I am not for that advice about waiting for a philandering partner..ati be patient because God is planning better things for you. I disagree kabisa. Infidelity can sometimes turn into a death sentence..so I'd say use your discernment and make the healthiest decision for yourself and your family. The idea of putting up with a man for example because men have higher sex drives so they are destined to cheat serially...or ati you wait indefinitely because your partner will change eventually, I find impractical in today's world. One can forgive and still not put up with a disrespectful partner...forgiveness does not mean staying, necessarily.
Great perspective Betty! 👍🏾 Nobody should wait around for a person who doesn't even respect her...so that she's not held in contempt by society for being a single mother - the worst thing that can happen to a woman in Kenya! Mtcheeeeew!
That's supporting infidelity why not say men should understand infidelity women. Thers nothing like infidelity was born for men in the bible so please give us a break
I'm not kikuyu but I hear a bit of it and I always like listening to Madam Wanjiru's teachings. She is so full of humour. I have enjoyed the show. Thank you
Easier said than done. For the counselor, it is professional not to advocate for divorce. But if he cheats over and over, move out of that marriage. Life is too short. Enjoy life
As much as we say there is no perfect man, there is no perfect woman either. The only unfortunate part, they only talk about forgiving a man when he cheats but we dont hear much about forgiving a woman when she cheats.
Waoh again mum is right there. She is my mother, counselor, lecturer , friend and all. She give me a counseling back 2020 when am away of the country and I really changed. Soon am visiting kenya hope will met with our mum. Thumbs up Mrs. Kiama. Kagoni niutukenagia muno
Ngachokeria Ngaî ngatho nigukurira america na nderere cîana ciakwa kuo, guku ndungiuma njaa wakihiko uthia canceling wirwo uthia nambere guikara niaguchenjia, murimo naguo wiikare hau umuhoere wakua in the name of prayers! Aiiii nia Reke nemwo
Yeah..it sounds a bit like she is justifying men's high libidos and sort of expecting women to understand and put up with it. She is also not so explicit about divorcing an unsuitable partner..she says it is up to you..but in the same breath says the bible/God doesn't like/allow divorce. I don't know..maybe it's a generational thing. But staying with a cheating partner is not advisable in today's world. And I think as a counselor she should probably have made it absolutely clear, in my humble view, especially because young men and women are listening and they may be going through infidelity.
Saying that we don't know how men were formed to be so sexy shows that we don't understand the plan of God concerning these issues. We need godly Council. Otherwise this is telling us to surrender to evil and learn how to cope. Nuu woigire athuri no nginya morure, o tiga thu cia uhoro wa Ma.? It's very unfortunate
She's right.... even in the bible akina Moses also had more than one woman. So no human beings can understand how God created them. Do you either understand why men cheat?
@@carolinekara7603 Even then humanity was still fallen. The didn't understand fully God's will for them, until grace was revealed through Christ. We now can't take the devil's lie that men cannot control themselves.
I am half-way through..but one thing I like so far is that she is not advocating for people to stay in abusive marriages..she is saying that she cannot advise people to go back if one is unsafe/unhappy/unsatisfied.
Good advice you have made my day noo atumia matige gututhimira ikeno uriri kana tukinye manene manene mahanire borithi cia traffic nonginya ugwe mudu nigue akuhe
It's not a weakness It's a spirit and demonic for that matter, why did Joseph escape potiphar's wife? Again, why was it not Adam who suggested sex but Eve? Women will always be advocate of destruction since they keep the evil whispers that men must commit sexual sin. They confess it stronger than they condemn it.
Gutiri kindu kiruo ta kuigua muthuri waku niombanite ona Wakwa nikio twatiganire monica kagoni turehere athuri moige oo niki kiuru nocarie githaria kiria kiuru biu gi ku open up
Av not laughed this hard in a while 😂😂😂😂 Ma'am Wanjiru you're amazing 💯 So much wisdom, humor, so real, so candid...and the scripture references gives the talk more purpose ☺️ Please Kagoni bring mum every once a month or every so often 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😄😄😄❤️
I hear a bit of kikuyu. This teachings are to be hard world wide.kindly switch to English or put on captions. Even for Mr kagoni. Congratulations for the good work both of you.
