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One winter driving I had a hard time getting up a slight incline covered with ice. My wife was freaking out and insulting me. Our young child was also in the car. I told her to be quiet or helpful. It actually worked.
Two years into my marriage, my wife started becoming extremely rude to me and my family. When I asked her to stop, she threatened me with divorce. It worked a few times because I was really nervous about losing my marriage and house. Once I made the decision that my mental health is more important than being married, it was the most liberating time in my life! It was the best feeling leaving her and everything else! It’s more important that you keep your frame and sanity than trying to hold a dead marriage together!
Guys, you must understand, in so many cases, we serve a purpose in a woman's life... Once her objective is achieved, we're no longer necessary... This is why, as men, we must have a purpose, and the woman is to help achieve our desires... When the roles are reversed, we as men, are used like a tool...
I had a gf once and I moved into her place after knowing her 5 years. It was the last step toward marriage, or that is what I thought. Up to that point she was great. Within a month the sex dropped off so I talked to her. I told her if it did not improve, I would move out. Within a month I was gone! The lesson I learned is if I am not willing to walk away at a moments notice, she has me. My final conclusion about relationships is to maintain my own home and never let her move in.
Smart move. I'm in a near sexless marriage I am leaving soon and it went downhill almost immediately after we moved in together. Originally we lived an hour apart and would only see each other on weekends and bang nonstop. That was a really good arrangement but I messed up bad when I agreed to move in together. Never again.
Dealing with women in a relationship is like dealing with a bully, you have to stop the disrespect immediately and shut it down or it will just get worse and like a bully they will get others to disrespect and degrade you as well
It’s sad but true. It’s the same idea in any relationship where someone is gradually trying to disrespect you. If you are not kind but firm and “slap it down” way in the beginning it’s impossible to get the to stop later on. It’s funny adults do this when I had to “put down” bad behavior when I was a 4th grade teacher lol
100% agree with “don’t try to explain the rules of the game” with your woman. Always backfires in my experience. Just play the game as Rich states. Right on 👍
It's funny Rich is saying 'don't explain the game' to women b/c I just learned this through experience not long ago. I slipped up with my gf saying I wasn't going to triple text or something. She didn't catch it, but I made a huge mental note about not saying things like that anymore. He's right, they don't want to know the game, they just want to participate.
If she is a keeper, then then she will figure out what he wants, adapt to it, and be the best component of the relationship. If women would accept they need men and allow us the leeway to lead, many problems go away.
I’m 28 and I’ve always serviced my own vehicles. When I was 18, I had a gf with me in my 04 Audi A8. Got a flat tire in Dallas, car didn’t have a jack or a lug nut wrench. Also had a security lug nut and of course I didn’t have the security lug nut key. She kept telling me to call a tow truck while I stood outside and took an Allen key from a random place in the truck, used a ford flex jack and lug nut wrench to remove the security lug nut. Used a 08 VW Passat lug nut wrench and got the full size spare put on with less than an hour. I have broken up with that girl which it’s been 10 years now. Fun fact, she still messages every few months either wanting to go out on a date or to bang. 10 years later she still wants me in her life. I ask why do you want me so bad? She says she can’t find anyone as attractive or as smart as I Don’t be a simp dudes. I agree rich 👍 these wack weak dudes loving sports so much they got a jersey with another man’s name on it. Somehow in America it’s normalized greatly! 🤦♂️
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 *💪 "Beta-tization" refers to the process where men compromise their masculine identity and independence in relationships, often leading to dissatisfaction and loss of attraction from their partners.* 02:59 *🚫 Tolerating disrespectful behavior, such as being disparaged by a partner in public, leads to loss of attraction and undermines the foundation of a relationship.* 05:21 *🚧 Setting clear boundaries and consequences for disrespectful behavior is crucial in maintaining self-respect and a healthy relationship dynamic.* 07:53 *🎮 Avoid explaining relationship dynamics or strategies to partners; focus on embodying masculine traits and leading the relationship without overanalyzing or discussing "game" tactics.* 10:55 *📚 Continuous study of relationship dynamics is unnecessary; instead, focus on embodying masculine virtues and leading confidently to maintain attraction and harmony in relationships.* Made with HARPA AI
Guys.. if you want to wear a team jersey with a name on the back, go get one and put YOUR NAME on the back. When someone asks you who’s that? Smile, acknowledge who you are, shake their hand, and thank them for asking.
Hopefully then you realize the team is being paid by you instead of paying you and you realize sports fandom is betatization and another form of stealth cuckery
I'm sure everyone has their favorite format of video styles for Rich. I know the conversations we panels or ladies are popular, so are the one-on-ones. But for me, there's just no comparison to Rich solo just talking to the camera, all due respect to Rich and all you brothers from other mothers
A close friend of mine’s wife initiated their “open relationship” about three years ago. That lasted about a year before she broke one of the “rules” of their arrangement. The sex dried up between them, so bad, that they started putting it on a calendar. 3 months ago, she got a job driving box trucks at night. Leaving him to watch the kids, homeschool, and keep up with the house. 3 weeks ago she asked for a divorce.
In relationships Women just want to have fun, they only care about themselves and want to experience endless entertainment. They hang out at the finish line and wait for the winner. Identical to skipping the line with a fast pass at Disney Land.
