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  • @MimiMonet
    @MimiMonet Год назад +77

    The fact that your relationship is so secure that you didn’t even question the purse speaks volumes. I love that for you because a lot of women never experience that level of trust and security in a relationship or marriage.

    • @Exoticbarbie.
      @Exoticbarbie. Год назад +6

      Reminds me of my mom. If my mom found a strange purse she would think its one of her kids and if we told her its not ours. My mom would think prob a church sister left it behind

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +5

      🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ShelbyGunby
    @ShelbyGunby Год назад +127

    The whole “purse girl” situation really tickled me! I was so invested in that story and I’m so happy it ended well 😂

    • @sac967
      @sac967 Год назад +17

      Lol sameee! The phone call was so entertaining 😂😂

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +26

      😂😂 right ppl were like turn it in to the police im like nah then ima have no closure I gotta figure it out myself 😂

    • @jovonniehines8647
      @jovonniehines8647 Год назад +6

      @@OnlyOneJess Now Jess, why you say her purse is fake 😂😂😂💀

  • @kklutz08
    @kklutz08 Год назад +19

    When I found out I was pregnant I prayed for the person that was delivering not just the characteristics that I wanted but prayed over their head and their well-being. I knew I wanted a midwife because I personally felt they would listen to me and wanted the most natural experience in a hospital setting. I prayed for the type of birth experience I wanted and prayed over everyone that I would encounter from the receptionist to janitor. I had the best birth experience I could (and did) imagine. When your words weld power you can have the experience you want. Now I will say…pray for the safe delivery yes…and do not forget to pray over the stay after labor 🫠

    • @truetwinflameandspirituala8211
      @truetwinflameandspirituala8211 Год назад +1

      I had the WORSE experience dealing with a midwife. She told me not to go to the ER when I was miscarrying. I went anyway when the pain became unbearable and the ER staff told me I could have died. She was a white midwife and I later received notification that someone from that practice stole some records or something and they closed down or something. I read their email unbothered bc after that bad experience, I had found a MUCH BETTER DOCTOR by then. We all just have to follow our instincts.
      I'm glad yours worked out for you though.😌🙏🏾❤️

  • @Blackscubaqueen101
    @Blackscubaqueen101 Год назад +117

    Follow your instincts when it come to doctors. If you get a bad vibe, find another one. You're hilarious. Do you. Don't worry about what others think. I enjoy our vlogs

  • @Samantha.Elizabeth
    @Samantha.Elizabeth Год назад +69

    Listen, as a pre-health student (pre-physician's Assistant) who is a senior in college, I have taken so many courses that have discussed the impact of care when you have a healthcare professional that is not of the same ethnic or racial background as you. I can go into so much detail with so many scientific research papers (I've written on this topic multiple times throughout my college experience) and let me just say, if you are a black woman ESPECIALLY, please please please, find someone who respects you. Now I also know many factors impact someone's ability to get to care such as transportation, finances, responsibilities, etc., but it can save your life and your child. I have never had a black doctor, but I have always had a woman of color at some point, and it is still not the same. Is it safer? YES, but having a care provider that can recognize symptoms and connect with you in a way that those of contrasting backgrounds cannot alter the course of your treatment. As a black woman, it is these very experiences that push me even MORE, to be a healthcare provider so that my black brothers and sisters are spoken for and taken care of without the fear of medical malpractice or disrespect.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +11

      Thank you ❤️❤️ respect is the key.

    • @andreadaniels8484
      @andreadaniels8484 Год назад +5

      The MOST HIGH is moving something in us...as a COLLECTIVE. Pay close attn, Beloved. You are being called to due this from your SPIRIT. We are awakening to ALOT around us that we've denied and been gaslit about for FAR TOO LONG. SOOOO Proud of YOU for listening to GOD speaking to you. May you be successful in HIS eyes in your endeavors to PROTECT HIS PEOPLE.

    • @amira_shmira
      @amira_shmira Год назад

      Hey, do you have a link for your research, if you wrote about it?

    • @Tye710
      @Tye710 Год назад

      ​@@amira_shmira what a question. She said she wrote about it didn't she? Why the "if" and why wouldn't she have a link and WHY do you think she'll just openly share that to you? You asked like it's clothes you asked you also doubt her. Tighten up.

