be organized and clean and not have stuff I don’t need, yes. But so many times I’ve had an item and tossed it in the name of decluttering only to realize it was part of something of a future thing I’d be involved in or interested in.
I am not sure I want to be a minimalist, like others who have commented down below,I am starting to feel more comfortable with the 'intentional living' label. Still, I loved the video. I guess it doesn't matter how we label things as long as they work for us.
Minimalism is something that has evolved out of our prosperity, just like the previous generation saving everything because they lived through the depression. Take it all with a grain of salt, because the next new movement is on it's way!
Vic J Well said !
I was very happy to find your video honestly ! Since a few weeks I'm watching videos and videos about minimalism and I started to declutter my home and my life but I can't get rid of things that I love ! I saw videos of girls saying things like "why do you keep all these books ? Will you read them again ? No. Get rid of it." But I just can't because I love books ! So I wrote my own definition of minimalism and now it is easier for me ! Thank you for saying the truth to beginners
I can relate to that! I dream of having a whole wall high book shelf one day when Im old and I love having my books around because thats what makes a room cozy and enjoyable to me
I guess I never really thought about this. The reason I like to clean out my closet and room is because I like having less stuff because I realize I have a lot of things I don’t need. Having a lot of things is also stressful and I like feeling uncluttered. And it has taught me to let go of things that are sentimental but are also junk. And say no thank you to things I don’t need like gifts people wanna get me and I don’t need or even like sometimes. And to not impulse buy. I like having a small number of things so I know what I have and what I need when I go shopping. That way I don’t end up with doubles or impulse buying crap I don’t need. Living with less makes my life easier and makes me feel more relaxed. And it helps to think that when I move out I won’t have a crap ton of things to take with me. These are all positives to me I never would have imagined minimalism to be a problem for anyone but you’re right we are all different.
I suffer from depression, so keeping my bedroom space clean with no clutter influences my brain. But I also try to give myself time when I'm having a hard time and my bedroom falls into a messy space because I understand that my room is simply reflecting my state of mind and in time, and slowly, I'll start to pick up after myself.
The hardest part of my journey has been fixation on objects or behaviors I feel I should let go of, but for one reason or another I'm not ready yet - or there just isn't a good way to let it go. I think that sort of extreme desire to be congruent with your values to the point where it bothers you borders on perfectionism, and is when minimalism can go too far and be a burden. I appreciate that you talk about the drawbacks up front, I feel as if a lot of youtubers and bloggers can be defensive or dismissive rather than acknowledging minimalism isn't purely good. I think that contributes to why some people are reluctant to be labeled minimalist or vegan - they can't fully relate to the people representing the community.
Enjoyed the video! Thanks!
Well-said and thought provoking. I am highly interested in minimalism primarily as a mindset, but I have an eye for fashion and love thrift shopping 😂
I definitely prefer the term "mindful living" versus minimalism.
🤔IMHO people are over complicating & over thinking it in my opinion. Do what makes you happy or brings you joy / sparks joy for you & the best thing to do is not care what other people think. You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. It’s your life...do you. I’m new to your channel so I’ll check out your other videos. 💞
Not a minimalist but I listen to the movement and find it useful in removing those things that don't matter to me, clearing my life of debris that would otherwise detract from happiness.
That sounds like you’re a minimalist.....just your own personal brand. The fact that you are aware of what you’re doing is an huge part of minimalism,
"Giving away so much that you are left with nothing?" yes, one must be careful, but I'd rather have a hundred of my favorite pictures on a thumb drive these days than a hundred various-sized framed pictures on the wall. I make sure I have a digital copy of everything and backed up. I only keep the very most important papers. I'm so glad to get rid of stuff. I don't want someone else to clean up after me when I die or am totally disabled. Only keep what you absolutely need to survive and enjoy life and be comfortable. I have been getting rid of stuff for five years and still have a long way to go. It's so overwhelming to me now that I am older and I almost feel allergic to unnecessary stuff.
Very well said. Practice moderation in all things even moderation. We can carry anything too far. 😊👍🏻
Lisa Taylor brilliant :-)
I think Einstein was probably talking about theories and equations (he was a theoretical physicist after all). Look up "Occam's razor", it's a principle often used in science and this quote sounds a lot like it. But it can certainly be applied to material minimalism as well and I love how you explained this.
It just shows how people with different backgrounds interpret things differently. You are a minimalist and to you the quote sounds like one of the principles of minimalism. I recently got my degree in physics and to me the quote sounds like every homework and exam ever ;-)
I was just about to comment that he was referring to science, and being a minimalist when it comes to lifestyle. However, I think the quote is true for both life in general and science :)
remmirath42 The original quote is probably "It can scarcely be denied that the supreme goal of all theory is to make the irreducible basic elements as simple and as few as possible without having to surrender the adequate representation of a single datum of experience."