I have experienced this exact behavior. A women who rows with you is so much better. As I have told my women that I am not a entertainment director. Self respect is joy!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
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6:04 This is correct. In 15 years together, 13 married, my wife is never allowed to be rude to me or disrespect me. If she gets like that, I put a stop to it. And therefore, she checks herself.
@@Erick-di9gm Because I have only ever had to put a stop to it twice. Once during our engagement and once during our marriage about 12 years ago. That was it.
As I am listening to this, I am understanding that a lot of the self reflection from my previous relationships, helped me into implementing these practices in my new relationship now. I have been listening to Rich and some other guys of value on this app and it has definitely benefited my relationships but most importantly my life and how I carry myself as a man in his young 20s. Working towards my goals, keeping myself to a standard, and not taking shit from people who aren’t who I want to replicate as my future self. Great stuff Rich, gonna listen to the podcast 👍🏼
Get in the car and shut up! SAVAGE! But extremely effective. As for disparaging a man in a crowd, that is unacceptable EVER! That is a deal breaker. It is grounds for exiting the relationship instantly.
if a woman ever dared to disparage me like that, that would be the last time she ever saw me, bro, and she'd be lucky if i didn't leave her standing on the side of the road. Sheesh.
One of my GF's made a comment" you don't ever want to see the bad side of me." I just looked at her, and thought. That'll be our last day together... She never did that boneheaded move...
@georgeelder8415 oh, brother...one of my biggest pet peeves in life is when women threaten to get violent if you don't fall in line. So many of 'em do it, and so many of us let them get away with it, too.
You are extremely on point. I agree do not tell her whats "going on behind the curtain" and tell her how you are operating but last night i wanted to test it. i wrote/read a very brief letter with three points. i knew she could have thought i was being manipulative but i felt i should try. i have seen women's faces go dead when you try n explain this shit but after I read my three points and cautiously told her how id been messing up-she agreed. it was a breakthrough i thought and we kinda fixed somethings that were broken for years. So i believe one time out of ten it can be successful. *I will tell you one point. I said "Honey, Ive been talking to you like a dude. Women dont care or need to hear all this shit. I should have told a guy or a dog. Im sorry." and that was it. Now i need to man up and shutup and watch my marriage heal (as it has been because i changed into more masculine) Women need a solid man and REALLY DONT GIVE A SHIT WHAT IS GOING ON IN OUR HEAD. So telling her was either a good move or not. I will only tell her once. Now I will go forward in a more masculine frame. Next. Rich your teachings really inspires me. thx. -First time listener
5 ways to leave a relationship: 1) text and call her constantly. 2) Send good morning and good night messages. 3) tell her how lucky you are to have her once a day. 4) send flowers to her work after every disagreement. 5) talk about the relationship an your feelings/ vulnerabilities at every possible opportunity. Your welcome (: she'll be gone in no time.
So I had this happen to me continously in past 4.5 year relationship. Disrespect. Contempt. Speaking under her breath/insult. Here is the deal. I saw who she is with now. Karma work. Also. Book suggestion. ART OF SELF AWARENESS It covers what Rich is talking about.
All of the examples given seem like "nextable" offences to me. My LTR showed me a hint of contempt. I immediately kicked her out of my place, 2 week time out. A year later another hint of contempt. I immediately dumped her. Was I too harsh?
Nope, you were not too harsh; in fact, your mindset is on point. I would never tolerate belittling bahavior from a woman that I was courting in any way. You did good, bud.
No, you did fine. Just fine. Trust me, those tests would have become more frequent over time if you had stayed with her. Why would you stay with someone that has contempt for you anyway? I wish I would have learned that lesson when I was much younger.
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You're right Rich. I don't let longer place to disrespectful acts from women....if it's the case i reject in short time. Something it's a little bit shitty but it's the way to live with personal ethics
I had 18 girlfriends, none of them left me or showed me disrespect, sex was amazing always. I even lived with 2 of them for 6 months. You have to tell them your boundaries and rules on the first date. They have to know if they ever try to disrespect you raise their voice, manipulate or control you, etc they are out of the door. I never had cheating, arguments or any problems in my relationships. It's an amazing feeling. I'm still looking for a selfless girl to have a family with. Have not found one yet. Aiming for a girl like the wife of Jerry Rigs Everything has. Check them on RUclips, she behaves like a nice and selfless person with strong values.
Don't get me wrong, I like your comment, but I just checked out Jerry Rig's Everything because I got curious about his girl, and I'm sorry, that doesn't count in my opinion. She's in a wheelchair. Someone like that is going to appreciate the person who gets with her a lot more due to the fact that she's disabled. There's this one girl I always come across on my dating app, absolutely stunning, yet I always swipe left and feel bad when I do. So if I'm doing that, the majority of men are. So anyone in that situation would definitely appreciate the person who gives them a chance. Her options are a lot less than most women and was still lucky enough to find a hvm, you best know she won't fuck it up lol.
