Thank u wa kiama for enlighting us but some of us women have narcissistic husbands. Lack of consistency confuses women. The lack of affection n abuses of all sorts from physical, emotional, disables even the most loving woman. Any woman can change for a husband who is not abusive.
Hello, I've just come across this and am of a different opinion, listened to Maggie Mose s story, the musician used to do beyond her means to maintain her marriage but the man never appreciated. So what I believe is that if a man decides to stay, no matter how bad the situation is, nothing will make him leave but if he decides to leave, nothing.... completely nothing will make him stay. It's a man's sole decision to stay or leave
I don’t think it’s possible to treat him the same away after he remarry. Personally I would be devastated, I could forgive yes but accepting him the same way it’s a no.
Being on every segment of Metha ya Kagoni is Wisdom Re-loaded! I'm enlightened... Keep up the good content @Monica Kagoni... A shout out to our coach @Wanjiru Kiama...
@@mimiiarrow9803 Yeah..i.wonder too. I agree, it takes two. If either party does not pull their weight, then the marriage fails. Sio kazi ya wanawake tu kutengeneza ndoa.
That’s really a good 👍 one. I like the diversity in your channel. Alafu I would like you to talk about, long distance relationship/ marriage whereby man/ woman leaves the country for greener pastures abroad….. what would you advise such a couple especially mwenye hubaki nyuma waiting for the other to settle abroad ndo amkujie wakaishi pamoja. Reason am saying this is that I got a friend who’s marriage is in jeopardy, cos the partner left behind hapa, lost hope despite the other partners (who’s awaiting to settle abroad) efforts of sending support back home to the family & asking for patience & trust and faithfulness. Apparently the spouse left behind thought the other one moved on , hence, presumably kinda committed infidelity. What, would u advise such spouse? Should the spouse abroad be hopeful to get together or rather come for them even after settling properly huko majuu..or should they star a new life all together?
I don't think if I had the so-called demon of lust my husband would tolerate it and pray for me. And I will take a risk and say most men would bolt. So, while it is commendable to be patient and understanding, it is not prudent in this day and age to stay with a serial cheater. Ni kubaya. The kind of expectations and responsibilities this lady places on women is unrealistic. It's as if men are children that need to be led by the hand and forgiven for virtually anything and everything. The kind of men she describes are like little gods who need to be worshipped, and have everything done to their satisfaction by their women.
Ester and Wambui, I have had both good and bad experiences with them, just like most women, but even if, for arguments' sake, I may have not had the experiences, I struggle to see men the way the guest sees them. It could be generational or just a difference in opinion. I guess we can't all agree and I think that's ok. I wish you both well. Thank you.
People are different if he has not brought a woman in your house and he loves you...ignore the rest as long as you have not caught him...kwani kazi kazi ni kumchunga tu...? Some pple luv marriages other dont...I personally luv the companionship and atleast someone to grow old with as well as kunitoa ma stress... a shoulder to lean on .. etc.. but if you dont appreciate the value of a man in your life just leave him in peace..
Nowhere in my comments did i write that I do not appreciate the value of men..assuming that this comment was directed at me. There are good men and bad men, just as there are good women and bad women. My issue, like i had alluded to before, is the idolization and infantilization of men..and the notion that they should be cajoled and begged and pleased and entertained just so that they can act like husbands. That was my point..thank you.
Through M/s Kagoni, Congrats Wanjiru Kiama for the great work you are doing, as well as taking great care of my sick age-mate, for many years. Keep it up. I will send you the link on my continued empowerment process that you aware of. Rgds
Thank u wa kiama for enlighting us but some of us women have narcissistic husbands. Lack of consistency confuses women. The lack of affection n abuses of all sorts from physical, emotional, disables even the most loving woman. Any woman can change for a husband who is not abusive.