(I am not intentionally a minimalist.) I had not thought of Einstein as a minimalist in lifestyle (more of a quirky hippy precursor) until seeing this reflective video, but he was in some way. Einstein is readily recognized in his later photographs for the haircuts he would rather not get. It was not for looks. In fact, Einstein sarcastically joked that future generations would see these photos and imagine that people once worshiped the Great Hair God. Einstein had an edge on the average person by not being interested in most of the things people generally are, but being abnormally focused. He also could barely be dragged into things, because of his strong will, unless he chose to be. He could not even be dragged into thinking about physics in the direction his professors wanted to go, which did not endear him, or make it easy to find a position for the graduate generally known to be remarkable. Einstein may have preferred, if he had the choice, the job he got at the Swiss patent office (through his friend) examining patents for physical validity, because his light duties only required thinking about physics, his favorite pastime. At home (where the dutiful, finely-educated wife of a man she was confident was a major genius did everything to the point of her exasperation) Einstein had plenty of energy left to think through the physics for what has become known as his miracle year. As Einstein's fame began and spread, Einstein got positions with ever fewer requirements, until he was recruited as the star of The Institute for Advanced Study, where the novel premise was no requirements. Einstein only used his advantages to think at greater length, more deeply and more focused, to the point that quantum physicists thought of him as an old fogey when he didn't ride on the bandwagon he was instrumental in starting. (Einstein said he did not care for the style of physicist that is like a carpenter who selects where to drill holes by finding the easiest place.) In his younger days, his colleagues would see Einstein, not scribbling endless algebra, but sitting in his chair in deep thought his entire work day. Einstein (who was a devoted violinist) claimed that whatever he had achieved came by intuition, which he learned directly from music. He didn't say algebra. When it came to dying, Einstein might have elected to have newly possible surgery for the arterial aneurysm that took years to burst, but he is quoted as saying, "it is tasteless to prolong life." He wished that his grave would not be marked.
Barnetta Bradley Einstein’s more famous comment about clutter is the one about empty desks = empty minds. He was quite a clutterbug.
What a nice refreshing perspective to the minimalism lifestyle. You are so wise for your age. I really needed to hear this. I have a tendency to think in black and white.
What is your take on keeping/discarding journals?
Thanks for the kind and thoughtful words, Barnetta. I still want to call myself a minimalist, despite the criticism and negativity that I've heard. I feel like it's like any ascetic behavior: some people just take it too far. You want to lose weight but not become anorexic. Marie Kondo says that everyone has a click point amount of stuff that is right for them. Mine is different from yours. People do way too much comparing and judging when it comes to minimalism. I don't really care though, because it's really helped my life a lot.
There are some things that can really damage you if you are too minimalist. For example, it's important to keep emergency supplies in case you get sick or injured or some natural disaster or family emergency happens. Just because the chances of you using it is low doesn't mean you aren't going to wish you had it when you suddenly wake up with the flu. Also, running out of toilet paper can be an emergency, or if your glasses break or your contacts get ruined. In addition, lots of non-minimalist things can help you save money, like supplies to wash your own car, or healthy quick meals stocked up for nights you don't have time to cook. Life is messy and disorganized even if your stuff is clean and tidy!
This is a great video. I don't think I could ever go minimalist even though I know I'd personally benefit from it. I think some forget, even if you'd benefit from a minimalist life if it's a constant battle that's not healthy. So it's about balance. For me I'm finding it helpful to just ask myself every time I'm about to buy something "will buying this item make me more happy than just having the space this item will take up in my life". It's made all the difference.
I have begun to shed possessions in my journey to simplify. I think I'll call it,... "right-sizing" 😁
The problem with minimalism is that there is a certain aesthetic that is associated with minimalism. You know the kind where you have the white bedspread and you are devoid of any color. Now I personally find this aesthetic rather boring. I like my bedspread to have color and my bed to have character, I like there to be posters/paintings on the wall, I like to display my pop figurines around the house because they bring me joy. The problem with minimalism isn't the idea itself be its the expectation that if your house doesn't look like that of another minimalist then your doing it wrong.
@August Butterfly I dont concern myself with many things minimalism and I do have the same aesthetic in mind that Bea does. It may be the prevalent thing. But also, her last sentence was important. Minimalism Influencers might be unintentionally telling you what is right and wrong in minimalism when really, there is no right and wrong. There is only your way.
Live with intention.