I know her the hubby even married but later their together she fasted for many times n she almost lost her life aliporushwa kwa stairs n never told her bro wat happened
I think cheating is wrong no matter what because it's about lying/lies. Staying in a cheating relationship has many risks - diseases being one of them. Ladies - and men alike - learn to listen to your True selves - religion, 'experts' etc are just people like us 'ordinary' people. I agree 100% regarding forgiveness, forgive, and leave! Remember you need to be with someone who loves, respects, communicates with you, etc. And someone who also respects themselves and is self-disciplined. Staying in a cheating relationship indicates insecurity in self! Dig deep into why you are choosing to stay in such a space. A man is not a child - he is a grown-up (or ought to be) and a human being, just like you - a woman. No excuses for lairs, indisciplined, irresponsible being! Society has made us believe that we need to be married or have a life partner for us to be whole. I say, find yourself first and learn to be with yourself first - then if the need is still there (which I think will be weird), invite someone into your life. But please, not before finding yourself and knowing who you truly are - minus religion, books, etc
Take heart sweet heart am so sorry I don't really have words to console you enough because this is wrong in all manner....I will say a short prayer for you
Too many dangerous diseases out there to stay with a serial cheater. My mum did for 23 years and one day my dad came in and kicked her out at 1 am and moved in his 26 years old gf.
Monicah.....waah you've made my day. But all this is true.....mawaidha mazuri kabisa. You've made me laugh n you....tooo have laughed saaana never seen you do this before. 🔥🔥🥰Mulete tena na tena. Asante🙏🙏
This lady is hilarious but I don't agree with her about putting up with a philandering man. Disrespect is one of emotional abuse. It's causes depression😭
My husband cheated on me and both me and the side chic were pregnant but l miscarriage 😢💔my pregnancy because of stress ,, what breaks my until now is that he end up marrying the side chick....l now hate men and love ....l decided to come in Saudi Arabia
I am not for that advice about waiting for a philandering partner..ati be patient because God is planning better things for you. I disagree kabisa. Infidelity can sometimes turn into a death sentence..so I'd say use your discernment and make the healthiest decision for yourself and your family. The idea of putting up with a man for example because men have higher sex drives so they are destined to cheat serially...or ati you wait indefinitely because your partner will change eventually, I find impractical in today's world. One can forgive and still not put up with a disrespectful partner...forgiveness does not mean staying, necessarily.
Great perspective Betty! 👍🏾 Nobody should wait around for a person who doesn't even respect her...so that she's not held in contempt by society for being a single mother - the worst thing that can happen to a woman in Kenya! Mtcheeeeew!
I strongly agree with you!!💕💕💕💕
She has not supported infidelity at all.. She is simply enlightening women to understand Men.
@@samuelmurage1042 understand what?
That's supporting infidelity why not say men should understand infidelity women.
Thers nothing like infidelity was born for men in the bible so please give us a break
This lady is very wise! You cannot change a grown man but you can change how you react !
I'm not kikuyu but I hear a bit of it and I always like listening to Madam Wanjiru's teachings. She is so full of humour. I have enjoyed the show. Thank you
Bible says what can separate wife and husband is infidelity. So there is no genuine reason for infidelity
Yes if he commit adultery that’s the deal breaker
This woman 👠 Wanjiru is a rare Gem....I love her teachings 🇰🇪❤️💐💐💐
Muthuri ndathiaga nja ya ya kihiko ni tondu mutumia wake ena thina, mahinda maingi atigaga mai matheru gwake agathii kunyua maria ma njira-ini.
Monicah,,, huyu ulimtoa wapi..🤣...bring her more often.
