Why you can't just "choose" to be happy

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @ItsMeRuff
    @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +127

    YOU DIDNT HAVE TO CUUUUT ME OFF MAKE OUT LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED AND THAT WE WERE NOTHIN'... CUZ YOU TREAT ME LIKE A STRANGER AND I FEEL SO *RUFF*
    join the discord: discord.gg/hC6jtyRned

  • @difevfx3275
    @difevfx3275 Год назад +215

    Not me waiting for the 'OMG BABE RUFF UPLOADED' guy

  • @s_xm1z
    @s_xm1z Год назад +48

    I got up to do push ups and my cat woke up and decided to do push ups with me, you are truly inspiring, even for the animal kingdom

    • @djan71
      @djan71 Год назад +2

      awww

    • @soupy7714
      @soupy7714 7 месяцев назад

      Even my goldfish out here dropping and giving 5

  • @kaydenfoo-zv7wh
    @kaydenfoo-zv7wh 8 месяцев назад +4

    Ngl I was abt to clap my hands when he said”if your happy and you know it..”

  • @Marsh-ml5hr
    @Marsh-ml5hr Год назад +125

    Ruff chooses the best music and mixes it with banger content and the grind is paying off happy for you bro

    • @33nvyy_
      @33nvyy_ Год назад +1

      REALL

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +10

      thanks rly appreciate it (:

  • @gravetunes
    @gravetunes Год назад +56

    the immense growth on his channel in this short period of time is craaaazy

  • @aaronjohnson5182
    @aaronjohnson5182 Год назад +12

    Just learn gratitude. I'm learning too. Be grateful for what you're given, and life becomes a brighter world.

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +2

      making a video on that separately because thats a whole different thing

    • @aaronjohnson5182
      @aaronjohnson5182 Год назад

      @@ItsMeRuff Okay good, I only just learned it and it's definitely helped tremendously. The path to enlightenment is such a rewarding one. More people deserve to know the key

  • @mrjamfrog3286
    @mrjamfrog3286 Год назад +13

    bro when he mentioned my posture I feel like he could see me through the screen

  • @jinsflsg
    @jinsflsg Год назад +7

    Yeah i agreeee! A year ago or smtng i wrote in my notes app "i wonder if happiness is a choice or a consequence of our choices" i feel like this video explains it

  • @ifrah392
    @ifrah392 Год назад +5

    "you look like a question mark" took me off guard lmao

  • @wasd-ut1qw
    @wasd-ut1qw 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love so much those old Ruff videos

  • @swordofcronus0
    @swordofcronus0 Год назад +3

    This guy is literally therapy

  • @justarandomgirl7960
    @justarandomgirl7960 Год назад +2

    I just love this kind of person

  • @mamounebouabidii
    @mamounebouabidii Год назад +4

    Dude you give gerbert, Hamza vibes but with a very unique style, glad i discovered this gem

  • @shempthedog8923
    @shempthedog8923 Год назад +16

    You earned a new sub, this is some the realest stuff I’ve ever heard. You deserve a lot more recognition

  • @bobityskopyas
    @bobityskopyas Год назад +27

    you told us to do 5 push ups and that turned into 10 then 20 30 i am so motivated right now thanks

    • @JesseIgulot
      @JesseIgulot Год назад +6

      i did 10 but after reading this ima do 31

    • @_hazemwasel_7920
      @_hazemwasel_7920 Год назад +2

      @@JesseIgulot saw this and did 32

    • @will-ik4kc
      @will-ik4kc Год назад +2

      @@_hazemwasel_7920saw this and did 50 😎

    • @user-zl2ie7yn5u
      @user-zl2ie7yn5u Год назад +1

      if ur reading this drop 20 now

    • @bobityskopyas
      @bobityskopyas Год назад +1

      @@user-zl2ie7yn5u just did

  • @R_jenn
    @R_jenn Год назад +27

    Ruff always makes me happy and laugh probably because how relatable this shit is, kinnda sucks knowing that ppl know how u feel 😭. I'm always waiting for a new upload. :)
    But seriously ruff should make a podcast I'll listen to it everyday
    Be happy btches.

  • @axtr998
    @axtr998 Год назад +4

    happy 9K man

  • @lihinib2997
    @lihinib2997 Год назад +1

    Thank you for the video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @moosman4217
    @moosman4217 Год назад +3

    you make amazing content fr

  • @liaheartfilia3118
    @liaheartfilia3118 Год назад

    Thats why sadness in inside out is the main lesson of the movie not always joy

  • @lilwateru7186
    @lilwateru7186 Год назад +2

    your growth has been so damn rapid
    watching people like you just remind me that individuals still exist

  • @theytis
    @theytis Год назад +1

    i subscribed to you 2 days ago and you were at around 8K and youre at 9.73K today
    the growth is INSANE

  • @chununcut
    @chununcut Год назад +5

    ur choices that you choose can you lead to more happiness.
    you cannot just switch mindset and be happy. you need to do something positive, productive and fulfilling to be happy.
    childlike happiness (yipee) is a lie.
    which is why alot of people think they cannot get happiness, they conflate happiness with childlike happiness.
    which is wrong.

