Cassie, I’m glad you got some answers. I think sometimes some medical professionals don’t listen to women who are obese. I had pain and was told I had a hernia. My doc told me it was small (I have one larger than yours, she said.) and that she didn’t want to fix it. She said that my pain was probably because of my weight. I was in SO much pain. I called numerous times and got no further answers. Six months went by. At my yearly gynecology appointment I complained to my doc and told her of the conversation I had with the other doctor. She sent me immediately to have an ultrasound and I had a very LARGE hernia. After eating, my intestines would poke out the hole and jam up. It was awful. My gynecologist was so mad, she called the other doc and bitched her out. If anyone else out there thinks something is wrong, keep complaining until you get answers and don’t let anyone tell you your pain is because you are fat or that you just have to deal with it because you are fat. Good luck with your surgery. Quick healing.
Hi, Cassie. Fellow Minnesota Girl here! Let me start off by saying I am most likely your biggest fan. I get SO excited when I see you have posted. I’m so sorry hear about this latest health issue. I am an RN and have YEARS of experience with gallbladder surgery, both professionally and personally. I had mine out 5 years ago; mine too was ready to perforate. I wanted to reach out and offer my help post op if you want it. I have tons of research based tips and tricks as well as information that the doctors don’t tell you. I struggled for a while after my surgery but am in a very good place with my digestion, and weight loss!!! YES... YOU CAN LOSE WEIGHT AFTER GALLBLADDER SURGERY!!!The gallbladder is a very important organ, making your digestion so much more efficient and complete. Without it people can struggle with indigestion, bowel issues and vitamin deficiency. I have lots of info and suggestions for combatting those issues. If you find you need help, just reach out to me. One my favorite parts of my chosen career is education, helping the better the lives of others. Best of luck, Cassie. YOU GOT THIS!!!!! 😘
Your doctor should have performed Murphy's sign on you the very first time you came into to her office: lie you down, press on your right upper quadrant while asking you to breathe in. It is one of the easiest, classic tests for gallbladder problems, especially for gall stones. This is the what your doctor in the ER performed. It would have saved you months of pain. Many blessing on your operation and healing. Weight gain is not linked to gall bladder surgery.
AmericanGirl4Life yes, there is some of that. But remember, doctors are people too. There are good and bad doctors just like good and bad anything else.
It’s really sad how much this happens. I started telling doctors about extreme pain around my period and it was brushed off. FOR TEN YEARS. I was 30 when I met a doctor who was like this sounds like classic endometriosis and we need to do an exploratory surgery. Ten years of doctors acting like I was being ridiculous about cramps. Even though the pain wasn’t just during my period. And sadly for women with endo the normal diagnosis time is 10/15 years. 😞 Women are often pushed aside when it comes to pain.
I had gallstones and its honestly the most painful thing I've ever experienced. It got the the point where I was having daily attacks. Doubled over, sweating, puking... Its the only time I've screamed in pain. I totally sympathise with you! I found staying away from anything remotely greasy, all dairy products and keeping stress free as possible helped massively. The healing took about 6 weeks but I was home the same day - you learn very quickly what you can and can't eat. Thinking of you and look after yourself ♥ ♥
I'm fascinated with this ER waiting time thing. I've only ever been to the ER at our Children's hospital for my daughter. We have never waited more than 20 or 30 minutes, but maybe it's different for kids?
I'm female, had to go to a VA hospital. I waited in the main "serious" ER for a WEEK while they waited for a bed in a "women's room" for me! After the surgery, I woke up in a room with just my bed... and a beautiful view of the ocean! The whole experience was humorously surreal!
So glad you caught it before a rupture and have your surgery scheduled. I’m sure it’s been scary not having answers this whole time, especially living alone... wondering if you’ll flop over at some point and no one will even know you’re in trouble! You got this girl - you always do! xoxo
Hey Cassie! I had my gallbladder out last year. I went through all the same things you did. The surgery is really common and recovery time is pretty quick! I was up and walking around about an hour after my surgery. I was bedridden/off work for about a week and was golden after that. You will feel so much better after your gallbladder is out! I wish you a speedy recovery!
thank you for the reassurance Kelly!! When I went to see my surgeon he made me feel just as reassured that the surgery is super routine and should go very smoothly. I'm sorry to hear you went through the same pain and everything but I'm glad you had a speedy recovery and are doing better now!! :D
Thrift Thick I also wanted to add I did not experience weight gain and haven’t had any problems with losing weight either! I have gone back to eating all my usual foods and have had 0 complications. You will do great! I will be thinking of you.❤️
Having my gallbladder out was the easiest surgery I've had! I didn't experience any changes in my digestive system or weight! I've never even heard of the weight stuff!
Surgery was no problem for me but I have had digestive issues. Maybe just more because of sensitive stomach? I swear after the surgery everything I eat goes right through me. I did have weight gain but I've since lost it. I don't equate it to the loss of my gallbladder so much as I began to eat more processed food because it seemed to stay on my stomach longer than things like meats, veggies&fruits. I've since eliminated those and I just do 1 meal a day. It cuts down on having to deal with any stomach issues from eating...and dropped the weight.
Carolyn Kennedy I had my gallbladder taken out when I was 15 and I definitely have had changes. I can no longer eat larger portioned meals or I run straight to the restroom. I’ve noticed in general that food goes through me a lot quicker than it did before, and I lost a good 35-40 pounds because of the changes affecting my diet.
I was doing the same! You're young for gallstones, but still, your doctor should have picked up on it, especially the hard, bloated feeling with nausea. Glad you finally got a diagnosis, you'll feel so much better when it's out, I did.
FYI: The risk factors for gallbladder issues are called the four "Fs" which stands for female, forty, fertile (still able to have babies) and fat (I know, not nice, but this saying has been around for decades).
Just a word of caution though: you will need to stick to a low fat diet for awhile. And prepared to run to the bathroom as fast as you can. Your body needs time to adjust. Might take awhile.
You DO need your gallbladder! it is an organ that saves bile for digestion specifically fat, but when it has stones and it causes a lot of pain you need to remove it. Each patient is different in the recovery and only you can make your recovery process a success
lmao girl. 3 hours is nothing for an ER, especially at night or weekends, when all the urgent care clinics are closed. glad you got your problem sorted out!
Just FYI I'm morbidly obese and have been losing weight since getting my gallbladder out. I think it depends on the person. I also agree on the pain, it hurt so bad I actually passed out from it more than once.
Oh I know this pain! I had my gallbladder out when I was 20. The pain just got worse and worse. The way I explained it was I felt like a double sided knife was trying to escape my body through my chest and back simultaneously. I talked to some of my family and three of my aunts and my grandma had theirs removed in their twenties. The doctor I saw in the ER told me I was having muscle spasms and it was as nothing. I begged him to check me for gallstones. He looked me straight in my face and said nope you are to young for gallstones. The next day I went to another hospital in pain and they did an ultrasound and rushed me into emergency surgery because my gallbladder was on the verge of bursting. You will feel so much better after surgery.
They don't give as much pain relief as they used to because of the "opiate crisis." That's why the pain didn't go away when they gave you pain meds. My mom just had a mastectomy and they sent her home the SAME DAY as the surgery with 12 low dosage pain pills. They refused to give her more. It is a nightmare for anyone in pain in America now.
Girl! You will feel so much better after the surgery! I went 3 years with those attacks before the doctors figured it out but it was worth it. Also, I had no weird weight gain, it does affect your digestive system (stay away from fats as much as possible, try to have limited healthy fats) but doesn’t cause weight gain. Thinking of you!
My advice would be to eat low fat foods!! No cheese, no mayo! Even healthy fat won't be good! No nuts! Certain breads can have too high fat in them, such as seeded brown bread or brioche rolls. Yes eat small meals and don't lie down straight after eating. I had my gallbladder out last year and am just left with 4 tiny scars, fading gradually all the time! Good luck with ur surgery! Sending well wishes ur way! X
Yikes! So sorry you were in that much pain but I'm glad you got some answers and have a date set for surgery. Wishing you the best of luck with everything!
Your gallbladders is part of your filtration system. You will have to avoid excessive amount of alcohol and greasy heavy foods. I am sure it effects each person differently.
Hugs, love, peace, and healing! I am so sorry you have been suffering. Positive thoughts being sent your way for a quick and easy recovery. My sister experienced similar symptoms, had her gall bladder removed and has not experienced any bad effects. She is happy she had the surgery. Big hugs and lots of love!