Hi Rich, I'm from Argentina and discovered your content one month ago. I've got so much better results since I got to your channel (already bought your book too). One mistake sometimes I do is that I find myself explaining some things about the game. Over time I learned that is not actually useful like you're saying on the video. This pasts months I got much better on this but sometimes I do it like in automatic, so is not really all the time, but there are times we're it backfires to me (like the girl kind of mocking me with the thing I said). I just want to know if this instantly will take the desire out from her or if there are ways to manage it orif is better to walk away. I think that maintaning our frame and continue doing the right stuff without talking about it might help but I don't know if we're already out once we do this. Thank you for everything you do Rich!
actually you want her close and on a leash, if she doesn't touch you at night you loose her dependence on you lol it's science you may not need to sleep together everyday but old rule is you should if she is judgemental towards you you simply chose wrong, maybe most woman on west are such right now but it's your ideology and rising without old rules not problem of woman in general lol
Jon Bon Jovi is one of these maximally betatisated stars. The problem is basically that men try to please their partner like they used to please their mother. You depend on your mother as a little kid. But you don't depend on your relative other in adult life. Understanding the difference makes the grown ass man. She's shit testing you too much, you let her go. Women want long term relationships more than we do - generally. So, let her work for it. We might just as well resume turning tables. That's how you play it. There will be no dignity in your life as long as you are afraid of being alone! Cheerish freedom! Ovid's "Ars amandi" is a very good read on the topic, too. This book is about 2,000 years old. Some things will never change. And it proofs that religion can't save you from the powers of life. Christianity came upon Rome - and how much has it changed on behalf of the problem we are discussing? Nothing! Life is bigger than religion.
Life is hard. But you have to try. Staying alpha is hard, as you have to challenge other men and women. But maybe knowing you are not alone should help. Stay together alpha team squad worldwide 😎
I've found to act like i didn't hear the comment. Usually they won't bother you again ( at that time). If they do, you have your work cut out for you. The goal is to not be dragged down into reacting, being "emotional ", and moveable.
I think you should alway watch videos on game because if you stop it always hurts you in the long wrong always to keep learning about women and how to be the best man to keep the women you want for the long term just my opinion
I have always said and almost gotten in fights for saying it. Wearing another man’s name on your back is one step away from a property of jacket that a biker chick would wear.
Why should I let her first of all? It’s my phone. Where does it end? Phones are like computers. So she should be able to go through my personal computer? Go through my tax returns? Go through my filing cabinet? Go through my closet? Go through my bank accounts? Write down all my passwords in my phone? Women need to deal with their own insecurities and their past traumas and not bring them into their following relationships. I have personal private conversations with people on my phone. Do you think the people that text want all their messages exposed to my GF? It’s like listening in to every single conversation you have with someone.
Which days are showing the unplugged alpha? They used to be Monday nights but now they invite women. Did he change the time for the unplugged alpha show?
If you are in a relationship there is a 99 % chance you are being cheated on PERIOD. we need a change to this RP content beeches ain’t playing fair in 2024 neither should we
This is why my gf and I have hit a wall and are stuck in a constant wheel of conflict/ fighting. I simply refuse to allow her to cross my boundaries. I wont permit her poor behaviour
A woman looks into a mans eyes and she knows the type. Plus attitude and voice. One cannot change the tyre on an random car without having done it before. Years ago a boy would have learned it from his father. So a mans man would take out the jack and train it in his spare time. If he does not train, than obviously there is weakness.
My dad has let my mom walk all over him for years. She started that shit with me and I left the house. I don't even like being around my Mom to be honest.
So part of me gets where he’s coming from but another part of me feels that men as a whole jump into a relationship and pick women that have many undesirable traits. If your partner is challenging you and criticizing you all the time or even some of the time, you have a women that doesn’t want to be a wife and you’re not her first choice. I don’t know everyone situation but of all my married friends, we’re the only one with a joint bank account, a paid off house, paid off cars, and etc. I believe she would murder me before she would leave me. Were not perfect but she wanted to be a mother and a wife, it was clear since day one.. I guess I don’t understand how you can be married, not be intimate, deal with a woman nagging and putting you down, and lead separate financial lives and wonder why the relationship is failing.
I’m by no means perfect, but I just dated a girl for 3 months and treated her amazing. Never argued, always did fun things with her, and everything was going good…too good. She literally broke up with me last Friday with 0 reason. And I found out on Sunday that she got back with her ex husband that she always claimed was a huge pos and treated her horrible. Most modern women are completely heartless. I’m done with dating.
They're heartless to those who don't have their heart. You got there late and someone else was already stuck in her mind. Find a woman who hasn't been in love before, one who hasn't had many boyfriends or even many dates.
Sp if i bring her into my frame initiate the relationship be a provider be the man and lead ans take care of it ok. WTF does she bring and why is the bullshit worth it?
All relationships are transactional. "Unconditional love" is another name for toxic codependence. Whether or not the relationship works for me, I decide. One day at a time. Life is too short for unfulfillment.
Stop spending so much time focusing on your strategy on the relationship and all these stupid terms like betatizaion. Just enjoy the women as a human being and love you self to walk away if someone betrays you.
wearing the name of some other male on your back has never made sense to me. especially when that male is 30’s + wearing name of a 26 yr old athlete or whatever = Bay tah!
You can appreciate greatness.. it’s called respect for their craft .. that’s like saying you wouldn’t listen to someone else’s song because why are you listen to another man express emotion.. you sound fairly insecure my man.
This reminds me of the goths in high school who wore dresses and eyeshadow and said "I hate sports," because one jock flicked them in the ear in seventh grade. You can respect another man's craft in a grueling game like hockey and not be a fucking beta Remember: One red pill at a time. Never take the entire bottle at once
Rich I’ve watched nearly all your videos. Always great stuff. But any woman who “shit tests you” in front of others doesn’t respect her man. And she’s a lost cause for any relationship. If she tests you period you’ve lost frame
exactly but there are women that want to show her mans proes by flirting with other guys so you would get territorial she don't want to cheat just for you to fight for her a little lol men don't get it see it as offense but it's revalidation adding to relationships lol this weird way
I like most of your videos. You have given some bad advice in this video h/evr!. Worst thing a guy can do is tell a woman that she has dis respected him. I think I need to start my own video channel and go off on all of the reasons why this is bad. 😂, and I am speaking from experience - I have hard evidence to support what I am saying.
