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    @RichCooperClips  9 месяцев назад +2

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  • @donh1572
    @donh1572 9 месяцев назад +120

    Plan before making any moves. When I caught my ex, I kept quiet and built up evidence and talked to an attorney. I confronted and divorced her quickly. While she was under the “affair fantasy” I was able to get full custody of the kids, beach house, all the cars, no child support, no alimony. A few years later her life crashed while I met hotter women and relaxed on the beach! Praise God for all the blessings!

    • @csllover
      @csllover 9 месяцев назад +9

      Wow, incredible. Really unusual.

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 9 месяцев назад +3

      Well played. Very astute. What happened to her then? Did she stay with her banging buddy?

    • @donh1572
      @donh1572 9 месяцев назад +8

      @@coloradomark2159 Landed up with some guitar guy from a winery and they live in a Winnebago…..no joke!…I do feel bad for my kids though. She used to be a great mom and now she abandoned them

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 9 месяцев назад +7

      @@donh1572 that's pretty sad. Sold her kids out for a wannabe rock star. Wait till wannabe dumps her for a younger unit. Reality will come knocking on her door one day. Just guessing she will have a lonely ending for her bad judgement.

    • @Sketch_Sesh
      @Sketch_Sesh 8 месяцев назад +2

      What state or country were you in? Was it a no fault divorce place?

  • @cdrmt3229
    @cdrmt3229 9 месяцев назад +134

    I was in the Middle East serving my country when my (then) wife “wasn’t happy”, “Loved me but was not “in love” with me”. Only one think to do: I filed for divorce. It was a sh*t show. But, now I am a single Dad (my son lives with me), the fun times spinning plates and living life with family and friends without a negative insufferable “sea anchor” is wonderful. Just wonderful.

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 9 месяцев назад +2

      well you were happy being with men all the time...

    • @cdrmt3229
      @cdrmt3229 9 месяцев назад +9

      @@bigcockedman714 lol! Ah so sorry to disappoint but there are lots of females in the military.

    • @mosampson8862
      @mosampson8862 9 месяцев назад +8

      Good job brother, not many men can beat the system.

    • @mosampson8862
      @mosampson8862 9 месяцев назад

      @@bigcockedman714 get a load of the r33t4rd

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 9 месяцев назад

      I wouldn't know.. I wasn't taking orders from lesser men@@cdrmt3229

  • @villaespesa1
    @villaespesa1 9 месяцев назад +74

    There's no coming back when a woman gives her body to another man.
    It's a matter of genuine desire.
    For someone else.
    Not you.

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 9 месяцев назад

      People aren’t really meant to be monogamous.

    • @obbzerver
      @obbzerver 9 месяцев назад

      Says who?

    • @villaespesa1
      @villaespesa1 9 месяцев назад +10

      @matthewschwartz6607 We are promiscuous by nature and monogamous by choice. Promiscuity doesn't work for family formation. Children and communities need order and structure.
      Connections and deep intimacy come from monogamy. If you notice everything that requires work , intention, and discipline, it almost always leads to a better functioning outcome.
      Promiscuity = easy = chaotic.
      Eating junk = easy = diseases.
      Exercise = hard = strength, health.
      Being lazy = easy = weak= coronary problems.

    • @villaespesa1
      @villaespesa1 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@obbzerver Her actions. Believe what she does, not what she says.

    • @Benny-zo3qh
      @Benny-zo3qh 9 месяцев назад +1

      I somewhat agree with Rich on this. If she sreps out because she really likes a guy, get rid of her for sure. I've seen multiple situations where a girl had a one-time hook up and had zero feelings towards the guy. Now, if she's constantly doing that, it's a problem. If she had a one-off, there's potentially a chance.
      For me, I can't let that go, but some people can and still have a good relationship.
      My point is that women to a lesser degree are capable of having meaningless sex as a one-off. It's not always about emotion

  • @mosampson8862
    @mosampson8862 9 месяцев назад +36

    5 Ways to Handle Cheating
    1) To the curb.
    2) To the curb.
    3) To the curb.
    4) To the curb.
    5) Get revenge when they least expect it.

    • @sloanmagnum5009
      @sloanmagnum5009 9 месяцев назад +5

      Revenge is for weak bitter pathetic people. Just move on and live well.