Wonderful woman may you live long unaushauli poa
I remember the way we danced at her wedding 37 years back
Easier said than done. For the counselor, it is professional not to advocate for divorce. But if he cheats over and over, move out of that marriage. Life is too short. Enjoy life
Exactly the Bible advocates for separation if involved with adultery
On point 👌
One said to the spouse, if you are looking for a perfect man he's seated at the right hand side of God 🤔
Ukimwi inabisha🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Her life is in marriage is interesting for her it's not just saying. Can't remember where she was interviewed
As much as we say there is no perfect man, there is no perfect woman either. The only unfortunate part, they only talk about forgiving a man when he cheats but we dont hear much about forgiving a woman when she cheats.
If a man is going out I thank I won't wait this is not those days there are so many sickness
Through God's grace and grace of forgiveness
Lovely enjoyed every moment.......................God bless
We r all different n make our decision differently so we can't buy all opinion at once. Take what you think is good for you n stay focused
Waoh again mum is right there. She is my mother, counselor, lecturer , friend and all. She give me a counseling back 2020 when am away of the country and I really changed. Soon am visiting kenya hope will met with our mum. Thumbs up Mrs. Kiama. Kagoni niutukenagia muno
Mum I salute you.tell them the truth.may God add you more wisdom to sustain our children's marriages.
Bi Kiama, you have truly made my day!! Much wisdom, thanks
Ngachokeria Ngaî ngatho nigukurira america na nderere cîana ciakwa kuo, guku ndungiuma njaa wakihiko uthia canceling wirwo uthia nambere guikara niaguchenjia, murimo naguo wiikare hau umuhoere wakua in the name of prayers! Aiiii nia Reke nemwo
This is what’s killing most marriages….I wonder how this generation will serive😮😢
The best lady ever ,,,she was my high school teacher Mrs kiama
Monica i love this lady ,ndatheka ona mitheko iria ndiraigite store ,shes funny thanks for airing her again
This is my kiswahili teacher in high school she was very humourous
Love this lady sana.
If the man cheats woman’s needs also to cheats equals games ☝🏽
Esther kiama my sister.... You're so amazing you never disappoint
Wow....she is a wise lady na ako na wisdom to share, nindathoma okaundu maaa!Plus anaogea kama pastor Jane wa Dr ...Julius, thx for la good advice
I second u dear
well, the marriage can survive but the scars for the betrayed will never fade.
So insightful, Thanks Monicah for bringing Bi Kiama.
Monica salimia mum sana. I love her. I'm sharing this with a friend of mine who feels betrayed by her husband
this mum is genuine,i love her
Love this lady, learned so much!!!👌🏽👌🏽 I haven't seen Monica laugh this much, she made my day!😂😂😂💞
Waooh huyu mama anatosha.kudos
This is great counseling
What is the meaning of self control?I moved out because of infendility ... everybody should have self respect and fear of God
Yeah..it sounds a bit like she is justifying men's high libidos and sort of expecting women to understand and put up with it. She is also not so explicit about divorcing an unsuitable partner..she says it is up to you..but in the same breath says the bible/God doesn't like/allow divorce. I don't know..maybe it's a generational thing. But staying with a cheating partner is not advisable in today's world. And I think as a counselor she should probably have made it absolutely clear, in my humble view, especially because young men and women are listening and they may be going through infidelity.
Very powerful message for marriage coach
🤣 🤣 🤣
Thank you so much for bringing us this woman she’s very inspiring may the lord bless you both Monicah
Saying that we don't know how men were formed to be so sexy shows that we don't understand the plan of God concerning these issues. We need godly Council. Otherwise this is telling us to surrender to evil and learn how to cope. Nuu woigire athuri no nginya morure, o tiga thu cia uhoro wa Ma.? It's very unfortunate
She's right.... even in the bible akina Moses also had more than one woman. So no human beings can understand how God created them. Do you either understand why men cheat?
@@carolinekara7603the spirit makes us understand that God gives everyone of us the ability to control the desires of the flesh by the grace in Jesus.
@@carolinekara7603 Even then humanity was still fallen. The didn't understand fully God's will for them, until grace was revealed through Christ. We now can't take the devil's lie that men cannot control themselves.