Having my Gallbladder out made me feel 200% better. Besides the pain, I had NO more stomach upset. It’s been 4 years now! Best decision of my life! I’ll be thinking of you! And I didn’t gain ANY weight 🤷🏻♀️. Also, I ate whatever I wanted literally the next day lol. Just heavy creamer bothers me sometimes. And YES you can eat red meat 🤦🏻♀️😂
Yes!! My mother in law was ALWAYS sick to her stomach, like 3 times a week for LITERALLY years. She had her gallbladder out last year and has only got sick to her stomach 2 times in almost a year!!! She said it was the best thing she ever did!!!
No offense but I don't think it's fair to blame your weight on your metabolism when you don't track calories. It's really easy to overeat especially as a short female, we have pretty low TDEE's if we don't exercise a ton.
Pain is the worst I’m so sorry Cassie! I’m glad you’re able to figure out what’s going on and getting it fixed! I have back issues too (broken back and a slew of other issues) so I definitely feel your pain! Sending good vibes and healing thoughts your way!
Wow I'm surprised they are making you wait so long to have it out when you are in so much pain. When my gallbladder went bad I was in so much pain that they took me back to a room immediately and pumped me full of morphine. I had the surgery the next day. The worst pain of my life. The surgery was very easy but for me I felt so good for about a year. But now I have a lot of stomach issues and I think it's because I have no gallbladder now. I'm so bummed that I've back slid again. I hope that it goes well for you. Make sure you keep a pillow on your stomach after the surgery so your cats don't jump on your stomach while you heal. I learned that the very hard way.
Thank you Cassie. I’m sorry you’re going through this but I’m glad they’re going to make you better. I’m thanking you because you described opioid therapy....you know, the TREATMENT that is very effective with the least amount of side effects (Compared to newer medications and nsaids) but is vilified in the United States thanks to the war on opioids. I’ve been prescribed an opioid for several years for a rare disease which causes severe pain in addition to severe nerve pain and moderate to severe spine and disc pain. You were given one dose and experienced what most chronic pain patients experience...relief WITHOUT FEELING HIGH. You would not believe how important that statement was. Many accuse us of being addicts chasing a high, but the truth is, we are dependent on the medication to experience enough pain relief to get a better quality of life. Dependency and addiction are two entirely different things and not required of each other. So thank you, again, Cassie. And I truly. Hope you get well soon! 😢💗
Oooh when you said 3 hours I couldn't help but laugh because I had to go to the ER last month and seriously waited from 5:30 until almost midnight to see anyone. I hope you have insurance and that everything turns out well!
I'm sorry you're going through this. It sounds so painful. It's good that so many people are sharing their positive experiences in your comments. I hope you find that a little conforting.
I had my gallbladder removed when I was 18. That was 21 years ago and it was the best decision ever. I dealt with the pain for about 2 years before I got it removed. I have to be careful with high fat foods because they will go right through me but at least the pain is gone. I wish you the best of luck with your surgery and I hope you have a speedy recovery. 💜
You were describing the pain and I was like "bitch that's not heartburn, thats the gallblabber" cause its THE WORST PAIN I've had appendicitis and gallbladder attacks and gallbladder pain IS JUST AS BAD.
Yup, I went through the saaaaame thing as you. Gallbladders are the DEVIL I’m telling you! But the good news is the surgery was the best things that ever happened to me. You’re going to be fine!!!!
Getting my gallbladder out was the best thing I’ve ever done! It’s been at least 7 years. It helped my digestive system become more regular and I didn’t wake up in the middle of the night in pain anymore. I went to the ER just like you. I didn’t have gallstones but they tested to see if my gallbladder was even functioning and it wasn’t so they scheduled me to have it removed in less than a week from my ER visit. It didn’t effect my weight at all I’ve still be able to lose weight. I can still eat anything I want. I’ll be hoping all goes well for you! Love your channel I’ve been watching you for years now! 😊
It is a fairly easy surgery. My husband had to have this done and it was done laparoscopicly and felt immediate relief. It was worth it to him to not have pain. He didn’t gain any weight. My brother in law is able to loose weight and both of them have been able to eat what they want. You will be fine.
Having your gallbladder out is the best thing you’ll do! The recovery on the surgery is far less painful than the gallstones, promise! Stay strong, beautiful friend.
When you was describing your symptoms I was screaming it’s your gallbladder it’s your gallbladder. All this happened to me exactly like you described. The surgery is pretty fast and easy. Recovery is pretty easy too other than right after your stomach is tight because they pump gas in you and you pass gas like crazy but other than that it’s pretty easy. Good luck love. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
I hate when doctors just brush off how you’re feeling 😡 I got a new IUD inserted and I started getting uncontrollable migraines, 2/3 times a week. I did some research and saw other people having the same problems as me. I then asked TWO different doctors if it could be the IUD causing the migraines. They both said no and said I had “tension beaches” and I continued to get the migraines. Finally I got it removed and the migraines stopped 🤦🏼♀️. It was the hormones causing me to get them. I truly believe you need to listen to your body. If the pain is that bad, something is seriously wrong. So glad you caught these in time! Hoping for a speedy recovery! 💕
A few family members have gone through this pain, it’s no joke :-( They were able to lose weight after removal. The only problem they have ever experienced after removal is diarrhea/nausea if they eat a very fatty/heavy meal. There are supplements that help with that and does avoid that issue. Best Wishes, hugs 😘❤️❤️ Btw... find a new family doctor who won’t blow you off. I can tell you from experience there are doctors who suck!!
I wish you all the luck in the world. Don't be too disappointed if the recovery is a little harder than the drs say. They tend to play these things down in my experience xx
I’m so thankful you got checked out & are going to get the surgery I’m sending so many positive vibes, you are so so strong , I know Galileo & Fig are being the best cuddle bugs right now ❤️❤️❤️
As an Ultrasound Tech from the beginning of your story I knew it was your gallbladder. Yes you need to have that out since it seems to be stuck in the neck of your gallbladder. And it will cause liver damage if you don’t remove it. I don’t mean to scare you but it’s really important to have the surgery. I get kidney stones so I know your pain. I’m saying a prayer for a quick recovery ♥️
You’re experience is so similar to mine- I was 20 and living in my college dorm. It was only the 2nd attack and we had no idea it was my gallbladder, the previous one we just thought was heartburn or gas. I was studying for an exam and we’d just eaten pizza when my pain started and by midnight I was in an ambulance to the ER and had emergency surgery to remove mine. My recovery took about a month because of an infection (my stones ruptured the gallbladder which caused this attack) but I didn’t gain any extra weight. The way it was explained to me, the gallbladder secretes bile into your large intestine to break down fats. Like Dawn dishwashing liquid. if you eat really greasy/oily foods after you have it removed, you’re gonna have some “unfortunate bathroom” visits and maybe a little intestinal discomfort. some folks have the same reaction by eating dairy or spicy foods, but for me it was fatty meats like hamburgers or sausages. (I’m vegan now so no more of that problem). I eat broccoli and cauliflower with no problems too. But, you’ll have to take notice of how you feel after eating different things following your surgery. The pain of gallstones passing or stuck is worse than childbirth (I’ve also had a child, so I can vouch for that.) You’ll feel so much better. Positive thoughts for your surgery!
I'm glad you know what it is now and will be getting the surgery needed! Hopefully it will be a quick recovery and fingers crossed for you, no more bad attacks before then!!
I had my gallbladder taken out when I was 11 cause I had gallstones so they decided to take mine out when I had a kidney transplant. I haven't had any issues without having a gallbladder. The only thing is more oily food and spicy food might be harder for you body to process, which in my case just means more trips to the bathroom. I'm sure everything will go well! I hope you don't have any attacks between now and your surgery. Wishing you the best!
