Finding Yourself Again In Motherhood.

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024
  • Miss your old life? Miss being young wild and free...erm or just sitting on your couch in silence sometimes? Getting dressed like a normal human and going to work talking to adults? Me too. Let's talk about finding yourself again in motherhood.♥️
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  • @ABeautifulHorizonTV
    @ABeautifulHorizonTV 7 лет назад +11

    Yes! Motherhood is not easy, but I have grown so much in it. I believe that pursuing your hobbies when you can is really helpful too. 😊💖

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад +1

      A Beautiful Horizon yesss definitely!

  • @JessicaMainous
    @JessicaMainous 7 лет назад +7

    What helps me is just forgetting about ALL expectations (whether they’re put on me by myself or by others) and focusing on all of the joy that my girls have added to my life! And it’s so true that we are complete in Christ, so I can remember that on the days that I’m feeling unfulfilled with my role as mommy (and there ARE days like that, no matter how hard we try to focus on the blessings) ❤️ Another wonderful, encouraging video...thank you 😘

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Mommy Chats love this!! I totally agree about shedding those expectations! They can be so heavy.❤️

  • @TKManes
    @TKManes 6 лет назад +1

    I needed this encouragement! I searched for “losing yourself motherhood” and I’m so glad God brought me here. He knew I needed to hear another believers encouragement. Thank you. Some day are so hard. 😞

  • @lpswater1748
    @lpswater1748 7 лет назад +2

    I miss my old life everyday. I want to be free again . Motherhood is so hard ! I can't even focus at work because I'm always thinking about them.

  • @jessicamclachlan2368
    @jessicamclachlan2368 2 года назад

    This is exactly what I needed to hear! I’m a new mother and have felt so lost recently! Wake up feeling so heavy! I know there’s light coming soon 🥰

  • @tabithakelley
    @tabithakelley 7 лет назад +5

    You are truly a gift from God. 😍 Thank you for blessing my life over and over and over!

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Oh stop!! You’re too sweet.❤️❤️ I feel the same about you!

  • @lashonnabahr889
    @lashonnabahr889 7 лет назад +3

    So true and so encouraging!! Thank you! I agree with you 100% on needing to care of yourself in diet and exercise! It makes you feel like a stronger, more confident momma!

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад +1

      Totally! It’s crazy how much it can do for your mental health!

  • @sephardishalom2693
    @sephardishalom2693 7 лет назад +1

    Amén. So true about the house being in shambles and showering, eating healthy and putting a bit of makeup. Yes healthy habits, the basics. God bless you. Merry Christmas.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Sephardi Shalom right?! It all starts with the simple things! Thank you, same to you!!😊💕💕

  • @leahpintol
    @leahpintol 7 лет назад +3

    I certainly had an identity crisis after my son was born. It's like I never knew who I really was before! Glad to see you back at videos, Kaylyn! I hope you and your family are able to get back home soon :)

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад +1

      thank you! we're home now!! :) I'll do another update soon! and I've been posting wednesdays and sundays-do you see my videos in your subscriptions? RUclips is having a lot of issues! That's why creators will tell you to turn on the notifications so you see when a new video is posted, because they aren't showing up for a lot of people even if they're subscribed. but anyways, hope you're having a good week! always appreciate you and your support. :) 💕💕

    • @leahpintol
      @leahpintol 6 лет назад

      LovedHappy I am getting all of your notifications :) :)

  • @ABeautifulHorizonTV
    @ABeautifulHorizonTV 7 лет назад +3

    Ahhh! I would love to be a zumba instructor. Now's not the time, but maybe some day!! 😄

    • @lpswater1748
      @lpswater1748 7 лет назад +1

      A Beautiful Horizon that's my goal as well

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад +1

      A Beautiful Horizon oh my goodness you HAVE to!!

  • @iris83ma
    @iris83ma 6 лет назад +2

    This video is such a blessing. For some reason I've been really struggling with this lately. I keep telling myself I should be thankful for being blessed with two wonderful young girls but sometimes things get overwhelming. I feel like I have to be constantly reminded to give it to Christ. Your advice here is so spot on as it always is. :) Thank you so much. Your videos are always so helpful and much appreciated. ♡Melissa

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      Aw I’m sorry you’ve been struggling lately Melissa.❤️it’s okay to have those days. And I’m so glad my videos can encourage you.😊 I pray that God would bring comfort and hope to your heart and a new sense of purpose. I pray his perfect peace and abundant joy over you. ❤️❤️ you’re an amazing mom, hang in there! Love you friend, Kaylyn

    • @iris83ma
      @iris83ma 6 лет назад

      LovedHappy Thank you so much for your prayers and encouragement! My prayers and thoughts are with you as well as you go through the plans God has for you my friend. Many blessings! Love Melissa.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      iris83ma thank you so much!

  • @sweetdreams001tea5
    @sweetdreams001tea5 4 года назад

    You hit the nail on feeling the loss or nostalgia for life before baby. I’m 26 and expecting my second baby in April and it’s still one of my struggle to let go of what was and start focusing on the future. I’m still working on myself, thanks for this video.