    • @amira_shmira
      @amira_shmira Год назад

      ​@@Tye710 That doesn't mean their work is accessible. They could've just written it for school and not published it. Girl stfu with your angry ass and stop trying to take the negativity in your life and project it onto others. They can answer if they want to share it or not. You need to loosen up. People share public work all of the time. You're doing too damn much over me trying to read their research.

  • @MissEsther_xoxo
    @MissEsther_xoxo Год назад +15

    I am usually a silent viewer but man you got me soooo dead down to the purse girl, the tennis dress but don’t really play fr and that LITTY🙌🏾🙌🏾 worship session , like that’s so me but you are absolutely hilarious and thank you for being yourself , even on social media , we appreciate it!🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️ and you also live in my hometown 🌴🌴 #gang

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +5

      Ayyyy hayyyy lol thank you so much!! 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @chidinmaadaeze8189
    @chidinmaadaeze8189 Год назад +26

    It's Jonathan's joy at the organized closet FOR ME!! Girl! So yeah, he may not do as much house work as you'd like or pick up after himself as much as you'd like, but I think his joy and gratitude, overcompensated. He literally had stars in his eyes. Those are the moments, girl!!

  • @tristagregory51
    @tristagregory51 Год назад +168

    Hey Jess. Girl, I've learned to listen to NO ONE about my husband and I marriage. Our marriage is ours, and their marriage is their's... we've been married for 19 years now, so... we're good, lol.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +82

      FACTSSSS, like we not the same over here y’all keep that negativity away from us lol

    • @angelawhite3514
      @angelawhite3514 Год назад +31

      23+ years here sis. It's as happy as you make it.

    • @DrineThePoet
      @DrineThePoet Год назад +1

      ​@@OnlyOneJess agreed

    • @beaubeauknows3620
      @beaubeauknows3620 Год назад +3

      Yes and I never discuss my marriage w/ anyone! If I make a mistake or something I know it is 100% me😂I have no one to blame as an influence.

    • @ladyt3182
      @ladyt3182 Год назад +1

      @@angelawhite3514 true! 33 years over here, especially once your children gets older!

  • @junieklcharite5861
    @junieklcharite5861 Год назад +135

    Me: I need a good movie to watch
    Jess: hour long vlog
    Me: yesss

  • @NicoleIvory
    @NicoleIvory Год назад +26

    Omg idk why but I LOVEEEEE how this purse situation ended!!! And I love that WE look out for each other like this! Omg!

  • @jasminejazziej8787
    @jasminejazziej8787 Год назад +93

    Sis I am literally watching this whole hour and a half. This was the perfect ending to my day Thank you❤❤ Also I used to work at the hospital and I would highly suggest doing your research there are lots of doctors who can't stand their job or people and it's really sad. I did a stress test on a woman who was literally having a heart attack and I heard a doctor tell her she was fine She was a black woman. And when I questioned him about it he had the nerve to tell me she doesn't even have insurance and I'm not getting paid for this smh 😢...If I had the opportunity to have a black woman doctor I would definitely take it it is rare in the area that I reside.

    • @sac967
      @sac967 Год назад +9

      😮How unprofessional of that doctor!

    • @jasminejazziej8787
      @jasminejazziej8787 Год назад +11

      @@sac967 It really is it happens way more than people think unfortunately 😞

    • @Deenie1215
      @Deenie1215 Год назад +4

      @Jasmine Jazzi J did that patient get the necessary help?

    • @jasminejazziej8787
      @jasminejazziej8787 Год назад +12

      @@Deenie1215 Yes she did I made sure to tell her to go get a second opinion. Because this doctor did not care about her well-being

    • @Deenie1215
      @Deenie1215 Год назад +8

      @Jasmine Jazzie J Thank God for you🙏🏾

  • @spreadingjoy6789
    @spreadingjoy6789 Год назад +70

    Hey Jess! Again thank you for letting us into your lives. I just want to say I understand your concern about finding the right OB/GYN especially since the black maternal mortality rates these past few years in the US has really increased. So it’s wise to take your time and do your research to find the best doctor for you.All the best.❤

  • @TK28104
    @TK28104 Год назад +40

    This vlog was so much fun! Red boots dance 😂😂😂😂😂 Go Jess 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +9

      😂😂😂 feeling myself a lil

    • @md_chris
      @md_chris Год назад +7

      Yes! and the praise and worship cut, has me sing along. And remember how good God is!