    • @TheHumanRanger
      @TheHumanRanger 8 месяцев назад

      the best revenge is becoming your best self and making her regret dumping you, this will sting her the most lol@@sloanmagnum5009

  • @tacticalsandwich9149
    @tacticalsandwich9149 9 месяцев назад +23

    Alimony is theft.

  • @dmann4683
    @dmann4683 9 месяцев назад +20

    Family Law requires an overhaul in fairness and accountability. There is no coming back from betrayal. Once trust is broken from infidelity it is done! Sooner or later you are going to go through the stages of grief, there is no way around it.

    • @johnpowell7829
      @johnpowell7829 9 месяцев назад +1

      Laws need to change to make things fair and equal.

  • @enkidughom2508
    @enkidughom2508 9 месяцев назад +21

    This video should be 1 second of: "always be prepared to leave" and the remaining 12:58 should be a black screen with the caption "don't be delusional, that's your only option"

    • @garybulwinkle82
      @garybulwinkle82 8 месяцев назад +1

      Never be so invested that you can't leave or walk away!

  • @dogeplox2208
    @dogeplox2208 9 месяцев назад +21

    My ex cheated on me and i said ok you cheated on me we're no longer in relationship I'm gonna drop off to your home for having good times. She tried to cry and i said please don't cry on me i hate when woman cries for their guilt she suddenly stopped crying. I dropped her to home she tried to hug me i said no no this is over why you still try to be with me you done it yourself now she stalks me tries to get attention...

  • @kiddytube3915
    @kiddytube3915 8 месяцев назад +5

    End it, decouple, then go fully no contact. Take the time to heal and get over the pain.
    Then forgive them and you’ll move on in the most healthy way possible.

  • @LRS11B
    @LRS11B 9 месяцев назад +7

    One other thing about married women hanging out with girlfriends at a club acting single: women consider tgemselves single even when they're in long term relationships. And to add to that: women don't call it cheating when they cheat.

    • @garybulwinkle82
      @garybulwinkle82 8 месяцев назад +1

      Girl's nights out is a deal breaker for me! Guys, never be so invested that you can't just walk away!!!

  • @JimmyMFP
    @JimmyMFP 9 месяцев назад +9

    Once she has jumped ship, she isn't on yours anymore.
    Take solace in the fact that sometimes when you jump ship, you drown.
    Get on with sailing your course.
    Weather the storm, and prepare for the next port.

    • @digger2373
      @digger2373 9 месяцев назад +5

      She's never ever yours, it's just your turn! Remember that. If you never forget that phrase, the betrayal won't sting as bad

    • @MrLondon100
      @MrLondon100 9 месяцев назад +2

      Indeed so!

  • @joseg3003
    @joseg3003 9 месяцев назад +5

    I went through this, we had a on and off relationship but we where working on our relationship because we have two kids, i find out she married some dude behind my back, now that i put everything together she had been cheat for a very long time w this chump. Now im paying the price in court on child support over $ 2k a month. My mistake was loving a woman. Never again will i trust another woman. 💯 true she not yours, it's just your turn. Money can make a woman leave you no matter if you have kids, she will drop you. Trust no woman no matter how good she seems. Pump and dump.

  • @cbxxb4841
    @cbxxb4841 9 месяцев назад +17

    “Cheating from a trusted woman demolishes a man’s ego”. This just demonstrates this man still has a lot of work to do on his self because he was somehow expecting a woman to be something she is not. It’s never you, it’s just your turn!!! Listen, learn!

  • @mosampson8862
    @mosampson8862 9 месяцев назад +18

    Death and taxes and women having a "backup plan" are the the only guarantees in life. Well said, Rich. Although it's not about "better", it's just the "options" aspect.

  • @LRS11B
    @LRS11B 9 месяцев назад +6

    Great advice Rich. After 22 years of marriage my wife stepped out on me.

  • @TexasLonghornRanch
    @TexasLonghornRanch 9 месяцев назад +14

    I just bought the second edition. Can’t wait to get it and go over it with my teenage boys. I appreciate the rough language being taken out.