That behavior sounds like a humiliation trauma, dump her asap. She can change but really how many people are wiling to put the hard work and look inside themselves and do it. Pump and dump my dudes.
I get the impression that rich has been involved with a long line of very low caliber women. Where does he come up with these examples. It sounds like a tv skit.
There do seem to be a worrying amount of women like this these days. That being said it seems to me that many red pill videos and MGTOW type stuff is men trying to deal with low value women when they would be far better off just walking away and not dealing with them in the first place.
@@scottwtodd no it isn't. That is low caliber women for low caliber men. It certainly doesn't happen in my family and social circle. We qualify men to see if they are appropriate to date/marry etc, but it isn't via tests or humiliating them in public. I would never do that to my husband and he has never done it to me. We agree on most things, but if we do not it is discussed, respectfully, in private. The examples rich gives reminds me of old TV programs.
@@elsa_nyc and yet the number of low calibre women has dramatically increased. You used the "but I'm an exception" thing to try to disprove a system that encourages/promotes women to behave like a princess, whilst denigrating men. It's a very real social phenomenon. Do women like you exist still? Sure. But young men (especially products of single mothers) think they have to pander to the little princesses. As an old guy (yes a dinosaur) I've seen a ton of divorces.. I can tell you, it's always the same process. If you have been married at least 30 years, and remain faithful, then you should be listenedd to. Anything less, not good enough in my view, to tell others about marriage. Wishing you well and hope you to get to 50 years of marriage.
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One winter driving I had a hard time getting up a slight incline covered with ice. My wife was freaking out and insulting me. Our young child was also in the car. I told her to be quiet or helpful. It actually worked.
Two years into my marriage, my wife started becoming extremely rude to me and my family. When I asked her to stop, she threatened me with divorce. It worked a few times because I was really nervous about losing my marriage and house. Once I made the decision that my mental health is more important than being married, it was the most liberating time in my life! It was the best feeling leaving her and everything else! It’s more important that you keep your frame and sanity than trying to hold a dead marriage together!
what led to this wrong decision to marry her?
He got scammed, it happens!@@szymonbaranowski8184
why was she being rude tho? why?
Gladiator, you are not alone .
Guys, you must understand, in so many cases, we serve a purpose in a woman's life... Once her objective is achieved, we're no longer necessary... This is why, as men, we must have a purpose, and the woman is to help achieve our desires... When the roles are reversed, we as men, are used like a tool...
I had a gf once and I moved into her place after knowing her 5 years. It was the last step toward marriage, or that is what I thought. Up to that point she was great. Within a month the sex dropped off so I talked to her. I told her if it did not improve, I would move out. Within a month I was gone! The lesson I learned is if I am not willing to walk away at a moments notice, she has me. My final conclusion about relationships is to maintain my own home and never let her move in.
Smart move. I'm in a near sexless marriage I am leaving soon and it went downhill almost immediately after we moved in together. Originally we lived an hour apart and would only see each other on weekends and bang nonstop. That was a really good arrangement but I messed up bad when I agreed to move in together. Never again.
Exactly. No marriage. No cohabitation.
@@ItalNico But what if you want kids? How do you navigate leaving apart if there are children involved?
So leaving after a month of telling your girlfriend is "at a moments notice" ? I'm not surprised it didn't work out.
Yes. Always have your own place. In the world and the place to go to.
Dealing with women in a relationship is like dealing with a bully, you have to stop the disrespect immediately and shut it down or it will just get worse and like a bully they will get others to disrespect and degrade you as well
In most cases this is true.
It always starts after cohabitation and marriage. Before that, they have no power
You are so weak...
Well said.
It’s sad but true. It’s the same idea in any relationship where someone is gradually trying to disrespect you. If you are not kind but firm and “slap it down” way in the beginning it’s impossible to get the to stop later on.
It’s funny adults do this when I had to “put down” bad behavior when I was a 4th grade teacher lol
100% agree with “don’t try to explain the rules of the game” with your woman. Always backfires in my experience.
Just play the game as Rich states. Right on 👍
At the end of the day you are dealing with someone on the same level as a nine year old,and treat accordingly
So true! I’ve been making this mistake as well. No more 💯
It's funny Rich is saying 'don't explain the game' to women b/c I just learned this through experience not long ago. I slipped up with my gf saying I wasn't going to triple text or something. She didn't catch it, but I made a huge mental note about not saying things like that anymore. He's right, they don't want to know the game, they just want to participate.
I did the same thing brother but lesson learned!
I did the same thing too..........
.......but mine was heavily sensually abused as a child............sooooo she's not a normal woman
If she is a keeper, then then she will figure out what he wants, adapt to it, and be the best component of the relationship. If women would accept they need men and allow us the leeway to lead, many problems go away.
I’m 28 and I’ve always serviced my own vehicles. When I was 18, I had a gf with me in my 04 Audi A8. Got a flat tire in Dallas, car didn’t have a jack or a lug nut wrench. Also had a security lug nut and of course I didn’t have the security lug nut key.