  • @cassiebrunson1590
    @cassiebrunson1590 Год назад +3

    Jess you are so right to want a black doctor, my whole delivery staff was black and the vibes, and atmosphere of my delivery/ delivery room was the most magical, special and safe place. Top tier!!! And you are right, those other doctors will and have looked over us, seen it too many times❤

  • @clairelashaun4886
    @clairelashaun4886 Год назад +4

    "Where you goin?! Grandma?!" "You think I'm not bout to make this light? You got me twisted"...Jess...🤣😅😂🤣 I loved the ENTIRE video but your transparency and silly side?!?! LOVE IT!!! 😅😂🤣💜💜🙌🏽🙌🏽😁😁

  • @PatriceC12
    @PatriceC12 Год назад +32

    Come through with them runs Jess!!!! Love impromptu worship 🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾that’s so random about the girls purse lol! People walk into your life for a reason tho too

  • @danielledeegbe
    @danielledeegbe Год назад +10

    The convo between you and purse girl is the most entertaining thing😂😂😂

  • @deniceworks6328
    @deniceworks6328 Год назад +70

    Girl, I went to a recommended OBGYN that everybody swears by. When I checked in, I kept seeing women go in and out (some came in after me) and I am still sitting there waiting for my name to be call. I could hear the Nurses behind the glass just chatting away but never came out to update on when I will be called back. It was getting later so they started turning off the music and lights in the waiting room and that when they noticed me. They started making up all kinds of excuses, i.e., the doctor was called to the hospital, or he was running late. They started rescheduling my appointment for another date, but I kindly asked for the medical records form to transfer my records (they could not look me in the face, just kept looking at the computer. The doctor did call to apologized, but I still went with someone else. Sometimes it's the staff that can be off putting.

    • @lisag.4054
      @lisag.4054 Год назад +12

      I feel this! I have a black female OBGYN and she’s amazing. But her husband is the office manager and he’s so terrible. Rude, condescending, tries to overcharge you, doesn’t apologize after he makes mistakes on your account. Her google rating has gone down due to bad reviews about him. It’s almost like he’s trying to sabotage her practice. I’ve been looking for a new doctor too.

    • @theladyheritage
      @theladyheritage Год назад +9

      @@lisag.4054 she should fire him and get someone she can be in charge of… This is business and sometimes with family it doesn’t go well.
      I really just feel for her, being good and getting bad reviews…

    • @lisag.4054
      @lisag.4054 Год назад +7

      @@theladyheritage yeah me too. It hurts me to have to find a new doctor because she’s really that good. But he is equally as bad. My intuition always tells me he seems to be a little jealous of his wife and I hate that for her. I pray she ends up hiring someone else because we really need doctors like her.

  • @carmenshirley4886
    @carmenshirley4886 Год назад +5

    Organize your closet seasonally! Put winter clothes in storage and keep spring and summer in the closet. In November, swap for the Fall and Winter stuff!

  • @rhondagoodwin5711
    @rhondagoodwin5711 Год назад +6

    Jess your energy is contagious. You had me laughing so many times. Line Dancing in those red boots, praise dancing in the sun glasses and Describing your sweater drobe lollllll😅😅. You got that vibe girl.

  • @HoneyNGinger
    @HoneyNGinger Год назад +8

    Jess. Please don’t (stop) apologize for being YOURSELF! I didn’t think u were chaotic or bratty in ur last Vlog, but even if you were, it’s ok ! We watch these videos to see the real you ! (Well, as real as you can get without getting too personal). We don’t want a watered down version of you. If you feel bratty, be bratty ! Lol
    We love the good, the bad, and the ugly moments.
    Keep doing you !!
    💛💛💛💛

  • @velvet59002
    @velvet59002 Год назад +9

    Hi Jess! A suggestion for your wedding cards, get a scrapbook and put them in there. You can cut them up and keep the names to the cards together or keep them whole. I did that and I love going back and looking at them. I also put what came with the card, gift, money, etc. You'll love it and it gives them a special place, instead of being in a bag on the floor in your closet! 😉😀

  • @tileahwilliams426
    @tileahwilliams426 Год назад +15

    Watching you and Johnathan brings me so much joy. The wait was truly worth it❤️

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +3

      🥹🥹🥹 thank you so much! ❤️

  • @Iheartpie1234
    @Iheartpie1234 Год назад +5

    I love how down to earth you are Jess. You are so relatable! ❤

  • @brandythibodeaux3376
    @brandythibodeaux3376 Год назад +2

    I hope you know that you are not chaos, you are FUNNY! Much needed laugh of the day. Thanks for sharing! 💛

  • @deborahsparks2199
    @deborahsparks2199 Год назад +44

    My 3 kids were delivered by 3 different white male doctors and luckily for me each were caring and amazing when my babies were born. I was so blessed. Still loving your video of your brothers as your flower-men, they worked it!

