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  • @fashionjunkie4198
    @fashionjunkie4198 2 месяца назад +13

    I think it’s okay to not care what anyone thinks about you because really who cares. But people tend to use that as an excuse to neglect their health, hygiene and lifestyle. I think you should still love yourself and present yourself the way you want to, to the world but also not at the expense of yourself.

  • @simplythebestgirl
    @simplythebestgirl 3 месяца назад +90

    I'm 46 and 230 pounds and I gave up on myself, so not giving a f can be bad too. 😢

  • @larkfly9273
    @larkfly9273 3 месяца назад +103

    i get what you're saying. i respectfully disagree. i think that the moment you truly stop caring is the moment you don't feel like there's any chance you even could look cute anymore.
    we can tell ourselves all day long that it's confidence to not care, and of course it's a balance thing, but think of yourself when you were at your most comfortable weight, had the best skin, the best hair and so on: at that time, you WANTED to dress up and do your makeup etc.

    • @moxiejju7014
      @moxiejju7014 3 месяца назад +22

      Not caring about what others think of you while just being yourself and letting yourself go completely are two entirely different things

    • @larkfly9273
      @larkfly9273 3 месяца назад +4

      @@moxiejju7014 i agree with you, i was trying to get my take on it across

    • @achka2043
      @achka2043 3 месяца назад +7

      @@moxiejju7014exactly! Taking care of yourself, finding yourself cute and don’t care about what others think is true self love. Don’t taking care of yourself, living isolated without any friend are true signs of depression 😢

  • @iamamnesia
    @iamamnesia 3 месяца назад +75

    i once heard someone say “the coolest thing a person can be is unabashedly themselves” and that really stuck with me

    • @angelh3771
      @angelh3771 3 месяца назад +2

      @@iamamnesia it's so true!!!!

  • @jessicajennifer9827
    @jessicajennifer9827 3 месяца назад +35

    Depression is a SOB

  • @Always_hangry91
    @Always_hangry91 3 месяца назад +15

    I’m sorry, but I have to say this: I live in the Netherlands and here the equivalent of pyjama pants are the jeans. Never seen anyone here wear pj’s or sweat pants doing their groceries/running errands. I have never done it either. Sweat pants and pj’s are more like home “attire”. I guess in Europe trends are bit different than in the US.

    • @achka2043
      @achka2043 2 месяца назад

      @@Always_hangry91 Zeker weten! Dit zouden we NOOIT zien in Europa. Amerikanen zijn nu eenmaal sloddervossen in vergelijking met Europeanen. Tenminste grotendeels.

  • @AnonningAnon
    @AnonningAnon 3 месяца назад +54

    My friend, I have followed you for years now. I want you to know that whenever you stop caring, a part of you dies and it's hard to get it back. You have to care for yourself, to lift yourself and convince yourself that you CAN do what you put your mind and body to. Don't give up on yourself. Fuck everyone else. Your well being matters.

  • @faves000
    @faves000 3 месяца назад +20

    care for yourself , because the moment you stop caring….

  • @2102mandaod
    @2102mandaod 3 месяца назад +31

    It really is a compliment that we all watch and love your videos because of who you are & that you are “ one of us” not with fillers, hair extensions & promoting things every 2 minutes for cash that don’t work. Real knows real. I’m so glad you have this fantastic attitude ❤️

    • @Jas2077
      @Jas2077 3 месяца назад +1

      I'm new here and I agree!!! 🥰

  • @brittbladeVA
    @brittbladeVA 3 месяца назад +21

    I also didn't give af. I was much larger than I was this time last year. I got weight loss surgery because I was tired of being fat and tired. Now my depression is gone along with 160 lbs, and I actually LOVE clothes shopping now. I'm an adult that can now live my cute goth fantasy and FEEL GOOD about it. As much as it feels "freeing" to give up...don't ever give up trying to feel beautiful in your own skin.

  • @angelajohnson7834
    @angelajohnson7834 3 месяца назад +17

    There is this woman that comes into my job pretty regularly and she is so adorable I always say I wanna be her when I grow up even though I'm probably at least 10 years older than her. She just dresses so cute and kinda maximalist and I love it.