Been there done that Cassie, you will feel so much better promise...I’m now recovery from total hip replacement ... don’t worry about anything your going to be just fine❤️
Cassie I am so grateful for this video. I had the exact symptoms that you have had for the last month or so and had no clue what it was and was kinda scared. Then I saw your video and I thought “ I bet that is what I have, gallbladder problems. “.This passed Thursday I had an attack after lunch so severe I was throwing up constantly which was unusual because I had never thrown up during an attack. My good friend just happened to be at my house during this time and she said get up we are going to the ER. By the time I got to the ER in my small town I was almost delirious kept my eyes closed The whole time. I was there a couple of hour and then placed in an ambulance to be sent to a large metropolitan hospital 85 miles away. Long story short - my gallbladder is out and I am home but I was in the hospital 4 nights. It wasn’t fun. I still have no appetite. Nothing taste good at all but my sister brought me a chocolate shake (that I never drink because I am always trying to lose weight) and it tasted very good. I needed the calories. I noticed that my taste buds were off as smells were off as well. I am still bloated and I am a side sleeper and that is not possible right now. They also said I can eat what I want when I got home. The good thing is I saw a very sensitive side to my husband. He said “I don’t know what I would do without you” and that “our house is not a home without you there”. Nice to hear those words some time. My cocky surgeon said “do you know anything about what is wrong with you?” I said. I had just watched this girl on RUclips talking about she was going through and it was same as me. He just rolled his eyes. LOL. I am surprised you haven’t had surgery yet. I am on the mend and you will feel so much better when it is over. Take care Cassie.
Cassie no offence ,but to call a surgeon a surgery guy it's quite disrespectful. And gallbladder stones have nothing to do with kidney stones ,different composition. Gallbladder sludge and stones usually are more common to overweight and sedentary people. I'm not saying that you can't have other causes (genetic, metabolic etc) but being overweight and eating shitty food are the no.1 main reasons. Take care !
Sorry for the pain you've gone through. It's frustrating that your doctor didn't immediately think something was wrong with your gallbladder, or at least check. That's the first thing I thought of, and I'm not the medical professional. You're a tough cookie, and I'm sure you will be just fine with the surgery. If I can have double jaw surgery and have my face put together with titanium, you can do this! I didn't look anything up before my surgery, because I was already freaking out, and I didn't need other people's negative stories to make it worse (and remember you will only ever hear the few negative and never the million positive). You'll do great!
Two months after giving birth to my twins I was diagnosed with gall stones and my appendix had a slow leak. I agree with you. The pain is intense. The removal of my gall bladder was a rather simple procedure. My appendix leak, on the other hand, created further issues. I think you will be so relieved after the removal. It is so comforting to not worry about the painful attacks any more. Additionally, I have gained no weight since. I am wishing you luck and amazing relief ❤️
I have had many doctors tell me that its all in my head or you just need this antibiotic or this shot and you'll be fine. Yet, you keep getting sick your pain doesn't get better, etc... After decades of doctors I just had to say screw you, I'm finding someone else who knows what they're doing. I'm so glad you didn't have to go through years of trying to figure out what's wrong with your body and you are in my prayers. :)
I am not even a quarter of the way thru and this sounds like my gall bladder problems. a heating pad on my back worked wonders to make my attacks shorter while I had to wait for surgery. Also, you need a doctor who takes you seriously. find a new one who is willing to send out for tests to rule other things out before they issue a diagnosis. Seriously. You should not have had to wait that long with your pain for an accurate diagnosis.
Very luckily I was seen immediately in the ER because my attack was at 4am in a small town, I cannot imagine waiting that long with all that pain. I'm happy you got it all figured out!!
Cassie! Im going through similar frustrations with doctors atm too! I had some tests done and had 2 doctors tell me I have stage 4 metastatic liver cancer, 1 tell me i might and might not, and then yet another say nope the tumors are benign. Poo poo my family history. Poo poo my symptoms. They disregard me and brush me off when I'm desperately trying to get help. I have so many tests and differing opinions and the clock is ticking but they dont seem to care much nor are they moving fast enough. It IS frustrating. And even more so when you are afraid to argue or debate because they are supposed to be the professionals. They are suppised to be trusted and knowledgable and HELP. And when your only source of help brushes you off as insignificant... I feel you. You arent alone. Its sad it had to get to this point for you. But I'm glad you are getting the help you need! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
@@sonyahubbard3226 I was speaking more to the comments Cassie had towards the end of the video about how her doctor disregarded her and made her feel like she was "crazy". I was simply sharing my liver mets story with her as a way to demonstrate that I, too, know the doctor disregard/wrong diagnosis woes. I have zero experience with gallstones or any other gall woes so I coulsnt relate in that way. I just wanted her to know that she wasn't alone in her feelings about how her medical care had gone thus far. Sorry if I was unclear about that.
Hi Cassie! Had mine taken out 11 years ago. I remember the pain being so bad I slapped my doctors hands away when he was examining me. He was like "yeah, something is going on". lol My grandmother, my mom and daughter all had theirs out. After the surgery there will be some discomfort but it will be so much less than the pain from the gall bladder/stone. I feel you are in good hands with your surgeon, I hope you have a speedy recovery and everything goes as it should!
I too had mine out after 4 years of enduring horrific gallstone attacks ... yes I was stupid and lucky I got through ok. Had it out. Overnight stay and have never once had any negative effect ... it was so easy and didn’t even hurt a couple of days. I kid you not. If I had my time over I would never have waited. I empathise completely. You will be a new Cassie. Didn’t change weight after nor have to eat anything remotely different. Lol I have my stones in a jar in the back of the fridge. Good luck Cassie... hugs Lindy x
I’m sorry you’re going through this, Cassie! I had my gall bladder removed 5 years ago now and I haven’t had many issues post-removal at all. My recovery was only bad because the painkillers they prescribed me made me nauseous and throwing up with holes in your abdomen is obviously not pleasant 🙈 But all the issues I had before are gone and I haven’t had any issues with gaining weight. There are a handful of foods that will really upset my stomach now (mostly greasy things), but other than that, all is well! Just thought you might want to hear a positive experience 😊 I’ll be thinking of you and sending happy thoughts for a quick and easy recovery!
I had my gall bladder out after my first child 7 years ago. When you started explaining the pain and the symptoms, I was like yup! Gall bladder. My pains were like someone cut my air ways off at my diaphragm and the pain lasted all day until I had to throw up the complete contents of my stomach so there was nothing making my gall bladder produce the extra acid to pump into my stomach. I had the sludge. My sister had hers out after her first child too. I would honestly rather child birth/ labour pains over the gall bladder attacks.
Vannessa- Elizabeth yesss!! I would much rather go through labor 10 times in a row than have another gallbladder attack. I to got my gallbladder removed after my daughter was born 9 years ago.
The moment you started describing the pain, I thought: gall stones. Because I know that pain! Mine was a little different (severe back pain only) and I knew exactly what it was when it first happened (when I was on vacation!) because my mom had it. I've had my gall bladder removed and I'm so happy I did. Things didn't go back to normal immediately, but after a couple of months everything was good. The surgery wasn't a big deal and recovery was pretty easy. I've never heard anything about weight gain - but there's a lot of BS out there on the internet. I would stay away and trust your surgeon. :)
I had mine out in 2014 and remember the attacks well, incredibly painful. Had to wait about 6 months for surgery and by that time, I couldn’t wait to get out so I wasn’t nervous, I was excited! You will be absolutely fine, just take recovery steady and rest, rest, rest! Buscopan was good for helping my pain...used to take that and a load of painkillers then wait an hour, throw up and it would start to ease off. I did lose a fair amount of weight as I was terrified of eating anything with more than 2% fat but it soon came back. I hope Figaro and Galileo are looking after you, my cat used to lie next to me, place himself so his tail was in my hand and let me hold his tail for comfort while I cried until it was over. Surgery is really routine for this so you’ll be in good, practices hands, get well soon xx
Cass, I had my gallbladder removed in 2014 and I have always struggled with my weight (getting my gallbladder removed didn't affect it at all) but I will say over time I developed something (that not everyone does) where now when I eat something that's greasy I don't have enough bile (some stored in your gallbladder) to break it down and I will later throw up said meal. But once I figure that out (and yes I spoke with my doctor about it), I just lowered fat/grease and don't have a problem anymore. You got this! It's not horrible.