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +8

      Ah I love to hear it!! I’m glad that went amazing for you 🥰🥰🤍🤍

  • @wenemnemew1580
    @wenemnemew1580 Год назад +14

    Not me sittin' down for dinner and tuning in to Theres Only One Jess series for this week's episode. 😂 I love watching your videos Jess!!!
    Girl you had me crackin' up at you trying on those clothes and those RED BOOTS!!!😂😂😂😂
    You're too funny!!!
    You're too cute!!!
    May The Most High GOD continue to bless your marriage.❤

    • @sac967
      @sac967 Год назад +3

      The best series ever!💯

  • @a_wilson5587
    @a_wilson5587 Год назад +5

    Girl your energy is EVERYTHING 😆🫶🏾

  • @shortydee25
    @shortydee25 Год назад +11

    I’ve been a subscriber for a while and I watch all of your videos but I have to say I throughly enjoyed this video. Continue being your genuine self Jess!!!❤

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +3

      Thank you so much!! 🥰🥰🤍🤍

  • @shelbisueno9647
    @shelbisueno9647 Год назад +4

    “I may not own a folder but I am on time” was giving “he may not come when you want him to but he’s always right on time” for me 😂❤

  • @alyssapatterson9379
    @alyssapatterson9379 Год назад +11

    This purse story is insane!😂😂😂😂I love it

  • @lockylady6864
    @lockylady6864 Год назад +11

    Glad you are a very nice person and wanted to immediately find out how to return the purse. I love seeing that the world still has good people. I love ya Jess ❤❤

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +4

      Aw thank you! Love you!! 🤍🤍

  • @JustJoia
    @JustJoia Год назад +5

    26:31 As a healthcare professional, I had something happen with my form of BC and it was the Black doctor who took a few steps and asked a few other questions and I literally was so grateful. Also, the whole situation you’re stating you can certainly let the practice manager know your experience, even as a bystander observing what happened with that other patient.

  • @toyina6140
    @toyina6140 Год назад +24

    Don’t be afraid to just ask for the ‘black doctor’! I do it often 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @banthony620
    @banthony620 Год назад +4

    Make sure you start praying for your baby, your pregnancy experience, your body and everyone that’ll be taking care of you. That’s the best insurance.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +1

      Yesssss sis I am already in prayer! I know God will take care of me no matter which doctor I end up with as well as give me discernment to know if I need to get the heck out of there and find another one lol.

  • @LivingLikeLolla
    @LivingLikeLolla Год назад +3

    Jess I’ve been watching you for years you literally have my heart😭😭 speaking on the GYNO office shows me that lol!!!! Love your life girllll❤❤❤

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +1

      😭😭😭 love you!! ❤️❤️

  • @janetlevite3882
    @janetlevite3882 Год назад +22

    You and that PURSE LADY are cosmically connected. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +25

      High key I was hoping we would form a friendship from this but we kinda just exchanged the purse and went out separate ways lol she was nice in person as well though but it ended there 😂

    • @HeiDiLuv
      @HeiDiLuv Год назад

      Girl no! It was just a "purse", Jess doesn't need that extra "baggage" LOL❣❣

  • @Niamba101
    @Niamba101 Год назад +3

    I’m so happy that you found the purse girl and everything worked out…..thank you for the worship moment loved it…..you have a beautiful voice Jess 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @marjoriecoleman8280
    @marjoriecoleman8280 Год назад +2

    Hey Jess, you had me soo invested in this “purse girl.” Your whole story and conversation with her was hilarious! 😂😂😂 I’m glad everything worked out! I have a black gynecologist and I love her, she always listens to me and I don’t feel rushed in her office. I would say do your research on the OB/GYN, and always trust your gut. If it doesn’t feel right then don’t force it. Enjoyed this vlog! ❤🥰

  • @kwazzik5453
    @kwazzik5453 Год назад +5

    Jess your vlogggsss are everything! As always a 10/10 would recommend to any friend!
    I was living for thr purse girl sus lol
    The length of this vlog was very much appreciated.
    You're a blessing❤ Thank you for continuing to spread happiness and laughter through sharing your life. Love you giiirlll