  • @mosicas6754
    @mosicas6754 3 месяца назад +6

    Train your brain or you will never be able to put 1 foot in front of the other….. coming from someone with chronic pain, we have quit teaching people how powerful their thoughts are. I’d rather go back to the different time where everyone isn’t such a victim, wasn’t so emotional and focused more on success rather than living in their failures.

  • @kristinesanta6971
    @kristinesanta6971 3 месяца назад +36

    I'm so sorry you feel like all the times you cared about the way look was somehow considered in your mind as "performing". That's not performing. That was giving a shit and now you don't and that's o.k. You don't have to make any excuses for it. Period.

    • @Shinyeeveelutions
      @Shinyeeveelutions 3 месяца назад +29

      I rewatch her old videos regularly and in my mind she wasn't performing, she just cared, like you said

  • @Heaven_v
    @Heaven_v 3 месяца назад +25

    I like the sentiment, but I’m not fully buying it. “Look good feel good” goes a long way in my opinion. Theres value in putting yourself together everyday. It’s amazing if you’re truly happy in your own skin and body, but if you aren’t it’s okay to change too. Just as long as you’re doing it for yourself and nobody else. I feel like the internet is protesting against beauty and femininity lately.

    • @electricbop
      @electricbop 3 месяца назад +5

      I think the point is to wear what makes you happy and makes you feel good, not for others. That’s going to be objective. You can never satisfy the world. I’m in my 40s and I don’t care either. If I feel good about myself that’s all that matters

  • @amymac41890
    @amymac41890 Месяц назад +1

    I love that you don’t give a shit anymore what others think! I, myself, dress well and put myself together each day because it makes ME feel good!

  • @Veilfire
    @Veilfire Месяц назад +2

    Same! I just can't bring myself to care about much anymore. Of course I am a little obsessive about hygiene personally (other people constantly tell me how good I smell), but makeup/hair/cute outfit? I just can't be bothered most days.

  • @sarahharbin6949
    @sarahharbin6949 3 месяца назад +15

    I don’t feel that what not to wear was all bad, I feel like sometimes the people on the show were depressed, had low self esteem. And it maybe did them some good to show them they are worth taking care of themselves, not for other people but for themselves. I also loved this show.

  • @Lesly0122
    @Lesly0122 3 месяца назад +32

    Yay! An old school makeup chit chat video ❤ OMG I used to love watching What Not To Wear. I also watched hopping I would be stopped and got a makeover, but thinking about it we are all unique and shouldn’t conform to society standards. I can’t wait for the reboot with a twist.

  • @Michelle-qu7rv
    @Michelle-qu7rv 3 месяца назад +54

    It is a fine line between 'not caring' and unhealthy.

    • @savannahspades9713
      @savannahspades9713 Месяц назад +6

      There’s also a fine line between shaming someone into action and letting them live their lives for themselves. It seems like you’ve been shamed for being yourself and I feel sorry for you. Being unapologetically yourself is healthier, and much different than “not caring.”

    • @Michelle-qu7rv
      @Michelle-qu7rv Месяц назад +1

      @@savannahspades9713 lol. I do care about my health. Never been shamed. I do it because I understand the importance of good health. And I think it is likely you with the low self esteem. I feel sorry for your miserable little life. Nearly all the comments are saying the same thing as I did. Yet you chose to bully me. Sad.

  • @cheesecake230
    @cheesecake230 3 месяца назад +7

    I absolutely loved and still love what not to wear! The people that are on the show, agreed to be on the show. I also don’t understand why so many people say it’s wrong to want others to think you look nice? Why is that so wrong?

  • @lucygresham3012
    @lucygresham3012 3 месяца назад +14

    As a 50 yr old that still dresses like a 90s metalhead with splashes of goth...can i say "dress who you are not who you think you want to be "❤

  • @Tas--
    @Tas-- 3 месяца назад +85

    Sounds like depression.

    • @SuperNixypixy
      @SuperNixypixy 3 месяца назад +7

      100%

    • @savannahspades9713
      @savannahspades9713 Месяц назад +3

      Sounds like someone’s diagnosing another from behind a screen. That’s just as depressing.