Girl...I had Gallstones 12 years ago and that pain is NO JOKE. My God it hurts!! Let me tell you though, it doesn’t compare to child birth lmao that was something I was so curious about when I got pregnant and when I went into labor, yeah...not even close lol child birth is way worse. When I had my stones, my gallbladder was also full of stones so I sure understand your pain. So glad you’re getting surgery because it makes such a huge difference!!! Good luck 💕💕
Hang in there Cassie! I’m sorry that you are going through this, yet I’m happy that your health issue is is “fixable “ and not something that is really bad. It saying that this gallbladder thing is bad, but you will be well again!♥️♥️♥️
Cassie, I feel for you! From the start I knew it was gunna be the gallbladder, only because I had a very similar experience to you, and ended up having emergency surgery. I also had the "sludge" from having so many, and I shared a lot of the worries you did. I hope that I can help you ease some nervousness - The surgery itself especially with the scopes, is very non invasive and the holes made are tiny. They probably won't even require a stitch, just medical tape for a few days. Everyone is different, but generally the surgery is quick and handled well. My cousin was off to Vegas two days after her surgery lol. I always had a slow metabolism, and the surgery did not affect my ability to lose weight - in fact, I lost a lot more afterwards! I still eat my favourite greens and broccoli a few times a week, with no issue. Shoot me a message if you have any questions, I'll be happy to help! I hope you're feeling better today, and that you recovery quickly from all of this, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. 🖤 All my love!
As soon as you started talking about your symptoms I had a feeling it was your gallbladder...I work in a general surgeon office and we see alot of people that need a cholecystectomy.
I had my gallbladder out about 2 years ago, it will all be okay! The recovery thankfully is not too bad. You have a few little incisions but nothing crazy! You'll do fine, keep a positive mindset! The same thing happened to me at urgent care but they saw how much pain I was in and rushed me into the first open room and then I had to go in an ambulance to the ER; not fun! But it will feel so much better after surgery! Definitely have to be extra careful with fried or fatty foods cause no joke, that will go RIGHT through you! Wishing you and healthy and speedy recovery!!!
Hi Cassie! I had the same thing and currently still dealing with it, I have had multiple attacks and after a 12 hour attack I went into the ER where they didn't believe me too lol. I knew it was my gallbladder because of past attacks, got an ultrasound and found a 1.6cm stone (huge) and ended shooting me up with fentanyl (the strongest drug they can legally give) I am not a pansy when it comes to pain and it is always at a 10 unbearable everytime it happens. You can get an attack from not eating for a certain period of time and then eating something with fat in it (your gallbladder secretes bile to break down fat and when there is an overload of bile that is being blocked it causes that jarring pain) I haven't had an attack for roughly 8 months, drinking apple cider vinegar every single day to help dissolve the cholesterol based stone. It's a very complicated problem to have! I kick myself for starving myself so often and then eating not the greatest, that's what gave the stone a chance to increase in size since I was not eating there was no bile being produced to break down the food. I do not wish the pain on anyone, the only thing that helps is laying in the bathtub to get the pressure off, trying to stomach eating crackers and drinking apple cider vinegar. I hope all is well and that your surgery goes amazing! I need to get mine out too but am so nervous 😂 Love ya Cass, stay strong! I'm going through it too we will get through it together! ❤
As soon as you started describing your pain, I thought it was gallbladder. I started having pains after my first pregnancy but they did mimic heartburn. Then during my second pregnancy, I ended up in the ER with the same issues as you. Needless to say, I had my gallbladder removed at 20 weeks pregnant because it was endangering my daughter. All is well now, she's almost 9 years old now. You'll feel so much better within a few days! The relief from pain was immediate. During the first few years after surgery, I did find I had a few trigger foods that caused me to be the bathroom immediately after eating- large amounts of iceberg lettuce and broccoli were mine. Now I can eat those things without many issues. I also need to make sure I eat SOMETHING within an hour or two of waking up or the first thing I eat will upset my stomach- no matter what it is. It might take a few years for everything to regulate, but I promise you it's worth it!!!
I'm glad they found out what was wrong with you and i hope your surgery goes well. Wishing you a speedy recovery Cassie. Abdominal pain is just the worst! Xx
While you were talking I thought gallbladder. I had mine out 11 years ago, when I had an attack all I could do was lay on the floor moaning in pain. My friend felt intense back pain & she'd go to the chiropractor for it because she didn't know it was her gallbladder until she needed emergency surgery to take the gallbladder out. Funny enough, I just finished watching a John Oliver show about how women & black people aren't taken very seriously by dr's. I realize dr's are only human & can make mistakes but if you tell your dr it's the worst pain you've ever felt, they should take that seriously. Also, the first time I had an attack, I legit thought I was dying.
Good luck. Had mine out almost 20yrs ago (at 22) unfortunately it wasn't the root cause of the pain that has partially disabled me. It helped me, there was pain reduction, but the rest of the pain was/is so much worse. Biggest thing, I hope you have learned that you have to be proactive with your medical care. The doctors don't & can't know everything. Primary Dr's have no choice (most of the time) than look for the easy answer and move on to the next patient. Always push for a second look, specialist, etc. If you feel that something is wrong.
Many symptoms in the Gastro intestinal system can overlap and the gallbladder in the a area of the stomach, so on initial visit, the diagnosis he made is not unreasonable. If she had gone back and told him that the medication was not working, then the next step would have been further investigation. It depends on whether she went back or not. Just so you know, I'm a doctor.
Girl. I went 9 years with my foot going from dark purple, to bright red... Burning on fire feeling like someone was jackhammering my bone, to ice cold and feeling like I had frostbite. Not a single doctor or surgeon or specialist knew what was wrong with me, and even though they could see ok something was going on, they couldn't figure it out and treated me like crap! Finally 3 1/2 almost 4 years ago I found a doctor who knew exactly what is wrong with me. Sadly, had they figured it out sooner I could have gone into remission, but because it took 9 years it's extremely hard if not impossible to treat. I have crps and I'm in 10 pain, if not worse every single day of my life. It's rated as #1 on the mcgill pain scale. It is awful to be in pain and have the one person who's supposed to help you just blow you off. It was so bad that at times I've contimpated taking my life. I couldn't go to the er because they never figured it out and only looked at me like I was some drug addict, so I stopped going all together because I got tired of being looked at sideways even though my foot would be almost black! Thankfully I have a doctor now who actually cares about me.
Hey Cassie! I’m so sorry to hear that you’re having such a hard time with your gallbladder. But I’m sure as you can tell from the other comments that getting your gallbladder out is a very chill procedure. I would consult your surgeon about your weight worries, but I don’t think you will have any issues. I’m on OR nurse, so I am in gallbladder surgeries probably 50 times a week lol. Almost all gallbladder surgeries are laparoscopic which makes your recovery soooo much quicker. Anyway if you have any questions at all about what happens intraoperatively feel free to reach out. You’ll feel so much better after you get that thing out!
Cassie, I’m glad you got some answers. I think sometimes some medical professionals don’t listen to women who are obese. I had pain and was told I had a hernia. My doc told me it was small (I have one larger than yours, she said.) and that she didn’t want to fix it. She said that my pain was probably because of my weight. I was in SO much pain. I called numerous times and got no further answers. Six months went by. At my yearly gynecology appointment I complained to my doc and told her of the conversation I had with the other doctor. She sent me immediately to have an ultrasound and I had a very LARGE hernia. After eating, my intestines would poke out the hole and jam up. It was awful. My gynecologist was so mad, she called the other doc and bitched her out.
If anyone else out there thinks something is wrong, keep complaining until you get answers and don’t let anyone tell you your pain is because you are fat or that you just have to deal with it because you are fat.
Good luck with your surgery. Quick healing.
Hi, Cassie. Fellow Minnesota Girl here! Let me start off by saying I am most likely your biggest fan. I get SO excited when I see you have posted. I’m so sorry hear about this latest health issue. I am an RN and have YEARS of experience with gallbladder surgery, both professionally and personally. I had mine out 5 years ago; mine too was ready to perforate. I wanted to reach out and offer my help post op if you want it. I have tons of research based tips and tricks as well as information that the doctors don’t tell you. I struggled for a while after my surgery but am in a very good place with my digestion, and weight loss!!! YES... YOU CAN LOSE WEIGHT AFTER GALLBLADDER SURGERY!!!The gallbladder is a very important organ, making your digestion so much more efficient and complete. Without it people can struggle with indigestion, bowel issues and vitamin deficiency. I have lots of info and suggestions for combatting those issues. If you find you need help, just reach out to me. One my favorite parts of my chosen career is education, helping the better the lives of others. Best of luck, Cassie. YOU GOT THIS!!!!! 😘
I'm gonna need mine out soon. Been putting it off but the pain is awful. I'd love to hear your post-op tips, Marie!
As a nurse I knew it was your gallbladder especially after you said after eating greasy foods....