  • @MommaFromScratch
    @MommaFromScratch 6 лет назад

    definitely both! I struggle with this so much but have found having this as a hobby/ job is really helped me have something for me only. in a good way! Great video Kaylyn.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      Same here! RUclips is one thing that has helped me tremendously in feeling more balanced :) thank you and blessings to you friend!💕

  • @denisejohnson1670
    @denisejohnson1670 3 месяца назад

    This so resonated with me. Thank you for sharing!

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  3 месяца назад

      Glad it was helpful! :)

  • @Jolly.Joy_Rose
    @Jolly.Joy_Rose 6 лет назад

    Having a rough time lately in this journey of motherhood and needed some good word with truthfulness mixed in

  • @tracksuitrob5348
    @tracksuitrob5348 2 года назад

    Its really depressing to think about all my favorite hobbies that i can no longer do, friends i no longer really have time to see, and my dream career that feels so out of reach that i may have no choice but to give up on it... i love my son but i miss feeling like a person and enjoying life

  • @CaileyElise
    @CaileyElise 7 лет назад

    I am sharing this on my Facebook!!❤️ you spoke to my heart!

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Aw I’m glad this spoke to you Cailey 💕and thank you!

  • @CalledtoCultivate
    @CalledtoCultivate 7 лет назад

    This is so timely! Thanks Kaylyn. I've been struggling at the end of this pregnancy in having the right heart attitude and mindset daily. It can feel overwhelming and monotonous with the hats we wear. Thanks for the encouragement friend! : )

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      you're such an amazing mom and woman Deanna.💕

  • @learaehi
    @learaehi 7 лет назад

    Thank you!! I am going through this right now. I am truly grateful for this video.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Aw thanks Lea. Praying grace over you in this time!💕💕

  • @jaecamillerose
    @jaecamillerose 7 лет назад

    I cannot say how much I love this! My biggest struggle isn't that I don't enjoy motherhood, because I love it, but that whole identity thing, am I missing out on life, did I miss out on my twenties struggle. So I love the angle you took with this.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад +1

      Aw thanks Anna! This message spoke to me hence why I wanted to share! I can relate as well. It's so easy to get lost in our mind about it all, especially when we're overwhelmed/tired/aren't getting our needs meet hence why I think those simple things matter so much! How many kids do you have/how old?💕💕

    • @jaecamillerose
      @jaecamillerose 6 лет назад

      I have a 7, 6, 4, and 2 year old :)

  • @emilyelizabeth6499
    @emilyelizabeth6499 6 лет назад

    This was really encouraging to me right now in this season of motherhood, thank you for this message

  • @AngelicBeauty2327
    @AngelicBeauty2327 7 лет назад

    Loveee this!!! I completely agree with you! I'm planning on starting my fitness journey once again. I had some complications due to injury, but that is definitely something that always made me feel better if I had a stressful day or simply I wasn't feeling good. I loveee my kiddos because of them I want to push forward everyday. Thank you for the tips! Loveee ya!! God bless!! Xoxo 😘❤️❤️❤️❤️✨👍

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Same!! I can’t wait to start really working out again-it feels so good and is so empowering! And thank *you* for watching! I’m glad you enjoyed it. Merry Christmas!!!😊❤️❤️❤️

  • @RaisingBrandt
    @RaisingBrandt 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this! My life is certainly in a season of change right now. I think I struggled most with being lost in motherhood because I think "motherhood" was my current season. It felt odd to me to not have a career or a goal or a hobby. But now that I will be going back to work in January, I realize that all I was meant to do during that time was to focus on Brandt. I'm going to miss it, but I'm looking forward to stepping outside of that role. Aaaaand I feel like I was a little late in the game on the basic-needs-for-myself part. Hah! It's been over 2.5 years and I think I'm JUST NOW starting to do that. Lol. That probably didn't help. Anyways, thank you again. And I think I am going to focus on the part that you mentioned at the end about not feeling the pressure to HAVE to stay on a certain path. I am going back into a career that I thought I hated, but I am doing so with a different company that I think is a good company. So I am hopeful that things will be different. And if they aren't, then I don't have to stay. I am going to give myself that freedom. Hope you have a wonderful holiday season!

    • @sephardishalom2693
      @sephardishalom2693 7 лет назад

      Raising Brandt thank you for your honesty. Yes my son is 2 and now I'm trying to get back to the basics. Eating, sleeping and and enjoy a cup of coffee and breathe. God bless you. Happy holidays.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Raising Brandt aw thanks for sharing! Hey some people never get to those basics of self care so you’re years ahead :) that’s exciting! I’ll be praying grace and ease over your transition!! It’s going to be good!! Love you friend!!

  • @Lillyparkernewsom
    @Lillyparkernewsom 7 лет назад +1

    I thought this was really great! I don't have kids yet but I have friends who are dealing with similar struggles right now. All of the points you made are very valid and well thought out in my opinion. Especially this idea that a career is what our worth is measured by. Thank you for sharing! I'm sure this will help women who are able to watch

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад +1

      Thank you so much for the sweet comment Lilly! Yes so many of us struggle finding our identity in what we do!