  • @BeaLucile
    @BeaLucile 3 месяца назад +42

    As a therapist, I mostly agree, with the caveat of it greatly depends on the meaning behind/root under the "I dont give a F" for the person. Sometimes it can be a very positive & authentic thing, and sometimes it can be a protective shield or a way to deflect difficult pills to swallow.
    I love todays makeup look - it's so fun!
    Now im excited to see that reboot too! Ill have to look it up. Thanks for telling us about it! I enjoyed this chatty GRWM! ❤

    • @SimplyMeezy
      @SimplyMeezy 3 месяца назад +11

      100% agree. I went through an IDGAF phase and I was just blocking everything out and refusing to care about anything. I was in a super dark place and was trying to protect myself

    • @BeaLucile
      @BeaLucile 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Sarah-with-an-H perkin' alright & hope you are too! 😊

    • @BeaLucile
      @BeaLucile 3 месяца назад +1

      @SimplyMeezy Aw, I'm sorry you went through that kind of phase - many of us do at some point. It sounds like you had some level of self-awareness about it & that you may have grown beyond it a bit. That's no easy feat, so I hope you're proud of your steps forward, whatever they may be. I hope you're feeling better - big hugs to you!

    • @Nikibaby74
      @Nikibaby74 3 месяца назад +1

      I feel like what you meant was you don’t give a eff to dress to appease others. Not that you don’t give an eff to look and feel good for yourself.
      As people are saying in the comments to give up is not good. To not be clean and presentable is one thing. To not dress for others and what they think is pretty is another.
      Yes as we get older we give less and less shits about what others think of us in ways.
      You would not want to go out stinking to high hell of BO and have super smelly greasy hair and unbrushed teeth. That’s a whole different kind of not giving an eff. Good hygiene is still and always will be a must. Now I don’t mean shower everyday and be overly groomed. Just not stinking and grimy.
      You look happy and healthy.

  • @eurasiansensation1
    @eurasiansensation1 Месяц назад +3

    This video was uncomfortable to watch..

  • @gardenhappy4
    @gardenhappy4 3 месяца назад +4

    Queer Eye's Tan France also guided people on how to find clothes that suited them. My recollection is that most people did not know what to buy, what looked good on them, where to shop, and liked the coaching. I remember that "What Not to Wear" was much more intense, but both shows seemed to focus on calling out people's bad self-care.

    • @878lulu
      @878lulu 3 месяца назад +2

      Yup and that they were worthy of self care and nice things.

  • @Nico-c3c
    @Nico-c3c 3 месяца назад +11

    I must say I never thought I would be happy to be old ! I am Gen X and I feel like we were the last generation to be able to escape all the propaganda that is designed to make us think that spending mucho $$$$$$$$$$$$ will somehow make us happy. IT IS ALL BS !!!!

  • @brendapeterson4637
    @brendapeterson4637 3 месяца назад +65

    Cassie, the I don't give a F comes with age !!! I never dressed for anybody else. I always dressed nice but always for myself. You have to be pleased with yourself and you now are. Welcome to the I don't give a F club.😊😊😊😊😊

  • @MissKD_Kat_MN
    @MissKD_Kat_MN 3 месяца назад +1

    I also watched the show back in the day. My anxiety made me fill so sorry for these people. I would have been mortified to think someone went into my closet. Touched my clothes and then decided what I should wear and how I should look. Cookie cutter style. I may not be a style maven, but my skin fits

  • @heatherrae901
    @heatherrae901 3 месяца назад +7

    That eyeliner looks so good on you!!! This is probably my favorite video, especially for those of us who mask or worry about how we’re perceived by others. Great video, great chat.

  • @dalindav
    @dalindav 3 месяца назад +9

    I watched that show faithfully!!! It was kind of brutal sometimes! I always thought well when you’re home you’re not gonna be wearing blazers and heels.. they never really showed much casual wear… Glad they’re going to team up again though with maybe a different approach… Have a great Sunday Cassie ♥️

  • @BJ-yy6ei
    @BJ-yy6ei 3 месяца назад +2

    Ppl really not getting the message of the video. I love ur take on things, and always have. Always love seeing u post…been watching since i was a freshie in hs; im 25 now

  • @Rachaelbeeartwork
    @Rachaelbeeartwork 3 месяца назад +2

    Love this video. When I was younger, I was obsessed with looking perfect at all times. I wasted so much of my life worrying about it. Now (as a 35 year old), I couldn’t care less in the best way. I’ve discovered who I am, what I love and what I want to put my energy into. Looking like society’s idea of the perfect woman is not something I want to waste this life doing!