Your health, whether physical, mental or spiritual, must come first. If you're sick you can't help yourself or anyone else. I've learned this the hard way and now live with the consequences. Be kind to yourself. :)
We are a nation of GLUTTONY, I believe that we should be mindful, of all the stuff (junk) we are piling up in our lives, without making it a cult!!! Plus having our environments clean and neat is a plus!!
Americanism is a bit of a 'cult'. We spend a lot of time and money trying to get everyone else to think like we do. She's trying to hit a good balance here.
I think this applies to all movements and lifestyles. People in lifestyle movements have developed a strict set of guidelines to follow and it creates elitism and a sense of shaming for those that may be struggling, aren't transitioning fast enough into the lifestyle or etc. Which honestly, people who do those things hurt the cause more than it helps because it scares people from the movement. Like in the minimalist lifestyle, you are expected to get rid of a lot of things that you own and be able to fit all your waste from the year in a tiny mason jar. When it's not that simple to just do right off the bat. Any lifestyle is a trial and error journey and no ones path is the same as another. So why attack others because they're not on the same path as you?
When we moved into our tiny shipping container home we definitely downsized, but haven't gotten around to going "minimalist" yet. But with six kids, I really feel that simplifying our surroundings helps with everyone's moods. Too much clutter I've found leads to an elevated feeling of general chaos (if that makes any sense!).
Container Acre i always feel better with less clutter
Too much clutter leads to an elevated feeling of chaos. Very very true.
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Container Acre six kids. Lol is that part of being a minimalist? Having less kids? Like Japan... ? Curious
Suzi Hazlove I believe minimalism is only having things around that add value to your life. Of course my children aren't "things", but I definitely believe they add value to my life! 💖
Love this sentiment. I'm starting out, and have taken this approach, that minimalism has to serve a purpose for me, not the other way around.
Anything too extreme isn't good for you. Be balanced but keep it simple. I personally think minimalism is your state of mind. Too many things will possibly distract you from what you really need in your life. Stay simple and focus on you and what you really love.
By necessity I am downsizing my possessions. But I am keeping a lot of things that serve no other purpose then to make me happy. A lot of art I've collected makes me happy so it stays. I am not a minimalist by any stretch of the imagination but I am true to myself. I really dislike people who push any movement on me. I like to hear the basic principles that give enough information to make a sensible decision on whether or not this way of living is something I would like to do or would help me in some way. I thank you for sharing the downside of what minimalism could become for some. I like living a simple life but true minimalism isn't for me. :)
Barnetta Bradley, Thank you! And back atcha... :D
I just think walking into a 200 SQ ft apartment that is completely institutional looking.. white walls, chrome front on appliances with a couple of floor mats in the living space and a bamboo floor mat for your bed would make me miserable! Maybe a small desk with a laptop is the only thing that greets you walking into your minimalist space! I think they are really trying to dehumanize us all by convincing us to take away everything that reminds us of a home and being cozy! I have no problem with people choosing to live in smaller spaces... but fill it with things that can make you smile and feel content..it's better for your psyche and all around health! After all it doesn't have to be a hoard!
@Jeanne yeah that sounded great to me too. Nice and clean looking.
Different spaces work for different people. What makes you happy won't make everyone happy. Personally, I like living spaces that are free of visual clutter and with minimal decoration. I get overwhelmed easily, so a simple home helps me relax and focus on tasks that are more important. A home with lots of things and many colors wouldn't work for me as it's too chaotic.
Hey, I just found your channel and this really resonates with me. I do not consider myself a minimalist but over the last 4-5 years I have given care and effort to purge my life and household of things I don't use or that don't bring me joy. I still have tons of stuff and sometimes I wish I wasn't such a sentimental pack-rat, but hey at least I am an organized sentimental pack-rat! I appreciate the point of view that even though I may not appear minimalist on the surface, that doesn't dismiss or negate the way I feel inside. Thank you :)
I love this video so much! I have seen minimalist videos where people give up their beds and their homes in favor of living in their cars. It’s videos like that, that made me feel like I was vehemently anti minimalist. I have a lot of belongings but lately my dream has been to start a small business and sell vintage rather than just collect all of it for myself. I also stopped buying clothes from retail stores unless I’m looking for something very specific. This has made me more mindful of the things I don’t need that I shouldn’t spend my money on.
I started de-clutering about 3 years ago, I was forced financially to move into a studio apartment and I decided that if a thing doesn't serve a purpose in my house it doesn't belong there, I didn't even know until a couple of days ago that there is a name for it "minmalism", it's not a life style actually, it's just a choice you make to live more carefree without things binding you, I see people paying plenty money to store crap in storage facilities, things they most likely will never use again, it's like Tyler Durden said in "Fight Club" "Things you own end up owning you", ...oh and I've never done yoga or drink drinks made from grass, I love my tv and gaming console, my bed is perfect and also my washing machine, but the rest of the crap advertisers throw at me, yeah...that crap they can keep.