She kept telling me to call a tow truck while I stood outside and took an Allen key from a random place in the truck, used a ford flex jack and lug nut wrench to remove the security lug nut. Used a 08 VW Passat lug nut wrench and got the full size spare put on with less than an hour.
I have broken up with that girl which it’s been 10 years now. Fun fact, she still messages every few months either wanting to go out on a date or to bang.
10 years later she still wants me in her life. I ask why do you want me so bad?
She says she can’t find anyone as attractive or as smart as I
Don’t be a simp dudes. I agree rich 👍 these wack weak dudes loving sports so much they got a jersey with another man’s name on it. Somehow in America it’s normalized greatly! 🤦♂️
Great story man
@@TDOTSE1 thank you brother! Enjoy your evening 👍
Block her.
Lol you are right I never understood the concept of idolizing sports players.
When she comes back you know you have done it right.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 *💪 "Beta-tization" refers to the process where men compromise their masculine identity and independence in relationships, often leading to dissatisfaction and loss of attraction from their partners.*
02:59 *🚫 Tolerating disrespectful behavior, such as being disparaged by a partner in public, leads to loss of attraction and undermines the foundation of a relationship.*
05:21 *🚧 Setting clear boundaries and consequences for disrespectful behavior is crucial in maintaining self-respect and a healthy relationship dynamic.*
07:53 *🎮 Avoid explaining relationship dynamics or strategies to partners; focus on embodying masculine traits and leading the relationship without overanalyzing or discussing "game" tactics.*
10:55 *📚 Continuous study of relationship dynamics is unnecessary; instead, focus on embodying masculine virtues and leading confidently to maintain attraction and harmony in relationships.*
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How do you do this?
11:06 don't have a career or job to be able to fulfill all the above! No thanks
@@mxsaa45 lol boomer
Guys.. if you want to wear a team jersey with a name on the back, go get one and put YOUR NAME on the back. When someone asks you who’s that? Smile, acknowledge who you are, shake their hand, and thank them for asking.
Hopefully then you realize the team is being paid by you instead of paying you and you realize sports fandom is betatization and another form of stealth cuckery
I'm sure everyone has their favorite format of video styles for Rich. I know the conversations we panels or ladies are popular, so are the one-on-ones. But for me, there's just no comparison to Rich solo just talking to the camera, all due respect to Rich and all you brothers from other mothers
Agreed, just tell me the truth from someone who knows. I don't wanna hear the opinions of plastic idiots seeking validation.
Exactly why I'm single and just smash & dash because I refuse to be disrespected or belittled because it's just "in them"
Exactly, use them like a resource, were money to them and the fake settling is a disgusting trait of women
Not a healthy way to go through life missing the point
A close friend of mine’s wife initiated their “open relationship” about three years ago. That lasted about a year before she broke one of the “rules” of their arrangement.
The sex dried up between them, so bad, that they started putting it on a calendar. 3 months ago, she got a job driving box trucks at night. Leaving him to watch the kids, homeschool, and keep up with the house.
3 weeks ago she asked for a divorce.
In relationships Women just want to have fun, they only care about themselves and want to experience endless entertainment. They hang out at the finish line and wait for the winner. Identical to skipping the line with a fast pass at Disney Land.
I have experienced this exact behavior. A women who rows with you is so much better. As I have told my women that I am not a entertainment director. Self respect is joy!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
6:04 This is correct. In 15 years together, 13 married, my wife is never allowed to be rude to me or disrespect me. If she gets like that, I put a stop to it. And therefore, she checks herself.
How do you have time for anything else?
@@Erick-di9gm Because I have only ever had to put a stop to it twice. Once during our engagement and once during our marriage about 12 years ago. That was it.
I agree 100% you have to draw that line
As I am listening to this, I am understanding that a lot of the self reflection from my previous relationships, helped me into implementing these practices in my new relationship now. I have been listening to Rich and some other guys of value on this app and it has definitely benefited my relationships but most importantly my life and how I carry myself as a man in his young 20s. Working towards my goals, keeping myself to a standard, and not taking shit from people who aren’t who I want to replicate as my future self. Great stuff Rich, gonna listen to the podcast 👍🏼
"You cannot out alpha the state"
Rollo on marriage
feminism is overdue for removal from western states.
THE REALEST CONTENT OUT BY FAR ABOUT "LAYING DOWN THE LAW" IN MATURE HUMAN BEHAVIOR... 👏🏽 THANK YOU 🫡 SALUTE!
Get in the car and shut up! SAVAGE! But extremely effective. As for disparaging a man in a crowd, that is unacceptable EVER! That is a deal breaker. It is grounds for exiting the relationship instantly.
if a woman ever dared to disparage me like that, that would be the last time she ever saw me, bro, and she'd be lucky if i didn't leave her standing on the side of the road. Sheesh.
One of my GF's made a comment" you don't ever want to see the bad side of me." I just looked at her, and thought. That'll be our last day together... She never did that boneheaded move...
@georgeelder8415 oh, brother...one of my biggest pet peeves in life is when women threaten to get violent if you don't fall in line. So many of 'em do it, and so many of us let them get away with it, too.
"Woman, get into the car" ... as she gets into the car, the car falls off the jack.
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Lmaoooooo
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Love this no bs channel, got my sub
Joe Rogan marrying a single mom is all about this too
Joe Rogan is in a different league than all.