  • @cashmerahuddleston1902
    @cashmerahuddleston1902 Год назад +5

    Don’t feel bad Jess I’m 33 going on 34 and still don’t have my stuff together 😂😂😂😂😂 everyday is a day for us to improve. We’ll get there eventually 😊

  • @keneeshawatts8108
    @keneeshawatts8108 Год назад +47

    I live in south florida and I have a black gyno. She's great and the entire office staff is very friendly and professional.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +21

      👀 ima need you to DM me that info just I case this one don’t work out cuz they already on strike 2 with me 😂

    • @sac967
      @sac967 Год назад +4

      ​@@OnlyOneJess 😂😂

    • @ccolin0059
      @ccolin0059 Год назад +1

      Can you please send me the information for your gyno too? 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @sweettee051988
      @sweettee051988 Год назад +2

      Chile I had a black obgyn where I live and she's trash. I'm tired to going to Drs for women and they act like they don't care and rush your appointment! I need somebody i can trust that actually cares and I don't care if I have to travel to another state for them!

    • @Chanjae
      @Chanjae Год назад +1

      I also live in south Florida and I'm Jamaican....I searched high and low for female, black AND Jamaican...coz the Lord knows, its rough out here

  • @camib645
    @camib645 Год назад +15

    This is good vlogging - you do a great job of keeping your audience.. attention....

  • @DarleneMW
    @DarleneMW Год назад +4

    Jess, I was so excited when you found the purse owner! 🎉🎉❤. Plus this was THE BEST VLOG!

  • @t-solol-l8709
    @t-solol-l8709 Год назад +3

    Girl I literally laugh so hard. I am here for these vlogs. Absolutely 10 across the board.

  • @io_9876
    @io_9876 Год назад +3

    Not gonna lie i was a little sad you and purse girl didn't become friends after that conversation 😂
    Also I love how you and Johnathan do so many fun activities together ❤ made me want to try pickle ball too and best believe my outfit will be from SheIn lol
    Thanks for taking us along on the vlog!

  • @candiblue9280
    @candiblue9280 Год назад +2

    It’s so cool that u guys go on walks together!! I remember the time when my husband use to walk with me when I was pregnant I use to love that❤❤❤

  • @TarynRenee
    @TarynRenee Год назад +4

    Jessica 😂 this purse story was crazy and hilarious. I love black people!!!! We so understanding lmao. I’m so happy you found her. And omg even more funny was your rationale about your spirit of fear. I’ve never diagnosed myself with that 😂 but omggg that is so me!! Whyyyy are we like this?! 🥹🥴 love you always. And can’t NOBODY judge you for being “chaotic”…. We all have those moments too girl.

  • @jqgatlas4281
    @jqgatlas4281 Год назад +2

    Jess, you are one of my favs. I find you to be hilarious even when you're not trying to be. Such a natural..........and I mean both a natural beauty and naturally funny. Luv u sis.❤

  • @pokahershey14
    @pokahershey14 Год назад +1

    You are honestly the first person i haven’t skipped while they were talking lol. Idk you just seem so relatable and realistic. I am a newly wed as well.( a little of a year). And you seem so regular, in the best way i promise lol. That might not sound right but its a compliment. And then i just cut my hair. I just feel like i relate to you❤️ so definitely keep it up because im sure im not the only one who feels this way.

  • @Mrs.CryssieJ
    @Mrs.CryssieJ Год назад +1

    Hey Jess I love your maturity for not assuming your Johnathan is cheating on you immediately while noticing the purse was not yours . I'm glad you found her so she get her purse back ❤😊😊 we love you Jess you are awesome

  • @nellinblue33
    @nellinblue33 Год назад +2

    Unfortunately, I experienced this with a black female OBGYN. I was just like you and purposely chose someone who looked like me. I started having some concerns, and she didn't take them seriously . I took her word for it that everything was ok. Didn't see any changes and dealt with her not listening to me for over 2 years. I knew something was wrong, and she didn't take me seriously. I stuck it out because I didn't want to keep explaining how I was feeling to a new dr. She finally did exploratory surgery to prove me wrong. Unfortunately for me, I was right. She became super interested in my case and wanted to help, but the time wasted had caused the issue to worsen. I took her referrals for specialists and never went to her again. I shouldn't have stuck it out because it cost me a lot.