I really appreciate your message, It's so true! I am an artist, athlete and I have hobbies and these pastimes require "gear" that needs to be stored and space to do the things. I lived on a sailboat and also in a small travel trailer and I was not super happy because I had no where to store my gear which left me with constant clutter and not much space
Minimalism is just one part of me, but not all that defines me. As such i don't call myself a minimalist. No i am not a vegan, no i don't own less then 150 items, and no i don't have a complete white interior. I just reduced the excess and carefully contemplate about what i bring/keep into my life.
Given that I have six kids and two dogs, there is only so far I will ever go with minimalism. At least three of the kids are also packrats and I have found that you can't "declutter" someone else. Sure, you can go through and get rid of their things but it won't stop them from accumulating more. So, when I started on my decluttering/minimalism journey, I didn't go in my kid's rooms at all. My plan instead is to teach them and lead by example- and maybe help them with decluttering but only when they are taking the lead. Perhaps simplicity is a better word, though. For example, one major tenant of minimalism is having bare surfaces so that they are easier to clean and wipe down. But having two kids who toast things all the time, it is more SIMPLE to keep the toaster on the counter instead of taking it out and putting it away every day- dropping crumbs on the floor, heavy for the kids, etc. Like you said, it has to serve you. When my kids no longer toast things every day, we either won't need a toaster or we can keep it in the cupboard.
Hello Barnetta, I am a first time viewer and a honest to goodness hoarder. I have autoimmune disorders and have been unable to do regular everyday things. I was busy with 30 plus years of nursing, I would work 50-60 hours a week until about 4 years ago. I ruptured 2 disc in my back and over the last two years I worked that’s all I could do. I was very unhealthy and just getting worse the longer I pushed. Needless to say I neglected so many things, because I had nothing left to give after work. I would love to say “I want to live a simpler life” but I’m totally stagnant looking at all that needs to be done. My daughter is a fanatic about her minimal life style and can no longer stand to come to my home. I did retire about 2 years ago due to my health issues but I’ve been so depressed and feel like such a failure, that I mostly just lay on my bed or lay on the couch. My husband retired about 3 weeks ago and we have a mobile home that we want to live full time in. I’m hoping and really have been determined to not take anything with me from my home except what I use and what makes me happy. Please tell me that’s a good thing. I have 30 years of stuff in my home, plus I seemed to have inherited all my parents and in law parents “treasures.” If you have any suggestions of where to begin I would love to here them. My daughter says she is just going to set a bomb off in our house when we are buried, because she refuses to keep anything. Thank you for coming up on my FB Page, I will be bingeing on your past vlogs to hopefully learn some different approaches to this problem. God Bless you, from NM.
This was a great video to explain my ideal concept of minimalism. Living simpler, but don't deprive yourself of things you like if that makes sense. If you want that new blanket or piece of clothing and know you'll love it and use it a lot go for it! Just be more conscious of what you're buying, how impulsive or certain of a choice it is, and work on being more frugal and decisive in what you do and what you gather and keep.
I am not a minimalist, but I am interested in downsizing my things and living with less items and more focus. This was a nice first video to watch. Also, random, but if you ever see this comment, your hair is absolutely lovely. :)
2 weeks ago I started my journey tward living simply. I have more to do with my life just take care of my stuff. It was quite dounting to even pick a chore. I have taken 6 boxes to donation, rearrange 2 rooms of my house and started on my room yesterday. I just have too much to do than worry about the house all time. I can't keep up and it's very oppressing. So I decided to do something about it. I feel so great already.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I definitely find that more isn't more..sometimes there are so many noises around me and it is hard to focus on what really matter to me" Thank You ❤ I have been decluttering since a couple of years ago. I do have at least 80 % of possession gone. However I still feel overwhelmed in some areas in my life. Something that I have been afraid to let go of. The freer me keeps telling me what if I do get rid of them...What would it be like? It is so easy to be distracted and got intrigued or sidetracked by so many things these days. Maybe too many good things aren't good anymore. Maybe when everything is gone, something really matter will remain. I just miss being a carefree kid that didn't really have many things yet happy.
The thing is it should be more about efficiency in my case since I have a tool shed that allows me to do much but I cannot go without many things but weeding out the unnecessary clutter is key...
Since if I do away with to much things get not done by lack of the necessary tools but at the same time keeping my shed down to the stuff I really need is most important...