Me too
Your doctor should have performed Murphy's sign on you the very first time you came into to her office: lie you down, press on your right upper quadrant while asking you to breathe in. It is one of the easiest, classic tests for gallbladder problems, especially for gall stones. This is the what your doctor in the ER performed. It would have saved you months of pain. Many blessing on your operation and healing. Weight gain is not linked to gall bladder surgery.
Why why WHY do doctors constantly brush people off with their symptoms..
Cat Sav It’s awful. It’s because a lot of people fake pain to get pain meds. They ruin it for legitimate people with real problems 🤬
AmericanGirl4Life yes, there is some of that. But remember, doctors are people too. There are good and bad doctors just like good and bad anything else.
It’s really sad how much this happens. I started telling doctors about extreme pain around my period and it was brushed off. FOR TEN YEARS. I was 30 when I met a doctor who was like this sounds like classic endometriosis and we need to do an exploratory surgery. Ten years of doctors acting like I was being ridiculous about cramps. Even though the pain wasn’t just during my period. And sadly for women with endo the normal diagnosis time is 10/15 years. 😞 Women are often pushed aside when it comes to pain.
They listen to women even less too!
unfortunately because to lot of these doctors it’s just a job, kinda like a fast food line, when they say “Next”
I had gallstones and its honestly the most painful thing I've ever experienced. It got the the point where I was having daily attacks. Doubled over, sweating, puking... Its the only time I've screamed in pain. I totally sympathise with you! I found staying away from anything remotely greasy, all dairy products and keeping stress free as possible helped massively. The healing took about 6 weeks but I was home the same day - you learn very quickly what you can and can't eat. Thinking of you and look after yourself ♥ ♥
3 hour wait in the ER is a very short wait compared to where I live. 5 hours is the MINIMUM I’ve waited in the ER.
Exactly! I’m surprised this was news to her.
Minnesotans are blessed with great healthcare
Same! Here in Northeast Ohio it's like.. 6 hour wait or more!!!
I'm fascinated with this ER waiting time thing. I've only ever been to the ER at our Children's hospital for my daughter. We have never waited more than 20 or 30 minutes, but maybe it's different for kids?
I'm female, had to go to a VA hospital. I waited in the main "serious" ER for a WEEK while they waited for a bed in a "women's room" for me! After the surgery, I woke up in a room with just my bed... and a beautiful view of the ocean! The whole experience was humorously surreal!
So glad you caught it before a rupture and have your surgery scheduled. I’m sure it’s been scary not having answers this whole time, especially living alone... wondering if you’ll flop over at some point and no one will even know you’re in trouble! You got this girl - you always do! xoxo
Hey Cassie! I had my gallbladder out last year. I went through all the same things you did. The surgery is really common and recovery time is pretty quick! I was up and walking around about an hour after my surgery. I was bedridden/off work for about a week and was golden after that. You will feel so much better after your gallbladder is out! I wish you a speedy recovery!
thank you for the reassurance Kelly!! When I went to see my surgeon he made me feel just as reassured that the surgery is super routine and should go very smoothly. I'm sorry to hear you went through the same pain and everything but I'm glad you had a speedy recovery and are doing better now!! :D
Thrift Thick I also wanted to add I did not experience weight gain and haven’t had any problems with losing weight either! I have gone back to eating all my usual foods and have had 0 complications. You will do great! I will be thinking of you.❤️
Yep mine is gone also life is better without it. Don’t wait to long I was on the verge of becoming septic
Same!!
Any doctor that laughs at you and your symptoms...you need another doctor
Having my gallbladder out was the easiest surgery I've had! I didn't experience any changes in my digestive system or weight! I've never even heard of the weight stuff!
Carolyn Kennedy yessssss
Surgery was no problem for me but I have had digestive issues. Maybe just more because of sensitive stomach? I swear after the surgery everything I eat goes right through me. I did have weight gain but I've since lost it. I don't equate it to the loss of my gallbladder so much as I began to eat more processed food because it seemed to stay on my stomach longer than things like meats, veggies&fruits. I've since eliminated those and I just do 1 meal a day. It cuts down on having to deal with any stomach issues from eating...and dropped the weight.
Carolyn Kennedy I had my gallbladder taken out when I was 15 and I definitely have had changes. I can no longer eat larger portioned meals or I run straight to the restroom. I’ve noticed in general that food goes through me a lot quicker than it did before, and I lost a good 35-40 pounds because of the changes affecting my diet.
Me too,It was one of the easiest surgeries I’ve had. I felt better so fast.
I was screaming at my phone the whole Time you were describing this- it’s your gallbladder ! Lol. Such classic symptoms. Feel better soon!
I was doing the same! You're young for gallstones, but still, your doctor should have picked up on it, especially the hard, bloated feeling with nausea. Glad you finally got a diagnosis, you'll feel so much better when it's out, I did.
"I've actually had a couple months"
I felt that in my soul.
FYI: The risk factors for gallbladder issues are called the four "Fs" which stands for female, forty, fertile (still able to have babies) and fat (I know, not nice, but this saying has been around for decades).
Just a word of caution though: you will need to stick to a low fat diet for awhile. And prepared to run to the bathroom as fast as you can. Your body needs time to adjust. Might take awhile.
You DO need your gallbladder! it is an organ that saves bile for digestion specifically fat, but when it has stones and it causes a lot of pain you need to remove it. Each patient is different in the recovery and only you can make your recovery process a success
lmao girl. 3 hours is nothing for an ER, especially at night or weekends, when all the urgent care clinics are closed. glad you got your problem sorted out!
Just FYI I'm morbidly obese and have been losing weight since getting my gallbladder out. I think it depends on the person. I also agree on the pain, it hurt so bad I actually passed out from it more than once.
Oh I know this pain! I had my gallbladder out when I was 20. The pain just got worse and worse. The way I explained it was I felt like a double sided knife was trying to escape my body through my chest and back simultaneously. I talked to some of my family and three of my aunts and my grandma had theirs removed in their twenties. The doctor I saw in the ER told me I was having muscle spasms and it was as nothing. I begged him to check me for gallstones. He looked me straight in my face and said nope you are to young for gallstones. The next day I went to another hospital in pain and they did an ultrasound and rushed me into emergency surgery because my gallbladder was on the verge of bursting. You will feel so much better after surgery.
They don't give as much pain relief as they used to because of the "opiate crisis." That's why the pain didn't go away when they gave you pain meds. My mom just had a mastectomy and they sent her home the SAME DAY as the surgery with 12 low dosage pain pills. They refused to give her more. It is a nightmare for anyone in pain in America now.
Girl! You will feel so much better after the surgery! I went 3 years with those attacks before the doctors figured it out but it was worth it. Also, I had no weird weight gain, it does affect your digestive system (stay away from fats as much as possible, try to have limited healthy fats) but doesn’t cause weight gain. Thinking of you!
My advice would be to eat low fat foods!! No cheese, no mayo! Even healthy fat won't be good! No nuts! Certain breads can have too high fat in them, such as seeded brown bread or brioche rolls. Yes eat small meals and don't lie down straight after eating. I had my gallbladder out last year and am just left with 4 tiny scars, fading gradually all the time! Good luck with ur surgery! Sending well wishes ur way! X
The waits in the emergency room where I live (Ontario Canada) can be 10 hours or more. No joke.
Yikes! So sorry you were in that much pain but I'm glad you got some answers and have a date set for surgery. Wishing you the best of luck with everything!
Your gallbladders is part of your filtration system. You will have to avoid excessive amount of alcohol and greasy heavy foods. I am sure it effects each person differently.
Hugs, love, peace, and healing! I am so sorry you have been suffering. Positive thoughts being sent your way for a quick and easy recovery. My sister experienced similar symptoms, had her gall bladder removed and has not experienced any bad effects. She is happy she had the surgery. Big hugs and lots of love!
Having my Gallbladder out made me feel 200% better. Besides the pain, I had NO more stomach upset. It’s been 4 years now! Best decision of my life! I’ll be thinking of you! And I didn’t gain ANY weight 🤷🏻♀️. Also, I ate whatever I wanted literally the next day lol. Just heavy creamer bothers me sometimes. And YES you can eat red meat 🤦🏻♀️😂
Yes!! My mother in law was ALWAYS sick to her stomach, like 3 times a week for LITERALLY years. She had her gallbladder out last year and has only got sick to her stomach 2 times in almost a year!!! She said it was the best thing she ever did!!!