  • @joib8447
    @joib8447 Год назад +3

    It really would be great if you and purse girl became friends. Its great to see people still have good hearts.❤

  • @nikkiholloway7212
    @nikkiholloway7212 Год назад +2

    I just enjoy your vlogs so much. You're just so hilarious to me. Keep doing what you do.

  • @OrganicKeesh
    @OrganicKeesh Год назад +4

    Looooooved the long content!!! I was so giddy when I saw an hour and a half! And it come just at the right time, I was sitting to eat a meal!! Lol that purse girl situation had me dead!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 omg how bizarre!! I’m so glad you were able to find her!! ❤❤

  • @kiyokochanable
    @kiyokochanable Год назад +6

    .Cardio is the key girlie.. My tummy is resisting but walking everydays it's making changes and of course the food i eat and other exercises BUT the walking is what's giving the extra push, walking everyday.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад

      I just started walking again yesterday! Gonna try and get my 10k steps in! We’ll see how this goes ❤️

  • @shevonneworley9631
    @shevonneworley9631 Год назад +6

    I had a white male OBGYN for years. He delivered me and was my Mom's Doctor as well. I loved him. I have a black female obgyn now and she's cool. Down to earth, you can talk straight to her and keep it 💯

  • @---456
    @---456 Год назад +3

    That dance session with the red boots had me hollering!! 😭😂😭 You are so crazy lol

  • @faithcyrus6939
    @faithcyrus6939 Год назад +5

    Love this 1 1/2hr vlog for me. Exactly what I needed to wind down tonight

  • @myblackice3
    @myblackice3 Год назад +3

    Gurlll! You're really hilarious. But for real, I be coming up with some crazy ideas of what could've happened 😂😅 too. You're not alone, sis. I Love how transparent and real you are. I definitely look forward to your videos.

  • @tabithathewholistic
    @tabithathewholistic Год назад +2

    So first off that purse situation was WILD🤯🤯🤯
    Second of all, we love you regardless of any perceived flaws, attitudes, etc! But I respect you for catching those moments that might be out of the Spirit and in flesh. THAT is the realness I love about you sis!!🎉🙌🏽🤎Also YES to the whole adulting rant. The other day I had to ask my parents about what a fiduciary is because I saw it on my 401K paperwork from my job, and even they didn't know what it was😂😂Definitely not something taught in schools......

  • @Karlisa
    @Karlisa Год назад +2

    JESS YOU BETTA RIFF AND RUN FOR JESUS👏🏽👏🏽😍 great vlog as always❤️

  • @brwnieelocs4365
    @brwnieelocs4365 Год назад

    Jessss, I love your vibe. and your videos always make me smile. Your energy is truly infectious. ❤I love McKenna. Her vlogs and aesthetic always captivates me. I need to try that Karma water. Also, finding that young lady purse was a blessing. To be found by good people like you and Johnathan is good. Who knows what someone else would have done with that girls' information.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад

      Ah thank you sissssss 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Quill1127
    @Quill1127 Год назад

    Lol , your little hair dance gets me everytime.
    I was married before &’ my married friends told me you have your good &’ rough years . I just dont like how some people make it seem like you cant overcome or get through those tough times I believe thats why people always so quick to talk about the downfall years because most times couples become content with whatever comes out of those times rather than coming out stronger than when it started. So I get why married people say it but its how you address it, they def make people not want to get married .
    Another reason why divorce rates are so high. Your either going to work through it or just give up all together especially if you feel the marriage isnt going to get better.
    Dont let anyone kill your shine sis 🙏🏾🙏🏾 if you do go through it , FIGHT for your marriage both of you , because only yall can overcome those times together. Keep your business to yourself &’ pray , pray , pray. There will always be better days.. Trust the process 🙏🏾❤️

  • @PearlVisionEntertainment
    @PearlVisionEntertainment Год назад +2

    You ain’t ask but this VLOG was everything❤❤❤❤ -I know you hard on yourself and think you don’t do much but girl I thoroughly love your videos never boring always hilarious,inspirational-you inspired me to clean out my clothes today I’ve been saying it for 2 months-THANKS SIS❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ValentinesLifeinRealLyfe
    @ValentinesLifeinRealLyfe Год назад