  • @sarahp8937
    @sarahp8937 3 месяца назад +8

    The what not to wear UK was brutal..you should see some of those clips..I loved the show too but my word. They were brutal..

    • @Aliciae411
      @Aliciae411 3 месяца назад +1

      I watched and loved this show as a child. The fact I didn’t even realise it was wrong is crazy 😂 I got the book and everything.

  • @rhianonmorris5367
    @rhianonmorris5367 3 месяца назад +1

    this is definitely a mindset that i have been trying to develop. it can be so difficult, especially as a woman in this society. others seem to think that our worth is completely tied to our looks, and that is simply not true. i have decided to stop giving a shit about what people think of me - i act the way i feel, i don't hide my interests or my exuberance anymore. i feel so much more free when i also just don't give a fuck what people think. the people who see the real you and stay are the ones that are meant to be there. and you're right! we only have one life and ourselves through it all. other people can come and go. i really only need to focus on making myself happy, everyone else is either a plus (or not). relationships (romantic or platonic), looks, these things are fleeting. our thoughts, our minds, are our true home. i would rather think about and focus on the things that make me happy than what other people think of me.

  • @kristineolsen477
    @kristineolsen477 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi! I'm going through the same thing and I'm 59yrs old. This is my new mantra, "Start where you are!" Cheers to you Cassie!
    Your friend Kristine

  • @leighflorkevich9916
    @leighflorkevich9916 3 месяца назад +3

    I used to love that show too. I am waay older than you, in fact, today is my 68th birthday. If there was anything I could tell my younger self it's wear whatever the eff you want, eat whatever you want (within reason, we want to be healthy) and just be your dang self! It's a shame we don't get that much earlier in life because we waste so much time worrying about how we look!

  • @larissahostetter2335
    @larissahostetter2335 3 месяца назад +3

    I find it crazy that when you first get to know someone and you don't find them at all cute. But then you find out that they have such a great humor, and has a great personality and all the traits we women want, its crazy how they become attractive to you. I mean one minute you're like no I want that person and then the next your like hmmm maybe lol. That happened to me once.

  • @jennw1128
    @jennw1128 3 месяца назад +5

    I remember Denise. Her slogan was, "Don't just bring it, BLING IT!"

  • @sara.allegra
    @sara.allegra 3 месяца назад +23

    You've just gotten complacent because you're in a relationship. If you were still looking for a man, you would care.

    • @MarieJohanna760
      @MarieJohanna760 2 месяца назад

      So you just dress for man ? Thats sad too

  • @melaniescott4214
    @melaniescott4214 3 месяца назад

    We are the same age and honestly, here I am folding my clothes nodding along in agreement to what you are saying. It's like having a chat with a good friend, putting the world to right. Focusing on being better people. Love it ❤️

  • @cherrykokomo
    @cherrykokomo 3 месяца назад +1

    This is how I'm finding out about the reboot and I'm obsessed with the more modern mindset they're approaching it with!!!

  • @achka2043
    @achka2043 3 месяца назад +14

    This is typically American to have people going to the grocery shop in pjs. I feel this isn’t showing respect to the staff of the store to show up like that and also reflects were you sit on the social ladder. You would never see that in EU. People are casual, but mostly they take care on how they look with their own style. As said my view as an European.

  • @kristindoehling4144
    @kristindoehling4144 3 месяца назад +15

    A sign of desperation is letting your personal hygiene go.

  • @RubiesChannel
    @RubiesChannel 3 месяца назад

    I use to love that show!! I’m excited about a reboot. There use to be a show the look for less where there was a picture you would shop for to recreate the look. I just love stuff like that!

  • @NicoleDGC
    @NicoleDGC 3 месяца назад +79

    Most people who dress sloppy outside their homes are not happy with themselves. Please don’t give up, Cassie.

    • @jessicajennifer9827
      @jessicajennifer9827 3 месяца назад +21

      Agree. It's like a sign of defeat

    • @ifloetic
      @ifloetic 3 месяца назад +20

      or they are comfortable and don't care what others think about them? sounds like a win to me

    • @sunitasingh-oo9mz
      @sunitasingh-oo9mz 3 месяца назад +9

      Well I usually dress very casually daily as I can't afford the time and effort involved but I'm far from depressed and love to dress up for occasions! I think it can differ from person to person.😊

    • @nowey2251
      @nowey2251 3 месяца назад +3

      I think she dresses good! She just posted a week of outfits and I think they all looked great

    • @TheWitchsRattle
      @TheWitchsRattle 2 месяца назад +1

      That's a bold assertion to make.

