Healing from Perfectionism: How to Release Control & BE ENOUGH with Lower Standards.

You need wiggle room to establish a new self image and standards that everything is "enough" without you being in full control. Todays video I share an illustration with practical, everyday advice on how to work with perfectionism and release the need to control. When you look at your life, notice how you are a perfectionist in some areas and disorganized/chaotic in others. The Inner work can be simple if we keep in mind one question - can you accept it as it is? Be mindful of your time, energy and be gentle with your heart in unraveling the many layers of perfectionism.
#perfectionism #innerwork #youareenough
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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - 1:17 - Rejecting the Idea that You. Are. Enough.
1:18 - 2:09 - The Roots of Perfectionism - Psychology
2:10 - 2:49 - The Positive/Negative of Perfectionism
2:50 - 5:24 - How to Heal Perfection at Home & Work (Exercise)
5:25 - 5:55 - The "Good thing" about being a Perfectionist...
5:56 - 7:24 - OCD in Relationships & Yourself (exercise cont.)
7:25 - 10:22 - Create Room for new Standards
10:23 - 12:11 - Accepting the Truth: You. Are. Enough.

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*2 Ways to Work With Me:*
*Option 1: 6-Week In-Body Immersion*
This is a private introduction to Somatic Healing. Each week, we will engage in a new exercise that will inspire spontaneous expression as you begin to trust the many ways your body wants to move towards harmony. I will guide you through emotional blocks and help you decode signs within symptoms. In our time together, you will acquire numerous somatic techniques, a comprehensive review of each experience, and a lifestyle plan to live in accordance with the laws of the body. This process is to REVITALIZE what was once traumatized - from frozen to sensitized. Coming alive and feeling like home.
- Structure: 6/90 min sessions (Must be used within 8 weeks)
This work is for you if you want to learn the mechanics of the body and explore Eastern/Western techniques to heal from trauma.
*Option 2: 12-Week Private Mentorship*
This is a 12-week experience that requires you to slow down, feel, and express. I take a holistic, embodied approach to help you create a lifestyle that is purposeful and energetically alive.
During our time together, you will learn how to navigate the unconscious psyche-soma and cultivate a healthy sexuality. I will introduce you to books and embodiment exercises, and we will create a diet and exercise plan tailored to your mobility and daily responsibilities. I’ve personalized this mentorship to be as insightful and supportive as possible! All of my work draws upon trauma psychology, somatic techniques, and spiritual practices.
As a self-healing system, respect and compassion are the cornerstones of what makes you feel like ‘home’. Without these two principles, you will have quite a difficult time differentiating from symptoms and will easily fall prey to emotional states. For this reason, there are conditions to inform you if this mentorship is feasible for you.
Prerequisites: Complete sobriety and no medication. However, if you're willing to transition into sobriety and want extra support, I will honorably work with you. This is non-negotiable when working with trauma. If you cannot do this, it’s okay; it simply means that I am not the right coach for you.
This mentorship is right for you if you…
- Can manage 12 weeks of dedicated somatic inner work
- Want to learn from the body
- Can say no to drinking/smoking
- Have 10-14 hours a week for self-care (2 hours per day)
Full Mentorship Details: This extends over 12 weeks. 1 x 120min weekly meeting (same day & time). I offer support between sessions during open office hours every Friday. This is the optimal time to check in, provide updates, and ask questions. All communication will be through Telegram. I am offline Sunday-Tuesday; these are the days I recharge for the week ahead.
*For All Incoming Clients:* Send a direct message to my Instagram to schedule a consultation. It can take up to 14 days for me to respond because I want to intentionally meet with you.
It’s come to my awareness that this work will cross your path at a very specific time. It requires a significant amount of sacrifice within your personal and emotional reality to have a cohesive integrational experience. Speaking from my heart, this process is as heavy as it is revitalizing - it’s a journey to Respect. This is why my work is structured to be paired with a certain mindset and emotional pull that will transcend mundane reality to link with the magical essence of the Soul. If you’ve read this far and feel a resonance you cannot dismiss, know my purpose here. Until then, heed the call!