So glad that you found out out what was wrong. I'm glad that you shared in case others experience the same issues. I'm wishing you all the best ;)
No offense but I don't think it's fair to blame your weight on your metabolism when you don't track calories. It's really easy to overeat especially as a short female, we have pretty low TDEE's if we don't exercise a ton.
Gabrielle G so sad that this is truth
Pain is the worst I’m so sorry Cassie! I’m glad you’re able to figure out what’s going on and getting it fixed! I have back issues too (broken back and a slew of other issues) so I definitely feel your pain! Sending good vibes and healing thoughts your way!
Wow I'm surprised they are making you wait so long to have it out when you are in so much pain. When my gallbladder went bad I was in so much pain that they took me back to a room immediately and pumped me full of morphine. I had the surgery the next day. The worst pain of my life. The surgery was very easy but for me I felt so good for about a year. But now I have a lot of stomach issues and I think it's because I have no gallbladder now. I'm so bummed that I've back slid again. I hope that it goes well for you. Make sure you keep a pillow on your stomach after the surgery so your cats don't jump on your stomach while you heal. I learned that the very hard way.
I’m sorry to hear this! Good luck with your surgery and wishing you speedy recovery! ❤️
Playback speed 1.5x y’all.
Thank you Cassie. I’m sorry you’re going through this but I’m glad they’re going to make you better. I’m thanking you because you described opioid therapy....you know, the TREATMENT that is very effective with the least amount of side effects (Compared to newer medications and nsaids) but is vilified in the United States thanks to the war on opioids. I’ve been prescribed an opioid for several years for a rare disease which causes severe pain in addition to severe nerve pain and moderate to severe spine and disc pain. You were given one dose and experienced what most chronic pain patients experience...relief WITHOUT FEELING HIGH. You would not believe how important that statement was. Many accuse us of being addicts chasing a high, but the truth is, we are dependent on the medication to experience enough pain relief to get a better quality of life. Dependency and addiction are two entirely different things and not required of each other. So thank you, again, Cassie. And I truly. Hope you get well soon! 😢💗
Oooh when you said 3 hours I couldn't help but laugh because I had to go to the ER last month and seriously waited from 5:30 until almost midnight to see anyone. I hope you have insurance and that everything turns out well!
I'm sorry you're going through this. It sounds so painful. It's good that so many people are sharing their positive experiences in your comments. I hope you find that a little conforting.
I had my gallbladder removed when I was 18. That was 21 years ago and it was the best decision ever. I dealt with the pain for about 2 years before I got it removed. I have to be careful with high fat foods because they will go right through me but at least the pain is gone. I wish you the best of luck with your surgery and I hope you have a speedy recovery. 💜
Wow! I'm so sorry you had to go through all that pain, but I'm super happy you got some answers! You'll do and be just fine. :)
Why are they waiting so long? Shoot, I had mine out in three days from my ER visit.
You were describing the pain and I was like "bitch that's not heartburn, thats the gallblabber" cause its THE WORST PAIN
I've had appendicitis and gallbladder attacks and gallbladder pain IS JUST AS BAD.
Yup, I went through the saaaaame thing as you. Gallbladders are the DEVIL I’m telling you! But the good news is the surgery was the best things that ever happened to me. You’re going to be fine!!!!
Getting my gallbladder out was the best thing I’ve ever done! It’s been at least 7 years. It helped my digestive system become more regular and I didn’t wake up in the middle of the night in pain anymore. I went to the ER just like you. I didn’t have gallstones but they tested to see if my gallbladder was even functioning and it wasn’t so they scheduled me to have it removed in less than a week from my ER visit. It didn’t effect my weight at all I’ve still be able to lose weight. I can still eat anything I want. I’ll be hoping all goes well for you! Love your channel I’ve been watching you for years now! 😊
Cassie a friend of mine actually lost weight after she had her gall bladder removed. Good luck
It is a fairly easy surgery. My husband had to have this done and it was done laparoscopicly and felt immediate relief. It was worth it to him to not have pain. He didn’t gain any weight. My brother in law is able to loose weight and both of them have been able to eat what they want. You will be fine.
Having your gallbladder out is the best thing you’ll do! The recovery on the surgery is far less painful than the gallstones, promise! Stay strong, beautiful friend.
Hi Cassie, I too had my gallbladder out 3 years ago. I do not regret it for one moment.. that pain was excruciating. wishing you a speedy recovery
When you was describing your symptoms I was screaming it’s your gallbladder it’s your gallbladder. All this happened to me exactly like you described. The surgery is pretty fast and easy. Recovery is pretty easy too other than right after your stomach is tight because they pump gas in you and you pass gas like crazy but other than that it’s pretty easy. Good luck love. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
I hate when doctors just brush off how you’re feeling 😡
I got a new IUD inserted and I started getting uncontrollable migraines, 2/3 times a week. I did some research and saw other people having the same problems as me. I then asked TWO different doctors if it could be the IUD causing the migraines. They both said no and said I had “tension beaches” and I continued to get the migraines. Finally I got it removed and the migraines stopped 🤦🏼♀️. It was the hormones causing me to get them. I truly believe you need to listen to your body. If the pain is that bad, something is seriously wrong. So glad you caught these in time! Hoping for a speedy recovery! 💕
A few family members have gone through this pain, it’s no joke :-(
They were able to lose weight after removal. The only problem they have ever experienced after removal is diarrhea/nausea if they eat a very fatty/heavy meal. There are supplements that help with that and does avoid that issue. Best Wishes, hugs 😘❤️❤️
Btw... find a new family doctor who won’t blow you off. I can tell you from experience there are doctors who suck!!
I wish you all the luck in the world. Don't be too disappointed if the recovery is a little harder than the drs say. They tend to play these things down in my experience xx
Girl I feel your pain, literally. Had my 6th attack yesterday, am going to my gp this week to get mine taken out. Good luck!!
Mel Ainscough good luck. It’s worth it!
@@ParchCraftAustralia thank you! My fingers are crossed :P
I’m so thankful you got checked out & are going to get the surgery I’m sending so many positive vibes, you are so so strong , I know Galileo & Fig are being the best cuddle bugs right now ❤️❤️❤️
As an Ultrasound Tech from the beginning of your story I knew it was your gallbladder. Yes you need to have that out since it seems to be stuck in the neck of your gallbladder. And it will cause liver damage if you don’t remove it. I don’t mean to scare you but it’s really important to have the surgery. I get kidney stones so I know your pain. I’m saying a prayer for a quick recovery ♥️
I was thinking the same thing. She got to the oily food bit and I was certain. Mine is a candidate to come out - it's spastic, no rocks but spazy.
You’ll be fine!! :).. i’m sorry you had to endure so much pain, and all the best for the procedure!!
You’re experience is so similar to mine- I was 20 and living in my college dorm. It was only the 2nd attack and we had no idea it was my gallbladder, the previous one we just thought was heartburn or gas. I was studying for an exam and we’d just eaten pizza when my pain started and by midnight I was in an ambulance to the ER and had emergency surgery to remove mine.
My recovery took about a month because of an infection (my stones ruptured the gallbladder which caused this attack) but I didn’t gain any extra weight.
The way it was explained to me, the gallbladder secretes bile into your large intestine to break down fats. Like Dawn dishwashing liquid. if you eat really greasy/oily foods after you have it removed, you’re gonna have some “unfortunate bathroom” visits and maybe a little intestinal discomfort. some folks have the same reaction by eating dairy or spicy foods, but for me it was fatty meats like hamburgers or sausages. (I’m vegan now so no more of that problem). I eat broccoli and cauliflower with no problems too. But, you’ll have to take notice of how you feel after eating different things following your surgery.
The pain of gallstones passing or stuck is worse than childbirth (I’ve also had a child, so I can vouch for that.)
You’ll feel so much better. Positive thoughts for your surgery!
I'm glad you know what it is now and will be getting the surgery needed! Hopefully it will be a quick recovery and fingers crossed for you, no more bad attacks before then!!
I had my gallbladder taken out when I was 11 cause I had gallstones so they decided to take mine out when I had a kidney transplant. I haven't had any issues without having a gallbladder. The only thing is more oily food and spicy food might be harder for you body to process, which in my case just means more trips to the bathroom. I'm sure everything will go well! I hope you don't have any attacks between now and your surgery. Wishing you the best!