Monica you are very happy today and that topic is so real , keep bringing wakiama offenly. I love all your stories.
Lovely show Mrs Kagoni. Message well delivered, coated with a lot of humor.
Only God can change a man for He created him.
Bi Kiama you've made my night..alot of wisdom and knowledge.
Great mum keep up .kagoini bring her more
Turehere pastor man kush
Mum, you are very right; let's fear God.
I am half-way through..but one thing I like so far is that she is not advocating for people to stay in abusive marriages..she is saying that she cannot advise people to go back if one is unsafe/unhappy/unsatisfied.
Good advice you have made my day noo atumia matige gututhimira ikeno uriri kana tukinye manene manene mahanire borithi cia traffic nonginya ugwe mudu nigue akuhe
Communication is the key talk n express how u feel bring her closer n u will never be disappointed
Ndukinyange manene Kai mûtûmîa ari object , arerega niki how do you treat her even sexually
It's not a weakness It's a spirit and demonic for that matter, why did Joseph escape potiphar's wife? Again, why was it not Adam who suggested sex but Eve? Women will always be advocate of destruction since they keep the evil whispers that men must commit sexual sin. They confess it stronger than they condemn it.
Hii sijaelewa vizuri..
It’s justification nothing else
wow. have learnt alot. wanjiru kiama thanks for the advice
Hio kicheko ya Monica hehe 😂🤣😂 ,but kusema tu ukweli this is very educative.
Gutiri kindu kiruo ta kuigua muthuri waku niombanite ona Wakwa nikio twatiganire monica kagoni turehere athuri moige oo niki kiuru nocarie githaria kiria kiuru biu gi ku open up
Githaria kiuru biu gikuopen up
Nitureherwo Martin kuratuika nigathenge😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Gutiri githaria kingiuga nigitharagia. Hau niwahe Monica wira muritu muno. No niacarie ona arehe haha tuigue.
@@jamesgathaiya6450 Onanie ndauga amurehe tuigue, araiguika ena experience.
Alah! Mama is looking awesome na short hair. Asante for your wisdom. ❤️
I think we blame God alot of our own issues. We cant justify wrongs and make them look alright.
An excellent marriage counselor.
Men who don't like discussing
Mbsni eagerly waiting our coach
Gitingioerereka ona bibilia imesema once amechapa nje muachilie aende kabisa
Av not laughed this hard in a while 😂😂😂😂
Ma'am Wanjiru you're amazing 💯 So much wisdom, humor, so real, so candid...and the scripture references gives the talk more purpose ☺️
Please Kagoni bring mum every once a month or every so often 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😄😄😄❤️
Mûndú akinjiraa ninguona Mutuu wa afya chap chap guoko igùrù
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂niwangenia muno umuthii
@@boscogeorge145 sasa
@@boscogeorge145 Kindly, do you mean Ugali Afya?
@@bettyisrael3618 you don't know ugali??
Wa kiama is full of wisdom
Mataro chara ruku ukanywereire niowe ke rita Madam Wanjiru has seen it all that's why she's direct to the point.
Afya chap chap nuu ukundeithia nayo pliz in box me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mrs Wanjiru Kiama - the Counsel is SPOT ON. Hilarious content there aki ... Eti ithe wa mwangi ekire atia....Hahahaaa 😂😂
I hear a bit of kikuyu. This teachings are to be hard world wide.kindly switch to English or put on captions. Even for Mr kagoni. Congratulations for the good work both of you.
I know her the hubby even married but later their together she fasted for many times n she almost lost her life aliporushwa kwa stairs n never told her bro wat happened
Waaoh! This was my kiswahili tr. Back in muruguru girls. ❤️❤️
Which year
Me too
Same here
I can listen her more n more
Love love these lady l can sit and listen her the whole day. Learnt so much
I think cheating is wrong no matter what because it's about lying/lies.
Staying in a cheating relationship has many risks - diseases being one of them.
Ladies - and men alike - learn to listen to your True selves - religion, 'experts' etc are just people like us 'ordinary' people.