  • @user-wl7rb5ri5m
    @user-wl7rb5ri5m 8 месяцев назад +1

    Rich, I wish you were around in the late sixties when I was in my late teens. What you are doing for men is invaluable. Your philosophy was nowhere to be found back then. I had to learn these lessons the hard way.

  • @debbest8546
    @debbest8546 5 месяцев назад

    Demanding respect after tolerating it is difficult. Set boundaries to begin with; it's easier.

  • @christineanderson92
    @christineanderson92 9 месяцев назад +5

    What a sad world

  • @ronaldboykin9755
    @ronaldboykin9755 8 месяцев назад +2

    The solution to all this is don’t get a committed relationship! Expectations are the problem not the women! I learned that very early in my life! Lay some ground rules down if you want a committed relationship but be prepared for the worse! It’s got to be “My way or the highway” and still be prepared to bounce!

  • @bobbysilver272
    @bobbysilver272 9 месяцев назад +9

    Any tips for overcoming heartbreak after a 31 year faithful marriage that her mid life crisis and sudden decision has ended?
    I'm beginning to realise that I have been in love with my illusion of her more than the reality of her. But it's difficult getting past it. Kids lives, property split, retirement...everything is affected. She has already hooked up with a wealthy bachelor dude apparently looking for a wife!!

    • @yai837
      @yai837 9 месяцев назад +7

      ”Apprently” my man, she will reap what she sows one day.
      Listen, get yourself a sixpack. Do only that first, then think the next step for you brother, go dating and check the market. She betrayed you, consider her dead and cut all ties. Move on with your life i promise you will get better just work on yourself from now on you are number ONE. Dont look back, only forward brother i Wish you the best

    • @scottverge938
      @scottverge938 9 месяцев назад +2

      I know exactly how you feel. I was in love with nostalgia. What we had at one time can never be recreated again, even if she changed her mind, that trust is gone, the illusion is gone. I look at her completely differently even if I still miss her at times. And I absolutely look at women differently now.

    • @bobbysilver272
      @bobbysilver272 9 месяцев назад

      @@yai837 Thank you for your kind words!

    • @sloanmagnum5009
      @sloanmagnum5009 9 месяцев назад +3

      You'll drown in sarrow and despair if you don't get ahold of your emotions and direction in life (not saying you haven't or that you aren't). All you can do is accept the loss, go thru the motions and think about your self and how you're going to over come and live well despite it all

  • @andevipertraderpfeiffer8787
    @andevipertraderpfeiffer8787 9 месяцев назад +3

    This should be the shortest video in your library very easy, walk walk walk walk walk.

  • @glicmathan1771
    @glicmathan1771 9 месяцев назад +2

    Great advice Rich

  • @shawnfallahi5616
    @shawnfallahi5616 9 месяцев назад +9

    yes - trade in that 50 year old for two 25's !

  • @Keviekev115
    @Keviekev115 8 месяцев назад +1

    Understand it always gets better, if you get better!! Use it as a wake up call to get back on your grind. Love makes us men weak

  • @sq9006
    @sq9006 8 месяцев назад

    Been watching you since 2022, great stuff

  • @nathanforrest3483
    @nathanforrest3483 8 месяцев назад +1

    Eaiser said than done, but walk away and never look back

  • @periclescimon9954
    @periclescimon9954 9 месяцев назад +2

    Even winners get cheated on. It’s not like women know how to choose that well

  • @chrisburnsed6349
    @chrisburnsed6349 8 месяцев назад

    I just get even . Makes me feel better and really that’s all that matters in the end

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 8 месяцев назад

      It's really not the same thing. If she cheats on you it means you're worthless and she doesn't respect you. If you cheat on her, it just means you were horny

  • @nickf2170
    @nickf2170 9 месяцев назад +7

    Just scratch women. Putting all this time into trying to understand, develop a game plan, and then it all goes south anyway....give me a f***** break. All of this time, and effort, is better spent on more important things....WAY MORE IMPORTANT THINGS.

    • @laygossom2655
      @laygossom2655 9 месяцев назад

      Most men are really hopeful don't realize same script different cast it all ends with em self sabotaging relationship you have to really ask is it worth and would I get better return my time and energy on something else .