You are extremely on point. I agree do not tell her whats "going on behind the curtain" and tell her how you are operating but last night i wanted to test it. i wrote/read a very brief letter with three points. i knew she could have thought i was being manipulative but i felt i should try. i have seen women's faces go dead when you try n explain this shit but after I read my three points and cautiously told her how id been messing up-she agreed. it was a breakthrough i thought and we kinda fixed somethings that were broken for years. So i believe one time out of ten it can be successful. *I will tell you one point. I said "Honey, Ive been talking to you like a dude. Women dont care or need to hear all this shit. I should have told a guy or a dog. Im sorry." and that was it. Now i need to man up and shutup and watch my marriage heal (as it has been because i changed into more masculine) Women need a solid man and REALLY DONT GIVE A SHIT WHAT IS GOING ON IN OUR HEAD. So telling her was either a good move or not. I will only tell her once. Now I will go forward in a more masculine frame. Next. Rich your teachings really inspires me. thx. -First time listener
I thought this said 5 tips how to leave a relationship
Doesn’t matter, they will all be like that. What makes the difference is you, don’t allow the shit into your life.
And i don't think you need 5 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅
5 ways to leave a relationship:
1) text and call her constantly.
2) Send good morning and good night messages.
3) tell her how lucky you are to have her once a day.
4) send flowers to her work after every disagreement.
5) talk about the relationship an your feelings/ vulnerabilities at every possible opportunity.
Your welcome (: she'll be gone in no time.
@@chrisw8838 I’m utilizing this tactic if the situation warrants an opportunity to experiment. Meaning, I already wanted out anyway. Genius
@@chrisw8838thank you brother you saved my life 😅
You are so helpful, thank you for taking the time to make quality informative videos.
If I could, I would subscribe twice...
So I had this happen to me continously in past 4.5 year relationship. Disrespect. Contempt. Speaking under her breath/insult.
Here is the deal. I saw who she is with now.
Karma work.
Also. Book suggestion.
ART OF SELF AWARENESS
It covers what Rich is talking about.
Really good talk,thank you brother
Do you remember when Jack Nicholson lost control when communicating with the witches of Eastwick ?
1- Have Money
2-be good looking (Chad and Tyrone)
3- Have a expensive Cars or Yachts
4- Have a Big House
5- Have Money
6. Have her witness you get into AND win a fist fight.
Confidence and assertiveness. Women want to be "taken", do NOT forget that..
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@@brent4073 -But, only by the prince, not the paupers.
You repeated that same comment to let us know that you don't have personality which is why you think having currency is the only way
All of the examples given seem like "nextable" offences to me. My LTR showed me a hint of contempt. I immediately kicked her out of my place, 2 week time out. A year later another hint of contempt. I immediately dumped her. Was I too harsh?
Nope, you were not too harsh; in fact, your mindset is on point.
I would never tolerate belittling bahavior from a woman that I was courting in any way.
You did good, bud.
No
No, you did fine. Just fine. Trust me, those tests would have become more frequent over time if you had stayed with her. Why would you stay with someone that has contempt for you anyway? I wish I would have learned that lesson when I was much younger.
Be Emotionally Unavailable
Bro you are human not a piece of rock 🤦
Works every time
Men: If you don’t know a lot about cars or how to fix them, use RUclips to try to figure it out. I’m okay with cars, I do my own maintenance and minor repairs, but for harder stuff, I use RUclips to learn how to do it step by step. It takes me longer and I have some difficulty here or there, but I get it done. And in my experience, women will give you the same credit for fixing the car whether even if you use YT.
Great video Ty
Solid as f***. Great video.
You're right Rich. I don't let longer place to disrespectful acts from women....if it's the case i reject in short time. Something it's a little bit shitty but it's the way to live with personal ethics
I had 18 girlfriends, none of them left me or showed me disrespect, sex was amazing always. I even lived with 2 of them for 6 months. You have to tell them your boundaries and rules on the first date. They have to know if they ever try to disrespect you raise their voice, manipulate or control you, etc they are out of the door. I never had cheating, arguments or any problems in my relationships. It's an amazing feeling. I'm still looking for a selfless girl to have a family with. Have not found one yet. Aiming for a girl like the wife of Jerry Rigs Everything has. Check them on RUclips, she behaves like a nice and selfless person with strong values.
Don't get me wrong, I like your comment, but I just checked out Jerry Rig's Everything because I got curious about his girl, and I'm sorry, that doesn't count in my opinion. She's in a wheelchair. Someone like that is going to appreciate the person who gets with her a lot more due to the fact that she's disabled. There's this one girl I always come across on my dating app, absolutely stunning, yet I always swipe left and feel bad when I do. So if I'm doing that, the majority of men are. So anyone in that situation would definitely appreciate the person who gives them a chance. Her options are a lot less than most women and was still lucky enough to find a hvm, you best know she won't fuck it up lol.
Hi Rich, I'm from Argentina and discovered your content one month ago. I've got so much better results since I got to your channel (already bought your book too). One mistake sometimes I do is that I find myself explaining some things about the game. Over time I learned that is not actually useful like you're saying on the video. This pasts months I got much better on this but sometimes I do it like in automatic, so is not really all the time, but there are times we're it backfires to me (like the girl kind of mocking me with the thing I said). I just want to know if this instantly will take the desire out from her or if there are ways to manage it orif is better to walk away. I think that maintaning our frame and continue doing the right stuff without talking about it might help but I don't know if we're already out once we do this. Thank you for everything you do Rich!