Hello, I've just come across this and am of a different opinion, listened to Maggie Mose s story, the musician used to do beyond her means to maintain her marriage but the man never appreciated. So what I believe is that if a man decides to stay, no matter how bad the situation is, nothing will make him leave but if he decides to leave, nothing.... completely nothing will make him stay. It's a man's sole decision to stay or leave
Well said
Waiting for it show some likes for metha ya kagoni first one to comment
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love wakiama,she is a great woman with lots of wisdom.i do learn alot from her..shes blessed
The lady is such an inspiration. Good advice in a hilarious way. I cant miss any episode. Thanks Monica
Wa kiama you always make my day, God bless
True forgiveness heals,I am one of them.. Thanks wa kiama n Monica..,be blessed.
Thanks for bringing this lady,loves her🥰
I would like you do discuss about money in marriage especially how to share it to the parents. Otw you are doing a good job.
I can silent to this mama all day..so Educative
Great counsel indeed..We appreciate you both.
So enlightened!and entertained too!
Thank you Wa Kiama and Metha ya Kagoni .
Ireally like this lady she is so encouraging me
I am in love with these women. So much teachings
Mrs wakiama thanx for good advice....u look beautiful in short hair.
Bi Kiama I just love her she was my high school teacher
Hapo sawa thank you for helping me by such topics
This is really good, may God bless this lady because of those naggets of wisdom
Thanks for sharing you knowledge to us..
Thanks 🎊 🎉very much…. it’s very educative….
Wow i have enjoyed the topic so much God bless you so much
I don’t think it’s possible to treat him the same away after he remarry. Personally I would be devastated, I could forgive yes but accepting him the same way it’s a no.
Very interesting discussion. Extremely hilarious counsellor.
This lady is too matured and very brilliant on inspiration
Being on every segment of Metha ya Kagoni is Wisdom Re-loaded!
I'm enlightened...
Keep up the good content @Monica Kagoni...
A shout out to our coach @Wanjiru Kiama...
Totally different mentality!takes two to tango in my opinion
How come marriage issues always revolve around women being advised on how to treat men as if it's only a woman's duty to make it work.
@@mimiiarrow9803 Cox a woman was created for a man.
@@mimiiarrow9803 Yeah..i.wonder too. I agree, it takes two. If either party does not pull their weight, then the marriage fails. Sio kazi ya wanawake tu kutengeneza ndoa.
Love the topic 👍👍👍
Ati gacuru getagwo Atia? Love this woman ...message on point
📌📌Lesson learnt point noted📝 message delivered .....rathimwoi sana Monica na Wakiama
I love her wisdom, laugh and smile
U r great woman 👏
You never disappoint , l love this show 😇🥰
Very useful information/advise.Keep it up...
Nice teaching 👍 👌
Awesome counsel! Keep up wa Kiama
Watching u from Uganda.. Very good advice
Wa kiama YOU ARE PURE WISDOM
: I love you
A wise counsellour i love u mom❤️
Waow I love this mama 💗
Thanks for sharing
What a good conversation
More topics,very interesting
Helpful conversation
That was waoooh ati thukari let's learn ladies
I lv this woman Soo beautiful and mature keep up kagoni
Going to see you Mrs. Kiama( my cake matron).
You're doing a great job.
Hapo xwa kbsa kagoni n wakiama, especially hau ha mutumia wa kimbimbi. Live from Doha Qatar.
Where can I find the uji wa kiama?
Watching from Germany
Well said
I just love u wakiama💞💞💞
Bi. Kiama she used to be my High school swahili teacher wow good job
For prostate cancer what about priests who never have a wife or widowers?
Monica you enjoy the show more than we viewers
Wa kiama.. humble.. the better version of wamurathe.. step up and safe ruriri
That’s really a good 👍 one. I like the diversity in your channel.
Alafu I would like you to talk about, long distance relationship/ marriage whereby man/ woman leaves the country for greener pastures abroad….. what would you advise such a couple especially mwenye hubaki nyuma waiting for the other to settle abroad ndo amkujie wakaishi pamoja.