  • @dschefers9700
    @dschefers9700 4 месяца назад +1

    We tried fixing it. The full story is embarrassing, but the end is we are separating for good because forgiveness is a sign of weakness to women. Women won’t respect you anymore. End up finding her with a fat bar flies.

  • @noctambulo10
    @noctambulo10 9 месяцев назад +1

    "Banging Jorge in the Bathroom" 😂

  • @paulsmith4118
    @paulsmith4118 9 месяцев назад +21

    The best way to not get cheated on is to not have a gf or wife

    • @gsquared2394
      @gsquared2394 9 месяцев назад +8

      Thats incel talk

    • @Eric-kn4yn
      @Eric-kn4yn 9 месяцев назад

      ​​@@gsquared2394 another victim of western culture next step for this guy is LGBTQ+ community its sad

    • @28goldenboy
      @28goldenboy 9 месяцев назад

      That's that perpetual MGTOW narrative. Wouldn't recommend it. Relationships are a risk, choose wisely.

  • @obbzerver
    @obbzerver 9 месяцев назад +6

    What might be the worst is a wife who cheats with no intention of leaving. I know someone who was posting on Facebook about their anniversary - her years together with her wonderful Christian husband, yada yada. On the surface she's all about "Christian family values".
    Turns out she's been running off to the No Tell Motel with some clown who knew her in high school and contacted her out of the blue. Her husband is a good guy, wasn't beating her or mistreating her in any way, nope he's been working hard every day, doing what he's supposed to do providing she and their kids with a great life. She wasn't about to let all that go.

    • @scottverge938
      @scottverge938 9 месяцев назад

      her husband did everything right except stay exciting for her. Was he pleasing her in the bedroom? Did he stay in shape? Did he date her? If not that's why she sought another man for some fun. Working hard and treating her decently doesn't make her horny.

  • @stacyrobbins1712
    @stacyrobbins1712 4 месяца назад

    That's the thing that I think women will never understand they think a man is just supposed to just blindly trust them like she can go to a bar with her friends & you're just supposed to accept that but the thing is it's not about trust it's about respect no man wants a wife who goes out & has these Lil girls night out crap & 9 times out of 10 if the tables were turned she wouldn't like it & that's why I say & it's just my opinion but women have no idea what things like respect & honor really mean & it's foolish for a man to assume that they do so yes set boundaries early on & stick to them

  • @mlu_rsa0315
    @mlu_rsa0315 9 месяцев назад +1

    Cold 🥶 truths

  • @kenofken9458
    @kenofken9458 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'll never have this issue. I don't offer or expect monogamy.

  • @jennifermattson7987
    @jennifermattson7987 Месяц назад +1

    Maybe he was a cheater himself and that's why she stepped out. If he didn't love her enough to protect her heart from getting hurt then why should she? Or maybe she wanted to attention she was lacking when he steps out. She stepped out to fulfill that void. Woman. Like attention and if thier man is giving another attention then she will find it someone else.

  • @keywestfan2503
    @keywestfan2503 8 месяцев назад +2

    5 ways??? That seems like 4 too many

  • @peplsuk7635
    @peplsuk7635 9 месяцев назад +2

    How about stop playing the game you will never win?

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton 9 месяцев назад +7

    So when you don’t get affection from your partner for weeks, months even a year….Is cheating allowed ? 🙄

    • @0749Rockystar
      @0749Rockystar 9 месяцев назад +4

      Communication is key. Tell her the lack of physical affection is bringing you to the brink of seeking it elsewhere. If it's not important to her then outsourcing isn't a bad option.

    • @timothybogle1461
      @timothybogle1461 9 месяцев назад +2

      Make that clear and don't be surprised if she is getting it elsewhere.
      The actions kind of speak for themselves. If a woman desires a man, it's tough for a man to keep up.

    • @Imalonerwbu
      @Imalonerwbu 9 месяцев назад

      Sounds like you’re being cheated on tbh

    • @dh12.
      @dh12. 9 месяцев назад +3

      If there's no affection, there's no relationship to speak of.

    • @elsa_nyc
      @elsa_nyc 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@timothybogle1461these are 2 important points that rarely get mentioned.