I am used to having everything around including many sorted electronics components in drawers that allow me to reach for the stuff I need...
Indeed in my case effectively going about what to keep and what not.,.
It mostly depends on what do I use much and that I need to have a supply at hand...
What is so common that I can get it at the store close by if not used very often I don’t need it...
And what is so rare that keeping it in a box in the attic makes sense ?Radio tubes are sometimes hard to come by so I have a large supply of spares...
What can I order online easily that I don’t need often and thus can go out of my store space...
And there are also jobs like cleaning up and tidying up my workspace...
And throwing out the defect components and getting it to the right places for the right environmental recycling proces, not all can be thrown in the bin...
Congratulations on your brother...
We in Europe like to go more slowly instead of running from here to there...We literally cal that behavior of crazy Americans while speaking amongst ourselves in our own language...
You could also apply the minimalist way to the amount of places you go to in a day or a week and imagine that less is more...
While visiting less places you can stay longer at a place and watch and study or let it get through to you more..So instead of going to the zoo and the amusement park and the sea and the bars at the night after, all in one day and than claiming you know the place or you have been there...
Just order a ticket to downtown and go look around a whole day by just walking around and do that proces for a week..,
And once settling in somewhere instead of hiring a car rent or buy a bicycle and peddle around so you can really see and absorb where you are and train your muscles at the same time...
Greetings from the Netherlands....
I admit I had to giggle at the irony of 2 different fonts, 2 different colors, and extra decorative tape on this particular quote.
To be a minimalist is consuming consciently, do not ignore the effects that consumerism brings to the environment. The benefits are: we will stop impulse buying, you will get rid of anxiety disorder, will have gratitude and sense of satisfaction for what we have. Money doesn't buy satisfaction, it just gives a temporary satisfaction, at the end of the day, we just wish more and more...
Having so much stuff is chaotic. I’ve never liked collections. I don’t like holding on to stuff I don’t need or ever going to use. I don’t like all my house walls covered with stuff. House looks beautifully without all walls covered looking like a museum or a hobby lobby.😊
I do believe that quote is about retaining the accuracy of data, not simplifying life, but I do really like your points and it's good to see them expressed. Minimalism has become a fad in many places, which is sad; anything which enhances someone's life style should become a habit, not a phase. The very best of luck with your channel.
Minimalism sounds good at first, because it is intended to take the focus off of material possessions, but that can backfire. When you become obsessed with keeping clutter out of your house, that is still putting an unhealthy focus on material possessions. Not to mention that no one will know what to get you for Christmas, and it's pointless to buy you anything other than gift cards because you'll probably get rid of it anyway. It's also pretty sad when your kid only has one present to open, while their cousins have several. There is definitely a way to simplify one's life without going overboard. Minimalism attracts people whose mindset is: if I need it later, I'll buy it. The opposite end of that is the Great Depression generation, who saved money by not throwing out things they could use later. I think a healthy balance can be found in between.
I was forced to live with a minimal capsule wardrobe when our car broke down last January and I had to wait 3 weeks to get it fixed. We stayed at my in-laws', and I was very thankful to be able to do laundry for free. However, I was sick to death of wearing the same 4-5 sweaters for that long! I was ecstatic to access the rest of my winter wardrobe when we finally got home! So yeah, extreme minimalism is not for me. The best advice I have heard for decluttering is to not focus on a number, but rather what feels right. I love variety and abundance, so even my pared down wardrobe is bigger than what would be considered "minimal", but I only buy what fits and what I love.
I rarely comment, but loved this video. I'm happy that I can approach minimalism without feeling empty, and also guilty that I can't seem to let go of some things because they do make me happy. Minimalism should also be more focused as a state of mind (peace), and material things are just the icing on the cake.
Since I do my own home, car, and garden repairs and maintenance, I keep and use lots of tools and materials. When I clean out and throw out for minimalism, I later have to go out and buy the very tools and stuff I have thrown out. This chaotic cycle is expensive, wasteful, and stressful. My "as simple as possible but no simpler" involves having all the stuff I need (and will likely need) at hand; but no more. It doesn't look like a Dwell magazine garage, but it is honest, and I am comfortable.
Barnetta, I'm glad you're here!
I definitely recognize this view, I'm also a practical minimalist myself. I like Simple living, not complicating my life more than neccessary by getting rid of everything I own. Thank you! Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen
I admire the minimalist approach. I wouldn’t take it to the extreme or beat myself up if I cheated. But just from the standpoint of gaining clarity through decluttering, or reaching a financial or spiritual goal, it could be very liberating.
That is very true!