  • @eternitytech9079
    @eternitytech9079 11 месяцев назад

    One of your best videos

  • @dosilebanana5087
    @dosilebanana5087 Год назад +2

    I've been loving your a- videos very much, they've helped me understand some thoughs I didn't comprehend while going through some bad times.

  • @Ali-fx6jd
    @Ali-fx6jd Год назад +2

    Man I thank the youtube algorithem. I found ur channel like 3 days ago and its such a good channel. Oh and btw I stopped listening to muic for like the secound day now. I want music to be meaningful to me. Thank you very much

  • @guitarstuff1342
    @guitarstuff1342 Год назад +1

    My guy has the wisdom of a 50 year old sage that lives In the forest inside of a cabin he built for himself and eats food he hunted/forgeried for.

  • @aspirant7445
    @aspirant7445 Год назад

    He'll be on 100k this month, Trust me ! ❤

  • @samarthnarang2184
    @samarthnarang2184 Год назад

    I am watching your videos from india and they are still very relatable and helpful

  • @AshiruTewagari
    @AshiruTewagari Год назад

    Being younger than me and being wiser my man is really something.
    Specially when most ppl think of me as wise😂

  • @furrybeater9138
    @furrybeater9138 Год назад +1

    RUFF POSTED RUFF POSTED!!! HOLY MOLY SMHOLY BABE RUFF POSTEDDD

  • @djgi7215
    @djgi7215 Год назад +3

    OMGG BABE WAKE UPPP RUFF JUST UPLOADEEEEEEEEED!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @huda..
    @huda.. Год назад +10

    i would be euphoric if i could spend life as a cat ngl

  • @papayerc
    @papayerc Год назад +1

    When ruff uploads. I watch.

  • @balisongandlife
    @balisongandlife Год назад

    Bro is just spitting banger after banger

  • @dominikmullner6616
    @dominikmullner6616 Год назад +4

    10:02 If you happy and you know it clap your hands 😂

  • @nityareddy7554
    @nityareddy7554 Год назад

    glad I found this channel.

  • @sarzawt
    @sarzawt Год назад

    this kid is the most real chad on this platform ong

  • @ash-lm4ob
    @ash-lm4ob Год назад

    bro u put out the best content no joke , give out the best vibe to fr

  • @divyamthacker2498
    @divyamthacker2498 Год назад

    Your videos make me happy!

  • @likccle
    @likccle Год назад

    It's fun listening to you

  • @The_Jazziest_Coffee
    @The_Jazziest_Coffee Год назад

    that makes so much more sense, you're singaporean
    i used to live in singapore and am a filo myself, but i'm in australia rn so yay
    but in all seirousness, i'm glad you make these videos
    perhaps it's obvious as you learn these things as you develop, but it seriously helps to be given these kinds of videos to have different perspectives

  • @marburg8697
    @marburg8697 Год назад +1

    Its 1 am but gonna watch it anyway

  • @mahatma14
    @mahatma14 Год назад

    RUFF ALMOST 10K WHAT UR GROWING SO FAST

  • @rcmlit9767
    @rcmlit9767 Год назад

    bro your content is refreshing with being educational i dont know why people dont subscribe to you
    keep up the good work man i just found you like 3 4 days ago and i am addicted to your content idk why
    its like i relate to you like i relate to hamza

  • @MissSOULGaming
    @MissSOULGaming Год назад

    We all want to be happy. It just dumb when people come to me and tell me "Stop being depressed. Be positive. Be happy".

  • @arnauadell4824
    @arnauadell4824 Год назад +1

    Happiness is for people who have nothing to do.
    Imagine you're a bee in summertime. You can a) be happy and just enjoy the day, or b) work, collect honey, stock up for the winter. If you choose to be happy instead of performing, boom now winter is here and thousands of your sisters starve to death. Why are you sitting around trying to be happy, when you could be collecting honey? You want to avoid major unhappiness sources: too much stress + inability to rest, people around you who impact you negatively, etc. But, as a baseline, happiness is just your brain telling you "good job" after you've done the work. Seek happiness? Seek the praise of your brain? Work.