  • @grandmimm
    @grandmimm 3 месяца назад +6

    Yoga ball? 7:00 Hello from Chilliwack BC Canada, I to suffer from anorexia, body dismorphia (sp?), agoraphobia, anxiety & depression, i am 60yrs old & find it really hard to function most days, i so enjoyed todays video, i thank-you so much for it

    • @heatherrae901
      @heatherrae901 3 месяца назад +3

      That’s a helluva combination right there, I am so sorry. I wondered if I was agoraphobic when I was young but it was never the fear of being out of my house and more so the fear of social interaction. It has persisted my entire life.

  • @sheenahewitt044
    @sheenahewitt044 3 месяца назад

    Hey Cassie!! I’m looking to dive back into wearing a bit of makeup again and I’ve always trusted your opinion. What’s your favourite CC cream? 😊

  • @JessyGroen
    @JessyGroen 3 месяца назад

    How funny I actually still do that with the moving fabrics that feel nice along my cuticle and nails , and it definitly soothes me xD I used to do it while sucking my thumb which I stopped doing later in life.

  • @suzanne296
    @suzanne296 3 месяца назад +14

    I like Cassie. She's real and no bs. At 62 I wear what I want. Life is short.

  • @adriville5927
    @adriville5927 3 месяца назад +1

    I loved that show too, I was a teenager when it aired. I remember a.woman who kept her style and she loved whimsical fairytale mixed pattern clothes.

  • @rosielarson4478
    @rosielarson4478 3 месяца назад

    Do you remember th adorable little woman who wore fairy wings all the time? She looked heartbroken when they took away all her wings. It was so sad and she was so cute. The wings suited her personality. Why take away something that makes a person so happy?! Right? I loved the show too though.😌💗

  • @Aristaifly
    @Aristaifly 3 месяца назад +53

    I think people who wear pjs in public don't care about themselves at all, hence they don't care what other think. Def not someone to adore. But then again... american thing

    • @natalierose1072
      @natalierose1072 3 месяца назад +9

      Are you American? It actually comes from being a extremely individualistic society. We don't aim to confirm just for the sake of polite society. Plus we are over worked and stressed. Literally no one cares if you wear clean pjs to the store or air port. It's an elitist mindset to think otherwise

    • @angelh3771
      @angelh3771 3 месяца назад +16

      ​@@natalierose1072it's not elitist but that's exactly what she wants others to think. She doesn't like herself very much n thinks if she puts on this air that others will think she's elite n in her mind that's a good thing n makes her feel a bit better about herself. Very sad. 😢

    • @nicoledevine85
      @nicoledevine85 3 месяца назад +18

      I am an American and I agree that being “dressed” in pjs is just gross. You look sloppy and like you don’t care about yourself. You can still look put together and be comfortable, I feel like people are so polarized.

    • @Jessica-rf7lv
      @Jessica-rf7lv 3 месяца назад +3

      It's not an American thing. I live in one of the larger US cities, and shop at a broad spectrum of stores (urban, suburban, etc) . And I've never seen anyone in pajamas. Unless, it's pajama day at my elementary school.

    • @angelh3771
      @angelh3771 3 месяца назад

      @@nicoledevine85 My PJs do not make me look gross or sloppy!! I look sexy in my PJs. I've never seen anybody look gross or sloppy in PJs. Most likely it's that YOU wear sloppy n gross PJs. 🤔🤔

  • @ana_22_74
    @ana_22_74 3 месяца назад +3

    Some comments are saying not caring is unhealthy bla bla bla. Fuck them. I think what you mean is……. You are ACCEPTING yourself now a days. Yes it’s not giving a fuck anymore. But taking care of yourself and not caring what others think means you are accepting who you are as a person and I think that’s actually a healthy lifestyle. Taking care of yourself and not giving a fuck what anyone says about what you look like. As long as you’re a kind hearted person which you are. And live healthy eat good, yes sometimes we eat junky omg it’s the end of the world lol. Just be you. And that’s to anyone. If anyone reading is actually physically or mentally unhealthy then yes, care about those things and take care of yourself. But what I see in you Cassie is your just accepting yourself for who you are and it takes a long time to achieve it and finally find it when you (like me) fall out of it. It’s a process. People need to chill