So glad I found your Channel. I'm trying to be a minimalist and I've gotten rid of so much things. I'm even dressing nicer to work because I have nice quality clothes that I didn't even know I had in my closet and I got rid of a lot of the cheap stuff. My teenage daughter is on the other side of the spectrum she is a big-time hoarder but she is slowly trying to simplify her life and she admitted that she feels less stressed in her room since we got rid of some stuff. She loves clothes and that's okay I just want her to be more organized. I am also an artist so it's really hard for me to not have random things laying around and I am trying to figure out how I can be an artist but a very neat and clean artist LOL
Barnetta, Thank U 4 the time U give making these video’s. This is the 1st. 1 👁’ve watched & it was most informative🙂. 👁 am a senior citizen trying 2 “lighten” up. Like the term “ mindful” living. Often find myself OVERWHELMED when trying 2 sort my belongs. U R an easy person 2 listen 2, no ummm’s & ah’s.🙂. Again thanks, 🙂. M🍀. Looking forward 2 listening 2 more of your video’s 😊.
I enjoy your videos and learn things about becoming minimalist. It’s a journey and clothes! It started with capsule wardrobe that is one of the first videos I watched when you shared your wardrobe. I am on a journey and happy to know that this is a process❤️ I use to have large totes each season I had to pack up and store what didn’t fit😫 Happy to share the only thing I store is sweaters. I am looking forward to spring and l’ll do another purge, this happens about twice a year now and it fits in one small closet🌺
Minimalsim can be taken overboard the same way environmentalism can.
If environmentalism ISN'T "taken overboard", there's not gonna be an "us" to take anything, anywhere. 😱
I'm not a minimalist, but I will take your example of gettin rid of what doesn't serve me. I like that thought.
So I've only started adapting the "minimalist" mind set the last week. I am already see positive improvements. As I started to look more into it I found the more accurate term some people use is "intential living". As in you are "intential" about your time and the things you keep. But the word "minimalist" sounds way better.
I am working toward living a minimal lifestyle but in my own way. I don't like too much clutter but I do want what I love around me without being overwhelmed with stuff.
Donna Harris Exactly! I used to say I was a minimalist because I didn’t like to have too many things (for various reasons), I lived in a relatively small space (500 sq ft), I was hard pressed to find people my age who had less than I did, etc. However, that was before people were writing books and blogs and making RUclips videos about owning 100 things or less. Now, even if I still had that same lifestyle, I wouldn’t call myself a minimalist because of what the word has come to mean.
what i get is don't be hard on yourself focus on what you need and don't stress the rest
I commented on a minimalist video, saying that my husband has to use straws d to drink with due to his disability. What followed was pages and pages of vile comments, most saying that because he is disabled we can't be minimalists. We have been organizing and simplifying our home for over 20 years, so I would say we are quite minimalist. We have art and collections, but only the best things and the displays are small and everything we own has a permanent home, which we believe shows those are the things we love. I hear you about the minimalist community sometimes being cruel.
Thank you so much! We are so minimalist that I use a P38 can opener! Google that and see how minimalist we are!
It depends on how we define minimalist. I still think minimalism have a lot of benefits.. that's how i feel. And i'm loving it, coz im a "clutter" person so less things less clutter less stress for me. 😎
you are the first that makes sense to me. I live in the bush in a very tiny town. Now store that sells where you can take jar to the shop etc. I cant not buy food that is not in wraps or something like that. It is to hot here to grow my own food. soil is rotten bad. Water is a real problem just to drink. I love to be as green as I can. We have no recycling here. Council refuses to have it. You make so much sense.
Great video💚and very well said! I'm just starting my journey on minimalism and I'm so excited because I need to focus on more important things in my life 🙂 God bless you!💙
I really loved this video Barnetta. What you said really reminded me that I need to not get down on myself for feeling like I am failing because I have a lot of makeup, clothes, and accessories. These are things that I love and enjoy. We each have our own minimalism. I have been using it as a tool to be a more deliberate consumer and that has been successful! Plus..I live with 4 other people in a rather large old farmhouse so we have a bit more room for things than other people may have. I hope that you are feeling better.
faeriesmak ..good point... I actually like having alot of things, products.. I rily like it.. Can't imagine myself having 10 clothes only like av seen on some vids.. Lol.. Good video tho
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I am minimalist, I have lots of stuff but something that I don't use in a 6 month period I sell it or trash or donating center, I don't have credit card, no debts and this life is awesome
Happy to hear that you talking about the other side of this beautiful thing "minimalism" , people need to understand that every thing has his yin and yang and its ok , just stick with what true to your nature , thank you !