  • @loleimi
    @loleimi Год назад

    WHAT THE HELL UR ALMOST AT 10k ALREADY IM SO PROUD

  • @ligth3977
    @ligth3977 Год назад

    I enjoy pain. Without pain, happiness would be meaningless.

  • @PenumbraDweller
    @PenumbraDweller Год назад

    ngl choosing to be happy worked for me
    just had to remodel my mind to do so
    took me the better part of year

  • @colbyfroude2941
    @colbyfroude2941 Год назад

    That push-up request caught me off guard but I did em 💪

  • @solrise4045
    @solrise4045 Год назад

    Road to 10k!! love your stuff keep it up 🤝

  • @somi1707
    @somi1707 Год назад

    if ur not happy and waNNA BE HAPPY earn it

  • @zakoncrack9805
    @zakoncrack9805 Год назад +2

    9k let’s go

  • @Lemon_Lime_2
    @Lemon_Lime_2 Год назад

    oh my god ruff uploaded GATHER AROUND BOYS

  • @eel7157
    @eel7157 Год назад

    The facebook memorial part hit hard-

  • @akua802
    @akua802 Год назад

    The push up at the end made my ribs hurt

  • @dion9120
    @dion9120 Год назад

    10k this week
    trust

  • @vully1048
    @vully1048 Год назад

    Ruff been him🗣🔥🔥🔥

  • @Srv.0
    @Srv.0 Год назад

    Love the videos man thank you for this video, in particular, I just lost a lot recently and I’ve been down so this helped me feel better. Keep it up new sub unlocked i’m going to watch all your videos right now muwah good luck:)

  • @sukrrx
    @sukrrx Год назад

    The 1st one!!!!! Love ya

  • @boystarheart9236
    @boystarheart9236 Год назад

    when you start counting i somehow panicked and actually do the push ups whilst cursing you

  • @warmedpop6186
    @warmedpop6186 Год назад +7

    Hey, ruff thank you for the videos you post there truly inspiring. You've inspired me to take a firm step in the direction to improve myself and I was thinking of making a youtube channel. but because i have no experience in improving myself I can't make videos like you but I'd like to start making some sort of content could you give me some tips for finding ideas? and if you don't end up responding to this thank you again for your content I can already see you as a big-time RUclipsr in the future!

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +10

      set up ur phone camera and just talk for 30 minutes without distraction. whatever yr brain comes up with thats probably what u actually wanna talk about. u just need ur brain’s raw thoughts to come out. its probably gonna be stutter filled and awkward but u can cut those parts out. do that twice a week for 3 months and post whatever you’ve talked about regardless of what it is and use editing to make it as quality as possible. you’ll find yourself slowly latching onto ideas which u can develop on. but rn u have nothing to develop on so start first. u gotta upload a couple bad videos before u can make a good one

  • @hailhi-
    @hailhi- Год назад

    You sir gained a subscriber

  • @squash9189
    @squash9189 Год назад +1

    Ruff: you have trash posture
    Me: OH WHAT, HOW DID HE KNOW??? *confusion*
    Ruff: you look like a question mark
    dang bro, got me good there

  • @GoofyAhhEngineer
    @GoofyAhhEngineer Год назад

    Take action

  • @anvi4811
    @anvi4811 Год назад +2

    I have music exam tomorrow and u know what I'm human 🤧

    • @usha112
      @usha112 Год назад

      Best of luck for your exam!

    • @anvi4811
      @anvi4811 Год назад

      ​@@usha112 thanks bro but your best of luck didn't worked 😂😂

  • @utkarshsingh4489
    @utkarshsingh4489 Год назад

    bro from 40 to to 9k this fast ! omg

  • @VedantThaplyal
    @VedantThaplyal Год назад

    Road to 10K LESSSSGOOOOOOOOOO

  • @hiephuynh853
    @hiephuynh853 Год назад

    10:30 i was eating then stop when u count down then do push-ups , almost choking lol

  • @TheFlopster
    @TheFlopster Год назад

    this man just made 100s of people do 5 pushups

  • @shiewwws
    @shiewwws Год назад +2

    top notch editing ruff, also how's your eye haha

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +1

      functioning :) the doctor was like “theres a 50% chance it will leave something permanent and 50% chance nothing will happen” like bro dis isnt infinity war ain’t no “perfectly balanced as all things should be” but im fine now

    • @shiewwws
      @shiewwws Год назад +1

      @@ItsMeRuff glad your fine hope they dont dysfunction again [:

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +2

      thanks ruff

    • @shiewwws
      @shiewwws Год назад +1

      @@ItsMeRuff mm right back at ya ruff mwah

  • @chununcut
    @chununcut Год назад +6

    happy homeless or depressed millionaire? is a stupid cope question that people use in order to justify their mediocrity.
    homeless are the MOST depressed, they sleep in horrible places, struggle to get food, often are victims of violent crime.
    and rich people are generally happier because they have the majority of their issues solved fiscally. (house,car,food, holiday, kids)
    If you are rich and unhappy you are fundamentally unhappy with a aspect of your life and no money will solve it. That is within.