  • @bulletsfrank
    @bulletsfrank 3 месяца назад

    this video uplifted my mood a ton, really! i struggle with my mental health and issues regarding self-esteem, and i hope i can capture the essence of "i don't give an F" more with time. its happy to see you feeling free and more comfy in your own skin, you deserve it 💓

  • @dalilagee90
    @dalilagee90 3 месяца назад

    I’m excited about that reboot show. I loved that show too! And I love hearing you ramble. It’s great to hear someone so down to earth and do a GRWM that is a normal makeup look and not so glammed up. And yes yes yes to not giving a f***. Thanks for the insight Cassie.

  • @7arboreal
    @7arboreal 3 месяца назад +3

    The original of that show was British and the presenters were Trinny and Suzannah. In one episode Trinny made a woman take off her knickers on camera!

    • @heatherrae901
      @heatherrae901 3 месяца назад +2

      Wow!! The level of inappropriateness aired on television back in the day was a wild time

    • @angelh3771
      @angelh3771 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@heatherrae901Back in the day? How bout right now!!? Lol 😮

    • @heatherrae901
      @heatherrae901 3 месяца назад +1

      @@angelh3771 You have a point! I’ve seen some stuff I never thought I’d see on television and social media here in the last few years.

    • @angelh3771
      @angelh3771 3 месяца назад

      @@heatherrae901 it's crazy sometimes 😂🤦🤦

  • @susanp1492
    @susanp1492 Месяц назад

    I’m so happy for you and you look wonderful. It’s been great to see you grow all these years

  • @larissahostetter2335
    @larissahostetter2335 3 месяца назад

    What Not To Wear was something that my mom and I would watch. There were a couple other programs after that or before that we also watched. So I will have to tell her about this!

  • @quester09
    @quester09 3 месяца назад +8

    best takeaway from WNTW: if your clothes fit, you will look and feel your best.
    easier said than done.

  • @thetransparentjerseygirl
    @thetransparentjerseygirl 3 месяца назад +1

    Im in my 40s and my i Dont give an F is a beautiful thing!!!! Im comfortable w myself and who i am!!! I will always physically take care of myself but as far as what anyone thinks about my appearance or clothing choices ...I DONT GIVE A F&$K !!!!! 🫶🏽‼️😁

  • @Fawn0001
    @Fawn0001 3 месяца назад +18

    If you are in a conservative profession (finance or banking) then you are expected to look "normal" or you will not be respected and passed over for promotions. But if you are in a creative profession (fashion) then you can express yourself more. If you are self employed or dont work then you can just not give a F. There is some risk to just being yourself though. People can laugh at you behind your back, which is very hurtful if you find out. People can be hyper judgmental. I think the goal should be to look as attractive as you can look and like you care about yourself.

  • @angeliarossett5934
    @angeliarossett5934 3 месяца назад +5

    I bought a pair of black leather sling back kitten heal pointy toe dress shoes worn with wide leg dark wash denim because of them😂 they were the $h¡t!

  • @pamalalawsonjones7414
    @pamalalawsonjones7414 3 месяца назад

    I like where you're headed. I've had the same thoughts the past couple of months. Thanks, Cassie.

  • @TheWitchsRattle
    @TheWitchsRattle 2 месяца назад +4

    If these comments tell me anything, it's that RUclips is still the single most toxic social media platform on the internet. I'm sorry you have to read so many armchair diognostics about depression and self-esteem. Sigh.

  • @kaydimarco2802
    @kaydimarco2802 3 месяца назад +5

    Yay!! I love your chatty grwm videos!
    Thank you so much for uploading 💕👏🏼

  • @kimc555
    @kimc555 3 месяца назад +7

    The concept of ‘dressing flattering’ is so harmful. I don’t need to make anyone more comfortable with seeing my body.
    And I haven’t worn makeup hardly since Jan 2024. It used to be my escape from stress.

    • @kimc555
      @kimc555 3 месяца назад +4

      @@Sarah-with-an-H if that’s what you like and want to wear, awesome. But trying to conform to make others more comfortable is a slippery slope.