Well, in Brazil we are minimalistics not because we want but brcause we need. Hahaha. Kidding. I must to say, that i changed by agging, and from the others perspectives i've never thought before. I started to ask myself, why should i have 25 jeans, and usually wear only 2 or 3? Dozens blouses and t-shirts and never wear it? While a lot of people doesnt have, why not share with them? Since this, i must to say, i became soft, gentle, and happy, and received warm and love. =) Thank you for the video, I am learning english, sorry for the mistakes. I subscribed you. ♡
A coach/psychatrist once told me that there r 3 levels to minimalism:
1- get rid of useless , un-nessecary things.
2-Get rid of unwanted, negative ppl in ur life.
3- Get rid of negative thoughts. And u cant reach this stage if u dont go through the 1st one and the second one and that makes sens to me. Coz if u lead a messy life( messy home, many ppl who cant let u focus on ur life), you will never be able to control ur thoughts and u wont reach ur goals or at least u will need a LOT OF efforts and time to reach them.
Thankyou yes living simpler is the best
Description and action Pace yourself , slow down, be gentle on yourself and enjoy your daily effirt wuth peaceful reflection you put in alot of effort God bless you for sharing .
Love this channel! I would like to see anything you would like to share about your passions, your art, music that inspires you, what your thoughts are on home design but yet still staying minimal, etc. what do you like to eat? Does minimalism come into play in your meals and choices in that area? And how does minimalism affect your choices or perspectives in other areas of your life? Totally curious about all of those things. Keep up the great work and I look forward to whatever you are going to talk about next! 🤗
Allie, love your video. My struggles being a minimalist are people buying me gifts. I have spoken to loved ones about gift certificates for salon's or restaurants. I am still showered in coffee mugs and cute stuffed animals.
My other struggle is my Bible collection. I have two full bookshelves of Bibles and two more of devotionals that i cannot part with. Then yesterday i bought another Bible.
I feel kind of defeated. I aspire to be able to live simply in all areas.
Thank you for your support Dianne. I understand the feeling when it comes to gifts. I think the best advice I have in that respect is to continue to say you do not want certain things. If someone gets you the things you said you didn’t want, then you keep it for a short time and then let it go. It’s within your rights to let go of that which doesn’t serve you or make you happy. As for your collection- be kind to yourself. Collecting bibles is not such a bad habit. It’s a projection of your faith, and perhaps you can make more space for the Bible’s and declutter in other areas. Always focus on the things you don’t love first. You’re entitled to your happiness and to enjoy your collection. 💕
Allie Inspired Thank you, i appreciate your suggestion. I will do that.
Looking forward to seeing more of your videos! 💞
Minimalism is about thinking what is really importent to you. That also could be a collection.an empty house is sometimes a sad house, depending on your perspective:)
Hey, I like owning things that I don't need!
I love your approach to minimalism, it is important to still be you and keep that life style only if it makes you happy!! Great video! I still do not consider myself to be a minimalist but it is a journey and i have hope to sill on this path :)
This is the first video I’ve seen from you. I enjoyed it very much, it made total sense and I look forward to watching more videos! 💜
hi everyone! I would have to say that my biggest hurdle in trying to start my minimalist journey would have to be my sentimentality. I hold on to things for so long and then struggle to get rid of them because I have had them for so long.
I honestly wish people wouldn't judge others so much when it comes to this lifestyle- everybody has their own definition of what "minimalism" means to them anyways. I love fashion, so I own at least 18 different purses, 24 pairs of shoes and a fairly sized collection of clothes. Just do what works best for you; that's the only thing that matters
I support this. As long is it’s backed by common sense and practicality it’s good just to get rid of the toxicity of hanging on to so much stuff.
Hey nice video, and I admire the effort you put into it. Yet I there is a thing that bothers me, which is that you made the statement that Albert Einstein would have a "wonderful perspective on living minimaly and simply" (2.12). The quote you used from Einstein does not refer to minimalism as the lifestyle. This quote of Einstein most likely refers to the need in science and research to formulate theories in science as simple as possible. This means that you should not use more factors or variables as necessary (or more than actual present) to explain a certain phenomenon. Just look at his slick and short formula: e= mc2. It falls in line with other philosophers of science like Wilhelm Ockham ( Ockham's Razor).
Don't mistake me, I agree to most aspects you mention on minimalism as the lifestyle, yet Einstein probably did not refer to the message you conveyd when saying this.
Nonetheless, keep on doing this =D Minimalism is a good way to live a life !
Years ago a minimalist told me
Never compromise with your comfort!
I have always been a minimalist but if it's something I need I get it, if I'm hungry I eat, I pay my bills and maintain my minimalist lifestyle. The danger comes in when you start doing without just not add to minimalist equation.