    26:51
    Definitely is a a touchy subject, however, I had an Indian female doctor when I discovered I was pregnant. I changed to a black holistic OB basically because her and her staff couldn’t draw my blood after the first 8 weeks. However I still had my baby at home cause it made me feel the safest. When I told my doctor of my preferences she told me black women die in the hospital. A black woman told me so it solidified my decision. Found a doula team (Black) and a midwife (white) who stayed with me the entire 63 hours 😖 but I loved my experience. If I do it again will do it the same way if possible 🤷🏾‍♀️
    Love how you are fully exploring all your the options ❤Happy for you and the family

  • @MissMaryMak
    @MissMaryMak Год назад +6

    An hour plus!!! Let me get my popcorn and snacks, we got a movie up in here 💃🏾🙌🏾 thanks Jess

  • @lifeasjayalex
    @lifeasjayalex Год назад

    Nah you & purse girl for sure friends! Aww glad you were able to find her.

  • @Kariberri208
    @Kariberri208 Год назад +4

    This vlog was sooo good Jess! The purse situation was out of a movie!!

  • @kcrinkaful
    @kcrinkaful Год назад +1

    Jess! You. Are. KILLING meeeee😂😂😂😂 Tooo funny! Thanks! My son looks at me like I’m crazy cause I’m laughing so hard like my friend gave me a joke! 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 Год назад

    Holy Spirt is really real, Jess!!!
    You Prayed and you got a response about your key!
    Praise God!!

  • @brown14suga
    @brown14suga Год назад +2

    This purse story was so entertaining lol! There's a guy on tiktok who found a random lady's checkbook in his middle counsel with the same vibes!

  • @fredrenacampbell
    @fredrenacampbell Год назад +7

    I switched from a black female doctor, that I had for years to an Indian female doctor and it was night and day!! I love us, fr and wanted another black doctor but my new doctor is so much more thorough. I feel like no matter how great of a referral, the experience will be different, regardless.

  • @Thechannybby
    @Thechannybby Год назад

    “I thanked him properly” lmsooooo now Jess🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 Год назад

    Yesss, gospel songs are the BEST!!!
    Love me some Fred Hammond!!! The Middle is my JAM as well!!
    Jess I forgot that you could sing!!

  • @TatianaVictoria
    @TatianaVictoria Год назад

    Yesss girl you better have your praise break!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Those runssss yesss!!
    Bigggg facts about doing it yourself 😂 I leave my husband’s mess out and I just look at it like dang he ain’t even bothered by this!! So yes I give his reminders, but I’m like ugh lemme just clean this up cause ima be mad!!

  • @M2a3i
    @M2a3i Год назад +2

    So glad you found the person w/ the purse!

  • @janetfant9534
    @janetfant9534 Год назад +6

    Great vlog!!..I was sooo invested in the ‘purse girl’ mystery. Love it!❤

  • @rockae85
    @rockae85 Год назад +1

    You BETTA with the Detroit Piston Bad Boy throwback T-Shirt❤❤❤❤❤

  • @droosyg252
    @droosyg252 Год назад

    You can fold your sweaters and sweatshirts and put them on those top shelves. That will allow space on your hanger rods, but won’t be something you’ll have to take down often

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 Год назад

    Gurl…… go ahead and be the keeper, especially if he’s working out side of the house.
    That’s a blessing when he noticed the closet, definitely a blessing!!

  • @kenyakhronicles9325
    @kenyakhronicles9325 Год назад +2

    Girl… I’m supposed to be asleep to go to work tonight… but I’m about to watch this 1 1/2 Vlog…😅😂

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад

      Lolll sis no get some sleep I’ll be here when you get back 😭😭 but also thank you lol ❤️❤️

    • @kenyakhronicles9325
      @kenyakhronicles9325 Год назад

      I’m so happy for you and your healthy relationship. Cause the relationships that I’ve been in, my first thought was-who was in the car? But my 2nd thought was -he’s too nice and genuine; he’s not like that. So happy for you😊. #MysterySolved

  • @AdoseofAlana_
    @AdoseofAlana_ Год назад

    Ok Jess with the effortless runs at 101:27 !!!!!! U better sing girl

  • @memeesh914
    @memeesh914 Год назад +1

    "Carry on, I was here first..." Parking lot energy top tier! 😂😂😂
    I love taking my probiotics! Makes me feel like such an adult! Looking forward to the review!