  • @sarahp8937
    @sarahp8937 3 месяца назад +2

    Snog marry avoid was also fun. I love a makeover show..most of the time they looked like train wrecks at the end and went back to their old fashion 😂

  • @emily12667
    @emily12667 3 месяца назад +4

    Hi Cassie! I hope everything is going okay ❤️ excited to watch!

  • @hedymills1372
    @hedymills1372 3 месяца назад

    I saw that show a couple of times. I thought it was kinda mean. Why in the heck does anyone care what a person wears! I have always dressed for myself. Plus.. I don't really consider those comfy pants marketed as lounge pants to be pajamas. I don't think I've ever seen anyone out and about in actual pajamas.

  • @sarahdendron
    @sarahdendron 3 месяца назад +2

    Omg same about blazers in middleschool because Stacey and Clinton said😂

  • @sincerelyclary6232
    @sincerelyclary6232 3 месяца назад

    Love this chit chat grwm! Totally agree with your message! Something I really needed to hear.

  • @itsmecandicemarie
    @itsmecandicemarie 3 месяца назад +2

    Times like this I'm glad I was too poor to have cable tv

  • @collin2304
    @collin2304 3 месяца назад +2

    I hope to get there one day. Love you Cassie!!!

  • @roses1419
    @roses1419 3 месяца назад

    Your Capricorn moon has always spoke to my Cap sun. This is our true form.

  • @SuperNixypixy
    @SuperNixypixy 3 месяца назад +13

    Not giving a “f” is not a good thing especially when it comes to how you take care of yourself, you should definitely strive to try to look your best and to take care of yourself and be the best version of yourself, that kind of not caring attitude can lead to a very bad lifestyle. It’s simply a lazy and sloppy way of living life you are promoting, don’t fool yourself it’s not. You come across as someone with a lot of problems

    • @TheWitchsRattle
      @TheWitchsRattle 2 месяца назад +1

      Nah. There's a difference between taking care of yourself and "looking your best". This idea that you always have to hustle to be the "best version of yourself" is super toxic. Sometimes you're doing just fine by simply being here. If someone cares that she's wearing sweatpants to the grocery store, that says more about them than her. Sometimes taking care of yourself is not giving two shits about whether someone else approves of our outfit or the makeup we wear. It's super judgey to say it's lazy. Often it's quite freeing. I feel sorry for you that you can't see that.

    • @SuperNixypixy
      @SuperNixypixy 2 месяца назад +1

      @@TheWitchsRattle nope it’s simply slobbish and lazy, can pick them out in a crowd, no pride in taking care of themselves

  • @theresawinder7403
    @theresawinder7403 3 месяца назад

    That blue eyeliner rocks!

  • @melissaalbert1156
    @melissaalbert1156 3 месяца назад +4

    One of the episodes that stuck out the most was a beautiful, plus size blonde woman. I have been plus sized since puberty. She had to shop at Old Navy, while smaller people got to shop at fun and funky stores in the city. If you were plus sized, though, it was Old Navy for you. Really demoralizing to a younger me.

  • @kellyspryszak80
    @kellyspryszak80 3 месяца назад

    I love you, Cassie :) I've been watching you since before I had my daughter and she is 9 now, so I have definitely seen you go through it. I've also gone through it during that time. Every day is a work in progress ❤

  • @wlpark001
    @wlpark001 3 месяца назад

    I have always marched to a different drummer than the average person. I didn’t do what the ‘normal’ teenager did and was driven to do well in school, as I had to as my father died. Doing well in school would mean I could get a scholarship- the only way I was going to college. I loved ‘What not to Wear’ I had to conform in my twenties when I got a grownup job and it was mandatory that women wear dresses and panty hose. Glad that time is gone. I had put in a survey that it was sexist - I didn’t mean to send the survey but had forgotten meant to go back and change that. Our dress code was changed the next year, not sure if it was because of that - it probably wasn’t but if it helped a little I would be happy. Glad that times are changing so that everyone can have their own style.