No cohabitation.
Problem solved.
actually you want her close and on a leash, if she doesn't touch you at night you loose her dependence on you lol
it's science
you may not need to sleep together everyday but old rule is you should
if she is judgemental towards you you simply chose wrong, maybe most woman on west are such right now but it's your ideology and rising without old rules not problem of woman in general lol
Jon Bon Jovi is one of these maximally betatisated stars.
The problem is basically that men try to please their partner like they used to please their mother. You depend on your mother as a little kid. But you don't depend on your relative other in adult life. Understanding the difference makes the grown ass man. She's shit testing you too much, you let her go. Women want long term relationships more than we do - generally. So, let her work for it. We might just as well resume turning tables. That's how you play it.
There will be no dignity in your life as long as you are afraid of being alone! Cheerish freedom!
Ovid's "Ars amandi" is a very good read on the topic, too. This book is about 2,000 years old. Some things will never change. And it proofs that religion can't save you from the powers of life. Christianity came upon Rome - and how much has it changed on behalf of the problem we are discussing? Nothing! Life is bigger than religion.
if you depended on your mother question is were was your father lol
@@szymonbaranowski8184 The relationship between child and mother is emotionally much deeper than that to the father.
Life is hard. But you have to try. Staying alpha is hard, as you have to challenge other men and women. But maybe knowing you are not alone should help. Stay together alpha team squad worldwide 😎
lol challenging other men is not a must. Stay in your lane. You’ll win.
Robert A. Glover, DEER has many interpretations, you explained It in your own way is really good.
God damn! Thoughts that I have in my brain 🧠 and I couldn't express them now I listen them here.......
I've found to act like i didn't hear the comment. Usually they won't bother you again ( at that time). If they do, you have your work cut out for you. The goal is to not be dragged down into reacting, being "emotional ", and moveable.
The game is to be sold not to be told!
I think you should alway watch videos on game because if you stop it always hurts you in the long wrong always to keep learning about women and how to be the best man to keep the women you want for the long term just my opinion
DO NOT LET HER GO IN CAR that you are replacing the tire on..movement can cost you life
Sit in the grass lady!!!
Rich, how do you rate Cory Wayne ?
Is his advice good ?
Maybe I've just been lucky, but I never had a girl talk to like that or test me....been married 7 years completely respectfully and loyal .
"Don't you know how to change a tire?" - HUGE red flag, pitch her - You don't pass a shit test, you get rid of her
Great video. Facts.
I have always said and almost gotten in fights for saying it. Wearing another man’s name on your back is one step away from a property of jacket that a biker chick would wear.
I got that Ian Garry reference there haha
My girlfriend wanted to go through my phone and said I could go through hers. I declined. Thoughts??!
Why did you decline?
Why should I let her first of all? It’s my phone. Where does it end? Phones are like computers. So she should be able to go through my personal computer? Go through my tax returns? Go through my filing cabinet? Go through my closet? Go through my bank accounts? Write down all my passwords in my phone? Women need to deal with their own insecurities and their past traumas and not bring them into their following relationships. I have personal private conversations with people on my phone. Do you think the people that text want all their messages exposed to my GF? It’s like listening in to every single conversation you have with someone.
She spent an hour sanitizing her phone and decided to surprise you with that request. She thought that she could catch you doing something.
Sounds like she bleached her phone after straying and wants to turn it on you.
@@chunkyd5880 what this guy said
Which days are showing the unplugged alpha? They used to be Monday nights but now they invite women. Did he change the time for the unplugged alpha show?
Ian Garry
Hey Rick!
Do a video on the Benefits of Cucking!
Thanks! 🙏
If you are in a relationship there is a 99 % chance you are being cheated on PERIOD. we need a change to this RP content beeches ain’t playing fair in 2024 neither should we
I wonder if you are working with Ian Garry
He needs to hire rich
He should read his book and take notes on his podcast too lol .
Somehow I didn’t make that connection. I assumed he was referencing Jon Fitch.
This is why my gf and I have hit a wall and are stuck in a constant wheel of conflict/ fighting. I simply refuse to allow her to cross my boundaries. I wont permit her poor behaviour
The problem is that , They test it till they brake it , the relationship.
Thats a good impression haha. Nice
LiveRightToday
Emotionally healthy people don't shit test - especially in public - why would you want to date/marry someone broken?
Take the lead all you want. If she is like 90 - plus percent of women today, you will be called controlling and insecure
Today just saying relationship is unreal everything gets stuck at casual
Guys, sit back and quietly watch her do whatever she wants. Then, let her know. " You don't test me, I test you. And you failed."
Why is the volume so low on all videos
Turn it up on your phone.
@@Erick-di9gm Maxed out
A woman looks into a mans eyes and she knows the type. Plus attitude and voice.
One cannot change the tyre on an random car without having done it before. Years ago a boy would have learned it from his father. So a mans man would take out the jack and train it in his spare time. If he does not train, than obviously there is weakness.
100 percent. They fall for you when you're an alpha and will do everything to turn you into a beta and then bam! She gone
My dad has let my mom walk all over him for years. She started that shit with me and I left the house. I don't even like being around my Mom to be honest.
Ever catch a case?
I just want to push the button damn it. 😂
My ex for 23 miserable years....Key word "ex"....Misery beyond description.....