  • @darshae522
    @darshae522 Год назад +2

    I feel like that OB story lowkey triggered me! I chose a black OB in a practice and absolutely loved her! My husband and I got pregnant and scheduled our first appointment. We ended up seeing a different doctor because they want you to see all of the doctors in the office because you don't know who would be on call when you go into labor. At our first appointment, we found out that I had a missed miscarriage. We had the worst experience with the doctor at that appointment and the follow-up. Fast forward a few months, we get pregnant again. I found another black OB. She was nice, but also dismissive about my anxiety around being pregnant again after a loss. Then I had a negative experience with ine of the nurses and was like, nope. I went with a midwife practice and planned on having a home birth (ended up with a hospital birth due to complications). Everything went AMAZINGLY well and I had an all white medical team. I am currently pregnant again and chose to go with a new practice because of my last delivery experience. The practice is all women and the doctors so far have been white or Hispanic, but the level of care is EXCEPTIONAL! One of friends referred them to me after she had an ectopic pregnancy and I couldn't be happier with them. The good news is that you can typically fire a doctor's office and get a new provider up to about 27 weeks (I believe).

  • @Millah323
    @Millah323 Год назад +8

    💚💙❤I can't wait until you guys have a little chocolate drop... I already know the baby will be sooo cute🥰

  • @herstyleztv
    @herstyleztv Год назад

    The purse girl scenario stories had me hollering. The things you came up with. Glad you found her.

  • @utomaeffiong4216
    @utomaeffiong4216 Год назад +1

    These intros are amazing!! Jess, I truly enjoy your videos especially your vlogs. Have a blessed week!

  • @Coreyj06
    @Coreyj06 Год назад

    The way the lady in black scrubs snatched the sweater from that chair was all the attitude I needed to see.

  • @cherissethomas6861
    @cherissethomas6861 Год назад +6

    Hey Jess thank you so much for your genuineness. I feel like we’re literally besties 😊
    Really appreciate your marital advice about testing your husband cuz girlllll I be doing the exact same and I be realll mad too and causing all sorts of unnecessary arguments. Yeah really needed to hear that I’m not the only one ❤

  • @lanessiacarrington8283
    @lanessiacarrington8283 Год назад +1

    Girl don't pay them negative people any attention. I've been married 7 years in May and we've been together 15 years! I'm still in alove with my man! I remind him EVERYDAY that he's loved and appreciated. ❤

  • @ajay_2018
    @ajay_2018 Год назад

    Listen Jess, as a black woman, your concerns and comments about wanting a good/black OGYN that cares , literally matches mine. I love love love that you shared that segment in this vlog. I might be bias but I don’t think anything you said was racist at all. Given that the mortality rate of black women that give birth is so high in comparison to white women and other minority races even, your concerns are 10000% valid.
    I’m 30 and my husband and I got married last September, we were also PLANNING to wait a year before getting pregnant but chile… we just found out we’re pregnant lmaooo. But anyway, I literally have the same concerns so thanks for sharing. I feel less crazy knowing that other black women feel the same as I do. Wish me luck on my search for a caring (and preferably) black woman OBYN 😭

  • @Jeanelle_Char
    @Jeanelle_Char Год назад

    You don’t have ANY business being this funny !!!!😂😂

  • @Neec3y
    @Neec3y Год назад +1

    I was so invested in finding out the mystery purse situation 😅 Glad you figured it out and it wasn't anything crazy!

  • @JanellNelle
    @JanellNelle Год назад

    Omgggggg I felt you. Working from home PLUS housework????? WHY DID I SIGN UP FOR THISSS 😫😩😂

  • @StarC2233
    @StarC2233 Год назад +4

    ✨️Jess personality is so dope ✨️

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +2

      🥹🥹🥹 thank you I love you guys! 🤍🤍

  • @MsLiyah2015
    @MsLiyah2015 Год назад

    No but I thought the same of her videos too and now I find myself gravitating towards them more often

  • @jabezh7435
    @jabezh7435 Год назад +6

    Girl that devotional you took the time to read saved you form that doctors office ….

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +4

      Woah… wait I didn’t even think about that perspective!! That really has me shook.

  • @AdoseofAlana_
    @AdoseofAlana_ Год назад

    You doing the worship with the shades has me cracking up tho 😂😂😂😂

  • @yanamartin9440
    @yanamartin9440 Год назад +1

    I personally have been with the same OB since 2017 and I love her. She is so personable and explained everything in the beginning. She’s a black woman (cuz I had the same thoughts) I only switched while she was gone for maternity leave and I had a white lady for a while. Still kind, but ya know. I prefer my black doctors