I agree 100% regarding forgiveness, forgive, and leave!
Remember you need to be with someone who loves, respects, communicates with you, etc. And someone who also respects themselves and is self-disciplined.
Staying in a cheating relationship indicates insecurity in self! Dig deep into why you are choosing to stay in such a space.
A man is not a child - he is a grown-up (or ought to be) and a human being, just like you - a woman. No excuses for lairs, indisciplined, irresponsible being!
Society has made us believe that we need to be married or have a life partner for us to be whole. I say, find yourself first and learn to be with yourself first - then if the need is still there (which I think will be weird), invite someone into your life.
But please, not before finding yourself and knowing who you truly are - minus religion, books, etc
Niwangenia Muno wakiamua,atarani aingi merega andū divorce ahitia
I went through this the whole of last year...yaani mtu(mwanamke) ananijua na bado anapelekwa Hadi kwa nyumba yangu
😥😥😥gitandaini giitu
Your man is very disrespectful how could he do that
Take heart sweet heart am so sorry I don't really have words to console you enough because this is wrong in all manner....I will say a short prayer for you
Woi take heart my sister,mungu huona yote
Woiiiii,,how did you handle it??
Too many dangerous diseases out there to stay with a serial cheater. My mum did for 23 years and one day my dad came in and kicked her out at 1 am and moved in his 26 years old gf.
Uuuui...damn! Sending love and light to you and mum. Hope you are both ok.
Kindly enrol for prep it will help protect u.
Cheating is a choice and decision from either patner.Causes of cheating is
1.Adventure,
2.Addiction,
3.Anger.
End of story.
Define infidelity..and is chatting infidelity?
Mugaga Wamuratha
Yes! You can't change a man with bad habits but pray for him to stop!!!
Monicah.....waah you've made my day. But all this is true.....mawaidha mazuri kabisa. You've made me laugh n you....tooo have laughed saaana never seen you do this before. 🔥🔥🥰Mulete tena na tena. Asante🙏🙏
Infidelity is an evil praktice and should be condemned by all😟
😁😁😁👌 i hope thyl listen to this advise homes will stand ,thanks for this lady advice
This lady is hilarious but I don't agree with her about putting up with a philandering man. Disrespect is one of emotional abuse. It's causes depression😭
Wow!!words of wisdom please bring her again next time
This lady is a vibe, hilarious.
Amazing 👏 this is 🔥🔥 i luv it Monica ❤
My Kiswahili teacher in high school 😍😍
Is she from Thindigwa?
Fabulous Lady Counsellor Wanjiru!Effortless content full of really practical approach to real life issues👍🏿🙏🏿Bravo👍🏿🙏🏿🙏🏽
Na niguo mekirire nguo cia cuumi cuumi.
Uyu ni mwaki wa mîtamaiyū🔥🔥
Aki wakiama those are facts 🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏welcome again
My husband cheated on me and both me and the side chic were pregnant but l miscarriage 😢💔my pregnancy because of stress ,, what breaks my until now is that he end up marrying the side chick....l now hate men and love ....l decided to come in Saudi Arabia
Tk heart name sake
God has a better peson for you. Trust in God coz alikuondolea shida. Barikiwa
@@janewambui5460 thanks dea
@@annndungu7327 Amen
Am sorry. It's not easy
Wanjiru is top we need him more
Monicah thank you for this, she is amazing
There is no genuine reason for cheating...a man doesn't have any need of a married wife....
I had looking for this madam💖
Waiting big fun
Mumeniguza kwa hii talk sana
Wow great advice 😂😂😂😂
Ngai wakiama
Can women also do the same then?
Watching from saudia
I think I know this lady. Did she work in Nyahururu in 90s, and went to USA? Please let me know. She was my neighbor.
I love Wakiama. Great woman.
I was so down but now am uplifted
Kagoni tuletee the wanjohis queens
True,hps atatuletaea
Likes your show Monica
Wonderful
Aaaaw My swahili Teacher , She was just the best.
Was so good made ma night!
Ann wa saudi moto sana show