Reason am saying this is that I got a friend who’s marriage is in jeopardy, cos the partner left behind hapa, lost hope despite the other partners (who’s awaiting to settle abroad) efforts of sending support back home to the family & asking for patience & trust and faithfulness.
Apparently the spouse left behind thought the other one moved on , hence, presumably kinda committed infidelity.
What, would u advise such spouse?
Should the spouse abroad be hopeful to get together or rather come for them even after settling properly huko majuu..or should they star a new life all together?
Nimaa indo rekei atumia matuhe muthenya na utuku 😂😂😂wa kiama thengio muno you always talk the truth watu wa sea gas mko wapi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Singles tunaendelea kusoma mengi atleast tunaelevuka💃💃💃
Am just laughing loud. this woman though.... leo amenifurahisha
Good talk
Good content Monica.
Waiting from dagoretti
Wakiama not all women ,some men they give when only in need but ukimuuliza when he is not in need ,he can't .Hau naho atia?
Waiting kama kwa from kitengela
Wakiama ma wee waria ma,ma theri
Next topic I need her to talk about long-term relationship 😂😄 please watching from iraq
Uko iraq wapi?? Niko bagdad
❤️❤️❤️
🤣🤣hau ha kung'orota muno na thukari
Next discuss on courtship n how to know this is the right person for marriage
Me to discuss that topic
I love this woman wakiama
Nice topic I love you. 😂 😂 thukari
Wakiama n Monique 🌷🌷 those are super nice lessons
Hahaaaa
I don't think if I had the so-called demon of lust my husband would tolerate it and pray for me. And I will take a risk and say most men would bolt. So, while it is commendable to be patient and understanding, it is not prudent in this day and age to stay with a serial cheater. Ni kubaya. The kind of expectations and responsibilities this lady places on women is unrealistic. It's as if men are children that need to be led by the hand and forgiven for virtually anything and everything. The kind of men she describes are like little gods who need to be worshipped, and have everything done to their satisfaction by their women.
You seem to have unfinished business with men. I respect you comments though.
Weee Ni kama umechapwa character development viproper 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ester and Wambui, I have had both good and bad experiences with them, just like most women, but even if, for arguments' sake, I may have not had the experiences, I struggle to see men the way the guest sees them. It could be generational or just a difference in opinion. I guess we can't all agree and I think that's ok. I wish you both well. Thank you.
People are different if he has not brought a woman in your house and he loves you...ignore the rest as long as you have not caught him...kwani kazi kazi ni kumchunga tu...? Some pple luv marriages other dont...I personally luv the companionship and atleast someone to grow old with as well as kunitoa ma stress... a shoulder to lean on .. etc.. but if you dont appreciate the value of a man in your life just leave him in peace..
Nowhere in my comments did i write that I do not appreciate the value of men..assuming that this comment was directed at me. There are good men and bad men, just as there are good women and bad women. My issue, like i had alluded to before, is the idolization and infantilization of men..and the notion that they should be cajoled and begged and pleased and entertained just so that they can act like husbands. That was my point..thank you.
Gacuru gitagwo atia? Na kaguragwo ku? Ndi America
Iyo nayo ni nini🤔🤔
Atì muthaithe...🤔
Hapo sioni mimi siwezi pembelezea mtu mwili wangu nitatafuta mtu wakupea kwani si yeye Ako kwa mwingine that's why she hates me
😆😆😆😆😆
Love alone cannot sustain a marriage but committmet does
Hallo kwani wewe Ni polisi I will be busy from today
Through M/s Kagoni, Congrats Wanjiru Kiama for the great work you are doing, as well as taking great care of my sick age-mate, for many years. Keep it up. I will send you the link on my continued empowerment process that you aware of. Rgds
@@mwangiwanjumbi-educational4258 she has taught me alot
i like this show.very educative.
but monica translute diwn here for non kikuyu s