I personally feel so happy I found your channel I have reflected and seeing life different. I would want to share that with people I love♡.
Barnetta Bradley thank you and it means alot you wrote back♡.
That was always a reason for me not to try minimalism because RUclipsrs told you to throw things out or Buy new minimalist „things“ instead or only have a certain amount of clothes or sheets and Stuff like that , But If i have all of that stuff at Home and use it every now and than it’s more minimalistic in my opinion than to throw it out and buy something new , which is such a bad thing to do because this is shitty for The Environment and they only See what is good for themselves 😥
Did you follow some calligraphy course?
Brush tip markers, so amazing.
Oh, i've spotted the artistic touch then.
Thanks for the advice. I use copic markers, that are very good too. No need to tell that to a person who has an art degree though.
Drawing with markers on a paper sheet is a physical pleasure that no graphic tablet can replicate. ^^
Replace “Perfection” with ‘simplicity’
Perfection is achieved, not when there’s nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away ~ Antoine de Saint Exupery
I have most of my books on Kindle to save space; have been able to now have just one bookcase instead of two. My question: if you have books in several different categories, how do you decide which one you'll read when? In the new year I want to read one book a week, so I thought I would switch categories and then after the next book, switch again...does that sound ok? So glad to meet you and find your channel - I am full of positivity, like you, and also having a minimalist lifestyle adventure. :) Thanks.
Being a minimalist is not a good thing. It's like, you try to get rid of something bad in your life, a trauma, or something like that. You can sell everything that you have in your house, until the last object, your problem is still in your head and not resolved. It's just an abstract way and false idea to convince you to "resolve" your problem in your life, which is not true at all. Like _"everything is clean, sanitized, and in the right place in my house. I feel way better. No problem can reach me now, it so reassuring... problem solved! My sweet little cocoon!"_
It's just a feeling, nothing is resolved in your life - It's just an illusion. In fact, you are afraid of you and of your memories; It's also a constant and perpetual fear of yourself, of others, and of the world around you - Your dream is to live just like in an Apple commercial; where everything is design, slick, clear, sanitized, and extremely minimalistic - Where there are no emotions. Well, good luck to you because now, you are not a human being anymore but a robot. Your life becomes more and more dull and/or empty and doesn't make sense anymore, you live in a virtual world, and depressed - And one day, you gonna die... alone.
I would love to hear your perspective on minimizing paperwork for someone who's a bookkeeper. I find this part of the de-cluttering process has me really stumped and I've kind of dropped the whole thing because it's too overwhelming. Love your content and would also love to see more stuff on other things as well... so YES branch out babe!!!
Bookkeeper as in accounting? Do everything digitally.
Minimalist is a style of simplicity and that's all. I won't be part of any movement.
I don't know whether it is a value thing that is different in various countries, or maybe America consumer culture is something else, but I have always called it being sensible. Maybe also because many live in limited spaces with limited finances? It's usually a cycle thing anyway: you grow older, you sort your toys, trash the posters. You go trough your clothes twice a year for season change (because your closet is only that big) and throw away what you don't need. You feel bad for everything you spent money on you didn't wear and vow to do better. You get stuck in daily life and try to get your balance back by purging some drawer to make room literally and in your head. Your make-up shelf is too small so you sit down one day and sort through what you really use. Like this you go through most of your posessions once a year or so. Make a buck on ebay. I always thought that's just how it is.
I really would like to know: Is there this dream "get a job, buy a big house" still a thing in America? I see many youtubers who start sizing down and decluttering and have these really big homes.
That makes sense. Thank you for your insight. Glad to hear (& see) that you found your way! :)
Minimalism is counter to what makes our economic system function. If minimalism is to be acceptable in a capitalist country, the first thing we must do is rethink our economy, which defines are society.
Here are a few questions we should ask ourselves:
- Do we really want to drastically cutback our excessive consumerism?
- Is always being on the bleeding edge important to us?
- Do we want to measure our social standing by our monetary wealth (wealth used to mean more than just having money?)
- Are we concerned about our environment being able to support us in the future?
It all comes down to whether we want to put forth the effort to unlearn our wasteful habits in order to live a sustainable lifestyle and have time to enjoy what we already had when we were born.
Im not minimalist either but cutting down on objects does help to simplify life, strangely konmari method helped me greatly :) i got rid of over 8 bin bags worth of stuff dont miss most of it am happy with what I have
I subscribed 🤗 I would like to tackle emotional sentiments vs minimalism I'm having the hardest time letting go of everything. The clutter around me is depressing 🤦🏻♀️