    • @sparcuhms
      @sparcuhms Год назад +1

      100% true fr

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +1

      bars.

    • @TyrellJr
      @TyrellJr Год назад +1

      True I would not be happy if I was homeless

  • @jwt77
    @jwt77 Год назад

    Just writing this to say i was here before he got bigger lol

  • @spitefulbun
    @spitefulbun 9 месяцев назад

    fun fact : those 3 steps might add up to a mile in only 2 years of doing that every day!!!!

  • @SamuBraw
    @SamuBraw Год назад +1

    Bruh. I like your videos but you should let the text on screen for a bit longer. I couldn't read it without pausing and i got to a point where i just gave up 😭😭. Anyways, keep it up

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +2

      its actually a tactic in youtube lol, since you pause and rewind you add watch time by rewatching a part again. and the more watch time a video gets the more i get paid. a lil sneaky but i think it also adds to the chaotic fast paced nature of the videos. ill tell my editors this so it'll stay on screen a lil longer :))

  • @jeffyloh4712
    @jeffyloh4712 Год назад

    8:23, I’m Sorry!

  • @mrgibson04
    @mrgibson04 Год назад

    YEEEEESSSSS SIIRRRR!

  • @panshul520
    @panshul520 Год назад +1

    I couldn't do the fifth pushup cuz of that hap-piness joke bro 😅

  • @grimkid-
    @grimkid- Год назад

    best yter

  • @anvi4811
    @anvi4811 Год назад +1

    Can u make a video on how to journal

  • @dariusjackson6681
    @dariusjackson6681 Год назад

    Question why do you wear a mask in your vid’s is it just preference or what?

  • @lennart3815
    @lennart3815 Год назад

    Why you can't just "choose" to be happy; lie self limeting belive bro just be happy ez dont understand how people cant be happy its so esay

  • @Marimarya373
    @Marimarya373 4 месяца назад

    You should watch noman ali khan video about happiness in islam

  • @blackshadow3508
    @blackshadow3508 Год назад

    This consistency? How? Share that secret

  • @P_money10
    @P_money10 Год назад

    🔥

  • @yannecc
    @yannecc Год назад

    bars

  • @sonarikagod
    @sonarikagod Год назад +1

    1:14 had me dying 🤣🤣👀

  • @obido8971
    @obido8971 Год назад

    w thumbnail

  • @SorcererKiller_68
    @SorcererKiller_68 Год назад

    Why don't you have 100k Subs bro :/

  • @Arvanq
    @Arvanq Год назад

    there u are, 10k. 490k more to go.

  • @daved2756
    @daved2756 Год назад

    Yo, this account is...interesting

  • @jordain4440
    @jordain4440 Год назад

    W vid as usual

  • @yeee3602
    @yeee3602 Год назад

    H0ly sht you're growing fast

  • @itwasme4149
    @itwasme4149 Год назад +1

    can you make a video on how you cured your acne as a teenager? I know sleeping early is one of the most obvious answer but.... nah nvm I doubt you'll even read this silly comment anyway..

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +2

      i went to the dermatologist and they gave me some pills and cream and it was all good after a month. literally worked like magic. expensive but hey, gotta oPTimIZe mY sExUAl mARkeT vAlue (edit: ur comment is fine u can ask me anything and ill just tell u upfront even if its unfortunately not very practical like with this advice. if u can afford to then sure, if u cant then dont care and itll pass)

    • @itwasme4149
      @itwasme4149 Год назад +2

      @@ItsMeRuff just opened youtube after 4 days of being occupied by the school. Thanks for your reply. I really appreciate it.

  • @TehHolySpudBoi
    @TehHolySpudBoi Год назад

    I DID THE PUSHUPS RAAAAH

  • @vintrion
    @vintrion Год назад

    ur vids remind me of old sneako

  • @tonysimps5071
    @tonysimps5071 Год назад

    Your like Asian sneako XD also your blowing up super fast

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +2

      isnt sneako half asian? someone called me asian hamza and i was like bro hes born in pakistan hes literally asian

    • @tonysimps5071
      @tonysimps5071 Год назад

      @@ItsMeRuff I think sneako is Hispanic and Asian lol

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Год назад +1

      his dad is from Haiti mom is chinese

  • @funnelrat2640
    @funnelrat2640 Год назад

    Could you do a video on procrastination