Been there done that Cassie, you will feel so much better promise...I’m now recovery from total hip replacement ... don’t worry about anything your going to be just fine❤️
My sister had her gallbladder removed and didn’t gain weight. I wouldn’t worry too much
Cassie I am so grateful for this video. I had the exact symptoms that you have had for the last month or so and had no clue what it was and was kinda scared. Then I saw your video and I thought “ I bet that is what I have, gallbladder problems. “.This passed Thursday I had an attack after lunch so severe I was throwing up constantly which was unusual because I had never thrown up during an attack. My good friend just happened to be at my house during this time and she said get up we are going to the ER. By the time I got to the ER in my small town I was almost delirious kept my eyes closed The whole time. I was there a couple of hour and then placed in an ambulance to be sent to a large metropolitan hospital 85 miles away. Long story short - my gallbladder is out and I am home but I was in the hospital 4 nights. It wasn’t fun. I still have no appetite. Nothing taste good at all but my sister brought me a chocolate shake (that I never drink because I am always trying to lose weight) and it tasted very good. I needed the calories. I noticed that my taste buds were off as smells were off as well. I am still bloated and I am a side sleeper and that is not possible right now. They also said I can eat what I want when I got home. The good thing is I saw a very sensitive side to my husband. He said “I don’t know what I would do without you” and that “our house is not a home without you there”. Nice to hear those words some time. My cocky surgeon said “do you know anything about what is wrong with you?” I said. I had just watched this girl on RUclips talking about she was going through and it was same as me. He just rolled his eyes. LOL. I am surprised you haven’t had surgery yet. I am on the mend and you will feel so much better when it is over. Take care Cassie.
Cassie no offence ,but to call a surgeon a surgery guy it's quite disrespectful. And gallbladder stones have nothing to do with kidney stones ,different composition. Gallbladder sludge and stones usually are more common to overweight and sedentary people. I'm not saying that you can't have other causes (genetic, metabolic etc) but being overweight and eating shitty food are the no.1 main reasons. Take care !
Sorry for the pain you've gone through. It's frustrating that your doctor didn't immediately think something was wrong with your gallbladder, or at least check. That's the first thing I thought of, and I'm not the medical professional. You're a tough cookie, and I'm sure you will be just fine with the surgery. If I can have double jaw surgery and have my face put together with titanium, you can do this! I didn't look anything up before my surgery, because I was already freaking out, and I didn't need other people's negative stories to make it worse (and remember you will only ever hear the few negative and never the million positive). You'll do great!
I had my gallbladder removed last year. Recovery was quick and relatively painless and I feel so much better now. I hope the same for you!
Two months after giving birth to my twins I was diagnosed with gall stones and my appendix had a slow leak. I agree with you. The pain is intense. The removal of my gall bladder was a rather simple procedure. My appendix leak, on the other hand, created further issues. I think you will be so relieved after the removal. It is so comforting to not worry about the painful attacks any more. Additionally, I have gained no weight since.
I am wishing you luck and amazing relief ❤️
I have had many doctors tell me that its all in my head or you just need this antibiotic or this shot and you'll be fine. Yet, you keep getting sick your pain doesn't get better, etc... After decades of doctors I just had to say screw you, I'm finding someone else who knows what they're doing. I'm so glad you didn't have to go through years of trying to figure out what's wrong with your body and you are in my prayers. :)
Cassie! I’m sorry. I hope your health gets better after the surgery! Best wishes! We will see you when your back.
Love & Peace -Eli
I am not even a quarter of the way thru and this sounds like my gall bladder problems. a heating pad on my back worked wonders to make my attacks shorter while I had to wait for surgery.
Also, you need a doctor who takes you seriously. find a new one who is willing to send out for tests to rule other things out before they issue a diagnosis. Seriously. You should not have had to wait that long with your pain for an accurate diagnosis.
Very luckily I was seen immediately in the ER because my attack was at 4am in a small town, I cannot imagine waiting that long with all that pain. I'm happy you got it all figured out!!
I had my gallbladder taken out a month ago and for me I lost weight instead of gaining!
Cassie! Im going through similar frustrations with doctors atm too! I had some tests done and had 2 doctors tell me I have stage 4 metastatic liver cancer, 1 tell me i might and might not, and then yet another say nope the tumors are benign. Poo poo my family history. Poo poo my symptoms. They disregard me and brush me off when I'm desperately trying to get help. I have so many tests and differing opinions and the clock is ticking but they dont seem to care much nor are they moving fast enough.
It IS frustrating. And even more so when you are afraid to argue or debate because they are supposed to be the professionals. They are suppised to be trusted and knowledgable and HELP. And when your only source of help brushes you off as insignificant...
I feel you. You arent alone. Its sad it had to get to this point for you. But I'm glad you are getting the help you need!
Wishing you a speedy recovery!
@@sonyahubbard3226 I was speaking more to the comments Cassie had towards the end of the video about how her doctor disregarded her and made her feel like she was "crazy". I was simply sharing my liver mets story with her as a way to demonstrate that I, too, know the doctor disregard/wrong diagnosis woes.
I have zero experience with gallstones or any other gall woes so I coulsnt relate in that way.
I just wanted her to know that she wasn't alone in her feelings about how her medical care had gone thus far.
Sorry if I was unclear about that.
Hi Cassie! Had mine taken out 11 years ago. I remember the pain being so bad I slapped my doctors hands away when he was examining me. He was like "yeah, something is going on". lol
My grandmother, my mom and daughter all had theirs out. After the surgery there will be some discomfort but it will be so much less than the pain from the gall bladder/stone. I feel you are in good hands with your surgeon, I hope you have a speedy recovery and everything goes as it should!
I too had mine out after 4 years of enduring horrific gallstone attacks ... yes I was stupid and lucky I got through ok. Had it out. Overnight stay and have never once had any negative effect ... it was so easy and didn’t even hurt a couple of days. I kid you not. If I had my time over I would never have waited. I empathise completely. You will be a new Cassie. Didn’t change weight after nor have to eat anything remotely different. Lol I have my stones in a jar in the back of the fridge. Good luck Cassie... hugs Lindy x
Cassie, I am sure everything will be alright. It is pretty typical operation.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, Cassie! I had my gall bladder removed 5 years ago now and I haven’t had many issues post-removal at all. My recovery was only bad because the painkillers they prescribed me made me nauseous and throwing up with holes in your abdomen is obviously not pleasant 🙈 But all the issues I had before are gone and I haven’t had any issues with gaining weight. There are a handful of foods that will really upset my stomach now (mostly greasy things), but other than that, all is well! Just thought you might want to hear a positive experience 😊 I’ll be thinking of you and sending happy thoughts for a quick and easy recovery!
I had my gall bladder out after my first child 7 years ago. When you started explaining the pain and the symptoms, I was like yup! Gall bladder. My pains were like someone cut my air ways off at my diaphragm and the pain lasted all day until I had to throw up the complete contents of my stomach so there was nothing making my gall bladder produce the extra acid to pump into my stomach. I had the sludge. My sister had hers out after her first child too.
I would honestly rather child birth/ labour pains over the gall bladder attacks.
Vannessa- Elizabeth yesss!! I would much rather go through labor 10 times in a row than have another gallbladder attack. I to got my gallbladder removed after my daughter was born 9 years ago.
I am so happy that you found out what was wrong. I think knowing what it is helps you get ready and does ease ones mind. Good luck with the surgery..
The moment you started describing the pain, I thought: gall stones. Because I know that pain! Mine was a little different (severe back pain only) and I knew exactly what it was when it first happened (when I was on vacation!) because my mom had it. I've had my gall bladder removed and I'm so happy I did. Things didn't go back to normal immediately, but after a couple of months everything was good. The surgery wasn't a big deal and recovery was pretty easy. I've never heard anything about weight gain - but there's a lot of BS out there on the internet. I would stay away and trust your surgeon. :)
Amber Porter my pain was in my back too. I ended up in er 3 x before they figured it was my gallbladder.
Diarrhea is very common for up to one year after the surgery.
Renee Kerner Absolutely, unfortunately I went on to develop IBS but still so much better than those attacks. Awful!