  • @krankenheim13
    @krankenheim13 3 месяца назад +2

    Honestly I don’t know your channel. I was just looking up a foundation review. Anyways - the foundation video you did was 3 years ago. I was just kinda curious if you were still making videos and of course you are. I clicked thru this one. Sounds like you have some self esteem issues. But the only reason why I’m commenting is because you actually look more put together now than 3 years ago. You know how rare that is? You look better than ever!! Don’t fret. You’re fine how you are. :)

  • @shellbelltx5103
    @shellbelltx5103 3 месяца назад +1

    Cassie, your INNER beauty is what makes your OUTER beauty shine the most! I'm a long time follower/viewer and it's just a fact

  • @zenaiko33
    @zenaiko33 3 месяца назад

    It definitely comes with age! I was a huge fan of WNTW also, and I always said I wish they would come back and do it again, but this is even better.

  • @shandi6246
    @shandi6246 3 месяца назад

    My problem is I can't find clothes that I like so I end up having to wear things I don't want to!

    • @thetransparentjerseygirl
      @thetransparentjerseygirl 3 месяца назад

      What about thrift shopping 🤗 I've recently fell in love w it and found some great things! 💖

  • @dindaire
    @dindaire 3 месяца назад +1

    Omg I used to love that show!!

  • @CrystalLynnBeauty
    @CrystalLynnBeauty 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Cassie! I hope you have a great day😊 I love the blue liner it makes your eyes pop❤

  • @vickimanager
    @vickimanager 3 месяца назад

    LOVE the eyeliner!

  • @PrissyHippie
    @PrissyHippie 3 месяца назад +11

    Sounds like depression to me.
    I miss you wearing makeup, and contacts. Your eyes are absolutely gorgeous!!

  • @clairereilly2778
    @clairereilly2778 3 месяца назад +1

    Love that eyeliner❤

  • @BethanyNash
    @BethanyNash 3 месяца назад

    Eeeeee I love Sunday afternoons and watching your newest video! Esp love when I catch your makeup videos and also your Pokémon card opening/organizing videos 🥰

  • @foxingboarder2744
    @foxingboarder2744 3 месяца назад +26

    you have a boyfriend now. it's different when you're single. last night i decided not to be pretty when i went to the grocery store and there was the cutest guy there and i regretted not being pretty lol... it's the fall now, summer had so much time devoted to going out and stuff

    • @beeboop093
      @beeboop093 3 месяца назад +8

      When the met my bf I was not pretty lol I just finished my shift at work. I was hot and sweaty and icky and I was wearing my gym leggings, baggy sweatshirt and my hair was questionable. Makeup all faded. Yet here we are. Two years later still together. He thought I looked cute when we first met.
      If they find you attractive when you feel like you look your worst then you know he’s the one lol 😂

  • @krystalxevette
    @krystalxevette 3 месяца назад +1

    watching you since 2016, i am in awe of how much you’ve grown and evolved. i remember you not wanting too bold of a makeup look to now where you do whatever makeup feels right or not wear makeup at all. it’s so powerful and inspiring. you are truly a light 💞

  • @papskaples
    @papskaples 3 месяца назад +1

    Hey idk if you even remember me but I knew you back in high school, and I always thought you were pretty rad and tbh I'm not friends with any of those people any more either so it might not have been a you problem

  • @WanderInWunderland
    @WanderInWunderland 2 месяца назад

    Actually Casandra, I have always thought u r very beautiful.U have beautiful eyes and a beautiful smile and nice lips and symmetrical features. But the way we carry ourselves and the emotions we hold within leaves us feeling “ugly”, like how anxiety becomes dermatilomania. I think the fact that you are choosing not to focus on what everyone else thinks is a great start :)

  • @Asteriaaaa
    @Asteriaaaa 3 месяца назад

    Waiiittt, I LOVED that show 🤩 I’m happy to hear they’re returning

  • @wlpark001
    @wlpark001 3 месяца назад

    In bloopers - they had people who just walked out.

  • @IamCatharinemme
    @IamCatharinemme 3 месяца назад +3

    Always love a makeup video.🎉

  • @bedyjeridi2103
    @bedyjeridi2103 2 месяца назад

    We want to see hair with gel or fixing spray

  • @itsmid3974
    @itsmid3974 3 месяца назад +1

    All i can say is : I can relate. 100%

  • @LeslieSunshine17
    @LeslieSunshine17 3 месяца назад +1

    Good to see you today Cassie! I'm 55 and gave up giving a " f**k years ago. Welcome to the clun😂🎉🎉

  • @firebird4240
    @firebird4240 3 месяца назад +16

    I googled who gives a fuk and Cassie's name didn't come up 😂