So part of me gets where he’s coming from but another part of me feels that men as a whole jump into a relationship and pick women that have many undesirable traits. If your partner is challenging you and criticizing you all the time or even some of the time, you have a women that doesn’t want to be a wife and you’re not her first choice. I don’t know everyone situation but of all my married friends, we’re the only one with a joint bank account, a paid off house, paid off cars, and etc. I believe she would murder me before she would leave me. Were not perfect but she wanted to be a mother and a wife, it was clear since day one.. I guess I don’t understand how you can be married, not be intimate, deal with a woman nagging and putting you down, and lead separate financial lives and wonder why the relationship is failing.
I’m by no means perfect, but I just dated a girl for 3 months and treated her amazing. Never argued, always did fun things with her, and everything was going good…too good. She literally broke up with me last Friday with 0 reason. And I found out on Sunday that she got back with her ex husband that she always claimed was a huge pos and treated her horrible. Most modern women are completely heartless. I’m done with dating.
They're heartless to those who don't have their heart. You got there late and someone else was already stuck in her mind. Find a woman who hasn't been in love before, one who hasn't had many boyfriends or even many dates.
All men except me!
Hmm, I must pick good woman because I”ve never encountered this.
5000 dollars per hour and marrying a single mom by the way
Lmao 😂
Walk away before the claws set in
The Evolution of desire? How can something blind and chaotic know about the desire for something? Hilarious!
Sp if i bring her into my frame initiate the relationship be a provider be the man and lead ans take care of it ok. WTF does she bring and why is the bullshit worth it?
All relationships are transactional. "Unconditional love" is another name for toxic codependence. Whether or not the relationship works for me, I decide. One day at a time. Life is too short for unfulfillment.
Stop spending so much time focusing on your strategy on the relationship and all these stupid terms like betatizaion. Just enjoy the women as a human being and love you self to walk away if someone betrays you.
so we don’t show this to our girlfriends 😂😂
wearing the name of some other male on your back has never made sense to me. especially when that male is 30’s + wearing name of a 26 yr old athlete or whatever = Bay tah!
You can appreciate greatness.. it’s called respect for their craft .. that’s like saying you wouldn’t listen to someone else’s song because why are you listen to another man express emotion.. you sound fairly insecure my man.
Beta and proud of it.
This reminds me of the goths in high school who wore dresses and eyeshadow and said "I hate sports," because one jock flicked them in the ear in seventh grade. You can respect another man's craft in a grueling game like hockey and not be a fucking beta
Remember: One red pill at a time. Never take the entire bottle at once
Don't wear tommy Hilfiger underwear either.
Rich I’ve watched nearly all your videos. Always great stuff. But any woman who “shit tests you” in front of others doesn’t respect her man. And she’s a lost cause for any relationship. If she tests you period you’ve lost frame
exactly
but there are women that want to show her mans proes by flirting with other guys so you would get territorial
she don't want to cheat just for you to fight for her a little lol
men don't get it see it as offense but it's revalidation adding to relationships lol this weird way
Evolution? Come on Rich, how am I supposed to take you seriously when you spout evolution nonsense?
Didn't Kobe B. buy his wife a $4M ring when he got caught cheating?
I like most of your videos. You have given some bad advice in this video h/evr!. Worst thing a guy can do is tell a woman that she has dis respected him. I think I need to start my own video channel and go off on all of the reasons why this is bad. 😂, and I am speaking from experience - I have hard evidence to support what I am saying.
show volnurability but you can expect loyalty and demand it
Men , don't shoot urselfs in the foot .
That behavior sounds like a humiliation trauma, dump her asap. She can change but really how many people are wiling to put the hard work and look inside themselves and do it. Pump and dump my dudes.
I get the impression that rich has been involved with a long line of very low caliber women. Where does he come up with these examples. It sounds like a tv skit.
Reality is what he speaks. It’s female nature, no matter what “level” of female
There do seem to be a worrying amount of women like this these days. That being said it seems to me that many red pill videos and MGTOW type stuff is men trying to deal with low value women when they would be far better off just walking away and not dealing with them in the first place.
Statistically the more leveled-up female you're dealing with the MORE apt they are to shite-test & later on divorce you@@scottwtodd
@@scottwtodd no it isn't. That is low caliber women for low caliber men. It certainly doesn't happen in my family and social circle. We qualify men to see if they are appropriate to date/marry etc, but it isn't via tests or humiliating them in public. I would never do that to my husband and he has never done it to me. We agree on most things, but if we do not it is discussed, respectfully, in private. The examples rich gives reminds me of old TV programs.
@@elsa_nyc and yet the number of low calibre women has dramatically increased.
You used the "but I'm an exception" thing to try to disprove a system that encourages/promotes women to behave like a princess, whilst denigrating men.
It's a very real social phenomenon.
Do women like you exist still? Sure. But young men (especially products of single mothers) think they have to pander to the little princesses.
As an old guy (yes a dinosaur) I've seen a ton of divorces.. I can tell you, it's always the same process.
If you have been married at least 30 years, and remain faithful, then you should be listenedd to.
Anything less, not good enough in my view, to tell others about marriage.
Wishing you well and hope you to get to 50 years of marriage.
You need other women in line to keep her in pocket
I try to explain Bitcoin to my gf , she did not get it at all , why bother . End game show her your usd acount .
Tell her to go find some other dude to yell at
She should go marry Beckys husband then.