I live in the UK and I had to wait 8 hours in accident and emergency 😅
I had mine out in 2014 and remember the attacks well, incredibly painful. Had to wait about 6 months for surgery and by that time, I couldn’t wait to get out so I wasn’t nervous, I was excited! You will be absolutely fine, just take recovery steady and rest, rest, rest! Buscopan was good for helping my pain...used to take that and a load of painkillers then wait an hour, throw up and it would start to ease off. I did lose a fair amount of weight as I was terrified of eating anything with more than 2% fat but it soon came back. I hope Figaro and Galileo are looking after you, my cat used to lie next to me, place himself so his tail was in my hand and let me hold his tail for comfort while I cried until it was over. Surgery is really routine for this so you’ll be in good, practices hands, get well soon xx
Mine was so bad, I was hemorrhaging in my gallbladder. The night I went into the ER they removed it that same time. Im shocked they're making you wait
Cass, I had my gallbladder removed in 2014 and I have always struggled with my weight (getting my gallbladder removed didn't affect it at all) but I will say over time I developed something (that not everyone does) where now when I eat something that's greasy I don't have enough bile (some stored in your gallbladder) to break it down and I will later throw up said meal. But once I figure that out (and yes I spoke with my doctor about it), I just lowered fat/grease and don't have a problem anymore. You got this! It's not horrible.
Girl...I had Gallstones 12 years ago and that pain is NO JOKE. My God it hurts!! Let me tell you though, it doesn’t compare to child birth lmao that was something I was so curious about when I got pregnant and when I went into labor, yeah...not even close lol child birth is way worse.
When I had my stones, my gallbladder was also full of stones so I sure understand your pain. So glad you’re getting surgery because it makes such a huge difference!!! Good luck 💕💕
Hang in there Cassie! I’m sorry that you are going through this, yet I’m happy that your health issue is is “fixable “ and not something that is really bad. It saying that this gallbladder thing is bad, but you will be well again!♥️♥️♥️
Cassie, I feel for you! From the start I knew it was gunna be the gallbladder, only because I had a very similar experience to you, and ended up having emergency surgery. I also had the "sludge" from having so many, and I shared a lot of the worries you did. I hope that I can help you ease some nervousness - The surgery itself especially with the scopes, is very non invasive and the holes made are tiny. They probably won't even require a stitch, just medical tape for a few days. Everyone is different, but generally the surgery is quick and handled well. My cousin was off to Vegas two days after her surgery lol. I always had a slow metabolism, and the surgery did not affect my ability to lose weight - in fact, I lost a lot more afterwards! I still eat my favourite greens and broccoli a few times a week, with no issue. Shoot me a message if you have any questions, I'll be happy to help! I hope you're feeling better today, and that you recovery quickly from all of this, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. 🖤 All my love!
Good luck, Cassie! We’re all rooting for you for a safe surgery and a speedy recovery!! ❤️❤️❤️
As soon as you started talking about your symptoms I had a feeling it was your gallbladder...I work in a general surgeon office and we see alot of people that need a cholecystectomy.
I had my gallbladder out about 2 years ago, it will all be okay! The recovery thankfully is not too bad. You have a few little incisions but nothing crazy! You'll do fine, keep a positive mindset! The same thing happened to me at urgent care but they saw how much pain I was in and rushed me into the first open room and then I had to go in an ambulance to the ER; not fun! But it will feel so much better after surgery! Definitely have to be extra careful with fried or fatty foods cause no joke, that will go RIGHT through you! Wishing you and healthy and speedy recovery!!!
Hi Cassie! I had the same thing and currently still dealing with it, I have had multiple attacks and after a 12 hour attack I went into the ER where they didn't believe me too lol. I knew it was my gallbladder because of past attacks, got an ultrasound and found a 1.6cm stone (huge) and ended shooting me up with fentanyl (the strongest drug they can legally give) I am not a pansy when it comes to pain and it is always at a 10 unbearable everytime it happens. You can get an attack from not eating for a certain period of time and then eating something with fat in it (your gallbladder secretes bile to break down fat and when there is an overload of bile that is being blocked it causes that jarring pain) I haven't had an attack for roughly 8 months, drinking apple cider vinegar every single day to help dissolve the cholesterol based stone. It's a very complicated problem to have! I kick myself for starving myself so often and then eating not the greatest, that's what gave the stone a chance to increase in size since I was not eating there was no bile being produced to break down the food. I do not wish the pain on anyone, the only thing that helps is laying in the bathtub to get the pressure off, trying to stomach eating crackers and drinking apple cider vinegar. I hope all is well and that your surgery goes amazing! I need to get mine out too but am so nervous 😂 Love ya Cass, stay strong! I'm going through it too we will get through it together! ❤
As soon as you started describing your pain, I thought it was gallbladder. I started having pains after my first pregnancy but they did mimic heartburn. Then during my second pregnancy, I ended up in the ER with the same issues as you. Needless to say, I had my gallbladder removed at 20 weeks pregnant because it was endangering my daughter. All is well now, she's almost 9 years old now. You'll feel so much better within a few days! The relief from pain was immediate. During the first few years after surgery, I did find I had a few trigger foods that caused me to be the bathroom immediately after eating- large amounts of iceberg lettuce and broccoli were mine. Now I can eat those things without many issues. I also need to make sure I eat SOMETHING within an hour or two of waking up or the first thing I eat will upset my stomach- no matter what it is. It might take a few years for everything to regulate, but I promise you it's worth it!!!
I lost 50 lbs after getting mine out. I was 16 having pains like that 100% worth the recovery time. Went to the beach the next week!
Do you mean you lost weight by dieting after getting it removed or as a result of getting it removed?
I'm glad they found out what was wrong with you and i hope your surgery goes well. Wishing you a speedy recovery Cassie. Abdominal pain is just the worst! Xx
While you were talking I thought gallbladder. I had mine out 11 years ago, when I had an attack all I could do was lay on the floor moaning in pain. My friend felt intense back pain & she'd go to the chiropractor for it because she didn't know it was her gallbladder until she needed emergency surgery to take the gallbladder out.
Funny enough, I just finished watching a John Oliver show about how women & black people aren't taken very seriously by dr's. I realize dr's are only human & can make mistakes but if you tell your dr it's the worst pain you've ever felt, they should take that seriously. Also, the first time I had an attack, I legit thought I was dying.
Good luck. Had mine out almost 20yrs ago (at 22) unfortunately it wasn't the root cause of the pain that has partially disabled me. It helped me, there was pain reduction, but the rest of the pain was/is so much worse. Biggest thing, I hope you have learned that you have to be proactive with your medical care. The doctors don't & can't know everything. Primary Dr's have no choice (most of the time) than look for the easy answer and move on to the next patient. Always push for a second look, specialist, etc. If you feel that something is wrong.
Fire your MD that told you it was heartburn! She should have done more testing!
Many symptoms in the Gastro intestinal system can overlap and the gallbladder in the a area of the stomach, so on initial visit, the diagnosis he made is not unreasonable. If she had gone back and told him that the medication was not working, then the next step would have been further investigation. It depends on whether she went back or not. Just so you know, I'm a doctor.
Girl. I went 9 years with my foot going from dark purple, to bright red... Burning on fire feeling like someone was jackhammering my bone, to ice cold and feeling like I had frostbite. Not a single doctor or surgeon or specialist knew what was wrong with me, and even though they could see ok something was going on, they couldn't figure it out and treated me like crap! Finally 3 1/2 almost 4 years ago I found a doctor who knew exactly what is wrong with me. Sadly, had they figured it out sooner I could have gone into remission, but because it took 9 years it's extremely hard if not impossible to treat. I have crps and I'm in 10 pain, if not worse every single day of my life. It's rated as #1 on the mcgill pain scale. It is awful to be in pain and have the one person who's supposed to help you just blow you off. It was so bad that at times I've contimpated taking my life. I couldn't go to the er because they never figured it out and only looked at me like I was some drug addict, so I stopped going all together because I got tired of being looked at sideways even though my foot would be almost black! Thankfully I have a doctor now who actually cares about me.
I had my gallbladder out a couple years ago and I was having the same symptoms. I am praying your surgery is successful and you feel better!!!! :)
I’m glad you got this taken care of. Sending prayers and good vibes your way for a speedy recovery.
I'm so glad that you are going to be okay! Sending lots of love, Cassie!
Hey Cassie! I’m so sorry to hear that you’re having such a hard time with your gallbladder. But I’m sure as you can tell from the other comments that getting your gallbladder out is a very chill procedure. I would consult your surgeon about your weight worries, but I don’t think you will have any issues. I’m on OR nurse, so I am in gallbladder surgeries probably 50 times a week lol. Almost all gallbladder surgeries are laparoscopic which makes your recovery soooo much quicker. Anyway if you have any questions at all about what happens intraoperatively feel free to reach out. You’ll feel so much better after you get that thing out!