    • @Lillyparkernewsom
      @Lillyparkernewsom 7 лет назад

      LovedHappy thank you! Merry Christmas

  • @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL
    @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL 2 года назад

    Thank you❤

  • @NikkiSchumacherOfficial
    @NikkiSchumacherOfficial 7 лет назад

    Amazing intro. You spoke my feelings exactly. Your advice reminded me of the book The One Thing. In it he talks about the order of things- spiritual, physical, personal, relational, job, business, finance. It's nearly impossible to take care of the bottom part of the list if the top isn't cared for. Ie it's hard to go for being a Zumba instructor or when you are not quite able to shower on a regular basis. Getting those healthy habits in place has got to be one of the first dominoes. As always, thank you for the encouragement. Praying for y'all!

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад +1

      thank you for sharing! Such good advice!! It's so so true! and it's also so easy to overlook those things!

  • @christinakaya2356
    @christinakaya2356 6 лет назад

    Thank you for this video! Exactly what I needed to hear. 💜

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      Oh good! That makes me so happy :) you're doing a great job! 💕💕💕

  • @SimpleWifeSimpleLife
    @SimpleWifeSimpleLife 6 лет назад

    *ahhh...yes...finding myself. Good tips!*

  • @TheBabcocks
    @TheBabcocks 6 лет назад

    Thanks for this encouragement, Kaylyn!

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      Thank *you* sweet friend💖

  • @CrisGarcia6
    @CrisGarcia6 7 лет назад +1

    Your details are really good

  • @jaimiekight
    @jaimiekight 7 лет назад +1

    So good Kaylyn! Xoxo

  • @jordencossman7414
    @jordencossman7414 4 года назад

    I just came across this video...
    Thank you so much.

  • @stefaniemedina14
    @stefaniemedina14 6 лет назад

    New subscriber. Love your videos, very encouraging. And it is nice that you are a believer who also has Christmas trees and doesn't think Starbucks is Satanic. Some Christians on youtube act like they are in a cult.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      Stefanie Medina aw hi and welcome Stefanie! So glad to have you here!

  • @BibleBujo
    @BibleBujo 7 лет назад

    You have such a beautiful channel xx

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад +1

      Aw thank you! Appreciate your sweet comment!❤️❤️

  • @MommaSchmoozeReviews
    @MommaSchmoozeReviews 7 лет назад

    very encouraging message tfs!

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Thank you! Glad you enjoyed!💕💕

  • @tashahollman1427
    @tashahollman1427 7 лет назад

    So true.. loved this video! X

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Oh good! Thanks Tasha!💕💕💕

  • @Redeemed-10
    @Redeemed-10 7 лет назад +1

    Hi Kaylyn. Your lipstick and top are so beautiful. Would you share what they are? Would you ever consider doing a video on affordable fashion and how to put together outfits?

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  7 лет назад

      Hi Kristin! Thank you! The top is my mother in laws actually 😂it’s from old navy! We’ve been staying with them because we had to evacuate due to a fire and I don’t have many clothes! I’m not sure about the lipstick-I’ll have to check.❤️ that sounds like a fun video!

  • @ItsAshaMac
    @ItsAshaMac 6 лет назад

    How do you edit your videos? What software do you use?

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      I use iMovie! Free on a Mac

  • @sephardishalom2693
    @sephardishalom2693 7 лет назад

    Too cute the Starbucks ornaments on tree.

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад +1

      Right?! It is my sister in law’s little pink tree.😊🎄

  • @Mama.annalise
    @Mama.annalise 7 лет назад

    I just found out I'm pregnant with my3rd I have a 2.5 year old boy and 14 month old boy...I've been really considering starting RUclips for the community. I stay home with the boys...any advice about starting? What do you use to record and edit?

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      Oooh congrats!!! It is so fun, you totally should.I honestly don’t know the name of the camera I use. I know lots of people record on their iPhone though! I use iMovie to edit which comes free on a MacBook and their is also windows movie maker which comes free on a PC. 😊 are you on Facebook? There are some great youtube support groups! I like RUclips Mommy Meetup and RUclips family friendly Vloggers. Just search for the groups on Facebook and ask to join. You’ll learn a lot!

  • @hamdan8516
    @hamdan8516 7 лет назад

    Nice video 😘👍

  • @lavonreshel440
    @lavonreshel440 6 лет назад

    nice talk :)

  • @sephardishalom2693
    @sephardishalom2693 7 лет назад

    Please keep Making Videos Like this Plz

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      Will do! Thanks for the encouragement! I appreciate knowing what you want to see :)

  • @ItsAshaMac
    @ItsAshaMac 6 лет назад

    .....and how do you make your thumbnails? I like them 😏

    • @LovedHappy
      @LovedHappy  6 лет назад

      I use pixelmator :) it’s kind of like a cheap photoshop. I know picmonkey and Canva are popular too.

  • @girlsalwaystalk
    @girlsalwaystalk 6 лет назад

    Great channel..I hop over from I am a creator showing you some love and support...tfs."BIG KISSES"