  • @Junoj101
    @Junoj101 9 месяцев назад +1

    most women that cheat usually have red flags. most man are oblivious to the flags and think that what they got is an angel

  • @murraysaucedo897
    @murraysaucedo897 9 месяцев назад +1

    The Foam Cannon Party has been closed

  • @gregprince5283
    @gregprince5283 9 месяцев назад +1

    Definitely don't want her in the bathroom with the Conquistador.

  • @darrenupton5500
    @darrenupton5500 9 месяцев назад +3

    I expect a woman to cheat or move on. Just get a dog.

  • @theyoeman
    @theyoeman 9 месяцев назад

    I would not want to engage in sexual acts with two sisters. That's promoting intra-familly affairs. Gross. That is so messed up. How could anyone enjoy that?

  • @immortalis8580
    @immortalis8580 9 месяцев назад +6

    I agree for the most part, but you've got to become the best version of yourself for yourself, not because it will prevent any woman with you from cheating.
    I recall listening to ARC on this topic, he would point out how he was able to get together with women who were married to successful guys, based on his ability to seduce women, even though he wasn't as financially well off.

    • @scottverge938
      @scottverge938 9 месяцев назад +1

      Women don't at all care about money when they find a guy attractive. I was broke as fuck when I met my wife and she supported us the vast majority of our marriage.

  • @phil2112
    @phil2112 8 месяцев назад

    Just wondering Rich. What is your bodycount?

  • @mlu_rsa0315
    @mlu_rsa0315 9 месяцев назад

    Approved.

  • @elsa_nyc
    @elsa_nyc 9 месяцев назад +2

    This clip is hilarious. It almost seems like an SNL skit.

  • @stevesteve1965
    @stevesteve1965 8 месяцев назад +4

    If every man dumped every woman that cheated they'd eventually realize they'd end up miserable and alone while the loyal one's have a stable committed relationship

  • @mexicanamerican573
    @mexicanamerican573 8 месяцев назад

    What if a top shelf woman wants me? How would that work

  • @nevisjackson
    @nevisjackson 8 месяцев назад

    OMG, when you said, “It’s very hard for men to get laid”
    😂
    That is 100 percent not correct, I know from experience and all Alpha men (that I know), we can get laid every night with a new chick if we actually wanted to do so.
    For the past twenty years, I can count on one hand the times I’ve been on a first date and didn’t have the chick willing and ready to do the hokey pokey that very night.

  • @shadowbotz4293
    @shadowbotz4293 9 месяцев назад

    Only one answer… you don’t!✌️

  • @RobertSmith-so8nk
    @RobertSmith-so8nk 4 месяца назад

    Don't chew gum off the bottom of the table.

  • @Eric-kn4yn
    @Eric-kn4yn 9 месяцев назад

    250k subscibers wonderful theres definetly a need which is sad

  • @mikeg1032
    @mikeg1032 9 месяцев назад +1

    "Just get yourself some twins, tie them up in your bedroom and have some fun".... got it

    • @HandsOfSweed
      @HandsOfSweed 9 месяцев назад +1

      Fun? That sounds like a front page national news story and a lengthy prison sentence to me. And a True Crime documentary about you.

    • @mikeg1032
      @mikeg1032 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@HandsOfSweed he says it so casually

    • @elsa_nyc
      @elsa_nyc 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@HandsOfSweedexactly!

    • @elsa_nyc
      @elsa_nyc 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@HandsOfSweedhe is acting like his woman just stepped out on him.
      His posts the past few days have been especially angry and unhinged.

    • @bballmomma5900
      @bballmomma5900 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@elsa_nycthat’s what I thought too, it’s so weird some of the things he’s saying.

  • @aiviti
    @aiviti 8 месяцев назад

    Give it to Jesus,he is the only one that could heal the broken heart,you can't put a human bandaid on it,I'm a survivor and I love the cr3ator not the created things❤❤❤I love you all my broken hearted brothers and sist3rs and I only can the share the truth,the way,the life that is our creator,Jesus the savior the healer

  • @kevinwilson6270
    @kevinwilson6270 6 месяцев назад

    LEAVE

  • @Jimmy-Legs
    @Jimmy-Legs 8 месяцев назад

    This dude looks like he’s on gear.

  • @ProSanityMan-gr7sq
    @ProSanityMan-gr7sq 23 дня назад

    I only no one way to handle cheating.. leave.